How to Put Yourself First (and Why It’s so Important) | Ed Mylett
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The timing of this is incredible. I just opened my company and wanted to go look at luxury things to goal set. I invited a friend and he didn’t want to come, rather than go home and wait until he wanted to go, I prioritized me and my need to dream and here I am doing what I wanted for me.
That's amazing! It takes courage to prioritize your own dreams, especially when others might not share the same vision. You've shown a powerful commitment to your goals by not waiting for someone else's approval or schedule.
That's exactly right too I am going to start working on putting my self first
Good for you!! Exactly the right decision!! My mom always wanted me to go places with her (I lived 3 hours away and had small children) and refused to go do things by herself. So sad because it limited her life and the friends she might have developed.
God did not give you another day because you need it, but because somebody needs you and it is the new version of you that they need.
Thanks for being a beast in this space ED you and your content have helped me through some of my toughest days and challenges. I truly appreciate your hard work and dedication and your service. Guys keep watching and hit that like button and share the episodes. Let’s get ED to a million followers on this platform. At the time of me posting this he’s a little over 960 k followers. And before I get bashed in this comment section about caring for the numbers. I don’t care. Ed has earned every single one of his followers on this platform. So let’s help him get what he deserves. Let’s go everyone stay blessed and praise God and work hard
This is so timely for me. I wrestled for awhile the whole idea of loving me first. This is confirmation. God bless you Ed!! 🥰⚘️🙌🙌👍
Drop the crap and never stop evaluating. Once you are consistent with that, the sky is the limit. ❤💯💯💯
Ed Mylett- you nailed it! So many of us mothers… give give give to our kids/husband and put ourselves on the back burner! I can personally tell you that I was that elephant… that mom. Stuck… and trying to feed everybody and forgetting about me. 20 years ago I started a book… I am putting me first and going to finish it! Dreaming… feeding…and filling my cup first before I fill others! This is vital for your soul and being true to you! Keep on keeping Ed Mylett! You are amazing! So appreciate you and your team! Thank you!
That’s why I’m at the gym this morning! I have a ton of work to do today but I come first💪🏼
How much work is a ton ?
12:06 you belong in your dreams: "I belong in my dreams"
12:49 Make it bigger, Dream big, think big thoughts, dreaming is free (Dream your life bigger).
13:39 "I" should be priority number #1 in my Life (after God).
16:23 External circumstances do not dictate the ultimate direction / destination of your life. It's You and your faith (God). This is called the "internal thermostat" of your life. Your thoughts, concepts & beliefs about yourself. No matter how hot/cold things get outside (circumstances), your own identity (thermostat) determines your life's thermostat.
1) 24:38 Add people to your circle (with a hotter
thermostat than yours: faith, business...)
2) 25:19 Shock your system. Behave differently
Raise your water-line.
28:54 Allgin your goals & identity.
Identity + Goals = Effort & Results
3) 29:13 Stop what's no longer needed (people, thoughts, behavior, emotion)
4) 30:37 Are you stuck in a story?
Evaluate who you are NOW.
Bonus:
37:26 Talk to yourself!
38:08 Don't believe every thought. Steer them...
40:13 Your mess does not disqualify you (God loves you)
2017 I was blessed with a do over. After seizures I couldn't remember how to use a fork now I dream big. The first time I drove after that, it felt like the first time. I am leaving what isn't working behind as I am living what I want for my new life at 63 years young.
Starting over with a history of success.
I am so proud of you my friend. I’m also living proof that it’s never too late to start over and have a new life. It’s stories like yours that make me smile and give me hope. Please never stop sharing your journey it’s a light force for me and others so we also can begin to truly live and believe that it can be done. Love n respect. ❤
Wow, thank you!!! Can't wait to come on your show! Thank you for this opportunity 🙏 ❤️🙌
This is so true! The only way I can add value to others is to be valuable myself! These broadcasts are so important to my own personal development. Thank you for take the time to produce such great content!
Putting yourself first is not selfish; it's essential for your well-being. Just like the instructions on an airplane to put your oxygen mask on first before assisting others, taking care of yourself enables you to better care for those around you.
Ed you have a GREAT impact in peolpes lives and you dont imagine. Just like me a 41 year old woman from Argentina. So grateful man!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼
Such a good man. I wish I had a father like him in my life but thats okay. I am going to live a new life.
Yes God first. You nailed it. ❤ I must fill my own cup
Thanks Ed for the reminder not to stay where I don't belong
Ed, I want to say what a great episode. Just a few thoughts I grabbed from it. Keeping your guard up and protecting the temp of your interior is crucial. There will be people who come along family and friends that try to create chaos by breaking through borders you have setup. Don’t let them! Pray on it. 👍
Living the Airplane Analogy is critical for showing up as our best authentic genuine version of yourself daily. Most of my clients put everyone else first.
I like your candid approach to life and telling people the way it is. Self care is not optional!
I have never put me first. Not ever. I'm exhausted. I can't put me first. It's impossible. I feel guilty
Get to know how your Heavenly Father really feels about you and you’ll understand you have great worth and are important.
you helped me so much, i just received yiur book 10 minutes afo
great man! you are just so inspiring! continue the journey.
This came right on time. Thank you! 🙏🏾
This is soo good!! Yes, the timing was great!! It’s time to step up & keep that dream alive!! I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!!
Thanks for the reminder Ed. I can't serve from an empty cup. I need to wake up!
Do you know what I’ve heard this so many times but never really listened, however i was super fit, had a 6 pack and was 12 stone, my family hit hard times so I stopped the gym and started working 80 hours a week plus to keep my wife from panicking and crying with how we are going to pay everything, I got so stressed I went back to my old drug habit to deal with it so I could keep going….im now trying to get rid of the drug problem again, I’ve got debts coming out of my ears anyway, I’ve ballooned to 18 and a half stone and my wife told me I’m not the person I was and she’s leaving me 👍🏼🤦♂️😆 look after yourself first!
I know I’m the one in my family Ed. It is a gift and at the same time so incredibly painful and difficult and sad. What have you done to overcome as the one?? I know what’s Help me is listening to you.
Hi Ed, Love your work and enjoyed your The Power of One More! Please can you help me with your ~Maxout book free one :), tried the link for you book and I am assuming you don't delivery to the united kingdom, is that right ? take care Helen x
Hi Ed, I wanted to order your book but I’m in New Zealand, there was no option to change the country. Is it possible to order it another way?
Thanks very much
Dave
The concept of the 'empty or full cup' really puts personal capacity into perspective. For entrepreneurs, it's crucial to remember that nurturing your network can be like filling your cup. A quick tip: segment your contacts based on their interests and interaction levels, then tailor your follow-ups for higher engagement. This personalized approach often leads to more meaningful connections and opportunities.
In every case, we decide if it is in our self-interest or not… to help or to do.
Everyone has different self-interests… Selfless doing is not possible, because we act after our self-interests! I remembered this discussion with my siblings, age 10 years… Most people do not even understand this… Because they are brainwashed.
I’m so glad that so many people have benefitted from your rant on the very basics.
Appreciate the offer thank you but I don't have the funds for shipping. ❤ Thanks though
Thank you so much edat you. Have me thinking and every video. I believe you are God favor.
As a first responder and training instructor,
I learned how important PPE is, and now I have a new mental meaning: Peaceful
Positive
Enlightened
Emotional Triage :
Is it serving my Positive Peaceful Existence
Or are you caught on the Emotional roller-coaster.
I believe 🙏 I have found my purpose. I am fighting for myself. Psychoneuroimmunology
Is my new story built on my past successes.
I so needed this message right now, 100% hit home. I’ve definitely got some work to do, starting Now! I’m making me a priority, once and for all, so I can be there for others… I want people to remember me in a positive light! Thank you so much for your inspiring words ❣️🙏🏻
ThankYou !,You’reLike a Superman for Good!🎉
I've been told throughout my life that it's all about association , association, and association.
Currently the best for my life right now is dissociation. I started with firing my doctor. I researched a top notch doctor. I chosed my current young femaile doctor after researching interviewing several. A couple were not taking on new patients.
I have not been this healthy, strong, energetic and happy in a long time. I no longer feel miserable my life no longer revolves around my doctor's regular appointments check-ups and tests. Most based on age and insurance policy not my level of health. During the
six months I evaluated my personal, professional and spiritual association. I finally learned how to say no to people, places and things that no longer bring value to my life.
The epiphany of whom helped your father brought me to tears. What an amazing revelation. Thank you for doing your show every week.
Improve on yourself grow your mind associations don’t stay in one version 😩
I would love to share my story with you and talk with you.
I love your content ed it’s powerful 🙏🏻
I see exactly what you’re saying.
Thanks Ed, needed to hear this today, right now....
Thank you ❤ you...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for inspiring me every single day MYLETT 😇😇 can’t wait to come to your show at Calgary 27-2024 🔥🔥🔥 #maxout
#1 is ME!!!! NO is answer.
There has been such a wave of self-care lately. What did we do last 50 years before "self-care" became a "thing"???
It's really important though to give ourselves what we need, especially when we have families. We cannot allow Ourselves to become run down or upset about being everyone's support person. Need to construct support for US!
Wowzer!!
How did you know?
Thank you forJesus!!
Thank you Mr MyLett!
I don’t know how to fill my cup as a targeted individual. I’m taking care of my dad and my own bills but this horrific program depletes me regardless of many consistent petitions and prayers to God. I don’t know how to fill my cup when I am constantly being terrorized with these directed energy and neurological weapons.
As I am being attacked with these weapons, I have one thing that has helped a little bit: just saying “I love you Anish. I love you Anish. I love you Anish.”
Love this! Exactly my why in organizing wellness retreats for Christian women. I struggled with this for years. ❤
I've made so many comments, hopping you'd see them so you could feel how thankful I am for you Ed. Learning from you has been essential in the journey to love myself. I wanted to learn from the very best in self development. I love myself so much that nothing comes between US😁 I am a better human, wife, mother, woman because I listen and learn from you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me be the best version of myself. I'm Maxing Out!!!❤
This is so true, Ed! I remember someone asking me how I was and the first thing that just popped out of my mind was as well. The kids are OK, parents are OK.. I must be OK. I eventually learned that if I wasn’t looking after myself first, then I couldn’t look after them. BTW, when I wake up in the morning, there’s often a song playing in my head and today I realized the song playing in my head is the theme song to your show😂
This is the thing that holds me back the most, especially when cultural expectations are put in , you’re taught that putting yourself first is really selfish and frowned upon & I’m just so depleted and feel stagnant and not really happy with life. Sometimes I don’t know where to start , currently weighing up between moving to a completely new state where I know no one and really just focus on myself . Maybe this is a sign I need to do that ?
Thank you again Ed. I always look forward to your real talk. I'm very grateful that you give so much back. You've really helped me to change my life for the better. Keep em coming. It's working
Wow I love you my friend. Job well done my faithful servant. Keep up the good work. Diane from Detroit ❤🎉
Love your Solo episodes. In my opinion, they're the best. This one is truly exceptional. Thank you so much for your positive energy.
I echo all of this..at 51! So true! We minimize even the way we minimize our own needs. If we don’t practice what we preach the people we serve FEEL it and wow it’s a constant area of growth for me ❤thank you!
Life changing! Thank you
Perfect timing Ed. I needed this because I put my relationship first and put myself last in goals, personal care, ect. It's left me feeling empty, behind in life, and unfulfilled
Great video! Thank you!!
Nice call on the comment contest Ed!
Love this Ed! Divine timing as always! Working on my identity now❤️
Awesome podcast today. 👏
Settling does Suck!
This is made for me and it is just right on time. I love you,Ed! Thanks for bringing value to all of our lives.
how the hell can you read my mind ed? seriously freaky how you posted exactly what I needed today!❤
Me again, this is the most profound insight that I have experienced. I hope everyone watches this video to the very end. I believe it can change lives!❤
This one hits hard. I preach about not having a victim mentality and I’m doing that exact thing 😮😂
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 this is why I love you!! Gotta put me first besides God. Period!
I so needed this today ❤ thank Ed.
GREAT Tuesday Morning !! Thank YOU & AMEN
Looking forward to this one
HalleluYah
oh wow you have joel on , hes another powerful game changer in my life , i listen to him almost every day as well
You look like forever 29.
Love this share ED
I'm so teaching this too!!!
So excited to help people learn this ❤
How can I talk to you Ed?
This really speaks exactly to me! Thank you Ed!
Great message Ed!
I love that you said 63 years YOUNG!
❤️☀️🌙 thank you
This blessed me. Thank you very much coach Ed for this ❤
That's correct
Oh, gosh! I was thinking about this right now before going online.
Thank you Ed
Thank you👏👏👏
I really appreciate you & what you do/say, thank you
Great Stuff!!
Make it bigger
Needed to hear this today 💪🏽🔥! Thank You 🙏🏽!
Thankyou
Happy Saturday! Thanks for the gift!
Thank you ❤
Thank you
Great vid
Awesome!!!
Thank you Ed! You are making a difference in my life!
Thank You For Your Time And Knowledge 💯🤝
On time👑