i was in the house, but fell asleep before you even started. when I woke up I was the only one in the live around 2am. great live ladies.I just hate I missed it. happy to listen thru the replay
Love the respectful verbal exchange/conversation/debate that you and 🦋 have with and for each other It’s an excellent example of how different opinions can be shared with integrity and respect…..I wish that there could be more conversations like this …keep up the amazing work !! Class Act!
I feel that Martel has a crush on Tisha. He’s acting like a dude that WANTS her but can’t control himself. And Tisha called it out in so many words when she said “Martel wish he had a wife like me.” Before the incident at Destinys even a few episodes ago he also said “I could have F Tisha.” He’s too invested in Tisha but masking it at being “mad” at Marsau. And Marsau knows it too. That’s the reason he told Tisha to sit there, and that’s the reason Marsau starts smiling and hugging and rubbing on Tisha when him and Martel starts arguing because he KNOWS. Watch each time they start arguing Marsau starts to smirk, touch and hug on Tisha and act like “I got what you want, I’m better than you.” And I’m TRUELY a woman who is used to being around men all my life. I’ve had men try to get with me in secret knowing I’m with someone. It be brothers and best friends. They get turned down then try to either come for me and my man. Full out fist fights out of unrestrained emotions. That episode where Martel called Marsau ugly and bottom of the barrel. Reminds me of my ex’s brother who did the same thing in front of me saying “this the type of man you want?” Lol, then fists start flying. This is after he called me trying to get with me. Telling me that he treat his women better than him. But I’m pretty sure no one will catch it. Because it’s Tisha. And how DARE Tisha be able to have those type of emotions come out of a man? It’s not what’s on you it’s what’s in you. And she got it.
Girl you know it!!!!!!! You just convinced me. I was on the fence and thought maybe he was just commenting on her body because it is banging. But I think you are right!!!! He wishes too that he was able to put his hand on his woman’s lap and she respected him enough to sit still. Baby!!!
Just finished listening …great show …I wish 🦋the best in her goal…even though I may not agree with the choice..I respect her goal for trying to seek more understanding…🦋🦋 I know u will do great! I do respect that you all were giving your opinions… I just honestly felt like it was a little harsh on 🦋 and maybe it could have been said a little bit differently, but I still respect that you expressed it the way that you felt it… But I was just thinking about butterflies feelings …like “stupid” remark did kind of make me cringe a little bit… Again I still love your show and I love all that you do… That’s just my humble opinion… I just felt like maybe that could’ve been expressed to her a little bit differently… tlc💜 I do respect your passion that you had on your position about her speaking with AR at times it felt a little condescending… I know that may not have been the intention… But I’m just giving my opinion as a viewer… But will always love the show. Take care.
I understand what you are saying and trust that we talk offline. She was prepared and said she wanted y’all to hear us go back and forth. Y’all didn’t care when she be threatening to beat my azz (lol). Arionne would in fact be stupid to talk to another blogger. That doesn’t have anything to do with Butterflii.
@ well in that case… Great job… I think I just got an epiphany lol… I got on the spectrum for a minute lol… Great job at again showing how conversation can happen with different opinions !
Teaching💜💜…. I respect you all for this … It kind of goes back to the whole premise of your show even with your documentary showing how these different opinions really went crazy with lamh content creators so I totally respect you all for having this conversation… Like I said, I hope that there can be more of these on more of the channels… but no one can do it like unpopular…💜 Very smart💜
The key is the people have to respect each other!!! There has to be some sort of relational trust. She still mad at me for doing a live about Melody lying about her timeline 😂. She went off saying I don’t listen and I’m full of ish. I love it
Replay gang….I really enjoyed you two as always 😂 Thank you UOP for providing some balance with the whole AL “beef”…I was actually on the live when Anthony asked his subs when they wanted him to go live after he had great engagement on a morning live and the people requested 8am CST..I honestly think people are feeling a way about Anthony’s recordings and are trying to curate beef. It’s no different from T or Marcella going live in the morning. I’m a Virgo azz hole. I also think that how I grew up and my profession has desensitized me quite a bit (I’m working on this 😂) , so I think that Arionne needs to be looking to God for extra grace and not bloggers😬🤷🏽♀️ BTW please check out Anointed Fire’s live about creative war fare..it’s a great listen so far.
Hi UPO I made that statement in the members only live. That Arionne was giving AL all that information to get on the show, but you didn't agree with me. LOL
Hmmmm 😫 the shots Live must have changed my mind because I couldn’t think of any reason why she would do that. I’ll give you the credit when I go back live
Great live the "ON." I was listening to the second half from the bushes. I had to go back and catch the first half as a replay! I'm so glad that the Scott's did that live and asked the viewers what they want to see?!?! I'm also, glad they shared some of the things they have filmed and indirectly let the viewers know production is editing out their real life.....i do feel the lazy producer could be towards Martell and Mel's producer's; because their storylines really have not changed....it's still their messy marriage drama....although, they are no longer married. My opinion for Marsau is not to give the producer's anything that will continue to have them edit him as not being supportive of Tisha, when he is saying in real life i am....i see through the bs that's shown...just ready to see something different. Something better. Some good reality tv. Like i said in Butterflii chat last week; the show doesn't have to be full of drama all the time, and it shouldn't be at the expense of cast members losing businesses or deals....(fun shade here and there)
There is something about Anthony that I can't put my finger on. I believe the intent for the mock interview between him and Arrionne changed when he found out she went to other content creators. She messed up his bag and he was going to get his bag back and Vengeance at the same time. As a counselor, I lead with my counselor's heart. Arrionne is a peice of work. Martel read her well before he approached her; Just like he read Mel. After getting to know Arrionne and her family, he knew he could wrap his fingers around hers and that's what he did. The girl has been mentally brainwashed with an evil spirit. She requires family intervention which she does not have and major therapy to pull her out of the hell hole she's in. We live in a diverse Society. Some people feel the same way about her as you unpopular opinion and some people feel the same way as butterflii in regards to Arrionne. I appreciate both mindsets. However, I would hate to live in a world where everyone chooses to give up on a person who could potentially turn it around and be great. Change is possible even in the worst-case scenarios. Arrionne is reaping and will continue to reap until she uses her God-given free will to better herself. There are individuals with god-given gifts who can support and help her on her journey to redemption when and if she chooses to redeem herself. Seems like she's crying out for help and the CC's who she has approached and trusted because she doesn't know any better have not been there to help her, they utilized her weaknesses for profit. Which make them no better than Martel, only he gets sex and a mouth piece instead of money. If Butterflii's intent is pure and Arrionne is open and willing to make a change, it could possibly be great. The answer is always no if you don't try.
I understand everything you are saying and I agree with people changing and needing help to change. I just don’t think that everyone is equal in that regard. There are a lot of things that people are not factoring into the situation such as the current cultural climate that is reflected in the music and social media. Led by Instagram models, cardi B, city girls, Meg the stallion, Latto, Glorilla (I could keep going). We are older so we see things differently than this generation. When we fail to realize that and approach them like something is “wrong” with them, we are out of touch. I have a lot of opinions about the current state of culture right now. Arionne is likely reflecting that. Watch the balloon pop show and you will see what I’m talking about. My whole point is she has to learn for herself. Our debate is around who CAN reach/teach her. Life can/will. When she is really ready to grow up, she will and I’m sure there are people in her family praying for that day. My convo wasn’t about butterflii calling her, it’s my thoughts on arionne talking to another blogger and Butterflii going bleeding heart for her. We have an inside joke about how she is hard on people out the gate and I’m more demure but the situation flips over time where she is the soft one and I’m not.
the same way marsau uses his words to defend himself when sparring with martell, he could use his words to defend his wife. but marsau is only concerned with marsau. he’s shown that he always defends himself. he dgaf about tisha
Marsau also uses his words to defend Mel. Therefore, he can use his words to defend his wife. He picks and chooses what he does for himself and then tries to come back and gives a mediocre reason to justify his decision. I bet Tisha doesn't feel the same way, I bet she would appreciate her husband speaking up some of the time. Last night, Marsau barely let Tisha get through a sentence without interrupting her. I believe he doesn't want her to slip up and tell how she really feels about what he does/doesn't say just like she did when she told how she felt about Martell during Carlos's podcast. I will never forget Marsau saying that he was with Chris Fletcher in Atlanta when his back appeared on social media. Chris Fletcher said no he wasn't. Marsau is a word smith and he is not innocent. He also knows the cameras are rolling and security s present, he could have said something to Martell on several occasions about disrespecting his wife. However, I do not support anyone who goes after people's marriages.
I understand your perspective. Consider this. Much like I said in the live. When he has defended Mel, it wasn’t a situation that impacted him personally. He doesn’t care about her so he won’t be in a position to have to physically back it up. When Martell is talking about Tisha he has be careful. He will crash out. It is best for him to spend that time being measured and waiting the scene out. Like he said, whatever he says to Martell (who defiantly won’t oblige) marsau has to be prepared to respond with force.
i was in the house, but fell asleep before you even started. when I woke up I was the only one in the live around 2am. great live ladies.I just hate I missed it. happy to listen thru the replay
Love the respectful verbal exchange/conversation/debate that you and 🦋 have with and for each other
It’s an excellent example of how different opinions can be shared with integrity and respect…..I wish that there could be more conversations like this …keep up the amazing work !! Class Act!
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Yay!!!! Thank you for listening and for your support
I feel that Martel has a crush on Tisha. He’s acting like a dude that WANTS her but can’t control himself. And Tisha called it out in so many words when she said “Martel wish he had a wife like me.” Before the incident at Destinys even a few episodes ago he also said “I could have F Tisha.” He’s too invested in Tisha but masking it at being “mad” at Marsau. And Marsau knows it too. That’s the reason he told Tisha to sit there, and that’s the reason Marsau starts smiling and hugging and rubbing on Tisha when him and Martel starts arguing because he KNOWS. Watch each time they start arguing Marsau starts to smirk, touch and hug on Tisha and act like “I got what you want, I’m better than you.” And I’m TRUELY a woman who is used to being around men all my life. I’ve had men try to get with me in secret knowing I’m with someone. It be brothers and best friends. They get turned down then try to either come for me and my man. Full out fist fights out of unrestrained emotions. That episode where Martel called Marsau ugly and bottom of the barrel. Reminds me of my ex’s brother who did the same thing in front of me saying “this the type of man you want?” Lol, then fists start flying. This is after he called me trying to get with me. Telling me that he treat his women better than him. But I’m pretty sure no one will catch it. Because it’s Tisha. And how DARE Tisha be able to have those type of emotions come out of a man? It’s not what’s on you it’s what’s in you. And she got it.
Girl you know it!!!!!!! You just convinced me. I was on the fence and thought maybe he was just commenting on her body because it is banging. But I think you are right!!!! He wishes too that he was able to put his hand on his woman’s lap and she respected him enough to sit still. Baby!!!
Just finished listening …great show …I wish 🦋the best in her goal…even though I may not agree with the choice..I respect her goal for trying to seek more understanding…🦋🦋 I know u will do great!
I do respect that you all were giving your opinions… I just honestly felt like it was a little harsh on 🦋 and maybe it could have been said a little bit differently, but I still respect that you expressed it the way that you felt it… But I was just thinking about butterflies feelings …like “stupid” remark did kind of make me cringe a little bit… Again I still love your show and I love all that you do… That’s just my humble opinion… I just felt like maybe that could’ve been expressed to her a little bit differently… tlc💜 I do respect your passion that you had on your position about her speaking with AR at times it felt a little condescending… I know that may not have been the intention… But I’m just giving my opinion as a viewer… But will always love the show. Take care.
I agree with your comments.
I understand what you are saying and trust that we talk offline. She was prepared and said she wanted y’all to hear us go back and forth. Y’all didn’t care when she be threatening to beat my azz (lol). Arionne would in fact be stupid to talk to another blogger. That doesn’t have anything to do with Butterflii.
@ well in that case… Great job… I think I just got an epiphany lol… I got on the spectrum for a minute lol… Great job at again showing how conversation can happen with different opinions !
Teaching💜💜…. I respect you all for this … It kind of goes back to the whole premise of your show even with your documentary showing how these different opinions really went crazy with lamh content creators so I totally respect you all for having this conversation… Like I said, I hope that there can be more of these on more of the channels… but no one can do it like unpopular…💜
Very smart💜
The key is the people have to respect each other!!! There has to be some sort of relational trust. She still mad at me for doing a live about Melody lying about her timeline 😂. She went off saying I don’t listen and I’m full of ish. I love it
Replay gang….I really enjoyed you two as always 😂 Thank you UOP for providing some balance with the whole AL “beef”…I was actually on the live when Anthony asked his subs when they wanted him to go live after he had great engagement on a morning live and the people requested 8am CST..I honestly think people are feeling a way about Anthony’s recordings and are trying to curate beef. It’s no different from T or Marcella going live in the morning. I’m a Virgo azz hole. I also think that how I grew up and my profession has desensitized me quite a bit (I’m working on this 😂) , so I think that Arionne needs to be looking to God for extra grace and not bloggers😬🤷🏽♀️ BTW please check out Anointed Fire’s live about creative war fare..it’s a great listen so far.
Oooh will do thanks!!
Hi UPO I made that statement in the members only live. That Arionne was giving AL all that information to get on the show, but you didn't agree with me. LOL
Hmmmm 😫 the shots Live must have changed my mind because I couldn’t think of any reason why she would do that. I’ll give you the credit when I go back live
Great live the "ON." I was listening to the second half from the bushes. I had to go back and catch the first half as a replay! I'm so glad that the Scott's did that live and asked the viewers what they want to see?!?! I'm also, glad they shared some of the things they have filmed and indirectly let the viewers know production is editing out their real life.....i do feel the lazy producer could be towards Martell and Mel's producer's; because their storylines really have not changed....it's still their messy marriage drama....although, they are no longer married. My opinion for Marsau is not to give the producer's anything that will continue to have them edit him as not being supportive of Tisha, when he is saying in real life i am....i see through the bs that's shown...just ready to see something different. Something better. Some good reality tv. Like i said in Butterflii chat last week; the show doesn't have to be full of drama all the time, and it shouldn't be at the expense of cast members losing businesses or deals....(fun shade here and there)
Can’t believe I missed y’all.
There is something about Anthony that I can't put my finger on. I believe the intent for the mock interview between him and Arrionne changed when he found out she went to other content creators. She messed up his bag and he was going to get his bag back and Vengeance at the same time. As a counselor, I lead with my counselor's heart. Arrionne is a peice of work. Martel read her well before he approached her; Just like he read Mel. After getting to know Arrionne and her family, he knew he could wrap his fingers around hers and that's what he did. The girl has been mentally brainwashed with an evil spirit. She requires family intervention which she does not have and major therapy to pull her out of the hell hole she's in. We live in a diverse Society. Some people feel the same way about her as you unpopular opinion and some people feel the same way as butterflii in regards to Arrionne. I appreciate both mindsets. However, I would hate to live in a world where everyone chooses to give up on a person who could potentially turn it around and be great. Change is possible even in the worst-case scenarios. Arrionne is reaping and will continue to reap until she uses her God-given free will to better herself. There are individuals with god-given gifts who can support and help her on her journey to redemption when and if she chooses to redeem herself. Seems like she's crying out for help and the CC's who she has approached and trusted because she doesn't know any better have not been there to help her, they utilized her weaknesses for profit. Which make them no better than Martel, only he gets sex and a mouth piece instead of money. If Butterflii's intent is pure and Arrionne is open and willing to make a change, it could possibly be great. The answer is always no if you don't try.
I understand everything you are saying and I agree with people changing and needing help to change. I just don’t think that everyone is equal in that regard. There are a lot of things that people are not factoring into the situation such as the current cultural climate that is reflected in the music and social media. Led by Instagram models, cardi B, city girls, Meg the stallion, Latto, Glorilla (I could keep going). We are older so we see things differently than this generation. When we fail to realize that and approach them like something is “wrong” with them, we are out of touch. I have a lot of opinions about the current state of culture right now. Arionne is likely reflecting that. Watch the balloon pop show and you will see what I’m talking about. My whole point is she has to learn for herself. Our debate is around who CAN reach/teach her. Life can/will. When she is really ready to grow up, she will and I’m sure there are people in her family praying for that day. My convo wasn’t about butterflii calling her, it’s my thoughts on arionne talking to another blogger and Butterflii going bleeding heart for her. We have an inside joke about how she is hard on people out the gate and I’m more demure but the situation flips over time where she is the soft one and I’m not.
the same way marsau uses his words to defend himself when sparring with martell, he could use his words to defend his wife. but marsau is only concerned with marsau. he’s shown that he always defends himself. he dgaf about tisha
Marsau also uses his words to defend Mel. Therefore, he can use his words to defend his wife. He picks and chooses what he does for himself and then tries to come back and gives a mediocre reason to justify his decision. I bet Tisha doesn't feel the same way, I bet she would appreciate her husband speaking up some of the time. Last night, Marsau barely let Tisha get through a sentence without interrupting her. I believe he doesn't want her to slip up and tell how she really feels about what he does/doesn't say just like she did when she told how she felt about Martell during Carlos's podcast. I will never forget Marsau saying that he was with Chris Fletcher in Atlanta when his back appeared on social media. Chris Fletcher said no he wasn't. Marsau is a word smith and he is not innocent. He also knows the cameras are rolling and security s present, he could have said something to Martell on several occasions about disrespecting his wife. However, I do not support anyone who goes after people's marriages.
I understand your perspective. Consider this. Much like I said in the live. When he has defended Mel, it wasn’t a situation that impacted him personally. He doesn’t care about her so he won’t be in a position to have to physically back it up. When Martell is talking about Tisha he has be careful. He will crash out. It is best for him to spend that time being measured and waiting the scene out. Like he said, whatever he says to Martell (who defiantly won’t oblige) marsau has to be prepared to respond with force.
I respect and understand you perspective. 💕
Did you hear my explanation and marsaus? What do you think about that?
@@lynnlmj great point! he’s definitely a melometer