FTM Transgender Passing Tips // How To Pass

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 154

  • @Freshly220
    @Freshly220 8 років тому +86

    Anyone else admire his confidence ??
    Since we've met I've seen you smile more and more and it's awesome ^.^ 💙

  • @fuckinwhat7626
    @fuckinwhat7626 7 років тому +57

    "let that shit flow free in the breeze!"
    I'm dying 😂

  • @none4530
    @none4530 8 років тому +42

    About having a feminine hairline, I had the same problem as you with baby hairs and a rounded shape so I grabbed a razor and shaved them off and it worked! My hairline is way more masculine and I pass better this way!

  • @TheArtistgurl
    @TheArtistgurl 7 років тому +22

    "Yea, y'know I'm just a striped kinda boy!" beautiful

  • @kaidendrew9638
    @kaidendrew9638 7 років тому +55

    sometimes i pretend to adjust my junk

    • @mr.meeseeks8201
      @mr.meeseeks8201 7 років тому +1

      Kai Amani om me too

    • @brianthealien1825
      @brianthealien1825 6 років тому +1

      Kaiden Drew same

    • @HeHe-du4le
      @HeHe-du4le 3 роки тому

      Omg same, I don’t even have a packer, I just grab my pants on there, it makes me feel more like a guy lol.

  • @chimken3954
    @chimken3954 8 років тому +6

    i cant afford to get a binder, so i've been trying to make one myself. when i was looking around for the right material, i stumbled upon my old softball uniform! the shirt was 100% polyester which turned out to make a terrific binder!

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому +1

      That's very resourceful of you!

  • @lovelytrash4395
    @lovelytrash4395 7 років тому +14

    Oh my god, your videos help me so much and I love them so much. I stumbled across your channel the other day and I'm so glad I did. I'm a closeted transboy and these truly help. So thank you for creating these amazing videos dude. You are a wonderful guy and just keep up the good work!
    I hope you are able to transition and be confident in who you are cause it truly inspires me, as well as many others. You are also a fine looking young man my friend.
    I hope to use these tips and be confident in who I am, so thank you again for this videos and all your videos in general.

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  7 років тому +3

      I'm glad you found my channel! Thanks for the kind words :)

    • @lovelytrash4395
      @lovelytrash4395 7 років тому

      No problem :)
      Thanks for the amazing videos that are truly helpful

  • @emyemyemyyyy
    @emyemyemyyyy 8 років тому +26

    I love that shirt 😍😍

  • @MJmegafan13
    @MJmegafan13 8 років тому +3

    MJ fan here!!! Haha. Thanks for the video! I go to school out of state, so I fly a lot. When you go through the security scanner, they have to push either the male or female button. They always push the male button for me, but it's kind of awkward because I'm pretty sure the machine shows that I'm not biologically male. The person running the scanner gets a funny look on their face, and they always end up having to check my shoulders or something weird like that. It's awkward, but it makes me feel good that they initially go with the male button.

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому +1

      Holla about MJ! And, that's really cool that they read you as male! I haven't had that happen in an airport yet lol

  • @dandelion2490
    @dandelion2490 8 років тому +118

    Your personality reminds me so much of amandaschronicals lmao

  • @isabellawilkes9618
    @isabellawilkes9618 7 років тому +15

    Hhhh I have a horrible time passing because of my parents but I'm kinda trying to look on the bright side of things..?

  • @JensonCruz
    @JensonCruz 7 років тому +1

    Love how confident you are even before starting hormones! Thats awesome

  • @Freshly220
    @Freshly220 8 років тому +7

    And the Michael part SLAYED me 😂

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому +1

      Glad someone understood that lolol

    • @Freshly220
      @Freshly220 8 років тому

      +MackMan lolz yes sir I did ! Chattin with a fellow Michael fan here, remember ? :P

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому +1

      +Tyler Hunter Hell yeah I remember! The way I remember the story- you saw me do an incredible moonwalk- and it inspired you to dance? 😜

    • @Freshly220
      @Freshly220 8 років тому

      +MackMan lol well yes of course ! My lil inspiration 😍😉

  • @gravity_hurts3707
    @gravity_hurts3707 8 років тому +2

    Thank you for this video, it made me smile. :) I also just wanted to mention that I'm going to my FIRST EVER TRANS PRIDE EVENT TODAY AND IM VERY EXCITED!

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому

      Hope you have fun at the event! That's awesome!

  • @jamesthewatcher3932
    @jamesthewatcher3932 7 років тому +6

    1:17 armpit hair on fleek

  • @TheoTheTransGuy
    @TheoTheTransGuy Рік тому

    your sound affects in this video give me life. thank you so much for posting this haha

  • @off-brandjedi6251
    @off-brandjedi6251 7 років тому +4

    Watching this once he's on T... AHHHHHHHHHHHH I NOW REALIZE THE VOICE CHANGE HE LOOKS SO DIFFERENT HOLY CRAP

  • @jaybrewer4384
    @jaybrewer4384 8 років тому +5

    If you don't have a very good binder button up shirts such as flannels or just black/darker shirts help

  • @michaelellis4014
    @michaelellis4014 7 років тому +1

    This video honestly gave me so much self confidence, thank u!!

  • @XigXag
    @XigXag 8 років тому +24

    Why don't you have 100k yet lol

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому +10

      I hope I'm there one day!! 😁

  • @flyingkathi8917
    @flyingkathi8917 6 років тому

    Just rewatching all of your videos :D man, you"re awesom

  • @JayTee67
    @JayTee67 8 років тому +3

    Love your energy, man!

  • @SofMusicBlob
    @SofMusicBlob 8 років тому +1

    Mack you're so great! Keep being awesome because you're such an inspiration :)

  • @m1nate
    @m1nate 7 років тому

    omg you're talking so emotionally I so love it💖

  • @amykay9018
    @amykay9018 8 років тому +1

    Honestly loving your videos man.... your good vibes make it look easy and it actually helps to feel confident !!!
    Keep up the good work ✌

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому +1

      I'm glad I could boost your confidence! Keep being you!

  • @kaeladusing446
    @kaeladusing446 7 років тому +1

    You are by far my favorite trans youtuber

  • @themaxxiim
    @themaxxiim 7 років тому +1

    I ... love this. Thank you for this, I needed this video.

  • @faultyhands
    @faultyhands 8 років тому +1

    aaah i start school tomorrow and i totally needed this !!

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому

      Good luck with school!

  • @Autisticblohsh
    @Autisticblohsh 4 роки тому +1

    I love your energie and the michael Jackson part is amazing tysm for helping me these tips are verry helpfull im also ftm trans and 15 years old so these tips are great tysm😊💙

  • @Monkai_Monkai
    @Monkai_Monkai 3 роки тому

    Mack youre a legend my dude

  • @AdamDarkoism
    @AdamDarkoism 8 років тому +2

    I love your vibes man x) And the confidence part is true, the more I am worried about "passing", the more I don't pass :3

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому +3

      I feel that! I often don't have confidence with people I've met in the past. But, I seem to have a lot more confidence when I'm meeting people for the first time.

  • @retardedpelle9320
    @retardedpelle9320 6 років тому +3

    “I’m just a striped kinda boyyy.” Me

  • @potcfan26
    @potcfan26 8 років тому +1

    Loved this video!

  • @none4530
    @none4530 8 років тому +4

    You're really great at explaining things! You'd be great at giving presentations or public speaking because of your amazing enunciation and captivating way of talking :)

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому

      Thank you! I've always loved public speaking in school, and that'd be very fun for me to do in the future!

  • @perryyoung5410
    @perryyoung5410 7 років тому

    finally someone who remembers to leave links in the description

  • @alexreid1173
    @alexreid1173 8 років тому +1

    I just discovered this channel and I absolutely love it.

  • @cannibal-picnic2655
    @cannibal-picnic2655 7 років тому +1

    This was really helpful!! You're a really funny guy too ^^ this is making me feel better about my dysphoria and fear of not passing already... Thanks for posting such great videos, I'll be sure to check out the rest of them!! ~ a fellow trans boy

  • @harleycline6
    @harleycline6 6 років тому

    I love this video so much!

  • @colefloyd4485
    @colefloyd4485 7 років тому +3

    Michael Jackson fan here lol, I love you! Thanks for the tips they helped.

  • @vnuiee
    @vnuiee 6 років тому

    6 seconds in and I already love you you are awesome wow

  • @ZombieMan1997
    @ZombieMan1997 7 років тому +1

    Dude you rock so much! Thank you!

  • @LeviShmevi
    @LeviShmevi 7 років тому

    You are so frickin great, man.

  • @MsRespect247
    @MsRespect247 7 років тому +1

    amen bro!! your so true on that passing shouldn't be a concern. I say," passing say my gender disphoria doesn't effect my day, the gender I am" to others that understand trans. then to the ones that don't understand its Not their problem.
    I love your videos your amazing.

  • @user-hg6qx2sz3o
    @user-hg6qx2sz3o 8 років тому +1

    whenever i feel like i'm not passing i'll think of this video and feel better :')

  • @kathrynebrown3890
    @kathrynebrown3890 8 років тому +2

    This is the best video I've ever seen 😂😂😂 it's so helpful and so fucking funny and I love it so much I'm dying.. You're so awesome 😂

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому +1

      Hahaha!! I'm glad you liked it! You're far more awesome ;P

  • @mr.meeseeks8201
    @mr.meeseeks8201 7 років тому

    omg your name is so cute! I love it!

  • @samuel-zb4qn
    @samuel-zb4qn 4 роки тому +1

    I am a closeted ftm and i am pretty lucky to have a flatter chest and shorter hair but my mom wont buy me boy clothes but i have some hand me downs from my older friend and cousin. Im not out to them but they just think i prefer more masculine clothes. This helps a lot thank you

  • @the.unknown2428
    @the.unknown2428 8 років тому +2

    Such an energetic video :D

  • @eyarberman-roth7868
    @eyarberman-roth7868 8 років тому +2

    This made me smile :)

  • @panination964
    @panination964 7 років тому +1

    Thank you so much for this

  • @deliriousdemons0119
    @deliriousdemons0119 7 років тому

    Omg I love ur personality lol!

  • @vinessa4109
    @vinessa4109 7 років тому +1

    There's something funny about me... I think about lowering my voice during the line to pay for things, aaaaaaand once it's time to speak I can't help but speak as a girl, lol
    If I don't speak at all when I pay for things they get intrusive or just curious and then they ask for my ID and I'm fucked :/

  • @nickd3487
    @nickd3487 7 років тому

    "let that shit flow free in the breeze" :)

  • @ainaa1892
    @ainaa1892 7 років тому

    omg this video makes me laugh but the advice is very good :)

  • @ALFIE19
    @ALFIE19 8 років тому +1

    ahhh I love your video style so much, I'm gonna take some leaves from your tree of video

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому +1

      Haha I love YOUR video style 😁

  • @jodiehunt8890
    @jodiehunt8890 8 років тому +1

    I told my trans friend about your passing tips he didn't know and it works! Thanks Mack (By the way, i didn't know people bind with duct tape)

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому

      So glad my tips could be of service! Yeah, some people used to bind with duct tape before binders were a more widely known thing to the trans community. It's really not a safe thing to do though!

    • @jodiehunt8890
      @jodiehunt8890 8 років тому

      MackMan( I don't know what one it is but) My friend likes your video when you go Aye-oh (Don't know why)
      P.S. Sorry if i am bothering you with my questions

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому

      +Flower Petal I think that might be this video? Haha and P.S. I love comments and questions :)

    • @jodiehunt8890
      @jodiehunt8890 8 років тому

      MackMan You're actually really nice and kind thanks for answering me

  • @jayharrison6971
    @jayharrison6971 7 років тому +1

    Definately gonna start using socks when I'm not round my dad till I'm 18 then I won't care who I'm around. I'm also gonna start wearing my watch on my left wrist that seems simple and weird but that's what a lot of my close male relatives wear it on. Simple things like that could help others.

  • @cerrihall6984
    @cerrihall6984 7 років тому

    xD omg thank you. You are helpful but funny at the same time and makes it seem like I shouldn't feel bad about my gender identity and that I should be who u am and that's a good thing. And nice smile btw

  • @brooklynwray2752
    @brooklynwray2752 6 років тому

    another couple of passing tips is yanno when you walk in a room full of CIS men to greet them its helpful if you safe them (touching fists) as to say like "safe bro" or a manly hug then it makes them feel like your one of the boys them may help you pass more

  • @sterryx6801
    @sterryx6801 5 років тому +1

    okay, this would help xd thx dude

  • @nonno318
    @nonno318 6 років тому

    I shave my hairline and it works!

  • @katecolvin7531
    @katecolvin7531 8 років тому +1

    i have a mens hair line so i show it off whenever i can...

  • @greatdanelegend7001
    @greatdanelegend7001 7 років тому

    thank you :)

  • @eikediefenbach1324
    @eikediefenbach1324 7 років тому

    I personally use makeup to give my face sharper features and an overall more masculine look

  • @vnuiee
    @vnuiee 6 років тому

    “yknow I’m just a striped kinda boy” I FUCKING SCREAMED “OH MY GOD MEEE” AND MY BROTHER SAID “WHAT WAS THAT” FROM THE OTHER ROOM OMFG

  • @synysterrock3982
    @synysterrock3982 8 років тому +1

    Ur so funny! 😂

  • @betsygirl19
    @betsygirl19 7 років тому

    great videos

  • @ashleysawyer4454
    @ashleysawyer4454 7 років тому

    your personality is so funny

  • @briannam5299
    @briannam5299 7 років тому

    one of my friends who is really sheltered once said that ur gender is not your opinion and even though I haven't came out yet that still hurts. I do wish I had someone to talk to but I don't want to burden people anymore than I already do

  • @noahampe5899
    @noahampe5899 7 років тому

    You are the best

  • @UlyssusReplayGamingMobile
    @UlyssusReplayGamingMobile 3 роки тому

    Mine is a pixie Buzz undercut.

  • @theysaystayinyour9213
    @theysaystayinyour9213 6 років тому

    I think my body is trying to help me out. I'm getting a ftm haircut this weekend and so I hide my hair in a hat until then. My school's librarian won't let us wear hoods or hats in the library. I have to go to the school library today and since I'm not out yet, I couldn't explain my situation to her. I ended up getting no sleep and sleeping in for hours, and when I did wake up I felt kinda sick. I take sleeping pills too. Why did they magically not work when I'm the best day possible? Once in a blue moon they don't work so I stay up all night, but today of all days? I'm very happy.

  • @blackberrybunny
    @blackberrybunny 7 років тому

    I love your exuberance~ !!

  • @UlyssusReplayGamingMobile
    @UlyssusReplayGamingMobile 3 роки тому

    Lots can’t identify me cuz i change my haircut from long to short hair.

  • @lampfacedampchase8048
    @lampfacedampchase8048 7 років тому

    THOSE GREEN SUNGLASSES

  • @noahb4621
    @noahb4621 7 років тому +1

    😂 thank you for this video

  • @anxiousrainbow559
    @anxiousrainbow559 6 років тому

    Where do I put the packer? In underwear or pants?

  • @brooklynwray2752
    @brooklynwray2752 6 років тому

    also i tell you this passing story i got for ya, the other day i walked into my girl mates boyfriends room he a CIS male and he was sitting on his bed playing his video game and i engaged with him whilst he was playing showing my interest in his video game so thats another way to pass

  • @miksul7297
    @miksul7297 7 років тому

    Hey:) found you here on youtube. So its hard to pass coz my hair...So like my parents dont allow me to get a short haircut😭 so how can i convince them to get a short hair cut

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  7 років тому +1

      When I wanted to get my hair cut short, I showed my mom pictures of beautiful famous girls with "pixie cuts". Maybe try that!

  • @gonzalocastilla
    @gonzalocastilla 7 років тому

    another tip: to make up your eyebrows in order to make then bigger

  • @MyvideoRock12345678
    @MyvideoRock12345678 8 років тому

    Have you ever had the issue that you passed but it was around people who you aren't out to? I was just wondering bc that happened to me when I was with my parents and it was absolutely terrifying but they luckily didn't notice it.

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому

      Yes I have! I've had that happen at restaurants multiple time with my mom! They've said "What can I get you sir?" And, my mom has said, "Oh, this is my daughter." And, then the waiter makes it really awkward by apologizing a bunch of times. I've had it happen with friends I'm not out to as well.

  • @RavenDayton
    @RavenDayton 6 років тому

    I already have a masculine hairline pre-t. Well fuck. I'm going to be that dude that's 20 with a combover lol

  • @laken8926
    @laken8926 6 років тому

    One thing that helps is smell, so use cologne or a deodorant targeted to men

  • @mrgreyskyz
    @mrgreyskyz 6 років тому

    I shave my baby hairs

  • @joeblack3451
    @joeblack3451 8 років тому +1

    I never heard of the tip that you shouldn't put your hair up hahahaha ouuups
    I actually think I look more feminin with my hair down, or maybe it's just that I look too nice and innocent :P

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому

      Haha I'm so jealous of your hair! It's always so perfect! I think you have a more masculine hairline anyways :P

  • @1979Saska
    @1979Saska 4 роки тому

    😍

  • @sniper2875
    @sniper2875 8 років тому +1

    y u didn't show ur leg hairs?and how it will be useful to pass out.?reply pls

    • @MackBayda
      @MackBayda  8 років тому

      No I didn't show my leg hair lol. I didn't think of it when I was filming, but did when I was editing. Passing is only helpful if you want people to look at you, and think you're male (or whatever gender you are- and what people to know you are). I don't want people to see me as female, so I try to look and act very masculine. This way, hopefully they'll read me as male right off the bat. But, by no means do you have to pass for your gender identity to be valid!

    • @sniper2875
      @sniper2875 8 років тому

      +MackMan better try drag king like stuff......... like fake beard ... fake moustaches... and all the stuff..😎

  • @perryyoung5410
    @perryyoung5410 7 років тому +1

    "i'm just a striped kinda boi"

  • @seasoneddegenerate7127
    @seasoneddegenerate7127 6 років тому

    I like you and all Mack... But... Why would you NOT want to pass?

  • @marcia257795
    @marcia257795 7 років тому

    please keep this character as human as possible , other youtuber has change so much And you are still cool

  • @easyacount4561
    @easyacount4561 4 роки тому

    Imma ftm michael Jackson impersonater. And i also stand the typical female way cuz one leg longer than the other.

  • @d.k.2272
    @d.k.2272 7 років тому

    Hee Hee! MJ LIVES!

  • @nickjohnson7935
    @nickjohnson7935 6 років тому

    I shave my hairline to look more masculine

  • @LeviShmevi
    @LeviShmevi 6 років тому

    "dO I pAsS?"

  • @leoqu1nn
    @leoqu1nn 7 років тому

  • @UlyssusReplayGamingMobile
    @UlyssusReplayGamingMobile 3 роки тому

    Men don’t like wearing too much jewelry

  • @popfrog13
    @popfrog13 7 років тому +1

    Baby hairs so annoying. Like what even is the purpose of baby hairs? Anyway thanks for the tips on passing as ftm.

  • @subtobreadrolls4606
    @subtobreadrolls4606 7 років тому

    Also if trans ppl are truly valid, you wouldn't have to scream it and make sure it's enforced. Pas.

    • @vitaminvici
      @vitaminvici 7 років тому

      Skate and Destroy243 He just speaks loudly.

    • @subtobreadrolls4606
      @subtobreadrolls4606 7 років тому

      +RedVelvetCake I meant scream as a figure of speech. You know what I mean.