7 HAPPINESS Life Hacks You Should Do NOW!! Self-Care Inspiration for 2017
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This is a collection of life hacks designed to help you feel happier and calmer. The phrase "self care" has been thrown around Tumblr a lot and it basically means small things you can do for yourself that have a nice, positive effect on your daily life. These are not supposed to tackle big issues such as mood or eating disorders, although many people find both approaches useful. Obviously these aren't "classic" life hacks, but more pieces of advice that you can follow :). Since we're getting closer the end of the year, I hope this might be useful for anyone looking for New Years resolutions.
All of these are things that I do myself. Funnily enough the "phone detox" one was something I've been doing long before I even knew about this sponsorship. I always aim never to check my phone if I'm out and about with other people, and I actually try to avoid talking about anything that might involve showing someone a picture or video on my phone. As a UA-camr I spend enough time in front of a screen so every minute when I actually get to talk to people face-to-face is precious :)!
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She says "Spend less time on your phone" as we are all sitting down watching her on our phones 😂😂
not all
Ipad
compooper
(computer)
Mae pup yep
Well, we are still all watching them on our electronics
Hot baths: Hot water, milk, tea bags, I'M IN A CUP OF TEA!
***** Idk XD
DoughnutDIY yeah
MidnightLuna lol
MidnightLuna lol😂😂
MidnightLuna XD
"Go spend some more time with your pets"
*randomly stacks cheerios on its tiny head*
Glow that was random but the most adorable thing ever though!!!
Awwwww!!!😘😘😘
New Years resolution:
Go to pet store
Buy bird seed
Ask staff how long it takes to grow
Wait for reaction
Barbie Coolkid I know! XD
Lmaoooo
†Fawni† lmfaooooooooo
†Fawni† lol
Lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love the fact about how positive she is
1 like=Agree
Peachy Meh for a minute I thought your profile photo was someone's butt
ii999 AJ it is an i-bloom peach,right?
Yup
ya but I'm not liking boii
Itzmelavender 333 likes. 3 is ma lucky number!!
Did you know that pets can stop you from having a stroke/anxiety attack and other things
How?
By petting an animals fur it reduces your high blood pressure.Which stops you from having too high blood pressure.Soooooo
Always pat your pet!!!👍
Brighter_Than_Stars xx but I have a bird....🐥
Brighter_Than_Stars xx I wish I had a pet that I could pet (besides my pet rock and my goldfish)
+Brighter_Than_Stars xx Thank you!! When I needed a trainer for my dog, the lady actually said we shouldn't pet or dog randomly, but only when they do something good. Which is completely wrong, you should always pet your pet to show them that they're loved!!
strawberryglo what's the name for your rock?? (just curious)
Brighter_Than_Stars xx same for pets too your petting them releases stress for them and getting that attention makes them very happy
Fluffy And Pudding are adorableeeee
your hamster is so cute pudding 😘😍🐹❣
My resolutions are to learn to like myself, and not just accept myself, and to be more adventurous. What I mean by that is stop going "I should do this thing" and instead actually like, doing it. Failure be damned.
K. Charrette oh yes because you can just do everything you think you should do
I think I should and want to get body mods but I don't have the money
I should put more effort into my school work but it makes me more depressed
I should stop repressing my feelings and thoughts but if I tell anyone I will get confronted by my mother and I have anxiety so confrontation like that is horrible for me
You can't do everything you want or should
K. Charrette sorry for being really aggressive sounding
When I need to go to sleep but want to watch UA-cam, I watch you. Your videos are calming and not loud.
Hi Joanna, when you get to one million subs, can you do a draw my life video? Like this if you agree
aryana salashoor yasss
A draw my life would be so awsome
aryana salashoor yassss!!!! I agreeeeee!!!
aryana salashoor she just did one
She did
this is why I love this channel she is so down to earth and she loves what she does . Sometimes you just need to unwind by doing something that you enjoy
I miss my dog. He's been in the hospital and i haven't seen him since august :'C
KnK :'(
KnK stay strong💪❤
aww don't worry your dog will be better in no time🐶
KnK just remember. He's still with you, in your heart. And in your memories. Just stay strong and think of the best! ❤️️💛💚💙💜🙏🙌🏼🙏🙌🏼🙏🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶
KnK he will get better if you smile for him.
Hi, I'm 12 years old and I MUST say that this video has helped a lot!! Sometimes I watch videos on my laptop for hours, I've been getting little sleep just because of 1 sentence, which is "one more episode" when I was little I used to sleep at 7:00 now I sleep at 11:00. I must say this video made me do things more than just staying on my laptop all day, this video made me draw, design clothes (I want to become a fashion designer, do DIYs, etc. thank you thank you thank you I'm so happy that my life has changed 😊
Oops on my laptop again.... bye 🙊
No way I have the same story I spend all day on my phone not knowing who I want to be. But this has inspired me to write my own songs and do fashion sketches. Now I want to be a fashion designer and singer. So to everyone who is reading this always follow your dreams.🙂
Follow your dreams!!!
yea that is true and i am literally the same
Čhłøė Âñdëršöń This is like in Jaiden's video, some people feel the need to mention their age.
When i was 12 i was going bed to like 4-5 am when its not school day when its school day i was sleeping in 1 am wow
This video always seems to calm me. I don't know why, but during anxiety attacks, I watch this, and it is very helpful. Thank you Joanna.
I know I'm five years late, but you said to write in the comments so I will. I've seen this video a few times already and each time I feel so much better afterwards. I worry so much about my diet and need to remind myself that it's okay if I have some junk sometimes. I love painting my nails and heating you specifically mention it as a mindfulness method really helped me feel validated. Your voice is also very soothing to listen to in every video you post and you never fail to calm my crazy mind. Thanks maqaroon 💗
she said v-log she is so adorable
YOUR HAMSTERS ARE ADORABLE I JUST WANNA HUG THEM AND SNUGGLE THEMMM
poppunkrock141 - 😊 hamsters make me happy🙃
yo daddy
poppunkrock141 - I think their dwarf hamsters RIP JUB-JUB MY HAMSTER
poppunkrock141 - THEY ARE ADORABLE RIGHT??? OWO
Who wants to try her friends pizza me
Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Enchantia Starz me
Enchantia Starz me tooooooo
Me 😍❤️🍕
Who wants to try her friend’s pizza? Me!
Im a grammar Nazi when it comes to UA-cam comments 😂
Im an 11 year old with anxiety and depression and i must say, these tips have really helped me! Thank-you for going out of your way to make all these incredable videos!
Hello random people scrolling through the comments..I wish you all a very happy Christmas
Luvs.amelia aww thanks!! Merry Christmas to you too!!
Luvs.amelia you too 😁
Luvs.amelia thx!!
Thanks you too!
You too, your so sweet!☺️
My New Years resolutions are
1. Focus on how I treat my body
2. To stay mentally focus on the task that had been given to me
3. To stay socially acceptable with the world around me
I love how you care for your fans
My tip to happiness is to accept yourselves (even with your flaws) . Accept your problems, so you have more time to think for a solution than to waste on regretting.
This video is so cute! Your family and friends seem to be amazing people, and so are you. I love the way you draw, and your hamsters are so cute. Everything about this video brought a smile to my face. By the way, I'm Chinese too, helloooo! :D Thank you for this sweet video, and happy holidays!
My resolutions are as follows:
-Spend more time on practicing my drawing seriously, not as a hobby, but as a skill.
-Start looking into colleges/ careers I could go into
-Decide how I would like to spend my summer: driving lessons? College classes? Art classes? Volunteering?
-Work hard in all of my classes
-Manage my time efficiently
-Achieve my splits/ work on my abs
-Try to become more comfortable with myself and my body/ self-confidence
-Establish stronger, better relationships with my friends
-Work on me and my parents' relationship
-Apply for colleges/scholarships/financial aid
-Learn life skills necessary for living on my own
-Get over my fear of public speaking
-Improve on my essay-writing skills
-Learn how to manage my anger
-Start building a resume/ portfolio
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand that's it :)
Thank you and wish you lots of success with your resolutions!! Those are fantastic goals 😄🎉
Thank you!
My new years resolution is to control my anxiety and not let it control my life while I still manage to succeed in school. And intend to succeed in my first semester of college that is approaching.
good luck!!!! that's some great resolutions!!!! i hope it goes well!!
CheekyLittleBliker You know what, I will have that first one be mine too.
You can do it!!!! Don't give up girl don't let anyone get you down!
Wish you lots of success! Btw I have a lot of anxiety and I found the "Thrive" program by Rob Kelly really helpful (it's a book on Amazon and costs much less than therapy or other treatment plans).
Cute Life Hacks Thank you so much! I will totally look into that. And also, thank you for making such relaxing videos. I got into needle felting because of you!
The pet therapy works. I have a very severe form of anxiety. I also have social anxiety disorder and PTSD. I’ve had all three since I was SIX and I’m thirteen. My psychologist and psychiatrist both recommended an emotional support animal. I’ve had Mochi, my white floppy eared rabbit for about two years now and she’s helped me so much. We have such a strong connection. She’s the best thing that ever happened to me. I have about three anxiety attacks a day but depending on how I’m feeling that day, it depends. Emotional breakdowns are common for me. It’s very embarrassing. I haven’t had one day without an anxiety attack happening since I was first diagnosed. I do get the opportunity to take Mochi to school because she helps calm me down during my anxiety attacks. The first day I brought her was last year. Everyone was crowding around me trying to pet her and I had an anxiety attack because of my social anxiety disorder. I have them a lot less in school now because of her. I love her so much. ESA’s are definitely the way to go if you have mental health issues. They really do help a lot.
Great video! I have stopped going on my phone so much...I have turned off the notifications on my social media accounts and it has really made such a difference to my happiness.
*Try to eat healthier!* hmmmm.....* continues eating cookie*
XD
Mack Pack ii
Mack Pack how did u know I am eating a cookie!!!XD
Mack Pack so me :3
Sheila Pham DAME
Your video made me so light....
I want to throw away/donate everything of my room right now
Letícia yumi same I have a lot of clothes that don't fit me so I'm gonna give them to my cousins as Christmas gifts as they don't have as much clothes as me
+Our Life ohh this is cool!!! Sometimes I feel bad for have more clothes than I need knowing that someone doesn't even have 1 good cloth....
Letícia yumi Yeah my cousins dad isn't getting paid as much as he used to so they had to start getting clothes from goodwill or churches
I'm going to get two hamster soon they are going to be called Pancake and Toast.
I'm going to get 3 hamsters at north Carolina!!🐾🐹🐹
Wow cutie! I have guinea called Dani and Dixi
Rosy Melon.. Err but toast rhymes with roast.. But it isn't my decision since they're your little fluff balls of love.
Mine is called chaehyoung
Aah ! All these names are amazingggggg I love them
Thanks for uploading this video! This made me super influenced and made me think about how we should go and look around the world and discover some more!! Thanks again!!
lol if only my cat didn't hate me LMAO
Maryam Asfari. Well... that's sad.
Ammaarah Lambat yup it is, ammaarah. got a problem with my sad life? no? i didnt think so.
How to get me from not using my ipad: *GROUND ME*
łuxuryëdits Xd same
łuxuryëdits if u ground me from anything I'll be more mad sadly
WTF
łuxuryëdits I know right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
łuxuryëdits so true
This video helped me so much and even helped me realize some things that I was doing and I didn't even know thank you for posting amazing videos that help everybody out
Reed
I was stressing out at school and just watching this video made me relaxed just because of the beauty and how nice she talks
It's people like you who make UA-cam a place for growth
every year I make new year resolutions and I would never stick to them. for 2016 I decided to use this year to draw more and I have stuck to that. the first time I've actually stuck to a resolution. 2017s resolution is to keep going. I want to go back to school and get a degree in 2018 so I want to spend the next year working hard on a portfolio and keep myself creating. wish me luck! :)
Jade Rawkins good luck ❤❤ you got this 👍👍👍
Stay strong. You are gonna do it!
Jade Rawkins good luck 🙌
your the best youtuber for axiety, fun and just getting relaxed. normally when I watched yotubers theres tention and exitmeant but here its so just relaxing and lovely. I felt so stress free
I really enjoyed this video thanks so much Joanna!!
Help my hamster bites and any ideas how to convince my parents to let me make slime cause I really want to but they don't let me
Hi! Try bribing your hamster with food...I find that mine also bite if I pick them up with empty hands but if you give them a treat then they're a lot happier and don't mind being touched 😁
Try giving your hamster its favrout pet feed and put on music for hamsters to stay clam and be with your hamster more!
Blue rose -warriorcat thanks that helped
Lps lollypoptowerzTM I've tried my parents are strict so my parents won't let me
Lazy Nail art I try
HOLD THE PHONE FIANCÉ????!?!?!?? WHATTTTTTTT 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
IKR?!?
Drama Llama My words exact!
Omg!!! I was thinking the exact same thing.
Drama Llama SAME
I WAS LIKE WAIT NO YOU CANT KUST SAY THAT WE NEED INFORMATION
Actually the things I like doing to relax include:
Taking hot baths
Reading books(I only read fiction)
Colouring
Drinking hot cocoa
Thank you so much for sharing this video! Great minds think alike 🤗
This is exactly the video I needed to see right now. With all the stress I'm going through with university, my health, and the holidays, these things are game changers even though they seem simple. For my New Years resolution I want to have better organization, but I also want to stop holding myself to so many standards. I guess the best resolution I could make is figuring out how to strike a balance there. Thank you for making this video, it has gotten me thinking about the future more positively😌❤️
Thank you, I'm so happy to hear this video helped! Wish you lots of success in your goals and I'm sure 2017 will be better!!
The hamster fckng killed me! Its so cuteee!!!❤️😍😶
Diane Cheng. I Came For Hamster lol
You are so inspiring and I love you, your personality and DIY's from the bottom of my heart💖
I love you Joanna you make my day so much better
"v- log"
THATS SO ADORABLE OH MY GOSH !!!
◆ Tosho ◆ ikr 😂💗
I love your videos but I think this one was my favorite! It was really nice to see new ways of calming down from a stressful day or just ways to feel better, my New Years resolution is to just get my life together and try some of these out whenever I need to ^-^ I feel like this video was perfect with holidays coming up and just the whole feeling of wanting to spend more time with loved ones, and I hope everyone is having a good day/night
Thank you so much for your kind comment! This was a bit different to my normal videos and I'm so happy you enjoyed it. Hope you have a lovely holiday and new years 😘
Cute Life Hacks I hope you do too ^-^ thank you so much for replying
Jaqueline Lopez :)
I went to that pizzeria and it was so good! I had the same margarita pizza with my friends and I used the phone deduction tip as well... this has certainly improved my social life since I'm just coming out of social anxiety and I was so happy when I could finally talk to some people without feeling scared! thank you so much Joanna!!
Thank you for this video. your video actually made me cry today. I always feel like when I buy a new nail polish or some art supplies that I'm wasting my money, and you made me feel different. I'm just laying on my couch with tears in my eyes, realising that life is too short to not do something creative
When I get stressed or I am sad I would play with my dogs talk to my friend and tell all of my problems and Sometimes I draw and makeup....
sometimes I just eat or pray
I was actually feeling really down this afternoon so thank you for this lovely early Christmas present~
omg you draw soooooo gooodddddd!!!!
she went to art school I think
I know!! My first pet, my hamster Julie, who I still have today is the cutest thing, I love her so much! It's always so weird thinking I'm holding such a small living thing in my hands. Everyone always tells me she's so fat and evil but I think she's the fluffiest little ball of cuteness, sweetness, and happiness! She brings me so much joy and I can't believe how blessed I am to have her!
My New Year resolutions:
-Study harder for college entrance exams for doctor educations
-Learn how to play violin
-Help my parents and families more
-Be someone who never tired to helping others :D
Those are brilliant goals and wish you lots of success for 2017!! 😄
Cute Life Hacks OMG Thank you so much! 😄
This video was great ! Simple hacks but yet so right.
I just have a quick veto : Essential oil in a bath are ok if you are not epileptic, and be careful if you have asthma and check out before using if it's ok for you to us. Then, you can't use every essential oil on skin, better check before adding in water and just 2-3 drops no more needed.
And finally, essential oil must be used in a place well ventilated, so you'd better open up a window before drowing into the bathtub.
I'm done with my warnings ^^" You can go back to your happy hacks !
Ah, thank you for the warning!! I didn't know about that so I hope people get to read this 😄
Cute Life Hacks You're welcome !
And I forgot to mention that it's not meant to be used by small childs, it's ok starting from 12 y.o
Moustiplouf Mi
Also watch out with using shampoo as a bubble bath! Shampoo is meant to clean the oil in your hair that is quite different to the one on your skin. Having shampoo, which is quite strong and harsh, all over your body could cause unwanted damage to your skin and sensitive areas.
Moustiplouf Mi o ok
This help me a lot and I used to have minor anxiety and it has gone! Thank you so much i really am a big fan. Keep up the amazing job!
"V-log"
Omg, I love you so much 😂
Hey early squad where u at! Omg this video is so cool! 😸
Also, did I mention that your drawings are so cute! 😸
Video:"number 3 Enjoy food"
Me:but I already do that all the time...
Hanging out with my cat is so soothing! She loves cuddle, she really dose
Me at my cat "Come here boy!! I want to cuddle you!!" cat be like "meow *translation* NO! YOU COME TO ME!!!"
love you! your videos make me so happy!
same omg
P Bowman Idkw, but I get really happy when I watch her videos too
I dont know why your video make me cry in a good way .
I had a strong change in my life this year. My grandfather passed away 5 months ago, he was my everything, my superhero¨, he was like a father to me, he was my other father. I been had troubles in the school , my school grades have going down a lot. and i feel lonley all the time. Because my only true friend live far away from me and i can see her, we can only chat all day in msngr or wsp
I been doing a lot of things to forget what happened but when i stop doing things i start to cry ,to have anxiety . See this video make me feel better , gave me ideas to calm myself , to be happy, forovercome this ugly year and make the next better . Thank you a lot.
Don't worry! I have depression and anxiety, but I'm only 12 and my parents would be devastated if they knew, so I can't take medication for it. But!! With the help of my close friends, I have slowly but surely gone through some of the hard and dark times in my life. Stay close to your loved ones and you will get through this time, even if it seems impossible!!
Luna Muggins if you tell your parents they will understand and try to help you. Keeping your feelings locked inside you can be really bad mentally.
Luna Muggins if you tell your parents they will understand and try to help you. Keeping your feelings locked inside you can be really bad mentally.
ShippingGirl Val thx for sharing its sad isn't it but your strong be strong be positive and don't forget to follow ur dreams... if you do those things life becomes so much better trust me also your grandfather is in heaven and he's watching you he will stay with you forever!💞❣️👌🏻☑️
Eurtle Teh Turtle Trust me......they reacted badly when I told them I was bi.......they signed me up for confessions at church, said I couldn't hang out with any of my friends, and made me go to church every single day.........I don't even want to know how they'll react to this.....they'll probably put me in a mental asylum, afraid of me killing myself
tysm for this! I suffer from depression and gender dysphoria and ive found it hard to be happy lately and this helped with my self care routine ❤
Great video and advice.
WAIT did u just draw that
Cuz is so beautiful
Jalal Sisters oml your one of those people
Burnt Popcorn : lol 😹
She does realise that if we cut time on our phones , no one would watch the video
Well she just means don't only spend time on your phone, but give some time to real life
Sofia Van Niekerk oh
KawaiiKam 123 I SUBBED
Sofia Van Niekerk Ikr. I was like if she's sponsored by a phone brand, I thought they wanted to sell their phone instead of staying off it more 😶
She is only suggesting to not be that person who goes out to eat with friends only to scroll through facebook the entire time. There is time to be on technology when you're alone, or when you're on a long commute with nothing to do. Also, I'm not watching this on a phone so I find it hilarious that you assume the only way to watch this is on a phone.
I am really learning a lot when im with my mom...Thats why i LOVE her so much!😍
I love this video! You have some great simple ideas for stress reduction. I am an art therapist and you have inspired me to try out slime as a stress relieving exercise. And i love your hamsters. So cute!
My NEWYEARS revolution is to be more organized!🛍
SAME! I am SO messy
Cute! DIY's! Hah yea maybe that could be one of mine
Decluttering. Decluttering. Decluttering. :)
Plus, watching organizational videos on UA-cam. I went from total slob to (almost) totally organized in months (it took me months to declutter, lol)
Lol😂
Cute! DIY's! SAME
I have a little hamster
He is my first pet ever
He is 6 Months old and he just celibrated hes first Christmas
Awww adorable!
I agree that is cute
CoraTale ! cute.
Cute
CoraTale ! Yayyyyy
This was SO helpful....I’m trying to become more happy and these things look so Cool!
I really enjoyed this video because I have stress problems and my mom always tells me to be happy, and this video is perfect!
Can u plz show us everything bout ur pets? Like what kind of food u feed them, and the cage and toys maybe? 😬😬
😢😭😭😢😭my hammy died he was a winter white his name was chubby and he loved to play with my dog
im sorry :(
Now we know why he died 😂💖
+Vogue Cat
unnecessary dude
Anna Banana haha chubby 😀😀😀
Anna Banana Sorry doll. :(
did you do the art for the game vlogger go viral
hey you play vgv too OMG!
Seems like it
Ikr
I have played this game omg
Love this vid it has help me with anxiety many times and I'm greatful for that thxs so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My new year resolution is to lose some weight
Hadya Alisha same
Same hahaha
Hadya Alisha SAME
Hadya Alisha same
mine is the opposite d
I'm so happy that you are sponsored ^-^
also you are really good at drawing
#bepresent
Mona Eleanor yes you are right
+sahradune 212
:)
Joanna, watching your videos helps my anxiety !
I LOVE drawing and animating and it really helps me to feel better and I always get motivated and inspired when I draw❤️
Thus was very helpful. Thanks for all this advice.
I wish I had a pet but the landlord doesn't allow pets :( I wanted a rabbit.
Unrealistic_Otter
I read somewhere that for 60$ you can register your pet as an emotional support animal and your landlords cannot make you get rid of it. I cant remember if it was only for dogs, but you should look into it. You might be able to get that rabbit 😊
puppynumber8 oh really? Thanks so much I'll definitely look into it. ^_^
Unrealistic_Otter you can just sneak it in😂when I was younger cats, dogs and rabbits weren't allowed but I sneaked my rabbit and cat in and nobody knew about it lol
Father Mami LOL though I doubt I can sneak it in, my brother would probably find it.
Unrealistic_Otter the fuck your brother gonna do? Snitch on you?
really awesome video.
I love your videos!!!
omg when you were holding the hamster sooo cute!
Love this video
I love you and your videos! It really makes my day! 😘 thank you for your positivity ❤
every time I watch this video (which is a lot) it makes me smile and inspired.
Thank you💝 this is the channle that helps me with stress and I just love it
You make me so happy! Thank you Joanna! :D
Cute life hacks you always make my day I have never felt so happy since I found you're channel you have *inspired* me and changed my life in a very good way ! I don't care if you reply or not but knowing that you have seen this makes me happy so go on with you're good work and change others is life♥
from:*Chanté*❤
Stop thinking that shes just like every DIY channel, she's really inspiring.
Can we appreciate that she is acctully sending a message to people?
I love your videos so much!
Oh my gosh ,i love your videos 😍😍
Wow it's may for me and I watched this too late lol! Well kinda. I missed #BePresent !!! I love the diys and you earned a new subscriber
I know it's not new years anymore but having a resolution is a good idea! I just really want to be able to be satisfied with my current state of being