Samcity
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What to expect after a breakup
Buckle up besties, we're unpacking the waves of different emotions after a breakup. We start with guilt, shame and loneliness, touch on existential crisis and then end off with a pinch of self distrust and uncertainty.
Find me @samcity_ everywhere :)
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Відео

How to heal from a breakup
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I hope you guys are SAT, cuz when I said I had 13 videos locked and loaded to recap the last 2 years of my life (and beyond), I wasn't lying. The debrief starts now with a lil recap of where we left off post-breakup and my top 3 tips for how to get through a breakup. Let's chat in the comments! Find me @samcity_ everywhere :) 📸 Instagram: samcity_ 🤳🏼 TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@samcity_
big bouncy blowout hair tutorial + styling wispy bangs
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big bouncy blowout hair tutorial styling wispy bangs
How I knew it was time to breakup
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How I knew it was time to breakup
I'm in my quarter life crisis
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I'm in my quarter life crisis
Transforming my Vancouver patio
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Transforming my Vancouver patio
WE REDID OUR KITCHEN | black and white modern design
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WE REDID OUR KITCHEN | black and white modern design
NEW YORK VLOG | thrift shopping & food
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NEW YORK VLOG | thrift shopping & food
my favourite self tanner + @revolve unboxing haul
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my favourite self tanner @revolve unboxing haul
HAIR TUTORIAL | bouncy, voluminous waves for long hair
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HAIR TUTORIAL | bouncy, voluminous waves for long hair
EVERYDAY MAKEUP ROUTINE | winged eyeliner & glowy skin
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EVERYDAY MAKEUP ROUTINE | winged eyeliner & glowy skin
SELF CARE VLOG | making dinner for myself
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SELF CARE VLOG | making dinner for myself
feeling unmotivated
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feeling unmotivated
72 HOURS IN PORTLAND
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72 HOURS IN PORTLAND
UPDATED ROOM DECOR + CHRISTMAS SHOPPING HAUL
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UPDATED ROOM DECOR CHRISTMAS SHOPPING HAUL
SEPHORA VIB HAUL + TRYING THE DYSON AIRWRAP
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SEPHORA VIB HAUL TRYING THE DYSON AIRWRAP
TRYING TIKTOK DECOR DIYS | Neon Sign + Plaster Canvas Art
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TRYING TIKTOK DECOR DIYS | Neon Sign Plaster Canvas Art
HALLOWEEN + MAKING RICE PAPER DUMPLINGS
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HALLOWEEN MAKING RICE PAPER DUMPLINGS
OFFICE SETUP + OPENING PR PACKAGES
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OFFICE SETUP OPENING PR PACKAGES
HOMESENSE HAUL
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HOMESENSE HAUL
SETTING UP ALL OUR FURNITURE
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SETTING UP ALL OUR FURNITURE
I MOVED OUT!
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I MOVED OUT!
PACKING & PASTA COMPETITION
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PACKING & PASTA COMPETITION
LET'S TALK ABOUT MOVING OUT
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LET'S TALK ABOUT MOVING OUT
CLEANING MY RUG *FAIL* & NIGHT ON THE TOWN
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CLEANING MY RUG *FAIL* & NIGHT ON THE TOWN
GETTING MY WISDOM TEETH REMOVED
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GETTING MY WISDOM TEETH REMOVED
ORGANIZING & NO-MAKEUP MAKEUP ROUTINE
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ORGANIZING & NO-MAKEUP MAKEUP ROUTINE
FALL FASHION HAUL & FURNITURE SHOPPING | VLOG
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FALL FASHION HAUL & FURNITURE SHOPPING | VLOG
FURNITURE SHOPPING & DAY TRIPS | VLOG
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FURNITURE SHOPPING & DAY TRIPS | VLOG
TESTING OUT OUR NEW PROJECTOR
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TESTING OUT OUR NEW PROJECTOR

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @HoaNguyen-rv5ki
    @HoaNguyen-rv5ki 3 години тому

    Maybe youre just mental?

  • @seannarula7427
    @seannarula7427 3 години тому

    hi

  • @AlvinKairan45_
    @AlvinKairan45_ 3 години тому

    All fun and games until real Patrick shows up from the Wall.

  • @raymondcopperfield884
    @raymondcopperfield884 15 годин тому

    I don't want to be friends with my ex gf, she hurt me and am scared to trust her again with my heart. She might hurt me again.

  • @thomaswilson8210
    @thomaswilson8210 18 годин тому

    There has to be boundaries for partner and your friends dont forget your friends as they will always be there.

  • @CleanGirlTilly
    @CleanGirlTilly 2 дні тому

    I’m getting mine done soon I’m scared😊

  • @alexzajickova605
    @alexzajickova605 3 дні тому

    Good video, thank you 😊 triggered me after two years when hes got a new girlfriend, while i cant find anyone who would i get along this much with . Meeting him just feel like it gave me too high standarts but it just feel necessary now to be wirh someone who has similar mindset, opinions and strong connection. And not just anyone who i hace something in common with. I feel sometimes so lonely , especially seeing other people finding new love and i feel stuck. I felt like hes the one and he walked away. How can i trust again.. i showed him who i was 100% , and for the first time in relationship i trusted him 100% and then after the break up i felt like it was maybe too much, or i was not enough. More probably the first option because i loved him so hard and kept showing it. And he did too. It was so unexpected for me. And now i feel like i wont be able to meet anyone with who i feel like this again, who will have th same mindset and want me

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_ 3 дні тому

      @@alexzajickova605 the one wouldn’t walk away 🫶🏼

    • @alexzajickova605
      @alexzajickova605 3 дні тому

      @Samcity_ yes i keep reminding myself that.. And thinking what if there isnt one for me at all

  • @pualo9263
    @pualo9263 4 дні тому

    Hard for guys to meet someone else, especially at 50.

  • @OleksandraMekawy
    @OleksandraMekawy 4 дні тому

    Agreed with every word! Thank you for making this video ❤ going through it right now and it really helps to realize that I’m not the only one in this pain and life will get better in some point

  • @zombiesusi
    @zombiesusi 4 дні тому

    Oh lol you must be talking about my bro-in-law. I could take a bullet for that guy. Whatever he asked from me, I'd happily drag myself through a snowstorm with a little shovel to help him. And now suddenly it seems I don't exist at all. Same with his other friends, and his sister, with whom he used to be as close as twins. And if we see each other during Xmas, midsummer, easter etc. his GF is always there, and they can't keep their hands off each other. It's so fucking annoying. Like helloo, Earth to bro-in-law?? Get a room?? Call me sometime??

  • @hiwilson1
    @hiwilson1 5 днів тому

    Where’s part 1: what to do in a relationship

  • @kazTHEcomic
    @kazTHEcomic 6 днів тому

    Speaking of break ups... let's work at never going through a break up again, together 😍😍

  • @lifeofvladimir6337
    @lifeofvladimir6337 7 днів тому

    Ok Here we go I really hope that those "breakups" aren’t real and this is for attention coz saying its ragebait for attention just might save your from really bad comments from people who went through this

  • @Talia-us9ch
    @Talia-us9ch 7 днів тому

    Eww the shorts look like my grandma's underwear

  • @Marissab8538
    @Marissab8538 8 днів тому

    My friend ditched me for her significant other and their mutual friends, telling me she was sick only for me to see her out with them at the same place we were supposed to go. When I spoke to her about it, i was accused of monitoring her and being jealous of her relationship. Then told me she wasn't sorry for what she did. 😅 Even though during the planning, I made sure to ask if they had plans for the date, to make sure I wasn't intruding on their time together. Needless to say, I distanced myself then eventually dropped off altogether

  • @bbiniie
    @bbiniie 10 днів тому

    My ex move on in just 2 weeks. Im kinda shocked. Truly some girls changes their relationship just like clothes.. lusty nature is freaking odd.

  • @kebab6965
    @kebab6965 10 днів тому

    She recently got a new bf, and when I heard abt it my heart shattered. I thought I had gotten over her, but in reality I hadn’t. The reason it hurt so much is that I believe that they were chatting a lot while I we were dating, and that she had developed feelings for him while we were together. We broke up in November so it’s been 3 months. I’m heartbroken but I’m trying my best to focus on myself and improving myself everyday. This vid really helped. Thanks

  • @heathersteen7384
    @heathersteen7384 12 днів тому

    I would so do that to my brother , amazing ❤❤😂😂😂

  • @Happypigeon8328
    @Happypigeon8328 13 днів тому

    First

  • @AlphaWolf-2024
    @AlphaWolf-2024 14 днів тому

    Thank you!! Genuinely, everyone hates on people being friejds but I care about my now ex to lose her altigerher, it was that care that intially encouraged me to get in a relationship with her - but it only grew over time, i can see in hindsight it wasn't a healthy relationship where both our mental health's are at, but I care enouth to someday want to try forming a genuine friendship with her and I wouldnt let a partner come between thwt if it worked out, as their should be enough trust from them as I'd have with them

  • @minuit6305
    @minuit6305 18 днів тому

    Lol I'm glad i finally learned how to detach and not give a shxt and move on. Had a friend that started obsessing over some guy. I knew he liked her too and i could tell they were going to start dating soon. As soon as i saw that i was like "Okay time to move on and pack my schedule with other activities." I don't answer her calls or texts. I've answered 2 times and while on the phone both times she's ignored me to text him back and ask me to repeat what im saying. Im like oooof i got to go something came up love you byeeeeeeee. Discard people like they were dirty rags. Don't get attached to people who will leave you for the bigger better deal!

  • @Prettyinpink222
    @Prettyinpink222 19 днів тому

    Omg that’s so cute!!

  • @stxn_cxld7342
    @stxn_cxld7342 20 днів тому

    SO CUTE 😭❤️

  • @booknerdjebbi5037
    @booknerdjebbi5037 20 днів тому

    Sorry girl but that’s his sweater now 😂❤ he is rocking this look

  • @hanna0819
    @hanna0819 21 день тому

    omg so cute!!❤

  • @Milo111forever
    @Milo111forever 21 день тому

    I love it ❤

  • @UrMomsBf-v4l
    @UrMomsBf-v4l 22 дні тому

    Please stop deleting my comments😭😭😭

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_ 22 дні тому

      Hi! I don’t delete comments, but UA-cam does :)

    • @UrMomsBf-v4l
      @UrMomsBf-v4l 21 день тому

      ty for saying i’m so sorry about that

  • @thebluetree1094
    @thebluetree1094 23 дні тому

    He's clearly not enjoying that

  • @andreaprettie1388
    @andreaprettie1388 23 дні тому

    super cute ❤

  • @starrnguyen7665
    @starrnguyen7665 24 дні тому

    Where are your shoes from?

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_ 23 дні тому

      @@starrnguyen7665 call it spring!

  • @gwen_burke
    @gwen_burke 24 дні тому

    amen

  • @emmamohan-s6t
    @emmamohan-s6t 27 днів тому

    PLEASE HELP I HAVE A COWLICK SO ALL MY HAIR WANTS TO GO TO THE OTHER SIDE PLEASE HELP ME😭

  • @uxiah
    @uxiah Місяць тому

    How do u keep ur skin hydrated? When ever i even use a moisturizer it disappears into my skin

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_ 25 днів тому

      I like to use something like aquaphor to seal in skincare at night time!

  • @0nly_M1lliemm2
    @0nly_M1lliemm2 Місяць тому

    Your skin is so nice but I just wanna say why do your clothes remind me of squid games😂

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_ Місяць тому

      @0nly_M1lliemm2 hahahaha

  • @mmaking66
    @mmaking66 Місяць тому

    The moment I knew she was with someone else I finally let go. Deleted the remaining picture and video I had of us together and mentally/spiritually broke all remaining ties.

  • @JasmineFuller-d5f
    @JasmineFuller-d5f Місяць тому

    Why would you Be friends with your ex who Just Broke your Heart

  • @Jackie-cl2qe
    @Jackie-cl2qe Місяць тому

    My bestie is in a new relationship and doesn't talk about anything else, brings him up in literally every sentence and we cant do anything without him. Been like this for months atp. I try to be happy for them but by god, the price is my sanity

  • @MineMarineminer
    @MineMarineminer Місяць тому

    Preciosa ❤

  • @iamuuareme
    @iamuuareme Місяць тому

    u looked good at the beginning and at the end 😩

    • @Samcity_
      @Samcity_ Місяць тому

      @@iamuuareme omg you’re so sweet

  • @noelreyes2987
    @noelreyes2987 Місяць тому

    Slayyy

  • @maniarine7807
    @maniarine7807 Місяць тому

    Prioritizing your relationship doesn't mean you have to cut ties with your friends or just don't care about them when they don't feel well cause why? You're in a relationship? That's gaslighting. We ain't saying you should stay in contact 24/7. Like I'm more busy than my housewife friend working 2 jobs but i still manage to have a relationship and other friends, but somehow she's always the one nagging about being busy by just cleaning her house:)))) Just admit your neglect and don't comeback crying.

  • @aishet7261
    @aishet7261 Місяць тому

    i thought i was over her then i suddenly bumped into her account. I checked. she's moved on with someone else. it still stings.

  • @miguelvargas6924
    @miguelvargas6924 Місяць тому

    I just feel lost I have one best friend but every time am with him all alone we just say hello, but when his friend join then he really talks a lot, he used to talk to me daily but not anymore. I need answers

  • @eccedentesiast3753
    @eccedentesiast3753 Місяць тому

    You’re so pretty!!

  • @Woof-Woof-Woof-rm9tz
    @Woof-Woof-Woof-rm9tz Місяць тому

    LIFE IS A FANTASY AND U WANT TO BRLIEVE LOTS OF FANTASIES. U FANTASIZED OF FRIENDS WHNE U WAS A CHILD, ONLY SO THAT U WERE ENTERTAINED.. BUT FROM UR FIRST BREATH U WAS ALONE.. NOBODY WAS BORNED ATTACHED TO YOU... WHEN U WAS A TEENAGER U FELL IN LOVE FOR THE FIRST TIME ANOTHER FANTASY... TO GIVE MEANING FO YOUR LIFE.. WHEN UR PARENTS RAISED YOU, IT WAS TO GIVE THEM A REASON TO LIVE.. YET THEIR OWN FANTASY FOR CHILDREN.. THEN COMES PASION IN UR LIFE IN THE FORM OF ROMANCE, SEX, ETC. ALL FANTASIES TO ENTERTAIN UR DEPRESSION.. THEN U MARRIED YET ANOTHER FANTASY.. THEN CHILREN GROW UP AND LEAVE AND UR WIFE LEAVES OR DIVORCES THEN THINGS START LEAVING YOU.. THEN U DISCOVWER THESE THINGS WERE FANTGASIES.. THEY WERE THERE TEMPORary...THEN U GET SICK AND U AGE AND U DIE.. SEE U REVERT TO BELING LONELY... NOTHIN IS FOR REAL... THESE THINGS WERE OBSESSIONS.. GET THIS THROUGH UR THICK SKULLL "YOU WERE BORN SO THAT YOU DIE..." AND THAT'S IT.. UR NO SPECIAL.. AND UR DEATH WILL NOT HAVE AN IMPACT TO NOONE...

  • @kevgaming4823
    @kevgaming4823 Місяць тому

    Saw her today with someone else and now my heart is shattered.

  • @randischlecht5515
    @randischlecht5515 Місяць тому

    I just found out that my ex is engaged to someone else. I’m ok with that. And two I didn’t take her back after I found out that she cheated on me. So I figured since she has someone else, I’m looking for someone else myself

  • @JourneeBell-p8b
    @JourneeBell-p8b Місяць тому

    My ex's New girlfriend bought me a gift for Christmas is that weird?

    • @kebab6965
      @kebab6965 10 днів тому

      That’s kinda weird yeah

  • @Sakshisingh031
    @Sakshisingh031 Місяць тому

    This guy was not ready to commit to me and was ready for anything casual or fun with me as he said he had things to work on n bla bka even after we getting intimate and all vibe matched, knowing well that am serious for him then also didn’t reciprocate Now he is COMMITTED with someone else just after 2 months only 💔

  • @lavenderrosegold2609
    @lavenderrosegold2609 Місяць тому

    I get married first and still have time for her. Until I warn her about her bf for me his behavior is a big no toward her and toward me. After she get married with him she have no time for me. And she became like him start having low self-esteem and defending her situation anyway they way she think now is just like him. Poor her .