@@divineariestarot558 took a break from my friends and focused on loving me. Got to put yourself first. Love yourself to much that you enjoy your own company. Love your own vibes and people will feel it. Got to put all that energy on you
Had a devastating friendship break up that caused me so much trauma, distress, and mental health late last year. This friend group..we would hangout every weekend to drink and eat and party together too. After the break up, I went ghost. I detached from everyone and everything that was toxic to me. The drinking and eating unhealthy foods every weekend into the late nights.. unhealthy relationships. I went completely ghost. Deleted my social medias and dettatched from everyone. Just completely shut off my social life basically. And started focusing on me. Spending time alone, and going to the gym. Eating healthy everyday and enjoying my personal hobbies. Today I lost 40 pounds :) I say everyhting that happened to me was worth the peace I have right now. 🎉❤
changed my number, deleted my socials, started eating healthier, drinking more water. it’s only been a week but i feel so fucking good. a weight lifted off my shoulders fr
@@CheyBluexoxo I deleted my socials too awhile back, I’ve been thinking about changing my number too I think you just gave me confirmation to do that! I’ve also been trying to eat healthier and get back in the gym.
Dealing with a narcissist and I feel so mentally drained so exhausted I'm so unhappy we argue all the time after this video iv come to a decision to just end things & move on with my life.
@@AbbieLena No im still sad 😞 just taking one day at a time drowning myself into work and doin therapy and grieving group therapy. He also keeps looking at my tik tok and i dont know why when he has moved on and seeing someone else which is hurtful cause he moved on quick as hell i guess he never valued me or our relationship its really sad im tired of crying everyday
@@ShanitaBartlettchange your perspective this is all for a reason it’s all for your greater good. This is for you to do the inner work heal your trauma and attract healthy people in your life ❤
Currently going through a “death” (as a Scorpio) and detaching and going ghost is literally the strategy I said I would take going into this rebirth 😅never clicked so fast lol
i'm healing from an 11 year relationship and 6 of those years i was married. i can't wait to see what God has in store for me.. taking it one day at a time.. this glow up is now loading lol.
While ghosting work on your body, mind and spirit! Take long walks by the beach, eat healthy most of the time and read good books you like, take a yoga class, martial arts or whatever your into! People will eventually be blowing up your phone.. keep ghosting until your good ❤🥂💪👻✊🙌
Moving on & ghosting is not the same thing ✌🏽 stop finding any way to keep attaching yourself to someone's journey. They are not ghosting you they are living their life without you in it. Get a clue & grow up
You're right. I quitted social media since 3 weeks.. I was getting contents suggested that reminded of me my current situation and I was getting triggered agin and again. Now I have a lot more peace now.
When I tell you that you posted this right on time, I mean you are RIGHT ON TIME!!! I love everything you talk about, your vibe, and how real you are. Thank you❤
best decision i've ever made. i always put everyone before me and had so many people saying i needed to do something with my life and tak care of myself. i did exactly that and all of a sudden, those same people said i'm disrespectful for just going ghost and not giving an explanation to my decisions. so oh, all of a sudden, i'm the bad person when i'm doing what i need to and i'm finally being selfish. just let people be and if they paint you to be the villain in in their story, LET THEM. i had the most friends/people in my life when i was the worst version of myself and that says a lot. you owe nobody anything but you owe it to yourself to do better and grow as a person. keep a strong faith and maintain a relationship with God and all will fall into place. continue moving onward and upward
as a scorpio moon and sun this is so fricking relatable right now, i NEEDED to hear this. i struggle with anxious attachment and have an insane time being detached from situations… thank you so much for this babes.
Thank you for this!! This is so soo timely! As someone who is currently in a period of being overly stimulated by work and life in general and constantly feeling overwhelmed, it’s really true that I am at a point where I’m just waiting for that someone/something to make me instantly feel good and at peace and that is not healthy or sustaining at all. Being able to detach and going back to your self is really important. I do hope that I’ll be able to practice and do this wholeheartedly and do/live better moving forward.
Wow I love this thank you for this because I’ve been going through trial and tribulations figuring out who I am learning how to get myself back up and happy again ❤
This is pure bestfriends energy!! The way she takes us along whenever she's going to do something good for herself ! You inspire me sm elicia. I hope you have a good day!! Loving the topics lately!
Whoa it’s like if you read my mind cus I fall back into “deteriorating” habits after an event and yesterday I deactivated insta so I can reset. This is a sign that it’s time to get back up 😌
Hey Girl, I just happened to come to this video, and that line of yours really helped me, “I’ll spiral on this later, something will happen or I’ll take care of it during the weekend!” It helped to bring myself back and focus on the task at hand and be productive than to overthink and end up with nothing accomplished . Thanks❤️
A lot of creators are ignorant and obnoxious but I love your energy and your content. Everything you said I can resonate with and really needed to hear this currently. Thank you
I literally found this video today and ive been in such a dark depressive state and your words literally actually got to me and caught my attention like it was a message here. ❤❤❤
I am so glad UA-cam algorithm lead me to you. I’m a new subscriber. And you are better than my therapist. You explain things so well. And as if you know what I need to hear. Thank you for existing. You’re an angel on earth ❤
I’ve been off ig for 5+ weeks and I’m so happy with it. Between that my breakup with family, friends, my ex I just need peace! I’m enjoying this time for myself it’s needed.
I was always detached in the physical level but I'm not detached on the mental level and I think mentally detaching is more important than physical because no matter how much you show you don't care your energy still speaking for you.
Idk why I can't let this friend go. She is so sweet to me & fun. However, she's never there for me. She lied about a boy being a creep because she didn't think he was enough for me. I cried in her laps for months. She left me hanging to go party when I was suicidal. She dated a drug dealer and was offended I didn't wanna chill with him. She has been acting hot and cold with me lately. She's so confusing people at one time thought she was in love with me. She didn't want to introduce me to her boyfriend unless I stayed in my car bc she didn't want him to see my figure. She's gotten in w a wild crowd. She seems harder now. Behaves like defensive if she starts to cry. We are both young and I feel like she's treated me better than my family. Idk, I'll be completely alone if I cut her off. I was thinking of pulling away and detaching tho. So, I appreciate the video.
You know what to do. Give yourself the time and follow your intuition. Doesn’t mean you need to dissolve the love that you might have for her, but I would suggest nourishing and strengthening the love that you have for yourself. Also, in my opinion reading this comment doesn’t seem like the situations you’re in are in any way healthy for you. Use this time to learn more about your attachment to those people, places and things that do not serve you.
Same boat I’m done being there for her she’s not there for me Only thinks of herself and her selfish ways. I need new friends or nobody.toxic friends gotta go focusing on myself way more again Do things alone, read books, grow, go on walks and learn to let people go that aren’t good anymore. I’m trying
Thanks very much. I am not in situations that serve me whatsoever. I appreciate your advice to me. It was v thoughtful. I didn't realize I could still love from afar and I don't have to separate w hate. Hoping I will make new friends and find a chosen family. I definitely will be alone othe than God after I cut her off. Those around me told me I shouldn't cut her off after she betrayed me bc she cried... I said isn't that like a cheater crying tho... like u said I need to listen to ME for once
I'm very sorry. It's very painful. Maybe we can just have aquitanced bc we do need a network sadly. We can keep going and find more fulfilling experiences !!!
instagram does so much trigger in my life. decided to delete the app, it’s hard bc i still want to log in and peep but i’m getting better at not doing it and putting the focus back onto myself ❤
Hey lil mama 👋🏽 I’m literally eating my yogurt bowl while watching this 😂 detach from anything that makes you feel like shit…the meat and potatoes statement!!👍🏽 enjoy your weekend!!
I thought it was me only, but I lose appetite too🎉❤ it’s amazing when u change some little things and lose weight without noticing. I have lost 36 pounds in one year without excercise and diet 🎉🎉🎉 now im motivated to do so!!
thanks babe! I really don't have a list, it's the things I eat on a regular basis💗 I just go based on what I want to make each week but what I showed is technically my list!
I’m going to take a break from social media and spend as much time I can with my son and sisters. I need to regain my energy again I lost so much of myself dealing with a guy that wasn’t even serious about me and would throw me mixed signals
I need this cause Chile I'm depressed a bit, My health needs improvement and here I am scrolling on instagram and Facebook. I need a job too a regular job I'm definitely considering going away for some time.
Went ghost from everyone for 8 months. I have so much peace joy and wisdom. Mental and spiritual growth is on point.
Got the thought to go the rest of the year and just focus on my spiritual and mental and physical
what did u do in the mean while as u were ghost
@@divineariestarot558 deleted social media. Stayed in the gym and church. Found my peace. And lots of rest
@@divineariestarot558 took a break from my friends and focused on loving me. Got to put yourself first. Love yourself to much that you enjoy your own company. Love your own vibes and people will feel it. Got to put all that energy on you
@@divineariestarot558I wanna know too
I literally stop scrolling on IG and stopped posting for the last 2 months I think... my energy is so much heightened and my life more INTENTIONAL
looooove that!!!!!
It’s only been 3 days since I deactivated instagram and it has done WONDERS for my intentions too!
Never quit making these videos, you are wonderful to listen to.
Wow, thank you ☺️
honestly! Your aura is amazing your helping so much, new subscriber❤
@@xoxolottalove4d ahhh thank you so much 🥺
Had a devastating friendship break up that caused me so much trauma, distress, and mental health late last year. This friend group..we would hangout every weekend to drink and eat and party together too. After the break up, I went ghost. I detached from everyone and everything that was toxic to me. The drinking and eating unhealthy foods every weekend into the late nights.. unhealthy relationships. I went completely ghost. Deleted my social medias and dettatched from everyone. Just completely shut off my social life basically. And started focusing on me. Spending time alone, and going to the gym. Eating healthy everyday and enjoying my personal hobbies. Today I lost 40 pounds :)
I say everyhting that happened to me was worth the peace I have right now. 🎉❤
"Attached to things outside of ourselves" Period ✨
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Scorpios unite on this video because the way I will detach and fall all the way back to later come back better than ever!!!!
YESSSS!!!
changed my number, deleted my socials, started eating healthier, drinking more water. it’s only been a week but i feel so fucking good. a weight lifted off my shoulders fr
@@CheyBluexoxo I deleted my socials too awhile back, I’ve been thinking about changing my number too I think you just gave me confirmation to do that! I’ve also been trying to eat healthier and get back in the gym.
Does it also apply for scorpio moons? Because i def feel this but go halfway sometimes
@@CoffeeCrashedMal I feel like it does if you have Scorpio in your big 3!
Dealing with a narcissist and I feel so mentally drained so exhausted I'm so unhappy we argue all the time after this video iv come to a decision to just end things & move on with my life.
Very exhausting he broke up with me and im so depressed cant win either way 🤦♀️
How are you doing after this angel? Xx
@@ShanitaBartlettare you okay?🥺
@@AbbieLena No im still sad 😞 just taking one day at a time drowning myself into work and doin therapy and grieving group therapy. He also keeps looking at my tik tok and i dont know why when he has moved on and seeing someone else which is hurtful cause he moved on quick as hell i guess he never valued me or our relationship its really sad im tired of crying everyday
@@ShanitaBartlettchange your perspective this is all for a reason it’s all for your greater good. This is for you to do the inner work heal your trauma and attract healthy people in your life ❤
the way that this came at just the right time 🎀
🥹🤍🤍🤍
Sameee
Currently going through a “death” (as a Scorpio) and detaching and going ghost is literally the strategy I said I would take going into this rebirth 😅never clicked so fast lol
Hahaha omg! I’m a Scorpio too, so I feel that babes 🤣🤍 this rebirth is about to be…. 🔥🔥
Fellow scorpio here and same!!! On the verge of a huge shift… I feel it!!
Scorpio here & I love this for us 💕
another scorpio here i feel it
i'm healing from an 11 year relationship and 6 of those years i was married. i can't wait to see what God has in store for me.. taking it one day at a time.. this glow up is now loading lol.
While ghosting work on your body, mind and spirit! Take long walks by the beach, eat healthy most of the time and read good books you like, take a yoga class, martial arts or whatever your into! People will eventually be blowing up your phone.. keep ghosting until your good ❤🥂💪👻✊🙌
Moving on & ghosting is not the same thing ✌🏽 stop finding any way to keep attaching yourself to someone's journey. They are not ghosting you they are living their life without you in it. Get a clue & grow up
You're right. I quitted social media since 3 weeks.. I was getting contents suggested that reminded of me my current situation and I was getting triggered agin and again. Now I have a lot more peace now.
I’m proud of you 😇
When I tell you that you posted this right on time, I mean you are RIGHT ON TIME!!! I love everything you talk about, your vibe, and how real you are. Thank you❤
Ahhh!!! Thank you so so much for vibing with meeeee 🥹✨
So good.. I had to watch this twice. Its been heavy on my heart to go ghost. This was definitely conformation. 👏
Ahhh im so glad you enjoyed 😘
divine timing ❤️🩹
Love to hear it 😍
best decision i've ever made. i always put everyone before me and had so many people saying i needed to do something with my life and tak care of myself. i did exactly that and all of a sudden, those same people said i'm disrespectful for just going ghost and not giving an explanation to my decisions. so oh, all of a sudden, i'm the bad person when i'm doing what i need to and i'm finally being selfish. just let people be and if they paint you to be the villain in in their story, LET THEM. i had the most friends/people in my life when i was the worst version of myself and that says a lot. you owe nobody anything but you owe it to yourself to do better and grow as a person. keep a strong faith and maintain a relationship with God and all will fall into place. continue moving onward and upward
as a scorpio moon and sun this is so fricking relatable right now, i NEEDED to hear this. i struggle with anxious attachment and have an insane time being detached from situations… thank you so much for this babes.
Aww babe I feel youuuuu!!! I’m a Scorpio, I’m so glad this video was able to help you 🥺💞
Thank you for this!! This is so soo timely!
As someone who is currently in a period of being overly stimulated by work and life in general and constantly feeling overwhelmed, it’s really true that I am at a point where I’m just waiting for that someone/something to make me instantly feel good and at peace and that is not healthy or sustaining at all.
Being able to detach and going back to your self is really important. I do hope that I’ll be able to practice and do this wholeheartedly and do/live better moving forward.
You’ve got this 🥹💞
We're done ...❤ peace over pretenders ,so glad your video popped up ,love to you from Nova Scotia Canada
Wow I love this thank you for this because I’ve been going through trial and tribulations figuring out who I am learning how to get myself back up and happy again ❤
I’m proud of you 🥹
This is pure bestfriends energy!! The way she takes us along whenever she's going to do something good for herself ! You inspire me sm elicia. I hope you have a good day!! Loving the topics lately!
Omg thank you babe 🥹🤍💞
so real. definitely in this phase of my life bur still trynna balance the whole content creator lifestyle with it.
Whoa it’s like if you read my mind cus I fall back into “deteriorating” habits after an event and yesterday I deactivated insta so I can reset. This is a sign that it’s time to get back up 😌
You got this 🥹🥹
@@eliciagoguen thank you Elicia 🥹❤️
Why is this so me😭 I deactivated Friday and it felt amazing
Oh how I rushed
I love YOUUUUU 🥹
My heart skipped a beat when I saw the title.
Oh my god 100% this video is speaking life into me 😮can’t believe i caught it two months later!!! Thank you for this video!!!! ❤
I been doing this unintentionally lately.. I needed this! Thank you
Perfect timing. I'm doing this exactly right now! TY for this!!!❤👍
Thanks bestie… this was exactly what I needed to hear this morning. I’m trying to detach and your advice definitely helped.
😭🙌🏽 I'm so glad I clicked on this video cause I needed to hear this. Thank you for making this video 🥹
Yes, ghosting is perf time for focusing on self. Just gotta stay disciplined.
Hey Girl, I just happened to come to this video, and that line of yours really helped me, “I’ll spiral on this later, something will happen or I’ll take care of it during the weekend!”
It helped to bring myself back and focus on the task at hand and be productive than to overthink and end up with nothing accomplished .
Thanks❤️
This is something I've been thinking about doing and thank you so much for putting it into words
You are very welcome 🤍
A lot of creators are ignorant and obnoxious but I love your energy and your content. Everything you said I can resonate with and really needed to hear this currently. Thank you
I appreciate you, thank you! 💕
But plz talk abt her skin as welll....she is looking like angel😭😭😭😭🥺
Next video coming out.. 👀🥹✨
Yes she's perfect for Drake & Akim Ravariere. Who gets the girl? Beware she has no songs to steal ✌🏽
I literally found this video today and ive been in such a dark depressive state and your words literally actually got to me and caught my attention like it was a message here. ❤❤❤
Sending you so so much love 🤍
Thanks for sharing, it was relaxing to take sometime out of the day for myself to watch this. You give some great advice.
Thank you so much for watching 🥰
I love how authentic you are.😂🇿🇦
😂💅🏽🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Thank you for not beating us up in the video. This was exactly what I needed to hear. New sub!!
I’m so glad that you’re doing these videos, you’re fantastic
Thank you 🥹
girl i needed this! thank you! sober since sept 28, isolating in my little bubble and leaving my toxic ex on read!
I am so glad UA-cam algorithm lead me to you. I’m a new subscriber. And you are better than my therapist. You explain things so well. And as if you know what I need to hear. Thank you for existing. You’re an angel on earth ❤
Literally perfect timing 😭 I’m so broke and I need to focus
I’ve been scared to do this and you uploaded this gem ❤️
You got this 💞🥹
Preach Sister Preach!!!!! Yeeeeeeessssss!!!!! Exactly what I needed. Ty so much!
My journey starts here ❤
I’ve been off ig for 5+ weeks and I’m so happy with it. Between that my breakup with family, friends, my ex I just need peace! I’m enjoying this time for myself it’s needed.
Going through a breakup & I needed to hear this . Thank you !!
Aww babe sending lots of love 💞
This is so on point!! I literally had these thoughts this past weekend! ❤
🥹🤍🤍
Right on time with this message. Thank you for this video. Highly appreciated ❤❤❤
My fav youtuber❤😊 Girl is always right lemme take out my note book😅😊
Ahhh I love you!!!! Hope you enjoy 🥹
Really needed this video. Thank you. Ive definitely been hyper-focusing and stressing out.
I was always detached in the physical level but I'm not detached on the mental level and I think mentally detaching is more important than physical because no matter how much you show you don't care your energy still speaking for you.
Idk why I can't let this friend go. She is so sweet to me & fun. However, she's never there for me. She lied about a boy being a creep because she didn't think he was enough for me. I cried in her laps for months. She left me hanging to go party when I was suicidal. She dated a drug dealer and was offended I didn't wanna chill with him. She has been acting hot and cold with me lately. She's so confusing people at one time thought she was in love with me. She didn't want to introduce me to her boyfriend unless I stayed in my car bc she didn't want him to see my figure. She's gotten in w a wild crowd. She seems harder now. Behaves like defensive if she starts to cry. We are both young and I feel like she's treated me better than my family. Idk, I'll be completely alone if I cut her off. I was thinking of pulling away and detaching tho. So, I appreciate the video.
You know what to do. Give yourself the time and follow your intuition. Doesn’t mean you need to dissolve the love that you might have for her, but I would suggest nourishing and strengthening the love that you have for yourself. Also, in my opinion reading this comment doesn’t seem like the situations you’re in are in any way healthy for you. Use this time to learn more about your attachment to those people, places and things that do not serve you.
You won't be by yourself. You have your self and your family and its so much better to be alone then with negative people.
Same boat
I’m done being there for her she’s not there for me
Only thinks of herself and her selfish ways. I need new friends or nobody.toxic friends gotta go focusing on myself way more again
Do things alone, read books, grow, go on walks and learn to let people go that aren’t good anymore. I’m trying
Thanks very much. I am not in situations that serve me whatsoever. I appreciate your advice to me. It was v thoughtful. I didn't realize I could still love from afar and I don't have to separate w hate. Hoping I will make new friends and find a chosen family. I definitely will be alone othe than God after I cut her off.
Those around me told me I shouldn't cut her off after she betrayed me bc she cried... I said isn't that like a cheater crying tho... like u said I need to listen to ME for once
I'm very sorry. It's very painful. Maybe we can just have aquitanced bc we do need a network sadly. We can keep going and find more fulfilling experiences !!!
Feeling like it’s time for a change and I see this video ✨ time to detach and focus on myself ❤️
This + the “Let Them” theory = 🎯
5 minutes into the video I love it already. Such a real and honest speech
Girl speaking nothing but facts❤️
ok not me getting emotional, I needed to hear this.
I’m going to start watching a lot of your videos to glow up soon ❤️
Such good timing u just came across my TL love that for me... And hearing u such a blessing 💕 ty u boo
I’m so glad you found me 💞 sending you lots of love 💕
I never learned so much from a vlog before, definitely going to start tuning in 😊.
instagram does so much trigger in my life. decided to delete the app, it’s hard bc i still want to log in and peep but i’m getting better at not doing it and putting the focus back onto myself ❤
this is exactly what i needed to hear this morning. thank you.
I needed to see this omg the timing of this was absolutely divine! Thank you so much 🥹💛
I love your energy....
I love this video❤️
Great video thanks for this. You helped me a lot going through a hard break up obsessed with someone that’s not worth my time new subscriber. 😊
Hey lil mama 👋🏽 I’m literally eating my yogurt bowl while watching this 😂 detach from anything that makes you feel like shit…the meat and potatoes statement!!👍🏽 enjoy your weekend!!
Yaaaaaaas!!!!! Have the best weekend my lovelyyyyyy 🥰
youre giving huntress aechetype i love it keep up the journey
This is so nice to say, thank you 🥹
Ugh, I just love your content!! Thank you for this reminder 💛
Aww you’re so welcome 🥰
right words at the right time ❤ Dont stop
I’m so happy to hear this 🤍💞
Thank you for the wonderful words and videos ❤️ we need this as women & mother's 💕 I feel so much better today 😌 taking care of me ❤️
I’m so glad you enjoyed this video and you’re so right! 🥰💞 I appreciate you!!
You’re such a girls girl 🥺🎀 I’m obsessed w your positive mindsettt
You are so sweet, thank you for saying this.. 🥹🤍
Thanks Babe !! This video was tea 🍵💕. Helped ease my mind.
Damn! What a comfort video this was. Thank you for this Elicia!
I’m so glad you loved it 🥰
Retinol makes you purge for the first 6 weeks ! You’ll get used to it. Moisturize a lot😊 use every other day, not every day.
Yes!! I didn’t use it everyday, but I’m going to stop it for right now 💞
Just 👏🏼 what 👏🏼 I 👏🏼 NEEDED
😍😍😍😍
Amazing as always ❤
Thank you babe 🤍
I thought it was me only, but I lose appetite too🎉❤ it’s amazing when u change some little things and lose weight without noticing. I have lost 36 pounds in one year without excercise and diet 🎉🎉🎉 now im motivated to do so!!
I love your vlogs! Keep them coming! ❤❤❤
Thank youuuu 🥹
Can I get a list of your grocery list? Literally love your videos
thanks babe! I really don't have a list, it's the things I eat on a regular basis💗 I just go based on what I want to make each week but what I showed is technically my list!
Really loved this video. Happy I found your channel.
So glad you’re here 🥰
You're my comfort creator!!!
This makes me so happy 🥹🤍
I needed this - this morning at 3A.
This is the confirmation that I needed ❤
💞🙏🏼
Amazing video ! Thank you for sharing your story, will definitely try the breathing techniques 🫶🏼
Amazing ☺️💞
I really needed to hear this right now❤
Loved this!! Needed the motivational talk🙏🏽
UA-cam recommended this to me at the perfect time
Can you do more videos about what meals you meat that relate to each other? I enjoy watching that
I’m going to take a break from social media and spend as much time I can with my son and sisters. I need to regain my energy again I lost so much of myself dealing with a guy that wasn’t even serious about me and would throw me mixed signals
i love youre videos they help me so much thank youuu
I love you. Thank you for doing this
loved the vibes
Thanks girl 🥰
In tarot it’s called going hermit mode
Yaaaasss!
thank you!!! I needed this
GODS AND GODDESSES YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CREATE YOUR OWN REALITY ♥️♥️🖤🔑👁
u're glowing, babe!
Thank u 🥹
I need this cause Chile I'm depressed a bit, My health needs improvement and here I am scrolling on instagram and Facebook. I need a job too a regular job I'm definitely considering going away for some time.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Spot on. You kinda clocked me at minute 3😅.
strict routine makes life easy