Been married 26 years and my wife and I blur many of the traditional roles, but some are still in play. In 26 years, she has never for one second thought about going outside and cutting the grass or rolling the garbage can down to the curb. That's never going to happen. Do whatever works for your relationship, but I feel like relationships need to be close to some sort of 50/50 or 60/40 type split. If it gets too lopsided I feel like resentment and anger will start to build for someone. You just have to help each other...that's non-negotiable. Some days one of you has more energy than the other, so that's your day to pick up the slack and give the other a break.
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Been married 26 years and my wife and I blur many of the traditional roles, but some are still in play. In 26 years, she has never for one second thought about going outside and cutting the grass or rolling the garbage can down to the curb. That's never going to happen. Do whatever works for your relationship, but I feel like relationships need to be close to some sort of 50/50 or 60/40 type split. If it gets too lopsided I feel like resentment and anger will start to build for someone. You just have to help each other...that's non-negotiable. Some days one of you has more energy than the other, so that's your day to pick up the slack and give the other a break.
We believe that it's incumbent that couples operate in a place of trust and realism. Agreed that you have to do what works for you in a relationship.