It really is bizarre that we can't make ourselves look beautiful because people hate it. I have experienced this too. I'm just an average looking girl that knows how to do my makeup well.
@@HaughtyHedonistexactly. Do they really think older women can’t be attractive, and don’t receive compliments from strangers. I wonder if most of these women would be considered “attractive” pre 2000’s when women wore minimal makeup, and didn’t plaster it on, and contour and sculpt their entire face.
I cant wait to read the comments of other experiences. AND I LOVE what Halle Berry said. I think my life has been easier because of my looks. But that one lady talking down on pretty women is the exact type I avoid. Ugh. Being tall and pretty, I've gotten all kinds of mess. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. For me, its the constant staring I hate. I'm not Beyonce but being above average in looks in everyday life can be annoying. Yes it's nice to be randomly told you're pretty by men and even women, but everyone doesn't have good intentions. It makes you anxious and mistrustful of most people.
They don’t want to hear your experience. They will STILL INSIST that the only thing worse than your experience is being u9ly.. it’s weird how people will never listen to the experiences of others. Very strange
I’ve gotten use to the staring. Most people are polite and turn their heads when I finally make eye contact. I resent the scowl on random women’s faces, particularly retail workers. They rarely greet me.
I avoid this conversation like the plague because I already know most people won't understand or will deliberately dimiss beautiful people's experiences in this ugly world. My priority now is to protect my beautiful little nieces and cousins who will most likely grow up to experience the harsh reality of this world. I want them to have someone in their corner who understands EXACTLY what they will be experiencing. That's all I care about, the adults have already made up their minds on how they would like to approach this sensitive issue and that's cool, but the babies don't have to go through what we're going through right now. We have to shield the next gen of beautiful people from the hate, envy and jealously because it truly is dangerous at the end of the day.
I loved your take on this topic at the end. I agree with you completely. Looking back over my lifetime experiences I can clearly see now who felt threatened by my figure and face and then hated the fact i had more brains than they realised. At the time I had alot of social anxiety so I missed these red flag signs. Unfortunately All the women in my family seem to be happier when I'm struggling in some way. As a result I keep to myself mostly, for the peaceful life
I was thinking the same thing😅. I know pretty women and they don't have much of an issue moving through the world & dating. It's the energy & attitude you carry.
@Luver4lyfe Ofcourse. True friends talk about their life amongst eachother. There will always be jealous stares if you look good but flat out drama past your teen years is a choice lol. How you carry yourself, your attitude & energy is everything. Tbh people treat you better if you look good. You get free stuff & people want to be your friend lol.
The woman at 7:23 is exactly the problem. Same for the heavy-set woman at the end. They have NO idea what they're talking about because they clearly never grew up exceptionally beautiful and it shows by how much they're mocking beautiful women who are genuinely sharing the issues they face due to their beauty, some of which are LIFE-THREATENING!!! They assume pretty women can't have a personality and we only care about how we look when really it's THEM who care more about us and how we look than anything. Soo many beautiful women and little girls out there with beautiful personalities and amazing minds get treated like TRASH because of people like her assuming we're "stuck up", "mean", "dumb" and "don't have a personality" when they never even took the chance to get to know the beautiful person. Also yes, a lot of people really ARE just jealous of beautiful women and girls. Our moms weren't lying to us. People assume our life is easy and go out of their way to make it harder or try their hardest to humble us and then wonder why we suddenly develop an "attitude" to protect ourselves from people who only want to use us or are spiteful people who treat us like crap for no reason. Wayyy too many beautiful women and girls were deleted by "friends" who were jealous of them for her to be saying that straight up LIE !!! She must be one of the jealous women that wants to blame their jealousy on pretty girls "having a bad personality" so that she doesn't have to unpack her bitter jealousy. Women like her just don't get it because they've been brainwashed or they didn't grow up pretty and are only pretty now due to makeup and enhancers. I can tell when a woman just doesn't understand by the excuses they use to shut beautiful women up when this topic comes around. Pretty privilege is NOT all it's cracked up to be and I wish more people understood that.
Women who are insecure because they don’t get taken seriously because they are too pretty are actually just seeking others to validate their intelligence. They get so validated over their looks that they want to get even more by having people validate their brains. Is all about stacking privilege, but to the careful observer is pretty cringy.
I’m an older woman aged 60, and have always been told how pretty I am, even at this age. I’d never given pretty privilege any thought, but it really resonated when people used to say I’m stuck up, and think I’m nice etc. I couldn’t understand why women were so nasty. It all makes sense. I’d never considered jealousy, because I’m a hard worker, studied to MSc ensure a professional career in nursing, and I managed to retire early. It all makes sense! I’m glad you mentioned filters, heavy makeup trends, contours etc. Those things don’t make a woman pretty. Most wouldn’t be considered pretty decades ago without those things. Pretty is natural and also comes from within.
24:37 why is this being ignored ? I noticed that people will ignore these sort of stories in this conversation . I have seen extreme things happen to pretty women.. it’s weird how people ignore these experiences , it’s really giving - haters outweigh supporters smh yikes
It's disgusting and terrifying how people enjoy or do horrible things happening to people they're jealous or envious of. Envy is very dangerous to be around
@@Elvirasmom1you’re absolutely right, it is frightening and very telling about how they really feel deep down. There’s a lady from the UK who has come online to discuss how she has ac!d thrown on her by a former friend. Very sad 😢
They'll hear stories like that and still say pretty women have it easy... I'm so sick of people missing the point and saying there are no downsides to pretty privilege when there IS!!! If people would just open their minds and ears and LISTEN!!!!
@@corimoon3360 Yes this is it. They are too busy focused on how good the other side has it, that they fail to see how dismissive they are being. That in and of itself, is a downside! People think you have no struggles whatsoever because you look a particular way; just sounds like hateration to me.
Life is hell for the pretty women. Other girls think their life is easy but they don’t know the dark side of it. All the hate from women. All the bullying from aunts and mothers and sisters. The abuse from the males they give their hearts too. Guys who just want to use them because of their popularity or beauty. Their beauty is a curse. Not to mention all the women who hate on them on all of their social media. Evil coworkers who put them down. Stalking them. Posting their private photos for the world to see. Spreading rumors about them and the final one…. The so called fake female friends online who study them and copy all of their life and look and items wanting to be like them…..the close best friends who secretly hate the beautiful women because they are loved due to their kindness and genuine hearts. Pretty women get stabbed by family and friends. They have to turn ugly to not outshine others. They downplay their beauty and talents to make other women feel comfortable. Not to mention they are the first women usually to get abused as children and teenagers due to their beautiful bodies. Sadly. Only the beautiful women know the curse of beauty.
You just described my life. These days I avoid people as much as possible... Because of the abject abuse, hatred bullying from both men and women. The women hate on and try to sabotage me and men just want to use me for their seggual gratification... Hardly anyone treats me with human decency or dignity... Because there is a weird assumption that my life is easy because of my appearance. That's how they justify treating me like trash... As if I had control over how I came out of the womb. I hate it here.
Thank you for describing my life. I've lived it all my life and nobody to understand because, of course, everyone else is "average", "ugly" so stop complaining. Meanwhile your life is a living hell and people purposefully enjoy making it harder for you just because of your beauty. The stalking, the harassement of males, their dirty looks, the jealousy of females wanting to break you to look better. Or masculine females thinking they got a chance. Old married dirty dudes, the lonely males, the insecure plain Janes.... And literally no one to protect, not a BF, father, brother, nobody. You are beautiful, your beauty is meant to protect you and make you rich. Street harassement, work harassement. It takes time to unpack all of that, and assume your beauty. I'm now in my "take no sh!t" period. So now I don't care. But I don't make friends with people especially old people. I don't listen to their problems. I don't want no romantic relationship to have someone else's burden on my shoulder. Yup.
@@kantik2118 being ugly is hard too. Imagine people treating you like you don't exist or like you aren't human. People are very cruel. It's like they think you don't cry too or don't bleed blood when you're ugly.
@@genevieveaniko6492 I understand you fully. I do the same. I wish we learned earlier in life to avoid humans. We would have saved ourselves from much drama and problems. The bullying never stops. I thought it would end at the age of teenagers and I had no idea bullying would continue until a woman is close to 40.
@@kantik2118 I fully agree with every Single word you wrote. You relate and you know how that life is like with all the hate and abuse and bullying. I wish we were protected by a father or brother. Sad we had to grow up in a toxic family filled with jealous people who gossip and pray for one’s downfall. They never want to see you doing better than them. So many married men in the inboxes proudly cheating on their wife’s. Beauty is a curse. So many who try to take advantage of you
2:35 This queen took one Sephora class on privilege for the company's diversity legal defense and decided he knew everything there is to know from the perspective of a beautiful woman. Okay.
I agree with 100%. This just proves that beauty is subjective, and in the eye of the beholder. I thought most were average with lots of glued on additions, and make up ….and they were still average after all that effort.
That’s been the story my whole life. Men can’t believe that I’m single. They often ask if I turn into an ogre at 3am. That’s why women have to ensure they can provide a secure, comfortable life for themselves and any children they might have. Anything you get from a man should be a bonus, not a necessity.
I never asked unattractive women if men care about thier minds. I bet the guy still does not care. He just dont bother taliikgbto who he is not attracted to. 😅😅😅😅
1st time commenting, I have been a subscriber for over a month now. Before that, I would just watch your channel for over 5 months and enjoy your content. All of your videos hit home with me in some way. I like your overall view at the end of your videos too. I put a heart in the other video you did today. ♥ Thanks for what you do. I wish I had something like your videos to turn to when I was in my teens, 20's and 30's.
The guy talking around the 3:33 mark is so very tone deaf. All his examples are the exact biases people try to project onto those they deem “pretty”. He’s proving the point while thinking he’s dropping gems.
I Knew Certain Women Couldn't Wait To Spread Their Ugly Spirit Around By Talking Down On The Women Sharing Their Experiences, && I Was Not Disappointed 😅😂😂😂 Little Do Y'all Know, Y'all Just Validated Everything That Was Said In These Women's Videos. That's Why We'll Never Have True Sisterhood, Quick To Tear Each Other Down For NOTHING. We Are Our Own Worst Enemies.
Genuine question, because I’ve seen others do it online. Why do you start each word with a capital letter? Written word is a form of communication with others, and you want them to understand what you’re relying to convey. It’s really difficult for the recipient to recalibrate their brain to know that each capital letter is not a new sentence, but just something you may think looks “good”. I ask this question because I automatically skip comments that are written in this way. It’s too much effort for my middle aged brain.
@jaijai5250 I Do It Because I Want To. It's As Simple As That. I Have A Two-Part Question For You Out Of My Own Curiosity, #1 Why Does Me Expressing Myself While Minding My Business Bother You So Much? && #2 What Satisfaction Do You Get From Acting Like A Grammar Gestapo?? 🤔🤨
The way people are so willfully obtuse about this subject is so annoying. With that said, some of the responses heavily give “the call is coming from inside the room”
I really hate that there are women who think they get treated differently just for being pretty. Baby we get treated THE SAME as other women. We all have the same stories it's just more men on our heads. The only tangible difference being that we get a slightly longer period of men faking of their personality.
@@July-ola It is actually very true, the guy at 1:58 explained it well. Normal-treatment feels like prejudice when you're used to exceptional-treatment. This is like Sheldon Copper saying "They hate me because I'm smart".
Most women who have pretty priviledge would never want to be ugly cz they know that you get treated worse if you are not conventionally pretty. We get treated worse esp by men by society at large.
The one with the braids who at the end of a string of bad luck talked of a guy flying her out scam seems to have bad luck idk. How she get herself with all those bad people and situations. The one with the accent in the white seems to be exaragating about the experience and her looks. 😅😅😅😅😅😅 However, may very well look better than her family and freinds.
I’m an older woman and I agree that people don’t think so deeply about it. However it resonates with me that people do treat you differently. I just assumed people were jealous of my achievements. I’ve never seen myself as very pretty, beautiful or gorgeous but I’ve been told that throughout my life, even as a 60 year old woman.
@radicalreactions1633 I've been both. Fat, emo with a boy cut. Ugly as hell. Then I lost all the weight, learned how to dress, had a whole glow up. I felt more free when I was unattractive. Women liked me more, I wasn't as objectified, I didn't feel like I was constantly being stared down. So while all women may get it, some get it more than others. And I felt the most human when men didn't want to fuck me.
@@th-ck9vlthis is a word.. be careful.. people will just tell you that you’re exaggerating - because they would really rather trade places then truly hear your perspective.. when you walk a mile in someone else’s shoes, you see that it’s not all roses and sunshine.
Is it possible that this mentality of "they think I am flawless" is what makes them unlikable. The idea that you think that other people see you as gods gift has anything to do with how you may subconsciously treat people and this impacts how others treat you. "She hates me cause I'm pretty" no she hates you because you think you are prettier than her and you make that known without even knowing that you make that known. I have met so many beautiful people that are genuinely good sweet people and literally no one hates them because they radiate kindness and not arrogance. That lady with the wig story really tild on herself, she showed her true cruel colors, providing that she is just as judgemental and mean as the people she calls mean and judgemental which seems like a common theme in these clips.
I will never respect this whole "woe is me, I'm too pretty for my own good" or "everyone's hAtin on me because I look so good" narrative,as it sounds like these people are fishing for more compliments and are 'humble bragging'. A lot of the issues they complain about is usually a result of being a woman in a s3xist society, not just by being 'pretty', but women love to find ways to make themsleves feel so special and superior to the next woman so they will sell themselves this "everyone wants me and every woman envies me" story. I love making myself look and feeling attractive and honestly complaining about being physically attractive is like complaining about having good health or wealth. If being pretty is such a "burden" to some of you then actively remove your beauty - gain weight, shave your head,fill your body with foods that will negatively affect your skin/looks and health and hide your figure. However many of you won't do that because you know you love the 'validation' and attention you get from it Furthermore, there have been plenty of "average" looking people who have managed to attract a lot of positive relationships, attention etc because they shine from the inside out. As annoyingly cliche as it sounds, unshakable self love, confidence and authenticity are the most universally attractive traits one can posses, you don't have to be the hottest, skinniest, youngest or most physically beautiful person to posses those traits. So please stop with the fake acts of distress.
You sound so slow. Tell us you missed the point without telling us. It's not just "Wahh i look good' but it's also "why are people so awful to me?" "Why do people make assumptions about me?" "Why do people go out of their way to stare and make me uncomfortable?" "Why do people enjoy my suffering when something does happen?" "Why do people assume i have no personality" "why did that girl kill her best friend just because she's a model?" it's not just crying bc u look good. It's crying because there's a literal target on your back and ur put into the spotlight always even when you don't want it. It's DANGEROUS!!! Did you even WATCH the video?! Stop being dumb. You're doing exactly what one of the women in the video said, intentionally leaving nuances out and missing the entire point. I don't understand nor will I ever respect people like you. Willfully obtuse!
@beac8238 As a woman who has experienced "pretty privilege", it is clear that people who 'complain' about being 'so pretty it hurts' are humble bragging, especially since many of them have chosen to maintain an aesthetic that supposedly attracts such 'unwanted attention'. Everything has pros and cons, but Its extremely insensitive to pretend that "being beautiful ia such a burden". Most are seeking an excuse to make themsleves feel more important than they really are.
What im hearing is insecure people prey on or bully pretty people
Yes
Very much so
Basically, insecure people love going after pretty people to validate themselve. And if you don't "cooperate", they bully and trash you.
Not always, pretty people put down not so pretty people.
@prettytings8216 Insecure people prey on ugly people, disabled people, overweight people, skinny people...the list goes on & on!😒😏
It really is bizarre that we can't make ourselves look beautiful because people hate it. I have experienced this too. I'm just an average looking girl that knows how to do my makeup well.
Much agreed, and they hope when you downplay yourself, they will have an excuse to treat you worse!
Do it up ! Shine, !once the wrinkles come it’s no turning back.
@@PapayanPepper Wrinkles Are Beautiful In Their Own Way... Social Media Got Y'all Messed Up In The Head About What Beauty Is 😭
@@HaughtyHedonistexactly. Do they really think older women can’t be attractive, and don’t receive compliments from strangers. I wonder if most of these women would be considered “attractive” pre 2000’s when women wore minimal makeup, and didn’t plaster it on, and contour and sculpt their entire face.
I cant wait to read the comments of other experiences. AND I LOVE what Halle Berry said.
I think my life has been easier because of my looks. But that one lady talking down on pretty women is the exact type I avoid. Ugh.
Being tall and pretty, I've gotten all kinds of mess. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. For me, its the constant staring I hate. I'm not Beyonce but being above average in looks in everyday life can be annoying.
Yes it's nice to be randomly told you're pretty by men and even women, but everyone doesn't have good intentions. It makes you anxious and mistrustful of most people.
They don’t want to hear your experience. They will STILL INSIST that the only thing worse than your experience is being u9ly.. it’s weird how people will never listen to the experiences of others. Very strange
I’ve gotten use to the staring. Most people are polite and turn their heads when I finally make eye contact. I resent the scowl on random women’s faces, particularly retail workers. They rarely greet me.
@beac8238 Yes I can relate. Especially the retail worker micro aggression.
I avoid this conversation like the plague because I already know most people won't understand or will deliberately dimiss beautiful people's experiences in this ugly world. My priority now is to protect my beautiful little nieces and cousins who will most likely grow up to experience the harsh reality of this world. I want them to have someone in their corner who understands EXACTLY what they will be experiencing. That's all I care about, the adults have already made up their minds on how they would like to approach this sensitive issue and that's cool, but the babies don't have to go through what we're going through right now. We have to shield the next gen of beautiful people from the hate, envy and jealously because it truly is dangerous at the end of the day.
Pretty privilege and narcissist have become buzz words.
I loved your take on this topic at the end. I agree with you completely. Looking back over my lifetime experiences I can clearly see now who felt threatened by my figure and face and then hated the fact i had more brains than they realised. At the time I had alot of social anxiety so I missed these red flag signs. Unfortunately All the women in my family seem to be happier when I'm struggling in some way. As a result I keep to myself mostly, for the peaceful life
Some people overestimate their pretty factor! 😒😏😒😏
I was thinking the same thing😅. I know pretty women and they don't have much of an issue moving through the world & dating. It's the energy & attitude you carry.
Exactly. A couple of these women had me asking "How would you know?"😂😂😂😂
@@AMonteiro4 just curious , have they ever told you about their struggles?
@Luver4lyfe Ofcourse. True friends talk about their life amongst eachother. There will always be jealous stares if you look good but flat out drama past your teen years is a choice lol. How you carry yourself, your attitude & energy is everything.
Tbh people treat you better if you look good. You get free stuff & people want to be your friend lol.
@@TheMrsatlazdrama LOL 😆 exactly
I will say being a pretty and sexy person.... aging hits them even harder because ppl have eyes out clocking their aging
The woman at 7:23 is exactly the problem. Same for the heavy-set woman at the end. They have NO idea what they're talking about because they clearly never grew up exceptionally beautiful and it shows by how much they're mocking beautiful women who are genuinely sharing the issues they face due to their beauty, some of which are LIFE-THREATENING!!! They assume pretty women can't have a personality and we only care about how we look when really it's THEM who care more about us and how we look than anything. Soo many beautiful women and little girls out there with beautiful personalities and amazing minds get treated like TRASH because of people like her assuming we're "stuck up", "mean", "dumb" and "don't have a personality" when they never even took the chance to get to know the beautiful person.
Also yes, a lot of people really ARE just jealous of beautiful women and girls. Our moms weren't lying to us. People assume our life is easy and go out of their way to make it harder or try their hardest to humble us and then wonder why we suddenly develop an "attitude" to protect ourselves from people who only want to use us or are spiteful people who treat us like crap for no reason. Wayyy too many beautiful women and girls were deleted by "friends" who were jealous of them for her to be saying that straight up LIE !!! She must be one of the jealous women that wants to blame their jealousy on pretty girls "having a bad personality" so that she doesn't have to unpack her bitter jealousy. Women like her just don't get it because they've been brainwashed or they didn't grow up pretty and are only pretty now due to makeup and enhancers. I can tell when a woman just doesn't understand by the excuses they use to shut beautiful women up when this topic comes around. Pretty privilege is NOT all it's cracked up to be and I wish more people understood that.
Women who are insecure because they don’t get taken seriously because they are too pretty are actually just seeking others to validate their intelligence. They get so validated over their looks that they want to get even more by having people validate their brains. Is all about stacking privilege, but to the careful observer is pretty cringy.
Yup!!
💯💯💯
I’m an older woman aged 60, and have always been told how pretty I am, even at this age. I’d never given pretty privilege any thought, but it really resonated when people used to say I’m stuck up, and think I’m nice etc. I couldn’t understand why women were so nasty. It all makes sense. I’d never considered jealousy, because I’m a hard worker, studied to MSc ensure a professional career in nursing, and I managed to retire early.
It all makes sense!
I’m glad you mentioned filters, heavy makeup trends, contours etc. Those things don’t make a woman pretty. Most wouldn’t be considered pretty decades ago without those things. Pretty is natural and also comes from within.
24:37 why is this being ignored ? I noticed that people will ignore these sort of stories in this conversation . I have seen extreme things happen to pretty women.. it’s weird how people ignore these experiences , it’s really giving - haters outweigh supporters smh yikes
It's disgusting and terrifying how people enjoy or do horrible things happening to people they're jealous or envious of. Envy is very dangerous to be around
@@Elvirasmom1you’re absolutely right, it is frightening and very telling about how they really feel deep down. There’s a lady from the UK who has come online to discuss how she has ac!d thrown on her by a former friend. Very sad 😢
They'll hear stories like that and still say pretty women have it easy... I'm so sick of people missing the point and saying there are no downsides to pretty privilege when there IS!!! If people would just open their minds and ears and LISTEN!!!!
@@corimoon3360 Yes this is it. They are too busy focused on how good the other side has it, that they fail to see how dismissive they are being. That in and of itself, is a downside! People think you have no struggles whatsoever because you look a particular way; just sounds like hateration to me.
I hate how they bully women over wearing makeup. I think i should wear more makeup.
Life is hell for the pretty women. Other girls think their life is easy but they don’t know the dark side of it. All the hate from women. All the bullying from aunts and mothers and sisters. The abuse from the males they give their hearts too. Guys who just want to use them because of their popularity or beauty. Their beauty is a curse. Not to mention all the women who hate on them on all of their social media. Evil coworkers who put them down. Stalking them. Posting their private photos for the world to see. Spreading rumors about them and the final one…. The so called fake female friends online who study them and copy all of their life and look and items wanting to be like them…..the close best friends who secretly hate the beautiful women because they are loved due to their kindness and genuine hearts. Pretty women get stabbed by family and friends. They have to turn ugly to not outshine others. They downplay their beauty and talents to make other women feel comfortable. Not to mention they are the first women usually to get abused as children and teenagers due to their beautiful bodies. Sadly. Only the beautiful women know the curse of beauty.
You just described my life. These days I avoid people as much as possible... Because of the abject abuse, hatred bullying from both men and women. The women hate on and try to sabotage me and men just want to use me for their seggual gratification... Hardly anyone treats me with human decency or dignity... Because there is a weird assumption that my life is easy because of my appearance. That's how they justify treating me like trash... As if I had control over how I came out of the womb. I hate it here.
Thank you for describing my life. I've lived it all my life and nobody to understand because, of course, everyone else is "average", "ugly" so stop complaining.
Meanwhile your life is a living hell and people purposefully enjoy making it harder for you just because of your beauty.
The stalking, the harassement of males, their dirty looks, the jealousy of females wanting to break you to look better. Or masculine females thinking they got a chance. Old married dirty dudes, the lonely males, the insecure plain Janes....
And literally no one to protect, not a BF, father, brother, nobody.
You are beautiful, your beauty is meant to protect you and make you rich.
Street harassement, work harassement. It takes time to unpack all of that, and assume your beauty.
I'm now in my "take no sh!t" period. So now I don't care. But I don't make friends with people especially old people. I don't listen to their problems. I don't want no romantic relationship to have someone else's burden on my shoulder.
Yup.
@@kantik2118 being ugly is hard too. Imagine people treating you like you don't exist or like you aren't human. People are very cruel. It's like they think you don't cry too or don't bleed blood when you're ugly.
@@genevieveaniko6492 I understand you fully. I do the same. I wish we learned earlier in life to avoid humans. We would have saved ourselves from much drama and problems. The bullying never stops. I thought it would end at the age of teenagers and I had no idea bullying would continue until a woman is close to 40.
@@kantik2118 I fully agree with every Single word you wrote. You relate and you know how that life is like with all the hate and abuse and bullying. I wish we were protected by a father or brother. Sad we had to grow up in a toxic family filled with jealous people who gossip and pray for one’s downfall. They never want to see you doing better than them. So many married men in the inboxes proudly cheating on their wife’s. Beauty is a curse. So many who try to take advantage of you
I can’t deal with average people talking about pretty people’s experiences lol
2:35 This queen took one Sephora class on privilege for the company's diversity legal defense and decided he knew everything there is to know from the perspective of a beautiful woman. Okay.
90% of the women in this video were hella average tho....
The class would love to see what you look like 😊
@AmberBrooklyn24 I don't have to prove anything...you're basic
I agree with 100%. This just proves that beauty is subjective, and in the eye of the beholder. I thought most were average with lots of glued on additions, and make up ….and they were still average after all that effort.
beauty passes and charm is deceiving, but a woman who praises the Lord is most worthy, proverbs 31
HalleluYah🙏🏾. As judge Judy says “beauty fades, dumb is forever”.
It has benefits and disadvantages at the end of the day those with pretty privilege wouldn’t give it up for ugly privilege 💀
I think average people that clean up well have the best of both worlds.
Men always assume am already taken
There is no way I can be single
That’s been the story my whole life. Men can’t believe that I’m single. They often ask if I turn into an ogre at 3am. That’s why women have to ensure they can provide a secure, comfortable life for themselves and any children they might have. Anything you get from a man should be a bonus, not a necessity.
@@jaijai5250 agreed
I thought these people were average lol, wont make me turn my head 😭
lol, riiiight! Not ugly, but, not pretty either
They are speaking on their experiences. Just because this is how you feel doesn't mean it's how all people who have come across them feel.
A few were pretty. But a lot of them weren’t. lol.
Sorry, but conventionally pretty people don't get on social media screaming: I'm pretty! 😏😒😏😒
Halle Berry just talked about it. What a silly take
@@July-olabut her take was about advocacy. Though I’m sure she dealt with haters and stuff but she never made it a focus.
It’s about context.
@July-ola She talked about it in her late 50s and actually spoke about stepping away from that archetype! So whose silly--me or you?🤔🤔🤔
I never asked unattractive women if men care about thier minds. I bet the guy still does not care. He just dont bother taliikgbto who he is not attracted to. 😅😅😅😅
SEVERE social anxiety . How tf are we supposed to survive??
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The guy talking around the 3:33 mark is so very tone deaf. All his examples are the exact biases people try to project onto those they deem “pretty”. He’s proving the point while thinking he’s dropping gems.
i mean there is a downside to being pretty and loved, look at selena
I Knew Certain Women Couldn't Wait To Spread Their Ugly Spirit Around By Talking Down On The Women Sharing Their Experiences, && I Was Not Disappointed 😅😂😂😂 Little Do Y'all Know, Y'all Just Validated Everything That Was Said In These Women's Videos. That's Why We'll Never Have True Sisterhood, Quick To Tear Each Other Down For NOTHING. We Are Our Own Worst Enemies.
Genuine question, because I’ve seen others do it online. Why do you start each word with a capital letter? Written word is a form of communication with others, and you want them to understand what you’re relying to convey. It’s really difficult for the recipient to recalibrate their brain to know that each capital letter is not a new sentence, but just something you may think looks “good”.
I ask this question because I automatically skip comments that are written in this way. It’s too much effort for my middle aged brain.
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The way people are so willfully obtuse about this subject is so annoying. With that said, some of the responses heavily give “the call is coming from inside the room”
I really hate that there are women who think they get treated differently just for being pretty. Baby we get treated THE SAME as other women. We all have the same stories it's just more men on our heads. The only tangible difference being that we get a slightly longer period of men faking of their personality.
That’s simply not true
No. Beautiful women are hunted for sport by men and women.
Absolutely not true
@@July-ola It is actually very true, the guy at 1:58 explained it well. Normal-treatment feels like prejudice when you're used to exceptional-treatment. This is like Sheldon Copper saying "They hate me because I'm smart".
@@LM-he7eb He Brought Up Biases Against Pretty Women, He Didn't Explain Anything Well 😂😂 Just Say You're A Hater
1st lady THANK YOU
Most women who have pretty priviledge would never want to be ugly cz they know that you get treated worse if you are not conventionally pretty. We get treated worse esp by men by society at large.
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Why does it have to be a comparison? Can people not share experiences without comparing?
Both Types Of Women Get Graped && Sexually Harassed Regardless, So What's Your Point? You Sound Ignorant.
Women do this too.
There is 100% a downside to pretty. Especially when you’re pretty in ⚪️ spaces AND the workplace.
...who's gonna tell them?
😂😂😂 Someone already did
What downside?
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@ 16:22 IFYKYK.
11:17 is she saying her mother is not attractive?😂😂
The one with the braids who at the end of a string of bad luck talked of a guy flying her out scam seems to have bad luck idk. How she get herself with all those bad people and situations. The one with the accent in the white seems to be exaragating about the experience and her looks. 😅😅😅😅😅😅 However, may very well look better than her family and freinds.
11:13 i dont think people think this far into it
I’m an older woman and I agree that people don’t think so deeply about it. However it resonates with me that people do treat you differently. I just assumed people were jealous of my achievements. I’ve never seen myself as very pretty, beautiful or gorgeous but I’ve been told that throughout my life, even as a 60 year old woman.
8:08 is the hit! Speaking truth on ALL levels.
Whoever struggles while being pretty can go ahead and be ugly and see how wonderful that is. Please. 🙄
But if you lead with looks you run the risk of being objectified.
@@Key-Key444 You're being objectified either way, if you're a woman.
@radicalreactions1633 I've been both. Fat, emo with a boy cut. Ugly as hell. Then I lost all the weight, learned how to dress, had a whole glow up. I felt more free when I was unattractive. Women liked me more, I wasn't as objectified, I didn't feel like I was constantly being stared down. So while all women may get it, some get it more than others. And I felt the most human when men didn't want to fuck me.
@@th-ck9vlthis is a word.. be careful.. people will just tell you that you’re exaggerating - because they would really rather trade places then truly hear your perspective.. when you walk a mile in someone else’s shoes, you see that it’s not all roses and sunshine.
Thank you they are always complaining about this but would never want to be ugly 😅😅😅😅
Is it possible that this mentality of "they think I am flawless" is what makes them unlikable. The idea that you think that other people see you as gods gift has anything to do with how you may subconsciously treat people and this impacts how others treat you. "She hates me cause I'm pretty" no she hates you because you think you are prettier than her and you make that known without even knowing that you make that known. I have met so many beautiful people that are genuinely good sweet people and literally no one hates them because they radiate kindness and not arrogance. That lady with the wig story really tild on herself, she showed her true cruel colors, providing that she is just as judgemental and mean as the people she calls mean and judgemental which seems like a common theme in these clips.
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I will never respect this whole "woe is me, I'm too pretty for my own good" or "everyone's hAtin on me because I look so good" narrative,as it sounds like these people are fishing for more compliments and are 'humble bragging'.
A lot of the issues they complain about is usually a result of being a woman in a s3xist society, not just by being 'pretty', but women love to find ways to make themsleves feel so special and superior to the next woman so they will sell themselves this "everyone wants me and every woman envies me" story.
I love making myself look and feeling attractive and honestly complaining about being physically attractive is like complaining about having good health or wealth.
If being pretty is such a "burden" to some of you then actively remove your beauty - gain weight, shave your head,fill your body with foods that will negatively affect your skin/looks and health and hide your figure. However many of you won't do that because you know you love the 'validation' and attention you get from it
Furthermore, there have been plenty of "average" looking people who have managed to attract a lot of positive relationships, attention etc because they shine from the inside out. As annoyingly cliche as it sounds, unshakable self love, confidence and authenticity are the most universally attractive traits one can posses, you don't have to be the hottest, skinniest, youngest or most physically beautiful person to posses those traits.
So please stop with the fake acts of distress.
You sound so slow. Tell us you missed the point without telling us. It's not just "Wahh i look good' but it's also "why are people so awful to me?" "Why do people make assumptions about me?" "Why do people go out of their way to stare and make me uncomfortable?" "Why do people enjoy my suffering when something does happen?" "Why do people assume i have no personality" "why did that girl kill her best friend just because she's a model?" it's not just crying bc u look good. It's crying because there's a literal target on your back and ur put into the spotlight always even when you don't want it. It's DANGEROUS!!! Did you even WATCH the video?!
Stop being dumb. You're doing exactly what one of the women in the video said, intentionally leaving nuances out and missing the entire point. I don't understand nor will I ever respect people like you. Willfully obtuse!
Ha please stop dismissing pretty burdens just because you assume life must be great as an exceptionally pretty woman
@beac8238 As a woman who has experienced "pretty privilege", it is clear that people who 'complain' about being 'so pretty it hurts' are humble bragging, especially since many of them have chosen to maintain an aesthetic that supposedly attracts such 'unwanted attention'.
Everything has pros and cons, but Its extremely insensitive to pretend that "being beautiful ia such a burden". Most are seeking an excuse to make themsleves feel more important than they really are.
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I was really hoping to see attractive people in this video🥴 maybe next time🤷🏽♂️
You should work on your own looks first before talking about anyone else's. 🤷♀
@corimoon3360 something an unattractive person would say🤣🤣🤣 enjoy your holidays
@@corimoon3360this entire video was about looks, and people who proclaim to be “pretty”. The OP comment was appropriate for the topic.
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Some of these ppl nvm