Parenting 101: From The Three Experts - HN #9

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  • @TyTyHarbs
    @TyTyHarbs 11 місяців тому +149

    As a guy in his 30s it’s genuinely awesome to hear gen z contemplating these topics so deeply.

  • @neilk
    @neilk 11 місяців тому +82

    I usually just be commenting jokes on any of BFT’s videos but this episode really did resonate with me on a lot of levels
    I love how articulate, open minded, yet completely goofy and hilarious you guys are; truly one of the best representations of the strengths of Gen Z imo, the sky is the limit guys

  • @dovanstein
    @dovanstein Рік тому +104

    Sometimes I wish that Kendrick won a Grammy for tpab

  • @ivanruiz2218
    @ivanruiz2218 Рік тому +91

    The point Caroline makes at 47:00 is so true. I had a best friend who felt that way about alcohol. Thankfully, I knew better than to tell them straight up "Don't do this. It's bad for you". Because to a degree they already knew it was bad for them. But yeah since before I met them they described that they felt happy when they were drunk. Addiction is a difficult illness.

    • @Leadpaintwalls
      @Leadpaintwalls Рік тому

      you think?? how the fuck do you know lmao@@NijaStarr

    • @iris-lf7jv
      @iris-lf7jv 11 місяців тому +2

      Exactly so many people Tryna get me to quite r like “yk it’s bad for u” like yeah i do actually I just don’t care in fact one of the best things that has got me slowing down now was the question “what would it take for u to quite” and they went through a bunch of scenarios and going through those made me realise drugs are my response to literally everything

    • @The_Ajna
      @The_Ajna 11 місяців тому

      ​@@iris-lf7jvive been struggling with alcohol addiction as well.its such a complex topic

  • @SasukeJR
    @SasukeJR 11 місяців тому +45

    Caroline saying she's envious of Sammie being able to approach their conversations diplomatically made my eyes a little bit watery for whatever reason. I hope we get a lot more of these episodes.

    • @The_Ajna
      @The_Ajna 11 місяців тому +8

      Based sammie

  • @creedymico4472
    @creedymico4472 Рік тому +52

    Wiping them germs off is crazy 😂 1:21

  • @brturner
    @brturner Рік тому +74

    Caroline going into her extra cringe white woman voice is so funny

  • @MechanicalUncleJoeBrandon
    @MechanicalUncleJoeBrandon 11 місяців тому +16

    The kids are alright, man. These 3 are so insightful.

  • @jeremiahuchiha3150
    @jeremiahuchiha3150 Рік тому +81

    I love this podcast. Yall are headed in a great direction please stay consistent. Best wishes

  • @kraftpunk6516
    @kraftpunk6516 10 місяців тому +27

    dream blunt rotation

  • @nadiahand108
    @nadiahand108 10 місяців тому +7

    55:28 this is why some level of scientific literacy is so important. You deserve to know what’s happening to you and how to find credible sources on it.

  • @567jk
    @567jk Рік тому +148

    sillyness is afoot

  • @katdonvee
    @katdonvee Рік тому +9

    5:25 The condom talk is exactly how the Titanic's hull was made to work, therefore foolproof.

  • @rubyllama
    @rubyllama 11 місяців тому +8

    i really like videos like these. i really hope we get more "controversial" and more serious podcasts like these. absolutely love yall

  • @larkuskman9226
    @larkuskman9226 Рік тому +24

    Was so fucking happy when Sammie and Caroline finally met in the middle near the end there. I tend to agree with Caroline that the psychiatric industry is pure evil born from the best intentions. All Doctors Are Bastards! But I did respect Sammie's diplomacy in acknowledging that none of you should make such sweeping generalizations. This is the antithesis to the Joe Rogan Podcast

  • @NiblaTheCosmic
    @NiblaTheCosmic Рік тому +14

    "trash bag" to refer to condoms has to be a Patrice O'Neal reference. 😂

  • @2-Duke
    @2-Duke 11 місяців тому +22

    18:03 i’ve thought about naming my kid river or rivers after the lead singer of weezer and playing weezer around him when they’re really young so he becomes conditioned into liking weezer, since it’ll give nostalgic feelings to them, i want a weezer kid, this kid will love weezer and they don’t have a choice

    • @atmbcito
      @atmbcito 11 місяців тому +12

      i feel sick

  • @michaelwhalen9084
    @michaelwhalen9084 8 місяців тому +3

    37:00 as a massive pot head, yeah- it’s super important to be honest with yourself and have hard lines with other drugs

  • @katdonvee
    @katdonvee Рік тому +6

    56:11 Needed to make a separate comment to say this podcast is gonna radicalize me. Big fan, 10/10

  • @furno2373
    @furno2373 7 місяців тому +5

    This hits different knowing Caroline is now pregnant

    • @jacoblentz2092
      @jacoblentz2092 5 місяців тому

      This hits knowing she killed it for clout

  • @yumadnan3345
    @yumadnan3345 Рік тому +10

    I love this!! Will be tuning in for more episodes, you guys bounce off of each other very well ❤️

  • @Jadesmorot
    @Jadesmorot 9 місяців тому +2

    35:34 I agree! my parents were super normal about answering questions, I’d be like: what is pregnancy? (When seeing a pregnant woman)
    And they’d explain reproduction, easy as that
    Also I had like cool kids books about puberty (e.g the book “hair in funny places”)
    And I think it had a splash effect because I ended up being really curious about sex Ed and I taught my friends about stuff like condoms and STI’s and periods and I think it has a positive effect on the world to talk plainly with your kids about how the body works
    And when it comes to drugs and alcohol I think something that is good for kids and teens to know that if something happens they can ALWAYS come home and be taken care of, bad things can happen to those who can’t go home because they think they’re parents will be mad. I didn’t drink or do anything until I was 18 (legal age here in Sweden) because my parents drank and were like: it’s better to wait until you’re ready and it’s harmful to your brain development
    But I had friends who got into sticky situations as teens but ended up fine because they could go home and be safe

  • @dr.whoever6265
    @dr.whoever6265 Рік тому +9

    As someone who's been smoking weed like religiously for the past 3 years (I'm 20) it sucks how hard I got sucked into the idea of weed not being bad for you and it's not even a drug. I legit to a point can't eat or don't feel like doing anything unless I've smoked first. And the worst part is I can't even get high no more. It's the only drug from my knowledge that us purely a mental addiction. Use it at whatever age but in moderation and enough space to not let your tolerance go up.

    • @goopgoopgoop
      @goopgoopgoop 10 місяців тому +3

      I started smoking weed at 13 and was almost very addicted to it. People seriously overlook the bad side of it and it should be talked about more. Now I consume it responsibly and not too often. I hope you can get through that it can be tough. Consume responsibly ppl!

  • @mintynoah2133
    @mintynoah2133 11 місяців тому +5

    LOL the mushrooms part killed me

  • @jeremiahuchiha3150
    @jeremiahuchiha3150 Рік тому +35

    For the podcast yall should do a series of episodes dedicated to talking about one of you guys and your life. Just a way to get to know yall better

  • @michaeljagdharry
    @michaeljagdharry Рік тому +5

    These kids give me hope for the next generation

  • @TheEternalRuckus
    @TheEternalRuckus Рік тому +3

    this was probably the best podcast episode I have ever listened to like ever.

  • @joopzzz
    @joopzzz 3 місяці тому

    I love this episode

  • @ashtxn.66
    @ashtxn.66 Рік тому +1

    you guys hit such good points i really enjoy your guys’ more serious topics

  • @Pinkhydroflask
    @Pinkhydroflask Рік тому +6

    I watched all of it and I loved it 😄

  • @loloseeghosts
    @loloseeghosts 10 місяців тому +1

    Really enjoyed this episode

  • @selina3532
    @selina3532 9 місяців тому +1

    when sammie basically defined harm reduction re: drug use i let out a sigh of relief lol

  • @lemursteaks
    @lemursteaks Рік тому +10

    What I wouldn’t give to be on this podcast

  • @AndresA.pineda
    @AndresA.pineda Рік тому +14

    Bypothetical Bonsense

  • @kraftpunk6516
    @kraftpunk6516 10 місяців тому

    i dont agree with everything but i love how much i think watching you guys. favorite content creators right now. also i knew a biracial jalen that was a basketball player with a white mom this too real

  • @uIie
    @uIie 11 місяців тому +1

    I loved this ep so much

  • @raccytobaccy
    @raccytobaccy Рік тому +4

    good ep

  • @Mcgif21
    @Mcgif21 11 місяців тому +2

    I’ll just say this (concerning the bizarre porn searches segment of the podcast) when you are a young teenage boy and you have full access to the internet you are going to look up some weird shit and 1) You find out you don’t actually want to see that stuff or 2) You grow out of it. The issue comes when someone’s life starts to reflect degeneracy unapologetically. And you will begin to see that in small ways with the things they say. But the issue is that there is no way to prevent them if they really want to do something and that is sad, but as long as what they are watching isn’t ILLEGAL then all you can do is let them no the dangers of watching that shit on a psychological level.

  • @blakenator8860
    @blakenator8860 11 місяців тому

    21:22 lmao you dignaned yourself “she iTunes when I listen”

  • @ProduzioniClandestine
    @ProduzioniClandestine Рік тому +4

    Great one, guys!

  • @ivanruiz2218
    @ivanruiz2218 Рік тому +8

    "new york, jersey" hahahaha

  • @HardcoreHunterCadima006
    @HardcoreHunterCadima006 8 місяців тому +1

    As someone named Hunter...yeah I get it

  • @mintynoah2133
    @mintynoah2133 11 місяців тому +1

    i think why people think weed is totally safe is because we let children of any age buy caffeine which stunts your development and gets you physically addicted and dependent, so when ppl hear that weed does that, it doesn't rlly matter to them, they already have probably at least one addiction so it doesn't rlly seem that bad even if it is.

  • @royishiloh247
    @royishiloh247 Рік тому +6

    I love Ellen!

    • @ThicWaterBottle
      @ThicWaterBottle Рік тому +4

      I’ve seen you on every video. I NEED to know what this means

  • @abelvarghese1018
    @abelvarghese1018 Рік тому +5

    Commenting for algorithm

  • @iris-lf7jv
    @iris-lf7jv 11 місяців тому

    As a weed addict best way to go about quitting is to only use the drug socially means you use it less if ur smoking on ur own u can smoke whenever

  • @byrdfynger
    @byrdfynger Рік тому +7

    I get it namings. Like a majority of Richard's I so wish I would have gone with Dick as soon as I started school.

  • @GigGIty-fk2xx
    @GigGIty-fk2xx Рік тому

    [ *tron cat playing from a distance*]3:00

  • @churchkat
    @churchkat 11 місяців тому

    That all ears thing Sammy did bore a hole in my head

  • @jollimaiahtacksworth
    @jollimaiahtacksworth 10 місяців тому

    All I can say is that seeing the effects first-hand does a lot to put a kid off substance abuse.

  • @iVenge
    @iVenge Рік тому +10

    I must inform you all, that I never have had a problem using condoms. I always welcomed the opportunity as an indicator that I was going to be having sex. Condoms = sex. No problem.

  • @vicentebarahona4999
    @vicentebarahona4999 8 місяців тому

    caroline is so sweet

  • @curryroll4683
    @curryroll4683 11 місяців тому +3

    Im gay and i sadly have to agree with caroline 😩😩😩 like i had to argue with a dude just to put on a condom

  • @BDB_721
    @BDB_721 11 місяців тому

    20:33

  • @aquaticdonkey4760
    @aquaticdonkey4760 Рік тому +1

    Nice

  • @howardmcmillian5764
    @howardmcmillian5764 3 місяці тому

    2:29
    oof ... that did not age well

  • @dr.whoever6265
    @dr.whoever6265 Рік тому +2

    Hypothetical Nonsense? More like RealAnd Makessense

  • @GigGIty-fk2xx
    @GigGIty-fk2xx Рік тому +4

    video suggestions kinda random

  • @AdonAKingALegend
    @AdonAKingALegend 11 місяців тому

    Who came up with the name for this podcast ?

  • @polar627
    @polar627 Рік тому +2

    I really think Caroline needs her own podcast

  • @kalavihanohano4572
    @kalavihanohano4572 Рік тому

    Alcohol is bad for you except for kawa 39:16

  • @yahmama1799
    @yahmama1799 Рік тому +5

    carolines been pregnant? but...that means shes married?????

  • @bellowick
    @bellowick 11 місяців тому

    My issue with the whole drug talk is that caffeine and sugar exist. If weed is a gateway drug to addiction, then surely caffeine and sugar are significantly worse to children in this regard? In my personal experience, I started consuming weed during covid at around 24/25 years old, if I have no weed I can go for weeks/months and the only thing I feel is boredom and i'll miss weed because i'm bored. I'll be doing something just thinking "this would be so much more fun if I were high", if I run out of Cola or anything along those lines I will get daily headaches to the point I will want to throw up. The only time I found my consumption of weed to be problematic was when I discovered vapes/carts (BAD IDEA, DONT BUY THEM PLEASE, THEY ARE FAKE IF YOU LIVE IN A COUNTRY WHERE IT'S ILLEGAL).
    It's a tough issue and I fight for the legalization of weed in my country not because I think "oh weed is great, there's nothing bad about them" but because unregulated drugs are dangerous. Weed vapes are common amongst teens here in the UK and anyone who has done any amount of research on these vapes can tell you they are bad news. They will ruin your life because a "legit" weed vape is basically impossible to get your hands on unless you are making them yourself or you know someone who does and you literally see them make it using heat extraction and not chemical extraction. The ONLY way this issue is solved is through legalization because we all know how starting a "war" on drugs goes, the issue gets worse.

  • @tesm_jsf
    @tesm_jsf Рік тому +1

    I gladly Won’t do mushrooms or acid

  • @Jo-tm9tk
    @Jo-tm9tk Рік тому

    MORE

  • @Randomjackass135
    @Randomjackass135 8 місяців тому

    Caroline said you can have sex during pregnancy as if that’s not common knowledge, and despite the fact that that wasn’t even the question. Why do know it alls rarely know enough

    • @louis2172
      @louis2172 6 місяців тому

      It’s not common knowledge though

  • @Timbo360
    @Timbo360 8 місяців тому

    Idk why I’m here, but probably has something to do with that chick faking pregnancy 😂 and people think that’s a mentally stable thing to do for views, but people will be like “nAh iTs a JoKe!”

    • @yabagoobie
      @yabagoobie 8 місяців тому +1

      eh is it that deep tho

    • @Timbo360
      @Timbo360 8 місяців тому

      @@yabagoobie it’s just a cop out. It’s what people do when they are caught being stupid or doing something wrong, so it isn’t that deep.

  • @calebigbinomwanhia158
    @calebigbinomwanhia158 Рік тому +1

    17:46 you are not making heaven bro

  • @Samuel43510
    @Samuel43510 Рік тому +11

    Sam needs to read Atlas Shrugged bad
    You can’t just trust experts, for fear that you will stop trusting them entirely
    You need to be able to ask questions, and recognize when even the experts aren’t steering you right, without going completely the other way and thinking you know what’s best at all times

    • @brturner
      @brturner Рік тому +15

      No one needs to read Ayn Rand ❤

    • @Samuel43510
      @Samuel43510 Рік тому

      @@brturner thanks for providing evidence of why more people do Troll

    • @brturner
      @brturner Рік тому +11

      ⁠​⁠@@Samuel43510 nah, because all of the most evil, capitalist, ends justify the means mfs have sung the praises of Ayn Rand. Ironically her writing is objectively bad, it’s boring, the characters are like cardboard puppets for her ideas, I couldn’t stand reading more than a quarter of the book bc it was so excruciating

    • @Samuel43510
      @Samuel43510 Рік тому

      @@brturner I have no clue what reality you’re living in Most business leaders reject her ideas, and “means justifying ends” was exactly what she was against

    • @josephkulhavy7486
      @josephkulhavy7486 Рік тому +11

      While I accept that some adults may read Ayn Rand for recreational purposes, I would be deeply concerned to discover that my child was reading "Atlas Shrugged" or "The Fountainhead." It's important for kids to understand the dangers of Objectivism, and to recognize the warning signs of self-justifying sophistry. At that point I would want to sit down with my child and do what I could to contextualize not just why Ayn Rand's philosophy is problematic, but also why people who unironically recommend her books need to step back and think hard about what they're doing with their lives.

  • @arv584
    @arv584 Рік тому +5

    damn why the boring set again

    • @ivanruiz2218
      @ivanruiz2218 Рік тому +10

      the tent was fun, but I think it must be difficult for the sound people. Focusing on making sure the mic was held right and not bumping around could also distract from the flow of the conversation.
      However, I think it would be fun if they had some wacky environment.

    • @ThicWaterBottle
      @ThicWaterBottle Рік тому

      @@ivanruiz2218I also feel like they had to set the tent up every week so that’s probably just a hassle. I’ll miss the tent and the bears tho. 💔