I am SO TIRED of people eggshell walking around these males feelings! Nobody and not nobody would have this much grace and care talking to a woman who was doing this. They'd be DRAGGING HER. NORMALIZE DRAGGING THESE MALES. Its time to take off the kid gloves and get it in
I don't mean any disrespect but from what I have seen on the internet black American women coddle men more than anyone else, you can correct me if I'm wrong.
That part too. While they are still women that may give him a chance, he was so pressed about hearing ‘no’ or realizing he’s not being viewed as a prize.
The lady in the pink sweater said it best. The expectation of what it means to be a father is a MUCH lower bar than what it means to be a mother. Can a mother be a present and responsive parent to 8+ children? Then why is that acceptable behavior for men?
Women used to have 8 to 10 kids at one point...when family planning did not exist. They where forced to have all those kids. Usually, there was poverty, lack of education, lack of care, neglect, and poor health. Even when mom had love for all, there was no time for individual attention. Why would some one choose to do that to children. Even if the basic needs are being met...there is just no way 1 parent can give 8 kids the attention and care each child needs. Just cause a man remembers all 8 kids names and pays maintaince does not make him a good parent.
Because we allow it society has no control over what we do as individuals. When I was married I did 0 household chores because I refused I worked outside the home and made the most money. He got up at night when the kids were babies etc.
💯 I’ve been told I should be doing this and I should do that, as a single mother who works full time. But when it comes to my ex, they say “well he can’t do that, he has to work”. Seriously? And I don’t??
They may seem they are in the boat, but it’s not. For some reason, a single mother that has one or more kids is considered tainted goods, regardless of the race, however, for men regardless of race , having multiple children is seen as a sign of masculinity and conquering women by getting a woman pregnant, almost akin to a dog marking its territory. And we can’t forget how in the “buy bull “ in genesis states for males to spread their seeds all over the world. This is why bm cape for sorry baby daddies like Cam and Nick Cannon, and wm fawn all over Elon Musk besides those crappy Teslas. It’s the infamous #doublestandards at play.
He only wants more children because he's not the one raising them. He's probably one of those fathers who thinks that giving money is enough. Children need PRESENT FATHERS.
Exactly if he was taking care of school, doctors appointments, etc then he wouldn’t be saying this. The money alone is one factor but it shouldn’t be the only.
@@CadillacBoss30 Not really. I don’t see men from other cultures wanting a man like Cam for their daughters. It doesn’t look good. He should settle for his baby mamas instead.
8 kids, 3 moms, and you desire to get married?? Sir, you SCREAM commitment issues before even saying “I’m afraid of divorce more than marriage.” We can CLEARLY see that! But if this was a woman with 8 kids, 3 fathers, you’d be the FIRST to call her anything but a child of God and not give her the time of day. Be forreal Cam, you want someone to put up with your crap instead of being accountable for your lack of morals and values. You need to be by yourself, soul searching, and fixing your issues before you even sleep with the next.
The ego on this man is STAGGERING too. He acts like he's God's gift to all women. No sir, you are God's gift to the Pickmeshas who agreed to have your kids. Smart women will look at you and go, "oh HELL no!" I really hope these women put him on Child Support. Who is he, anyway? I've never heard of him before.
@@talyahr3302 at 1:16 he said “my point is my desire to marry is lower than my fear of divorce.” he also raised his hand higher when he said that saying how much he’s afraid of divorce
It's sad. If you know bm they are weak and walking on eggshells just to understand something or come to an agreement is emotionally interruptible to someones mind and body. That's hard. You can speak so politely and so calmly and they still DONT WANT to understand. It's worse than talking to a child.
The ego is hella strong with this one. And the ego won't be denied. The only way to check this man is if any woman he approached turned him down. Can you imagine the narcissistic wound he would sustain? Someone should write a movie script about that! lol
He did this the whole interview. As soon as she started talking he started to knock her down or at least try to. But she deflected most of his arguments and his low blows.
He deflects and speaks with a high and mighty attitude like he’s the prize. I feel sorry for them 8 kids. He’s a prime example of people who shouldn’t have kids. He’s having kids for his own desires, wants, needs and selfishness. But yet, many men think single childfree by choice women are selfish. 🤦🏾♀️
Bro is so delusional to think a woman is going to make him a good father. Like, he’s made three separate families and some woman is going to swoop in and inspire him to be good? He’s literal garbage
I'm the youngest of 3, our parents were married, and both were in the home with us until my mother passed away from breast cancer when I was 6. Even with just the 3 of us, I sometimes felt like our brother (the oldest) got more freedom and opportunity and more benefit of the doubt when he got in trouble. And there were times when I felt like I had to be in competition with my siblings (not because of anything our dad did, but more because of the way other people would compare us to each other). Probably just the insecurities of a kid, but still... Even if my mom hadn't died and we'd had the opportunity to grow up to adulthood with both parents married to each other and in the home, I can't imagine what it would have felt like to be one of 8 (or more) children when things were sometimes strained just between the 3 of us. Sometimes I feel like having more than a certain number of children is selfish even if both parents are married and in the home, because a lot of the childrearing responsibilities often fall on the oldest children (which cuts into their own childhood experiences and causes them to have to grow up early to care for children that they didn't bring into the world) and at some point probably all of the children will feel looked over or emotionally neglected. Even the best, most involved parents are going to struggle to have the time, energy, emotional capacity, and finances to treat every child exactly the same in a household with 5+ kids and still have time to earn an income and take care of themselves as individuals and as a couple. Not trying to tell folks how many children they should be having, but I will probably keep it under 3 just to make sure each child has the chance to feel fully loved and supported.
I grew up half and I experienced both. My mom only had me but he went on to have more kids and get married so i was always an afterthought. There was another podcaster who talked about why they do this. Its pure selfishness. You cant be a masculine man with kids all over the place who get different treatment.
I disagree with some men saying a man like Cam can still marry. Not many fathers would want someone like Cam as a son in law or for a husband for their daughter. Smart beautiful educated women wouldn’t marry Cam, when there’s plenty of options to choose from.
Not all daughters have fathers in their lives. My father died when I was a teenager. Why does it have to be a father not wanting a man like Cam for his daughter? Maybe as women our standards need to change. We need to stop fearing being alone. No man, not even your father should set the standard for something like who your husband should be. You have to live with him til death do you part. You have to sleep with him. You have live with the outcome of procreating with him because some of these men should have their genes die out but alas we have women willing to continue the line of stupidity and weakness because they don't want to die alone. Newsflash, we all die alone anyway.
She ate him up so respectfully and I love that for her. These men bring women on their shows whom they don’t agree with just to degrade them and tear them down. That’s low functioning behavior. She didn’t have to do all of that. She articulated eloquently and still told it like it was. To tell him she doesn’t want what he has or what he offers to these women, bruised that ego heavy and sent the proper message. Well done to her.
My best friend grew up in a broken household she has 12 half slibings her father was a womanizer and although he paid child support he wasn't active in her life men if you are going to have children be present in their life.
They can leave the child too. They’re just egotistical and want their genes to be passed on and live on and create another version of themselves. And they know marriage requires him to be a protector, provider and leader and they hate that
That’s because marriage hurts their pockets, while they know they have the option to take care of their kids. They KNOW they can slack off of parenting and the woman will do it or they can just choose to walk away with no consequences and the woman will pick up the slack either way. They KNOW THIS so that’s why they rather create the kids than lose a few dollars to a lot of money in a marriage or divorce. It’s just the delusional women that are male Obsessed that live to take these males talking points that just regurgitate everything that males say. Most black women don’t know why they say most stuff. They just say it because black males say it even if it’s to their detriment.
he is in complete control of when and with whom he has children with. so for him to look up to the sky and call upon god as if he has no control over the decisions he makes is disgusting. "i just want god to bring 'em." gtfoh. you can tell by the way he talks that he thinks he's intelligent. but "here's the kicker"...he isn't.
When I tell you, that the first 15 seconds of their conversation is all I need to know about Cam in a relationship. He ain't worth it, and I don't care how much money he has. Cam: A lot of people see my situation and think that I'm not high functioning. Dr: What situation? Cam: that's a vague question, what do you mean situation? Dr: in the first sentence you said people see my situation... Cam: my life Dr: people think you're low functioning CAM: No, I didn't say.... Dr: the opposite of high functioning is low Cam: see you're trying to take my intentions away... Be FRFR! I can guarantee when he argues, he fights dirty and throws around a lot of gaslighting and manipulation.
She’s right, any educated woman wouldn’t touch Cam or Nick. Which means the women they do come in contact with are unfortunately low functioning. Which therefore makes them, low functioning. He’s not even intelligent with his talking points. He expects women to fumble over and not pay attention to what he’s saying. But when you listen to him, he makes absolutely no sense. He wants to continue to be a manipulative fool, he likes where he’s at. It serves him, he’s beyond selfish it’s actually deplorable.
Aaaaand I bet all my back teeth, money in the bank and future interest that : *HE WANTS TO MARRY A WOMAN WITH NO KIDS* 😂😂 THE AUDACITY!!!! Bombastic Side Eye 😒
Cam has 8 kids and can't seem to understand why a woman with no kids wouldn't want to date him, lol. I have two kids, and I wouldn't want to date him either.
I grew up as an only child with a single mom, dad has 5 other kids by different women. I got to watch one actually have a present father while i missed out...until he did it to my younger sibling too. And phone calls, visiting is NOT the same as having a father at home! I have clearly been affected by it
Same here. I got to see 3 of my step brothers grow up with a father. But my father’s only daughters (I have a twin sister) didn’t. It’s whatever now, he isn’t in my life and I blocked him. Getting married next year and my godfather is walking me down the aisle.
As soon as he said 8 children, I wished she would have, very demurely, asked: "And their full names and birthdays are?" You know he doesn't know. Even his hat hates him.
Honestly, it was refreshing to see that doctor at the end because I feel like she was talking to me. Social media paints such a good picture that you forget that just because we want it doesn’t mean it’s good for us.
This goes to shows that most BM have a scarcity mindset and they lack. They’re more worried about losing the little they have rather than building to have more and making healthier dynamics for themselves and those like them
Unfortunately yes. It breaks my heart to say but there are women out there who are dumb enough to give this man kids. I mean he already has 8, what's stopping him from making more?
If a parent ever exhibits questionable behavior towards their spouse, the question should be, "If your kid married a person like you, how would you take it?"
*THE LADY IN THE PINK SWEATSHIRT NAILED IT PERFECTLY* "Help is not partnership. Helping assumes someone else has primary responsibility." 12:30 *THIS ATE DOWN*
This message is really resonating with me, as pressure from family to get coupled up rises in my life. Watching this made me feel like I am not wrong/ selfish for taking my time to really understand what I want and how to get there, rather than jumping blindly with both feet into something I may never get out of the same, or even alive.
I used to work with a pick me who married a supervisor who had 3 children by the different women. I heard he cheats on her, and she had a baby to compete with the other baby mamas.
I don't understand why most BM do not get that kids need BOTH. They need a present father who can provide. Not either or. What's so difficult to get?! Is it because most didn't have both so they cannot fathom providing both or is it that their brains don't work? 🤔 Wtf?!
Eight children? He lost me there i couldn't really even afford one thats the part that makes it hard on women to trust men because i heard that at least 50 percent of bw and ww have no children. We are not having babies out of wedlock anymore so they have to find some sort of other way to make us feel weird or different or guilty for not having them. Its not as common as he thinks for a woman to pump out 8 children it means his wife had a unique uterus and he saw some sort of tax break he could get for it.
There are people (men) who find more issue with the lady talking to Cam bc she’s 40+ single, and childless. They said she has no right to speak on his situations and is a red flag bc she’s single and childless. I find that men who grew up with the same dynamics (fatherless, or father barely there) find no issue with it. They didn’t even grow up with the financial privileges these kids have. It’s actually sick. They hate there mothers more than they do their fathers. And then hate women
They don't hate their fathers for impregnating their mothers and abandoning them. They hate their mothers for birthing them. This is why women should NOT birth boys when they are not married. You should not birth a son and expect him to respect you when his father disappeared. If he divorces you and disappears, give that son over to an orphanage to raise. Maybe this and only this, will teach men not to abandon their sons. Maybe this, will break the cycle of abuse.
Men without money also abandon kids annnnd they cant provide financially for them. Both are risks but the only way a woman should be caught in tht trap is if he doesn't have a history of broken homes behind him.
That last stitch: “Stop wanting things that aren’t yours; stop wanting things that don’t belong to you; that’s called DESPAIR!” OMG that is the mic drop of all time. That hits like…
Sad thing is my mother is one of those women. My dad cheats on her multiple times, had two kids who sadly passed away at birth, gave her multiple STDs (not hiv thank god) and convinced my little brother that he doesn’t have to work in life. I’m happy that I refuse to deal with that idiot and went on my own path.
I've been with my man for a little over a year now and we're starting get a bit more serious about planning for the future. So far we both seem to be aligned with what we want in terms of building a family, and that has me cautiously excited and optimistic. But watching these types of videos is providing me with additional questions to ask him about his perspectives on marriage and parental responsibilities so I can dig deeper and do as much vetting as I can. I've never been married and haven't had any children yet. I refuse to be some man's baby mama no matter how much I think I love him. I've been so careful up to this point for a reason. I described to him the kind of man my father has been for us, and told him any man that wants to be with me HAS to come with that same energy of he might as well keep it moving. He said he completely understands, but I'm still going to have him watch these interviews with me to see how he processes Cam's and Nick's responses and excuses.
❤Love this for you and you are starting out correctly but please don't describe what you want in a man to him or he may start performing. Just ask open ended questions and then LISTEN to what he says.
I am in the right comment section. The man who impregnated my mother is coming back years later saying “I noticed you don’t greet me and you treat me as a stranger..lets talk about it” (summary of the conversation) I told him I don’t know him at all, all of a sudden my “dad” leaves at the age of 4 and for YEARS nobody tells me anything, then when I am graduating and my siblings are graduating this man starts appearing… and guess what, he’s claiming he’s my dad? Then he comes over often, and later brings a little girl age about 8 years old, says that is my little sister! Actually it was August 2, 2024 when he asked me again why I treat him coldly and I SPOKE UP! Then he tried to say it was hard because of CHILD SUPPORT MONEY? And because he lied about not having two wives when we came to canada he has debt to pay (he has multiple kids including the half siblings i knew about, since we came to Canada together- that’s 3 half siblings plus us 5) I said honestly I didn’t expect any familial relationship with him because my whole life I have only known my mother as my parent. PLEASE, consider who you’re having a child with. (Might delete later)
I’m so glad I took time off! I’m in the garden picking veggies and listening along. Hello from Kansas, USA! Opinion: this is why I raise my daughters to be self sufficient so they won’t attract some “leader” like this crazy male.
Men and women are to work together like God intended. We have strengths they don’t have and vice versa. Self sufficient is cool and all. But it’s better to go by the dynamic of human relations. We can’t do everything alone Be careful if becoming too self sufficient. I am myself. Maybe one day your daughters may want help but people around don’t really look at you for actually needing help or wanting it. So you end up doing EVERYTHING by yourself and that gets exhausting
Let me just say the only thing I don’t agree with is people talking about how she handled him. I don’t believe in being disrespectful but I’m tired of us women always having to duck and dodge and beat around the bush in our tone and how we talk to them. No im not coddling his feelings or ego. I don’t have to handle no grown man with no grace and love especially the ones like him . He wasn’t even receiving it anyway because of his self sabotaging ego
This one☝️it’s the audacity of people trying to compare Kevin Kitten Heels to Dr. Bryant by saying that he was giving black women the same message. When he doesn’t have a phd let along lived the narrative that he was portraying.🥴
@@CadillacBoss30 Lord have mercy eeeeh when you don't know who you are and your value thats what happens. The girl explained how much she does for him when he comes home from work in an interview so saaad for all the women 😒
That clown has a somewhat viral interview/conversation with Shan Boody being the most insufferable pick me. She still wasn't picked, though. Who would've thought?/s
The interview: She flattered him in order to gain purchase to speak in a very tame and non-confrontational way about his serial family starting and lack of commitment to parenting. He was too fragile for direct confrontation. This is pitiful.
He tried that stupid word salad stuff with her, she was assertive and straight forward. And weren’t allowing him to manipulate her. “Can I correct it” I would’ve said no.
He sounds proud of the life he’s created for himself. If that’s the case, he shouldn’t be dancing around answering her questions or be bothered about how other people feel about his current situation. He also shouldn’t have a problem with adopting kids and raising them all on his own. He wants more children? There are plenty looking for a safe and loving home. Go get em, Tiger😁
Ahhhh I am reminded every day that I made the right choice in remaining childfree and marriage free. Y’all can have these losers!! My skin is glowing since I stopped delving in dusty bandits!! 😍🤩
Love how, she makes sure he doesn't deflect and give half assed answers. She respectful and makes sure A. he answers the question asked. And B. makes sure everyone knows what he means, even when his dumbass don't know what he means..... Like she said if you're not high functioning, than you'd be low functioning but see he didn't wanna hear that.
There have been studies done on children from families with large numbers of children. The younger ones get to a point in their childhood, when they have the cognitive ability to look around and understand their place in the family, in which they start questioning why they were even born. These children have existential crises at 11, 12, 13 years old. I don’t know how this would translate to children of the same father in different households. Having so many children, knowing one will absolutely not be around is irresponsible at best. Dude is obviously a narcissist.
He is a huge red flag, I would instantly block him everywhere after finding out that he has so many kids. I hope that he won't ruin any more women lives.
Last clip ate 😂 How is he going to come back from that hahaha Love your content Priscilla ❤️ your videos are the cream to my morning coffee😊 Love from the Philippines ❤❤❤
Men like Cam Newton and even Nick Cannon just annoy the hell out of me. They always talk in this way where they like to pretend they are so much more smarter and intellectual than they actually are.
When I meet a dude with a bunch of kids from several women, I don't even care if he was married to a couple of them...I'm out. He's loose with his body and I'm getting in line behind all that. There will be drama and why would I want that in my life. The next ones I pass by is any guy with stories of why he is not involved with his kids. I'm not trying to hear it unless it starts with I was a young idiot and ends with I've been working hard to redeem myself and he can tell me about his current involvement in their lives. But there still can't be 20 kids by 10 women. Otherwise, he needs to go be there for all those kids. And that should be his focus.
A “broken nuclear family home structure” can also happen with the parents remaining together in the household. I was raised in a broken home, and my parents didn’t divorce. They both died at early ages. ❤
He sounds slow. My ex-husband tried this with me after we divorced. The superiority, rephrasing, circle jerk speech thing to bolster his ego. The kid thing is similar too. Between the abandonment issues, the superiority and entitlement complex, as well as people that “feel bad” for the adult children…you don’t have to drag them, but men who want this need to be held to the same standard as the women they’re trying to devalue. He did find one he could do it to though and made sure to knock her up a few times real quick to secure the position.
I want to know the state of mind of babymama #3. What did he tell her, or what is she telling herself to even DATE......him. What woman in her right frame of mind would even DATE him. Never mind sleep with him, get impregnated by him, live with him, help him with 7....SEVEN....kids that aren't by her. Let's just get to the DATE part. How and why did she say yes to a DATE 🤔 That's the part I want to know.
@@aprilwashington3150 I honestly think it's the desire to comfortable in life over being committed to. These women might consider that optional, if they consider it at all, not as a prerequisite to create and raise a child.
I am SO TIRED of people eggshell walking around these males feelings! Nobody and not nobody would have this much grace and care talking to a woman who was doing this. They'd be DRAGGING HER. NORMALIZE DRAGGING THESE MALES. Its time to take off the kid gloves and get it in
Exactly. Stop showing men grace because they would never do the same for you
I don't mean any disrespect but from what I have seen on the internet black American women coddle men more than anyone else, you can correct me if I'm wrong.
@@o_rosey yes and thats who I'm talking to. You made my point. Thank you
I'd rather ignore them
Yes. That's what I said. It's worse than talking to a child. Walking on eggshells? Naw. Child man.
He was triggered when that woman said she wouldn't date a man who would create broken home. Bring back shame.
That part too.
While they are still women that may give him a chance, he was so pressed about hearing ‘no’ or realizing he’s not being viewed as a prize.
@@thinkinginn7443 Exactly! There's power in that.
The lady in the pink sweater said it best. The expectation of what it means to be a father is a MUCH lower bar than what it means to be a mother. Can a mother be a present and responsive parent to 8+ children? Then why is that acceptable behavior for men?
Women used to have 8 to 10 kids at one point...when family planning did not exist. They where forced to have all those kids. Usually, there was poverty, lack of education, lack of care, neglect, and poor health. Even when mom had love for all, there was no time for individual attention. Why would some one choose to do that to children. Even if the basic needs are being met...there is just no way 1 parent can give 8 kids the attention and care each child needs. Just cause a man remembers all 8 kids names and pays maintaince does not make him a good parent.
Because we allow it society has no control over what we do as individuals. When I was married I did 0 household chores because I refused I worked outside the home and made the most money. He got up at night when the kids were babies etc.
Because men say it is and what they say is supposed to be law! 😂
💯 I’ve been told I should be doing this and I should do that, as a single mother who works full time. But when it comes to my ex, they say “well he can’t do that, he has to work”. Seriously? And I don’t??
Women ALLOWED this behavior by continuing to find him attractive enough to procreate with.
As a 40yr old childfree woman, these males get on these apps and remind me why I protected my womb.
Yep.....lol... these same men mad cause I have a cat....sir you have a whole bunch of people!!!!! That's way more responsibility 😂😅
@@cocomo3141 And they don't even don't even take care of them
Baby daddy culture should be shamed just as shaming baby mama culture.
Aren't they the same culture?
They may seem they are in the boat, but it’s not. For some reason, a single mother that has one or more kids is considered tainted goods, regardless of the race, however, for men regardless of race , having multiple children is seen as a sign of masculinity and conquering women by getting a woman pregnant, almost akin to a dog marking its territory. And we can’t forget how in the “buy bull “ in genesis states for males to spread their seeds all over the world. This is why bm cape for sorry baby daddies like Cam and Nick Cannon, and wm fawn all over Elon Musk besides those crappy Teslas. It’s the infamous #doublestandards at play.
@@icantwiththisthey aren’t or they aren’t treated the same
@@icantwiththisshould be but it’s treated very differently. Praised for men.
I shame them. It's completely disgusting and I teach my sons that.
He only wants more children because he's not the one raising them. He's probably one of those fathers who thinks that giving money is enough. Children need PRESENT FATHERS.
Exactly
Exactly if he was taking care of school, doctors appointments, etc then he wouldn’t be saying this. The money alone is one factor but it shouldn’t be the only.
Yep
It's pathetic and disgusting.
Show me a man that wants more children, and I will show you a man who is not made to actually take care of his children.
He's ran through and low value. Nobody is ever going to marry him.
The sad part is if he announced he wants to get married, the line of beautiful women of all races will be wrapped around the block.
@@CadillacBoss30 Not really. I don’t see men from other cultures wanting a man like Cam for their daughters. It doesn’t look good. He should settle for his baby mamas instead.
Now we wait for the manchild squad to come and say 'but he is a man, you gotta understand him!' 😂
Someone will marry him sadly. Men control that. They see a black man with money and automatically they flock.
His live in girlfriend/3rd baby mama had a whole comedy tour called “Third Time’s the Charm” . She would definitely marry him in a heartbeat.
And he got the nerve to cross his legs like he superior. The audacity 😂
Lol he’s a dusty
Inna deadbeat dad style 😂😂😂
A low life.
😂😂😂
Congo Dandy😂
8 kids, 3 moms, and you desire to get married?? Sir, you SCREAM commitment issues before even saying “I’m afraid of divorce more than marriage.” We can CLEARLY see that! But if this was a woman with 8 kids, 3 fathers, you’d be the FIRST to call her anything but a child of God and not give her the time of day. Be forreal Cam, you want someone to put up with your crap instead of being accountable for your lack of morals and values. You need to be by yourself, soul searching, and fixing your issues before you even sleep with the next.
The ego on this man is STAGGERING too. He acts like he's God's gift to all women. No sir, you are God's gift to the Pickmeshas who agreed to have your kids. Smart women will look at you and go, "oh HELL no!" I really hope these women put him on Child Support. Who is he, anyway? I've never heard of him before.
Like, he doesn't see that much baggage as low value?! Cause I do
He said the opposite. He's not afraid of divorce.
@@talyahr3302 He said at 1:16 “my desire to get married is lower than my fear of divorce.”
@@talyahr3302 at 1:16 he said “my point is my desire to marry is lower than my fear of divorce.”
he also raised his hand higher when he said that saying how much he’s afraid of divorce
He's not raising those children, that's why he wants more! The burden is on the woman like every other case...
the way he talks to her is hilarious, she's trying to help him make sense, and he is trying to check her 😭😂😂 hHahhaa
Like the fool he is. There's no reasoning with people like him.
It's sad. If you know bm they are weak and walking on eggshells just to understand something or come to an agreement is emotionally interruptible to someones mind and body. That's hard. You can speak so politely and so calmly and they still DONT WANT to understand. It's worse than talking to a child.
He sounds like his elevator doesn’t go up or that 🍃 was super strong he is floating in the clouds
The ego is hella strong with this one. And the ego won't be denied. The only way to check this man is if any woman he approached turned him down. Can you imagine the narcissistic wound he would sustain? Someone should write a movie script about that! lol
He did this the whole interview. As soon as she started talking he started to knock her down or at least try to. But she deflected most of his arguments and his low blows.
He deflects and speaks with a high and mighty attitude like he’s the prize. I feel sorry for them 8 kids. He’s a prime example of people who shouldn’t have kids. He’s having kids for his own desires, wants, needs and selfishness. But yet, many men think single childfree by choice women are selfish. 🤦🏾♀️
He’s a clown. 🤡
And looks like a Dr Suess character
Certified😂
No man who has 8 kids with 3 women can possibly be a good father. They're ain't enough hours in the day.
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@@UnrealDreamer3598 what’s 2A?
@@Emptytopfloorrights to bare arms
@@louveniawilliast9178 I see. Ty.
This part!!!
Nobody wearing that hat should have children - there I said it.
😂😂😂
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Thank you I was looking for this comment.
Lol! Right?!!!❤
And the onesies ☕️
If you are a baby daddy to multiple children....it is a NOPE for me. He chose to be irresponsible and has no love or regard for children.
Bro is so delusional to think a woman is going to make him a good father. Like, he’s made three separate families and some woman is going to swoop in and inspire him to be good? He’s literal garbage
This is what it will take for these type of men to stick to one woman. Availability
Nor women.
I was an only child. I grew up as incredibly spoiled. I can't imagine sharing my father with 7 other kids that are barely related to me.
This
This is pure insanity and selfishness from these toxic men that women and children have to handle… Feel free to judge me, I’ll still be childfree.
Had 10 siblings bro and i always say there's noway am having more then 4 even 4 is pushing it😭
I'm the youngest of 3, our parents were married, and both were in the home with us until my mother passed away from breast cancer when I was 6. Even with just the 3 of us, I sometimes felt like our brother (the oldest) got more freedom and opportunity and more benefit of the doubt when he got in trouble. And there were times when I felt like I had to be in competition with my siblings (not because of anything our dad did, but more because of the way other people would compare us to each other). Probably just the insecurities of a kid, but still...
Even if my mom hadn't died and we'd had the opportunity to grow up to adulthood with both parents married to each other and in the home, I can't imagine what it would have felt like to be one of 8 (or more) children when things were sometimes strained just between the 3 of us. Sometimes I feel like having more than a certain number of children is selfish even if both parents are married and in the home, because a lot of the childrearing responsibilities often fall on the oldest children (which cuts into their own childhood experiences and causes them to have to grow up early to care for children that they didn't bring into the world) and at some point probably all of the children will feel looked over or emotionally neglected. Even the best, most involved parents are going to struggle to have the time, energy, emotional capacity, and finances to treat every child exactly the same in a household with 5+ kids and still have time to earn an income and take care of themselves as individuals and as a couple.
Not trying to tell folks how many children they should be having, but I will probably keep it under 3 just to make sure each child has the chance to feel fully loved and supported.
I grew up half and I experienced both. My mom only had me but he went on to have more kids and get married so i was always an afterthought. There was another podcaster who talked about why they do this. Its pure selfishness. You cant be a masculine man with kids all over the place who get different treatment.
I disagree with some men saying a man like Cam can still marry. Not many fathers would want someone like Cam as a son in law or for a husband for their daughter. Smart beautiful educated women wouldn’t marry Cam, when there’s plenty of options to choose from.
He is very low rent. He has money but that's it. He's not attractive, and he seems terribly ignorant. And he has EIGHT kids.😂
How many fathers are that involved with their grown daughters 2 stop it and who says the woman would care what their dad said anyway.
Not all daughters have fathers in their lives. My father died when I was a teenager. Why does it have to be a father not wanting a man like Cam for his daughter? Maybe as women our standards need to change. We need to stop fearing being alone. No man, not even your father should set the standard for something like who your husband should be. You have to live with him til death do you part. You have to sleep with him. You have live with the outcome of procreating with him because some of these men should have their genes die out but alas we have women willing to continue the line of stupidity and weakness because they don't want to die alone. Newsflash, we all die alone anyway.
plenty of options??? who's lining up to marry bw?!
There are more women who will still sign up for this though
The mindset of some of these males is just pathetic. Dr. Bryant was really preaching 👏🏾
He thought he was talking to the type of woman he has those children by but he found out real quick! Sitting there talking about a bunch of nothing!
She ate him up so respectfully and I love that for her. These men bring women on their shows whom they don’t agree with just to degrade them and tear them down. That’s low functioning behavior. She didn’t have to do all of that. She articulated eloquently and still told it like it was. To tell him she doesn’t want what he has or what he offers to these women, bruised that ego heavy and sent the proper message. Well done to her.
Divorce affects HIM. Broken homes hurt the CHILDREN. He doesn't care about their hurt. Only his pockets/feelings.
There. You're welcome.
My best friend grew up in a broken household she has 12 half slibings her father was a womanizer and although he paid child support he wasn't active in her life men if you are going to have children be present in their life.
I don’t understand the whole “marriage is more a commitment than children”. Wtf!! You can leave a marriage, not so easy with a child.
They can leave the child too. They’re just egotistical and want their genes to be passed on and live on and create another version of themselves. And they know marriage requires him to be a protector, provider and leader and they hate that
@@fitnessen2860 of course they can leave the child too. I said it’s not so easy not that’s it’s impossible. My comment was more so for Woman.
That’s because marriage hurts their pockets, while they know they have the option to take care of their kids. They KNOW they can slack off of parenting and the woman will do it or they can just choose to walk away with no consequences and the woman will pick up the slack either way. They KNOW THIS so that’s why they rather create the kids than lose a few dollars to a lot of money in a marriage or divorce. It’s just the delusional women that are male Obsessed that live to take these males talking points that just regurgitate everything that males say. Most black women don’t know why they say most stuff. They just say it because black males say it even if it’s to their detriment.
Men abandon their children . All the time. Women allow it.
@@fitnessen2860interesting thing is if you want to back track genetics it follows the female line
he is in complete control of when and with whom he has children with. so for him to look up to the sky and call upon god as if he has no control over the decisions he makes is disgusting. "i just want god to bring 'em." gtfoh. you can tell by the way he talks that he thinks he's intelligent. but "here's the kicker"...he isn't.
For me that’s a confession that he doesn’t bother with birth control and then calls it destiny.
True! And…God does not support his way of life so why would he *bless* him with a wife?
@@motchiko904👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯🙌🏾🙌🏾 THAT PART ‼️‼️‼️‼️
When I tell you, that the first 15 seconds of their conversation is all I need to know about Cam in a relationship. He ain't worth it, and I don't care how much money he has.
Cam: A lot of people see my situation and think that I'm not high functioning.
Dr: What situation?
Cam: that's a vague question, what do you mean situation?
Dr: in the first sentence you said people see my situation...
Cam: my life
Dr: people think you're low functioning
CAM: No, I didn't say....
Dr: the opposite of high functioning is low
Cam: see you're trying to take my intentions away...
Be FRFR! I can guarantee when he argues, he fights dirty and throws around a lot of gaslighting and manipulation.
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She’s right, any educated woman wouldn’t touch Cam or Nick. Which means the women they do come in contact with are unfortunately low functioning. Which therefore makes them, low functioning. He’s not even intelligent with his talking points. He expects women to fumble over and not pay attention to what he’s saying. But when you listen to him, he makes absolutely no sense. He wants to continue to be a manipulative fool, he likes where he’s at. It serves him, he’s beyond selfish it’s actually deplorable.
I clocked that too. He introduced the idea then acted as though she attacked him by repeating his words.
Aaaaand I bet all my back teeth, money in the bank and future interest that : *HE WANTS TO MARRY A WOMAN WITH NO KIDS* 😂😂 THE AUDACITY!!!!
Bombastic Side Eye 😒
Cam has 8 kids and can't seem to understand why a woman with no kids wouldn't want to date him, lol. I have two kids, and I wouldn't want to date him either.
Eight kids by three women and he wants more!! 😧
@@JaneNoordpool right , and he never said with who 😵💫 never mentions any of his other baby mamas
@@MelaniaRose exactly very disturbing 🚩
@@MelaniaRose he's currently babymama shopping 😂
I grew up as an only child with a single mom, dad has 5 other kids by different women. I got to watch one actually have a present father while i missed out...until he did it to my younger sibling too. And phone calls, visiting is NOT the same as having a father at home! I have clearly been affected by it
This was my life too. Having to witness that is what made me never want this life.
Same here I cut mine off when I was 29 break the cycle ❤
Same here. I got to see 3 of my step brothers grow up with a father. But my father’s only daughters (I have a twin sister) didn’t. It’s whatever now, he isn’t in my life and I blocked him. Getting married next year and my godfather is walking me down the aisle.
As soon as he said 8 children, I wished she would have, very demurely, asked: "And their full names and birthdays are?" You know he doesn't know. Even his hat hates him.
That's a good one! 👍
Dusty men come in all forms 🙄
I’m so glad I took time off! I’m in the garden picking veggies and listening along.
Hello from Kansas, USA!
Hi there, enjoy your day gardening 😊
@@Priscilla_Boye Thanks, Ms, Boye!
Wholesome! 😍
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Honestly, it was refreshing to see that doctor at the end because I feel like she was talking to me. Social media paints such a good picture that you forget that just because we want it doesn’t mean it’s good for us.
Ditto ❤
This goes to shows that most BM have a scarcity mindset and they lack. They’re more worried about losing the little they have rather than building to have more and making healthier dynamics for themselves and those like them
Cam says that’s“vague” then responds with my life even more vague lol. You can’t make this ish up.
He just wanted to say vague! Lmao.
He makes a vague statement, she repeats it while asking what he mean, he responds with that vague..... Sir hush. 😂😂😂😊
I won’t date a guy with one kid let alone 8 🤣
He put his life on display and didnt like the reflection.
Does this guy think anyone's going to take him, after all this time and him being so run-through and all?
Unfortunately yes. It breaks my heart to say but there are women out there who are dumb enough to give this man kids. I mean he already has 8, what's stopping him from making more?
They will ,for the money
Which isn't great either
His wallet hit the wall after riding the kitty carousel. He has no gold to dig!
Someone will.. and it will be a low self esteem black woman. Because we love to fix men. Just disgusting.
A pickmesha did 😂
Who are the women who willingly chose to be the baby mamas more than once to this man????? Ladies come on now!
Since when are 8 kids,3 different women, and at least 3 sets of child support payments... less stressful than a potential divorce.
I honestly do not feel sorry for the next woman who willingly pushes out a child for this man.
Money, sex and things mean a lot to bm
Not children, the actual woman and foundation. yes. 89%of them
THIS!!! I don't understand what is so confusing to understand about BM... and BW ESPECIALLY should know this by now about BM 🤦♀️
@@iamoverit4905 some just have hope and keep trying and others get bamboozled. Satan works in BM.
If a parent ever exhibits questionable behavior towards their spouse, the question should be, "If your kid married a person like you, how would you take it?"
Pink shirt, glasses? She was spitting facts.
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*THE LADY IN THE PINK SWEATSHIRT NAILED IT PERFECTLY* "Help is not partnership. Helping assumes someone else has primary responsibility." 12:30 *THIS ATE DOWN*
These people don’t think about their children or lovely animals or pets... They only think 💭 about their own selfish needs.
"You're not taking your time, you're being very action based" 🤣 She was so DONE
This message is really resonating with me, as pressure from family to get coupled up rises in my life. Watching this made me feel like I am not wrong/ selfish for taking my time to really understand what I want and how to get there, rather than jumping blindly with both feet into something I may never get out of the same, or even alive.
It's like any other high pressure sales tactic, one has to carefully assess the situation before committing oneself. Proud of you for seeing that.
I used to work with a pick me who married a supervisor who had 3 children by the different women. I heard he cheats on her, and she had a baby to compete with the other baby mamas.
I don't understand why most BM do not get that kids need BOTH. They need a present father who can provide. Not either or. What's so difficult to get?! Is it because most didn't have both so they cannot fathom providing both or is it that their brains don't work? 🤔 Wtf?!
They understand but they can't do both so they say we don't need it
Eight children? He lost me there i couldn't really even afford one thats the part that makes it hard on women to trust men because i heard that at least 50 percent of bw and ww have no children.
We are not having babies out of wedlock anymore so they have to find some sort of other way to make us feel weird or different or guilty for not having them. Its not as common as he thinks for a woman to pump out 8 children it means his wife had a unique uterus and he saw some sort of tax break he could get for it.
He has three baby mommas for these 8 kids, but I see your point!
Can't teach a old dog new tricks. In one ear out the other.
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There are people (men) who find more issue with the lady talking to Cam bc she’s 40+ single, and childless. They said she has no right to speak on his situations and is a red flag bc she’s single and childless. I find that men who grew up with the same dynamics (fatherless, or father barely there) find no issue with it. They didn’t even grow up with the financial privileges these kids have. It’s actually sick. They hate there mothers more than they do their fathers. And then hate women
They don't hate their fathers for impregnating their mothers and abandoning them. They hate their mothers for birthing them. This is why women should NOT birth boys when they are not married. You should not birth a son and expect him to respect you when his father disappeared. If he divorces you and disappears, give that son over to an orphanage to raise. Maybe this and only this, will teach men not to abandon their sons. Maybe this, will break the cycle of abuse.
Men without money also abandon kids annnnd they cant provide financially for them. Both are risks but the only way a woman should be caught in tht trap is if he doesn't have a history of broken homes behind him.
Priscilla, I was waiting for you to review this one 😂😂😂
You never disappoint! 💯
My overthinking self was not going to let me post this but glad you like it.
@@Priscilla_Boye Overthinking... yeah... I can relate 🥲
See you on your next post 🙂
No fr I’m actually over hearing everyone’s views but her review is what I deem most valuable.. I clicked so fast
@@EnvyyMe16thanks hun ❤❤
That last stitch: “Stop wanting things that aren’t yours; stop wanting things that don’t belong to you; that’s called DESPAIR!” OMG that is the mic drop of all time. That hits like…
Sad thing is my mother is one of those women. My dad cheats on her multiple times, had two kids who sadly passed away at birth, gave her multiple STDs (not hiv thank god) and convinced my little brother that he doesn’t have to work in life. I’m happy that I refuse to deal with that idiot and went on my own path.
I've been with my man for a little over a year now and we're starting get a bit more serious about planning for the future. So far we both seem to be aligned with what we want in terms of building a family, and that has me cautiously excited and optimistic. But watching these types of videos is providing me with additional questions to ask him about his perspectives on marriage and parental responsibilities so I can dig deeper and do as much vetting as I can.
I've never been married and haven't had any children yet. I refuse to be some man's baby mama no matter how much I think I love him. I've been so careful up to this point for a reason. I described to him the kind of man my father has been for us, and told him any man that wants to be with me HAS to come with that same energy of he might as well keep it moving. He said he completely understands, but I'm still going to have him watch these interviews with me to see how he processes Cam's and Nick's responses and excuses.
❤Love this for you and you are starting out correctly but please don't describe what you want in a man to him or he may start performing. Just ask open ended questions and then LISTEN to what he says.
@@lilianoga937this is good advice ^^
I am in the right comment section. The man who impregnated my mother is coming back years later saying “I noticed you don’t greet me and you treat me as a stranger..lets talk about it” (summary of the conversation) I told him I don’t know him at all, all of a sudden my “dad” leaves at the age of 4 and for YEARS nobody tells me anything, then when I am graduating and my siblings are graduating this man starts appearing… and guess what, he’s claiming he’s my dad? Then he comes over often, and later brings a little girl age about 8 years old, says that is my little sister! Actually it was August 2, 2024 when he asked me again why I treat him coldly and I SPOKE UP! Then he tried to say it was hard because of CHILD SUPPORT MONEY? And because he lied about not having two wives when we came to canada he has debt to pay (he has multiple kids including the half siblings i knew about, since we came to Canada together- that’s 3 half siblings plus us 5) I said honestly I didn’t expect any familial relationship with him because my whole life I have only known my mother as my parent. PLEASE, consider who you’re having a child with. (Might delete later)
The funny thing is most athletes go broke before they die. So those 8 kids probably wont have much from him in the end anyway.
I’m so glad I took time off! I’m in the garden picking veggies and listening along.
Hello from Kansas, USA!
Opinion: this is why I raise my daughters to be self sufficient so they won’t attract some “leader” like this crazy male.
I got too excited and posted twice. Best wishes, all!
Men and women are to work together like God intended. We have strengths they don’t have and vice versa. Self sufficient is cool and all. But it’s better to go by the dynamic of human relations. We can’t do everything alone
Be careful if becoming too self sufficient. I am myself. Maybe one day your daughters may want help but people around don’t really look at you for actually needing help or wanting it. So you end up doing EVERYTHING by yourself and that gets exhausting
Let me just say the only thing I don’t agree with is people talking about how she handled him. I don’t believe in being disrespectful but I’m tired of us women always having to duck and dodge and beat around the bush in our tone and how we talk to them. No im not coddling his feelings or ego. I don’t have to handle no grown man with no grace and love especially the ones like him . He wasn’t even receiving it anyway because of his self sabotaging ego
This one☝️it’s the audacity of people trying to compare Kevin Kitten Heels to Dr. Bryant by saying that he was giving black women the same message. When he doesn’t have a phd let along lived the narrative that he was portraying.🥴
Coddling is for children!
She didn’t though. Yelling and screaming and being disrespectful doesn’t get anyone to listen
Just take action no more words. He not a good guy. Don’t pay him no mind
@@kameralkutie5594 eeeeeexactly. You hit it right in the head with that one
This has nothing to do with us black women because he doesn’t date black and most of his children’s mothers are not black.
9:08 I BEG women to please leave these fathers alone so they can focus on their children
“My life, my life, my life, my life”. Still can’t get over this part. So funny 😅😅😅😅😅
And he praises his parent's 39 yr marriage 🥴
Wonder how their marriage truly was for him to end up this way.
This man, I think he's girlfriend said she was his peace he didn't Mary her
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And she's still there. And there are thousands ready to replace her.
@@CadillacBoss30 Lord have mercy eeeeh when you don't know who you are and your value thats what happens. The girl explained how much she does for him when he comes home from work in an interview so saaad for all the women 😒
@@Priscilla_Boye I know right
That clown has a somewhat viral interview/conversation with Shan Boody being the most insufferable pick me. She still wasn't picked, though. Who would've thought?/s
The first guy is the definition of toxic....
The bigotry of low expectations...
The interview: She flattered him in order to gain purchase to speak in a very tame and non-confrontational way about his serial family starting and lack of commitment to parenting.
He was too fragile for direct confrontation.
This is pitiful.
He tried that stupid word salad stuff with her, she was assertive and straight forward. And weren’t allowing him to manipulate her. “Can I correct it” I would’ve said no.
He sounds proud of the life he’s created for himself. If that’s the case, he shouldn’t be dancing around answering her questions or be bothered about how other people feel about his current situation. He also shouldn’t have a problem with adopting kids and raising them all on his own. He wants more children? There are plenty looking for a safe and loving home. Go get em, Tiger😁
Ahhhh I am reminded every day that I made the right choice in remaining childfree and marriage free. Y’all can have these losers!! My skin is glowing since I stopped delving in dusty bandits!! 😍🤩
That man is 35?! Jeez that is insane.
Lookin’ old ain’t he?
Love how, she makes sure he doesn't deflect and give half assed answers. She respectful and makes sure A. he answers the question asked. And B. makes sure everyone knows what he means, even when his dumbass don't know what he means..... Like she said if you're not high functioning, than you'd be low functioning but see he didn't wanna hear that.
Cam is stupid.😂
THIS WOMAN PREACHED THE PREACHING👏👏👏👏👏
Fears divorce not Syphillus or AIDS. Okeee
See I wonder why he's not married eight children not married why is the why is he the why is he even opening his mouth😂
This woman just said everything ❤ I feel a lot more smarter listening to her ❤️
I´m sorry this can make me a hater, but a woman saw that and said i´m gonna make a children with that, don´t have right to complain of anything
There have been studies done on children from families with large numbers of children. The younger ones get to a point in their childhood, when they have the cognitive ability to look around and understand their place in the family, in which they start questioning why they were even born. These children have existential crises at 11, 12, 13 years old.
I don’t know how this would translate to children of the same father in different households.
Having so many children, knowing one will absolutely not be around is irresponsible at best.
Dude is obviously a narcissist.
I wonder how'd he'd handle the same questions a single mom with multiple kids would get.
Dr. Bryant was speaking truth and wisdom. Loved the conversation. @19:24 sounded personal like she was speaking to someone specifically. 👀
Lord protect us all from males like this one.
He is a huge red flag, I would instantly block him everywhere after finding out that he has so many kids. I hope that he won't ruin any more women lives.
These males will call women run through but you supposed to overlook it when they are run through.
Last clip ate 😂
How is he going to come back from that hahaha
Love your content Priscilla ❤️ your videos are the cream to my morning coffee😊
Love from the Philippines ❤❤❤
Imagine meeting this guy and being last after 8 kids, 3 baby mamas, himself, and then you. So you’re in 13th place?😂
Men like Cam Newton and even Nick Cannon just annoy the hell out of me. They always talk in this way where they like to pretend they are so much more smarter and intellectual than they actually are.
They aren't smart at all. They are just delusional. He's trying to convince himself that he's not a problem more than anything.
When I meet a dude with a bunch of kids from several women, I don't even care if he was married to a couple of them...I'm out. He's loose with his body and I'm getting in line behind all that. There will be drama and why would I want that in my life. The next ones I pass by is any guy with stories of why he is not involved with his kids. I'm not trying to hear it unless it starts with I was a young idiot and ends with I've been working hard to redeem myself and he can tell me about his current involvement in their lives. But there still can't be 20 kids by 10 women. Otherwise, he needs to go be there for all those kids. And that should be his focus.
That beautiful lady with the grey hoodie 💯🎯 said it best
Wow this woman spoke the truth...
She took us to church in the end and I’m not even religious! U betta preach hunty!!!
Does anybody actually care what Cam thinks about anything?
A “broken nuclear family home structure” can also happen with the parents remaining together in the household. I was raised in a broken home, and my parents didn’t divorce. They both died at early ages. ❤
He sounds slow. My ex-husband tried this with me after we divorced. The superiority, rephrasing, circle jerk speech thing to bolster his ego. The kid thing is similar too. Between the abandonment issues, the superiority and entitlement complex, as well as people that “feel bad” for the adult children…you don’t have to drag them, but men who want this need to be held to the same standard as the women they’re trying to devalue. He did find one he could do it to though and made sure to knock her up a few times real quick to secure the position.
I want to know the state of mind of babymama #3. What did he tell her, or what is she telling herself to even DATE......him.
What woman in her right frame of mind would even DATE him.
Never mind sleep with him, get impregnated by him, live with him, help him with 7....SEVEN....kids that aren't by her. Let's just get to the DATE part.
How and why did she say yes to a DATE 🤔 That's the part I want to know.
He probably lied to her. They're good at that!
It's simple. Woman #3 is also low functioning. She only valued his paycheck.
@@CocononololTrue....BUT
7 children by 2 other women????
How does a women overlook that???
@@aprilwashington3150 I honestly think it's the desire to comfortable in life over being committed to. These women might consider that optional, if they consider it at all, not as a prerequisite to create and raise a child.
In her stand-up routine, she said because he's rich.