Amputee Reacts! Grey's Anatomy Amputation (Arizona) - Did They Get It Right?!
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- Is Grey's Anatomy's portrayal of going through amputation accurate with their character Arizona Robbins? A real-life amputee weighs in!
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The reason that Arizona was so mad at Callie was because Callie promised her that she wouldn’t cut off her leg, but once the infection got so bad, she didn’t have a choice and broke her promise to Arizona.
Adding to this she also believes that because Callie is an orthopaedic surgeon and it was her wife that made the decision on her behalf, that Callie was the surgeon that performed the surgery. Callie does not clear this up as she believed it may as well have been her that used the saw to cut off her leg as it was her decision. After many seasons of learning to live with her leg and finally coming to forgive Callie, she discovers that her friend that she taught throughout the show, Alex (the man that laughs with her on the floor of the operating room), was actually the surgeon that performed the cut.
It has been a while since I saw these seasons, however, so I may be slightly wrong in specifics, so nobody come for me haha.
@@adamgray6740 Yeah it was Alex who actually performed the procedure..but it was Callie who gave consent because she'd rather have a amputee wife than a dead one..
that was what made me so mad, that she needed to forgive callie, that was the begining of the end for Arizona,
sof hit Yeah generally people aren’t rational when they lose a limb? Why does everyone act like it should’ve been easy for Arizona to forgive and forget when she lost a LEG?
I think some people need to get a life
I ALWAYS cry at the shower scene. Imagine how Callie feels thinking she ruined Arizonas life when all she was doing is making the call to save her life.
When you mention the visual misrepresentation of the leg around 3:40, it already has been several months. It wasn't the next day. But the night before this scene, the father of their daughter died after being in a longterm coma
You caught that to. Then i dont need to say it 😁 Dont know if she seen the series or not. Allt the GA fanatics knows (Like me) every episode ;P
@@ErikaLH not everyone watches the show more often than is socially acceptable 🤦♀️😅😂😂
@@goeltrolden I know 😂 Ive follows GA since season 2. And ive watched all seasons from start atleast 10 times 😂 My fiance is starting to wonder if i never get tired. And i dream so much about GA, im always a patient, nurse or such 😅
It had only been one month I thought
It was only one month.
May I recommend Soul surfer, were a teen gets her arm bitten off, and gets back to surfing again. PS love your blogs.
I love that movie. It always makes me cry. Bethany Hamilton is (excuse my French here) a complete and total badass. She’s a wife and mom of two now, and she has surfed with one arm while pregnant!
I love this movie....
She (Bethany Hamilton) also just did a documentary of her life called Unstoppable. It's on Netflix. It's amazing and has a really positive message!
the fact its based on a true story. Bethany Hamilton is an amazing person. Shes a pro surfer now and has a child!
Great film!
There are two clips that you missed that would be really interesting. One is Arizona a little while after her amputation. She is sitting on the floor and has a long mirror. She is basically mirroring her "good leg". And she spends hours just sitting there watching her two legs. In another she has phantom limp pain during surgery so in order to get her mind straight she asked that someone stab her fake leg.
In the scene with the little girl patient later in the scene Arizona and the father step out of the room. There the father says that he's not really sure and that he's worried. Arizona tells him that she'll be much happier if she's not in pain. Then he tells to Arizona ''This is really hard... you can't understand''. To that Arizona says actually i do and she shows him her prosthetic leg. The father is shocked cause he's known Arizona for over a year and he tells her that all this time he hasn't noticed anything. And that converstion gives him some hope that his daughter will be fine.
They also did really good on how her relationship with her wife was affected. Arizona made Callie promise that she wouldn't amputate. But her infection got really bad that Callie broke her promise. So in addition to the amputation Arizona was really mad at Callie for breaking her promise. The one who amputated her leg was her really close friend Alex but they didn't tell Arizona that it was him. So years later Arizona finds out that it was Alex and she goes to Callie and she asks why didn't you tell me that Alex amputated my leg? And then Callie says "Cause i wanted you to have someone that you didn't hate"... UHHH this was such a great response.
There was also the part where Arizona broke her primary prosthetic and had to use her old one and ended up having it squeak for 90% of the episode and that helped her come to terms with her situation a lot.
The mirror scene is referring to "mirror therapy" , Wich is used to trick the brain and try to attenuate phantom pain. But it doesn't work on everyone
Yes exactly what I was going to say. Callow loved her SO much and was SO hurt herself losing her best friend and having to choose to amputate her wife's leg to save her life. She also wanted her to have Alex to be their for her. Grey's Anatomy is my favourite show. I can't wait for season 16 to come onto Netflix in Canada.
Which season is this?
@@shotingstar1978 Yea but I think that Arizona and Callies relationship would have been better if callie had told Arizona the truth about alex amputating her leg. I would have just liked to see what their relationship would be now if she would have just been honest. Arizona wouldn't have had so much hate towards callie then I don't think.
Arizona is my favorite Grey's character. Her anger towards Callie was because Callie promised her that she wouldn't let anyone cut her leg off. Towards the end of Arizona being on the show it is like the writers forgot she was an amputee. It was never addressed and there were many scenes where the camera panned down and we could clearly see Arizona with two legs.
Okay but how was Arizona your favorite? I honestly couldn’t stand her. She was a crappy wife and a crappy friend to everyone
@@kierrastanford4853 She reminded me of Izzie when she first started on the show. Always peppy which I loved about her. She was a great mentor to Alex. Yes, she had her faults but so does everyone else on the show. Callie did her wrong by thinking she could take away their daughter because she was the bio mom.
sadly they just 4got about her in the show LOL
I think they just made it where she was wearing two normal shoes under her scrubs
She had a prosthetic leg
As an amputee also, car accident. My leg was infected. I had no choice I was told if I didn't choose amputation I would die. Watching this broke me. I was very early in my recovery still in the hospital. Watching her on the floor in the shower I've been in that place of despair. Loss, anguish. I received a settlement the lawyer joked too bad it wasn't a Pepsi Truck. I overcame my amputation I learned to walk, I regained a new normal. But the loss will always be with you. My husband dealt with my accident by having an affair. I always thought something like that would be the end-all I couldn't come back from but going through what I have taught me to be stronger. For that I am thankful. Amazing video ❤❤I cried
You’re amazing. So strong. Sending you lots and lots of love❤️❤️❤️
@@mimibergquist ❤❤❤ Thank You
Are you still with your husband? How did you over come that if so?
@@marissaghost We are still together. It took a lot of time and I still have hard days. My children are happy having both parents I felt I owed them a second chance
True Crime and Cupcakes but he cheated… why would he do that and why u guys still together? Just wondering and I’m sending love ❤️❤️
wow ive watched every episode of greys and I was still caught off guard by how raw and emotional the bathroom scene was.
I've watched it and researched the show since I was a kid and still ended up crying into my coffee caught off guard by that scene just now
My favorite scene is where Arizona grabs a mirror and reflects her leg so she can see herself as if she still had both her legs.
It's a very common treatment for phantom limb sensations.
Helped me a little bit in the first couple months for sure , it is bizarre though haha
Your voice would be perfect for podcasting!! Especially for some sort of meditation thing or something.
SO true
She's extremely easy to listen to. Even if I have a video hidden behind other windows her voice just "smiles."
9:00 Arizona was walking to get something that was supposed to be at her front door and when she noticed it was not there she got mad that she had to get up and push herself for no reason as no one else was around. although at the end of that episode im pretty sure she made it to the hospital to track down whatever she was supposed to get from Bailey
well bailey purposely did that so arizona would go to the hospital, and leave her house
that was bailey's plan haha, to get Arizona to get out of the house
What episode is that?
@@chelseamoropa5027 9x06
@@valeriazenoni6478 thank you
Tbh, I haven't watched a video from this channel yet and expected her to tear the scenes to shreds. Instead, she was so thoughtful and informative. Additionally, she has this really calming voice that is nice to listen to.
What’s not shown/talked about is the background. Callie is an orthopedic surgeon so Arizona has her perform a very complicated surgery to try to save her leg... she ends up with a serious life threatening infection and Callie has to make the decision to amputate for her. Arizona wakes up pissed off at Callie and that causes strain in their relationship.
And YES make this a series on your channel
If my memory suits me well, Alex was the one who cut her leg off since callie was busy in another surgery and couldn't leave
@@annecantgame you are right. Alex did the surgery, but Callie doesn't say anything. She doesn't want that Aeizone hates both, since Alex ist her friend.
See? This is why I can’t watch shows like this. So much melodrama. You’re not allowed to perform surgery on family members. Even a friend is an ethical stretch.
In the scene when Arizona slams the door she was waiting on a journal from the hospital that never came. It was a way to get her out of the apartment. So at first she was angry, but then she went over to the hospital.
It was a chart not a journal
Not an amputee, but from an outsiders point of view I always thought they did a good job portraying it in the show initially, but then in later seasons it is never even mentioned, she walks and stands and runs absolutely perfectly etc. and I personally felt like it was inaccurate? I know it is in part due to the production costs needed to "take away" her leg in scenes or how it isn't really "relevant" to the plot but it just seems like such a big part of her life, and also such a pivotal time for her character and for it to never be mentioned or alluded to ever again seemed annoying to me.
She covers it up so well the interns think she's faking it for the parking space lol
My dad is an amputee. And therefore i know some people with prosthetic legs. And you will be amazed at how good those legs are nowadays with a computerknee in it, that knows when you walk the stairs and adjust accordingly. It has a cyclemode and it is possible to get a skiingmode. So it is possible you wont notice it at all if someone walks with prostethics. Also it becomes part of everydaylife when everything works there is nothing to talk about and the subject isnt talked about alot. But i agree sometimes i think the writers forgot about it completely ;) but even then pretty accurate.
9:40 For some clarification on this scene, Arizona was told that there would be an envelope by the front door, so when she saw that there was no envelope, she slammed the door because she realised she was tricked into using her prostetic and walking.
On a totally different note. I knew a girl who got meningitis and had to have both legs amputated when she was 7. One above and one below the knee. She now drives has a child and has a full time job. I just wanted to share a nice story with anyone who is going through this. There is hope and it is possible to recover as Jo has shown. So good luck to anyone who is going through this. You got this. X
Your comment reminded me of when I was around for or five and there was a little boy about two years old and he got meningitis and had all four limbs amputated. He would ride around on a skateboard. I was sad that he was sick but I honestly had no idea wtf was going on and I was worried they were going to take my arms and legs next.
Im pretty sure when they showed her leg it actually was months later
yeah it was the day after mark died, he died a couple months after the accident
Gianna Oliveri One month
It was only a few days maybe a week after the amputation and mark was only in the coma for a week or two
@@giannaoliveri2864 only a week or two
From what I remember
When you said that the leg would be swollen for a couple of months after the amputation, that scene when arizona is in the bed was a couple of months after the amputation so the swelling might have subsided by then
I hate when ppl don't watch the whole episode just clips
Omg I wish you had the "I think you broke my leg" scene on here
There is one scene in season 13 where she is going into a high security prison an she is getting searched and she told him that she had a prosthesis and he lifted her pant leg to check and she was so embarrassed as I feel that girl.
House would be interesting to review. The other side of the coin, opting out of elective amputation.
Arizona and a bunch of the other Dr's were in a plane crash, which is why she lost her leg. When Callie was talking about how Sofia lost a parent she was talking about her father who died from his injuries after being put in a medically induced coma. When the plane crash happened they were in the woods for a very long time and I think bugs got into Arizona's leg and that's why the infection was so bad.
The sound of your voice is so soothing! I am sure I was led here by watching others things about Greys, and I’m so grateful. My heart is so full from your spirit. 💛
#1 THANK YOU FOR THE TRIGGER WARNING BEFORE THE YELLING!!
#2 It never ceases to amaze me how translatable your commentary is to any major life change affecting previous capabilities! 💙
Dang, need a trigger warning for them all caps ! 😉
I'm so happy that someone explained arizona's prespective and actions, most of the fans think that she was making such a big deal out of this
The writing on Grey’s is so good!
I’ve had something akin to phantom limb without losing a limb. I only knew that after seeing a stunning exhibition at the science museum in London where a photographer worked with amputees to depict their phantom limbs as they experience them. Some were bigger or smaller, had sections missing, and such. I had a motorcycle accident that left me with nerve damage in my lower left leg. For months it felt like it was maybe two inches wider in about a six inch section of my leg. It hurt a lot in places where there was no leg. I also had weird sensation like water dripping onto the skin. It’s now mapping accurately to its meat borders and the water drips no more.
Over the first maybe even 10 years it changed constantly. I regained some sensation and can just about distinguish hot and cold. It’s still pretty sore and sensitive and very scarred and I’ve lost some muscle where I’m no longer able to engage it properly. But functionally it’s pretty good. Though, it’s still not my old leg.
I’ve had to work hard to accept my injury and having my wife touch it properly for the first time has recently been an important part of that. We’ve been together 11 years and my accident was more than 21 years ago!
My point is that it takes as long as it takes. You will probably find the nerves continue to recover and remap over years rather than months and that might equate to gradual change or step changes - it’s hard to predict.
Not a limb or even a significant chunk of meat from a leg. But I had a pretty bad bicycle wreck as a kid, and it tore up one of my fingers pretty bad. So bad a chunk of the skin and muscle on the side has to be cut off. I get phantom itches in that small missing chunk of finger. I can't imagine how bad it is for people with larger chunks taken off.
This is a particularly well-written and authentic storyline of Grey's, one of the stories that got me really into the show. My friend is an upper limb amputee and I remember talking to him about it when it aired. You should definitely do Stronger - I'd be interested to see what accuracy grade you give it!
I really relate to the embarrassment of falling. I'm not an amputee but I have a genetic condition that makes my knees dislocate and although the pain is bad when they do the embarrassment of everyone see me fall is so much worse
Omg that happens to me too, I'm 25 and I've been dealing with since for 20 years and I have considered amputation as the best option for me. I have fallen so many times and in front of many people that I'm not even embarrassed anymore but the pain has only gotten worse to the point that I get unconscious and can't walk for even 4 months 💔
Eli Gk EDS?
My knees used to constantly give out when I was a kid and I was always falling. Now, my knees will dislocate and I’ve learned how to pop my knee back in. It actually used to freak my friend out because I stop walking and twist my leg and pop my knee back in place
I got injured and had that happen to me for a time. My mother didn’t believe me for years so I never officially went to the doctor about it. Thankfully mine healed, mostly. I still have weakness and have to monitor how I use my joint especially when playing tennis.
It totally does freak people out. I had it happen in front of friends before and they freaked also. Had it happen in front of a crowd when having a tennis lesson. That was funny cause my coach thought I tore something, I actually fell down cause I was shifting my weight. I just popped it back in and basically jumped up but everyone watching clapped for me. It was so embarrassing cause all I wanted to do was shout it happens all the time.
That’s what I love about Grey’s Anatomy! They show you the good, the bad, and the ugly sides. Healing isn’t easy, relationships aren’t easy, and making life altering decisions for other people isn’t easy. There’s a reason this show has run for so long!
4:30 Arizona is mad at Callie, because Callie made a decision to cut Arizona's leg off. Otherwise Arizona would have died. Honestly I don't know why Ari was so pissed off, because Callie really didn't have a choice. I guess Arizona just needed to blame someone at that stage of her grieving process
I don't think the feeling was rational, I think it's very emotional and primitive, just like the grieving. And because of this I don't judge Arizona at all.
She also explained in like season 14 that having her leg was really important to her because she wanted to be able to roller skate again (a special memory with her dad and skating around the hospital)
Callie had previously promised Arizona that she wouldn't cut off the leg
did you know karev actually cut off arizona’s leg
The alternative was letting Arizona die from sepsis and probably gangrene or whatever was going on. Callie might have gotten in trouble for neglect or something if she didn't cut off her leg.
I deal with chronic pain (fibromyalgia) every single day. It hurts to stand in place, to walk too far, to lay down and sleep, to drive a car for too long. I can't work a normal job. Sometimes I get the (fibro fog) and can't think clearly. I wouldn't wish pain on anyone. Thank you for sharing your journey. I'm still trying to pursue my dreams in writing books (fiction) but I've learned to not get frustrated at myself when I'm not able to do what I once could.
You didn't get to the part where that leg tore apart callie and arizona's marriage. they hint on Arizonas last episode in season 14 that they got back together.. but it was so heart breaking to watch
There is a show in the UK called the Last Leg which is a comedy late night television host show hosted by two comedian amputees who talk about their disabilities and make fun of themselves a lot. I don't know if you would be interested in reacting to a compilation of their jokes or something, if there are enough of them on UA-cam.
Adam Hill!! He also has some really awesome stand-up where he touches on his prosthetic and everything, it's such a good show, I loved Adam adam and alex
As a recent amputee, I must say that I definitely appreciate this video! Thanks so much for sharing! I can relate for Sure!
fullmetal alchemist is an entire 5-season show, but the main character (ed) is an arm and leg amputee that's worth checking out!! love to see this become a series :)
So not related to amputations, but kind of related to that last scene when Arizona falls down. One of my good friends is a recovered (recovering? He still has some issues from his injury.) paraplegic. So we were on my best friend's bachelor party and walking down to go check out a museum that we thought would be fun to check out (it was closed that day, oops) and the sidewalk was a bit uneven. So James, the paraplegic, was able to walk again and was bringing up the rear because we were a little bit faster than him but he'd catch up at crosswalks. So we all stumbled on this slightly uneven bit of sidewalk but managed to get our feet back underneath us in time to avoid falling, right up until James got to that bit of uneven sidewalk that he'd watched all of us stumble on, he couldn't quite get his feet underneath him again fast enough and he fell flat on his face. What followed was possibly the loudest silence I have ever experienced as we were waiting to see if James was okay and slightly before everyone else I realised that he was fine and piped up "first day with the new legs, James?"
Well needless to say everyone turned and glared at me until James started laughing his ass off and said "yeah clearly I need to get them in for an alignment."
I had top surgery a month ago and during this video I found out why I felt so irritated when some people were treating it as an aputation. Because on one side, I couldn't separate reality from the negative connotation the word amputation has, specially over gender-affirming surgeries; I now realise an amputation can mean freedom too. And on the other, I couldn't draw a parallel between trans and amputee experiences until now: the insecurities you talked about in your video, about feeling unattractive, and being pestered with unwanted attention and invasive questions, remind me a lot of the trans experience - specially when you're "visibly" trans, like when you have scars. I'm not saying we have the same struggles, but I think it's helpful to draw parallels we can relate to, and build solidarity between communities.
All of this to say: great video! I found it really helpful and unexpectedly therapeutic.
Thank you for sharing this, sir. I found your comment therapeutic as well as the video.❤️
Watching this makes me so sad that Alex is gone (greys fans will know)
Claire Bears life oh you poor thing...
Claire Bears life you must not be all the way caught up
I started watching this video before I needed to get ready to visit a friend. Yesterday was probably the scariest moment in my life I attempted suicide and I opted for voluntary treatment so I'm fixing my place, my place in this world because I lost something, a part of myself in my life that I didn't know happened. I came across this video and I just see your strength. I've been dealing with horrible kidney problems for 3 years on top of a car accident 4 years ago and escaping an abusive father 6 years ago. I got dealt 2 bad parents and I don't even know where I'm going with this, but thank you for being strong.
Hi, I wanted to check in on you, are you in a better place right now?
Are you ok
Omg I recommended you doing this! Im so glad you did it! Thanks!
Great video😍 and it made me realise that when it comes to disability, I can't think about any film or tv series showing the characters dealing with MS. Maybe that's why people know nothing about it, only misconceptions and rumors. As you have said in a video before, people can see you are missing a leg and when it comes to me and MS people just see me walking funny and it's humiliating as hell.
Appreciate you saying “from a bad accident” and not giving away any more spoilers than necessary despite discussing a major spoiler (Arizona’s amputation), from a season that aired many years ago now lol.
The House episode "Three Stories" from season 1. It has three characters who all face the choice whether to amputate their leg or not so might make a good episode to react to
I really like what you said about elective amputations and the important software freedom. I’ve spent the last 14 years in chronic back pain after a failed scoliosis surgery and 4 additional spinal surgeries. It’s also caused pain and movement issues with my shoulders. I’ve always said if it weren’t my spine, something kinda unamputatable 🤣 I’d of had it done years ago if it meant the pain might go. But hay ho the pain bus continues. Great video.
its a shame because they actually did a terrible job long term with her amp. inital season eposides which were shown here were good.. but thats it. they REALLY dropped the ball later on.
MadMonkeyMakes and the whole divorce proceeding... I kinda stop watching the whole proceeding season, and then after Callie and Arizona leaving the show I just stopped. My heart just wanna believe that in the end they restart their relationship in NY.
@@gracelaw1985 I was so happy when they broke up and when Callie left. Now I wanna believe that Arizona is either alone or with a stranger woman probably French.
If you’re looking for more shows that have amputee characters, RWBY is a 3d animated show, and a big part of volume 4 is a main character’s PTSD after losing her arm and her adjustment to that. There’s a few other amputees in the show as well, but hers is the one that’s dived into emotionally.
I have a chronic illness and this perspective of the feelings that everyone is going through when you adjust to a new way of life is something I haven't seen or faced before and I appreciate you for speaking to this and educating not only others but myself.
Thank you for the reaction! It's admiring that you feel so comfortable sharing your views on Grey's whilst comparing it with your own experience. I am sure this has been quite a journey for you. You're really brave! Only re-watching these scenes from Grey's makes me cry. They always remind me that we often take things for granted or worry about pointless things.
I just ran into your channel today by chance. You're so sweet and your voice is super calming 😊 my little girls father had a leg amputated. It tore us apart. He became so angry and cruel afterwards. This really made me reflect on how I could have been better and helps me understand some of it. You're amazing. 💜
I remember first watching the show in my early twenties I think, and I wondered why Arizona struggled with accepting her new normal for so long. And years later you taught me how real that can be. Thank you for educating us. QUESTION: Does your phantom leg feel like it did shortly before amputation, or does it feel like it did before the original accident when you were young? Does your "ankle" feel fused?
I cried watching this because I could relate so much. I’m a new amputee (5 weeks). No prosthetic yet. Thank you for being so honest.
Jo’s necklace is changing from silver to bronze to gold
the context behind the clip at 9:25 is that another doctor told her an intern would drop off some x-rays at her door, so she had to try and walk to the door which took a lot of effort but when she saw nothing was there she was pissed at having gone all that way for nothing.
Arizona was one of my favorite characters
Something I found difficult in watching this was the disregard for consent. She said not to touch her, and Callie (guessing at spelling) lifted her into the shower. She said not to touch the leg, and that was completely ignored. Having your boundaries respected, especially when you're feeling vulnerable, is really important. Building that trust often leads to folks asking for help comfortably faster.
Callie lifted her into the shower because she fired the home health nurse and urinated on herself. She did not tough her leg in the hospital scene until Arizona gave consent. If you watch the whole part of the series, you would see that Callie tried really hard to respect Arizona's boundaries, but sometime Arizona would need help and not know how to ask or accept if.
@@blondie7740 I haven't seen the rest of the episode, you're right. I just noticed some red flags from the clips shown and it had me pretty uncomfortable. I'm pretty solidly part of the disabled community in my city and this just didn't fit with the preferences I've heard and hold myself. Maybe the rest of the series paints things in a different light, but these few moments didn't feel right when singled out.
@@raylyttle2952 I understand. The way they are cut in such a way that they are out of context. They actually address the fact thar Callie was an orthopedic surgeon but she could not help Arizona because Arizona was her wife and did not feel comfortable with it. I thought they a good job with this part of the series, even if some it does get a little ridicules.
@@raylyttle2952 yeah this montage is out of context... and it's not just one episode. She got in the accident in the end of season 8 and they didn't really stop talking about it till middle of season 10
I was hoping they showed some other scenes that were very important to her amputation journey. Her physical therapy journey, more of her anger toward Callie when she thought that she was the one that cut off her leg, her first time going out in public with her prosthetic, and more of her journey with phantom limb pain. You should watch that journey. The accident is on season 8 episode 24 and it goes from there.
As a bilateral below knee amputee, this video hit me hard a few times. My wife of four years left me after my first amputation and I did my second amputation by myself two years later. I have lived through the rage and the feeling of being a burden and it is the hardest battle of all. The physical pain was bad but the battle in my head was and is the worst. I am one month post op from my second amputation and I have learned so much from other and to be gracious of help instead of trying to just prove everyone wrong. Thank you for making this video and letting us all know that it is okay to not be okay....as long as we don’t stay there.
It's not even comparable but I was also left by my long time partner while being in a hospital with brain tumor so that's probably why your comment hit me so much.
I wish you all the luck and hope you get well soon!
Btw, the first scene with Callie and Arizona was a month after the amputation. And Arizona was pushing Callie away because Callie authorized the amputation while Arizona was in a coma.
Arizona is the reason I started watching you. Yeah she had impressed me how normal her life was after a huge effort so I was curious to learn how an amputee deals with all these. Its over 2 years I watch a lot of amputeed youtubers and I have to say that you are inspiring me so mush, as well Kristie Sita, Isabelle Weall and more
Σοφία I watch all three of them too! They're great.
I wish you would've included the roller skates (which have been an integral part/a trademark of AZ's life pre-amputation) scene AND the whole cheating SL, since you did bring up the feeling of being too much/inattractive being a valid one (and I feel it was, if not directly spoken about cuz it was such a long time ago, part of the reason she cheated too). Other than that I enjoyed this video sooo much, you're such a ray of sunshine and so eloquent!
Thank you for talking about these difficult issues to teach us all what it is like to lose a limb. With this amount of accuracy, the writers of the show must have used consultants that are experts on the topic, which is SO important when you include stories about disabled characters.
Seeing that you posted a new video always brightens my day!! Your astute and calming voice is so grounding and I always take away a lot from listening to what you have to say! Hope you're well Jo
Because of your explanations of your prosthetic and the soreness and the phantom pain in your vids before I started watching this show recently, I was reminded of you throughout the scenes involving the amputation. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experience!
It’s been so long since I saw Callie and Arizona... wow
And this video puts these scenes in so much more perspective then I had four years ago, both in general and especially in regards to Arizona’s struggles. Thank you for sharing your experience so honestly, you are being so helpful to so many people
This was a really cool way to learn about someone's perspective who is an amputee. It's hard for people who don't know what it's like or know anyone who does to fully understand. I'm grateful you shared and got to explain the good and the bad about all of that. Wish you and your family the best :D Also, heckin love Grey's Anatomy.
I loved the beginning of this and how well they did with portraying this. But now they just seem to have forgotten about it, there’s maybe one thing about her being an amputee every season. I wish they had continued being so accurate
You have such a way of speaking to the point where I could listen to you all day!!
this video actually hit so close to home as I went through most of this , as I am also a below the knee amputee
I came across this video because of watching other reaction videos to Grey's Anatomy, but I am so thankful to have seen this one. I have a family member that is an amputee. She seldom wants to burden others with her pain or struggles so I have never really known how hard the process must have been . Hearing from another amputee about things like phantom pain and falling gives me a better insight into what she may be going through. Thank you!
I became a TRIPLE AMPUTEE through technically no fault of my own, but sort of because my body did it, back in 2015.
I had 3 choices and they were all ... crap... but I made the one the kept me alive...
struggle every day finding reasons why I bother..
But I was alone. No bf. no kids and I still have no family of MY OWN or that support that I’d love to have like I know every single friend of mine has-/ and I’m so glad they have it to be honest.
You’re a beautiful, boppy person, Jo!
Don’t lose your spark!
There's a German show called "In aller Freundschaft - Die jungen Ärzte". There is a character (Ben Ahlbeck) losing part of his leg and not knowing how to deal with it too. He lost it after an accident.
PS: There are also some UA-cam videos about it.
As a teen who has several chronic diseases, I can say that it also has its good sides that amputee is so obvious. Most of the times people don't take my pain serious, I look like a healthy 15 year old girl, why should I have pain? It's hard to live a life where people often expect you to do things like you are healthy, while you're not. So your amputee is obvious, you don't need to tell people over and over that it is real. They can see how real it is. Maybe they underestimate it, but they see it. As someone with invisible pain, sometimes I wish that people could see it....
I’m also a young person with chronic diseases. Being young often makes it worse, as people assume that you “should” be able to do things. Our bodies aren’t healthy or “normal”, personally my body is very similar to that of an older person- I struggle with a lot of the tasks they do, and have similar pain and what not. But because I look young and healthy, people don’t get it.
@@sharonshebangs3087 yes, same
@@nghtblccd Same here. People only care about looks. In their opinion - "you look healthy = you're ok, you're just probably exaggerating".
That was what annoyed me the most during covid. I myself do not have a chronic disease but my sister does. She got vaccinated and her booster but now has long covid and a new flare up of her illness, which makes me so worried and angry for her. But since she doesn't look it, many don't realise it. So I guess, particularly in regards to covid,I always thought it's just so stupid when some say that young people don't need to worry about it.
@@ulhi7564 yes, in Germany the politicians also said and still do that the people at risk are only in retirement homes.... 💀
The thing I admire about you is that you have allowed your rational side to control things while accepting, embracing and integrating the emotional side. You are such a strong person.
I love this. When I first watched it, I wanted her to get over it more quickly and stop talking about her leg. But now I’m glad that they gave it the justice it deserves, it’s a huge life adjustment and should be portrayed as such.
I love this show, im currently on season 16.
Shuli PG omg 😱 I’m on season 11
Shuli PG im nearly to the end of season 12.
I am able bodied but have known a few amputees in my lifetime. I will tell you the stories of 1 of them. The first is kind of cute and funny if you knew the people involved. This was in the late 60’s, the gentleman was an avid, avid curler who had a bonspiel coming up in a week or two. Now curling and a very sore foot do not mix. Bill went to see his doctor where was told his big toe was very badly infected. He was also told it was imperative that he stay off that foot or things would get worse. Did I mention he was a very avid curler, well, Bill went curling instead of following Dr’s orders. Needless to say, the prediction of the condition worsening came true to the point where he was told he would lose the leg below the knee. All he was concerned about was could he get the foot back so he could get it stuffed and turned into a cribbage board. You see, besides curling, his and the family’s other passion was cribbage. One night shortly after he came home from the hospital, everyone had gone to bed. He didn’t have his leg yet and was sleeping in the living room as their house was a 2 story. He woke up in the middle of the night needing to use the bathroom, forgetting he didn’t have two legs, he got up and promptly went down on the residual limb and screamed in pain. His wife came running and fell down the stairs. She started screaming like a banshee, they had their 5 kids living in the house with them and not one of them heard a thing. So Bill and his wife Bea spent all night writhing and screaming in pain (Bea had broken her leg) and had to wait for one of the kids to call 911. Bill was in the airforce reserves with my dad. I will leave the stories of my mum and another friend for another time as this got a little longer than I had intended. You really would have had to have known the family to see the humour in the last part of the story.
I am just finishing my Masters in a Counseling (4 weeks left) and I am always interested in learning about another persons mental and physical journey. I have an lucky enough to have all of my limbs so I will not pretend to guess how difficult this process (let alone making a video about it) has been for you. But I wanted to thank you for having the courage to share it with the world. I am now a new subscriber and look forward to future videos. Best of luck to both you and your support system.
Fell down a UA-cam rabbit hole, watched numerous videos off you now. I love the videos, how you edit them and how your personality comes across, love your voice and wish you all the best
Awesome video! As a Grey's Anatomy fan, I really enjoyed hearing your comparison and experience. Thanks for sharing!
Thank YOU so much, for watching!!
The Night Shift has a pretty emotional arc where a main character’s boyfriend gets his leg amputated.
I was diagnosed with JRA when I was 15 years old, and that bit where you talk about asking for help or admitting that you can’t do things on your own is something I talk about with people all the time. At first it was really hard, but in the end learning that it’s ok to ask for help when you need it is one of the “good things” to come out of this for me. It was incredibly hard to learn though as a teenager just beginning to experience independence, but it ended up being the perfect time to learn that lesson.
Do a video on how they do amputations for television. I can never totally get lost in the Arizona storyline because I always wonder how they edit out her irl leg during every scene.
Cgi
C Caro i saw something that said they tape her leg behind her back and use cgi(like the former reply) to cut off a little more above the knee and/or add the prosthetic.
Usually we just put a chroma green sock on and then cut it out in post-production editing.
I just came across your page, as I was watching old episodes of Arizona on Greys. She is my favorite character❤️I have Greys (all seasons) at least 10 times. This video gave me so much insight on how to deal with amputees. And even though I don’t know any in my personal life, when ever I come across one, I will remember you and this video and treat them with more grace and dignity. But I won’t stare😀. I am now a subscriber❤️
Your comment about people asking how you lost your leg, etc, reminded me of an experience I had with a lady I came across in a store. She was wearing a T-shirt that said something like, "If you give me $10 I'll tell you why I lost my leg." I didn't ask her how she lost her leg, but I did ask her if anyone had taken her up on her offer. (She said, "No.") I must admit (shamefully) that I was hoping that she would tell her story as a result of the indirect question. Mostly I want to ask people who have lost a let if it was due to diabtes - which carries a very high risk of this if you are not well controlled. :(
I lost my leg 3 months ago and I felt fine having immediate family, the doctors and physical therapists seeing my residual limb. BUT when I actually had to go back to my old house and neighborhood I suddenly got very self-conscious. One neighbor clearly had me in his sights but where he was friendly before, he just kept walking by, not acknowledging me. I guess some people just don’t know what to say. I felt really vulnerable going outside after that. So I sure got what you said about many new amputees not wanting to venture outdoors.
So I'm not an amputee, but as someone who has struggled for half of my life with a neurological condition which affects the muscles and feeling in my legs and affects my walking, I found myself relating to almost everything you said in this video. From the insecurities in myself and how I believe others view me, to not wanting to be a burden on others so avoiding situations where I feel I might be and not wanting to ask for help, and even through to hating stand-up meetings at work and feeling awkward about being the only one sitting in a room full of standers who don't know why I'm sitting. Actually hearing you say all these things out loud helped me understand some of the things I've felt over the years and have never fully addressed or come to terms with in my own head due to not having people around me who can relate to those feelings, so I just wanted to thank you so much for that.
Subscribed, and look forward to more videos like this one! xx
Cormoran Strike is the amputee main character of a British tv series called Strike. It’s a detective show.
Boy did this bring back memories some good and some very bad. As a bilateral below knee I’ve had all of the issues in this program. One that really sticks out is when I fell in the bathroom and my wife and son were in the next room. My son jumped up to help me and my wife immediately told him to leave me alone, “he has to learn to do this himself” and she was absolutely right. I lost my legs after 37 operations (both legs), some were minor, I&D, incision and drainage, and some were major. All of us are different and don’t have all the problems and some do. I enjoyed your take on this episode and would like to see more, but not many programs have at its theme amputation.
In the episode "Help Me" (Season 6, Episode 22), of House M.D., House does an emergency amputation, if that counts.
There is a german show similar to greys anatomy (In aller Freundschaft- die jungen Ärzte) where a main character loses his right leg below knee in a motorcycle accident. At first he struggled a lot and even thought about killing himself, eventually he was back at work but was still struggling during operations and everything and some seasons after the accident there were complications with his stumb. They also always make sure that he limps, runs differently and massages his residual limb sometimes. I really wish you could react to the show but sadly there is no English version.
I was injured in 2008, but my bk amputation was in 2015. I also feel as if I still have my leg. I just found your channel and I’m looking forward to watching all your videos and comparing notes. Congratulations on getting off opioids. Unfortunately I have to take them for another condition. I had some friend over for a social distance party and I told my mom oh I better, but on my leg. She did understand why, but you nailed. To not have it covered would feel weird.
it’s really great to hear your thoughts on this! i’m really glad i found your channel, i’m learning so much about something i would probably know nothing about if not thanks to you!
Footless Jo may miss one limb, but her backbone is huge af!
Thank you ❤️ from Austria 🇦🇹
I would love more of these videos! And I’m so glad you liked Arizona’s character arc so much! I love greys
In the movie Horse Whisperer one of the main characters has her leg amputated after an accident
Can we give big props the the people that edited these episodes (the ones where you see Arizona’s legs) as it looks really convincing
Never have I heard my name so many times in one video!
You are a strong soul. People are cribbing about small useless things. And you took such a shock and still bear a smile on your face. I know that life is hard and you would have had extremely hard days dealing with it but all I could say is that I am proud of you. You give me a hope in life. You are an inspiration. Take a bow ❤️
You are really inspiring and make others feel like they can have something to learn and possibly someone to relate to, so thank you for that and being really just truly amazing