"You Can't See My Boy P*ssy!!"

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  • @alexxC37
    @alexxC37 Місяць тому +633

    “If you don’t date me you’re a phobe!” And “if you specifically are attracted to me you’re a phobe!” Make it make sense. 🙄

    • @adamsky3907
      @adamsky3907 Місяць тому +8

      This!

    • @xamyx725
      @xamyx725 Місяць тому +9

      While it’s very fine, there is a line drawn between “attraction” & “fetishization”…
      It’s one thing to be attracted to, and accepting of, a specific individual, who happens to be trans, and pursue a meaningful relationship. On the other hand, explicitly seeking out a trans individual for a one night stand, or brief/recurring fling just because they’re trans is different…

    • @ChimeraArchive
      @ChimeraArchive Місяць тому +18

      I wonder if it's the one's turning them down for being trans are the phobes' while the ones "chasing" (whether or not it's actually the case) are the fetishists.
      Whatever the case, if you're unhappy with the attention but your also unhappy without it, I'd say that person is just unhappy and that's for them to untangle.

    • @nvanswol8444
      @nvanswol8444 Місяць тому

      OK, I literally came to say something just like this. I realize not all trans. People have this like opinion, but I keep seeing this if you don’t date trans people then you’re transphobes. I think trans people just haven’t refined the consensus on how they feel about this stuff.

    • @justakathings
      @justakathings Місяць тому +8

      @@xamyx725 is it though? It doesn’t matter why someone likes someone imo. I’ve never understood why fetishisation is so frouned upon, it’s just a preference. If you like someone you like someone

  • @Higesgirl
    @Higesgirl Місяць тому +450

    Preferences aren't racist nor ""fetishization""... 😑

    • @JinxMarie1985
      @JinxMarie1985 Місяць тому

      Yep but these fkers think that the world revolved around them. They have severe narcissisism. And are completely deloolooooo

    • @writerdirect
      @writerdirect Місяць тому +4

      lately some in the trans and lgbt whatever community are using " fetish " like its a bad word; like those trans people who become women and date girls are fetishizing being a woman; if the fetish doesnt hurt anyone i dont think its a bad thing

    • @howlingbeats2544
      @howlingbeats2544 Місяць тому +7

      ​@@writerdirectThis! As long as what you're doing is legal and the participants are consenting adults and you don't try to introduce a particular fetish to a person who clearly isn't interested or is uncomfortable with it. I don't care what you do, it doesn't affect me in any way so why would I give a hoot about a random person.

    • @writerdirect
      @writerdirect Місяць тому +3

      @@howlingbeats2544
      i agree im saying there is a recent trend in the far left lgbt community to degrade the notion of fetish which in and of itself is not a bad thing

    • @MorenaDeRena
      @MorenaDeRena Місяць тому +3

      No, there's a difference between fetishization and preference or like...sexuality i think. There might be people that are simply more comfortable with being in a relationship with a trans person for whatever reason. But people don't want to be in a relationship often times with someone that finds their identity sexy, they want love.
      Preference or sexuality is a bottom line that just is, y'know?
      Note, I'm taking their words literally and I'm trying to get what they are trying to express in good faith.
      It's like how i feel when some man on tik tok calls us 'black queen' or something, it's icky.
      @writerdirect

  • @jennifer.b.l
    @jennifer.b.l Місяць тому +416

    So they are transphobic when they don't want to date you, but when someone is interested in dating you, they are a chaser? They just love playing games at this point. 😂

    • @alexxC37
      @alexxC37 Місяць тому

      They just love pushing people around. We are giving these people too much power over others

    • @ohiostate614oh7
      @ohiostate614oh7 Місяць тому +38

      They are just victims 24/7 😂

    • @pony_bonnyman
      @pony_bonnyman Місяць тому

      It's all about control and manipulation in order to make them feel superior.

    • @melissamurray8307
      @melissamurray8307 Місяць тому +8

      It doesn’t make sense at all.

    • @nikedoesthings
      @nikedoesthings Місяць тому +4

      yeah no they are all 'lesbian'

  • @smokemercury
    @smokemercury Місяць тому +165

    You're not allowed to be attracted to anyone because you're "fetishising" them. But you're also not allowed to NOT be attracted to them because that's "transphobic"

    • @SwankemasterSupreme
      @SwankemasterSupreme Місяць тому +8

      To win is to not exist.

    • @deedash9675
      @deedash9675 Місяць тому +4

      It’s lunacy

    • @rydbthatsme
      @rydbthatsme Місяць тому +5

      or racist can't leave that out

    • @james970027
      @james970027 Місяць тому

      It's almost as though they want to be single and sexless just so they can claim to be victims. 🤔
      Add more ticks to that bingo card of "oppression" 🃏

    • @SummersPsycheDelicates
      @SummersPsycheDelicates Місяць тому +1

      Seems like a power complex to me. Because they sure don’t shy away from trying to get people that AREN’T interested to do things they aren’t comfortable with.

  • @simongoodwin5253
    @simongoodwin5253 Місяць тому +216

    Brilliant! Gay male here. I identify as Human, my sexuallity does not identify me. I identify as a human first and foremost. I just happen to be attracted to same sex.

    • @Southernmommy533
      @Southernmommy533 Місяць тому +17

      Thank god!! it seems like people are trying to make it a bad thing to be gay… like same-sex attraction isn’t cool, so you have to pretend to be the opposite sex or something..
      Idk 🤷‍♀️
      I know my other lesbians feel me on this.

    • @justakathings
      @justakathings Місяць тому +14

      I hate people who make being gay their whole personality. “I’m gay so” blah blah blah. And “sassy” gay men always get away with being horrible to people while women get called “b*tchy”. Rightly so imo but why the double standard. Seems like sexism to me. People just happen to be gay, it’s not their whole personality. It’s really refreshing that there are people online that think similarly to me

    • @brianlawrence8401
      @brianlawrence8401 Місяць тому +9

      I'm a straight man - not only does your personal sexuality not identify you it just doesn't matter to anyone else. I just don't get these narcissists ramming their ideology down the world's throat whilst simultaneously demonising anyone, regardless of their sexuality, that dares to question them or their motives.

    • @spiritsaysso111
      @spiritsaysso111 Місяць тому +5

      Hey fellow human! ❤

    • @zachbowyer6305
      @zachbowyer6305 Місяць тому +3

      @@brianlawrence8401My sexuality sure mattered to the 5 straight guys who didn’t like me holding my boyfriend’s hand. Unfortunately, my sexuality IS a big part of me and I get a reminder of that all the time.

  • @susanweiss1439
    @susanweiss1439 Місяць тому +237

    A 'chaser' is what I have with my drink.

    • @saradolansky1891
      @saradolansky1891 Місяць тому

      @susanweiss1439 I love this! (So sick of these TQ ideologues redefining fundamental terms (like woman), trying to compel speech, etc. Their word games are incredibly tiresome.)

    • @larenagotay4867
      @larenagotay4867 Місяць тому +7

      Isn't that a position on a Quitich team?

    • @WhoIsJaiK
      @WhoIsJaiK Місяць тому +3

      I love the pickle juice over anything

    • @m_d1905
      @m_d1905 Місяць тому +4

      ​@@larenagotay4867 Indeed chaser is also a Quidditch position.

    • @homesteadgamer1257
      @homesteadgamer1257 Місяць тому +2

      Exactly lol. I really wish they'd stop trying to re-define literally every word.

  • @johnmiwa6256
    @johnmiwa6256 Місяць тому +217

    The wolf in sheep's clothing identifies as a sheep.

  • @Grimm_Butterfly
    @Grimm_Butterfly Місяць тому +151

    They go out of their way to label us PANSEXUAL but now Im also a a CHASER.
    Whatever.

    • @MindelM
      @MindelM Місяць тому +8

      Do you want a beer with that chaser

    • @psychodelia67
      @psychodelia67 Місяць тому +4

      Seriously 🙄

    • @SwankemasterSupreme
      @SwankemasterSupreme Місяць тому

      Someone told me I’m actually pan instead of bi and I kicked them in the balls.

    • @NiaLaLa_V
      @NiaLaLa_V Місяць тому

      Don't take it personal, they are just tossing out whatever word vomit they think will go viral today. They aren't even considering what it might do to all of you in the community.

  • @angiev1840
    @angiev1840 Місяць тому +119

    This is total insanity at this point.

    • @bobbiejojackson9448
      @bobbiejojackson9448 Місяць тому +5

      Agreed 100%! And thank God we have people like Marcus, Blaire, Buck and others to be the voices of reason! Can you imagine what they'd be like with zero pushback from people inside the broader community??!! I don't even want to think about it!

  • @RavenHaili
    @RavenHaili Місяць тому +172

    One major antisocial behavior we haven't talked about enough is the need to make others extremely unhappy. Like these people go out of their way to ruin the lives and happiness of others. It gets them off🤢🤮
    Far too many people with this trait are going around unrecognized and unchecked. Encouraged even.

    • @Grimm_Butterfly
      @Grimm_Butterfly Місяць тому +9

      Say it LOUDER!

    • @TheKatarinaGiselle
      @TheKatarinaGiselle Місяць тому +9

      They are energy vampires!

    • @Skitdora2010
      @Skitdora2010 Місяць тому

      We used to call them bullies, and now they get any special name they want. It is because of narcissism and their deep rooted inferiority complex to make others suffer so they feel better when in reality they know they are the worst. The: My life might suck, but I called your job repeatedly and lied to get you fired and your life is worst. Sucks to be you!

    • @amyshelton6716
      @amyshelton6716 Місяць тому +4

      People in the back couldn't hear you. Say it louder!

    • @jennifers8843
      @jennifers8843 Місяць тому +4

      It’s called bullying!

  • @lukycharms9970
    @lukycharms9970 Місяць тому +56

    So they’re offended when people arent attracted to them and then when people are attracted to them they’re also offended…?

    • @vsanchez7158
      @vsanchez7158 Місяць тому

      Haha. Exactly.

    • @deedash9675
      @deedash9675 Місяць тому

      Exactly what it is with these oddballs

  • @alycefrench5753
    @alycefrench5753 Місяць тому +111

    This is why I'm starting to separate myself from the community. It's becoming ridiculously stupid at this point and they're turning everyone against us

    • @Natzawa
      @Natzawa Місяць тому +13

      This is pretty much what turned me away from the community. Tried to get to know them to see what they were like and about half of the time I was met with hostility or skepticism. Couldn’t even ask questions without people flipping out or questioning my intentions lol.
      The whole reason I was trying to get involved was to give them a chance and see if we had any similarities if they let me. Maybe I would get to like some of them eventually. I could go into this topic more, but don’t want to turn this into an essay.
      There are some chill ones out there though.

    • @alycefrench5753
      @alycefrench5753 Місяць тому +9

      @@Natzawa I'm not trying to flex or anything, but I'm actually a really chill trans woman

    • @Natzawa
      @Natzawa Місяць тому +8

      @@alycefrench5753 Word, that’s what’s up. I wish more people were in general.
      You probably already know this, but don’t let the trolls or the haters negatively influence your attitude. This will give you a one up on them and open up more opportunities for you compared to the rest of the people who are pushing others away.
      There’s destructive and hateful people in every community. Especially nowadays.

    • @alycefrench5753
      @alycefrench5753 Місяць тому +9

      @Natzawa You're definitely right about that, I've been bullied out of two trans groups, because I have a different opinion than they do. I've also been called transphobic and for that reason I don't want anything to do with them. On a positive note, I'm actually happy I transitioned later in life. I think if I transitioned a lot earlier, I might of fallen for the lies and hate propaganda. They all have an us vs them mentality and I can a larger tangent about it, but my fingers would start to get sore lol

    • @deedash9675
      @deedash9675 Місяць тому +1

      @@alycefrench5753 I have a trans cousin and a gay cousin, most trans people and gay people I’ve met are indeed chill. They aren’t this entitled or stupid

  • @MrPAULONEAL
    @MrPAULONEAL Місяць тому +136

    They want you to find them attractive but not exclusively....

    • @Kathleen-vl5ws
      @Kathleen-vl5ws Місяць тому

      And it's ridiculous because if we're totally honest, the majority of straight people are not going to be interested in someone who looks like the opposite sex, but has genitals of the same sex. That's if the person even passes which again, if I'm honest, most trans people aren't a Marcus or a Blaire White where you'd never guess they were trans.

  • @armymarshal13
    @armymarshal13 Місяць тому +37

    Victim Olympics is a serious problem

  • @andydufresne5297
    @andydufresne5297 Місяць тому +74

    Would these people be on TikTok etc. if there were ZERO money to be made from it?

    • @csiribicsiriba
      @csiribicsiriba Місяць тому +4

      Excellent point

    • @marinaflorio95
      @marinaflorio95 Місяць тому +16

      Sadly, yes, because they crave attention and validation. I know people who ridicule themselves like that and there's no way they have enough followers to gain anything other than attention

    • @Xaforn
      @Xaforn Місяць тому +1

      Maybe a bit less since they’d have to earn that money another way

    • @alycefrench5753
      @alycefrench5753 Місяць тому +6

      Everyone of these people all show textbook narcissistic behavior, as long as there's an audience, they'll never leave their metaphorical soap box

    • @penultimania4295
      @penultimania4295 Місяць тому +2

      Absolutely. There are other things they can gain other than money.

  • @raythunder8619
    @raythunder8619 Місяць тому +66

    So, not being attractive to trans is transphobic, but also wanting to date trans is also problematic?
    I have a family member who is dating a trans woman and they are a wonderful couple. People need to quit being so obsessed with other people's lives.

    • @deedash9675
      @deedash9675 Місяць тому

      I have a trans cousin and I can say most trans people are this stupid and entitled, sadly they are a loud minority

  • @danamania150
    @danamania150 Місяць тому +207

    Since when did “fetish” become a dirty word? These people are puritanical

    • @sianais
      @sianais Місяць тому +53

      While simultaneously being the open to questionable things, like not accepting consent and exposing kids to adult content.
      I wish the crazy was at least consistent, but then it wouldn't be insanity.

    • @jamesneese7663
      @jamesneese7663 Місяць тому +22

      And lack of self awareness....

    • @arwenstrong2818
      @arwenstrong2818 Місяць тому

      Weird, since they're the same people who basically want fetishists to be a protected class.

    • @xamyx725
      @xamyx725 Місяць тому +1

      Because there is a fine line between “fetish” & “attraction”…

    • @Apoc5k
      @Apoc5k Місяць тому +1

      It wasn't too long ago when people like this were celebrating kinks and fetishes.

  • @Morbazan125
    @Morbazan125 Місяць тому +45

    So what then, we all have to find everyone attractive? No preferences at all?

    • @spatz82_the_fierzwolf
      @spatz82_the_fierzwolf Місяць тому +5

      Now you’re starting to understand! 🎉

    • @kellylyons1038
      @kellylyons1038 Місяць тому

      Yes actually, they want everyone to be pansexual and they want gays to be straight.

    • @Cardinal_claw
      @Cardinal_claw Місяць тому +1

      But only if they're attracted back, otherwise you're a creep lol

  • @Jennifer-tt5mb
    @Jennifer-tt5mb Місяць тому +50

    Thank you, Marcus, for pointing out how people try to see how far they can push you.

  • @secretwatcher9922
    @secretwatcher9922 Місяць тому +47

    If the whole world shouted from the roof tops we except trans they would still find problems because they want to be a topic or should I say the main topic.

    • @james970027
      @james970027 Місяць тому +1

      Yep, because to this group it's not about trans acceptance it's about seeking victimhood to explain why they can't get what they want in life.
      Always someone else's or something else's fault, never their own. Easier to claim to be oppressed so that you don't have to work on yourself.

  • @-Reagan
    @-Reagan Місяць тому +56

    It’s even more than the redhead analogy - it’s like saying all men who are attracted to women are chasers and fetishists - yes, women are at risk of being targeted by fetishists and objectification. It doesn’t mean we shouldn’t date any man who is attracted to women. That’s ridiculous. People who are attracted to trans women just have preferences like everyone else does.

    • @xamyx725
      @xamyx725 Місяць тому

      The difference is, men who are attracted to women typically pursue women with the intent to pursue a relationship, even if she’s trans, and he’s accepting of that fact. The flip side is, a man who specifically seeks out trans women for a fling, but forge relationships with biological women…

    • @lauren1352
      @lauren1352 Місяць тому

      Men can also be fetishized you should see thr lust 14 year olds have for their favorite kpop idol

    • @jayaom4946
      @jayaom4946 Місяць тому +3

      Men chase women all the time!!!! They're going to be the same if their preference is trans women although maybe moreso because it's so much less common to meet a trans woman. It used to be, when I was younger, that I could rarely leave my house without some man yelling out of his window at me. They saw something they liked, got excited and expressed it with enthusiasm. A little annoying sometimes but some women like that. It did feel sad when I got older and no longer got any yells. I guess they were all oldwomenphobes.

    • @deedash9675
      @deedash9675 Місяць тому +3

      Their logic don’t make sense, everyone has a preference and a fetish to a certain extent. The fact they are mad because some men have a preference for trans women when they spent years crying about how men were transphobic for not wanting to date them

    • @scotlandtheinsane3359
      @scotlandtheinsane3359 Місяць тому

      ​@deedash9675
      It's very simple, actually.
      What they want is 'validation' as the opposite sex and realise that the men that are actually attracted to them do so precisely because they're NOT the opposite sex and they remind them of that. There's definitely a fetishistic aspect of wanting to date men that dress in women's clothes and have fake boobs etc..
      I'm sorry I disagree with everyone here on this..😂

  • @tartarus01
    @tartarus01 Місяць тому +36

    Theyre not chasers, they are exactly what you attract lol.

  • @Kiefsti
    @Kiefsti Місяць тому +41

    1:24 "Shhhhhhh" I adore you Marcus 🤣🤣

    • @ltlwlwl5057
      @ltlwlwl5057 Місяць тому +1

    • @kellylyons1038
      @kellylyons1038 Місяць тому

      Omg seriously, any time white women get on that mental gymnastics train "omg black trans women have the worst lives blahblahblah" i just want to tell them to shut up! You can talk about your hardships without groveling to people less fortunate than you 🙄

  • @danamania150
    @danamania150 Місяць тому +105

    Can you imagine the trauma of going to have sex with someone and seeing the wrong hardware 🤮

    • @Skitdora2010
      @Skitdora2010 Місяць тому

      The Crying Game movie. But, in Dills case, she thought he knew. Jay Davidson was absolutely gorgeous and I believe the foot in the door for acceptance. Nothing like these bearded biker looking men claiming to be lesbians. Women into women generally are not into thick back and belly body hair.

    • @benu_bird
      @benu_bird Місяць тому

      Happened to my dad and a buddy in the 50s when they were US Marines at Camp LeJeune. They met up with two attractive ladies. Hit it off. Got into a cab to go to a hotel. My dad’s buddy started kissing her and let his hand wander south. All of a sudden he screams “this chick’s got a d1ck!” My dad reached down and felt a stick and berries, too. They threw the “girls “ out of the car and took off back to base. They were pissed and wanted to beat the shit out of them.

    • @GalXZ42081
      @GalXZ42081 Місяць тому +4

      As someone who has experienced real, life altering trauma, this comment is ridiculous. The word you are looking for is not "trauma", but rather "inconvenience".

    • @benu_bird
      @benu_bird Місяць тому +28

      @@GalXZ42081What about a lesbian who has been sexually abused by a man experiencing a sexual encounter with a trans woman who has a penis? That is trauma. Intimacy involves trust. Having trust violated can be very traumatic. Stop trying to change language to suit your personal narrative.

    • @danamania150
      @danamania150 Місяць тому +22

      @@GalXZ42081 oh please. Just because you’ve been through something doesn’t negate the fact it would be the worst sexual experience of my life and yes, traumatic

  • @TheKatarinaGiselle
    @TheKatarinaGiselle Місяць тому +31

    The same people screaming "don't kink shame" are against fetishization 😂 IT MAKES NO SENSE! They never do.

    • @deedash9675
      @deedash9675 Місяць тому

      Right, don’t kink shame but will vilify you if you have a fetish

    • @Sil7531
      @Sil7531 Місяць тому +1

      Great point

    • @sarads7877
      @sarads7877 Місяць тому +1

      That’s cause “fetishising someone” can also mean looking at the person like they are a sexual object.
      Not a human being, full on something to be used for sexual pleasure, with little to no regard.
      That is obviously a problem, as it can lead to many issues, namely, the person getting violent when the individual they fetishise doesn’t comply and deliver what they want from them…
      Obviously tho, not all people with a “fetish” does it to that extent.

    • @TheKatarinaGiselle
      @TheKatarinaGiselle Місяць тому +3

      @@sarads7877 having a fetish or a preference DOES NOT mean you don't see the person for exactly who they are! 🤦🏼‍♀️ There is only a minority of people like that and in every area if their life, they are creeps. People write off way too many people before they even know who they are based off assumptions usually having to do with their preferences, and that is rediculous.

    • @MrCmon113
      @MrCmon113 26 днів тому

      @@sarads7877 You are a sexual object, unless no one wants to have sex with you. And you are that BECAUSE you are a human being, not in spite of it.

  • @Alethiometer
    @Alethiometer Місяць тому +33

    Trans masculine so in my days (Gen X) we were called Tomboys and I was a big tomboy I'm talking rough & tumble if I was alive now I would have 100% made the biggest mistake in my life I HATED being a girl I was utterly terrified to hit puberty I didn't want to develop I wanted to be a boy so badly, I would have done anything I have the stories & the receipts.
    My G-D all of the life-altering events I would have missed.....it grows as each year passes the moment I fell in love, the moment I KNEW he was my soul mate, the love our bodies created, which took a lot of work (sorry children ha ha) I ADORED being a woman the moment I held my daughter in my arms, this is the condensed version void of too much personal information BUT I would love to talk to you about it, I think I had a lot of "identity issues" but in the 1970's there was no one you could talk to regarding this.

    • @cryptameria666
      @cryptameria666 Місяць тому +6

      Nothing wrong with being a Tomboy 😉 being a gearhead shouldn't be a "gender" thing except you got the watching the puppies doing an oil filter change

    • @kellylyons1038
      @kellylyons1038 Місяць тому +1

      Same, i was convinced for the longest time I was bi, from childhood to my early 20s. If there was some kind of body-altering choice to make relating to bisexuality, i would have made it. Now in my 30s I understand sexuality and myself better and i know i'm not bi.
      You can have so much conviction for something when you're young. I was also quite tomboyish and dysphoric with my body. If i were younger i might have made this transitioning mistake too 😔

    • @Xaforn
      @Xaforn Місяць тому +1

      Same I hated puberty with a passion, even would take material to flatten my chest, I didn’t want any attention, I wasn’t feminine and definitely didn’t fit in with the girls in the religious group I was raised in. Having my baby changed everything; I’d never planned on having children or getting married. I’m definitely still a tomboy but I’m content with myself as a woman.

  • @gloriastroedecke2717
    @gloriastroedecke2717 Місяць тому +24

    In the middle " she" spoke so fast I thought I was listening to the disclaimer part of an advertisement for a lease car or new medicine.

  • @Jerbies_Kimmers
    @Jerbies_Kimmers Місяць тому +26

    Angry, judgemental, emotionally stunted TransTrenders is what they are and its super annoying already. Though Im sure that was intended 😐 Love and Hugs Marcus!! 💜

  • @craigy_uk
    @craigy_uk Місяць тому +7

    I was told by someone that I had internalised homophobia because I wasn't attracted to feminine gay guys. Pretty sure I'm happy and still enjoy the coque

  • @user-jy9mh8ku3n
    @user-jy9mh8ku3n Місяць тому +39

    The black-and-blue-haired drama queen sounds so much like the whole scenario only happend in her mind…

  • @annearly3200
    @annearly3200 Місяць тому +12

    So they get mad when someone doesn't like them because they are trans women then they're transphobic. But they also get mad at the men or women that do want them because of their transwomen their chasers. Ever notice the burden is on everyone else to accommodate your feelings

    • @deedash9675
      @deedash9675 Місяць тому +2

      The fact that they want people to be attracted to them on their terms not realizing that’s not how attraction works

  • @renzinthewoods
    @renzinthewoods Місяць тому +6

    Guys have dated women for their large breasts, for their blonde hair, some guys have dated women for their large bodies and bodacious curves… Guys have been partial to partners of a particular racial background…black or Asian, for example. There are any number of superficial reasons for why someone may be initially attracted to someone. Whether or not a loving romantic relationship blossoms is what really matters, isn’t it? So here’s a suggestion. Hold off on the sex. Take your time to get to know the person first. If a guy is only looking to get it on with you for superficial reasons and loses patience waiting, well, there you go. And by all means make sure this potential mate know about your full story long before the bedroom.
    But, honestly, if we aren’t interested in being with a trans partner…we’re a problem (phobic) but if we’re too interested in being with a trans partner we’re also a problem (“chaser”)…really? Sounds like you all are the problem.

    • @deedash9675
      @deedash9675 Місяць тому

      I’m a straight black man, and Im muscular so I get Fetishized but understand some women are attracted to me some women aren’t I don’t care either way.
      What bothers me is how they want bring social justice to dating preferences. Either people are attracted to you or not, you can’t determine how people should be attracted you.

  • @Raevon22
    @Raevon22 Місяць тому +4

    Why do they always say they are a victim of something? It is all about getting attention. I love your perspective on all the insanity 😊

  • @enchantedpandas
    @enchantedpandas Місяць тому +11

    I love marcus's accent

  • @castropa531
    @castropa531 Місяць тому +8

    You are an amazing person who speaks truth and light. Your views are the MAJORITY of us and you are helping repair the damage of the 🏳️‍🌈 cult

  • @grbenway
    @grbenway Місяць тому +8

    if it were not for chasers , they would get 0 attention

  • @squirrelgirl1853
    @squirrelgirl1853 Місяць тому +11

    We attract what we are, not what we want....and one has to become the change that they wish to see in the world... So say someone wants to see more tolerance, well they themselves have to become tolerant first....

  • @4000Wiggins
    @4000Wiggins Місяць тому +6

    I find it funny when people get offended when someone has a type, when literally everyone has a type.

  • @Valkari22
    @Valkari22 Місяць тому +6

    A lot of people in the woke community also apply this same belief not just to trans or gay people but people who are in biracial relationships as well. I can't possibly in love with my Hispanic (Mestizo) husband as a white person, according to them I am fetishizing him and therefore I am racist. I play a lot of online games, I've been in the same discord community since 2018 and I've had someone actually say that to me about my 12 year marriage. This person ended up getting banned from the discord later on but it took various trolling behaviors targeting different people and posting the facebook of one member for it to happen. People just feel so empowered online to spew the most hate and foul crap that they can think of, shows more about where their mind is at than anything else.

    • @Violetbunnyfish
      @Violetbunnyfish Місяць тому

      It's only the racists who do that to people like you. It's projection. They're projecting their racism onto you, because racists always imagine that everyone else is racist as well.

  • @irissapapa
    @irissapapa Місяць тому +15

    watching you from Italy ❤️

  • @amandawilkinsontarot7096
    @amandawilkinsontarot7096 Місяць тому +16

    Hello from Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada 🇨🇦

    • @cryptameria666
      @cryptameria666 Місяць тому +7

      Hi from Victoria 🇨🇦🤦 it's such a mess eh

    • @eloquentia7207
      @eloquentia7207 Місяць тому +2

      Montréal's here!

    • @Jerbies_Kimmers
      @Jerbies_Kimmers Місяць тому +2

      Hi from Youbou Van.Island 🤓 Its a total mess.. le sigh.... eh.😉

    • @Chellex93
      @Chellex93 Місяць тому +3

      HELLO FELLOW MANITOBIAN! 👋🏻 (I don't live in Manitoba anymore but was born and raised there, about 5-6 hours away from winterpeg, living in BC now)

    • @amandawilkinsontarot7096
      @amandawilkinsontarot7096 Місяць тому +1

      @@cryptameria666 👋

  • @user-ym5xk8cv8u
    @user-ym5xk8cv8u Місяць тому +3

    They always say how much they want to join society, to be considered completely women and men, but they themselves do not take into account the opinions of people who were born men and women, they insert their trans card everywhere, etc.

  • @karmallama7957
    @karmallama7957 Місяць тому +4

    In the beginning some of these people shocked me, it then became entertainment but moved quickly over to exhausted. Im now at a point where im genuinely concerned for the harm these people are doing to themselves because so many of them surely have serious mental health issues ( no judgement, I'm full of diagnoses) whilst "educating" other mentally unwell and young people. We need to get back to reality, off social media and get these people help. Tak for dig Marcus ❤!

  • @kvernesdotten
    @kvernesdotten Місяць тому +18

    I know a female to male trans person, it can be a nightmare to relate to sometimes. I received a snap showing how nice the weather was, I didnt think and just responded "yeah looks nice" thinking no more of it. This sparked a huge drama with both this person and their SO, with both of them knowing fully well that my interest in the person stops at having some hobbies and interests in common. Nothing more. Yet both assumed malicious intent and barraged me for a couple of hours, none of them had the common sense to just ask me what I meant or assume that I was still talking about the weather. Which was, you know, the thing being talked about?
    So yeah I can believe what you say, that if trans is your entire identity, you become hell of alot more vulnerable and sensitive over small things. Its such a shame because this is a nice person that I would have no problem having a normal hetero man to hetero man friend-relationship with, but stuff like this makes it incredibly hard. Sometimes it feels like you took all the bad sides of a guy friend and a girl friend and put them together with none of the good sides of either. I can imagine thats not easy on them either, they seemed genuinly shameful after the matter was cleared up.
    But hey, its up and down. And the ups have made me not give up on it so far!

    • @RabidSnarf
      @RabidSnarf Місяць тому

      That's crazy. A snap about nice weather and a comment about nice weather caused a freak out? That's insane behavior.

    • @kvernesdotten
      @kvernesdotten Місяць тому +1

      @@RabidSnarf *shrug* thats what extreme levels of insecurity and sensitivity does ig?

  • @anourtine6204
    @anourtine6204 Місяць тому +6

    As a trans woman, I have no problem with men who actively seek trans women… however, a lot of these guys are deeply ashamed of their desires. This shame morphs into objectification and dehumanization… and that, to me, is a “chaser.”
    Not all trans-attracted men are “chasers.” There are men who don’t feel shame and self-hatred, men who can honestly say “yeah, I like trans girls, I’m not 100% straight.”
    But it’s the “straight/masc/dom/seeking pre-op only” guys that you need to watch out for. They are NOT being honest with themselves, because they are ashamed of their fetish… THOSE are the “chasers.”

    • @kellylyons1038
      @kellylyons1038 Місяць тому +1

      Seriously, like this is a real thing but it's very specific, as you laid out. These ppl are muddying the waters and are just making men feel more ashamed and confused.
      And changing the definition of what is a dangerous person to date actually puts trans ppl in more danger bc you dont know whats safe and what isnt anymore.

  • @chiwhiner
    @chiwhiner Місяць тому +4

    I've had guys hit me up asking me my ethnicity telling me how much they like Asian guys. Am I supposed to be offended? I've always found it kind of cute.

  • @bobbieannwalker3689
    @bobbieannwalker3689 Місяць тому +1

    I am glad that their are people like you and Blair White who are spreading truth and calling out the hypocrisy

  • @niccoletteb6682
    @niccoletteb6682 Місяць тому +2

    WAKEEE UPPP EVERYONEEEE Marcus POSTEDD!!!!

  • @paprikapringless9526
    @paprikapringless9526 Місяць тому +3

    2:52 "I don't want peace. I want problems, always!"

  • @georgeloveless4176
    @georgeloveless4176 Місяць тому +3

    Your the best and your content is SO necessary to keep the misinformation in check.
    Thanks!

  • @deedash9675
    @deedash9675 Місяць тому +2

    For me it’s the entitlement, they want to be able to dictate how ppl should be attracted to them that’s not how attraction works.
    You can’t call men transphobic for not wanting to date you then call the ones who are interested in you a chaser. These ppl need to get a grip

  • @BobInGreek
    @BobInGreek 19 днів тому +1

    OMG so right, give this man million subs. he deserves to be heared

  • @monsterguyx6322
    @monsterguyx6322 Місяць тому +1

    "shhhhhh... Shut up." 🤫 lol that landed perfectly.

  • @theoneandonly80
    @theoneandonly80 Місяць тому +1

    I just ran across your channel and this is my 4th video. I like how you break things down and point out the BS.

  • @FH4Player6397
    @FH4Player6397 Місяць тому +7

    A "chaser" to me an massive petrol head/car guy: is the Toyota Chaser.

  • @bobbikirchharr3284
    @bobbikirchharr3284 Місяць тому +2

    I swear I love you & your channel!!! You make me laugh so much!!! It's nice to see things don't have to always be so heavy all the time especially in the world we're living in today!!! I hope you continue what your doing it is making a different!!! ❤

  • @Tattooedperson23
    @Tattooedperson23 Місяць тому +1

    I am a female to male transsexual, and I am 19 years old. I love your videos, Marcus. We transsexuals just want to live life without any issues. The woke trans community is insane.

  • @KatMcCollum
    @KatMcCollum Місяць тому +2

    no one is chasing that man 💀

  • @samsam2235
    @samsam2235 Місяць тому +1

    So glad we have you.

  • @RabidSnarf
    @RabidSnarf Місяць тому

    I appreciate your saneness. I'm just a regular old female who is attracted to lots of different types of people. I don't get offended if people don't like me 'that way' so I don't understand why people try to control the narrative of who can like who.

  • @SwankemasterSupreme
    @SwankemasterSupreme Місяць тому +4

    1:53 there’s a lot more fake ones than real ones I can tell you that.

  • @missychan63
    @missychan63 Місяць тому +3

    I absolutely adore you! ❤

  • @kazleith2025
    @kazleith2025 Місяць тому

    Wow you clear it all up in common sense and understanding and the confusion and wow thank you ❤

  • @SummerStars18
    @SummerStars18 Місяць тому

    You are just so real ALL of the time. Like you never hold back or try and justify the BS, you just tell it EXACTLY how it is and I seriously love you for that, you're amazing!

  • @richardlasch8400
    @richardlasch8400 Місяць тому +4

    They just live for drama. It seems to me it's all about attention.

  • @al0.1
    @al0.1 Місяць тому +1

    Omg 2 uploads in the same week, we are not worthy Marcus!!!❤❤❤

  • @s.c.7362
    @s.c.7362 28 днів тому

    Markie. The most reasonable, sane, intelligent, likable person on UA-cam. 👏👏👏

  • @EllanaWolf
    @EllanaWolf Місяць тому

    I really appreciate having people like you and Blaire who are able to give genuine insight into the trans World, beyond what these “activist” want us to see. Thank you Marcus ❤

  • @timnunley8358
    @timnunley8358 17 днів тому

    You are very intelligent and articulate. Refreshing! Keep it up young man!

  • @InvisibleSeductress
    @InvisibleSeductress Місяць тому +1

    I wish I could support you more. I will always give you views and likes. Your channel is very important to offset the crazy in a intellectual and easy to understand way. ❤

  • @Heroesfullyalive
    @Heroesfullyalive Місяць тому +2

    So according to these people the only ones right for them is the people that DON'T want them? How messed up can you be?

  • @briantbmoth6472
    @briantbmoth6472 Місяць тому +2

    He should be happy that someone is chasing him.😂

    • @MarischkaPolonskaya
      @MarischkaPolonskaya Місяць тому

      Exactly
      I wonder who on earth would ever chase this 🤷‍♀️

  • @parisTheDoll07
    @parisTheDoll07 Місяць тому

    1:44 - 2:13
    im trans and what you said here
    has to be one of the realest things i’ve heard lately

  • @FiddlerOnTheRoof2024
    @FiddlerOnTheRoof2024 25 днів тому

    Thank you and well said.

  • @seek_to_understand_
    @seek_to_understand_ Місяць тому +2

    Came on UA-cam to watch Ted Cruz rip into a Judicial Nominee. “Ooh, new Marcus video!” & here we are 😄

  • @TheBeerDad91
    @TheBeerDad91 Місяць тому +2

    My question is where is all this violence happening? And what kind of violence because now a days someone calling you something you dont like is violence. Sticks and stones bud.

  • @WatercolourTears
    @WatercolourTears Місяць тому +2

    You should look into a show called 'There's something about Miriam' it was a disaster.

  • @joyseegers5783
    @joyseegers5783 Місяць тому +1

    “ shhh, shut up “ bwhahhaa

  • @antongromek4180
    @antongromek4180 Місяць тому +1

    Actually it's quite simple; Real Trans- people are not whining and ßitching on social media...

  • @clogs4956
    @clogs4956 Місяць тому +1

    So many malicious Narcissists!

  • @GaelleFrance
    @GaelleFrance Місяць тому

    Great content as usual, and super funny! Thank you Marcus !

  • @salazar556
    @salazar556 Місяць тому +1

    It's so complicated because they want everyone to date them, but then they also call people a fetishizer if they express interest.

  • @szweety1684
    @szweety1684 Місяць тому

    I'm so glad that I grew up at a time when you dated someone because you were attracted to them. No 30 minute conversation about how either of you "identifies". Great video

  • @eslle7481
    @eslle7481 Місяць тому

    It's so refreshing to see your videos. I still can't fathom why there's only literally 4 or 5 trans people on youtube with common sense

  • @Amanda.Ray02
    @Amanda.Ray02 Місяць тому

    Love you mate… keep speaking the truth ❤

  • @sherrieschmidt6869
    @sherrieschmidt6869 Місяць тому +2

    I’m a redhead and I can tell immediately the way a man looks at me if he is truly attracted to me initially because of my hair and freckles. 😂

  • @emmapeel8163
    @emmapeel8163 Місяць тому +1

    4:22 .. "you wanna see my .."
    Jimminy Cricket!
    Ain't nobody asking for that!

  • @bluewolfwalking
    @bluewolfwalking Місяць тому

    “Shhhhh..shut up.” LOL!

  • @Catwitchtarot
    @Catwitchtarot Місяць тому

    "Guess what- that's how you view yourself." 💯

  • @WhoIsJaiK
    @WhoIsJaiK Місяць тому +1

    1:06 out of all things, attracted to only trans people is the least of the things I would think they would find a problem with.

  • @blademaster7879
    @blademaster7879 Місяць тому +1

    My first rule of socializing with people I dont know. Fruity colored hair = danger, stay away. 🤣

  • @unijer
    @unijer Місяць тому

    I appreciate your honesty, Im gay and older, Im so tired of the young ones making up pronouns and identity's, And I dont like them devaluing the true struggle of trans people, I have known two individuals in my life, and they are amazing, Trans is real, and I hate little girls claiming they are transmen without trying to be the true self they are pretending to be, I love my true Trans Sisters and Brothers, always be strong

  • @smokemercury
    @smokemercury Місяць тому +2

    Jesus has not been in the world for a whole 2000 years.
    And it really, REALLY shows.

  • @Benevolent_Timelord
    @Benevolent_Timelord Місяць тому

    They want the people who they claim made them miserable to be as miserable as them.

  • @Burkwood
    @Burkwood Місяць тому

    "Shhhhhhhh" hahaha love it.
    "It's better to wear shoes than to try to cover the world in leather."

  • @homesteadgamer1257
    @homesteadgamer1257 Місяць тому

    Exactly. There is a huge difference between what you're attracted to and a fetish.

  • @tattooboi1498
    @tattooboi1498 Місяць тому

    A chaser is someone who doesn’t want to date you. They only want to sleep with you but they don’t want to be seen out in public with you and don’t want you to meet their friends or family.

  • @FM-jo1jh
    @FM-jo1jh Місяць тому

    I find it sooo hypocritical when trans people say they won't date other trans people but then turn around and say not wanting to date a trans person is transphobic, vs when they do it because then its just a "preference".

  • @minttulatte
    @minttulatte Місяць тому +1

    Who is going to date them if they call everyone a chaser? This shit makes no sense. 😂

  • @briarrose-wu3dl
    @briarrose-wu3dl 19 днів тому

    Marcus delivering sick burns 2 seconds in!