Dating in Japan Vs. America is VERY different… 【日本とアメリカの恋愛文化が違いすぎる!】

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  • Опубліковано 11 гру 2024

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  • @mikikimura3278
    @mikikimura3278 Рік тому +8

    話すのうますぎ!知らない単語とかあって勉強になりました!「個人的にちょっと多いなと思った」の言い方可愛い😍

  • @arrtvyewer3368
    @arrtvyewer3368 Рік тому +4

    OH! I love the Yayoi Kusama artwork on the wall! I'm moving to Japan soon and seeing the Yayoi Kusama museum in Shinjuku is high up on my list of things to do. Great breakdown of relationship dynamics too by the way!

  • @ponchi462
    @ponchi462 Рік тому +4

    勉強になりました。日本よりアメリカの方がいくつかの段階がある分、気軽につきあい始めることが出来て、多くの人といろいろな深さでつきあえてたくさん経験値を積めて良いなと思いました。日本は「恋人か否か」ってのが基本ですね。

  • @asaei
    @asaei Рік тому +4

    シチュエーションシップ、エクスクルーシブってのを初めて知りました😮
    何か話してる時の様子がめっちゃ楽しそうで何か見てるこっちまでにやけてしまいました😂
    アメリカンスタイルでは体の関係ってどのタイミングでなんだろ。日本は真面目な子はちゃんと付き合ってからだけど、ワンナイトとか、付き合う前に体重ねちゃう子もいるっちゃいるし、価値観の違いだからそれが悪いとも言い切れないんだけども。

  • @santielewaut
    @santielewaut Рік тому +12

    I think the "fear" of commitment is also a global trend. Many countries have decreasing marriage rates and increasing divorce rates. Also, great videos as always!

  • @yuii9698
    @yuii9698 Рік тому +6

    いつも可愛い、

  • @高橋浩介-u5m
    @高橋浩介-u5m Рік тому +16

    告白して付き合う日本の方がシンプルで良くない?アメリカの方は色々と大変そう🤔

  • @ransbackburnerig
    @ransbackburnerig 8 місяців тому +1

    i saw u in takashi's vloooog💗 i rly want to learn japanese 🙇‍♀️

  • @keichi345
    @keichi345 Рік тому +3

    Could you explain a little bit more about the Cheating relationship stuff?, I think it would be a great topic for many of those who want to get a Japanese couple, and don't get betrayed or something, I knew it was extremely common to cheat in japan but I don't know where is the point when they're serious and loyal to each other, Boyfriend and Girlfriend

  • @yuno_n
    @yuno_n Рік тому +1

    soft launch は日本語で言う"匂わせ"ですね😂

  • @Paul-yk7ds
    @Paul-yk7ds Місяць тому

    Yeaahh, everyone's face is covered on the dating apps in Japan. Kinda sucks because anyone can look cute with a filter/sticker covering half their face, so it's really difficult to tell who you would actually be attracted to in person. Most of my first dates in Japan went nowhere because I ended up not being attracted to her in person. And another challenge I found was the busy schedules. People wanted to plan dates like two weeks away because they didn't have a free day until then.

  • @andrewrivera190
    @andrewrivera190 3 місяці тому +2

    I have had a few conversations with Japanese people in regards to dating and nearly every time the first question they ask me “What’s your thoughts on cheating?”

  • @白猫で煽る弁護士
    @白猫で煽る弁護士 Місяць тому

    based on my opinionって前提を置いて話してくれてるのを分かった上で言うけど、
    日本は誠実に付き合ってる人もいるけど浮気をする人が多い ってのはそんなことないと思う

  • @aaronwest2601
    @aaronwest2601 Рік тому

    I saw you on Bumble in Tokyo few days ago lol it was probably part of this video

  • @varsityomega
    @varsityomega 8 місяців тому +1

    TIL that American women are all Hollywood executives that tease the status of their relationships like they're planning another Spider-Man reboot lol

  • @user-pz1sf1gi9t
    @user-pz1sf1gi9t Рік тому

    日本の恋愛漫画によくある台詞で「お前はオレのものだ」「オレのものになってほしい」といった感じのものがあります。それを言われた側はときめいたリアクションをするんですが、この感覚はアメリカでもありますか?(英語ではmineになるのでしょうか)機会があれば、一般的にときめく台詞やシチュエーションの違いを日米で比較してみてほしいです。

    • @catnokimochi
      @catnokimochi 9 місяців тому

      いや、普通に気持ち悪がれるよ。。。うわっきもっ

    • @frez8141
      @frez8141 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂

  • @thirge
    @thirge Рік тому

    恋愛は陰キャ陽キャ年代性別でも異なるでしょうが、dating等興味深くおもしろかったです!

  • @アサミナ
    @アサミナ Рік тому

    I'm a fan of Vanessa Hajens, and I thought you were very similar.
    I am also studying English, so I will follow you.

  • @みぃみぃ-u4l
    @みぃみぃ-u4l Рік тому

    韓国系アメリカ人の友達に、まずデートで2回目まで行くことが難しいし、デーティング期間でも色んな人に会うことはなく、大体1人に絞ってお互いの関係性を図ったり築くことが殆どだよ、デーティング期間で色んな人と会うのはアメリカの文化の一部だ、と聞きました。やっぱり人によるのかな。。興味深かったです。

  • @mugsofmirth8101
    @mugsofmirth8101 8 місяців тому +1

    "Cheating is extremely common in Japan" OK then my question will be: is it even considered to be cheating?

  • @keichi345
    @keichi345 Рік тому +1

    Could you elaborate a little bit when you said when there's couples that take it to the other extreme where they'd have indestructible couple vibes?. I've heard that after getting married. Japanese women and men tend to cheat and look for sex outside of the marriage. As the women has their first child. That literally cuts all the sex in the Japanese marriage. Even foreign man + Japanese woman. Cause she's no longer considered wife girlfriend and then she becomes mother. So it's a very interesting topic to talk about. Specially if you're planning to meet some people in Tokyo lol 1:43
    Nice video Ananya! Looking forward to see more content related to this topic and explained in depth!. I've heard about cheating there and many people say the same. Is socially accepted but not spoken. If you want to watch an hispanic channel that explains this too and many other hidden truths of Japan. I suggest you the channel of Kira Sensei!.
    よろしくお願いします
    🙌🇯🇵

  • @ugffcllt5173
    @ugffcllt5173 Рік тому

    素朴な疑問なんやけど、ワザと卒業や転職するまでハッキリさせずに意図的に複数と関係持ち続けようとする人出てこないの?
    告白しなくていいなんて、めっちゃ楽やん😏👍

  • @unknown-ahjtxdjupgnw
    @unknown-ahjtxdjupgnw Рік тому

    I agree that cheating is very common in Tokyo😂.

  • @monologueinasia2692
    @monologueinasia2692 Рік тому

    The birthrate in Japan is declining at an accelerating rate. There are various factors contributing to this, one of which is said to be due to the advancement of women into the workforce. As women have become more active in society, more women are choosing careers over child rearing. The number of women who do not marry, couples who do marry but do not have children, or couples who have only one child has increased. I am speaking this as a fact, not as discrimination against women.
    I hear that the birthrate is declining in the U.S. as well. What kind of solution is the U.S. considering and implementing?

  • @このはげー-l7n
    @このはげー-l7n Рік тому

    So, the bottom line, which do you prefer?

  • @rayna463
    @rayna463 Рік тому

    So are you in Japan right now?

  • @bigjavi2681
    @bigjavi2681 Місяць тому

    Hey what's up I'm kind of curious when you were in the States who were you dating I've been dating for decent minute and I live in Los Angeles and I never do situationships or anything like that so I'm assuming you're probably going out with douchey white boys you should try some black men or Hispanic guys we'll definitely treat you way better than whatever you're explaining on the United States side but I'm suppose I would be curious to try out dating in Japan

  • @so_chan17
    @so_chan17 Рік тому +1

    海外でアプリやればわかることだけど、まじで日本人顔隠しすぎ。
    海外の人で顔出ししてないプロフィールとかほぼいない。
    それくらい堂々とやれよって思う。

  • @youkiyuugen6727
    @youkiyuugen6727 Рік тому

    同時に二人と付き合うことを「二股を掛ける(ふたまたをかける)」と言います