DJ Nyame please don’t take this lightly. Please educate our ladies. There’s financial abuse!!! I saw an interview on your show with lady from Germany that said she was in a financial abuse relationship. I went to search on google and was shocked that things I went through for over 10 years was actually financial abuse. I never knew there was such a thing. Some men leave the whole financial responsibility on the woman, keeping all their money to themselves and don’t even use their part of the money to build a house for the family back home. It’s horrible to be in such situation. Ladies beware!
True spouses never ask their partners to pay when they bring them abroad but wisdom will make the person work to help all the time to show their appreciation. For me i never paid a dime and hes been amazing, never bothering me with financial issues. But i am always working to help out. Individual differences though
Your case is different from the entitled ones. There are women you would support financially when they are in Ghana and not working. You will sponsor them to join you and whiles they are working and making money, they expect you to still pay for everything simply because you sleep with them. If that’s marriage then no man should bother to get involved in that unnecessary union.
She said she went in 2008, stayed with the husband for 8 years and no child. So that will be in 2016 that she left the husband and had a baby with another man. However, she also said the child is 13 years. How is it possible because 2016 to 2024 is 8 years.
DJ good job for a unique content. I realised most of our people just want to pour out their heart. They just want someone to talk with and you've given your platform out for such opportunity
People are wicked oo, can you imagine taking away someone's right to live a meaningful life. This is morden day slavery. I remember some years back when my wife joined me. A colleague who I considered a friend suggested to me to take and keep her money. I immediately understood why he was divorced. This year in January we celebrated 29 years of marriage, if you add the time we dated before marriage we have bben together for over 30 years. One needs to have a clean heart, clean mind and a sympathetic spirit.
What an intellectual come back on men wanting to cheapen single parents. Very wise to use the Gold analogy. Respect us women. We are not cheap. Hot Cake. DJ Nyame READ BETWEEN THE LINES. ITS AN ERROR as she said. Thank you sister
Her son with another man is 14 years old and she lived in Germany for 16 years ,which means she was only with the husband for 2 years in Germany before getting pregnant with another man. It doesn't make sense to me . Something smells like lies 😂
A friend of mine is going through the same thing here in Germany. She was young when the man married her. She is the only one I know who’s not taking Kindergeld.. this man has Maltreated my friend very bad… This is not news here in Germany
She's not the only one. I know a lot of women who don't take kindergeld but are happy with their husband's. Kindergeld is what is breaking many homes, but they calculate it as housekeeping for the family.
It’s funny how the host asked if they were married and why he asked her to pay the money he spent in bringing her. Ha ha, most Ghanaian men demand their money back that’s why marriages abroad don’t last. Those ladies who are enlightened will calculate and when they finish paying, it’s game over.
I really don’t understand like how is that love or a marriage if your partner brings you and then wants you to pay them back it’s weird I mean I get it because lost money but aren’t you one ? I hear that story Amit it’s weird
Thank you, Sister, for your brilliant reply about marriage and sex abroad. I like dj Nyame interviews a lot, but it is annoying to me when he keeps emphasizing on sex and marriage. There is no time to waste abroad, and no serious person abroad puts much interest in that time is money
@58:00 The reason why there are so many single parents in the west is because there is very little genuine love in relationships here, also greed and people trying to decive their partners and finally the deceptive and distructive strategy of the governance and lifestyle in the west.
So many men outside will do this to the lady they come to marry hr in Ghana and take them there but rather turn back and say the women are ungrateful and they got there and run away with another man
Hmmmm this lady might have gone through a lot .Starting a job just the following day, WRONG! And charging your own wife after bringing her to abroad, ANOTHER BIG NO! That was unfair to the woman, i see the hubby to be dishonest person! If whst this woman is saying is true then the husband is a wicked man. Ladies who do not know much about life abroad SHOULD SHUT UP!
When someone brings you to Abroad either your family or spouse, and they tell you to pay them, do that, it's normal for family to take back their money, but married couple part where so many people don't understand it. How can my husband/ wife take his or her money after i join them in abroad it doesn't sound well... but i will advise you to pay... And paying it won't change the fact that.. they brought you ooo 😄 they go still remind you. And support him with bills but still be submissive as wife.. ... do what ever a wife will do in the house... it's peaceful, why leave the marriage?
Husband is charging wife for what, then where is n two shall be one?me when u charged me I will divorce you because u love money more than de marriage.
Im shocked a woman is saying this. How much is visa fee? Aside the A1 we do in Ghana fee, if ur man has pass, u r not even charged visa so why shd a man charge his wife for bringing her? She’s human n she has Sense to have supported her man with bills. Most of u r very heartless in abroad paaa. God is watching u all
@priscillaasamoah9156 Say and say it again. A woman talking like this paaa.i will not be surprised if she is in Germany because the cruelty and wickedness in Germany is tooooooo much.When you die, Sister take your Papers (documents) to Heaven.Learn about life and stop that attitude.
THIS MAN WAS BONE WITH GREEDY HEART ❤️ AND NOTTING CAN CHANGE HIM.. I WILL BET ANY ONE $1000 DOLLARS THIS MAN WILL BE A DARKSKIN HUMANS BODY.. LET SHOW THE PICTURES OF THIS MAN
One thing is that she did not know the laws. 8 years marriage should have given her, her papers. A lawyer would have collected it easily for her. She was long time qualified without her knowledge. The man hid everything from her.
DJ, Bringing you to Aborokyire,because you are very industrious, I am sorry ,most of the old Borgas will use you to benefit themselves. That is what is going on in aborokyire among our own Ghanaian folks. Wickedness, greediness and jealousy Nkoaaaaa.Aborokyire life is very pathetic as she said.
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U are so intelligent, I live in Canada and your responds shows how matured you are, I can listen to you over and over, Nice One.
This woman have learnt a lot from her travel and experience. God bless her and i wish her well and her child.
Thank you
Ooh sorry Ohemaa i am also passing through the samething, but am still in it bcos of my children, DJ one day i will tell my story
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Aww sorry sis, God will surely see you through. We all have stories to tell one day
Obaa sima nie!! Serwa Akoto. Woman with a golden heart. True true traditional woman.You will be blessed for all your troubles.
The best interview I have watched dj ❤❤❤
Nice interview Dj,what a bold woman
DJ Nyame please don’t take this lightly. Please educate our ladies. There’s financial abuse!!! I saw an interview on your show with lady from Germany that said she was in a financial abuse relationship. I went to search on google and was shocked that things I went through for over 10 years was actually financial abuse. I never knew there was such a thing. Some men leave the whole financial responsibility on the woman, keeping all their money to themselves and don’t even use their part of the money to build a house for the family back home. It’s horrible to be in such situation. Ladies beware!
Of course it exists ,more with narcissistic behaviour
True spouses never ask their partners to pay when they bring them abroad but wisdom will make the person work to help all the time to show their appreciation. For me i never paid a dime and hes been amazing, never bothering me with financial issues. But i am always working to help out. Individual differences though
Your case is different from the entitled ones. There are women you would support financially when they are in Ghana and not working. You will sponsor them to join you and whiles they are working and making money, they expect you to still pay for everything simply because you sleep with them. If that’s marriage then no man should bother to get involved in that unnecessary union.
@@emmanuelcrayon7730I understood your point very clearly
Well said
You’re a wise woman and u were lucky to be married to a wise man❤
It should have been the real deal actually; mutual respect and balancing life in diverse ways towards upgrading the family!
She said she went in 2008, stayed with the husband for 8 years and no child. So that will be in 2016 that she left the husband and had a baby with another man. However, she also said the child is 13 years. How is it possible because 2016 to 2024 is 8 years.
Thanks dear
the 8years meant the total years she was her husband, time in Ghana included.
They were together for five years in Ghana before she came to Germany, that means her whole agony in Germany is within three years.
DJ good job for a unique content. I realised most of our people just want to pour out their heart. They just want someone to talk with and you've given your platform out for such opportunity
Why some of the Germany,'s boggars are like that, is only weakness
Very Level-Headed Lady....Gone Through Alot...Assertive In The Interview....Great Submission....God Guide You...🙏🙏
Thank you
Wow! this woman is deep! gold is expensive and so only few people enter the jewelry shop. #liken your life to gold~ be expensive.💪🏻💚❤️
God bless you DJ for this wonderful program ❤❤
Dj Nyaami Greetings, Big up's...Nice interview
Beautiful lady.....karma will get that husband....you're already successful 🙏🏽
Karma is doing a very big job for me
Very educative, thanks for sharing
Aaaaah
Which kind marriage too be this?
Ghanaian women don’t examine borga’s like the way they examine local based guys
Hahaha my dear in all I give God the glory
People are wicked oo, can you imagine taking away someone's right to live a meaningful life. This is morden day slavery. I remember some years back when my wife joined me. A colleague who I considered a friend suggested to me to take and keep her money. I immediately understood why he was divorced. This year in January we celebrated 29 years of marriage, if you add the time we dated before marriage we have bben together for over 30 years. One needs to have a clean heart, clean mind and a sympathetic spirit.
I’ve learnt a lot from this interview.
Thanks dear
That’s what most of the Borgars do. Ns3nhunu nkoaaa yet they won’t say their part but always say the ladies leave them when they bring them abroad.
Nana Ohemaa Eiiiii this life it's not easy sorry ok I know I God will help US & give us the strength to pass through Much Love to you & DJ 🫶🤝✌️
DJ is true my sister went through the same situation in the same Germany
Connect her to share her experience
They don't know ooh
Very sensible lady indeed.
I love this woman. She's very intelligent and real.
What an intellectual come back on men wanting to cheapen single parents. Very wise to use the Gold analogy. Respect us women. We are not cheap. Hot Cake. DJ Nyame READ BETWEEN THE LINES. ITS AN ERROR as she said. Thank you sister
😂😂 stop yapping
Her son with another man is 14 years old and she lived in Germany for 16 years ,which means she was only with the husband for 2 years in Germany before getting pregnant with another man. It doesn't make sense to me . Something smells like lies 😂
A friend of mine is going through the same thing here in Germany. She was young when the man married her. She is the only one I know who’s not taking Kindergeld.. this man has Maltreated my friend very bad… This is not news here in Germany
She's not the only one. I know a lot of women who don't take kindergeld but are happy with their husband's. Kindergeld is what is breaking many homes, but they calculate it as housekeeping for the family.
8 years marriage should have given her stay. Rather unfortunately, she didn't know the law and the husband kept it secret from her. Sorry!.
We stayed almost 5and half yes in Ghana 🇬🇭
May God help you see even better days.
I like the scenarium about Gold , Wise woman😊
Thanks dear
Very wise 👍🏽
Where are the mathmaticians? The lady's child is 13 yrs, so who's the father? She's been there 16 years.
We stayed 5 and half in Ghana 🇬🇭 before he brought me here
@@ObaaYaaAdepa-g3nbut you said the child is for the new person you met and not your former husband
Dj, You know what? She cannot immediately come to Ghana because now she has passed the test of living in aborokyire.
Yes my dear
I am happy you have a child now! TTC for 8 years is not a joke. God have mercy on TTC women across the world! God will answer us
Thank you
If you haven’t been in this situation before you might think she’s telling stories hmm 🙏
They don't know
Yes what she’s saying true paaaaa
Very beautiful woman,can see a golden heart ❤
Thank you
Learning a lot
She has been exploited just like how some men do.
The gentleman was exploiting the lovely lady. Sorry for her. I wish her all the best in her endeavors.
Medaase
God have Mercy
People have stories this lady Madam just be strong.
Best wishes
It’s funny how the host asked if they were married and why he asked her to pay the money he spent in bringing her. Ha ha, most Ghanaian men demand their money back that’s why marriages abroad don’t last. Those ladies who are enlightened will calculate and when they finish paying, it’s game over.
Dj in fact the man is very cruel paaaaa herrrr.He took advantage of the innocent and ignorant beautiful soul.KARMA will deal with him.
You need to allow them to flow
She's a lovely guest.
Mad rush for single mothers in Germany = FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS in the United States.
I really don’t understand like how is that love or a marriage if your partner brings you and then wants you to pay them back it’s weird I mean I get it because lost money but aren’t you one ? I hear that story Amit it’s weird
Strange Just like in ghana both married couples have their separate bank accounts Ghanaian don’t know what marriage is
Not entirely honest and straightforward.
this is from the woman's part, haven't heard from the man but if it's true then she has really really suffered in Germany.
Thank you, Sister, for your brilliant reply about marriage and sex abroad. I like dj Nyame interviews a lot, but it is annoying to me when he keeps emphasizing on sex and marriage. There is no time to waste abroad, and no serious person abroad puts much interest in that time is money
Marriage is exceptional when you meet the right person
My dear I've been through hell
Very clever interligent woman
@58:00 The reason why there are so many single parents in the west is because there is very little genuine love in relationships here, also greed and people trying to decive their partners and finally the deceptive and distructive strategy of the governance and lifestyle in the west.
What was the job the ex wanted her to do?
So many men outside will do this to the lady they come to marry hr in Ghana and take them there but rather turn back and say the women are ungrateful and they got there and run away with another man
I trusted the lady but let listen to the other side of the husband
Men been doing this to women all d time, this is not news
Imagine paying for your wife to join you only for her to be sleeping with someone you know who doesn’t even have documents
I couldn't say all bcos of social media
Did you hear her, she paid her way. He didn’t take her to Germany. I would have left his ass a long time ago.
So many of the Germany old bogas are wicked 😢very sad how the man has decided to pay a good woman with evil
😭😭😭😭😭😭thanks be to God am finally out of this wahaa
Hmmmm this lady might have gone through a lot .Starting a job just the following day, WRONG! And charging your own wife after bringing her to abroad, ANOTHER BIG NO! That was unfair to the woman, i see the hubby to be dishonest person! If whst this woman is saying is true then the husband is a wicked man. Ladies who do not know much about life abroad SHOULD SHUT UP!
Life everywhere is pressure
A wise woman 👩
Thanks dear
The love is finished eii end time😢
Hahaha
Am even shocked DJ
When someone brings you to Abroad either your family or spouse, and they tell you to pay them, do that, it's normal for family to take back their money, but married couple part where so many people don't understand it. How can my husband/ wife take his or her money after i join them in abroad it doesn't sound well... but i will advise you to pay... And paying it won't change the fact that.. they brought you ooo 😄 they go still remind you. And support him with bills but still be submissive as wife.. ... do what ever a wife will do in the house... it's peaceful, why leave the marriage?
You are not making any sense my sister. Marriage is not a business transaction.
Husband is charging wife for what, then where is n two shall be one?me when u charged me I will divorce you because u love money more than de marriage.
You are mad
Im shocked a woman is saying this. How much is visa fee? Aside the A1 we do in Ghana fee, if ur man has pass, u r not even charged visa so why shd a man charge his wife for bringing her? She’s human n she has Sense to have supported her man with bills. Most of u r very heartless in abroad paaa. God is watching u all
@priscillaasamoah9156
Say and say it again. A woman talking like this paaa.i will not be surprised if she is in Germany because the cruelty and wickedness in Germany is tooooooo much.When you die, Sister take your Papers (documents) to Heaven.Learn about life and stop that attitude.
Matter dry, they expect you to share yr money for them back home, My sister, too much begging, begging
The husband is very wicked very wicked man..
Hmmm
Beautiful woman
It's not easy oo,the women don't talk
Men don't talk either
THIS MAN WAS BONE WITH GREEDY HEART ❤️ AND NOTTING CAN CHANGE HIM.. I WILL BET ANY ONE $1000 DOLLARS THIS MAN WILL BE A DARKSKIN HUMANS BODY.. LET SHOW THE PICTURES OF THIS MAN
😂😂😂😂
Agyeiiii 😅herr you fool pass but I ain’t say you told no lie.
One thing is that she did not know the laws. 8 years marriage should have given her, her papers. A lawyer would have collected it easily for her. She was long time qualified without her knowledge.
The man hid everything from her.
Hahaha medaase
Mmmhm!
DJ, Bringing you to Aborokyire,because you are very industrious, I am sorry ,most of the old Borgas will use you to benefit themselves. That is what is going on in aborokyire among our own Ghanaian folks. Wickedness, greediness and jealousy
Nkoaaaaa.Aborokyire life is very pathetic as she said.
Medaase
Ei, some men paaa. ei.
Nice woman
Nana Hemaa papapaaaa
Eii hmm
Dj, you are SLEEPY.
Guy was evil
Rather men that love born 5 are the cheap one
Germany bogars can very wocked
You need to change your style of questioning you are becoming boring