Small kindnesses. This is all we need. When my husband and I first started dating, I was a single mom of 1.5 year old twins, worked full time, and was going back to school online full time at night. I was at peak exhaustion. This man, who had NO responsibility for me or my children saw that I had dozed off on the couch in the middle of the day (turns out I had Lyme). Instead of gently waking me, he covered me with a blanket, made dinner and played with the kids. I literally bawled my eyes out when I woke up because I was just not used to receiving such kindness. It was probably an hour that I slept, but it was EVERYTHING.
I wish they had discussed the stay at home girlfriends trend to a greater extent. Far as choices not negatively impacting a partner. Stay at home girlfriends could be dropped after 4 or 5 years with literally nothing to show for except that they served their boyfriend well. Its incredibly dangerous.
I believe listening to all sides whether you agree or not will give you a well rounded understanding on any topic and gain insight on perspectives so as to navigate any topic and be able to empathize with others. We are all doing the best we can with what we have, learned, be conditioned, experienced and perceived. There are golden nuggets in every conversation. Thank you as always for an interesting conversation. 🙏❤
I think the problem with her and other modern content creators (both men and women) is the unbalanced, polarized nature of their content. Content creators put out video after video representing one viewpoint. But that's what gets the views.
Couldn't agree more... she said men go on dates thinking " do i like her" and women go on dates thinking " does he like me" aren't most of us thinking both? Who the actual f*ck doesn't care about being liked by someone that they like? Wtf is happening here?she makes these separations thatonly exist in her head and on misogynistic social media....Even the other woman calls her out on it with the sex for doing dishes... the idea that is the standard is actually ridiculous and degrading and just selective nonsense... but she had no clue😂 that just makes sense in her head 😂
You wanna know what's bogging down energy for the lack? It's men's testosterone dwindling because of plastic products and a lack of men's health awareness.
Women weaponize men’s feelings against men. Men quickly learn not to share that with women, and if he hasn’t learned that lesson yet, trust and believe that a woman will teach him sooner than later.
I think that one goes both ways for both genders, buddy. Inconsiderate reactions and manipulative tactics used against you when you share something vulnerable. I know women experience that everyday. Therefore, I do like the points made in this video that recognizes both men and women need a safe space to do just that and how do we work on ourselves so that our partner experiences that freedom in the relationship.
I'm halfway and I can barely stand how extremely amatonormative this is. People can have great sex after just a few minutes without even knowing each other. I experience it all the time when I visit a sex worker and yes, more often than not she really enjoys it too. If someone does not want sex, don't have sex, if someone wants to have sex, have sex. It's not that complicated. OK, I have to admit, in the end it gets a lot better. Feminism is about choice, I agree with that. And that nothing is more masculine than not feeling threatened about your masculinity. I also despise men spitting on a woman just because of her content, then you really need to 'man up'. So in the end, mixed feelings. But that in itself is OK.
I dont like the updo hosts interventions. Unnecessary and rude and at times misleading. But only at times... it doesnt mean the whole relationship is toxic... nooo....
I feel like a lot of these conversations do are dishonest. Men HAVE to bring a certain amount of value to get sex/ be attractive to women. Women do not have to put in as much effort to get sex
right but they dont want it most of the time. By the time women are out of their teens theyve been shown more than enough times that men only want sex and that turns them into something they dont want to be. Some kind of transaction. So why would easily being able to get something you dont want, from people you dont want it from, be seen as a positive?
@@SuTho You’re saying women don’t want sex? Also, women have NO CLUE how something so effortless for them can be extremely difficult for men. It’s a positive because of the complete lack of effort required
@@swaggy5419 It’s a positive because of the lack of effort? I can drive through a mud puddle with nearly no effort too but my car being filthy isn’t a positive just because it was easy for me 😂😂😂 YOU perceive it as a positive because you think it would be a positive for YOU. Your viewpoint is completely self centered which is probably why it’s harder for you to connect with partners.
Small kindnesses. This is all we need. When my husband and I first started dating, I was a single mom of 1.5 year old twins, worked full time, and was going back to school online full time at night. I was at peak exhaustion. This man, who had NO responsibility for me or my children saw that I had dozed off on the couch in the middle of the day (turns out I had Lyme). Instead of gently waking me, he covered me with a blanket, made dinner and played with the kids. I literally bawled my eyes out when I woke up because I was just not used to receiving such kindness. It was probably an hour that I slept, but it was EVERYTHING.
Wow!!, so kind !! 😲👏🏼👏🏼🥰
I was waiting for this, I’m so happy we finally got it.👏
We couldn't not release it
Love her insight and clarity.❤
Thank you for listening
Have been waiting for this episode. Loved every second ❤️
A beautiful episode
Her episode was SO good
Great conversation !, hearing the perspectives!! 😃👏🏼👏🏼
Love her tiktok, and loved this open discussion
Thank you so much for listening
I wish they had discussed the stay at home girlfriends trend to a greater extent. Far as choices not negatively impacting a partner. Stay at home girlfriends could be dropped after 4 or 5 years with literally nothing to show for except that they served their boyfriend well. Its incredibly dangerous.
I mean idk I think living for free is payment enough no?
I had been waiting for this episode! Love it!❤
So many great topics covered
Thank you all for sharing these wonderful conversations!
Loved this episode. Caylee really brings thought and insight to make one think. Thankful you posted the full episode!
I believe listening to all sides whether you agree or not will give you a well rounded understanding on any topic and gain insight on perspectives so as to navigate any topic and be able to empathize with others. We are all doing the best we can with what we have, learned, be conditioned, experienced and perceived. There are golden nuggets in every conversation. Thank you as always for an interesting conversation. 🙏❤
Thank you for sharing your perspective
Great topic, even better podcast! Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Best episode!
Wow…. She got it on the spot when she was talking about women and giving and how we feel 😭
Here from TikTok (27:00) thanks for the conversation
Thanks for coming over! Glad you're here.
I am here listening to this and I am crying I could relate 💯 ❤
Loved it ! Huge thanks ❤❤❤
I think the problem with her and other modern content creators (both men and women) is the unbalanced, polarized nature of their content. Content creators put out video after video representing one viewpoint. But that's what gets the views.
Couldn't agree more... she said men go on dates thinking " do i like her" and women go on dates thinking " does he like me" aren't most of us thinking both? Who the actual f*ck doesn't care about being liked by someone that they like? Wtf is happening here?she makes these separations thatonly exist in her head and on misogynistic social media....Even the other woman calls her out on it with the sex for doing dishes... the idea that is the standard is actually ridiculous and degrading and just selective nonsense... but she had no clue😂 that just makes sense in her head 😂
You wanna know what's bogging down energy for the lack? It's men's testosterone dwindling because of plastic products and a lack of men's health awareness.
Women weaponize men’s feelings against men. Men quickly learn not to share that with women, and if he hasn’t learned that lesson yet, trust and believe that a woman will teach him sooner than later.
Thank you for sharing your perspectives
I think that one goes both ways for both genders, buddy. Inconsiderate reactions and manipulative tactics used against you when you share something vulnerable. I know women experience that everyday. Therefore, I do like the points made in this video that recognizes both men and women need a safe space to do just that and how do we work on ourselves so that our partner experiences that freedom in the relationship.
I'm halfway and I can barely stand how extremely amatonormative this is. People can have great sex after just a few minutes without even knowing each other. I experience it all the time when I visit a sex worker and yes, more often than not she really enjoys it too. If someone does not want sex, don't have sex, if someone wants to have sex, have sex. It's not that complicated.
OK, I have to admit, in the end it gets a lot better. Feminism is about choice, I agree with that. And that nothing is more masculine than not feeling threatened about your masculinity. I also despise men spitting on a woman just because of her content, then you really need to 'man up'.
So in the end, mixed feelings. But that in itself is OK.
I dont like the updo hosts interventions. Unnecessary and rude and at times misleading. But only at times... it doesnt mean the whole relationship is toxic... nooo....
I feel like a lot of these conversations do are dishonest. Men HAVE to bring a certain amount of value to get sex/ be attractive to women. Women do not have to put in as much effort to get sex
Thank you for expressing how you feel!
@@WeAreManEnough Why are you thanking this misogynistic chode?
right but they dont want it most of the time. By the time women are out of their teens theyve been shown more than enough times that men only want sex and that turns them into something they dont want to be. Some kind of transaction. So why would easily being able to get something you dont want, from people you dont want it from, be seen as a positive?
@@SuTho You’re saying women don’t want sex? Also, women have NO CLUE how something so effortless for them can be extremely difficult for men. It’s a positive because of the complete lack of effort required
@@swaggy5419 It’s a positive because of the lack of effort? I can drive through a mud puddle with nearly no effort too but my car being filthy isn’t a positive just because it was easy for me 😂😂😂 YOU perceive it as a positive because you think it would be a positive for YOU. Your viewpoint is completely self centered which is probably why it’s harder for you to connect with partners.
Man love the podcast. . . But funded by P&G 🤮
I'm curious is the majority of this channel women or men?
By the comments I think it’s split pretty evenly
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