How I knew it was time to breakup

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 27

  • @ellen10sea
    @ellen10sea 2 роки тому +7

    I went through a breakup of 4 years 1 month ago and i can for sure relate to a lot of things you said. I had several doubts over the years about whether or not we were compatible but since I was generally happy with him and since he was my first relationship, I just didn’t bring it up. But towards the end, we realized we’re on very different paths and we knew we wouldn’t work out for the time being. Thank you for your video ❤ helps to know that my thought process is not foreign

  • @xCiaraLouisexx
    @xCiaraLouisexx Рік тому +5

    Myself and my boyfriend split up over similar reasons. My boyfriend was against kids in the end and I knew I wanted the option one day. It was a hard decision to end it but I’m slowly becoming to realise it was the right decision. I wish him the best ☺️ thank you for this!

  • @CatherinexAlexa
    @CatherinexAlexa Рік тому

    I finally found someone on this topic that I can relate to. I was with this person for three years, and I couldn't quite understand but something felt always off to me. And she was always very aggressive when we did argue, and would say horrible things, and then would want to pretend that nothing happened. She would excuse herself and say "it was in the heat of the moment," etc. But even when I was in the heat of the moment, I never resorted to lashing or saying mean things. Just a few days ago, I finally put myself first and said no more. Now begins the process of her moving out. Although I am sad, I feel relieved.
    Thank you for posting this video. It made me feel less alone!

  • @LJC3276
    @LJC3276 Рік тому

    Being much older I can tell you that you are intelligent and true. I didnt take the path that 98%of people take, and I dont regret my decisions. I do regret not knowing that i would lose so many friends. They became very insulated inside their families. So I continue to seek new friends.

  • @goldenskal
    @goldenskal Рік тому +1

    So glad I found this video. I am the same age as you and think my long term relationship is at this point… but I feel like it’s too late in life to start over. It’s reassuring to hear this from another woman. Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_  Рік тому +1

      It’s never too late :) a year later and I’ve never been happier

  • @MarianneKornelius15
    @MarianneKornelius15 2 роки тому +2

    You summed up my ex’s and I break up. Similar reasoning. Thanks for your words of wisdom & open to sharing this.

  • @FitFoodAE
    @FitFoodAE 2 роки тому +3

    I follow you on TikTok and I’m also going through a long term breakup. I can relate to so many of the things you’re saying! Very similar situation to mine

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_  2 роки тому +1

      Sending you a big hug 🫶🏼

  • @rawrimasainxd
    @rawrimasainxd 2 роки тому +4

    "you won because you died together!! yaaaay!" made me spit out my juice

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_  2 роки тому

      I appreciate that you made it to the end 😂

  • @mantou1523
    @mantou1523 Рік тому

    Hi Sam, i know this is a long shot but I was wondering if you could make a video on how you got through your break up? Your videos have helped me through these couple of days but I think I just need some help getting through this month. We were together for almost 5 years now and we also moved in together in the 4th year. I don’t know how to continue living in the space that we moved in together. I would really appreciate if you give me some advice even if not in a video. 💛

  • @azca.
    @azca. Рік тому +3

    Watching this after watching the honeymoon phase video 3y ago lol

  • @daisy22220
    @daisy22220 2 роки тому +1

    I am goin through a break up this weekend. This video was so comforting as it was a similar experience to mine💗 wishing you the best and thank you for sharing this 💕

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_  2 роки тому

      I’m so glad, sending healing vibes your way 🫶🏼

  • @tiffanymims2746
    @tiffanymims2746 Рік тому

    Are you a Sagittarius because I felt like I was talking to myself with this video!?

  • @meemooeun
    @meemooeun 2 роки тому

    So validating and reassuring to hear it coming from someone else! You put my feelings into words, thank you

  • @reallythese
    @reallythese 5 місяців тому

    Year update vid? 🤔

  • @louisrussell5160
    @louisrussell5160 2 роки тому +2

    kinda just sounds like you aren’t ready to settle down but he was. 😐

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_  2 роки тому +1

      Yeah that’s definitely part of it! But I’m not ready to settle down with someone who’s not right for me

  • @Iamichelle
    @Iamichelle 2 роки тому

    This was interesting to listen to on my walk!

  • @azca.
    @azca. Рік тому +1

    Wow you aged a lot

  • @lightrocket
    @lightrocket 2 роки тому +5

    You just sound exhausting honestly

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_  2 роки тому +7

      Good thing we’re not dating

    • @lightrocket
      @lightrocket 2 роки тому +1

      @@Samcity_ He's lucky he isn't either

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_  2 роки тому +3

      @@lightrocket also true