Day in Our Life: Martina's Busted Wrist

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  • Опубліковано 6 тра 2019
  • I really wanted to call this video “Did Martina Break Her Hand?” because, for most of the video, we weren’t sure, and we couldn’t find out, so we’re doing our best to get by with this uncertainty. And with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, Martina’s always in pain, so how do we know if she actually broke her hand or not? This is a real conversation we have. To be honest, the doctor Martina saw was really rushed, and we still don’t know what to do about her hand.
    So we’re showing you a bit more of our vulnerable side this week, but that’s in hopes of sharing something we learned about ourselves in this video, because if we’re just learning it now, maybe you might be learning it, too. Don’t close yourself off from others. Reach out to friends and family. You’ll not want to, but you’ll be surprised how much better you can feel.
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  • @johannah.3930
    @johannah.3930 5 років тому +1402

    Simon, I really admire you for your commitment to help Martina but please remember that you don't have to do everything on your own.
    I work in the medical field and often see family members of patients get really worn out to the point where they damage their own health while trying to do everything for their loved ones. Just remember that in most places there are care giving services that can help you out when you are sick or injured and you guys need help. Knowing which services are available in your area can take that pressure off you.
    All the best to you both! I really love your videos!❤️

    • @junsjulywonpilsyonpilchany5241
      @junsjulywonpilsyonpilchany5241 5 років тому +12

    • @justatinyhalfling
      @justatinyhalfling 5 років тому +64

      That is such an important message. The pressure of being the only caregiver to a loved person can be soul crushing. You cannot and should not feel like you have to carry that burden on your own. There is help out there. Nobody is alone in this.

    • @kirstiurp
      @kirstiurp 5 років тому +18

      Even when someone thinks they can do it all for their loved one, it’s still hard and we can’t always know how exhausting it is until it all piles up. Sometimes we need to be reminded that our loved one also needs rest days when they don’t have to do ANYTHING for anyone but themrselves. I have EDS and ME/CFS and Fibromyalgia and Mast Cell Activation Syndrome, and Central Diabetes Insipidus.... etc etc.... my husband gets a break each month for a long weekend when I go and stay with a friend or a family member who can help me out with my daily activities. It really is IMPORTANT.

    • @johannah.3930
      @johannah.3930 5 років тому +14

      @@shannont5049 yes I have. I generally have the feeling that they know what they are doing and didn't mean to say that they are doing something unhealthy. But Simon clearly expressed worries about when he gets injured or sick and mentioned it put a lot of pressure on him. So I was merely pointing out that informing yourself about which services can help you out in tricky moments can take pressure off you because you know which resources are available in your area.
      How is that negative?

    • @GerthuyaRana
      @GerthuyaRana 4 роки тому +1

      Johanna H. O

  • @AceliaIllumit
    @AceliaIllumit 5 років тому +1055

    Gosh I love the fact that Simon really tries his best to make her makeup look at beautiful as possible and that he that he really cares about doing it and the sound effects make it even more perfect XD

    • @glitteryhunchback
      @glitteryhunchback 5 років тому +2

      I was tearing up so much in this video, such beautiful love

  • @nicolewinter5743
    @nicolewinter5743 5 років тому +576

    As someone who's in a relationship with a chronically ill person, who will most likely only get worse as the years pass by, I almost cried watching Simon working so hard for Martina. You DO get that desire to be the very best support you can possibly be, but it's also SO SO SO important to not forget yourself in the progress...my partner would NEVER forgive me if I drove myself over any edge - whether it be physically or mentally - for his sake. It's a balance and I admire Simon and Martina SO MUCH for their beautiful way to co-exist while struggling with a stupid disease every day!
    10/10 relationship goals!!!

  • @dulcecorazonalegre8171
    @dulcecorazonalegre8171 5 років тому +136

    simon is so inlove with martina.. my heart..

    • @sadmimikyu8807
      @sadmimikyu8807 2 роки тому +3

      @@gazorpazorp9798 No, that is not true. Their breakup does not mean Simon didn't love Martina at that point. Maybe their breakup doesn't even have anything to do with falling out of love.

  • @BlankieBlankie
    @BlankieBlankie 5 років тому +643

    Watching Simon dote on you is the cutest thing I have ever seen in my life 😭

    • @eatyourkimchi
      @eatyourkimchi  5 років тому +29

      I dote on her a lot she's so great :D

    • @AttackRunRepeat
      @AttackRunRepeat 5 років тому +4

      I literally started crying. He's so sweet to her.

    • @sprightlyghoul
      @sprightlyghoul 5 років тому +1

      I'm so in love with that part

  • @rhot2012
    @rhot2012 5 років тому +988

    Simon you are doing it right. Having too much muscle can reduce flexibility and add stress to your cardiovascular system. Like a dancer once said that you shouldn't lift weights, you should lift a woman. It is much more difficult to lift a human body properly than an iron weight. You need flexibility as well as strength to properly carry a person.
    Another fantastic episode. These videos are almost documentary quality but much more entertaining.

    • @Litcott
      @Litcott 5 років тому +7

      And if you Google the body type of the people who compete in strongman competitions, a lot of them look more like Simon than what you'd probably think of when you hear "shredded". Not having an ounce of body fat is aesthetically pleasing to some people but it really has nothing to do with health or strength.

    • @recoil53
      @recoil53 5 років тому +29

      Well lifting a woman gives functional strength - it builds up stabilizer muscles and proper form also has the muscles working in concert.
      But look at wide receivers, corner backs, and basketball players - very strong, have flexibility. You can have strength and flexibility, you have to work on both. That's why some football players also do yoga. A good use of rest days is flexibility and cardio.

    • @EMSpdx
      @EMSpdx 5 років тому +1

      @@grayonthewater He has some 'day in the life' videos where he shows his routine!

    • @icynok
      @icynok 4 роки тому

      better example would be Rugby players.

  • @katieho1623
    @katieho1623 5 років тому +376

    I love these "day in our life" videos. I feel closer to y'all and it always makes my day when I see you guys. You guys bring so much joy to the community 💕

    • @theartyard
      @theartyard 5 років тому +2

      Hear hear. I love that they show their vulnerability. It lets us feel connected to them on a human level.

    • @laurenyum8577
      @laurenyum8577 4 роки тому

      I agree. They always show the real side of life.

  • @jessicaangela9796
    @jessicaangela9796 5 років тому +95

    "i dont want to get injured"
    This sounds (at least to me) from a place full of worries. Not for himself, but for his love. Please be well, dont overwork yourself Simon ! And Martina looking exquisitely gorgeous in this episode. SLAY. ✨

    • @feena9241
      @feena9241 5 років тому +3

      They're such good people, I hope really hope they take care and don't overwork

  • @itzia.paulina
    @itzia.paulina 5 років тому +736

    I’ve been here since the Korean days. And it makes me sad to see so many trials and tribulations happening in your guy’s lives. However I see so much love and hope... I am hardcore rooting and praying for you both.

    • @GfriendFeels-kpopillow
      @GfriendFeels-kpopillow 5 років тому +5

      omg me too ! Since that Avengers Cupcake video🤷🤫🥰

    • @melique747
      @melique747 5 років тому +9

      Me also, these guys are my favorite people. I'm so happy they found each other and shared their journey with us.

  • @onpointedancing
    @onpointedancing 5 років тому +483

    Of course Simon knows how to braid. He’s a Dothraki man warrior! 😉 I can’t wait for you to feel better Martina. You all are the best

    • @Ken.Kaleidoscope
      @Ken.Kaleidoscope 5 років тому +1

      a Dothraki warrior that lost all its hair ;_;

  • @josiahh.3437
    @josiahh.3437 5 років тому +53

    Simon said that Martina is a blessing and I agree 100%. You have been a blessing to so many of us. Making us laugh, smile, cry, and so much more. Simon wouldn't be the same man without you and we wouldn't be who we are without everything that you have shared with us. The good times and the tough times. Hope your hand is feeling better

  • @athghost2256
    @athghost2256 5 років тому +235

    Aesthetics don't equal strength.
    Getting big cut muscles may make you look strong but it's actually just the visual ; gaining real strength doesn't really look like anything. I mean ; look at the Mountain from GOT. He is pretty damn strong, and meaty, and isn't particularly lean or sculpted.

    • @vanillerygarden
      @vanillerygarden 5 років тому +29

      Also some of the strongest people out there are free climbers and most of em look like they don´t have muscles at all.

    • @feena9241
      @feena9241 5 років тому +18

      Because a strong muscle is a long and flexible muscle but lots of body builders work out for the looks and people with bulky thick muscles often have short muscles and that's rather bad. That's at least what I read, pretty interesting :)

    • @eatyourkimchi
      @eatyourkimchi  5 років тому +23

      I am loving all this positive conversation :)

    • @vanillerygarden
      @vanillerygarden 5 років тому +9

      Jae B I know people who work out like mad but don‘t stretch and literally squish all the liquids out of their intervertebral discs, thus ruining their back. The muscle grows thicker, looks „better“, but it needs to be stretched out to stay healthy. Doing some sun salutations or something after training is crucial to stay healthy over the years. So that yoga dude that all the shredded dudes make fun of has deep muscle control and strenght that ultimately keeps him going til he old and grey.

    • @forbiddensolution
      @forbiddensolution 5 років тому

      That's because he does strongman. Alot of strongman and women who compete dont look like they workout very much. Aswell as powerlifters

  • @trogdorthe8th
    @trogdorthe8th 5 років тому +319

    You know what I appreciate so much about both of you? Both of you look for the positive, but you don't sugar coat the journey it takes to get there. You recognize that while you worked hard to have a positive week, it was still a crummy week to get through. I sincerely appreciate your relatability, you never try to paint this picture of a perfect and easy emotional journey through your struggles. You always acknowledge that there will be times where it's easy to snap back and find your joy, but other times it will be a nonstop battle to get there. Thank you for your sincerity, and for giving us such a candid view into the highs as well as the lows in your life.

  • @hannermax3194
    @hannermax3194 5 років тому +377

    Good for you and being vulnerable Simon. Men definitely also struggle with body image issues. Keep doing what makes you feel good and healthy, ultimately that's what matters most. Also, it is naturally harder for larger/taller men to gain body muscle. It took my 6'4" cousin almost 6 years to get his body to the place he wanted it to.

  • @MSmith-Photography
    @MSmith-Photography 5 років тому +403

    Welcome to another episode of "Dothraki Man-Warrior Makeup and Beauty Shoppe" 🤣

  • @txtort1
    @txtort1 5 років тому +40

    Martina - I have hEDS as well. Thank you for spreading awareness and the reality of chronic illness! Especially the pain. You always do a great job of explaining it. I wasn't diagnosed until 17, but struggled and looked for answers my whole life. I'm 28 now. Apparently (and unfortunately) I have a "nasty case" of it, whatever that means... I think they may also be referring to the fact that I have almost all of the major related comorbidities (POTS, MCAD, Gastroparesis, etc.). So I wonder, do you have any comorbidities? If you're comfortable talking about that, of course. Regardless, thank you. You are making a difference.
    P.S.- Can we talk about how amazing Simon is? If only there were more like him! What a kind way to think and support. And I'm sure it makes you feel more hopeful and secure about the future. You are a lucky girl! And thank you Simon for being a great example of a kind, supportive partner just by being you.

  • @sprightlyghoul
    @sprightlyghoul 5 років тому +275

    Martina, as someone who works in healthcare your section on describing pain is so great! Often people can't verbalise to us how they're feeling and videos like yours will really help a lot of people

    • @rustictexas2576
      @rustictexas2576 5 років тому +2

      Carla O'Connell agreed. When I first started having health issues I didn’t know how to describe my pain and it was a struggle to figure things out. Now I know what to say and help my doctor the best I can. It’s so difficult to figure things out when you look fine and I have a guilt issue of not wanting to burden my doctor and laugh and smile through the pain to be polite.... even when In the Er about to go in for surgery or put on dilaudid. I’ve learned to be open and vulnerable so they can properly evaluate me

    • @sprightlyghoul
      @sprightlyghoul 5 років тому +1

      @@rustictexas2576 Absolutely, I struggle a lot with pain and even though I'm in the profession I still struggle to fess up to bad pain. But! Your team is there to help you, and pain management is important to us, try to push through that guilt and keep us in the loop ❤️

    • @sprightlyghoul
      @sprightlyghoul 5 років тому +2

      @@studionightshade 😂 I feel this. My background level has sort of skewed my pain scale. That's why I prefer the faces rather than the 1-10 scale, its a little better for taking account of your baseline level.

    • @rustictexas2576
      @rustictexas2576 5 років тому +1

      sacredmeow yes! I have such a high pain tolerance now it’s hard to know when it’s bad. Fell and hurt my shoulder the finally went to the dr a few weeks later and found out I had dislocated it and a few ribs 🤦‍♀️

    • @rustictexas2576
      @rustictexas2576 5 років тому +1

      Carla O'Connell thank you! That’s why I come here and watch their videos and read the comments because no one in my family can really understand. My husband somehow has figured out to know when I’m hiding the pain from him, it used to be frustrating because I was exposed but now I appreciate it! It’s helping me open up and help!

  • @JoHasIssues
    @JoHasIssues 5 років тому +559

    M: "You did such a great job!"
    S: "It was easy cuz you're so pretty"
    M: :l

  • @abbyiswatching2046
    @abbyiswatching2046 5 років тому +48

    Simon, basically you rock. Please clone yourself, or give "How To Guy" lessons, or something!
    The really ripped ones usually dump so much of their time and personality into it that "ripped" is kind of woman-code for "self absorbed and not much fun to talk to." It's kind of like an evolutionary warning, like the bright colors on poisonous toads.🧠💤
    Martina, thank you once again for sharing and being an inspiration. No exaggeration. In the little "what-would-so-and-so say" chorus that lives in my head and keeps me from driving ER nurses into early retirement, your voice is loud and clear.
    Feel better and have all the happy!

  • @misshaley99
    @misshaley99 5 років тому +19

    Usually when I watch UA-cam I’m thrown videos about drama or quick 4 minute videos but sometimes you come across an amazing channel. One that entertains, teaches, and makes you feel good all in one. So happy you guys make videos. Truly beautiful people

  • @bellatwilghtlover
    @bellatwilghtlover 5 років тому +300

    Your love and dedication to each other is so inspiring and beautiful!

  • @hearsthewater
    @hearsthewater 5 років тому +94

    Watching Simon put on your makeup and do your hair was one of the most lovely things I have ever seen.
    May is also Multiple Chemical Sensitivity month, we call ourselves canaries after the canary in the coal mine. I follow other vloggers that have EDS and chemical sensitivities so I am thrilled that May is awareness month for both conditions because they are often seen at the same time.

  • @vonnphd
    @vonnphd 5 років тому +27

    Just found out about u guys since the moving to Tokyo video (i know im late) .. a few binge watching later i found out about your EDS ..
    I was a medical student back then but never heard/learnt about it. Even until now that i am a Medical doctor.. no lecturer/senior doctor have ever mentioned it.. nor that i found a patient with EDS .
    .
    Thanks to your awareness message on this video , i spent my evening reading a medical publication about EDS the hypermobility type 😁.. i guess utube teach you more than people imagine! Haha
    Thank you for teaching me to sympathize with chronic pain..
    I believe you are a blessing for many people's life, at least for me.
    Keep being strong simon martina! We love you.

  • @apathiena
    @apathiena 5 років тому +32

    I LOVE THIS. PAIN QUALITY YESSS. Every time I ask someone to describe the pain, they look at me like wut?
    P.s. I'm a physiotherapist and May is physiotherapy month in Canada!
    Yay for EDS AWARENESS MONTH !

  • @MildredCady
    @MildredCady 5 років тому +98

    *hugs to Simon*
    You are strong.
    You are awesome.
    Taking care of yourself is an important way to take care of Martina.

  • @eatyourkimchi
    @eatyourkimchi  5 років тому +271

    NOTIFICATION SQUAD! What are you watching on Netflix lately? We're into Working Moms for some reason. It's set in Toronto and we're really into it :D

    • @BradleyRS2007
      @BradleyRS2007 5 років тому +5

      Sabrina !😂🙌🏻

    • @kova1282
      @kova1282 5 років тому +9

      I've been rewatching Merlin

    • @edgechan
      @edgechan 5 років тому +1

      I'm re watching Lucifer over and over

    • @glitteryhunchback
      @glitteryhunchback 5 років тому +4

      totally started watching the anime Saiki and I'm loving how ridiculous it is eheh

    • @araalfa8245
      @araalfa8245 5 років тому +5

      Just finished Bonding

  • @Nerdymondays
    @Nerdymondays 5 років тому +10

    Martina is SUCH a blessing. Your content online has helped me deal with depression and find what makes me smile in life. I trust God to help me through those moments spiritually, but sometimes I need practical solutions and things I can do to help build that ladder. I am thankful for your kindness and wisdom.

  • @tripcicle8867
    @tripcicle8867 5 років тому +5

    Sometimes I forget that Martina was a teacher, but this video really reminded me. She seems like an awesome teacher!!

  • @melissamoats3926
    @melissamoats3926 5 років тому +59

    THANK YOU for explaining about pain description. As a nurse, it's so hard when nearly every patient says "it's 10/10 and aching" regardless. I try teach patients about numbers and types, but they don't always want to hear it. Being accurate in your description helps SO MUCH. ☺️

    • @vixxcelacea2778
      @vixxcelacea2778 5 років тому +8

      I think a lot of people feel like if they aren't dying, they won't be taken seriously, so they say a 10 to get help.
      Not a nurse, but I wish people would understand that the level is there for a reason, it's not meant to say "oh, you're just a six, walk it off" it's meant to help understand what could be happening. There are some cases where a dull 2-4 ache in a specific place can be a sign of something much more serious and sudden intense pain should never be ignored.
      Don't under or oversell what you are feeling. Your pain matters regardless of intensity and level. Giving an honest description helps everyone understand what could be the problem.
      Sincerely a person who's never had a 10 pain, but has definitely felt 8. I understand a 10 means I think I am literally dying and a 4 is nothing to sneeze at.

    • @Sophia-cm1cr
      @Sophia-cm1cr 5 років тому

      First, props to you for being a nurse and second, I think it’s going to take me awhile like Martina to figure out pain description words 😆
      When I first went to the ER last year due to an internal bleed, all I could think was why the **** do I have to keep repeating myself! I was super polite though, never rose my voice or swore at anyone but internally I was haha. I guess unless you are experienced you won’t really know, some people do have higher pain tolerance or is just stubborn. I refused to take the pain meds unless it got to the point it hurt to even breathe haha but I will definitely try to be more descriptive next time but I get Martina when you go to a place that has no idea what your condition is they get confused or blame common things.

  • @clairevladyka7269
    @clairevladyka7269 5 років тому +72

    No lie that little camera looks amazing. I can't believe it is so tiny too!!!! Perfect to keep doing the things you love and build that ladder!!!

    • @SarounaUchiha
      @SarounaUchiha 5 років тому +1

      Claire Vladyka I wish I knew what kind of camera that is!

  • @Lg.sidequest
    @Lg.sidequest 5 років тому +19

    Simon, hug that girl so much for us, gently of course.

  • @crazysockperson3658
    @crazysockperson3658 5 років тому +30

    My world's colliding with them being friends with Annika!

    • @PD-qg5cx
      @PD-qg5cx 5 років тому

      I believe them and Annika have been friends for at least a year or so? I know Annika posted photos of spudgy the last time she went to Japan (before her current stay there)

  • @kausekanarendran3054
    @kausekanarendran3054 5 років тому +85

    I love how you guys are so random and chaotic in these kind of videos lately! It's so refreshing! 😆🙌💜💕

    • @Hunlover123601
      @Hunlover123601 5 років тому +1

      me too!!! it makes me so happy ❤️

  • @savannah.serendipity
    @savannah.serendipity 5 років тому +54

    26 minutes of Simon, Martina, and Meemersworth goodness????? I've been blessed this testing season 😀

  • @erikalava7417
    @erikalava7417 5 років тому +7

    Simon! You're very inspirational even for women like me. We all need to remember that exercising is not just about losing weight and looking good physically, it's about being healthy so that you can do more and have more time with the people that you love. Thank you for making me remember!

  • @jordanbush7605
    @jordanbush7605 4 роки тому +8

    Everything that Simon said about being shredded: YES. I, too, see fitness models say, "Anyone can do this," but we have to remember the sacrifices they make to look that way. It's a LOT of time and mental energy. I once was on a very regimented workout/diet plan, but my life revolved around that stuff. I was constantly planning my life around food and workouts. If you want to be shredded, that is the sacrifice you make. But for me? It wasn't worth it. People must choose for themselves what is most important for them.

  • @m.gyurei650
    @m.gyurei650 5 років тому +66

    before this i was screaming because i had lost essentially 4 days work of animation key frames.( 43h of work. ) this calmed me down. Even made me smile. I need a drink now.

    • @Catyclept89
      @Catyclept89 5 років тому +1

      Have some nice Herbal Tea. The work you'll have to re-do is going to be even better than what was lost, you can do this!

    • @AlishaVo
      @AlishaVo 5 років тому

      Ahhh I feel for you. Those animation key frames 😭😭😭I hope you feel better. I’d be crying if I lost all of that.

  • @kuldeepk7872
    @kuldeepk7872 5 років тому +165

    Hi Martina,
    As Simon mentioned earlier, you are a blessing in many lives. I was having a sad day and you made me smile :)
    I wish your pain would go away and both of you stay happy 💕 💕 💕

  • @Aidenpatrickbianca
    @Aidenpatrickbianca 5 років тому +1

    I never really leave comments on any videos but I just want to say that Simon you are an amazing husband and human being. The love that you have for Martina really shows through how you take care of her and help her with her needs. Martina you’re so brave for sharing your illness and spreading awareness about EDS. I wish you both a lifetime of happiness.

  • @Saltedcat
    @Saltedcat 5 років тому +8

    Your guy's love for each other always makes me cry with joy. That love is unconditional.

  • @ElectriKitty
    @ElectriKitty 5 років тому +12

    I hope to one day find my own "Simon"
    Seeing Simon worry about not being strong enough just pulled at all of my heart-strings, the love you two show each other is just breath taking.

  • @ohrats731
    @ohrats731 5 років тому +260

    Guess what guys! I think I found my “Simon” 😄!!! It’s still early but he’s really nurturing and already is someone who knows that a relationship is work but it’s also fun to work on things together! He also has a beard and shaved head 😂 Just a coincidence I swear!
    I hope that makes me his “Martina” cause I can identify plants 😜

    • @tina7151
      @tina7151 5 років тому +7

      Congrats! I also feel lucky that my first and present boyfriend could also be my "Simon". Met him when I was 24years old, been going out for more than 6 years now.

    • @superdongshinee1794
      @superdongshinee1794 5 років тому +4

      My current bf can’t grow a beard (job requirement) but he is super nurturing and he’s so amazing. ❤️

    • @rike12octavia14
      @rike12octavia14 5 років тому +3

      I hope i find my simon(a) lol

    • @tina7151
      @tina7151 5 років тому +2

      @@rike12octavia14 dont worry you will.

    • @tiff2106
      @tiff2106 5 років тому +3

      There‘s nothing like a relationship where the partners take care of each other! 💜

  • @Darling_Poet
    @Darling_Poet 5 років тому +1

    Simon mentioning the anxiety of not being strong enough is so wonderful and helpful. Worrying that you aren't strong enough to help is a very real things and it's nice to see someone else mentioning it. Thank you for being so open about the good and bad of loving someone with a chronic illness Simon

  • @Queen.Lady.Jocelyn
    @Queen.Lady.Jocelyn 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for help describing pain. I have 4 autoimmune diseases and it took years for my family to understand how my body felt. Me and my husband have been together 5 years and he still doesn't fully get it. My brain says I can but my body says "sit your ass down and rest!" You are truly an inspiration!!!

  • @atarm
    @atarm 5 років тому +31

    What do you mean "can't do stuff with the left hand"? Girl you did it anyway! You just didn't do it as well or easily or you're used to, but you did them! Keep up the great spirit! ❤️

  • @MandyDrex
    @MandyDrex 5 років тому +27

    Hugs and healing vibes to Martina! Simon, you taking care of yourself is so important. Watching you talk about your fears of getting hurt really hit home. I’ve been guilty of pushing through pain I shouldn’t and became a burden on my fam. You take good care of yourself and stop falling off swings, lol!

  • @kellymare2
    @kellymare2 5 років тому +5

    Just wanted to let you guys know that I love these day in the life videos just as much as your "real" adventure videos. I love how you guys show the real and vulnerable side of yourselves with us, and I hope you guys never stop making videos 😊

  • @theonlycma
    @theonlycma 5 років тому +36

    Martina can use chopsticks with her left hand?!! A champion.

  • @Jessaww95
    @Jessaww95 5 років тому +156

    We're using one pump...ONE PU-
    *CruSheS tHe PumP*
    *hoooly shi-......
    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @AngelColdBrew
    @AngelColdBrew 5 років тому +51

    In my hair stylist/legit honest opinion that braid gets a 10/10

  • @marissach
    @marissach 5 років тому +5

    Bonus "Husband does my makeup challenge."
    Thank you for this video. I've been struggling with my asthma, I hurt my foot going down stairs, and feeling like a burden. Thank you for the positive reminders. #buildaladder.

  • @angelamaffioli
    @angelamaffioli 2 роки тому +11

    I know things change but was this real?

  • @pytcurlyQ097
    @pytcurlyQ097 5 років тому +29

    OMG YOU KNOW ANNIKA! That's so great, everyone should check her out because she's adorable!!

  • @jupukin
    @jupukin 5 років тому +35

    Oh Simon, you are so lovely

  • @grammarnazi12
    @grammarnazi12 5 років тому +2

    One of the things I love most in these day in the life videos is just seeing your guys' day-to-day conversations. I've never been married, but I was always curious to know, after so many years with the same person, what do couples talk about? Do you ever run out of things to talk about/does it ever feel like you're having the same conversations about the same mundane things over and over? Thank you for letting us see a little bit into your daily lives, and even including moments like just talking about life together in the park. Somehow seeing your healthy relationship makes me feel warmer and a little more hopeful/positive toward marriage.

  • @illiteratefr0g
    @illiteratefr0g 5 років тому

    I’ve finally found my Simon, someone who knows I have chronic pain but loves me and stays strong when sometimes I can’t. Having someone who will support you through anything and everything is truly special.

  • @sireninside9570
    @sireninside9570 5 років тому +30

    So glad you posted! Currently in the hospital with my son (he nosedived into a dollhouse required an operation to put his lip back together) your video got me through the waiting till he woke up part! Thank you!!

  • @aleenr4425
    @aleenr4425 5 років тому +67

    Simon.. you should take collagen powder for your joint health, since you workout and do heavy lifting! I used to have knee pain until I started taking 1 tablespoon of collagen powder a day!! 💖💕💗 .. research the benefits! 😊

  • @mandijackson3799
    @mandijackson3799 5 років тому +9

    The love you 2 have for each other warms my heart.

  • @nicollenishi7049
    @nicollenishi7049 5 років тому

    You guys are a blessing in my life! Thank you for existing!

  • @cathyd2760
    @cathyd2760 5 років тому +11

    EDS does suck! But thankfully I came across one of your videos recently and realized we have the same symptoms. Thank you so much for spreading EDS awareness! Knowing that others experience the same thing is so much better than a lifetime of misdiagnosis and not knowing.

  • @Chellekathryn
    @Chellekathryn 5 років тому +105

    “A day in our life: a single handed adventure in Tokyo” *CHANGES TITLE*

  • @Wylyne
    @Wylyne 5 років тому

    Thank you both for sharing pieces of your life with us and setting a beautiful example.

  • @ancfm1995
    @ancfm1995 5 років тому

    Seeing you build your ladder and talking us through ours is inspiring. I've had a bad couple weeks and I truly needed to hear this message 💗

  • @aleksamelissa6268
    @aleksamelissa6268 5 років тому +35

    I love this new format you are trying lately. It gives me a lot of good things like comfort, happiness and words to describe what I am feeling and what my loved ones feels. Thank you.

  • @teresasimpson5143
    @teresasimpson5143 5 років тому +69

    I noticed tape on your shoulder. Could you sometime do a video on your EDS and how taping helps? I have arthritis and Fibro and hurt a lot; would love to understand better how taping can help.

    • @curiouscatalyst
      @curiouscatalyst 5 років тому +4

      Seconding the love for KT tape. I also have EDS, and it's a wonderful support that can take the edge off some symptoms and is lighter that a full on brace. (Though if you need a brace, always use a brace over KT tape, you'll just end up injuring yourself more). The only problem I have with my EDS and KT tape is that I'm HUGELY allergic to the adhesive on some brands, so I would always recommend buying just one kind and trying it before expanding the collection. Hope we could all help! Best of luck my friend.

    • @teresasimpson5143
      @teresasimpson5143 5 років тому

      @@curiouscatalyst That is part of my problem; Im a BBW and they dont make braces that fit my body properly. So I thought why not KT tape. The adhesive allergy is the one thing Im worried about.

  • @camiladuquebaeza3694
    @camiladuquebaeza3694 5 років тому +14

    Simon, you're doing an excellent work! stay strong! you're the best!.
    And Martina THANK YOU for talk about the types of pain, I'm studying at med school and it's reaaaaaally hard when you don't now how to explain your pain

  • @sofial2232
    @sofial2232 5 років тому

    I'm a newly graduated nurse. Every video you guys upload makes my day so much brighter. However, I especially love and appreciate these videos addressing your EDS. This video especially spoke to me. We always ask patients to rate their pain but don't always, as you said, dig deeper. Healthcare providers, especially nurses and techs, are first line advocates for patients with chronic illness associated with pain. Asking these pain related questions is a right we have to give to our patients. Thank you for sharing your experience, you are truly a beacon of light

  • @SilvioManfredDante
    @SilvioManfredDante 5 років тому +10

    Lifting to be a better version of yourself is spot on.

  • @anamei9
    @anamei9 5 років тому +128

    A lot of those "super jacked guys" are literally on steroids lol. Not all, but unfortunately more than there should be.

  • @SakuraiIruka
    @SakuraiIruka 5 років тому

    This was such an amazing video. Thank you guys so so so so much! Sending you lots and lots and lots of love and healing energy, Martina!

  • @harmonygibbs7904
    @harmonygibbs7904 5 років тому +1

    I love you both so much, and i really love these day in the life vids. Thank you for sharing your lives and your ladders with us. Simon, you made me cry during your workout. You are doing great and you got this.

  • @kimberlydeverell2863
    @kimberlydeverell2863 5 років тому +10

    I love this! I struggle so bad with body image issues and struggling to learn to love myself the way I am (I suffer from chronic migraines, back pain, and PCOS). You guys are always so positive, even on bad days, and it's very refreshing to see people today who try and focus on the positive rather than try and transform into something else.

  • @KaniKaniKaniza
    @KaniKaniKaniza 5 років тому +24

    Loving the Aggretsuko reference XD "PROTEIN!"

  • @Iiterally
    @Iiterally 5 років тому +3

    You guys are such an inspiration. I really truly mean it when I say that your videos are always without a doubt informative and educational. I take away a large portion of insight when I watch your videos. Thank you so much for being so strong. I appreciate you guys so much. When you guys open up to the camera to talk about your deeper fears and worries, it makes me feel like I can connect and relate on a deeper level. I really enjoy this. ❤️

  • @nichee9754
    @nichee9754 5 років тому +4

    Thank you both so much for this video. I was having a bad pain day and was alone feeling bad for myself when I saw you posted something my mood immediately brightened. Your perspectives and strategies for pain and struggles are amazing. And I just love you both (and mister meems)

  • @rebeccab.1296
    @rebeccab.1296 5 років тому +9

    Martina you are a blessing. So are you Simon. Thank you for making my day feel better.

  • @EmmaLawlor14
    @EmmaLawlor14 5 років тому +80

    This is just what I needed before college exams starts tomorrow😍😅💕

    • @Hunlover123601
      @Hunlover123601 5 років тому +3

      good luck on your exams tomorrow!!!!

    • @omarm9368
      @omarm9368 5 років тому +2

      Everyone needs a bit of Simon and Martina for comfort, Good luck

    • @bubbabubbles1501
      @bubbabubbles1501 5 років тому +1

      Hope everything goes smoothly! 😁✌️

    • @cloudyyy99
      @cloudyyy99 5 років тому +3

      Mine started yesterday and I'm done Wednesday. We can do it and kick those exam's butts!

    • @Alas_Earwaxx
      @Alas_Earwaxx 5 років тому

      Good luck on your exams!! Sending good juju your way!

  • @Fractal_Flower
    @Fractal_Flower 5 років тому

    Thank you for sharing your bad day with us. I have been struggling and it helps to see someone going through a tough time as well. Sending love from a long time subscriber (5 years maybe).

  • @victoria5298
    @victoria5298 5 років тому +3

    I’ve been watching for around 7 years, and I will continue watching any content you guys put out. I’m super excited for the convenience store meal livestream! You guys have always adapted with your videos depending on where life took you, I love and respect that about you, always changing and growing.
    Good luck on the dog adoption process, any pup will be lucky to have you! 😊

  • @PastelLittleDuck
    @PastelLittleDuck 5 років тому +4

    Watching Martina go through her problems actually helps me a lot. I have fibromyalgia and im in pain pretty much 24/7. I like watching you both together and watching how she handles her pain. I know there bts stuff that happens that we don't see but I have a pretty good idea of what its like
    Thank you for sharing your story and struggles it makes me feel less alone

  • @Kariout
    @Kariout 5 років тому +16

    YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE, helping me build my daily ladder

  • @lunaandco.7625
    @lunaandco.7625 5 років тому

    You two are wonderful and so many people feel motivated and excited to watch you and that over a long period of time already. Big love ❤️

  • @jackr5056
    @jackr5056 5 років тому

    These videos make me so happy, Martinas spirit and happiness is so contagious! I also love how you and Annika are friends she's so great

  • @kova1282
    @kova1282 5 років тому +32

    I clicked the notification SO FAST lmao love you guys!

  • @CaptainTingo
    @CaptainTingo 5 років тому +9

    After 6 years of watching your video's I still love your channel and you so much 😊 My exams are coming up but you keep me motivated!

  • @xxmightyonexx
    @xxmightyonexx 5 років тому

    You guys always make me feel better. Thank you.

  • @nixayp
    @nixayp 5 років тому +1

    You two are absolutely goals in so many ways; your teamwork and support for each other is incredible. A deep, soulful, connection. Amazing. Keep it up please, I live for your videos.

  • @LDNxWower
    @LDNxWower 5 років тому +6

    So glad to see another day in the life video! Thank you so much for sharing :D

  • @jessehurley8404
    @jessehurley8404 5 років тому +16

    I love getting the notif about your videos! They cheer me up~

  • @mikekun155
    @mikekun155 5 років тому

    I love your dedication Simon. Balance is key. You're doing great!

  • @SableRain
    @SableRain 5 років тому +1

    I'm watching you guys and seeing how much a good sense of humour, positive attitude, and a dear friend by your side can help. Sending you both love and well wishes. ❤🌼❤🌼❤

  • @peepsr
    @peepsr 5 років тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your realities with us Simon and Martina! Seeing Martina's strength is inspiring and uplifting!

  • @Etude_Aria_Nell
    @Etude_Aria_Nell 5 років тому +3

    Simon doesn't to feel so down about himself he's a big care bear for Martina and Martina is like a fairy full of energy even if she has pain she is over powering the negative u guys are the best power couple!❤

  • @marigolddicer1049
    @marigolddicer1049 5 років тому

    Ohmygosh I love you two so much. I love how honest you are and how you work to educate people through your channel, even with the hard stuff. 💜

  • @padlocksncocoapuffs
    @padlocksncocoapuffs 5 років тому +1

    Sending all my spoonie love to you Martina!!! You are a blessing to so many people. Some days I build a ladder just because you told me to! Thank you for being amazing. I hope your wrist feels better soon. I also have a wrist injury this week, I unfortunately had to continue to work because it was a holiday.
    And Simon, you are truly an angel. A big strong man with a golden heart.

  • @VillellaPinkUmbrella
    @VillellaPinkUmbrella 5 років тому +13

    🌈🦆🌟✨💖✨🌟🦆🌈couple of amazing duckies sharing and building and climbing their ladders

  • @AdrianaHernandez-vb3ds
    @AdrianaHernandez-vb3ds 5 років тому +19

    Team work makes the dream work😆 Good work Simon!
    P.S. I love your nails Martina 💅

  • @mykoolshorts
    @mykoolshorts 5 років тому

    Love the way Simon can be so open and honest, your my hero dude. Doing it right.

  • @leahouimet8562
    @leahouimet8562 5 років тому +2

    You two are amazing. Thank you for being such wonderful human beings, so willing to be real and honest with the world. ☺️