Why Kendrick Lamar's "u" is Heartbreaking

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  • @ScamboliReviews
    @ScamboliReviews 3 роки тому +30051

    UA-cam tried to kill this video, but I want to let you know I found it in my recommended regardless

    • @raynjpg
      @raynjpg 3 роки тому +189

      same here. also, what's up scam.

    • @identical.
      @identical. 3 роки тому +55

      Love yo vids bro

    • @sean269
      @sean269 3 роки тому +84

      Yo didn’t expect you on this video
      Actually you’re probably the only anime reviewer I would expect to see here because you have taste

    • @tscravenger7825
      @tscravenger7825 3 роки тому +8

      @Scamboli Reviews Same

    • @CesarLopez-zf2xx
      @CesarLopez-zf2xx 3 роки тому +6

      Recommendations sometimes be the best vids ngl

  • @theshowershow
    @theshowershow 3 роки тому +11273

    Its actually heartbreaking that this video is age restricted being so well produced from a small channel

    • @kristiankbo
      @kristiankbo  3 роки тому +438

      yeahhh but i kinda get why it is based on the topic

    • @theshowershow
      @theshowershow 3 роки тому +112

      @@kristiankbo aw shit didnt expect this i commented just for the algorithm

    • @oldjay8008
      @oldjay8008 3 роки тому +12

      Very well put.

    • @soapyguy6483
      @soapyguy6483 3 роки тому +52

      It wasn't age restricted for me. It just gave me a warning by UA-cam

    • @rocketleague2472
      @rocketleague2472 3 роки тому +11

      it should be IQ restricted, only for mediocre people

  • @menselv7142
    @menselv7142 3 роки тому +10401

    The line “I’m fucked up, but not as fucked up as you” becomes almost paradoxical when you realize he’s talking to himself

    • @l.t.c8.1.46
      @l.t.c8.1.46 3 роки тому +484

      The fact that the song is called "u" is intended as a paradox

    • @AaronCreates
      @AaronCreates 3 роки тому +440

      Mannn when you struggle with depression negative thoughts will get into you in ways you wouldn't imagine. Since you convince yourself that the world hates you without any sort of evidence, you become this toxic voice, telling yourself all these things as if they came from someone else. That shit distorts your self-image so much that your own version of yourself is unrecognizable to other people.

    • @37thousand
      @37thousand 3 роки тому +70

      @@AaronCreates I agree with what you said , except I would take it one step further in that some folks do have legitimate evidence of why people hate or dont fw them. That is no reason to remain in depression forever, but it does explain why it’s harder to escape.

    • @ashadownoonenoticed
      @ashadownoonenoticed 3 роки тому +174

      I always took it as “im fucked up” (Kendrick saying he’s intoxicated) but i ain’t as fucked up as you” (Kendrick saying even at his intoxicated state he’s not as fucked up as Kendrick as a person)

    • @t-dog2474
      @t-dog2474 3 роки тому +4

      @UCSWV2lAgWqzXEDwnlY05cwA I know this might make me sound like a weak man 😭😞but this is how I feel everyday 😞...😞This comment hit me so hard 😭😞because I swear I feel everyone hates me and that I've failed in life and I'm only 20😞

  • @Thelonl3y1
    @Thelonl3y1 3 роки тому +1033

    When K.dot said : “ God himself will say you fucking failed U AINT TRY” gave me chills down the spine.

    • @Espiritdcore
      @Espiritdcore 7 місяців тому +9

      It sent cold shivers down my spine 😢😢😢

    • @Justplanelandings
      @Justplanelandings 7 місяців тому +32

      Here’s a Bible verse to cheer you up.
      John 3:16-17, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”

    • @Outwest290
      @Outwest290 6 місяців тому +4

      @@Justplanelandingsthank you

    • @stephanie6676
      @stephanie6676 5 місяців тому +3

      It's my favorite line, maybe cuz how transparent, honest and brutal it is in just 1 line

  • @Joseph_Hamilton
    @Joseph_Hamilton 2 роки тому +186

    “I can feel your vibe, and recognize that you’re ashamed of me. Yes I hate you too.”
    That one gets me every time.

  • @dashonaubrey1321
    @dashonaubrey1321 3 роки тому +3244

    ‘u’ and ‘FEAR’ are the only rap songs to ever make me cry. They hit too close to home.

  • @TEFLONDONTRUMP2024
    @TEFLONDONTRUMP2024 3 роки тому +7242

    Man pours his soul out on a record and people think he's overrated SMH

    • @crystalrivera7313
      @crystalrivera7313 3 роки тому +318

      Fuuuuck yeah, I literally can’t stand people that hate in him he’s the realest rapper EVER, DEADASSS, he’s an ARTIST, and people are so focused on listening to music that promotes toxic masculinity.

    • @kickhoppa5891
      @kickhoppa5891 3 роки тому +9

      @@crystalrivera7313 kendrick don't promote toxic masculinity? lol

    • @snare4013
      @snare4013 3 роки тому +238

      @@kickhoppa5891 just read his comment again…

    • @emilj883
      @emilj883 3 роки тому +25

      @@kickhoppa5891 ??

    • @donathan2933
      @donathan2933 3 роки тому +81

      ppl use the word "overrated" without proper context. Or maybe they just too stupid to understand the meaning of Kendrick's songs

  • @HeavenStudiosOfficial
    @HeavenStudiosOfficial 3 роки тому +4604

    "U" breaks you into pieces so "I" can put you back together as a better version of yourself.

    • @AJRAOfficial
      @AJRAOfficial 3 роки тому +108

      Lovee this take its perfect

    • @benwise2874
      @benwise2874 3 роки тому +19

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 #Dope

    • @MFKR696
      @MFKR696 3 роки тому +1

      That's about the lamest Snowflake shit I've ever heard lol. You can't fix people. They have to do that themselves.

    • @loto7197
      @loto7197 3 роки тому +64

      @@MFKR696 I think that's a direct Kendrick quote, I've heard it somewhere before.

    • @MFKR696
      @MFKR696 3 роки тому +16

      @@loto7197 It's not a "quote" at all. He might have said something along the lines of that, but he's not the one who came up with it. It's a well-known fact of life, and has been for a *very* long time now.
      Yet another reason why people need to stop treating their significant-others or friends as "improvement-projects." If they're not "good enough" as they are, they're not going to be.
      No external influence is going to change that. Until they come to the conclusion that what they're doing isn't working, they can't be helped. It's really that simple.

  • @nikenshrestha1235
    @nikenshrestha1235 3 роки тому +286

    You know shit's about to go down when youtube hits up them double warning.

  • @ajontebush6629
    @ajontebush6629 3 роки тому +1249

    This song is currently helping me through a depression right now. Shits real out here- spiritual warfare, violence, generational trauma....all that. Kendrick exists in a layer of reality, most can’t comprehend.

    • @NyiPyaeSone
      @NyiPyaeSone Рік тому +1

      S

    • @NormalFootyFan
      @NormalFootyFan Рік тому

      O

    • @NormalFootyFan
      @NormalFootyFan Рік тому +1

      Y
      Man

    • @galliaxx0173
      @galliaxx0173 Рік тому +10

      Hope your doing better now man

    • @ajontebush6629
      @ajontebush6629 Рік тому +16

      @galliaxx0173 You are a real one, G. Better than I was when I wrote this. But still have a long way to go. Difference is I finally embraced that process

  • @nathandem2860
    @nathandem2860 3 роки тому +1601

    “You preached in front a hundred thousand, but never reached her”
    Still hits hard 6 years later

  • @msaldana678
    @msaldana678 3 роки тому +2580

    The line that always stuck withe me was "I know your secrets, dont let me tell em to the world about that shit you thinking and that time you...." Heavily implying hes attempted suicide before.

    • @kristiankbo
      @kristiankbo  3 роки тому +200

      indeed, i get goosebumps everytime i hear it

    • @xavierslocombe4837
      @xavierslocombe4837 3 роки тому +9

      BRUH

    • @iamhexoronii
      @iamhexoronii 3 роки тому +16

      Could of been that or
      Of something he’s done ,

    • @jakobirose714
      @jakobirose714 3 роки тому +132

      @@iamhexoronii Fr. Could definitely be talking about something the industry introduced him too. Whenever I listen to his music I feel he knows something that he wants to tell but knows he can’t. And then him not dropping music scares me because I feel Kendrick is one of those artists that would run away from the industry shit on some Dave Chappelle shit

    • @dresalomon1072
      @dresalomon1072 3 роки тому +7

      For me as well I was in a dark place for 3 yea and everytime I heard u I would breakdown everytime I heard this verse

  • @LivingProof98
    @LivingProof98 3 роки тому +3355

    i only found this video because I was watching a video called U by Kendrick Lamar but it's muscleman singing and this video was in the recommend on the right side lol. but I really like your video on this song Kendrick have been the only person who made songs that literally scared me. the first song was Dying of Thrist (Specifically the 2nd part of the song, where the older ladie speaks to kendrick and his friends) as someone who grew up in church and thinks a lot about the judgement day and hell it REALLY scared me

    • @kristiankbo
      @kristiankbo  3 роки тому +121

      oh wow! sing about me, i'm dying of thirst is also an amazing yet haunting memorabilia from kendricks discography, love that song

    • @skejrbfkxjsnw6314
      @skejrbfkxjsnw6314 3 роки тому +156

      Wtf that’s exactly how I found it too lmao I was watching U but it’s muscleman

    • @FatShlime
      @FatShlime 3 роки тому +16

      Colaws brought you here

    • @subway2297
      @subway2297 3 роки тому +37

      fax just came from the muscleman remix lmaoo

    • @oddtoddlers47
      @oddtoddlers47 3 роки тому +11

      same lol

  • @wahl7837
    @wahl7837 Рік тому +19

    "i fucking hate you i hope you embrace it" really denies any thought or pursuit of peace and shows a struggle accompiend by panic and sorrow

  • @bruhmoment-yc5zg
    @bruhmoment-yc5zg 3 роки тому +551

    This is why I love Kendrick. What he says is relatable to everyone, even some private school kid in Japan. Institutionalized and the final poem made me nearly cry because it reminded me of a good friend I once had.
    Great video dude!

  • @boogb6766
    @boogb6766 3 роки тому +376

    "God himself would say you fucking failed, you ain't try" He really came down on himself man i can only imagine

  • @noblepolygon8694
    @noblepolygon8694 3 роки тому +1704

    This song literally saved my life. I was going through major life changes. Partner cheated on me, I couldn't find a job after the company started went under & I had to go back to living with my parents. I drank every night and was picking up different women. The night this album came out I was contemplating ending it and this song came out when I was in the shower. Hearing what he was saying somehow made me realize everyone goes through these hard times. Finally, Alright came on and it snapped me out of my thoughts. Thank you Kendrick,

    • @JelyMelo
      @JelyMelo 3 роки тому +65

      I had a very similar experience with this song and the transition into Alright

    • @sunnysteph_o
      @sunnysteph_o 3 роки тому +43

      It’s honestly a perfect transition. Everything really is gonna be alright.

    • @MiCHELLEannSPIRESmasterminedAO
      @MiCHELLEannSPIRESmasterminedAO 3 роки тому +7

      Hallelujah your still hanging in with us...me too, whew! Kendrick's Christ force brings out ours, Hell is no joke; calling it Earth was brilliant. The show the Good Place combined with my understanding of duality made me realize their is only Heaven and Hell, residing both in the same place. Ofcourse, one would truly have to be in Hell on Earth to know what Heaven in us could possibly feel and look like. Contrast, polarity is why their are two of us to make it possible to know that their is won. How blessed are we to KNOW that the world in US is far more real the one we perceive to be outside of us bc we were never in any immediate danger, but for us, the pain inside far exceeded the power of the 3d reality around us. That is a gift!!! Love that you stayed, I think I will too. Peace be with you always beloved brother.

    • @Joseph-qg3ir
      @Joseph-qg3ir 3 роки тому +11

      Fr the transition is a life saver

    • @nekooTV
      @nekooTV 3 роки тому +3

      hope you doing good now man!

  • @Alexa-bp8rm
    @Alexa-bp8rm 3 роки тому +1063

    I remember being in the car with my Dad a couple years ago when I just heard this song. I tried playing it to my dad to show him how good rap can be but he didn't get it at all. I couldn't help myself from crying from that. Its insane to me how people can't see rap as such a diverse and complex genre of music or not even considering rap as music at all. It always makes me happy to see that people really like and resonate with Kendrick's music and 'u' in particular because its just so thought-provoking and emotional. Also, I can tell that your music on your spotify was influenced by Kendrick :)

    • @kristiankbo
      @kristiankbo  3 роки тому +51

      yeah! kendrick is an inspiration no doubt, thanks for checking it out :)

    • @barabara9855
      @barabara9855 3 роки тому +69

      True. People that say rap isn't real music don't bother trying to understand it

    • @Black-vi3zg
      @Black-vi3zg 3 роки тому +23

      @@barabara9855 I think rap the best genre how do some people not consider it real music

    • @punani_slayer4209
      @punani_slayer4209 3 роки тому +4

      Holy shit you're a baby

    • @rithvikr4785
      @rithvikr4785 3 роки тому +22

      @@punani_slayer4209 bro shut up

  • @cn2299
    @cn2299 3 роки тому +284

    It’s a shame that this analysis of real emotion, struggle, and working through it is trying to be taken down. The message is really what people need, but it’s being censored…That, in itself, says a lot.

  • @jwizdum2103
    @jwizdum2103 3 роки тому +160

    To this day the 2nd half of “U” is one of the most powerfully delivered verses I’ve ever heard. The saxophone/drums mixed with his insanely true emotional voice will never not give me chills.

  • @ScamboliReviews
    @ScamboliReviews 3 роки тому +3181

    Great video, I especially loved the little stuff like how stopped talking at 4:00 and the transition between chapter 1 and 2 at 6:55, really had a professional vibe.

    • @natiy.642
      @natiy.642 3 роки тому +7

      Next vid should have a TPAB instrumental in the background brodie

    • @iqbal1734
      @iqbal1734 3 роки тому +10

      yoo scamboli what are you doing here

    • @DrAg0n3250
      @DrAg0n3250 3 роки тому +7

      Goddamn bro. No wonder I like your vids. We watch the same stuff.

    • @5xwrldchmp
      @5xwrldchmp 3 роки тому +2

      I love your vids

    • @GabrielXander
      @GabrielXander Рік тому

      This nigga scamboli

  • @coolsonic411
    @coolsonic411 3 роки тому +871

    Maybe that’s why he hasn’t come out with an album in so long. It’s emotionally draining to do it in his perspective…. Maybe he feels as if he has no other things he needs to talk about.

    • @jiggydahoe2151
      @jiggydahoe2151 3 роки тому +54

      i'm thinking the exact same thing. 'cause all these famous artists are currently on the charts and i'm thinking where's kendrick. i searched his songs and bumped to that muscle man cover and then to this. it made a lot more sense.

    • @greitasopelis5542
      @greitasopelis5542 3 роки тому +43

      Because kendrick raps from the soul, while the other rappers rap from the drugs

    • @jiggydahoe2151
      @jiggydahoe2151 3 роки тому +26

      @@greitasopelis5542 right. and doing that consistently and kendrick staying true to that makes it understandable if he needs to recharge and heal his soul. i bet when he's done resting it would be another legendary album.

    • @plicool
      @plicool 3 роки тому +2

      Yea

    • @plicool
      @plicool 3 роки тому +1

      @@jiggydahoe2151 facts

  • @owens.
    @owens. 3 роки тому +363

    U is really an eye opener for many reasons: it really gives a reflection on your thoughts and emotions, and the sympathy you get towards Kendrick is helpless. Like, you can’t help yourself from wanting to help Kendrick, but he’s pretty much *helping* others by not helping himself. To get to that level of honesty and put yourself in that position of being recklessly emotional, not everyone can do that. It really hurts, but it heals at the same time.

  • @AST-erisked
    @AST-erisked 3 роки тому +236

    I write songs as a hobbie, and im always trying to be a better lyricist, and when i hear artists like kendrick im just speachless... how can someone be so transparent and intimate about their emotions and insecurities?, of their dark thoughts and burdens... how can you not be afraid of being that vulnerable?, like, i feel uncomfortable saying im sad and he just opens his soul and then he let us take a look. Add the music, the delivery, the placing in the album and the overall story. An Artist.

  • @sebastienbrusselletbe1243
    @sebastienbrusselletbe1243 3 роки тому +160

    Can we talk about the editing it’s well done and probably took forever

  • @ZachNasonCantSwim
    @ZachNasonCantSwim 3 роки тому +157

    The first time I heard the beat switch and the second verse, I was out riding my bike on a trail and I had to stop and cry. It broke my heart. And it really resonated with me. I will never forget that moment of pure emotion that just overwhelmed me.

    • @boogb6766
      @boogb6766 3 роки тому +9

      its so dope. First time i heard the beat switch, I though my headphones were shorting lol. We are so fortunate for KDot. Masterpiece after masterpiece.

  • @guren_mk_II
    @guren_mk_II 3 роки тому +93

    its important to note that he was truly crying when recording the verse

  • @frameddonut1056
    @frameddonut1056 3 роки тому +779

    Just listened to U by Muscleman and it was as haunting as the original version, your vid was on the recommended section. Thx for helping me calm down =)

    • @thedopepope2250
      @thedopepope2250 3 роки тому +6

      Same man same

    • @thedopepope2250
      @thedopepope2250 3 роки тому +22

      U can really hear muscleman's pain

    • @frameddonut1056
      @frameddonut1056 3 роки тому +18

      @@thedopepope2250 There's something in his voice that gets your guard down and then sucker-punches you in the chorus. I was not ready for that lol

    • @savion29
      @savion29 3 роки тому +1

      @@thedopepope2250 The last verse still gave me goosebumps even in muscle mans voice😭

    • @extranosense9553
      @extranosense9553 3 роки тому

      🥲

  • @jonathonparson7967
    @jonathonparson7967 10 місяців тому +11

    Seeing this 2 years later

  • @jordanpruitt3500
    @jordanpruitt3500 3 роки тому +60

    He wrote this song so well that you’d understand exactly what he’s talking about after you listen enough

  • @jakedo4577
    @jakedo4577 3 роки тому +435

    The word “u” in itself, is a powerful euphemism for almost anything. Your struggle, situation, past, present, future…anything that conjure the human’s imagination. I believe that Kendrick know wholeheartedly about the word, and when he puts it into the music; it’s speak for itself.
    For me, personally, this whole song is a call to action. No matter who you are, where your from, what religion or ideology you believe in. It’s your responsibility to learn, to live and, to fight the evil. Whether it’s within you or the circumstance, it’s you who can uplift yourself to become better. And once you done that, then others will be inspired and be thankful.

    • @MegaTareq1
      @MegaTareq1 3 роки тому +1

      This was a great explanation….I’ve always been a firm believer that the biggest battle we avoid as humans is the battle against ourselves…no one wants to question the “U”

  • @ImThrowed4Life
    @ImThrowed4Life 3 роки тому +465

    You should do sing about me, I'm dying of thirst it's prolly Kendricks most beautiful song

    • @AlieInn
      @AlieInn 3 роки тому +22

      I seriously feel like that song was written about me 😭like it obviously wasn’t I was little when it came out but I went through just about everything he talked about in that song especially the first verse🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @plicool
      @plicool 3 роки тому +2

      Factssss 😭😭

    • @VieraXXII
      @VieraXXII 3 роки тому +3

      That's my favorite song from him.

  • @S3ssion
    @S3ssion 3 роки тому +302

    The alcohol bit hits even more so when you realize bitch don’t kill my vibe is what blew him up

    • @michaelj4256
      @michaelj4256 3 роки тому +109

      Youre thinking of swimming pools

    • @kayhq
      @kayhq 3 роки тому +3

      @@michaelj4256 I den grew up round some people living they life bottles

    • @droprelease4820
      @droprelease4820 3 роки тому +37

      But even swimming pools is actually about how he got peer pressured to alcohol. Always ironic how people bop to it in parties while drunk but it’s actually a song against excess drinking

    • @changedmynamee
      @changedmynamee 3 роки тому +10

      @@droprelease4820 yeah reminds me of the time my school played the song pumped up kicks
      funniest shit ever

    • @zaire7811
      @zaire7811 Рік тому

      ​@@changedmynamee lol I always bring that up we was bopping to that on the school bus and everything

  • @JusKing4364
    @JusKing4364 3 роки тому +44

    this song hits completely different after realizing he was talking about himself…

  • @BobBobOnYouTube
    @BobBobOnYouTube 8 місяців тому +39

    It’s too bad Kendrick doesn’t allow people to video his recording sessions. I would’ve loved to have seen the recording process for this song with Kendrick doing his vocals with the lights off.

    • @b_collins7846
      @b_collins7846 8 місяців тому +6

      Bro I would watch every second if he recorded it

    • @KingGrippy
      @KingGrippy 6 місяців тому +13

      There's probably a good reason for that. It probably wouldn't be what you expected. So seeing it in a video would be disappointing. He wants it to feel actually real and genuine. If there was a random recording it takes away from the powerfulness and the message of it and it makes it not hit as hard because you know it's just a song. He wanted to feel like a real atmosphere that actually happened which is cool so it actually makes sense

  • @MeyCooks
    @MeyCooks 3 роки тому +219

    The algorithm has blessed

  • @Hazeienberg
    @Hazeienberg 3 роки тому +138

    I seen a twitter poll that said "Kendricks most underrated song?" And this wasn't even there. Absolute joke, U is the hardest song ever!! you can literally feel this song.

    • @wholemilk6001
      @wholemilk6001 3 роки тому

      this song ain't underrated tho

    • @Hazeienberg
      @Hazeienberg 3 роки тому +10

      If you think of king kunta, good kid maad city, be humble, swimming pools, alright, money trees. These are just some off the top of my head, there the songs everyone puts in their top 5/10 I know people who are life long kendrick fans and don't even know this song. 100% underrated "i" gets more recognition, and that's one of my least favourite kendrick songs

  • @j_lynsation
    @j_lynsation 3 роки тому +102

    I used to violently and silently cry on my way to high school when this song came out. I was denying some issues I was having with myself and for the life of me I couldn't fully understand why this song touched me so much for how deep I was in denial. I related. And it was painful.

  • @753studios6
    @753studios6 Рік тому +19

    U me of my severe depression while living in a group home,I stole,I was angry,and I was one step away from saying “FUCK IT.”
    Loving me was complicated but I learned we gon be alright,and that i love myself 🥳💃🏾

  • @LaMontMartiaN
    @LaMontMartiaN Рік тому +5

    I remember the first time I heard this song, I was battling paranoia/ psychosis. Dealing with a lot of personal issues, this one of the first steps of being able to truly look into the mirror

  • @PhilospherStoned
    @PhilospherStoned 3 роки тому +55

    when the third verse kicks in, it’s hard to not have a lump in your throat and misty eyes.
    i think part of what got me is the fact if someone as big as Kendrick is feeling like this, i can’t begin to imagine who else is too.

  • @GooseToe2
    @GooseToe2 3 роки тому +158

    The writing, delivery, editing and the overall pace of this video is great! Huge props for making a quality video and making it enjoyable, something I wasn't able to do with my first video essay (now deleted) loved the video :)

  • @dawgstew
    @dawgstew 3 роки тому +267

    maybe watching this after the muscleman cover wasn't the best choice.

  • @SevenSealLegend
    @SevenSealLegend 8 місяців тому +3

    The way I relate to this song so much and have myself drank inside of a hotel by myself and screamed at the walls is crazy. To think other people feel the same way as me and every other person just messes with my mind sometimes. I hope whoever has dealt with things like this, I hope you get through it as I will too.

  • @andresmonge5959
    @andresmonge5959 3 роки тому +18

    Dude don’t get unmotivated because this got age restricted. This video was great, I can see you getting a million subs one day

  • @ArnoutWG
    @ArnoutWG 3 роки тому +340

    So happy this came in my recommended never realized he was talking to his self.

    • @ohlookitsbryan
      @ohlookitsbryan 3 роки тому +34

      Nigga how

    • @donmarco4502
      @donmarco4502 3 роки тому +4

      i knew he was talking bout his self on like the 3rd listen.

    • @holden4010
      @holden4010 3 роки тому

      i always saw this song as a conversation between kendrick and the devil and serves as kendrick acknowledging his own faults and the devil tempting him with thoughts of suicide which i feel sort of ties into the reoccurring theme of “lucy” wanting kendricks soul at all costs

    • @l.t.c8.1.46
      @l.t.c8.1.46 3 роки тому +3

      @@holden4010 nah he references a mirror a couple times

    • @holden4010
      @holden4010 3 роки тому +1

      @@l.t.c8.1.46 that’s true. i sorta just interpreted it as kendricks self hatred translating into him seeing the devil in the mirror if yk what i mean

  • @Twak08
    @Twak08 3 роки тому +73

    Nice vid hope you get popular soon

  • @masonluv314
    @masonluv314 3 роки тому +12

    You’re so good i cried literally, my love for Kendricks emotional release in music is unmatched

  • @omgitsmario7
    @omgitsmario7 2 роки тому +11

    I recently listened to “U” it gave me goosebumps I felt the emotion and started to cry, but not tears buy like a baby just crying. I listened to the lyrics and made me tear up again. U is more than a song. Its a story with so much emotion that is hard to understand. It was tough man

  • @michaelalexander8501
    @michaelalexander8501 3 роки тому +19

    Songs like "U" and "Blacker the Berry" are BRILLIANT! TPAB is such a masterpiece of an album. This video just made me appreciate the genius of "U" even more.

  • @FrankenSama
    @FrankenSama 3 роки тому +109

    U has to be one of his most soul crushing songs. Every time I re listen to TPAB I tend to avoid it because of just how heavy it is + hearing Kendrick self-deprication is depressing. I love how important the track is to the core message of the album tho

  • @dictatorkenji
    @dictatorkenji 3 роки тому +35

    I always thought U wasn't a bad song, but never was my favorite. After listening and hearing what it's about, it has to be my favorite song off of the album.

  • @ChristianPA
    @ChristianPA 3 роки тому +26

    One of Kendrick's most undervalued songs.
    "You FaceTimed the one time, that's unforgiven
    You even FaceTimed instead of a hospital visit
    Guess you thought he'd recover well
    Third surgery, they couldn't stop the bleeding for real
    Then he died, God himself will say, 'You fuckin' failed', you ain't try"

  • @jonBoSouk
    @jonBoSouk 7 місяців тому +7

    This song saved my life during one of my darkest times. I take that back, the whole album saved me. But this song especially.

  • @omarandkhaled9173
    @omarandkhaled9173 6 місяців тому +10

    Kendrick is a legend man no question ask king of rap is little to Kendrick

  • @vybee6010
    @vybee6010 3 роки тому +15

    I love Kendrick. Every time I hear that song it hurts, and pulls me to a place I hated in my life. I can’t. I pray for healing for everyone. God is with you. I pray for healing for Kendrick. Happy born day too.

  • @essenel
    @essenel 3 роки тому +16

    English isn't my first language, and as much as I try to understand the lyrics of musics I listen to, I love watching these "video essays", i learn so much more about what I listen to, about the artists I love. This hurt, but thanks. You did a wonderful job on this Kristian !

  • @realitysurff
    @realitysurff 3 роки тому +33

    i was high and i was listening to “tpab” and u fr made me cry it was so overwhelming

  • @Perks829
    @Perks829 7 місяців тому +7

    This video just made u my second favourite kendrick song because the first time I heard it i thought it was about a breakup but the song goes deeper when u find out he’s speaking in the second person

  • @DaWhiteHowhard
    @DaWhiteHowhard Рік тому +2

    10:37 And it felt like its the same song since on the end of These Walls, Kendrick said "got myself screamin in a hotel room" and the scream on the u song comes in

  • @rumpleforeskin3528
    @rumpleforeskin3528 3 роки тому +25

    Been listening to TPAB since 2015 almost every month ever since it’s release and have connected to it ever since. Happy to finally see it get the acknowledgment on an artistic level it deserves.

  • @alessandraquamina4278
    @alessandraquamina4278 3 роки тому +12

    Really well explained, I'm happy to know most people's analysis of the song are similar, this WHOLE ALBUM was truly heartbreaking for me, especially when the struggles really hit home, great job fr man

  • @BananatheCreator
    @BananatheCreator 3 роки тому +12

    Glad this was recommended to me. U never made me cry, but it hit home. I was depressed and suicidal for years, and u helped me realize even famous artists like Kendrick Lamar can be, too.

  • @YaySilas
    @YaySilas 8 місяців тому +7

    Had to come and say this shit hit some different that the thing about Kdot I’m 24 now and his tracks are so relatable

    • @sludgepls
      @sludgepls 8 місяців тому +1

      I am 24, approaching 25 and I recently had the same revelation. They hit so so much harder than they EVER have. Stay strong

  • @ItsAJETT
    @ItsAJETT 2 роки тому +21

    U hits home for me personally because you don’t see many instances of black men expressing their vulnerability and weak mental health. To put that in a song that doubles as an internal monologue was powerful.

  • @rickyrichreacts9667
    @rickyrichreacts9667 3 роки тому +47

    I LOVE this song. Such a masterpiece in every sense 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @bigsmoke53
    @bigsmoke53 3 роки тому +10

    It makes me happy to see the next generation of hip hop fans appreciating real music...

  • @pamelaverret1880
    @pamelaverret1880 3 роки тому +13

    Sad this was in my recommended feed, as this song has been one of my go tos when I need to scream and cry at myself or anyone really… Rap really is so much more than some give it credit for, and Kendrick is a master of the form… if he never puts out another album, I’d be okay with that, he’s given so much already

  • @M00NL1GHTZZZ
    @M00NL1GHTZZZ 6 місяців тому +5

    This song is always in my playlist. It resonates something inside. I can relate because I hate myself sometime for absolutely horrible mistakes Ive made. I love Kendrick

    • @pagal83
      @pagal83 5 місяців тому

      I hope you find forgiveness, compassion, love, and healing. I struggle with a loss i feel I should have done more to prevent it. It's painful on more levels than just grief. There's a parable about the day Buddha didn't forgive. It's a good one :) ❤

  • @DarkSector111
    @DarkSector111 3 роки тому +16

    This album taught me more about being a black man in America than anything I've ever heard. It's so underappreciated

  • @judetully3600
    @judetully3600 3 роки тому +168

    Plot twist his pc didn't crash and he just doesn't have any friends

  • @Shaggyswrld999
    @Shaggyswrld999 6 місяців тому +20

    Bro I wanna meet Dot and give him a hug man😭😭

  • @JihiTheMusicGeek
    @JihiTheMusicGeek 3 роки тому +11

    To Pimp a Butterfly is an absolute MASTERPIECE.

  • @thatjoshwright5577
    @thatjoshwright5577 7 місяців тому +2

    Man I love Kendrick and the way he weaves messages into his songs without losing the flow. His lyricism is next to u matched up there with weezy. This song is VERY hard to listen to in an amazing way. I think a lot of people can relate to extreme guilt, regret, and not liking who you see when you look in the mirror but feeling as if you’re unable to change or that you’re too far gone. I’ve hit rock bottom so many times but Kendrick got me through those hard times. His impact in the culture is insane.

  • @beinghonest6905
    @beinghonest6905 8 місяців тому +1606

    Drake could never

    • @crem44
      @crem44 8 місяців тому +94

      His ghost writers (maybe) could 🗣️🗣️🗣️

    • @idkwhatimdoing136
      @idkwhatimdoing136 8 місяців тому +5

      For real.

    • @__meilleur
      @__meilleur 8 місяців тому +4

      Yes, “Drake could never be his number one fan”

    • @olivercharles2930
      @olivercharles2930 8 місяців тому +3

      @@__meilleurwut

    • @LeBornMajes
      @LeBornMajes 8 місяців тому +15

      ​@@__meilleur that line is directed at future

  • @kingwafer209
    @kingwafer209 3 роки тому +5

    I’m glad someone understands how crazy this song is. Also you having the same thoughts after listening to it. Great video bro

  • @kncthesecond9479
    @kncthesecond9479 7 місяців тому +6

    I was bumping this at work. I relate. Long live DOT

  • @donathan2933
    @donathan2933 3 роки тому +3

    how could UA-cam age restrict such a well analyzed video is beyond me. Such a great video

  • @ebonie1297
    @ebonie1297 3 роки тому +2

    11:06 definitely right on the feelings this song gives right after these walls. Great video

  • @TheGGH25
    @TheGGH25 3 роки тому +40

    this is why i love him so much. he actually raps about life. real life. i connected with (& still do) his lyrics, especially with this song. and he makes the instrumental and lyrical aspects just collide so perfectly every time. kendrick lamar is by far my favorite human being.

  • @tmsphere
    @tmsphere 3 роки тому +372

    This song is why I cant listen to TPAB in full very often.

    • @thekid6278
      @thekid6278 3 роки тому +10

      it gets overwhelming?

    • @tmsphere
      @tmsphere 3 роки тому +80

      @@thekid6278 hits too close to the bone.

    • @iamhexoronii
      @iamhexoronii 3 роки тому +15

      Yea exactly , I went down the rabbit with this song , and I don’t regret it but I definitely don’t see a point in revisiting , it’s like revisiting the past , I embrace it and appreciate it but don’t see a point to always go back to it

    • @The1993pimp
      @The1993pimp 3 роки тому +4

      I cry every time I listen to it

    • @MerkTheVillain
      @MerkTheVillain 3 роки тому

      I can only play TPAB. That's K Dot Magnum Opus. It make GKMC, DAMN and Section. 80 sound pop lol

  • @swift1y
    @swift1y 3 роки тому +10

    I've been using UA-cam for over a decade and I've never had a video give me THREE age restricted pop ups I had to press continue on in order to watch. No recommended videos on the page either. It's like this video is hidden in a back room somewhere.

  • @alvaxd-ownedbycharo
    @alvaxd-ownedbycharo Рік тому +2

    The chorus with the "AHHHHHH" and "Loving you is complicated, Loving you is complicated" is just perfect and literally almost had me tears

  • @Pdiaz69
    @Pdiaz69 3 роки тому +70

    I’m thinking of getting “u” tatted behind my left arm to signify it being the arm commonly used to slit the wrist, or by looking at scars that prevented a suicidal weakness, being the odd one out in society and being able to cope with the struggles, or like right now my left hand is holding my phone, when you look at yourself thru the camera, you’d think… U

    • @Pdiaz69
      @Pdiaz69 3 роки тому +6

      And on my right arm I want to tattoo “i” behind my arm to show that in the darkness times there’s a chance to turn that new leaf and accept your differences from others and whilst loving yourself, The right arm is the dominant arm used to raise your hand, therefore raising your hand to show you are part of something greater

    • @NiaKitti775
      @NiaKitti775 3 роки тому

      Beautiful ❤

  • @empolethetaco2450
    @empolethetaco2450 3 роки тому +5

    dude your like 17 and youre already making such good content, keep it up bro

    • @kristiankbo
      @kristiankbo  3 роки тому +2

      thanks!

    • @empolethetaco2450
      @empolethetaco2450 3 роки тому +1

      @@kristiankbo yw man, i admire the craftsmanship yknow, as someone who also wants to make art and shit its nice seeing a guy doing it so young (even though youre older than me :() )

  • @bavingeter423
    @bavingeter423 3 роки тому +17

    The way I picture this song, it’s like the first part is him looking into a mirror, screaming all this venom at his own reflection until he runs out of energy. Once he’s broken and beaten, his reflection responds by kicking him when he’s down. This song is literally a bad trip in a song.

  • @jerrytheseeker6277
    @jerrytheseeker6277 Рік тому +3

    We should give Kendrick credit for being vulnerable to us in such an artistic way.

  • @zozombiemami
    @zozombiemami 5 місяців тому +1

    imo the entirety of tpab encapsulates almost every aspect of mental health and hardship so well. i grew up with my fair share of trauma and struggle that consumed my life and myself but the first time I listened to tpab all the way through i genuinely felt so heard after feelings isolated in my emotions and was js left with a feeling of hope, peace and connection Id never met before. i was 13 and have used writing/lyricism and broadly art as a means to help manage myself and hopefully encourage others since. music and poetry saves lives and I genuinely believe that connection and understanding through sound and words is one of the most beautiful things to exist. beyond tpab, a lot of kendricks work has changed my perspective on life (as dramatic as that sounds haha) for the better and helped me realize a lot that had helped me manage depression, anxiety and bpd. I hope that I’m not alone in my experience and that the love and hope continues to spread to through music, far beyond kdots work. i seriously hope that those who have never surfaced to see and feel the light will do so, catalyzed by sound and lyricism and the beautiful will of themselves and these artists 💘

  • @zzidd
    @zzidd 2 місяці тому

    this is actually my favourite video essay now thank you

  • @JJTheGoat18
    @JJTheGoat18 3 роки тому +5

    I was actually confused at the Left and Right speaker switching when I first listened to the song. Thanks for the explanation

  • @gxxnie
    @gxxnie 3 роки тому +9

    Why did UA-cam try to hide this beauty
    Anyways, it doesnt matter bc were all here. And we all love it🖤

  • @ssolarradesongodfree7716
    @ssolarradesongodfree7716 3 роки тому +4

    The delivery, editing, everything makes this vid beautiful. You better get popular soon!

  • @gunzishot
    @gunzishot 7 місяців тому +2

    I cry when I hear this record , it make me feel things I hide , I’m glade Kendrick shared this with us

  • @MultiMobCast
    @MultiMobCast Рік тому +1

    This was on the homepage for me even with the warning, you're doing something right for sure!

  • @kingjustinv01
    @kingjustinv01 3 роки тому +5

    Wow this is such a great analysis and Kendrick expressed himself so creatively through 2nd person. Heartbreaking as well

  • @cfw_dom
    @cfw_dom Рік тому +4

    I love how the sample is called “Loving You Ain’t Complicated” and was produced by the same artist who wrote the song

  • @Esandeech2
    @Esandeech2 3 роки тому +7

    I was cleaning and listening to music and when I was wiping the mirror this song came on. I looked at myself and ‘loving you is complicated’ hit me. I am having trouble loving myself. Decided to look more into the meaning of this song. Thanks for making this video ❤️

  • @whoismrclaudio
    @whoismrclaudio 7 місяців тому +1

    Amazing vid. The transparency of Dot is why he's the best in the game. Real brother.

  • @DS-rg9wq
    @DS-rg9wq 2 роки тому +2

    I wish I could like this video 100 times. It’s so well produced and furthermore directs the song in a very understandable manner. It’s nice to know other people appreciate music enough to do this. Much love for this video

  • @YehudiNimol
    @YehudiNimol Рік тому +6

    I always thought the track was from the perspective of his friends and family, with the first verse being from his ex and the second being from a close brother/friend, but it being a letter to himself makes much more sense. It's still one of my favorite songs from him to this day.
    Great video btw :) finally watched it after it sat in my Watch Later for a while