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i disagree, she wasn't "calling her out in a great way", she was just very inarticulate, so she had to resort to "you are a bad person" and other surface level statements. Those might sound primitively satisfying because it satisfies a feeling of retaliation and focused on attacking the person directly, but it's in no way what makes people grow up. someone who singles out the wrong that's being said is a much better and mature role model to follow
I really like seeing social experiments like this done in Japan. I have heard that Japanese people usually very much keep to themselves and do whatever they can to not cause offense to others, so it is a very interesting perspective to see what will get them to speak up and in what manner. I was very surprised to see the second woman be so direct with her "What the hell are you doing?" and straight up saying "You're a bad person" but very glad to see people are so willing to call out hurtful behavior of strangers and make sure that the person who might be hurt is doing okay.
I feel so proud of people who speak up for the right things, I hope the channel will grow strong and inspire many people. The channel is doing great, thank you for your great work, please keep up the great work!
I’m amazed how some of these reaction seem so calm and almost well-mannered / soft spoken. I think this is truly Japanese trait. Elsewhere we would be like ‘oh hell no that b1tch didn’t say that ‘ 😅
Well, if you translated “さっきから何言ってるんですか” to English, it doesn’t mean “What the hell is wrong with you”….it’s a bit of an exaggeration by the translator. But yes that woman is brave for standing up for her
These videos show how people should treat each other. Great to see the courage and emotions of standing up for someone. Love how the messages and teachings were delivered. Learned something!!
I love these women who were concerned for another woman they don't know and spoke up. It's not common. A lot of women wouldn't confront the bully head on.
I can't believe that all of them are so polite to enter the conversation.. Also give politely talk.. In my country.. If this happen.. The girl who saying dirty rude stuff like that.. Surely get emotional of damage for sure..
it's not easy for a man to put himself in a woman's shoes in these things but I think listening and admiring the strength of a woman is the least to do... BUON ANNO!!!
People say that it is very difficult to have a baby, but I've always believed one thing my teacher said .. "If you want, there are many ways, if you refuse, there are many reasons."
The second woman was awesome! I think I can relate to it because it was a very "American" response. We don't keep our opinions to ourselves when people are being mistreated, and we're naturally pretty emotional people. So we spring into action pretty aggressively if anything like this happens. I have a feeling it would be the whole restaurant telling her to shut her mouth if this were filmed in the US. 😂
you said she was awesome then described why she wasn't. Saying "you're a bad person" and other surface level statements about the person instead of her words isn't a big sense of justice, it's just being inarticulate ; and not being able to single out the actual wrong in what's being said so people can actually grow.
@@COVENANT_ENFORCER she did not. Read the last sentence of my first reply. And read the original comment too, you'd be disagreeing with both of us if you think she wasn't the perfect archetype of just an emotional and aggressive reaction. Last sentence of the original comment also sums it up. It's strongly show that you don't like em, don't elaborate.
@@yellowblobby Is there a problem with responding emotionally? Again, the lady articulated herself clearly and explained why the other lady’s words were hurtful and insensitive to her friend. That was the “wrong” in this situation. Stop trying to dig deep into something that is black and white.
@@yellowblobby You don't have to give a lecture to express a reasonable opinion you know? Even the third woman didn't say much and made it very clear that it was 'horrible' what the woman said.
I love the girl in the case 2 tho, she really straight up said to the actress that "you are a bad person" that's giving bada$$ energy plus the way she was giving Boombastic side eye while listening in from the start and the way she look the actress in the end of their convo giving disgusted look to her. Love her attitude fr.
I love the last woman she said less and maybe she controlled her emotions that time...for me as a female,I can't control my tongue sometimes when I hear not good conversation like that discouraging someone.......We,women feel that esp.about the difficulty of not having a child......
Second girl is the one I liked the most because of her speaking out loud and straight , quite rear view to see in Japan 🗾 loved it . I mean "your a bad person". Most epic reply🗿 GIGA Chad girl locked .7:58
While I was happy to see the 2nd girl's reaction, I would have blown the fuck up even more so. I would have told the girl that the person wasn't her real friend, a real friend wouldn't ever say such cruel things to her and that she shouldn't tolerate anybody talking to her like that, let alone her friend. I get its apart of the culture, but the lack of assertiveness is infuriating. I can't believe these ultra polite people were such fierce warriors who were on the verge of taking over all Asia
My choice is to be child-free, but that doesn't mean I look down on mothers. Some are amazing, some are evil. You can't just generalize like that. If people say you're selfish for being child-free, you'd be angry too lmao. Maybe you had a bad childhood but that doesn't mean EVERY mother in this earth will give the same experience to their children.
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This channel will bring you social experiments in Tokyo.
We look forward to hearing from you!
English subtitled playlist
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Thank you for sharing these videos, it's amazing to see heroes in action! 💜
3人共冷静だ…自分だったら「さっきからお前余計なお世話だな？黙っとけや」くらい言うわ
ほんと冷静で偉い
私は子供居ないんですが、旦那さんも協力無くて結局産める時期を逃してしまいました。子供が欲しくて欲しくて辛い時に友人が堕胎すると電話をして来て、その子はさも簡単に命を扱う様な。電話を切った後ずっと泣きました。もう産めないけど未だに我が子が居たらと想像します。意を決して声を掛けた方々に感謝します。
お気持ち察します。
私たち夫婦は50歳になりました。
不妊治療を頑張りましたが残念ながら実りませんでした。
今だ子供いたらと想像はしてしまいますがやっと自分たちのための生活が出来るようになった気がしますよ！
不妊カウンセラーですが、こういう無神経なことを言う人は友達ではないので離れてくださいと伝えています。本当に大切な友達はこのような言い方をしないので、逃げるように伝えています。だいたい、友達をあなた、と呼ぶ人は他人です。
辛いんです。不妊治療は。頑張ってるんです既に。治療をしていることを打ち明けられたら、そっと耳を傾けて、その気持ちに寄り添ってほしいです。
2人目の子好きすぎる！
友達だったら本当尊敬する
一番の問題は酷い事を言う人って、
まずこういう動画を見ようとすらしないから変われずに改善できずに、そのまま悪い方向に行ってしまうよね。
だからこの動画を見た人達が現状を再認識して、もしこういう場面に出会ったら見て見ぬふりをするんじゃなく、ハッキリ言ってあげる優しさを持っていきたいですね。
僕は言葉遣いが上手では無いので、自分の今の考え方や、伝え方じゃ至らない、伝わらないのを再確認できて、とても勉強になりました。
ありがとうございます。
不妊治療をしていたので、
友達？（私からみたら友達じゃない）に言われた言葉にも、隣から話しかけてきた見知らぬ方からの言葉にも、、号泣してみちゃいました。
治療は本当に辛いんです。
身体の痛みも、勿論ですが
なによりも心のダメージが半端ないです。
多分経験した事のある人じゃないとわからないと思います。
些細な言葉や行動にも敏感に反応しちゃいます。
私もそうでした。
受精卵を身体に戻した後、着床できずに流れてしまった日に、帰宅すると義理の妹が子連れで来るんです。
楽しそうに舅、姑と騒いでいる声を
こちらがどんな気持ちで聞いているか？なんてお構いなしなんです。
本人達は私がそんなふうに思っているなんて想像していなかったと思います。
スタッフの方が不妊治療されている方にどんな言葉をかけてあげますか？と
質問されていましたが、、
言葉をかけるより辛い気持ちを吐露できる相手になってあげて欲しいです。
気分が不安定な時は、優しい言葉をかけられても届きません。卑屈になってしまい素直に受け取れないんです。
只々、寄り添って気持ちを受け止めてあげて欲しいです。
このシリーズ最近よく見るのですが
この回だけは我慢できずにコメントしちゃいました😥
素敵な方がいらっしゃいますね😢
見ず知らずの方が声掛けするのは勇気いりますよね。感動しました。
最初と最後のお姉さんかっこよすぎ、、、経験なのか言葉がすらすら出てきてて言い方も賢い、、、
真ん中のお姉さんも素敵だよね。
agreed! so mature
3人とも、素敵ですよね！
どの人も素敵なんだけど特にケース2のコに惹かれた
外見は勿論、とても素敵なかわいいコだなぁって。
心の綺麗さって顔に出るんだって改めて思った。
私は2人目が欲しくてもなかなか出来なくて公園で知り合ったママ達は次々2人目を授かり焦っていました。そんな中、「一人っ子だと可哀想」とか「きょうだいはいた方が良いよ！」とか悪気なく言われるととても落ち込みました。なので悪気は無いとわかっていてもそういう事は言わないでください‼️
言われなくても本人が一番よーくわかっている事です。どんな場合でも自分がそういう不遇な立場に居たらどうなんだろう？と思いやれるそんな優しい社会になって欲しいですね。
That second girl was awesome. Called her out in such a great way and didn't hold back.
i disagree, she wasn't "calling her out in a great way", she was just very inarticulate, so she had to resort to "you are a bad person" and other surface level statements. Those might sound primitively satisfying because it satisfies a feeling of retaliation and focused on attacking the person directly, but it's in no way what makes people grow up.
someone who singles out the wrong that's being said is a much better and mature role model to follow
自分も子供出来ないから、不妊治療の事強く言われたらショック受ける。聞いてる側でも言い過ぎって言ってしまうと思う。自分は、黙ってないタイプだから注意してしまう
ほんとにいい人っているんですね☺️安心します😃私も子供が居ないのでほんとに嬉しく思います🙇♀️
I love the second girl the most. She really took that personality
These 3 women, each in their own way were incredible.
I really like seeing social experiments like this done in Japan. I have heard that Japanese people usually very much keep to themselves and do whatever they can to not cause offense to others, so it is a very interesting perspective to see what will get them to speak up and in what manner. I was very surprised to see the second woman be so direct with her "What the hell are you doing?" and straight up saying "You're a bad person" but very glad to see people are so willing to call out hurtful behavior of strangers and make sure that the person who might be hurt is doing okay.
Yes in North America you would have a shouting match or end up in a physical altercation
@@irememberla6460 I’m Japanese and I don’t think that’s true. I know lots of amazing American people that are so nice and graceful.
私は日本人ですが、まず内容が酷いのと、公の場であの様な言い方をするのは周りを不愉快にします。特に女性は腹立ってついつい声かけてしまうと思います。
日本の教育は自己主張ではなく、周りの人と協調し合いましょうという教育なので。ただ、それも良い所でもあり、周りに合わせすぎて自分の意見が言えないという所もあるので難しいですね😓
人として間違っている
ハッキリ言えるってすごい
「立場が逆じゃなくて良かった」
下腹部グーパンすっぞ
This is such a delicate topic, but the way they supported the actress with such care is amazing and so heart-warming 💜
自分が知らないうちに加害側にならないように自分の発言に気をつけたいと思う動画でした
どの方も素晴らしい。特に２人目はカッコいい。人として素晴らしいですね。日本人の素晴らしさを再認識しました。
言われてる女性の気持ち辛いだろ〜なぁ〜〜って感じたらご飯が不味くなっちゃう😢
本当に治療されてたらストレスも良くないだろうし。
会話って漢字の通り会えているから話ができる。
話したく無いと思われたら誰とも会話が出来なくなる。
お互いの想いやり、気遣いって大切ですね。
いまは、せっかく会ってるのに目の前の人ではなくスマホに夢中！変な世の中だよ
たった一言が人を傷つける たった一言が人を暖める
自分は、いつも 壁にぶつかって 駄目になった時 嘘でも良いから 暖かい一言で 気持ちが救われたいと思う時が あります。
I feel so proud of people who speak up for the right things, I hope the channel will grow strong and inspire many people. The channel is doing great, thank you for your great work, please keep up the great work!
二児の母です。
結婚する前の私は、結婚願望も無かったし、子供も嫌いだった。
先に結婚した友達が、実は不妊治療していると打ち明けてくれた時があったが、その時何を話したのか、何て答えたのか覚えていない。
でも、その後少ししてから、その友達が音信不通になった事から考えると、きっと傷つけてしまったんだと思う。
あれから何年も経ち、結婚して子供にも恵まれた。
今でもその友達のことを思い出す。
きっと傷つけたよね。ごめん。本当に。
こんなこと友達に言われたらぶっ飛ばしたい
この動画は演技だけど、友人役の人みたいにズケズケ言ってくる人いますよね。
『子どもは良いよ〜』とか『産まないの？』って言ったり、悩んでる人に家族写真見せたり…
結婚したら子どもいるのが当たり前だと思ってるのが時代遅れ過ぎる
将来子どもに金たかられたり、暴力奮われたりするんだよなあ
@@山田かおる-h9s たしかに。言ったことってえのは、のちのち
自分に返ってくるんだよね。
I’m amazed how some of these reaction seem so calm and almost well-mannered / soft spoken. I think this is truly Japanese trait. Elsewhere we would be like ‘oh hell no that b1tch didn’t say that ‘ 😅
"What the hell is wrong with you!?" Love her!
Well, if you translated “さっきから何言ってるんですか” to English, it doesn’t mean “What the hell is wrong with you”….it’s a bit of an exaggeration by the translator. But yes that woman is brave for standing up for her
もうすぐ50歳になりますが
人生半分生きてると何かしら諦めないといけないこともある。不妊だから何？子供産めないからなにとこの歳になると思う歳。だから不妊の人には子供産むだけが人生じゃないということをいいたし欲しいひとに頑張れって気持ちでいいと思う。
ほんと何が正解かなんてわからないし
こっちの意見より本人の思いですよね。
私がここにいたらマウントとった方に
何か子育てで悩んでるの？
なんで？
いやなんか変だから
って感じでそっちに話持っていく方がいいと思います。
These videos show how people should treat each other. Great to see the courage and emotions of standing up for someone. Love how the messages and teachings were delivered. Learned something!!
I love these women who were concerned for another woman they don't know and spoke up. It's not common. A lot of women wouldn't confront the bully head on.
素敵なフォローに涙が出ました
素敵な動画…いつもありがとうございます🐰
I can't believe that all of them are so polite to enter the conversation.. Also give politely talk.. In my country.. If this happen.. The girl who saying dirty rude stuff like that.. Surely get emotional of damage for sure..
Japanese people are so unique. They all spoke out against her friend, but did so in a calm and compassionate way.
Happy for all three women that stoop up to defend her❤
2人目が欲しくても出来なかったんですけど、いつも周りを見て羨ましくてよく泣いてました😭ある時1人の美容師さんに子供一人しかいないことを話したら、一人しか産めないなら一人も産まない方がいいと言われました😭とても帰って泣いてしまいました😭ちなみにその美容師さんその時2人目を妊娠中でした😅何気ない一言が人を傷つけるってことをわかってほしいです！
it's not easy for a man to put himself in a woman's shoes in these things but I think listening and admiring the strength of a woman is the least to do... BUON ANNO!!!
We need more ppl like this.
Esp the 2nd giel
私の周りにはいないけど、もしいたら焦らないでいいと思うよとか、なんか辛かったら吐き出してくれたらいいよとか、そんなことしか言えないかも
聞き上手とは言われるので聞くに徹する
誰にも言えないっていうのがきっと辛いのかなあ…とか想像ですけど
難しいね
日本語の字幕も欲しいですね…(´°ω°｀)
女性達かっこいい！
People say that it is very difficult to have a baby, but I've always believed one thing my teacher said ..
"If you want, there are many ways, if you refuse, there are many reasons."
自分の事ではない事だから、
何も言わず立ち去るのが普通なのかもしれない。「今の時代」
この女性カッコいい‼️
3女性❤
とても素敵です✨
The second woman was awesome! I think I can relate to it because it was a very "American" response. We don't keep our opinions to ourselves when people are being mistreated, and we're naturally pretty emotional people. So we spring into action pretty aggressively if anything like this happens. I have a feeling it would be the whole restaurant telling her to shut her mouth if this were filmed in the US. 😂
you said she was awesome then described why she wasn't.
Saying "you're a bad person" and other surface level statements about the person instead of her words isn't a big sense of justice, it's just being inarticulate ; and not being able to single out the actual wrong in what's being said so people can actually grow.
@@yellowblobby That was her initial statement out of frustration of the situation. She articulated her self clearly after. Are you dense?
@@COVENANT_ENFORCER she did not. Read the last sentence of my first reply.
And read the original comment too, you'd be disagreeing with both of us if you think she wasn't the perfect archetype of just an emotional and aggressive reaction. Last sentence of the original comment also sums it up. It's strongly show that you don't like em, don't elaborate.
@@yellowblobby Is there a problem with responding emotionally? Again, the lady articulated herself clearly and explained why the other lady’s words were hurtful and insensitive to her friend. That was the “wrong” in this situation.
Stop trying to dig deep into something that is black and white.
@@yellowblobby You don't have to give a lecture to express a reasonable opinion you know? Even the third woman didn't say much and made it very clear that it was 'horrible' what the woman said.
the second girl hitting her right with the "seikaku warui" 😭😭😭 lmao
I love the girl in the case 2 tho, she really straight up said to the actress that "you are a bad person" that's giving bada$$ energy plus the way she was giving Boombastic side eye while listening in from the start and the way she look the actress in the end of their convo giving disgusted look to her. Love her attitude fr.
I love the last woman she said less and maybe she controlled her emotions that time...for me as a female,I can't control my tongue sometimes when I hear not good conversation like that discouraging someone.......We,women feel that esp.about the difficulty of not having a child......
7:50 so brave, so beautiful. Youre my type.
この煽る側の女性が諌められた時、逆ギレして欲しいわ。
生命って本当に尊い事だから
友達とか知り合いにむやみに『妊娠予定は？』とか『2人目は？』とか聞けない！
みなさん冷静で、酷い事を言われている女性の方の様子を察しながら話されている様子に感動しました！
2番目の女性の方、我が家の息子のお嫁さんになって下さい！
よろしくお願いしますm(_ _)m笑
ショートがオススメに出てきて飛んできました。私も不妊治療の末に一児の母になったものです。ショートの時点ではらわた煮えくり返るかと思いました…
そんなマウントのとり方する人は少ないと思うけど、そういう人のおすすめに出てきて欲しい動画です。
日本語で話せるようになりたいい
男だから気持ちはわからないけど、「友達」として「同性」としてなら止めには入る
ただ、きんちょーしい だし、テンパりんだから言葉つっかえるけどww
拙い言葉でも、つっかえてても、あなたの言葉は彼女の心に残り、温かい気持ちにさせます
ここまで酷いと「うーん、道徳０点！」ってツッコンでまうわ
Second girl is the one I liked the most because of her speaking out loud and straight , quite rear view to see in Japan 🗾 loved it . I mean "your a bad person". Most epic reply🗿 GIGA Chad girl locked .7:58
Thank you
私の友人は不妊治療で子供を産みました！頑張れとかあんまり言えなかったし…声掛けはすごく難しがったけど…応援するしかいえなかったなぁ…。今でも友達です！
Saludos desde Honduras 🇭🇳👍🏻
While I was happy to see the 2nd girl's reaction, I would have blown the fuck up even more so. I would have told the girl that the person wasn't her real friend, a real friend wouldn't ever say such cruel things to her and that she shouldn't tolerate anybody talking to her like that, let alone her friend. I get its apart of the culture, but the lack of assertiveness is infuriating. I can't believe these ultra polite people were such fierce warriors who were on the verge of taking over all Asia
this made me really frustrated
❤️❤️
В ожидании субтитров 🙏
不妊治療してる女が目の前の女の男を寝取ったと考えると、なんかマシに聞こえて悲しい気持ちが和らぐ笑
💀😭👍🏻
人はふとしたことで傷つけられる側にも傷つけられる側にもそうならないためには相手のことを思いやる気持ちが必要
by名探偵コナンより
阿笠博士
そして
言葉は刃物使い方を誤ると厄介な凶器になる言葉のすれ違いで一生の友達を失うこともある
by江戸川コナン
家族でも友達でも相手を思いやる行動とか言動をしなくてはならない
そのサラダボウルのお店どこだか分かる方いますか？
すいません…
本題から完全に外れてますが。
😢😢😢😢😢😢
Say "Aishiteru" to your parents
kakui na onesan tachi ga tasukatta ne yehey!!!
❤
やっぱり不妊治療してる方に対しての言い方ですよね。
難しいですが😅
ナイスチャンネル
just a question
before you make a video in a restuarant or a store, do you like... contact the restuarant and get permission? :0
make a video on foreigner who bullied by Japanese person and watch the reaction of othere japanese people...
They will not be offended.
They will quietly collect signatures for the entry ban.
If this happened to me in real life, I would just laugh. I think women with children are more pathetic
You’re pathetic.
It's complex, I can't explain yet so hard to agree to your comment.
How many mental disorders were you diagnosed with?
My choice is to be child-free, but that doesn't mean I look down on mothers. Some are amazing, some are evil. You can't just generalize like that. If people say you're selfish for being child-free, you'd be angry too lmao. Maybe you had a bad childhood but that doesn't mean EVERY mother in this earth will give the same experience to their children.
みんな落ち着いて怒れてすごい。
私なら、ブチギレて捲し立ててしまう…
🦋((ㅎ)JA-04-23 and just be happy always..🫂 11:40AM)