How Feminism Saved Me | Shirley Graham | TEDxFoggyBottom

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  • @silversurferdude
    @silversurferdude 7 місяців тому +3

    feminism saving the speaker’s life is a powerful statement. shows the impact of awareness.

  • @IAmTheNeuroticSpy
    @IAmTheNeuroticSpy 9 місяців тому +2

    So incredible how personal experiences can drive such powerful advocacy for gender equality.

  • @carstenberns7104
    @carstenberns7104 9 місяців тому +2

    Gender equality in peace processes is crucial. glad this was highlighted.

  • @clarasands8549
    @clarasands8549 7 місяців тому +3

    Her journey from feeling lost and burnt out to dedicating her life to gender equality is truly inspiring.

  • @coopercrank
    @coopercrank 9 місяців тому +2

    The story about the little girl in the yellow dress was heart-wrenching. I can't believe this sort of thing happens and more so that there are people out there who would have bought her. There are probably even people who go to places like that exacctly for that purpose. Such a sad reality.

  • @BrainLoon
    @BrainLoon 8 місяців тому +2

    Ireland's progress is hopeful, but there’s so much more to do globally. Hopefully more people can see the merits of what Shirley is advocating for here

  • @orlageary5104
    @orlageary5104 8 місяців тому +3

    Feminism has saved a lot of people and I wish there was more content that properly explained what it actually is

  • @immayasass
    @immayasass 8 місяців тому +2

    It's amazing how a personal epiphany in Nepal led her to change her career path and impact so many lives. Gender equality is indeed a cornerstone for peace and security globally.

  • @babssinnerd
    @babssinnerd 10 місяців тому +1

    Personal struggles always add depth to a discussion. It's a powerful reminder of the resilience neede to fight for justice.

  • @jordanbaslier
    @jordanbaslier 9 місяців тому +2

    Hearing about the experiences of women in the Irish Defence Forces was eye-opening. It’s shocking to learn about the extent of harassment and assault. I hope this talk encourages more conversations and actions to protect and empower women in all sectors.

  • @AFitTraveler
    @AFitTraveler 7 місяців тому +2

    Feminism is such a powerful force for change. I love how she found her calling through her experiences and dreams.

  • @iamtheyesmanallthetime
    @iamtheyesmanallthetime 9 місяців тому +2

    the stats on gender equality and peace are eye-opening. more people need to know this.

  • @VodkaforDinner
    @VodkaforDinner 10 місяців тому +3

    I appreciate the honesty in sharing personal struggles. It's inspiring how you turned your pain into a powerful force for change.

  • @andididntknow
    @andididntknow 10 місяців тому +1

    The intersectionality of this story is really interesting, addressing gender inequalities both internationally and domestically really highlight how pervasive these issues are. It should serve as a wake up cool for our global community, hopefully people see this and answer said call.

  • @sarahfreeman10
    @sarahfreeman10 11 місяців тому +2

    Such an excellent TED Talk--I wish I could've seen it in person! Thank you for your inspiring words!

  • @aldennoname
    @aldennoname 10 місяців тому +2

    I never realized the connection between gender equality and peace negotiations. This presentation has opened my eyes to the broader impact, thank you.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 9 місяців тому

      Thanks so much for watching and for your interest, please feel free to share this information it is so important.

  • @tabbybiddle
    @tabbybiddle Рік тому +4

    Congratulations on this brave, powerful and important talk, Shirley! Thank you for sharing your story, your expertise, your wisdom, and your ideas to help us end war and create peace.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 10 місяців тому

      Thanks so much Tabby and for all of your support 😍

  • @emelybermudez3534
    @emelybermudez3534 11 місяців тому +1

    This was outstanding and really touched on the complexity and intersectionality of feminism. It could not have been better said!!!

  • @nina_plateroti
    @nina_plateroti 11 місяців тому +2

    Such a powerful and inspiring talk! Thank you for your continued commitment Dr. Graham!

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 10 місяців тому +1

      Thank you, Nina! And for your commitment and leadership on women, peace and security issues.

  • @notthatoneorthoseones
    @notthatoneorthoseones 8 місяців тому +1

    The point about women's inclusion in peace talks leading to longer-lasting peace agreements really stood out to me. It's a powerful reminder of the impact of gender equality on global security.

  • @therealdualippa
    @therealdualippa 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for highlighting the importance of women at the peace table! It's a reminder that diverse voices lead to more sustainable solutions

  • @madelineley4605
    @madelineley4605 Рік тому +3

    I have watched this presentation a few times now and take away something new every time. Gender equality makes peace and stability possible. Feminism can definitely save us all!

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 10 місяців тому

      Thank you for watching it a few times, Mimi! I am so glad you found the talk valuable.

  • @merlemackenzie
    @merlemackenzie 10 місяців тому +2

    The issue of gender-based violence is so prevalent, and it's crucial to address it. Your courage in shedding light on it is commendable.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 9 місяців тому

      Thank you so much, the more we talk about it and bring it out in the open the more we break the silence and create change.

    • @merlemackenzie
      @merlemackenzie 9 місяців тому +1

      @@shirleygraham5853 very true...

  • @lauralegault
    @lauralegault 6 місяців тому +1

    I found the part about her counselor helping her uncover suppressed memories very powerful. It highlights the importance of mental health support and also shows the kind of breakthroughs that really are possible and all the benefits from it

  • @brodyalexandra
    @brodyalexandra 10 місяців тому +2

    Wow, your journey from a corporate job to advocating for gender equality is commendable. It's proof that anyone can make a difference.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 9 місяців тому

      Thank you! I believe we can and do all make a difference in the lives of those around us 😊

  • @loochbardooch
    @loochbardooch 11 місяців тому +2

    This is such an inspiring speech. Feminism saves so many lives across the world, but I'm not sure anyone has framed it the way you have. Thank you for sharing your story- truly an inspiration, starting with me!

  • @aleenazirvi
    @aleenazirvi 10 місяців тому +3

    Truly an exceptional and inspirational talk, Dr. Graham!

  • @aaliyahstump6826
    @aaliyahstump6826 11 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for your work and commitment!

  • @emmashubert
    @emmashubert 7 місяців тому +3

    I think it's amazing that she took the time to pursue something else when her corporate life had her burnt out and detached. That kind of reinvention can be really scary

  • @elviragabriele
    @elviragabriele 7 місяців тому +1

    I loved how she emphasized the importance of asking “where are the women?” in all aspects of society. It’s a question we should all be asking!

  • @fionaross2429
    @fionaross2429 11 місяців тому +3

    Shirley, you are a captivating storyteller, and your passion for helping others is amazing. Thank you for sharing your story and, most of all, for inspiring others to follow their true path.

  • @Riya_Sharma2606
    @Riya_Sharma2606 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, Dr. Graham, for your powerful words and drive. You continue to inspire me with all the passion you put into your work.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 10 місяців тому

      Thank you, Riya! And for your incredible leadership of the Student Consortium on women, peace and security

  • @sheilalindsay
    @sheilalindsay 7 місяців тому +2

    The statistics about the decline of democracies and its impact on women's rights are alarming. It’s a crucial call to action for all of us to support and defend gender equality as a fundamental human right.

  • @robyncrosby666
    @robyncrosby666 7 місяців тому +1

    Hearing about the progress Ireland has made in gender equality was uplifting. It shows that change is possible, even if it takes time.

  • @faisalshaob
    @faisalshaob 9 місяців тому +3

    the story about the girl in a yellow dress broke my heart. we need change.

  • @imnotq5509
    @imnotq5509 10 місяців тому +2

    The statistics on gender inequality are staggering. It's disheartening that progress has been so slow, but your call for action is motivating. Hopefully once more people become aware of the kind of stuff that goes on, there will be more progress towards equality.

  • @salsadevrees
    @salsadevrees 7 місяців тому +2

    I love that her friend was like "it's so obvious what you're passionate about" haha sometimes we just need that outside perspective to give us a little clarity.

  • @perfectplanssampler
    @perfectplanssampler 6 місяців тому

    her journey from corporate life to gender equality advocacy is so inspiring. It’s amazing how one dream can change everything!

  • @diemorat
    @diemorat 11 місяців тому +2

    Right up there with the very best TED talks I've seen. Bravo.

  • @IAmShootCute
    @IAmShootCute 7 місяців тому +1

    Her determination to follow her dream and change her career in her 30s is so encouraging! It just shows that it's never too late to find your true calling.

  • @Elusive-Khan
    @Elusive-Khan 10 місяців тому +1

    The story of the little girl in the yellow dress being offered from sale broke my heart. Surely it was just a matter of time before someone did buy her.

  • @beckettt
    @beckettt 11 місяців тому +1

    Congratulations on following a powerful dream and answering your life's calling. An inspirational example for us all.

  • @shannonnikita
    @shannonnikita 8 місяців тому +1

    it's concerning how slow progress towards gender equality is. we must do better.

  • @eleanorgreenbaum137
    @eleanorgreenbaum137 10 місяців тому +1

    Such an incredible talk, thank you Dr. Graham!

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 9 місяців тому

      Thanks Eleanor! And congratulations on your recent presentation at the UN CSW 👏👏👏

  • @mateomardenson3022
    @mateomardenson3022 7 місяців тому +2

    I've seen so many tiktoks lately of these girls saying "I dont agree with you, I wear dresses and cook and blah blah." It's an absolute train-wreck and I don't know if it's just rage bait but the comments are full of people trying to explain what feminism actually is and how so many fought for her right to CHOOSE what she wanted to do and I think that's the whole point, really. Having the freedom to make choices. It's sad to think about how many women still don't have that right.

  • @Stuckallthetime
    @Stuckallthetime 6 місяців тому

    her honesty about her struggles with mental health was very brave. It shows that even advocates need support sometimes, something that I feel gets overlooked quite a bit

  • @nanburkhardt
    @nanburkhardt 10 місяців тому +1

    I appreciate this kind of conversation around what feminism actually is. Lots of weird misinformation and resentment about it these days

  • @chaddydescil
    @chaddydescil 7 місяців тому +1

    Sending this to my mom, she needs it.

  • @regissanford7104
    @regissanford7104 10 місяців тому +3

    This story is truly eye-opening. It's heartbreaking to hear about the challenges girls face worldwide. We need more advocates like you!

  • @mariamcconalogueharkin1967
    @mariamcconalogueharkin1967 11 місяців тому +1

    Inspirational Shirley! 👏🤩

  • @sushiladhikari9857
    @sushiladhikari9857 Рік тому +2

    captivating and inspiring story and experiences dear Sherley. Thank you so much for sharing this to the world, and espeical thanks for mentioning Nepal..

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 11 місяців тому

      Thank you Sushil, it was so wonderful to meet you last year in Nepal and to hear all about your voluntary work organizing training and finding livelihoods for women who have disabilities.

  • @StarPointExodus
    @StarPointExodus 10 місяців тому +1

    The review group's report on SA in the Defense Forces is shocking. Hopefully acknowledging the issue is the first step toward change.

  • @AnastasiaCostcalla
    @AnastasiaCostcalla 6 місяців тому

    The fact that 88% of women in the Irish Defense Forces reported harassment is shocking. We need to do better in protecting women in all sectors.

  • @vanessapearse6211
    @vanessapearse6211 11 місяців тому +2

    Well worth listening to.

  • @the-coffee-lover
    @the-coffee-lover 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm impressed by the countries with fminist foreiqn policies. It's encouraging to see nations actively working towards qender equality.

  • @AnnKnowles-j8e
    @AnnKnowles-j8e 11 місяців тому +1

    An excellent presentation of a thought provoking topic. Lets all do our utmost in whatever capacity we find ourselves to accelerate the process of gender equality for the benefit of all man/ womankind.

  • @rosemerle540
    @rosemerle540 11 місяців тому +1

    I can understand how frustrating for women peace keepers not being able to talk to men outside their tribes. Difficult cultural barrier to overcome.

  • @thephilosopher59
    @thephilosopher59 11 місяців тому +1

    Oh my heart!

  • @kanejsloane
    @kanejsloane 8 місяців тому +1

    When you think about what those inequalities translate to - like Iittle girls being sold off the street - it's actually so shocking, we need to do better

  • @barbsteele
    @barbsteele 7 місяців тому +1

    It's very unfortunate but I think you can judge the development of a country by how they treat their women

  • @kikiseegers2270
    @kikiseegers2270 Рік тому +1

    Yes, empowering women is actually empowering men to listen to their actual needs, to be able to grow real power. Real power is not based on suppression. It speaks freely from the heart.

  • @FlameChump
    @FlameChump 11 місяців тому +1

    How terrifying for a chiId to be told they were going to work as a domestic and then end up in a brotheI.

  • @ayxanmamedzade8106
    @ayxanmamedzade8106 Рік тому

    🧐

  • @iamthefootyfan
    @iamthefootyfan 8 місяців тому

    Technically feminism has saved all the women righht?