How To Deal With Loneliness
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I’m lonely or in a season of solitude because I choose to follow the narrow path it’s me and God and I’m learning to enjoy my own company and in the times of sadness rely upon strength from God and his word and be stoic
My 40 year old wife died of cancer after a 6 year courageous battle with cancer. No option really to be lonely. No one cares about widowers and expect far too much. So…lonely with your thoughts is the way it is.
How you making out my man?
@@Mmksen289 hey, thanks for checking in. It really means a lot. I am hanging in there. Not much has changed. You just get the next day done. Hope you are well. Thanks again.
@@KMANWEBER no problem man your not alone lot of men out there suffering in silence. When I’m going through something that I can’t even fathom I just say I’m gonna get through just this one day and keep going one day at a time remember this too shall pass
Great Content Thanks.Makes sense why we are lonely and we want to chase , run game and willing to compromise to avoid loneliness.
We forget how its dealing with awful barsluts relationship headaches and end up with low self esteem for putting up with them.
its like going on a diet and late night we give in on snacks and bad habits. Same thing. Thanks for point stuff out LFA.
100% facts
I prefer being alone, but to not become socially awkward I greet people on the street, talk to strangers at the gym, and of course interact with women I like. But to be honest, when you're on the spiritual path it gets a lot more peaceful being alone than with other humans after a certain point.
Not to mention all the drama, idiosyncrasies and nonsense left behind...
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Is still better than being in a bad relationship
Learn to enjoy your own company and it all starts with the mind.
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Those cicadas in Oklahoma are ANGERY!!
Sad watching a man resigned to his own fate that getting a quality wife and having a family is not in the cards for him. Unfortunately this has become the norm . On the surface LFA seems like a quality christian man who may be husband material yet hes not finding what our parents generation took for granted. Imagine the average guy who does not have his looks or personality and how they struggle. Lots of suicide and mental health issues. All the best to the men out there trying to find what you are looking for. Dont settle and dont take crap from these women.
Huh? I meet all kinds of great women. This wasn’t about me.
@@LFA How old are you? Do you want a wife and kids? If your answer is no then accept my apologies. I watch your videos(and I have subscribed from pretty much day one) and you often come across as frustrated, as most men do. Im the king of frustration based on my own life experience so i dont say that as an insult. Yeah you are giving advice, but maybe not knowing the whole story ie you might have a long term girlfriend or even a kid for all we know causes watchers to interpret things a certain way. I think a lot of what you post is personal which is great. Giving men advice often requires full disclosure on some things so you can be more credible or understandable but its You Tube so I have no right to expect that. All the best to you!!
I tried to explain that I enjoy being alone, and that I do meet good women living in trad con state. But I supposed other parts of the video over shadowed this points.
I'm in my 30s like LFA, similar looks and experience with women. I personally live alone, and have now for 8 years. Haven't had a girlfriend in 6. I don't speak for LFA, because I'm sure he has his own reasons for not starting a family and having kids. For me, it's 2 fold. I grew up in a abusive household, with constant fighting and violence. So when I left home, and eventually lived alone. The solitude was comforting to me, something I never had the luxury of experiencing. And as a man who experienced a lot of women, 90% of them are nothing but drama.
The second reason, I was a side guy for numerous women for the better part of a decade. I got to see what goes on behind the scenes, and real/true female nature, and it left a scar that may never heal. I take responsibilities for my actions, and have since moved on from that lifestyle. Unfortunately if you live in the West, everything is catered for women. You're not happy anymore? Get a divorce and take half the man's stuff. Not a bad deal right? I don't care what the self reported stats say, I would say half the women you get with will cheat at some point. And if they don't, they will just monkey branch over you for a guy that makes more money anyway. In the end, most of us millennial men are gonna die alone.
In my experience the woman who says she needs a man is also a red flag. She doesn't know how to be happy by herself and she probably isn't interested in a man if you really think about it. Either way those type of women are downright nightmares.
Bro i just found you yesterday after a hard break up and the way you do your videos while walking makes me feel like im walking next to you. I wish i was right there to ask questions and talk but it feels so realistic, it helps my thoughts calm down for awhile. I appreciate you.
Good luck bro, keep leveling up and forget your ex.
Do your best to get over her as quickly as possible. There's a whole world of women out there waiting for you.
@@Vbnnghjjnnbtrying to. Can't say it's easy. She was really special
@MatthewLiam73 I wish I know how to get over her quickly, my mind are consistently battling between moving on and knowing what I lost. It's such a hopeless feeling
@@clashofqueen93 i know how you feel, we all are been there. It's not easy, you have to find something to occupy your mind, work hard, train, anything what keeps you moving, block her, don't look her up on social media. There's a reason she is ex, go forward and don't look back!
Amen brother and may God bless you for these videos and all the light that you’re shedding on his people. Please keep up the videos. I will continue praying for you.
Loneliness stems from a lack of connection and lack of purpose. Try volunteering, mentoring, helping others. I was a mentor through Big Brothers Big Sisters and the program coordinator told me they are in dire need of male mentors to young boys. Investing in other people is truly rewarding. You won't find long term fulfillment by sleeping around and hanging out at bars.
What would I do as a "mentor"?
I'm glad to hear you promote your live channel. Let's get some people over there.
You’re the man
I don’t agree 100% but you still teach valuable info
I learn so much from your wisdom, keep em coming bro! 💯
This was certainly refreshing.
I consider myself a bachelor but also a bit lonely though because all my good friends live across the country from me and it’s hard not having a bunch of bro’s around you and just chillin
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This guy gets it. Keep posting G
I think it's your best video until now.
Great skill : balance.
When a man achieve to have balance in today's world is something great.
The new Socrates!
Bless you brother !!!!
God bless you man!😇
Damn I love this fucking channel
Dude you're one of the few sane content creators in this degeneracy of society we live in now. Keep up the good work, and never let the society change your views. You'r like an older brother i never had, a living legend!
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Purpose fellas. I have a few hobbies that keep me very busy!!
Thank you for this video.
Great content bro and make everything sp easy to understand. Grateful
Well explained
Lonely is easy compared to being with a controling B. There are hundreds of thousands of single women in the U.S. but most are not very attractive. If you are looking for single women in the U.S. you will probably have to settle for much less then you want and that will not be better then being alone. Traveling to another country outside of the U.S. will give you way more options.
How to deal with heartbreaks ! I walk the walk ! Walk into unknown territories ! Good !
Keep up the good coaching Bossman. This country needs this
Build and create !
14:25- that is right. Even Christ said not to cast your pearls before swine.
Great video.
7:42 - today’s term would be 304 (plug it into a calculator and turn it upside down) …aka proper garden tool.
Likes these kind of uniqueness from the regular cliche
I choose to be alone but I'm not lonely
Love the outtro man, whats the music? ~peace
Thank you. Good stuff.
I'm bout to be lonely. I'm pursuing a career in long haul trucking.
The Bru's want to get toghether!
Find a hobby that rewards being a lone wolf. For me, it’s landscape photography. I’m a pretty lefty, woman supporting guy so getting out alone in the woods, building a fire and contemplation by it alone feels truly masculine to me. When the light is good, I capture good photos and get to humbly show them off it’s great
Lefty? Disgusting
Social engineering man ! Spider snake white skull goblins holes ! Social engineering ! It's crazy man ! I deal with none of them !
What if we’re lonely bc we don’t have male friends
Good point
Bingo. Male friends are super important. More important than female relationships. A lot of men forget that, and a lot of men suffer for it!!
Male spaces are super important for men being masculine and not weak to women
@@LFA next walk video
With Jesus you never feel lonely
It's normal and natural for a man to be alone....
0:55 - also “bachelor” sounds less needy and codependent.
this video really explains why dating sucks for men these days...we just don't have much quality to pick from
8:50 those are geese :))
Loneliness is so peaceful.....I'm so tired chasing women. 99% don't reply my messages.
Plenty of ducks too
@@LFA 😉. Why do women never reply to messages on Insta?
Haha it means you win. Completely peaceful.
The main reason why these type of women say "6 figures" is to benefit for herself...So who is she really with
If she was authentically into you, she wouldn´t care about that bs...
Here in Miami the good women percent is below 5%.
Ascended form of LFA
Dont stay to long loneliness build a sucessful network.With big money comes the girls.
So u only get girls if u have money? Might as well go with hookers,lol
Do you make over $200K /yr? If not, why are you talking about big money?
Better alone than being with bad women.
What was the word he said at 10:04? "Doom or ????" I have heard that word recently in other videos, but don't know what it is or what it means.
Respect brother I always gonna watch your content, but can you do some more retention videos please?
Probably not. I’ve already covered that topic from every angle.
I love this content, and as many millennial man in the US I wanna throw one warning out to the viewers listening who do fall into that 100,000 top 10% range financially. Women will choose you at some point, that part is true. However, as a former side guy for over 10 years with numerous women. You are more times than not, the most cheated on. Most guys that make over six figures in their 30s, are working a lot and usually traveling. Which gives women the perfect excuse to cheat. Just like how women use alcohol as an excuse to sleep with a guy, she uses this to cheat with a guy she has high level sexual attraction for. I'm personally not a high earner, but I was blessed with the height, face, and d. My point is, 99% of us guys are not safe no matter what we have to offer. Even a elite level, rich, handsome, tall athlete like Tom Brady can get cheated on. Only difference being, none of us are gonna wake up the next morning after our divorce with 100s of dms from models looking get with us.
Why is that, that if a woman enjoys being alone, means that she is too independent, but for men, it is how it should be, and its an aboundance mindset... It's not fair game 😢
you are so good looking
Bro for bar sloth you can simply called them damage goods
I live in north Carolina. I've already had my 2 house wives. I have kids from both supported them totally while we were together. My most recent one I still am for the time being. But there are many good women here. Lot more independent ones then used to be. But idk maybe I just get lucky to find the attractive submissive ones. But I think I'm tired of that type. I'm going to switch it up. I like girls that have their own house and cars now. I'm tired of paying for everything for a young 20s blonde that sits at home and has guys dm them all day.
The real issue with the house wife was I had to work a lot to support us and 4 kids. We went places and to nice restaurants and stuff. But it's limited to what we could do with young kids. I could never give enough attention
im in NC too and had one of those housewife things. What was I thinking.. It was so bad how she took advantage of me that I divorced her despite the fact I think she is a 10 on the outside, albeit a 1 on the inside. Two kids broken home, she now owns my house and does not think I am worthy of seeing my kids despite me being a top 10% earning man and a good father. Lesson learned is you can give a woman everything and its not enough. Shes out there looking for more and better even while you work so she can stay at home and raise kids, which she couldnt do worth a darn. The curse of wanting children but staying away from women because of the lessons we older guys have learned will be the destruction of western culture. Mexico and the Chinese are just sitting back watching our white population die off and they will own us without ever firing a shot.
@@TheRedDevil_NC yea man it was a flop both times for me. I ended up having to leave both relationships. And of I choose to "abandoned my family so I'm stuck still supporting her. I take care of my kids from both exs. Have great relationships with them. But I do expect them to do most of the care giving. I work 5 to 6 days a week and at times 7 days. I feel for guys in your spot. At least with mine I can call up either of my exs and go see my kids. I can freely take my older 2 from the 1st. But the 2nd is still trying to hold the kids over my head. Wants to control me with me. So I'm welcome to come there but not take them away. I asked her recently are you still going to invite me over for dinner and showers after work when you find your next victim. She did drain me financially. And still is. I kept our house but had to move her out and furnished her new place. I'm now supporting 2 house holds. And get told everyday I'm a pos and never cared about her or my kids. It's so stressful dealing with her. I'll never do this again. L have only girl friends for now on. Women are not loyal or appreciative. The more we give the more they take. So I'm getting quite cold to anyone that even gives me a hint she is trying to play me. I have a zero tolerance for bs now.
@@michaelmurray8668 All the best to you man. Lots of those stories out there. I paid a kings ransom to get divorced but it was worth it. Best news is I have 90 percent custody of both my daughters who choose to live with me. Your kids are what make these nightmares worth it.
How are they submissive if they're cheating on you? I'm at loss for words honestly.
The least of your concern is females. The thing with independent females is they come with their own set of issues. You need to pick your battles carefully before just running around a popping kids with any female you see thats remotely attractive.
If you knew these women were cheating on you and you still continued to pursue them then you're not a victim of anyone but yourself. You created the very situation that you're living in and brought children into that. Let that sink in for a moment. It's not just about the money.
@-glitch-8195 bro it didn't start out like that. This is a 6 year relationship that started to go south after about 3 but there was no physical cheating. Just always some dumb fucks in her dms telling her giving her attention. Shit was good. But like I said I couldn't give enough attention to keep get happy. She started having a bad attitude all the time and was just unpleasant to be around for the last year.
I dont know if i should cold approach or not
If you can deal with the rejection do it, I cold approached a bunch of women last year, even at my job which was dumb, but I learned a lot! Some turned me down, some
We’re schocked , most I would get their number and then find out they already had boy friends. You will get better at it, eventually the rejection makes you stronger. 🎉
How old are you LFA? Im almost 42 , I feel like time is running out to find a decent LTR.
It's never too late.
South America, best places I have dates. Problem
Is you want to marry and live down there, not here we’re divorce courts suck.
Learn spanish before you go to south america. You will have it made.@@ViperXSS2
What’s the outro song? It was sick lol
Hey brother
15:08 SO TRUE!!
If a woman is making 75k a year, why do men still need to make enough to support her? She can support herself
Standards
Fair enough. Seems like most married couples are blue collar living paycheck to paycheck.
Girls ! When I want to use you I come over to use you the way I want to use you ! Hahaha !
I disagree. If a woman that admits that she needs a man is green flag, she will proudly and promptly wave that flag after you or in many cases DURING you.
True words my friend, what's the solution, to stay celibate for life in those degenerate times?
I hope this is not a stupid question but are there places where you can find a good woman? Stay away from bars and clubs, but should I be putting myself in certain areas to increase those chances?
Church
@@emilyl6746 but what if u aren't religious?
How do you find a woman?
Loneliness is a privilege and a blessing . LoL
To be honest ! Lots of people I shouldn't even look at ! Lol !
12:00
Can I get some credit of coming up with “lean figure army” lol
Yes sir!
Good advice from dollar store dan bulzarian