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  • @zombreon6021
    @zombreon6021 3 роки тому +10

    My girlfriend of 2 years is blind it's interesting hearing other people's perspective. She's never been alone in her life

  • @kbethm8239
    @kbethm8239 4 роки тому +7

    Just found your channel today! Thank you so much. I am legally blind but I have a lot of sight and perfect color vision. I am married (47 years) and I am an artist, mom to four and Grandma to 7. My eyes don't look normal - they move and cross and I look very close at my work. I've been blessed to be surrounded by a wonderful husband and family. After 67 years, rude people still bother me. I am just buying my first cane to help with stability-a short wood red and white cane. That is how I found you.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому

      Hi! Welcome to the channel! It’s great to have you. It sounds like you have a lovely family. What kind of art do you do?

  • @michelleobrien
    @michelleobrien 4 роки тому +9

    You and Ethan reminded me so much of me and my boyfriend (we're both sighted), he's very shy and I'm very talkative and also expect more and more words from anything he says, so I truly appreciate Ethan making an effort for your viewers. I don't think he's an angel for marrying you or vice versa, I think you're perfect for each other. Love is about patience and understanding, I think you guys got both!!

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you for such a sweet comment! I do agree that we are perfect for each other, kind of like a puzzle piece that just fits together. And thank you for appreciating Ethan‘s effort in this video. I don’t think many people realize just how much courage it took for him to do this

  • @viper3636dr
    @viper3636dr 2 роки тому +7

    I am dating a visually impaired girl. I feel quite proud to stand by her hands down. She is a gorgeous person inside and out regardless if she can partially see and requires a cane. I agree dating her has also opened my eyes to the community more. I feel as though there is a purpose for this... which I may never know... but I am glad to be able to date this girl.... we'll see where things end up for us. Thank you for your advice and view points!!!

    • @jmadis1992
      @jmadis1992 2 роки тому

      Get tired of driving everywhere yet

  • @tabitas.2719
    @tabitas.2719 5 років тому +15

    I just got home (nearly 11 pm here, in Germany) and saw you'd uploaded and got excited. Also been married two years now! :) Don't know why I got excited about that! :D

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому +2

      Aw I love that you got excited that I uploaded! That’s awesome! And congratulations on being married two years!

    • @tabitas.2719
      @tabitas.2719 5 років тому +1

      @@CaylawithaC Thanks!

  • @zaorainstruments1198
    @zaorainstruments1198 2 роки тому +3

    Hey guys! Thanks so much for the video, i can relate to so many things with my own relationship. My gf of 2 years is almost blind (i have no sight issues) and at the end of the day we live 95% like other "normal" couples. I can't put words on how much i love her. She is the women of my life... I will propose to her in the upcoming weeks, just waiting for the ring to be finally ready 😁

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  2 роки тому

      Aw that’s so exciting! Hope the proposal goes well!

    • @MisterMehdi
      @MisterMehdi Рік тому

      how did it go?

  • @katherineschroeder7226
    @katherineschroeder7226 5 років тому +8

    What a nice video! So fun to have Ethan in a video!

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому

      Thank you! I’m glad you liked it

  • @LearnEnglishWithMatta
    @LearnEnglishWithMatta Рік тому

    Great video. My partner is experiencing the loss of vision and it’s refreshing to see others confronting similar issues. God bless 💪🏽

  • @BlindtoBillionaire
    @BlindtoBillionaire 5 років тому +1

    Cayla! I love it, so happy that you convinced him to join you for a video. This was a lot of fun, I enjoyed listening and getting to know more about both of you and your relationship! Thanks for another awesome video, you truly do have an amazing channel! :-) Have a great Sunday :-) Matt

    • @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483
      @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483 5 років тому

      Blind to Billionaire hey buddy how's the island and how is Corey because she did a great video the other day and I think she was generally trying to help you

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому

      Hey Matt! Thank you! Sorry I’m so late responding to this comment. I’m glad you liked the video. You and Corey were a big inspiration for me to want to do this because I love the videos you two do together

  • @kathi6844
    @kathi6844 4 роки тому +3

    I'm so happy for you, that you feel comfortable with your disability :) Thanks for your videos, they really help a lot!

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you!! I’m so glad my videos are helpful

  • @BlindtoBillionaire
    @BlindtoBillionaire 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Cayla! I thought I commented on this video a couple weeks ago, but maybe not. Either way, it was so much fun to meet your husband and to hear the discussion! This is a great video, and it appears that many other people feel the same way. Thank you, I hope both of you are having a great weekend! Matt

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому

      Hey Matt! I thought I remember seeing a comment from you, but it still good to hear from you again. I’m glad you liked the video. You and Corey were a huge inspiration for me wanting to make this video because I love the videos that you two do together

  • @origvincecarter3843
    @origvincecarter3843 3 роки тому +1

    I did a UA-cam search and found your video among many and THANK YOU (all caps)! I just started a relationship with a sight-impaired woman I haven't seen in 15 years. She was interested in me, back then, but I was reluctant to start a relationship because I'd just finished raising two sons with sickle cell disease and I didn't think I was up to the task to transition to an intimate relationship with someone with a disability. Almost a month ago, now, we found each other again through a phone personal ad! We didn't recognize each other until I gave my real name with my number on a second message to connect. This time, she stated, "I'm not going to lose you again", and she wanted to pick up where we left off, 15 years ago. Unfortunately, my sons both passed away 10 and 11 years ago, respectively, and a lot has happened in the 15 years since she and I last encountered. I'm "rested" from raising my sons and have have experienced things to better equip me than 15 years ago like finish college and grad school for better employment in my soon-to-be sixties. We were able to quickly become partners because of our age and history of knowing each other We both are very communicative and candid, wasting no time getting through the relationship "preliminaries!" I have the spiritual gift of discernment and ask tons of questions, while her sight impairment has enhanced her listening skills, tremendously, allowing her to "read" people precisely. She lost her sight completely by her 30s, so she is not as independent as Cayla, which is why I'm looking at UA-cam videos We both are people of faith and believe that it was not a mere coincidence that the Lord brought us back together. Sorry, this is so long, but your video was very helpful and I just had to share my two cents that's turned into five cents! LOL I'll be watching more of your channel, along with others! Thanks, again!

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  3 роки тому +1

      That’s such a sweet story. Thanks so much for sharing. I wish you both the best

  • @junayed.a
    @junayed.a 5 років тому +2

    honestly such a heartwarming, authentic couple, loved this video!
    do look forward to see ethan I’m future videos to come

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому +1

      Thank you so much! I’m glad you liked it. Hopefully I can talk him into doing some more videos

  • @mariamayub212
    @mariamayub212 3 роки тому +1

    Loved watching this video and you guys are so cute together! I've been visually impaired it since 2011 and while I haven't learned how to use a cane, it's very true that when you're familiar with your surroundings you can get really good for memorization. When I was going to college, I memorized where the pathways were versus the grass or I follow the groups of people because I knew that was the walkway until I got it right. I got so good at it that I remember classmates telling me I was lying about being blind since I also didn't have a cane with me. But it's just what you are familiar with really, when you don't know a surrounding and you can't tell what's under your feet or what's in front of you or you have it memorized then it's going to be more obvious that you have a vision impairment. Thank you for all the wonderful videos that you are doing!

  • @LEXPIX
    @LEXPIX 5 років тому +3

    Awesome, great insights and content. Good to educate and put a positive spin on blindness and low vision to the general public.

  • @muleman1701
    @muleman1701 5 років тому +6

    Y'all make a cute couple and I am glad he helps you like he does and accepts your vision and all the things that go with it. Hope to see this guy on future videos.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому +4

      Thank you! Yeah he is pretty great. Hopefully I can talk him into doing more videos

  • @FocusOnPersonalGrowth
    @FocusOnPersonalGrowth 5 років тому +4

    Both of you are amazing, keep up the great work Cayla!

  • @angelgiddens
    @angelgiddens 4 роки тому +7

    I know what you mean about being independent at home and needing help when you're out somewhere. I pretty much do everything a normal seeing person does at home and I take my stick everywhere unless my husband goes with me

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому +1

      Exactly! I almost feel like two different people in my house versus out in public

  • @Game_with_mike
    @Game_with_mike 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful couple! That’s all I can say. Your husband is truthful, caring and very loving. He is amazing! I appreciated your great interview questions. I am engaged to my fiancée, and we often deal with some of the issues you outlined. I also have very similar visual impairment, to you. Great video!

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  3 роки тому

      Thank you! And congratulations on your engagement

  • @AuthorSquared
    @AuthorSquared 3 роки тому

    Huge thanks for these videos. Being sighed, these have really helped give me insight into writing a visually impaired character. He is such a trooper to join in for a day!

  • @tinahawley09
    @tinahawley09 5 років тому +2

    Hi Cayla, my husband & I have been married 2 years as well. I'm legally blind, he's sighted so this video really resonated. Just a thought on the driving. We sometimes take the train to take the burden of driving off of him & we use Lyft when we go to parties so he can also drink and enjoy. 😊

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому

      Hi! Congratulations on two years of marriage! those are great ideas. Unfortunately we don’t really have any kind of public transportation where we live. And my husband doesn’t drink, so that’s never been an issue for us, but I think that’s a great idea for other couples so the sighted person doesn’t always have to be the responsible driver

  • @jannellmeagher638
    @jannellmeagher638 5 років тому +6

    Great job you, two! Love the smiles and giggles between you both! Would love to see you both doing more videos together. Awesome interactions! Hugs!

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому +1

      Thank you! I’m glad you liked it. Hopefully I can talk him into doing more videos

    • @jannellmeagher638
      @jannellmeagher638 5 років тому

      @@CaylawithaC Awwww. That would be great. You and him make such a lovely couple! Been married 24 years myself!

  • @karamelebony8109
    @karamelebony8109 2 роки тому

    Great video I am 54 and legally blind I am currently not in a relationship but I have two daughters and they are a great help they drive me around they read my mail when I need to know color recognition I will ask them my biggest fear the fact this is a inherited disease it is so great you have someone in your life to help you because it definitely takes patience to deal with someone who is disabled no matter what the disability is

  • @yavorlazarov6551
    @yavorlazarov6551 5 місяців тому

    You guys are an inspiration. Keep it up!

  • @itsrileylyn
    @itsrileylyn 4 роки тому +7

    Such a great video! As a wheelchair user, I love seeing interabled couples being represented!
    I realize this is off topic, but I love your thumbnails on your videos. What sort of editing do you use? As well as with your intro.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому

      Hi! Thank you! I really love hearing from people with other disabilities who watch my videos. My husband is actually a graphic designer and made my intro for me and does my thumbnails. He uses Photoshop to do the thumbnails and made my intro with After Effects

  • @chaiwajohnson
    @chaiwajohnson 2 роки тому

    I love the busts of positive energy from the Lady. Cute.

  • @ShayPeters0n
    @ShayPeters0n 5 років тому +6

    Thank you for this video! You two are so cute together! I really felt that when he mentioned being on vacation and describing it doesn't seem like enough or does it justice.... Though on the kind of funny side when me and my partner watch a tv and the scene is too dark and I tell him what's going on, I can't see anything he'll reply "I don't know, me either" lmao.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому +3

      Thank you! LOL, that’s funny. that reminds me of a few months back there was an episode of Game of Thrones that was really dark and all of these people were talking about how they couldn’t see and didn’t know what was going on, and I was just like welcome to my life

    • @ShayPeters0n
      @ShayPeters0n 5 років тому +1

      @@CaylawithaC Yes! there's so many scenes in Game of Thrones like that lol.

  • @japmkam
    @japmkam 5 років тому +1

    Great video. I am sighted and married to a woman with Ushers Type II. We are going on 30 years of marriage and all of those things you mention are spot on. True, being the only driver and a one car family is the hardest thing, but we get to spend more money on bicycles. We ride tandem bikes - best thing we have ever done. Keep up the videos, they are all terrific. Can you do more on eating and cooking? Anyone here have any tips?

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому

      Thank you! Wow 30 years, that’s quite the accomplishment. Good for you guys! and I will definitely take into account that suggestion. Thank you

  • @marcelinastanton3346
    @marcelinastanton3346 3 роки тому

    Your experience is very much like mine. I have been married to my cited husband for 17 years. I am blind. The difference is that I have a guide dog as well. My husband is a dog lover so that helps thanks. Wonderful video!

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  3 роки тому +1

      That’s awesome! Good thing he is a dog lover. My husband loves animals, so if I ever did get a guide dog I think he would like it

    • @marcelinastanton3346
      @marcelinastanton3346 3 роки тому

      @@CaylawithaC cool! He sounds like he’s a wonderful guy. Of course I know very well that things are not perfect in marriage. It has nothing to do with us being blind and then being cited! Keep up the good work!

  • @mattbarker7739
    @mattbarker7739 4 роки тому

    Great video, story, especially the bloopers at the end ;)

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you! I like the bloopers too. Sometimes I go back and watch them if I’m having a bad day and they cheer me up

  • @britnigallina5768
    @britnigallina5768 5 років тому

    Awesome video!! Nice to meet Ethan too. Have a great night guys

  • @sajanagurung5869
    @sajanagurung5869 5 років тому +2

    Nice video👍
    I wish everyone one of us with visual impairment would get such understanding spouse.
    God bless your relationship♥️♥️

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому +1

      Thank you! ❤️ I also wish everyone in the blind community can find a caring and supportive spouse

    • @marvinabigby5509
      @marvinabigby5509 5 років тому

      My husband left me when my vision started failimg.i have an autoimmune disease and in danger of losing both eyes.

    • @sajanagurung5869
      @sajanagurung5869 5 років тому +2

      @@marvinabigby5509 I am so sorry for what you have been going through. That scares me too. My prayers are with you🙏 stay strong♥️

  • @rafaeltorovip
    @rafaeltorovip 5 років тому

    Nice video. My wife is sighted person and I am legally blind. For sure a relationship in which one person has a disability brings attention and a lot of questions, from the must simple to answer ones to someones that sometimes pass the line. People are curious and we need to educate them.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому

      I agree, it does come with a lot of questions. My husband also gets a lot of people saying “I’m so sorry“ when he says that his wife is blind

    • @rafaeltorovip
      @rafaeltorovip 5 років тому

      Cayla with a C Sorry for what? Is so sad knowing that out there still people with that kind of poor mentality. But I know exactly what are you going through. Keep doing your awesome job here in UA-cam. I wish the best for you both.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому +1

      Exactly! Thank you. It’s always great to hear from you, and I wish you and your wife the best too

  • @darquequeen2323
    @darquequeen2323 5 років тому +2

    Hello Ethan, nice to meet you! 😀

  • @cristobalavendano9825
    @cristobalavendano9825 5 років тому

    Love the video.
    Thanks for making such good and down to earth content

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate hearing that

  • @mrsteresa1999
    @mrsteresa1999 4 роки тому

    I enjoyed your video very much. You are an adorable couple. I was married at the age of 19 and divorced it 35, raised my three boys as a single mom for 16 years. My boys are all in their twenties now and I remarried almost 4 years ago.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому +1

      mrsteresa1999 thank you so much! I bet you really had your hands full being a visually impaired single mom of three boys

  • @iamamo2min595
    @iamamo2min595 4 роки тому +1

    All I can say GOD bless you both

  • @melanies.6139
    @melanies.6139 5 років тому

    Y’all are lovely together. Great video!

  • @glitchlife4639
    @glitchlife4639 2 роки тому

    For me, the worst thing about dating a blind person. I have strong attachments to places rather than people and my way of showing love is to share the places that are special to me with my person. It is heartbreaking that we cant have that shared experience and while I adore my person it still makes me really sad that I cannot share that deep connection and love.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  2 роки тому

      I’m not sure I understand. Why can’t you share the places that you love with your person?

  • @yaredc5222
    @yaredc5222 4 роки тому

    I've been talking to a legally blind girl for over 2 months now. She's sweet, she lives in another state. I'm going to visit her next month, I'm excited

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому

      That’s awesome! I hope things work out between the two of you

  • @jj4christ
    @jj4christ 5 років тому

    Great job, just subscribed and love your channel. Was told I may go blind loosing my Peritheal vision and love seeing you as a couple.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому

      Thank you so much! Welcome to the channel. Glad to have you

  • @reuventeller6344
    @reuventeller6344 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this video. Very inspiring. I met a very nice blind woman. We both like each other. I'm in a very tight knit community. There will be a lot of stares and attention but i don't really care.

  • @carolholmes9000
    @carolholmes9000 5 років тому

    Awesome video! Ethan did great! I love the love you two share!

  • @apparasusrishwan375
    @apparasusrishwan375 3 роки тому +1

    Wow, so lovely and pleasant watching you both.

  • @evelynchancellor6429
    @evelynchancellor6429 Рік тому

    Cayla, we all respect ✊🏿. I think your husband is lucky to have you because of who you are. The true disability in marriage, if any, is marrying wrong partner.

  • @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483
    @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483 5 років тому +2

    I find this video that you've offloaded it interesting because like blind to billionaire is a good friend of mine and Corey you basically give insight to your marriage with your husband who is cited and that's a good thing because people need to know that blind people don't just stay blind people that it all winning streak more or less so thank you Kayla

  • @priyachand4624
    @priyachand4624 Рік тому

    Congratulations both of you

  • @countysheepdog55
    @countysheepdog55 3 роки тому

    *AWESOME VIDEO*
    I just met a blind woman through a mutual friend but we've only spoken over the cell phone by text. ( She's in another state)
    All kinds of thoughts and questions ran through my mind and I just did a search this morning and found your video.
    *Thank you so much for the valuable information*

    • @countysheepdog55
      @countysheepdog55 3 роки тому

      One question I have "is it okay for me to ask her for a photograph?

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  3 роки тому +2

      That’s awesome! I wish you both the best of luck. And yes I think it would be OK to ask her for a picture. She can always say no if she doesn’t feel comfortable with it

  • @allaboutmycats454
    @allaboutmycats454 4 роки тому

    Marriage is a two-way street. Thank you guys!

  • @tp06
    @tp06 2 роки тому

    I'm VI and though I don't use a screen reader, sighted people think I move around the screen too quickly with screen magnification on.

  • @veronicaotero4204
    @veronicaotero4204 5 років тому

    Loved it you guys are so cute together, God Bless and I look forward to future videos👍🏻👍🏻

  • @anodysseyofsteven1985
    @anodysseyofsteven1985 5 років тому

    HI CAYLA AND ETHAN.
    NICE TO FINALLY MEET YOU ETHAN AND YOU DID A GREAT JOB ON THIS VIDEO. AS ALWAYS CAYLA, IT IS GREAT TO SEE YOU TOO. THANKS FOR ANOTHER GREAT VIDEO. A LOT OF WHAT YOU GUYS TALKED ABOUT ARE PRETTY SIMILAR TO MY WIFE AND I. AND LIKE YOU SAID, NOT ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE PERFECT AND WE ALL HAVE OUR ISSUES WHETHER WE ARE SIGHTED OR BLIND.
    I AM JUST NOW BEGINNING TO USE VOICE OVER AND IT HAS BEEN PRETTY AWESOME TO USE. I JUST DON'T HAVE IT TALK AS FAST AS OTHERS AS I CAN NOT UNDERSTAND VERY WELl SINCE I AM HEARING IMPAIRED ALSO. I AM HOPING THAT AS TIMES GOES ON I WILL INVEST INTO AN APPLE WATCH ALSO.
    HOW ARE THINGS GOING WITH CLASSES AND INTERNSHIP? I BET YOUR NAILING IT!!! :)!! TAKE CARE YOU TWO AND THANKS FOR ANOTHER WONDERFUL VIDEO AND IT IS ALWAYS GREAT TO SEE YOU. HUGS AND LOVE!!

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому +1

      Thank you! It’s always good to hear from you. it sounds like you and your wife have a pretty good relationship. Voiceover definitely takes some getting used to, and I can understand how it would be extra challenging if you are hearing impaired as well. School and everything is going well, thank you for asking

  • @thestevenorman
    @thestevenorman 5 років тому

    Ethan and Cayla, great job! Love it!

  • @theblindlife
    @theblindlife 5 років тому +1

    Great job guys!

  • @mummum699
    @mummum699 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Cayla, you're such a pretty soul...🥰
    I'm 19 and from India. I've boyfriend with RP, I do love him a lot, we're together from last two years... He's also 19 and has lost 30-35% of his vision till now. Though I'm a little worried about his future vision and about our future baby cause it's a genetic problem... For this kind of uncertainties my parents are not totally supporting me to be with him. His parents are normal, they don't have this disease but his great grandpa had this problem... His cousins and family members are not going through this but one of his aunt has this and she has lost her night vision at the approx age of 40-50. I hope nothing will be wrong with us... You guys are so adorable together wish you a happy married life... 🥰❤

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому +1

      Hi! Thank you so much for your sweet comment. I understand you worrying about your boyfriends vision loss and your future baby. Passing my RP onto my kids is something that I worried about a lot until I recently found out that mine will not be passed on. I wish you and your boyfriend the best of luck ❤️

    • @mummum699
      @mummum699 4 роки тому

      @@CaylawithaC my pleasure mam ❤🥰

  • @aryanrobben8334
    @aryanrobben8334 4 роки тому

    Lots of love Cayla!

  • @travisjones1593
    @travisjones1593 5 років тому +1

    You are amazing keep up the great work

  • @sidharthballavmohanty3340
    @sidharthballavmohanty3340 4 роки тому +1

    God bless you both❤️

  • @lovedailystudios.7217
    @lovedailystudios.7217 2 роки тому

    Ethan you did great mate 👍🏾

  • @Federico-zm1ym
    @Federico-zm1ym 2 роки тому

    That's great and touch other modern day and my hair and relationship

  • @randaalamin4250
    @randaalamin4250 5 років тому

    Amaaazing cupple. Love the vidio sooo much. God bless you.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому

      Thank you!! I’m so glad you liked it ❤️

    • @randaalamin4250
      @randaalamin4250 5 років тому

      @@CaylawithaC ❤❤❤

  • @joshuabrande2417
    @joshuabrande2417 4 роки тому

    Communication is even more important. How do you work around the lack of being able to see physical gestures and body language?

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому +1

      Joshua Brande that’s a good question. I think we are both very good at verbal communication, and Ethan knows that I can’t pick up on visual cues so he has gotten used to being verbal. I also think we are very in tune with each other, so a lot of times I can just feel his emotions. Like I know if he is sad or angry by just sensing it in the way he is acting or the tone of his voice

  • @english_bae
    @english_bae 5 років тому

    What an inspiring story thank you for sharing with us

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому

      Thank you! I’m glad you liked it ❤️

  • @LegallyBlindGeek
    @LegallyBlindGeek 5 років тому

    Good stuff, be well and enjoy all the little things...

  • @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483
    @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483 5 років тому

    I don't like being in a big group of people that have disabilities because people assume oh you have the same disability just down but you're naturally Aldi or you have a special impairment and people assume things where as I rather be on my own

  • @gokulkrishna1109
    @gokulkrishna1109 5 років тому +3

    Lucky Lovely Cute Beautiful Couples. God bless you with lot of love and happiness in your life. Just thank God for giveing a beautiful Gift called Life.😀😀😀

  • @BraillestoneAFS
    @BraillestoneAFS 3 роки тому

    It's all about letting go ... though I'll never not wish our 23-y-o son, also named Ethan, could see (for many reasons your Ethan mentioned) one of the best things in my life was being married to someone who thinks the same way I did about letting go of desperately wanting sight. (If you're always chasing something you'll likely never have, you'll probably miss the things you could be enjoying!) And, yeah, our Ethan is a *good* car companion, too! ; )

    • @BraillestoneAFS
      @BraillestoneAFS 3 роки тому

      (Btw, I'm a voiceover actor/narrator - basically have been acting my whole life, and doing descriptive video for most of Ethan's!)

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  3 роки тому

      That’s definitely a good perspective to have. And that sounds like such an awesome job to do

  • @carolinepoll7016
    @carolinepoll7016 2 роки тому

    Hi there were the same,I'm also leeclly blind, and I'm from a small island, in the nation of microneia.

  • @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483
    @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483 5 років тому

    That happened to my link worker one time where he had someone come out to him who is very religious has said you're a saint for looking after people who are blind and I she politely pointed out it's my job it's no different because some people think all you're looking after a blind person it's it's great it's deadly but not sure reality it's a job that he had so I can kind of get what your husband is coming from

  • @vishnuptr
    @vishnuptr 2 роки тому

    You guys are such a cool couple

  • @wampastompa6434
    @wampastompa6434 3 роки тому

    When your guiding her do you use "hand jesters " like grab her arm to stop, or wait, or lil things like so she don't step in a man hole. Lol. Maybe grab her wrist for other signals? Touch an elbow to slow down or things like that

  • @zarapelfree2553
    @zarapelfree2553 5 років тому

    Awesome video!

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому +1

      Thank you! I’m glad you liked it

  • @brian.ayzenberg1362
    @brian.ayzenberg1362 3 роки тому

    Baruch Hashem and mazal tov!!! Wondering what it is like to date with Jewish dating when I am legally blind within orthodox life what a girl may think of me in judaism!!!

  • @wampastompa6434
    @wampastompa6434 3 роки тому

    Good job bud, you guys are kool. 😁(smile face shows bright white teeth)👍

  • @WANG-GAMER
    @WANG-GAMER 2 роки тому +1

    Best couple great 👍

  • @ostavastora4693
    @ostavastora4693 2 роки тому

    you can do a perfect dark souls 3 cosplay

  • @tomhocutt2013
    @tomhocutt2013 2 роки тому

    I so want to go to Hawaii

  • @brian.ayzenberg1362
    @brian.ayzenberg1362 3 роки тому

    BTW Ethan is that a kippah

  • @bevhynes2709
    @bevhynes2709 11 місяців тому

    Hi cayla
    Maybe u know to get a guide dog
    So u can go out
    I am blind and I am guide dog soon

  • @gbv757
    @gbv757 5 років тому

    awesome!

  • @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483
    @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483 5 років тому

    And people get confused that are you independent or do you need assistance all the time because they're percent with Kayla and I don't think you're useless I don't think you can't function on your own you seem like a very careful person like a function on your own and that needs to be noted

  • @kittyboi6936
    @kittyboi6936 5 років тому

    So cute😆

  • @rebeccakalyani2486
    @rebeccakalyani2486 4 роки тому

    You guys are a cute couple. Have you heard of Aira? If you haven’t or have not signed up for a plan and want some free minutes let me know. I can give you my code for that. Anyways, it might help you to be even more independent. They can help with online shopping, telling you if your Lyft or Uber is around or even if you are trying to match things clothing wise.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому

      Thank you! I have heard of them but haven’t really had the need for that service. Thank you for the offer though

  • @MaxAngor
    @MaxAngor 5 років тому +1

    I wish I could convince my wife to do something like this. Blind husband and whatnot.
    Edit: Biggest misconception question. My thinking "Oh god, he's going to do the whole "I have to take care of her" thing. Please no."
    Busts out the savior trope. I like your husband! He's as sharp as you are, Cayla! That trope never gets mentioned and it really should. My wife gets the "settled on" trope sometimes too.
    Edit2: And then you loop around to the caretaker trope anyway, lmao.
    Edit3: Just because he's not disabled doesn't mean he's not as damaged and bugshit crazy as you are :P The way I put it to the wife and to people who ask: Everyone is crazy. The trick is to find someone with whom your crazies match.
    Edit4: Best thing about having a blind wife? I SAW THAT GRIN, ETHAN!

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому

      Maybe you will eventually convince her. It took me over a year to convince Ethan. And yes, I totally agree

  • @cprcomputer7688
    @cprcomputer7688 5 років тому +2

    Cayla my situation is a little similar but my wife gets annoyed sometimes bc I can't drive eitger... by the way what is your email address? I have a story for you

    • @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483
      @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483 5 років тому +1

      CPR Computer well in my opinion your wife shouldn't hold that against you because you can't drive however there are Mojo transportation but depends where you live in America so maybe that's something you should think about

    • @cprcomputer7688
      @cprcomputer7688 5 років тому

      The complication is that I stay a couple miles away from the county line all of my docs are over that county line and the mobile services won't come out there

  • @koenwillems6309
    @koenwillems6309 4 роки тому

    You are beautyfull whitout your glasses to

  • @joshuarhine3965
    @joshuarhine3965 3 роки тому

    Im legally blind 🙈

  • @danabelden4492
    @danabelden4492 5 років тому

    Lol I'm not a back set driver either

  • @wampastompa6434
    @wampastompa6434 3 роки тому

    I have a date next week sorry. I'm drunk.

  • @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483
    @jordanmahonytheblindworld8483 5 років тому

    Ethan seems night

  • @mariaslife790
    @mariaslife790 5 років тому

    This is just a joke but why can’t your husband stand behind you because he does he said he likes to stand in the background lol

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  5 років тому

      Lol. He is actually over a foot taller than me, so even if he does stand behind me everyone can still see him lol

  • @wampastompa6434
    @wampastompa6434 3 роки тому

    Ah I don't like stairers

  • @rockys6661
    @rockys6661 2 роки тому

    He looks very tired

  • @wampastompa6434
    @wampastompa6434 3 роки тому

    Don't be shy f em

  • @ashishboranpaul8961
    @ashishboranpaul8961 2 роки тому

    I also want to blind wife. Ofcourse marring a blind women belongs to russian

  • @Federico-zm1ym
    @Federico-zm1ym 2 роки тому

    In you and turn your husband to try to come up and more videos of yours you should turn your husband too come out and more videos how do you take a shower or a bath if you're blind that's my question

  • @ragnarlothbrok1147
    @ragnarlothbrok1147 4 роки тому

    SO, SHES NOT BLIND.

    • @CaylawithaC
      @CaylawithaC  4 роки тому +2

      How about you take a look around my channel and then reevaluate this statement.

  • @ShambhuTechnical-jk5eo
    @ShambhuTechnical-jk5eo Рік тому

    Lov viddo sm2

  • @wampastompa6434
    @wampastompa6434 3 роки тому

    Nervous

  • @nancy-ann-ciancee5127
    @nancy-ann-ciancee5127 2 роки тому

    You met on a Blind date? Lol jk.