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  • Katherine is bringing Michael to court for child support. She makes about $100,000 more than Michael and they have split custody. Will she receive the outcome she seeks?

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  • @miserablew1zrd916
    @miserablew1zrd916 3 роки тому +2900

    She messed up by taking him back to court when she makes more money. I love it when people screw themselves over because of entitlement.

    • @jairoherrera4040
      @jairoherrera4040 3 роки тому +31

      Who cares about her lifestyle when it is a waste of money in my eyes just to impress others.

    • @I__Love_Lamp
      @I__Love_Lamp 3 роки тому +67

      This happened to me! I was paying over 1100.00 a month in support and retired from military. I couldn't afford the payments but couldn't afford an attorney so I had to file through the courts myself which took a year, mind you based off of what I made child support was taking 70% of my take home pay! Had to move on with my parents until the case was heard. I live in Texas the ex was in Florida. Anyways 9 months later we end up in court and she hires an attorney to represent her! So here we are in court I'm on the speakerphone with this female judge and she just breaks it down and asks what we made. During her calculating my ex asks if she can speak and judge grants it. My ex bashed me as a father not seeing my kids and at the end the judge asked me why I didn't see my kids I said I have no money and I had to provide medical insurance as well and was living with my parent's. She then asked why I haven't found a job and I explained I got in trouble with the law for misdemeanor assault at a grocery store and nobody wants to hire somebody with a fresh record 😔! Anyways the judge asked the CS attorney what my visitation time was with my kids and he used some legal phrase, don't know what it was but all I know is that it went against my ex in a bad way! My order states I can only see my kids twice a year and not even on the same day and I must be supervised by her father lol because kids don't know me! I told judge how is it financially feasible to drive 1000 miles to visit my kids for one day supervised and that's if she let me see them. So I explained 500 miles a day so two nights in a hotel or sleep in my car and then 2 days traveling back which is another two nights in a hotel or the car. I said to the judge so 70 dollars times 4 is $280 plus gas equals another $160 round trip and this doesn't include my meals! I said if I flew it would be about $400-600 round-trip but then I either had to Uber to a location to see my kids or rent a car which was about 60 miles from the nearest airport! So now the judge is like okay I got the picture now and then asked my ex what do you think is fair and my ex said I should pay more, that I shouldn't have left the military lol! The child support attorney chimed in and asked my ex weren't you in the military too and she said yes and he said what's stopping you from raising your right hand again lol! I was shocked that I'm being defended by the child support attorney in her jurisdiction! The judge starts smacking away on her calculator and proceeds to tell me sir based off of your financial documentation I'm reducing your support to $583.00 my ex was like what the hell! She added do youvwant to forgive the arrears owed to you and I was like arrears and she explained that since I filed almost a year ago and was paying over the amount alloted by state law that I could request a credit for those 8 months or waive it and I said I'll take the credit lol! To add insult to injury the judge asked who was the primary medical insurer and I said I was and she said well now I was only responsible fir 35% and became the secondary and she was the primary at 65%! The funny part about this is I told my ex I could pay $700 a month and she said no so essence of this long story is nice guys don't always finish last and that this is a win for those fathers that do the right thing! This judge saw through my ex and her greed and karma took a chunk of her ass!😁

    • @luckyme9110
      @luckyme9110 3 роки тому +1

      She is paying the school fee?

    • @tryitout-701
      @tryitout-701 3 роки тому +4

      you know that the people are actors and that she is not a judge, right?

    • @MrSteve-hy9yo
      @MrSteve-hy9yo 3 роки тому +7

      Seriously what kind of an attorney is she? She should have been advised by a proper family attorney to let her know that if you make way more, taking your spouse to court will force you to pay more. Idiot!

  • @lyrical_love1
    @lyrical_love1 3 роки тому +1622

    😏That smirk on the dad’s face at the end was priceless! 😂

    • @KingDreFmG
      @KingDreFmG 3 роки тому +5

      😂😂😂

    • @atydashti8896
      @atydashti8896 3 роки тому +5

      😂😂😂😂👍🏼

    • @vicortiz5105
      @vicortiz5105 3 роки тому +5

      Hahahah was thinking the same thing

    • @hibiki54
      @hibiki54 3 роки тому +11

      Smirk = "Gotcha, bitch!"

    • @RustinTravis
      @RustinTravis 2 роки тому +13

      And more so because he knew she brought it all down upon herself.

  • @themarissamichelle
    @themarissamichelle 3 роки тому +2639

    “What kind of lawyer are you.... Nevermind.” Idk why that made me laugh so hard. 😂😂😂

  • @matthewventurin1628
    @matthewventurin1628 2 роки тому +553

    This is by far my favourite one. She comes in expecting him to pay and she ends up having to pay him child support. This women is laughable

    • @lynnetrathen4587
      @lynnetrathen4587 Рік тому +3

      And remember she’s a lawyer 🤣🤣😉😉

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig Рік тому

      The instant karma episodes are great, but seeing her try to win comrodery with the judge made the icing on this cake extra sweet!

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

    • @composedlight6850
      @composedlight6850 Місяць тому

      but she earns $200,000 a year so cant be that much of a fool .

  • @kenziefitzgerald2299
    @kenziefitzgerald2299 3 роки тому +1734

    The fact that she’s a lawyer & thought this was gunna fly is so freaking funny to me!!!!

    • @IPwn3dJo
      @IPwn3dJo 3 роки тому +27

      She was using the words needed for alimony. Talking about a certain lifestyle she lived. It’s a real thing and a horrible thing

    • @justafire36
      @justafire36 3 роки тому +6

      Oooooof please don't let her be my lawyer.

    • @ShaggyRogers1
      @ShaggyRogers1 3 роки тому +12

      @@IPwn3dJo The thing is, as a lawyer she should know that she is in the wrong court to be arguing for alimony. Besides the fact that it was her income that was funding the lifestyle, not his, child support is completely separate from alimony. You will never get child support payments when its split custody and you make literally over $100k more than your partner.

    • @gnsgml11
      @gnsgml11 2 роки тому +3

      She's getting paid too much from her boss

    • @hoggybearthoughts8664
      @hoggybearthoughts8664 2 роки тому +8

      Most of the time child support court favors the mother, even if they split custody. She was probably hoping to get an old school judge that always sides with the mother, no matter how much the mother makes. That why she came with the sob story instead of financial facts about her income.

  • @NinjaKiller1022
    @NinjaKiller1022 2 роки тому +216

    The “what kind of lawyer are you?… Nevermind…” Line had me dying. I love watching these videos!

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому +1

      I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

    • @perryallan3524
      @perryallan3524 2 місяці тому

      @@DhawaneMiglani He pays his share. It's just that her share is larger than his because she earns more money. Thus, on balance she owes him support money every month.

  • @ravengrimm7717
    @ravengrimm7717 3 роки тому +266

    Lmfaooo she didn’t want child support, she wanted an allowance 😂😂

    • @manuela1102
      @manuela1102 3 місяці тому

      Exactly to help her pay for her lifestyle

  • @wilmanchrty3406
    @wilmanchrty3406 3 роки тому +319

    That whole..."maintain my lifestyle " thing when you have a system in place to not struggle badly gets me every time

    • @joimumu
      @joimumu 2 роки тому +6

      I never understand why that is a consider a value argument when people get divorce lifestyle change and it shouldn’t be at expense the other

    • @gamergodofjustice
      @gamergodofjustice 2 роки тому

      "Your honor i cant maintain my life style if I'm paying a women for sex that im not getting. So if I keep having to pay her for sex she need to maintain my life style with 2 bj's a week and sex daily." If this doesnt fly in court neither should alimony.

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig Рік тому +1

      ​@@joimumuthe original law was set during the time were nobody would hire a window or divorced woman outside of shady work. Given the possible outcomes, the legal argument was that such a fear of loss in an abusive relationship would be akin to the fear an indentured servant might feel.
      However, ever since WW2, when women were able to work, the spirit of that law changed without the letter of the law keeping up.

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig Рік тому +2

      This is child support court, not spousal support, so her lifestyle means diddly squat.... and given that she's a lawyer, she should know that.

    • @javacaffeine
      @javacaffeine 7 місяців тому

      When you freaking want to live the bad and boujee lifestyle xD

  • @MP-np3tm
    @MP-np3tm 3 роки тому +729

    Dad's face when he heard her gross income took me out!👀

    • @mirandawilliams3
      @mirandawilliams3 3 роки тому +8

      Right!! 😂😂🤑🤑

    • @nuri00ko
      @nuri00ko 3 роки тому +26

      She earns $12k gross/month and she’s asking him to “pay child support”?!

    • @andrewvelonis5940
      @andrewvelonis5940 2 роки тому +2

      But he was the one who told the judge what her income was.

    • @BR0KEdownUNDER
      @BR0KEdownUNDER 2 роки тому +3

      @@nuri00ko No thats the cap. Judge said 200k so gross would be 16,666.67k month

    • @Nikki_81
      @Nikki_81 Рік тому

      I think he had the face because the calculations didn't sound right to him based on the $200 000.
      I think he missed the part where she said mom capped out.

  • @brandoncave123
    @brandoncave123 2 роки тому +54

    Dude went from 70k a year to 88k a year! Those kids are going to be living great when they are with dad 😂

  • @nenesocrazy
    @nenesocrazy 3 роки тому +784

    Wow.. She basically wanted the father to pay child support to support her needs and not the children. Being a parent means that you have to make sacrifices to support your children and most of the time, your old habits and lifestyle goes out the window to support your child. She just wanted the father to pay child support to support her needs.. Selfish.

    • @TyusJada
      @TyusJada 3 роки тому +7

      Tomfoolery, that's all it is.

    • @floridaheat6996
      @floridaheat6996 3 роки тому +7

      That's sadly what the case is most of the time

    • @bmexsweatttyt4115
      @bmexsweatttyt4115 3 роки тому +1

      EXACTLY 👏🏾 👏🏾

    • @nenesocrazy
      @nenesocrazy 3 роки тому +1

      @@TyusJada not Tomfoolery 😂😂

    • @KnockedupNout
      @KnockedupNout 3 роки тому +1

      I would argue that it's only fair that the father split the bill equally if a mother doesn't even have enough to do self care every once in awhile, BUT she is living beyond her means in an extravagant way and still wanting him to pay more. Stupid lady.

  • @grendalebeowulf194
    @grendalebeowulf194 3 роки тому +68

    This judge is restoring my faith in the judicial system!

  • @samuelchappell7280
    @samuelchappell7280 3 роки тому +328

    The mom was an attorney, and she obviously didn't get some needed advice before trying to get dad to pay. She just wanted that lifestyle she was addicted to having at somewhat of dad's expense. She got a rude awakening. ROFLMAO!!!!!

    • @alexrose8299
      @alexrose8299 3 роки тому +5

      At his expense? He’s not contributing to shit.

    • @samuelchappell7280
      @samuelchappell7280 3 роки тому +12

      @@alexrose8299 This mom thought by taking the dad to court seeking child support, she could then use some of the support to fuel her lifestyle. Had the mother won, he would have been paying part of her lifestyle. Fortunately for him, Texas law saved his ass.

    • @delvinlino869
      @delvinlino869 3 роки тому +1

      @@alexrose8299 literally why the fuck should she sit around and pay for everything and now him. WHEN HE DOES NOTHING. VONDA IS WRONG

    • @ajayslife6604
      @ajayslife6604 3 роки тому +9

      @@delvinlino869 You guys are not understanding the entire ruling in the slightest. They have the kid equal time. Which means there is no custodial parent by right, it’s split. She is making them both pay child support. However, they are both paying child support which means they would cancel out the lesser of the two. It’s the offset of the child supports. This means, when she brought child support into play and there is no custodial parent, both parents are “obligated” to pay. The child support is determined on the same calculation for each party. With that calculation, she made what would be an offset of $1600. Her actual could have been $4600; but, he probably made what would be the $3,000 back to her. He does contribute the same as her if they live in his house and he feeds them, drives them to school, the SAME amount of time as her. She chose the school and since there is no custodial parent, he is not obligated to pay that school. By right, if he is paying insurance, and she is not. He is contributing more. Private school is a choice. Take that away and she does the same as him.

    • @TheSouthernbellebeau
      @TheSouthernbellebeau 3 роки тому +4

      I think this show is scripted. There is no way an attorney is that dimwitted, like you did 4 years of undergrad, + law school... you’d think she has more sense with how to act. You make 170k, there is no way you can’t afford a 40$ set of nails. If you are “struggling” making 170k a year... you need to reevaluate your monthly budget!!

  • @scrappydear2579
    @scrappydear2579 Рік тому +25

    I need a mug that says “you came in here to waste my time”

    • @DoodleDust
      @DoodleDust 6 місяців тому +2

      This is actually a fantastic idea

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

    • @DoodleDust
      @DoodleDust 4 місяці тому

      ​@@DhawaneMiglanino one said he was lazy, just that he made less money. There is a difference lol

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      @@DoodleDust sooo is he not the dad... Doesn't he have the kids why is he not paying half... Why only she has to compromise ??? He earns 70 k he can definitely pay his share and there's nothing wrong with her spending her rightfully earned money

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      @@DoodleDust imagine you working 20 hrs a day and raising 4 kids alone paying for tutions extra curriculars and dad doesn't pay anything and you're not allowed to spend anything on yourself

  • @twinniedavidson9909
    @twinniedavidson9909 3 роки тому +271

    You should have you show on television, you’re real and fair.

    • @delvinlino869
      @delvinlino869 3 роки тому +3

      no shes not she made no sense. ordered the woman to pay money to a man doing nothing. thats the dumbest shit ever.

    • @Hollyy7
      @Hollyy7 3 роки тому +10

      @@delvinlino869 lmao they literally had equal custody

    • @OriginallyHim
      @OriginallyHim 3 роки тому +2

      this is staged sir

    • @zhataviasoto1233
      @zhataviasoto1233 3 роки тому +3

      @@delvinlino869 you been in these comments giving angry vibes .. are you okay?

    • @dragames
      @dragames 3 роки тому +9

      @@delvinlino869 they had equal custody, in a lot of states, that means that childcare expenses and lifestyle values are supposed to be split, and in this case, she made more money just like in many cases men pay women when they make more money. It's not alimony, it's to make sure that regardless of which house the kids are at, they're at a similar lifestyle. They don't want kids going to like a poor house for one parent and then a mansion if it's joint custody.

  • @007von
    @007von 3 роки тому +39

    Her plan backfired horribly 😂😂😂

  • @brandonlightfoot5631
    @brandonlightfoot5631 3 роки тому +409

    Not only did she show that she was greedy, she also told on herself that she likes to live a lavish and luxurious lifestyle. I’m glad the judge saw her intentions and decided not to make the dad pay more and decided to make her pay more😆🤣

    • @AK19909
      @AK19909 2 роки тому

      Lmao
      She’s a ACTRESS!!!!!!! These are not real!

    • @ninaappelt9001
      @ninaappelt9001 Рік тому +1

      When you want to live a lavish lifestyle, you get to pay for it.

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      ​@@AK19909I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому +1

      I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

  • @CeltycSparrow
    @CeltycSparrow 3 роки тому +29

    I love how these pompous, spoiled women come into her court, thinking they can get more child support from the ex and they tell the judge "Oh I pay for EVERYTHING and he pays next to nothing" and come to find out, she's taking trips and getting drunk and all that too. And now SHE has to pay HIM child support because she makes twice as much as he does and his payment was actually cut in half. lol I call that Karma.

  • @HeyhoBrando
    @HeyhoBrando 3 роки тому +127

    If I would’ve heard “I can’t get my nails done or hair done’ I would’ve said “well you have kids so...what’s your point?”

    • @nunyastockson5901
      @nunyastockson5901 3 роки тому +5

      i was with her on that. she said it like an entitled karen. but she needs it. but the liquor and personal chef lost me. like wtf are you eating and drinking lady? i get drunk regularly on 30$ per month. and i drink good. and if cooking is so hard theres shit you can order. blue apron. or just do some damn spaghetti.

    • @JS-ul7kz
      @JS-ul7kz 3 роки тому +2

      @@nunyastockson5901 She drinks daily if she has weekly curb side pick up at the liquor store. Her bill there is probably a hundred or more a week.

    • @shoneywilliams4453
      @shoneywilliams4453 2 роки тому +1

      She needs some botox too. She looks like she is his mother instead of his ex

    • @EdwinaRigormuerteTreehorse
      @EdwinaRigormuerteTreehorse 2 роки тому

      And it doesn’t seem to improve anything on her. Her outside definitely reflects her inside

    • @barrybaker709
      @barrybaker709 7 годин тому

      ​@nunyastockson5901 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅

  • @mor.6860
    @mor.6860 2 роки тому +19

    I get so tired of when people say, “the lifestyle I’m accustomed to”. In a divorce happens, things change and your style changes. Live with it. If you can’t work it out, oh well.

  • @meganpauline4391
    @meganpauline4391 3 роки тому +211

    Omg... I don't know what I would do if I made that kind of money like the mother.

    • @abigailspeck6332
      @abigailspeck6332 3 роки тому +1

      I’d be a Friesian !

    • @tieiatalks
      @tieiatalks 3 роки тому +2

      It’s easy to spend!

    • @ashleydiamond4581
      @ashleydiamond4581 3 роки тому +2

      Live a beautiful life style lol

    • @poshpearls23
      @poshpearls23 3 роки тому

      Seriously!!!

    • @isaiahhayes9962
      @isaiahhayes9962 3 роки тому +3

      I'd buy property and rent homes until I could build my own gated community and then begin expanding my property empire. The passive income you can generate from owning homes is enormous. And then with all the extra money I'd probably start building local businesses that pay really well and put big corporations out of business locally.

  • @lemmyraisehell.8669
    @lemmyraisehell.8669 2 роки тому +27

    The smirk from the husband at the end....priceless.

  • @JasPlease
    @JasPlease 3 роки тому +255

    So proud of my OG. Been knowing this judge for over 20 years. LOVE LOVE LOVE this show!

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 роки тому +31

      Thank you love!!😘

    • @jasmine2thamax
      @jasmine2thamax 3 роки тому +15

      Over 20 yrs?! I thought she was in her 30’s!!!

    • @JasPlease
      @JasPlease 3 роки тому +28

      @@jasmine2thamax she is and so am I. We’ve known each since we were kids.

    • @qs4177
      @qs4177 3 роки тому +5

      @@JasPlease thank for the explanation cause I was like that’s the youngest looking 50 year old ever!!!

    • @LLl-cc1qv
      @LLl-cc1qv 2 роки тому +3

      @@JasPlease intelligent beautiful but is she single though🤔😂. I'm sure I know the answer.🙏🏿

  • @nicomeier8098
    @nicomeier8098 3 роки тому +7

    Makes 170k a year but can't pay for her hair being done???
    I see why they divorced; she obviously lives in her own bubble far away from reality.
    Imagine hiring her as a lawyer.......you're screwed

  • @nanababygirl12
    @nanababygirl12 3 роки тому +91

    I’m sure she didn’t expect that 😂 probably should fire the personal chef and maid 🥴🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @nanababygirl12
      @nanababygirl12 3 роки тому +1

      @@OriginallyHim i know. They say it in every video. Im speaking from my point of view AS IF it is real.

  • @CarlosHernandez-kw8um
    @CarlosHernandez-kw8um 2 роки тому +14

    I love how she literally states that her whole reasoning for bringing him to court was because she hasn’t been able to keep the same lifestyle that let her get her hair & nails done all the tome before 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤣

  • @Mjmem09
    @Mjmem09 3 роки тому +97

    Found you from TikTok! I’m addicted to your videos!! You’re always fair in your judgement but you don’t take crap from anyone! Love love love it!!

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 роки тому +6

      😘❤️

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      ​@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

    • @barrybaker709
      @barrybaker709 7 годин тому

      I know,right?!😏💯

    • @barrybaker709
      @barrybaker709 7 годин тому

      ​@@JudgeVondaBYou're definitely one of THE LORD'S agents,for good,in this world n truly a terror to evildoers. Be blessed,be safe, be the light in the darkness you were predestined n preordained to be.😍🥰👍🏾✌🏾🙏🏾❤️💯✝️

    • @barrybaker709
      @barrybaker709 7 годин тому

      ​@@DhawaneMiglaniBone up on your child support guidelines n quit "virtual simping". Women know support court favors them, therefore even being a top earner doesn't dissuade them from seeking more.🤨

  • @Liliththelizard
    @Liliththelizard 7 місяців тому +2

    Imagine getting 14 thousand dollars a month and spending it so unwisely that you can't even afford to get your nails done.

  • @JameeWoodard
    @JameeWoodard 3 роки тому +78

    I love when she says, “you came in here to play.” It gets real at that point.

  • @AlexisLopez-pb8ms
    @AlexisLopez-pb8ms 3 роки тому +5

    His job is to provide for the children, not her lifestyle. Glad to see things backfire on this greedy lawyer. Wait is greedy lawyer an oxymoron.

  • @chansophonlong
    @chansophonlong 3 роки тому +50

    I'm sorry but your kids are important and expensive. Your nails, hair and getting massages, maid, and personal cook are not important. I'm done with her already!

  • @rikkedandanell2846
    @rikkedandanell2846 2 роки тому +3

    That’s not fair!!!! 😠 She has worked her behind off studying to be a layer and because she has more money than him, she has to be punished 😳 It’s not her problem that she earns more than him. The judge should have calculated all the expensive for the children and then they should pay half each. THAT’S FAIR 👊🏻
    The American law is messed up 🙄

  • @adamkofi5683
    @adamkofi5683 3 роки тому +56

    Wow that was a bad idea, to take him to court, that must really really hurt. How is she an attorney and didn't expect this?
    One more reason to hate her ex😂

    • @AyoHype
      @AyoHype 3 роки тому +2

      Must be a public defender

    • @I__Love_Lamp
      @I__Love_Lamp 3 роки тому

      Probably a tax attorney!

    • @benblake-johnson7075
      @benblake-johnson7075 2 роки тому

      @@AyoHype no public defender is making 200k/year

    • @AyoHype
      @AyoHype 2 роки тому

      @@benblake-johnson7075 that's true

    • @anonymoose116
      @anonymoose116 4 місяці тому

      She's not a family attorney, that's for sure.

  • @michexi9418
    @michexi9418 2 роки тому +8

    its basically her saying "i need more child support for myself" its called CHILD support for a reason lmao

  • @alexandriahicks640
    @alexandriahicks640 3 роки тому +74

    As a hairdresser I have to laugh. Her hair was done with colour and toning 😂😂😂

  • @rodra167
    @rodra167 2 роки тому +8

    I just found out about Judge Vonda a day ago and I have been binge watching! Love her!

  • @danatyler9149
    @danatyler9149 3 роки тому +71

    I'm glad you're back, I love this show ❤

  • @SuperLadyDanger
    @SuperLadyDanger 2 роки тому +2

    Despite the income differences, I think both parents should bear the same burdens in caring for their kid(s). That isn’t to say both pay 50% each, but rather a 1/3 & 2/3 split or whatever the breakdown that reflects the income difference. If she makes double what he does, then his 1/3 of the childcare expenses becomes her 2/3 of the financial burden.

  • @cecemac988
    @cecemac988 3 роки тому +91

    The parent that makes the most money is charged the most in child support. We’re just not used to it being the woman 😏

    • @lifeofelorm
      @lifeofelorm 3 роки тому +4

      And honestly I feel somewhat happy when it happens to women
      IDK why though
      🤭

    • @FireHeart2829
      @FireHeart2829 2 роки тому +3

      Because it's about damn time!!!!

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

  • @buddywayne1
    @buddywayne1 2 роки тому +7

    I LOVED this one. She thought she was slick by claiming that she was used to a certain lifestyle but it bit her in the butt! lol.

  • @andreaallen1903
    @andreaallen1903 3 роки тому +35

    The mother should be paying dad the judge did the right thing. I bet she didn't think she would have to pay.

  • @manasseskamau5327
    @manasseskamau5327 5 місяців тому +2

    A lawyer needs legal counsel otherwise she makes a fool of herself.

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

    • @manasseskamau5327
      @manasseskamau5327 4 місяці тому

      @@DhawaneMiglani
      It's the law in the US of A. Men have been paying child support alone for donkey years and nobody seems not to get. It only becomes an issue when it's the woman earning more.

  • @Ayomi28
    @Ayomi28 3 роки тому +124

    She pays for everything already. Private school and extra curriculum for 3 kids. So she needs to pay him to be able to support them at his house. She should have stayed her ass at home and not brought him to court

    • @RepentAndBelieve1437
      @RepentAndBelieve1437 3 роки тому +12

      Yeah I dont understand why she has to pay anything when she practically pays for everything according to her.

    • @gwendolynjackson2961
      @gwendolynjackson2961 3 роки тому +16

      It is because they have joint custody it would be different if mom had full custody then he would be paying her some child support

    • @maricelacardenas7391
      @maricelacardenas7391 3 роки тому +8

      @@gwendolynjackson2961 too add a little to what you said it’s based on the idea that children have similar lifestyles while they’re visiting each parent.

    • @I__Love_Lamp
      @I__Love_Lamp 3 роки тому +5

      @@RepentAndBelieve1437 ,because he deserves to have his kids half the time! Why should the mother's always get full custody and benefit financially! All causes should be like this where it's shared custody where both support their kids equally based of their financial status! Everything those kids are part of are luxuries!

    • @KnockedupNout
      @KnockedupNout 3 роки тому +1

      @@maricelacardenas7391 you mean like if one parent was super poor and the other super rich, the rich helps support the poor parent for when the kids are there? So that way the rich parent doesn't have too much of an advantage of being the "fun parent" due to financial circumstances?

  • @khaleesi6704
    @khaleesi6704 6 місяців тому +2

    When you decide to have children your whole lifestyle changes. If you aren’t ready to make sacrifices don’t have kids 😒 I used to go out to eat all the time, but feeding my toddler organic food is more important to me than my hibachi. I need a new pair of tennis shoes, but guess what, my toddler outgrew her shoes. 😒

  • @commonman80
    @commonman80 3 роки тому +30

    People Have To Understand.. In Some Courts? A Persons "Lifestyle" Has No Merit.. What The Court Is Concerned About Is The Heath And Welfare Of The Child.. In This Case? The Children.. I Think The Judge Made A Good Decision In This Case.. Trips, Alcohol, Nails, ECT? Holds No Weight In The Care Of Children.. Jus Sayin.. Yep...

  • @tacticalministries3508
    @tacticalministries3508 2 роки тому +2

    He makes 70 grand a year? That's damn good money
    And she's saying she can't live on 170k a year?

  • @tonyameredith7081
    @tonyameredith7081 3 роки тому +34

    $100.00/Month health insurance for two kids! Where can I get that rate?

    • @I__Love_Lamp
      @I__Love_Lamp 3 роки тому +1

      Four kids and they shared three and yes I'd like to know what insurance he has. I pay 46 a month for 3 kids but I had to do 20 year's in the military to get that rate lol!

    • @joshuanbray
      @joshuanbray 3 роки тому +1

      @@I__Love_Lamp I like watching these videos but can't imagine paying for health insruance. So fucked, healthcare should be accessible to all -a Canadian

  • @heatherward5053
    @heatherward5053 3 роки тому +2

    Why would she have to pay when they split custody?? That makes no sense!! He makes enough to provide for them comfortably when they are with him

    • @nuri00ko
      @nuri00ko 3 роки тому

      Mom was ordered to pay him child support to maintain the level of lifestyle (that she has created for the kids when they are with her) at his place. So their experiences when with mom and dad are similar.

  • @chris_9987
    @chris_9987 3 роки тому +52

    TIK TOK HAS CREATED MY ADDICTION

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 роки тому +2

      🥰🥰

    • @shantralarharris2893
      @shantralarharris2893 3 роки тому +1

      SAME

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      ​@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

  • @triad6425
    @triad6425 3 роки тому +2

    You went from getting $100 to paying $1500 LOLZ. Ladies, I wonder if this is the equality you were fighting for?

  • @calekabooker4404
    @calekabooker4404 3 роки тому +11

    I feel like she’s being punished for being successful. So what if she makes more… He pays $100 a month for Healthcare. What a joke…

    • @genetmekebeb6766
      @genetmekebeb6766 3 роки тому +2

      This makes me sick.

    • @genetmekebeb6766
      @genetmekebeb6766 3 роки тому +1

      Now it is going to be $50

    • @letgomyego
      @letgomyego 3 роки тому +1

      I agree she’s paying all of the children’s tuition and she still gots to pay this fool when they share equal custody? However if she’s an attorney she should Know the parent who makes more pays the child support so that didn’t make sense. Yeah this is not a fair hearing, this Judge got too much attitude but she is funny.

    • @k-loudsaintriofficialchann8714
      @k-loudsaintriofficialchann8714 3 роки тому

      I’d be very happy to know you don’t have children 🙏🏽

    • @waynearrington7240
      @waynearrington7240 3 роки тому +3

      If it was the other way around nobody would bat an eye

  • @guysalone2505
    @guysalone2505 2 роки тому +2

    “What kind of lawyer are you? Nvm” 😂

  • @Agent77X
    @Agent77X 3 роки тому +11

    This lady looks 30 years older then the ex-spouse!

  • @taylorcollins6090
    @taylorcollins6090 3 роки тому +4

    The smirk on his face at the end is SENDING ME lol

  • @Jimmyboygohome
    @Jimmyboygohome 3 роки тому +16

    Judge said “never mind” 😂 they really did come to play and waste time

  • @heatherv3417
    @heatherv3417 3 роки тому +2

    *comes into child support court* ‘I want my nails and hair done.’
    Ma’am. Really?

  • @Ktwice221
    @Ktwice221 3 роки тому +7

    Maybe dad should have the kids full time then

    • @genetmekebeb6766
      @genetmekebeb6766 3 роки тому +3

      Exactly. Let him do everything for them kids.

  • @laughingallthetime50
    @laughingallthetime50 2 роки тому +2

    She can't afford to get her nails done?! Talk about being out of touch with reality!

  • @Cupcakeprincessful
    @Cupcakeprincessful 3 роки тому +12

    I think the fact that she pays their school tuition by herself should have been taken into account. From what I heard yes, they share custody and he only pays for Healthcare. Why shouldn't he also have to contribute something for the after school activities and tuition?

    • @yahelysflores291
      @yahelysflores291 3 роки тому +5

      I agree 100% it seemed like she didn't like the mom off jump. Believed the father right away & never asked the father why he only pays for health care & nothing else

    • @asnelcharles
      @asnelcharles 3 роки тому +3

      Yes did not make sense to me

    • @OrangeDemon92
      @OrangeDemon92 3 роки тому +1

      Yeaaaa he should at least help with tuition..

    • @yahelysflores291
      @yahelysflores291 3 роки тому +4

      @@OrangeDemon92 it felt like she was putting sole responsibility on the mom because she made more money which i felt is not fair. Just because I make more doesn't mean I get to pay more. At least pay for their activities

    • @OrangeDemon92
      @OrangeDemon92 3 роки тому +3

      @@yahelysflores291 exactly! I felt like the woman shouldn’t have disclosed all the extra ness about how she needed to treat herself, but she could’ve had a better case. Once she pays everything, like what is does she have left to have? She basically is looking for a replacement of her some of her money towards the kids, not all so… like self care is important as well as the kids well being. Him bringing up the liquor store run or personal chef was pointless. I wanna know what he does with his money since he’s so concerned about what she does with hers. Like damn. I almost felt like the judge was favorable Bc of race damn near.

  • @Big_Billiard
    @Big_Billiard 2 роки тому +5

    That little smirk dude gave at the end just made my whole week lmfao

  • @KultivateWKah
    @KultivateWKah 3 роки тому +25

    I REALLY LOVE THIS SERIES JUDGE VONDA B YOU REALLY MADE ME REALIZE MY PROFESSION

  • @Aenarion28
    @Aenarion28 3 роки тому +2

    My brother's ex pulled this crap. He was giving her $100 a week in child support. Then the goddamn state got involved. They wrote him a letter which was a summons to court. He talked to the ex, asking her to back him up that their daughter's needs are being met. She said sure.
    On the court day they were asked if the state needs to be involved. He said no, she said yes.
    After turning in his paystubs, he was ordered to pay $250 a month. The ex got greedy, expecting $500+ a month in Child Support so she was P-I-S-S-E-D with that court ordered amount. Funny how it was too. She.had no money for milk, diapers and such but she has money for tattoos and going out with friends. She also talked alot of trash when she'd call him saying the check never arrived and needed money for the stuff the kid needs, only to get pissed when my brother showed up with milk, diapers and food.

  • @jazzylulu22
    @jazzylulu22 3 роки тому +10

    Lmfao! She told on herself with this one. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @enchantressdch1207
    @enchantressdch1207 7 місяців тому +1

    I am glad she corrected this but she split the health insurance but forgot to split the tuition and extra cirriculars.. they should have been included in the calculations

  • @DripVersace
    @DripVersace 3 роки тому +15

    Thanks for making more content! 🙌🏽 You’re the best 🤞🏽

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 роки тому +5

      You’re the best as well!!! Thank you for the support!❤️

  • @GeekEnglish
    @GeekEnglish 2 роки тому +2

    170k a year and you can't get ya nails done? These people ain't real

  • @TyusJada
    @TyusJada 3 роки тому +13

    You're back, yay!!

  • @sammy3308
    @sammy3308 Рік тому +6

    This judge is unbiased. As it should be. Bless You Judge!

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

  • @Wiscotreeclimber
    @Wiscotreeclimber 3 роки тому +11

    Yes!!!! I’ve burn through every other case I’m so glad there’s more to watch

  • @TheFacelessStoryMaker
    @TheFacelessStoryMaker 3 роки тому +1

    Every parent needs to know sacrifice. Parents sacrifice things to care for their children because they want them to do better. Whether it's education or a career choice. Parents make sacrifices for the sake of their child or children. Really simple.

  • @jessegrider5301
    @jessegrider5301 3 роки тому +8

    I feel sorry for the snakely attorney. So many people come there to waste your time judge. You hooked it to her pretty good

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 роки тому +3

      At least she’s not a red head!!!😜

  • @roxanneglynn1272
    @roxanneglynn1272 5 місяців тому +1

    Idk if I’m wrong but if they are both of their kids he should be paying half of the kids expenses even if he makes less than her. 70,000 dollars is still a lot of money and he should pay half tuition and extracurricular activities. Tuition for private school for one kid is between 10 and 20 thousand a year and they have 3 kids that’s almost 60k a year not including extracurricular activities, dance can cost up to 600 a month singing lessons 400 a month and all he does is feed his kids half time? Doesn’t seem like a fair trade and now she really won’t be able to afford to have their kids in extra things. Poor kids. A hard working mom gets the shit end of the stick here. He’s doing the minimum and now she has to pay him for it.

  • @JAYYTV_Vids
    @JAYYTV_Vids 3 роки тому +9

    Hey Judge Vonda B.
    I am a new subscriber. UA-cam just recommended your channel to me; I don’t know why now all of a sudden when I watch a lot of other court shows on here.
    But anyway, I don’t know if this is just a show you made up for UA-cam, but I really love it and I think it would be interesting if this was a syndicated court show on television. Like Lauren Lake’s Paternity Court, you guys talk about the same thing, but in different ways and I think a lot more people would honestly enjoy, just like Paternity Court, if it was a televised show.

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 роки тому +5

      Thank you and I hope you enjoy the show! It’ll be on tv sooner than you think. Stay tuned.😎

    • @JAYYTV_Vids
      @JAYYTV_Vids 3 роки тому

      @@JudgeVondaB you’re welcome 🙏🏾

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      ​@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

  • @elsabean6791
    @elsabean6791 11 місяців тому +1

    It’s insane how gleefully happy all the people are here in the comments about a woman having to pay a man child support. Like, I’m all for equality and everyone paying their fair share, but did none of y’all pay attention to the part where the mom is the one paying for ALL of the kids’ expenses while dad is just paying $100/month for their insurance? That $1500 she has to pay him every month now is gonna go real quick if she were to make him actually be responsible for half the kids’ school, sports, lessons, dues, fees, etc. She’ll probably be able to afford to get her hair and nails done again if he does that!

  • @jessicamichelle1025
    @jessicamichelle1025 3 роки тому +7

    I’m curious if you can do a video explaining the insurance for child...especially when the child is on Medicaid (I thought that was free). I have been binge watching all weekend I LOVE you Vonda B. 🧡🧡

  • @jillianxrose1
    @jillianxrose1 2 роки тому +2

    just because she makes more doesn't mean he doesn't have to support his kids...

  • @nicolewhite4738
    @nicolewhite4738 3 роки тому +7

    I am curious why the tuition she pays wasn’t taken into account when determining what she pays? I thought it was part of the calculation in some of the other cases

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 роки тому +4

      Great question. It was considered. That’s why her child support was based on an offset.

    • @nicolecochrane264
      @nicolecochrane264 3 роки тому +2

      Yea makes no sense, it wasn't ordered that he help pay for the children expenses. He just got $1500 a month and no responsibility to the kids. Smh. Nomatter who makes more the should both be held accountable for the children.

    • @I__Love_Lamp
      @I__Love_Lamp 3 роки тому +3

      Don't forget private school is optional and I'm sure when they were originally divorced that was brought up. At the end of the day private schools are a form of luxury which means she chose that option for her kids! It amazes me that women are complaining about this when men have been lambasted by the child support system for so long! How would you like it if the father chose to send his kid to Harvard and sends a bill to the ex saying you owe half but she makes minimum wage!

    • @I__Love_Lamp
      @I__Love_Lamp 3 роки тому

      @@nicolecochrane264 ,yes because he provides a home and puts food on the table. Courts don't look at luxuries!

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      ​@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

  • @ariannarwal9511
    @ariannarwal9511 2 роки тому +1

    Wttff he just finessed her basically, well she brought it on herself 😂😂

  • @PDWhitehurst
    @PDWhitehurst 3 роки тому +19

    I'm so glad to see you back. You're amazing and seeing the fluff among the truth.

  • @sharondunlap-mukera2870
    @sharondunlap-mukera2870 2 роки тому +1

    I’m yet to understand this one but I thank God I never went through this….However,! I feel he should be responsible for something other than child support regardless who makes the most or what she enjoys to do with her money. Everyone works and it’s nice to enjoy extra things. So what I get from this one, is because he makes less then he really don’t have to be financially responsible for the children. This is my understanding! Apparently, he has always made less and as a couple they shared all the responsibilities but now it’s okay if he complains about who makes more! Anywho, I’m just a spectator looking in the glass but I definitely don’t understand!!!!

  • @brandyag
    @brandyag 3 роки тому +7

    Judge does not play when it comes to these children. And that woman, as a lawyer, didn’t do her homework. Proud of this judge!!

  • @homiijay
    @homiijay 5 місяців тому +1

    this was possibly the most selfish case I’ve ever witnessed 100k more than the father and still wants more money like no ma’am thank you judge she got humbled and silent real quick

  • @MrRobcher
    @MrRobcher 3 роки тому +16

    It is laughable that someone making more than double is complaining about money to someone making much less.
    If she works As her attitude is,she must be An horrible attorney.

  • @epiquewenqa
    @epiquewenqa 2 роки тому +1

    am i missing something? why isnt the dad paying for everything else as well? he's just paying health insurance but schooling he doesn't? im sorry but this doesnt seem fair at all lol

  • @Johnjohn-gr7ck
    @Johnjohn-gr7ck 3 роки тому +10

    I really love this show so much and I am so happy to see you back , thank you guys .

  • @princesssmileyface91
    @princesssmileyface91 2 роки тому +1

    This lady was just greedy, smdh, and she’s a lawyer, just goes the show that just because you are educated, doesn’t mean you are smarter than everyone else in the room lmao, she really thought, she would win lmao

  • @hystericserpent
    @hystericserpent 3 роки тому +11

    Yes more in-court videos! I love it

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 роки тому +2

      You got it!

    • @DhawaneMiglani
      @DhawaneMiglani 4 місяці тому

      ​@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share

  • @eddiemcfadden4386
    @eddiemcfadden4386 3 роки тому +4

    Didnt work in her favor lol.

  • @andreachev9610
    @andreachev9610 Рік тому +1

    As an Attorney-at-Law the mom should know better and not take him to court....it appears the father has another child and so her children not getting anything from him....its not fair.....but later the children will not appreciate him as a father because he did next to nothing for them and supporting his one child.....karma straight at him

  • @marcuswilliams1540
    @marcuswilliams1540 3 роки тому +6

    I see we back Judge Sista from another Mista

  • @ShrirajGPethe
    @ShrirajGPethe 3 роки тому +1

    I don't get the calculations behind this. Like shouldn't child support be split? In proportion to their income and considering its a shared custody.
    Not saying that mom is correct. But costs should be either equally or proportionally shared.

  • @holland9199
    @holland9199 2 роки тому +1

    Are you kidding me😝is this man blind🤥and three times😮it’s possible the kids could be attractive POSSIBLY 🥶

  • @certifiedpumps232
    @certifiedpumps232 3 роки тому +4

    At 4:32 he said wait a minute how much???

  • @StrengthandVitality
    @StrengthandVitality 3 роки тому +1

    She makes more than the average couple and can't afford life. Lol, what a package. Glad you escaped brother.

  • @deshaun9096
    @deshaun9096 3 роки тому +4

    That smirk on his face, lol

  • @Minenotyours58
    @Minenotyours58 2 роки тому +1

    It didn't work out like she planned. I'd say she's a pretty crappy lawyer. If she was a good lawyer. She would have known what was going to happen. I did and I'm not a lawyer

  • @theloftons8297
    @theloftons8297 3 роки тому +6

    If he really thinks she has a drinking problem then he should have petitioned for full custody. But since he has not, he needs to pay an appropriate amount. There is no reason that she should have to pay for everything while he get off w/ paying nothing. She has a right to enjoy the money she works for. No one asked how much money does he spend on his clothes?

    • @I__Love_Lamp
      @I__Love_Lamp 3 роки тому +2

      She don't pay for everything! He provides a place for his kids to eat and sleep and provides insurance you know the necessities! That's what courts look at not the luxuries because those are optional! Women been getting away with this crap forever when most of the time men were breadwinners. Now you got equal opportunity and in the end what's more important, kids having both parents equally or getting your money!

    • @XenithShadow
      @XenithShadow 16 днів тому

      That literally how the calculation works. They calculate how much each parent should pay the other in child support then subtract the lower of the two values from both parties, this leaves it with the higher paying person bearing the only visable payment.

  • @jamescaffey8
    @jamescaffey8 2 роки тому +1

    I wonder if some of these people are actors or Actress because Mr. Williams has a total of 6 kids 3 was 1 woman and 3 with another am I crazy.?

  • @onechemabubakar
    @onechemabubakar 3 роки тому +4

    This judge don’t play 😂

  • @karencooke8363
    @karencooke8363 2 роки тому +1

    Williams case girlfriend know that she didn't do her hair on purpose she did not have her nails done on purpose and she making 100K more than he is a year she is really Petty