WORKING ABROAD, POST BABY BODY + HONEST CHATS | James and Carys

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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024

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  • @Katie-wy7bn
    @Katie-wy7bn Рік тому +1

    Pausing the video just to say please can Amber have her own channel I could watch her all day. No I'm behind this curtain 😂😂😂 love her

  • @sarahclark5879
    @sarahclark5879 Рік тому +10

    Your collection looks lovely but I was a bit disappointed when I saw they were all halter neck. For the larger chest why do I want all that weight supported on the neck. Would have been lovely to have an option with shoulder straps

  • @theresagauthier8340
    @theresagauthier8340 Рік тому

    She sounds like Caillou the cartoon please tell me someone has seen that she sounds just like him. It’s so cute.

  • @rhondathacker5814
    @rhondathacker5814 Рік тому +11

    Oh my goodness. Amber has totally stole my heart she is the sweetest little girl I’ve ever seen and that little accent of hers is precious ♥️

  • @rebeccasams2731
    @rebeccasams2731 Рік тому +7

    I’m in the same boat 😂 17:59 I walk around the house talking away to my 14 week old all day long or singing and making silly noises but they just don’t play at this age so they just watch us play with their toys 😂. Fantastic collection! You look stunning too! X

  • @hbou6380
    @hbou6380 Рік тому +5

    Loved the house tour😄 I never thought of doing that with my baby actually. 3 months is a hard age to know how to entertain them.
    Love the pieces ❤ lots of love

  • @criena
    @criena Рік тому +4

    She is Amber's double. Looking forward to seeing Mabel grow up as I have, Amber. And seeing how you two evolve, being the powerhouse couple you are. Personally I don't believe in true love, but I'm ecstatic you two have found it

  • @TTiara97
    @TTiara97 Рік тому +28

    There's nothing wrong with saying you want to lose weight, and becoming healthier and fitter is going to mean some weight loss. Being overweight is bad for health and makes us feel rubbish so why can't you say "I'd like to get fitter and lean out a little to make myself healthier too" I'm all for body positivity but you are allowed to want to change your body to make yourself feel better inside and out ❤

    • @bfayebrooks
      @bfayebrooks Рік тому +6

      I think the reason why she’s not so obsessed with weight loss necessarily is because of how obsessive it sounds like she was when she was a fitness girly and she was unhappy looking back, there’s too much of a social pressure to look a certain way. I think the way that Carys words being body confident isn’t a way of saying be positive about being obese, her point is more of make small steps to being a better version of yourself, myself being a size 18/20 it seems quite a large obstacle to tackle achieving a 14/16 body, small changes and better choices is a process and it’s a longterm lifestyle change which is better than a strict diet that is a short term solution, in the process of the journey love your body and be kind to yourself. I love Cary’s message and whole message to everyone! Honestly she is such a beautiful person, everyone that’s bigger understands her message! We all know being overweight isn’t healthy but saying that my dad has always been overweight and eats healthier than myself, he also had a physical job, I don’t think everyone’s body is built to be one size which is also a message that Cary’s puts out to the world!

    • @bfayebrooks
      @bfayebrooks Рік тому

      Also just to add, I say the same thing I want to be healthier, of course as you said with that will come weight loss but I say that because I’m very confident in the way my body looks now but what’s more important than the aesthetic of my body is my health ❤

    • @TTiara97
      @TTiara97 Рік тому +7

      I understand completely what you've said but carys is obsessed with her body and she isn't happy as her constant posts on instagram say that, I am not being a hater because I wouldn't follow her if I didn't like her I have followed her since she was gym obsessed, but I think she feels because she's been trying to send out the message that having a belly is fine etc she now feels she can't say "I want to get fit again" which means weight loss but because of how instagram is now promoting bigger women over smaller she's scared to say it how it is and upset some of her followers maybe? I'm a gym girl myself and no matter what when you are a fitness person you have that obsession, it never goes away so I do think although she doesn't want to have a 6 pack again maybe she does want to lose weight and be a fit mum! Nothing wrong with that it's going to give her girls a good message about looking after their body's and good nutrition which is important ❤

  • @trishr2081
    @trishr2081 Рік тому +4

    The Green one piece suit is absolutely lovely and so flattering . It’s Nice seeing you blooming with happiness. Hugs from Houston ❤❤

    • @marygrajales534
      @marygrajales534 Рік тому

      Que lindo lugar que linda familia que tengan una lindas vacaciones cariños desde Chile

  • @jenlfc9720
    @jenlfc9720 Рік тому +4

    Mabel is so cute and amber is lovely ❤

  • @jessicanorris6214
    @jessicanorris6214 Рік тому +10

    I’m on a similar journey to you Carys; I’ve just been diagnosed with PCOS and told that I need to lose weight (I’ve put a fair amount on because of the condition) but as someone with a history of eating disorders it’s been very triggering. I’m just focusing more on whole foods rather than obsessing over numbers💛

  • @shelleyj210
    @shelleyj210 Рік тому +2

    Just as you were putting Mabel down my 2 year old waved and says ‘night night!’ 🥹😅
    Love watching the 4 of you ❤

  • @gracelupson-darnell
    @gracelupson-darnell Рік тому +2

    So nice to catch up on videos like this. I’m currently recovering from a breast reduction which I’ve waited for years for! X

  • @shirleyb6163
    @shirleyb6163 Рік тому

    Your not happy with your body ,it's very obvious ,and that's ok ,stop pretending to yourself that you are ,I wasn't and have lost 5 and a half stone ,I wasn't happy ,and very unhealthy 😮

  • @marylourodriguez9227
    @marylourodriguez9227 Рік тому +2

    Cute babies. Always enjoy seeing this family!

  • @caseylewis5338
    @caseylewis5338 Рік тому +2

    It's such a shame you aren't speaking the Elle S anymore. You both are on the same stage in life regarding children. We all make mistakes. Then again we don't know what happened behind close doors.
    But both children are beautiful and James and yourself are beautiful parents. ❤

    • @katyscammell7632
      @katyscammell7632 Рік тому +1

      When it all came out carys put up that they would offline. I don't think she would say if they were still speaking as she would get un deserved hate. I hope they are still friends

    • @caseylewis5338
      @caseylewis5338 Рік тому +1

      @@katyscammell7632 I agree, I hope they are friends ❤️

  • @MikaylaLuna
    @MikaylaLuna Рік тому +1

    Even though you aren’t signing all the time she has a sister that talks and plays that she is learning from also

  • @MW-be6pj
    @MW-be6pj Рік тому +2

    Loved the vlog. Your girls are so special and very lucky to have you and James as parents x

  • @loldale8475
    @loldale8475 Рік тому +1

    Fab video. James with my son when he was little I'd often just show objects random stuff close by and talk about them in effect waffling on about them maybe what it was called, it's use or maybe the sentimental value, but it was more the conversational aspect I wanted to portray. You see my son is autistic, I was very worried he would be non verbal and inhis younger months he has very little hearing which we found out when he was about 2. However it was due to my talking to him we became very aware that he couldn't hear me properly and at four he had an operation both ears, he still now as an autistic adult has regular essential ear treatments so he can hear for a while. He's also had extensive help over the years to communicate. I'm convinced had I not talked so much in those early days alot would of been missed until alot later especially as he was my first and then my only child. The way amber communicates is very impressive and over time I can see although now it's cute the steps to make her realise when to talk and when to wait will be needed. For me at that time when others where telling their kids to wait I was just glad my son spoke.. my son naturally stayed silent in any social situation and sadly still does due to autistic social anxiety . I love watching how you both raise your girls and how both of you interact with them and each other. Keep up the great work and cerys you go girl your looking amazing and thank you for being so open about the fact that most designers don't cater for the bigger framed or bigger busted person. Being bigger isn't always due to over eating or inactivity it can be due to health, medication or after a health related condition such as pregnancy where your body undergoes alot of changes many out of your own control. So many don't show the honest side of being bigger and in fact society shame people into hiding their bodies when it's the lumps bumps and imperfections that are the true real and natural bodies that should be accepted and loved. I often think when clothes are prompted on society acceptable bodies all it does is shows the design flaws and weaknesses. When real bodies are shown and the product looks functional and comfortable that's the best selling point of any product.

  • @Eliseee1995
    @Eliseee1995 Рік тому +1

    Amber is so cute!! I can’t cope with her playing hide and seek 🫣 and her little voice is adorable xx

  • @mozit8063
    @mozit8063 Рік тому +1

    You have the cutest little girls . They are both adorable. Great Holiday vlog x

  • @raecat90
    @raecat90 Рік тому +1

    That Villa looks incredible, loved the tour. Also, your swim collection looks so beautiful

  • @soniariley295
    @soniariley295 Рік тому +1

    The game of hide and seek was hilarious. So fun. 😂

  • @teawithtiffanyy
    @teawithtiffanyy Рік тому +1

    Just rewatched the first video you ever posted 🥹

  • @dibirch4110
    @dibirch4110 Рік тому +1

    Portugal looks an amazing place glad your all having fun .Amber & Mabel are gorgeous little girls .Beautiful swimwear you look fantastic xx💜💜

  • @tanyabenson1282
    @tanyabenson1282 Рік тому

    Are you able to say where you stayed?

  • @louisemcc51
    @louisemcc51 Рік тому +1

    Yes to more James house tours lol

  • @feliciasisk494
    @feliciasisk494 Рік тому +19

    Me and my husband are also trying to eat healthier, no processed foods, no seed oils, no food dyes or chemicals either. We focus on simple ingredients.

    • @bees9872
      @bees9872 Рік тому +3

      My husband and I have been on the no seed oils, dyes, processed foods etc for 6 months and I’ve lost nearly 15kg. The amount of sugar I didn’t know I was craving prior to this lifestyle change has been absolutely mind blowing. I only crave and eat fresh fruit and veg, locally sourced organic meats! Never felt so good at 30 and pregnant with baby number! Life changing!!!!! AND MY SKIN!

  • @jessicaflynn1919
    @jessicaflynn1919 Рік тому +1

    I loved the house tour James 😂

  • @kirstiemochrie3123
    @kirstiemochrie3123 Рік тому +1

    Love you guys you’re great parents

  • @TheFinnMcGovern
    @TheFinnMcGovern Рік тому

    James is one lucky man.

  • @elizabethtildsley8181
    @elizabethtildsley8181 Рік тому +1

    Is hot hot hot and the uk

  • @nationgamer5849
    @nationgamer5849 Рік тому +1

    They are a lovely family

  • @jemmablanchflower3100
    @jemmablanchflower3100 Рік тому +1

    I really hope i can get into a mind-set like yours Carys, after giving birth I have been left with an apron of skin that hangs down and I hate it. I cant wear bikini bottoms as my loose skin can be visible from the top of the leg holes when wearing high waisted bottoms. I just think it disgusting and can't get my head around it. I hope positivity comes in time but it feels like a long way off for me at the moment. Thank you for being so open and being my inspiration ❤

    • @haley3787
      @haley3787 Рік тому +1

      It's not disgusting. It's just society taught you to view it that way. It's a psycial change to your body after doing an incredible thing like birthing a baby. Giving birth is so common, everyone does it, and so now it's looked upon as being a normal thing like eating crisp or drawing but it'd really bloody not. Giving birth is a powerful, dangerous and sometimes complicated thing to do that changes so much. Think how many things can go wrong or just think Giving birth adds another human being to this world that grows up and creates this life. Nobody thinks of the bigger things anymore. Everything is normalised and down played. Trust me, you are an extraordinarily strong human being has given birth and your body has took an enormous hit doing so and its still there, still keeping you going and so it shows some signs of the incredible work it has done, that's something to be proud of. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. ❤

    • @jemmablanchflower3100
      @jemmablanchflower3100 11 місяців тому

      @@haley3787 thank you for you kind words! Sometimes easier said than done! But I'm working on accepting my body as it is now 💕

  • @ZK2AM
    @ZK2AM Рік тому

    The swimsuits!! Love!!!
    Could you also link the airbnb villa, it looks amazing!

  • @FoleyJacqueline-hd7oz
    @FoleyJacqueline-hd7oz Рік тому

    THANK-YOU TO BOTH OF YOU FOR THIS PODCAST....IT REALLY HELPED ME.. I DON'T FEEL SO ALONE BECAUSE OF YOUR CONVERSATION...I DEFINITELY LIKED & SUBSCRIBED...AGAIN THANK-YOU. XOXO ❤❤❤

  • @blondiexx1269
    @blondiexx1269 Рік тому

    Could you please do a tutorial video of the TATTI LASHES 🩷 PLEASEEEEEEEEE X

  • @beckscronin8355
    @beckscronin8355 Рік тому

    Trust me when I say when they start sleeping through the night THEN stop it hurts more 😂😂😂😂😂 every baby is different with sleep we really need to stop the pressure xxx

  • @asmrmistress9630
    @asmrmistress9630 Рік тому

    I love your clear framed glasses where are they from ❤❤❤xxxx

  • @oliviaeckworth6772
    @oliviaeckworth6772 Рік тому

    Loved the vlog, Amber is the sweetest 🥺 where did you stay, this place looks amazing? X

  • @ChazzyLPx
    @ChazzyLPx Рік тому

    Your family 👪 is so beautiful 😍 ❤️ 💙 and your content makes my life ❤️ I really honestly don't understand how you don't have 1 million subs already it's terrible 💔 😔

  • @HazelCharlesworth
    @HazelCharlesworth Рік тому

    I would go on walks, sensory baths, baby massage, yoga with baby, meet up with fam and friends. Including them in daily activites if cooking give them something to hold or feel let them smell things ❤

  • @_chloesade
    @_chloesade Рік тому

    I love the villa! Could you please link it I want to book it after that tour 🫶🏽

  • @mdrookiam
    @mdrookiam Рік тому

    I've followed you two for a long time now and what I like about your blogs now vs past is that your not all about your body and fitness but now youve matured into more DIY or being outside, Ambers growth and development, Mabel same. Its easier. Calm and I love that James is stepping back more instead of talking over you.

  • @kerryscully3898
    @kerryscully3898 Рік тому

    I love your confidence. You're doing amazing 🥰😍xxxxx

  • @maryesmonde5438
    @maryesmonde5438 Рік тому

    Cary’s a baby wipe willl take the tan marks off on your hands

  • @10efowler
    @10efowler Рік тому

    I haven’t even watched yet I’m just so glad you’re back. Longest two weeks eva lol

  • @bloonaddictx
    @bloonaddictx Рік тому

    It’s important to remember loving your body is wanting it to be healthy, and being healthy comes with being strong, and being strong means leaning out and muscle. Losing weight is body positivity as long as you do it right!

  • @meganparker636
    @meganparker636 Рік тому

    My first and second have been the same with speech my first has always been a chatter box. My second he’s taking a bit more time to get there, he says words (1 1/2) but not to the extent she did. But they are defiantly all so different xx

  • @daisymulbs
    @daisymulbs Рік тому

    Guys what’s the name of the hotel you stayed in? Looks lush!!

  • @chloelouise7456
    @chloelouise7456 Рік тому

    Love watching your videos, always puts me in a good mood. ❤

  • @victoriajones2423
    @victoriajones2423 Рік тому

    Love you guys so much ❤ yes definitely trying to eat healthy xxxxx

  • @elainedent11
    @elainedent11 Рік тому

    Your collection is gorgeous , your gorgeous and a fantastic role model for the curvy figure , you look stunning , i believe eating healthy but also treating yourself , enjoy your food guys as well we're a long time dead xxx carys your girls are beautiful like you ❤❤❤❤

  • @traceydemaid5921
    @traceydemaid5921 Рік тому

    Love you so much guys and your daughters are just beautiful, Amber is so well spoken, she’s just adorable😊

  • @kez84baby
    @kez84baby Рік тому

    What did you use to get them lovely beach curls?

  • @soniasoares1979
    @soniasoares1979 Рік тому

    From a portuguese viewer, I hope you had an amazing time here, love you guys so much, you are always welcome here ❤️

  • @lisasmith4194
    @lisasmith4194 Рік тому

    Great vlog! What game is amber playing on her iPad? X

  • @jujuperess8842
    @jujuperess8842 Рік тому

    So happy for you guys.....welcome❤

  • @nettygallagher2724
    @nettygallagher2724 Рік тому

    I love Portugal I was there at the end of May it was hot. Love all swim wear. X

  • @karendyba5213
    @karendyba5213 Рік тому

    Awww Mable is so good when she wakes up so happy lovely vlog xx

  • @haylepeno
    @haylepeno Рік тому

    My husband and I visited Portugal a few months ago and we didn't want to leave!! have the most amazing trip you guys xx

  • @michaelaferencova323
    @michaelaferencova323 Рік тому

    Best mum ever Cary’s ❤beautiful family Amber so so cute 🥰

  • @bfayebrooks
    @bfayebrooks Рік тому

    I love you all! These vlogs bring me so much happiness, they’re so wholesome ❤

  • @mariemerc2064
    @mariemerc2064 Рік тому

    Guys , Amber is such a sweet clever girl 🌻🌻

  • @shelleyroberts3989
    @shelleyroberts3989 Рік тому

  • @ChazzyLPx
    @ChazzyLPx Рік тому

    46:00 thank you for the Ted talk xx

  • @northernirishgal2681
    @northernirishgal2681 Рік тому

    The new collection looks amazing

  • @kitmitchel937
    @kitmitchel937 Рік тому

    Such a heartfelt post.

  • @darthbooks2005
    @darthbooks2005 Рік тому

    Have a amazing trip you guys deserve it 💗💗💗 xxx

  • @jujuperess8842
    @jujuperess8842 Рік тому

    Omg iam portuguese❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sadiedurham4058
    @sadiedurham4058 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤ take care on your holiday

  • @calvinliu6304
    @calvinliu6304 Рік тому

    Have a nice trip

  • @elizabethtildsley8181
    @elizabethtildsley8181 Рік тому

    You look beautiful

  • @FREAKOUT123ism
    @FREAKOUT123ism Рік тому

    happy baby

  • @Tegan2010
    @Tegan2010 Рік тому

    Second

  • @emmarubbi2266
    @emmarubbi2266 Рік тому

    ❤❤

  • @chooseyourthoughts7692
    @chooseyourthoughts7692 Рік тому

    ❤❤

  • @christinestobbs774
    @christinestobbs774 Рік тому

    😡😡😡

  • @ronniesequinesiblings
    @ronniesequinesiblings Рік тому

    My first of 5 daughters was talking 3 word sentences and wearing knickers at 18 mths old 🤗 I knew it was good but not until the next 4 came along did I realise exactly how brilliant it was 😂😂😂 they are all so so different in their special precious ways xxx

  • @emilyhingley5178
    @emilyhingley5178 Рік тому

    You look beautiful in each costume ❤

  • @fuqnazitube5941
    @fuqnazitube5941 Рік тому

    Apply a little vinegar onto the blotchy tanner to remove it… Looks like y’all had a fabulous vacation💛