For me its been 2yrs since I lost my wife to breast cancer. We have 4 kids together and they keep me busy and I like that. Some days are good and some days I dont want to wake up and just hoping to die so I can see her face again. We were married for 24yrs. My kids are my sole focus now.
I so well know how yoy feel i lost my husband of 45 years. I feel exactly like you. It seems you just can't carry on. We did everything together and now i am alone in some sort of another life that feels so strange. Trying to survive like you. I find no purpose in anything anymorw. Dont even want to cook and if i do food also doesnt taste good or the same. Its so awful. Hope we find peace one day. God bless
my wife passed away on Christmas day from cancer and i know about everything you went through and are going through i miss her presence and her sound and I'm still lost
My husband passed almost four months ago. I feel lost and lonely. No children. My husband was my purpose...nearly 20 years. Two months of suffering in terrible hospitals.
Jeremiah you seem like a very decent and wonderful man, good-hearted. I'm also a widower now for just over 4 years, and my wife also had muscular dystrophy but in her case, she was in a wheelchair since age 6. We were married over 18 years and we did so much together. Several drives across the U.S., about 4 cruise ship holidays. I married her at age 42. Before I met her, I expected to be a lifelong bachelor because I never met a woman I felt in sync with. But with her, it was almost instant and magical. I never doubted about marrying her. I even wrote a song about our falling in love, I called it "I had To" because it was like destiny. And because of that, I got into reading about near death experiences. And that made a difference for me. I don't know what your religious beliefs are, so I won't say much on that, but the message we get from those who die and come back is that there IS a most wonderful spirit world where we all go, and you WILL meet your wife again. I am still not dating and it is hard to think about actually being with someone else, but it's not impossible. I don't believe there has to be just one person for each of us. Why should we be sentenced to a life of loneliness and sadness when there are other souls out there who are also seeking a relationship? Yes, they will be different from your late spouse, but different can be good. I hope sincerely you find your way to another relationship, because you are seeming to me to have such a good heart. You could be a most wonderful man for some woman out there.
I understand, I lost my wife in 2021. It has been total hell. But we must keep stumbling forward. Easier said than done, I know. It is so damn hard. Without my faith I would be a gonner. But I agree with what you say, I don't have an answer, because there isn't one. Just do the best we can until we are together again. People do not understand, they can't. Wishing us all Peace and Hope.
Thank you for the True & Heart felt words, my Beautiful Wife Jan went to Heaven 2/ 2021. Iam over 70 and the pain is unbearable but try to keep doing the best i can , my doing this i also feel iam honoring Jan My Love and Everything. God Bless
Yes it is definitely hell or like a nightmare which you can’t comprehend or understand. We just keep moving forward somehow until they come to meet us when it’s our turn to leave this world
Same here lost my wife in 2022 and it’s so hard just stumbling through life at the moment nobody mentions her anymore it seems like people don’t care anymore but I know they do
Yes you’re so right it is hell on earth and people say I know how you feel but they don’t really you have to go through it to understand bless you take care
I lost my husband 30 years ago now, we didn't get much time together. I was pregnant with our daughter then, so it was so hard. But Im still here, am just sad that my daughter never got to meet her father. My life changed, both bad and good. I never found someone that was right for me. But its okay ❤ Time doesn't heal, it just takes away the pain... I have lived for my daughters. It was hard taking care of them then, I was so heartbroken. I got some help, not much. Anyway it made me stronger. It gets better, trust me 🙏❤️🌸🌸🌸🌼 God bless you❤
Your video really speaks to how my heart feels. It is so true, without children, our mate is our everything..and like you, I walk around the same home everyday, and not even want to venture out. What is the point ? Why bother ? Home is where he is, now is in heaven..... And getting to know another man, honestly they are strangers, whom would never have had understood what we W people have gone through. I don't feet any connection with them. I am recommending your video to other W friends. Non W people often do not want to know anything related to death, so this type of videos just annoy them. So thank you, and please take good care. A prayer for you and God bless.
Hello my friend, I'm with ya, life is just not the same now . nor will it ever be. I started a utube channel also to help others by showing them what im going thru. I recognize some of the names of your viewers. I miss my dear wife everyday everynight every moment. God be near closer each day...👍🏼✝️
I am so sorry for your pain. May the Almighty God give you the strength to continue. I feel your pain 100% because He left me too with kids. It's really hard and unbelievable.
I’m sorry for what you’ve been through, friend. I will say that I haven’t lost a romantic partner to death, I’ve lost others and been through a major separation. I have dedicated my life since to beginning to study the immense, debilitating grief I have been experiencing. My advice would be to not rush into a new relationship to fill the void. You mentioned fighting with your father- I also understand that. What I have learned is that a lot of our grief comes from childhood, and it gets triggered during major life losses, especially romantic losses. Working through our grief takes a lot of work, and that is something noble to work through and focus on. Through the grief we find ourselves, in a lot of ways for the first time, so when we have discovered or rediscovered ourselves, whoever else wants to be added to us will be a benefit and blessing, but not a need. As much as it is true and noble to love someone else, we make our partners someone who we can’t survive without to fill a very deep part of us, but most people don’t know is most often a void that comes from childhood. Families in this modern world weren’t designed to deal with so many stresses and early separation from their children. As a result, many of us have attachment trauma which we try to seek to heal through others who are also traumatized. Many people never process their childhood grief and end up living lives which unfortunately do not set them up for thriving and success, romantically or otherwise. I don’t understand why God has allowed so many of us to suffer in life the way we do, but as I see it, the only thing we can do with that is keep fighting to live the best we know how each day. I’m studying to become a therapist. But every day has been a struggle for me for years since my breakup. My life has changed forever. But I am trying my best to hold onto faith, face and work through everything that has caused my life to become what it is thus far, and I am working every day to push my life closer to what I dream I want it to be inch by inch. I wish you all the best in your journey, and my heart goes out to you. As long as you’re still breathing, you have a purpose in this world. We all do. We need each other. Please don’t give up. ❤ Aaron
Thank you so much for your Heart felt Video, wish i could say or do something to take away your Pain & Grief. My Beautiful Wife Jan went to Heaven 2/ 2021.I miss Jan every minute and moment of everyday and night. We were together 21 plus years and still are together. Jan always walks by my side , I sill be with Jan someday, i try my best everyday. Jan is my Soulmate and always will be my TRUE LOVE. God Bless.
This is God's Time with Widows, Widowers. When you now live for Jesus, you will then love Life, a new life he gives you! Don't be afraid for he is with you, us. Loving Life and Living for Jesus, Amen! The Happy Widow😇Dive into Ephesians and Make Psalms 91 your foundation. God Bless everyone, and give thanks for another day! Amen. His Grace is all you need, Amen!
When your married the two become one when your spouse dies you feel severed and you bleed .It's like being right handed and learning to use your left hand now . The missing never goes away ❤
My wonderful husband passed away on December 18. Every morning my first thought is him and my last thought before sleeping is him. I have lost my dad and grandparents and there was lots of sadness but I didn’t feel lost. I am now lost and trying to find my purpose. 😢 thank you.
I am glad you have a faithful cat friend! Please keep trying to find joy in your days. I lost too, 3 months ago. I am so grateful for the years i had and i miss him every day, but i am not full of grief all the time, i am looking for joy and staying busy with things i wanted to do. Oh, and I eat when and what I want, smile when I eat tuna or onions, he hated them! And all of you, you totally have a huge purpose in life, take care of yourself! I smile at what a funny wonderful husband he was and i accept that one of us would go first, i am so grateful it was him because i took care of him with alzheimers and i was so lucky to take care of him! I still cry but it doesn't rule my life. It gave my life so much meaning. You have so much to give!
None of us that has experienced a profound, life-changing loss would ever wish this experience on anyone else, but it helps to see others (who this has happened to) speak honestly about it. If for no other reason, this dark grief "journey" that we're now on (now that we're missing the person who was at the center of our lives) feels a little less lonely after watching videos like this. Thank -you for the video, Jeremiah. Your video is now eight months ago. I hope you're doing at least *some* better these days, man. It's tough (to say the least) to be travelling this lonely, dark road that we now find ourselves on.
I know what you mean. When my first wife died I had a hard time moving on. But I moved on a got married 2 more times and it didn't work out. But I will move on.
Though I can sympathize with what you are saying, there are many of us who have always been single, we have always been alone, no adjustment needed. That said it is true it is better have loved and lost than never loved at all. Sometimes life is just the way the cookie crumbles.
I JUST FEEL LIKE YOU 2 & A HALF YEARS SINCE MY BELOVED PARTNER DIED IT SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY YOU HAVE MADE ME FEEL A BIT BETTER BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO THANK YOU LOVE BRÍD
Wow, I'm sitting here depressed and lonely. I just stumbled across your video. My husband kissed me on forehead and went to bed and never woke up. I appreciate your video. Thank you.
It will get better. Then you will find another person to share your life with again. GOd said, Its not good for man to live alone. My husband and I have been together since 1978. This is the fear I have, being left alone in my older years.
My husband of 41 years departed spring 23. We were childless as well, and I too feel like there's nothing to live for. Not here on earth anyway. Our only hope, is the blessed hope of Jesus' return to take us home. Come quickly.
I never thought it would happen to me. I lost my beloved husband 1.8.22. He was the love of my life. The best thing that ever happened to me. He was my reason for living. I have a broken heart without him. I cry everyday for him. Grief is the price of love. Every word you say is so true. Exactly how l feel. How l miss him. There is no me without my soulmate. I am standing amongst the rubble of my life... I am struggling.... I have lost my world, my everything....
Your previous life feels but a vapor like a mist of a dream and you begin to wonder if it ever happened at all, such a profound statement, it cut me to the core.
Thank you for sharing your story. My lovely wife, Darla, passed away on December 21, 2023 after an 8 month battle with gallbladder cancer. I miss her every second of every day. My life will never be the same. I will make it through this and I will carry her in my heart forever, until I see her again. The last two months are a fog. "Being a stranger in my own life"...exactly this! I don't recognize myself or my life any more.
Bless you I lost my wife 2years ago it’s so hard being alone sometimes you can’t breathe through the grief but hopefully I’ll see her again one day soon god bless you ❤❤
Ii lost my husband 6 months ago this year it is a painful process to go through I hate the word widow you do feel different going home to a empty house thank you for explaining so well what we go through especially the movies no one to watch with you are so spot on with the video ty
Sending you love and hugs ❤ I lost my husband 1year ago from consequence of bizarre sports accident playing football while kept innocent in prison. How to survive, i am devasteted... left alone with 2sons 13 and 17years old
You are expressing the sentiments of many in the same situation like you. I lost my husband if 50 on 1/26/2023 and 10 mths. after my first child of 54 yrs. on 11/18/2023. Since the death of my husband my world has turned upside down. Nothing will be the same. I'm crying for and with you. Thanks God I have 4 more kids but we live distance apart.
Lost my darling husband on Dec 1st 2023. Right now I feel hopeless too. It frightens me that you are still so depressed after 4years. I hate to wake up.
For me its been 2yrs since I lost my wife to breast cancer. We have 4 kids together and they keep me busy and I like that. Some days are good and some days I dont want to wake up and just hoping to die so I can see her face again. We were married for 24yrs. My kids are my sole focus now.
I so well know how yoy feel i lost my husband of 45 years. I feel exactly like you. It seems you just can't carry on. We did everything together and now i am alone in some sort of another life that feels so strange. Trying to survive like you. I find no purpose in anything anymorw. Dont even want to cook and if i do food also doesnt taste good or the same. Its so awful. Hope we find peace one day. God bless
my wife passed away on Christmas day from cancer and i know about everything you went through and are going through i miss her presence and her sound and I'm still lost
I know how u feel I lost my husband it’s been 3half years ago on Christmas morning
My husband passed almost four months ago. I feel lost and lonely. No children. My husband was my purpose...nearly 20 years. Two months of suffering in terrible hospitals.
Jeremiah you seem like a very decent and wonderful man, good-hearted. I'm also a widower now for just over 4 years, and my wife also had muscular dystrophy but in her case, she was in a wheelchair since age 6. We were married over 18 years and we did so much together. Several drives across the U.S., about 4 cruise ship holidays. I married her at age 42. Before I met her, I expected to be a lifelong bachelor because I never met a woman I felt in sync with. But with her, it was almost instant and magical. I never doubted about marrying her. I even wrote a song about our falling in love, I called it "I had To" because it was like destiny. And because of that, I got into reading about near death experiences. And that made a difference for me. I don't know what your religious beliefs are, so I won't say much on that, but the message we get from those who die and come back is that there IS a most wonderful spirit world where we all go, and you WILL meet your wife again. I am still not dating and it is hard to think about actually being with someone else, but it's not impossible. I don't believe there has to be just one person for each of us. Why should we be sentenced to a life of loneliness and sadness when there are other souls out there who are also seeking a relationship? Yes, they will be different from your late spouse, but different can be good. I hope sincerely you find your way to another relationship, because you are seeming to me to have such a good heart. You could be a most wonderful man for some woman out there.
I understand, I lost my wife in 2021. It has been total hell. But we must keep stumbling forward. Easier said than done, I know. It is so damn hard. Without my faith I would be a gonner. But I agree with what you say, I don't have an answer, because there isn't one. Just do the best we can until we are together again. People do not understand, they can't. Wishing us all Peace and Hope.
Thank you for the True & Heart felt words, my Beautiful Wife Jan went to Heaven 2/ 2021. Iam over 70 and the pain is unbearable but try to keep doing the best i can , my doing this i also feel iam honoring Jan My Love and Everything. God Bless
Yes it is definitely hell or like a nightmare which you can’t comprehend or understand. We just keep moving forward somehow until they come to meet us when it’s our turn to leave this world
Same here lost my wife in 2022 and it’s so hard just stumbling through life at the moment nobody mentions her anymore it seems like people don’t care anymore but I know they do
Yes you’re so right it is hell on earth and people say I know how you feel but they don’t really you have to go through it to understand bless you take care
I lost my husband 30 years ago now, we didn't get much time together.
I was pregnant with our daughter then, so it was so hard.
But Im still here, am just sad that my daughter never got to meet her father.
My life changed, both bad and good.
I never found someone that was right for me.
But its okay ❤
Time doesn't heal, it just takes away the pain...
I have lived for my daughters.
It was hard taking care of them then, I was so heartbroken.
I got some help, not much.
Anyway it made me stronger.
It gets better, trust me 🙏❤️🌸🌸🌸🌼
God bless you❤
Your video really speaks to how my heart feels. It is so true, without children, our mate is our everything..and like you, I walk around the same home everyday, and not even want to venture out. What is the point ? Why bother ? Home is where he is, now is in heaven..... And getting to know another man, honestly they are strangers, whom would never have had understood what we W people have gone through. I don't feet any connection with them. I am recommending your video to other W friends. Non W people often do not want to know anything related to death, so this type of videos just annoy them. So thank you, and please take good care. A prayer for you and God bless.
Hello my friend, I'm with ya, life is just not the same now . nor will it ever be.
I started a utube channel also to help others by showing them what im going thru. I recognize some of the names of your viewers.
I miss my dear wife everyday everynight every moment.
God be near closer each day...👍🏼✝️
53 single no children or pets and half dead inside
I am so sorry for your pain. May the Almighty God give you the strength to continue. I feel your pain 100% because He left me too with kids. It's really hard and unbelievable.
Lost my wife three weeks ago.Most pain I ever felt.
I’m sorry for what you’ve been through, friend. I will say that I haven’t lost a romantic partner to death, I’ve lost others and been through a major separation. I have dedicated my life since to beginning to study the immense, debilitating grief I have been experiencing. My advice would be to not rush into a new relationship to fill the void. You mentioned fighting with your father- I also understand that. What I have learned is that a lot of our grief comes from childhood, and it gets triggered during major life losses, especially romantic losses.
Working through our grief takes a lot of work, and that is something noble to work through and focus on. Through the grief we find ourselves, in a lot of ways for the first time, so when we have discovered or rediscovered ourselves, whoever else wants to be added to us will be a benefit and blessing, but not a need. As much as it is true and noble to love someone else, we make our partners someone who we can’t survive without to fill a very deep part of us, but most people don’t know is most often a void that comes from childhood. Families in this modern world weren’t designed to deal with so many stresses and early separation from their children. As a result, many of us have attachment trauma which we try to seek to heal through others who are also traumatized.
Many people never process their childhood grief and end up living lives which unfortunately do not set them up for thriving and success, romantically or otherwise. I don’t understand why God has allowed so many of us to suffer in life the way we do, but as I see it, the only thing we can do with that is keep fighting to live the best we know how each day.
I’m studying to become a therapist. But every day has been a struggle for me for years since my breakup. My life has changed forever. But I am trying my best to hold onto faith, face and work through everything that has caused my life to become what it is thus far, and I am working every day to push my life closer to what I dream I want it to be inch by inch.
I wish you all the best in your journey, and my heart goes out to you. As long as you’re still breathing, you have a purpose in this world. We all do. We need each other. Please don’t give up.
❤ Aaron
Thank you so much for your Heart felt Video, wish i could say or do something to take away your Pain & Grief. My Beautiful Wife Jan went to Heaven 2/ 2021.I miss Jan every minute and moment of everyday and night. We were together 21 plus years and still are together. Jan always walks by my side , I sill be with Jan someday, i try my best everyday. Jan is my Soulmate and always will be my TRUE LOVE. God Bless.
time will heal your wounds. thank you for watching
You are an amazing man Jeremiah, here for you brother, God bless you! This is a great video!!
The deeper the love the harder the grief .You never get over it you get through it one minute at a time .❤
Lost my beloved wife going on the second year. Thank you..everything you have said really hits home for me..God Bless
This is God's Time with Widows, Widowers. When you now live for Jesus, you will then love Life, a new life he gives you! Don't be afraid for he is with you, us. Loving Life and Living for Jesus, Amen! The Happy Widow😇Dive into Ephesians and Make Psalms 91 your foundation. God Bless everyone, and give thanks for another day! Amen. His Grace is all you need, Amen!
thank you
It’s hell on earth 💔after 40 years 5 grown kids 5 grandchildren.my sweet Beloved Gill committed suicide sept 4th 2024
When your married the two become one when your spouse dies you feel severed and you bleed .It's like being right handed and learning to use your left hand now . The missing never goes away ❤
My wonderful husband passed away on December 18. Every morning my first thought is him and my last thought before sleeping is him. I have lost my dad and grandparents and there was lots of sadness but I didn’t feel lost. I am now lost and trying to find my purpose. 😢 thank you.
I am glad you have a faithful cat friend! Please keep trying to find joy in your days. I lost too, 3 months ago. I am so grateful for the years i had and i miss him every day, but i am not full of grief all the time, i am looking for joy and staying busy with things i wanted to do. Oh, and I eat when and what I want, smile when I eat tuna or onions, he hated them! And all of you, you totally have a huge purpose in life, take care of yourself! I smile at what a funny wonderful husband he was and i accept that one of us would go first, i am so grateful it was him because i took care of him with alzheimers and i was so lucky to take care of him! I still cry but it doesn't rule my life. It gave my life so much meaning. You have so much to give!
thank you for your comment i will try to do better responding to comments.
Am on my 10th month since he passed in my arms..😢AM STILL LOST 😢😢..,,
My wife also lived for 12 years.i forced her to abort 3rd child and doctor killed her not operating properly.
None of us that has experienced a profound, life-changing loss would ever wish this experience on anyone else, but it helps to see others (who this has happened to) speak honestly about it.
If for no other reason, this dark grief "journey" that we're now on (now that we're missing the person who was at the center of our lives) feels a little less lonely after watching videos like this.
Thank -you for the video, Jeremiah.
Your video is now eight months ago. I hope you're doing at least *some* better these days, man.
It's tough (to say the least) to be travelling this lonely, dark road that we now find ourselves on.
I know what you mean. When my first wife died I had a hard time moving on. But I moved on a got married 2 more times and it didn't work out. But I will move on.
Though I can sympathize with what you are saying, there are many of us who have always been single, we have always been alone, no adjustment needed. That said it is true it is better have loved and lost than never loved at all. Sometimes life is just the way the cookie crumbles.
We carry our special person with us no matter where we go, blessings to you and your loving heart 💕
I JUST FEEL LIKE YOU 2 & A HALF YEARS SINCE MY BELOVED PARTNER DIED IT SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY YOU HAVE MADE ME FEEL A BIT BETTER BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO THANK YOU LOVE BRÍD
Wow, I'm sitting here depressed and lonely. I just stumbled across your video. My husband kissed me on forehead and went to bed and never woke up. I appreciate your video. Thank you.
It will get better. Then you will find another person to share your life with again. GOd said, Its not good for man to live alone. My husband and I have been together since 1978. This is the fear I have, being left alone in my older years.
Sorry for your loss. I’m going through the same thing since I lost my love one on February 7, 2024 and I feel the same things that you do.
You are enough it's ok if you need some time alone or to be single.
Widowerhood
My husband of 41 years departed spring 23. We were childless as well, and I too feel like there's nothing to live for. Not here on earth anyway. Our only hope, is the blessed hope of Jesus' return to take us home. Come quickly.
thank you
Sad to lose my husband a few months ago and grieving since. Blamed myself for not being better to him. Just waiting to be with him and soon.
I never thought it would happen to me. I lost my beloved husband 1.8.22. He was the love of my life. The best thing that ever happened to me. He was my reason for living. I have a broken heart without him. I cry everyday for him. Grief is the price of love. Every word you say is so true. Exactly how l feel. How l miss him. There is no me without my soulmate. I am standing amongst the rubble of my life... I am struggling.... I have lost my world, my everything....
I lost Lynn on January 12, 2023. Thanks I feel the same way.
Your previous life feels but a vapor like a mist of a dream and you begin to wonder if it ever happened at all, such a profound statement, it cut me to the core.
Thank you for sharing your story. My lovely wife, Darla, passed away on December 21, 2023 after an 8 month battle with gallbladder cancer. I miss her every second of every day. My life will never be the same. I will make it through this and I will carry her in my heart forever, until I see her again. The last two months are a fog. "Being a stranger in my own life"...exactly this! I don't recognize myself or my life any more.
Take heart I can relate
My condolences. Heartbreaking. I hope you are continuing forward in your journey of healing...
The wages of being love is death, unfortunately.
Bless you I lost my wife 2years ago it’s so hard being alone sometimes you can’t breathe through the grief but hopefully I’ll see her again one day soon god bless you ❤❤
Ii lost my husband 6 months ago this year it is a painful process to go through I hate the word widow you do feel different going home to a empty house thank you for explaining so well what we go through especially the movies no one to watch with you are so spot on with the video ty
Sending you love and hugs ❤ I lost my husband 1year ago from consequence of bizarre sports accident playing football while kept innocent in prison. How to survive, i am devasteted... left alone with 2sons 13 and 17years old
I lost my husband through an accident Road now it's 15yrs
You are expressing the sentiments of many in the same situation like you. I lost my husband if 50 on 1/26/2023 and 10 mths. after my first child of 54 yrs. on 11/18/2023. Since the death of my husband my world has turned upside down. Nothing will be the same. I'm crying for and with you. Thanks God I have 4 more kids but we live distance apart.
Why is that music on in the background? I had a hard time listening to u because of it
Lost my darling husband on Dec 1st 2023. Right now I feel hopeless too. It frightens me that you are still so depressed after 4years. I hate to wake up.
I know how you feel I lost my husband unexpectedly April 1 2023 and I’m devastated 😔😔😔
My story was HELL ON EARTH
time will heal your wounds i hope you meet a nice lady. thank you for watching
God bless us all
You still have a cat.