I believe that this is the most practical solution of every home’s problem of our society. Really happy that any mother has thought that and did that too👍
Masha Allah mam ap ne bht sahi hal bataya h pr aj kl k sasural wale bahuo ko in sb se maheroom rakhte h aur unpr zyadti krte h ,Allah sb bacchio ko neek saoher ate kre ameen
Ali bhaie Allah apko jannat m Alla muqaam ATA kary....m ny jitna search Kiya Pakistan wahid ik mulaaq laga mujy his mulaq m Islam Ka fahem zayda hay....m Kashmir Srinagar say ho Allah ki kasam jitny hihaalt is qoem m Hy Allah reham kary big reason shirk Nd bidda't m ny har ik cheez choud di Allah SWT k liye bss ik umeed Hy Ali bhaie Allah mujy Toheed p mout dey
loved listening to this video and I agree.. a woman deserves her privacy and she should live seperately if she wants to without burdening her husband with more than what he is able to provide..
Nice topic thanks for this topic .ALLAH sub behno ke naseb ache kare .jo jo Walden apne bachon ke rishton ki wajha se preshan ALLAH sub ki preshani dor kare.
Mame Allah ap ko Allah jazay kher day ... Ap nay bilkul thek kaha lakin yahan koi Iss sadgee ko manta he ni ... Mery kitnay ristay sirf status ki waja say khtm hovay ... Han Jitna Mame ap nay kaha itna too thek ha ... Allah sub k lye aasani karay
Ajeeb toxic mahol hota hai taqreeban saari Pakistani joint families ka is se acha to insaan ek kamre ke ghar mai sukoon se reh le vrna choti si to zindagi hai vobhi fazul chik chik mai guzar jayegi
Rent par separate ghar le lo agar ladka rent bhi nahi afford karsakta to aise ladke ko apni beti he kyun deto ho aur ladki ko rented ghar mein nahi rehna to uska rishta kisi makan se karo insan se nahi 😅
The problem is when the guy becomes someone who can now finally afford a home for his wife, he is expected to do for parents and siblings instead of buying a house for his wife first now even though now he is capable.
Nizam mai interference sb se bara masla ha, chahy alag ghr dy b dein, phir b is had tk madakhlat hoti ha k jeisy sans leiny mai mushkil ho, Pakistan mai jo divorce ratio itni bher rhi han, ik hi solution ha k husband and wife ko at least 6 month alag rehny ka court order dy aur agr 6 month alag reh kr b wo ik dosry ko divorce deina chahein tu phir un ki marzi.
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Best solution for saas bahu nok jhonk and even bahu can live peacefully without anyone's interference. Even the son can serve his parents as he will be always near them
Yes,but a culture where parents don’t plan for their retirements and where the responsibility of mothers, sisters , daughters fall on brothers, sons, fathers I think we should also address this issue. The reason why there is so much dependency on fathers, brothers and sons is because of women who don’t work. When the children start going to school full time, women should either start work from home or outside part time. So she can have financial independence and can contribute in the household. Then a young couple can afford an apt in the beginning and then move slowly to a .smaller home. But in joint family system due to indo pak culture it is very hard to live in joint family system. Especially when in islam there is concept of mehram and na mehram. One cannot be in purdah 24 hours in their own home. Usually people dont have that big lands where 3 families can live in same house hold. Also the inheritance should only be given to children when both father and mother passes away. And it should be divided accordingly to religion to both daughters and sons.
a San, it doesn't make any difference, I am the only son and have 4 younger sisters, so I took the responsibility and now Alhamdulillah my all sisters are married n happy Ma Sha Allah, when i see my parents they are so relaxed but I must say my wife was with me at every moment, if she wasn't there I couldn't manage everything but as of now my parents love her more than me, I hope Allah will give her extra rewards also, I been married 20 years as of now but never heard any arguments till date, very fortunate Ma Sha Allah
If the Islamic Shariah is exactly followed as directed, then women will not even require to work outside. Anyhow, if she is concerned about "mehram/non-mehram" issue so much, she will not work outside in the first place. Because there is hardly a workplace where intermixing doesn't happen. Only if Shariah is exactly followed by all members of the family: woman's family and her in-laws as well..then she will have all her rights- no need to work outside. As for a separate home, again i would say if shariah is properly followed by both parents of the husband and the wife, the women/bahu can have her own space. Islamic instructions are easy, we complicate it with our own lifestyle and thinking.
@@JustAnotherMuslimah10 there is no doubt about islamic teaching but in this era everything is expensive including kid's education then there is no harm to work, husband is not the full time labourer, she should help her husband if she has the qualities plus these all problems come only when there is no sincerity in relationships, if she considers his parents like her own and his parents consider their daughter in law as their own daughter then believe me no problems at all, both parties should compromise little little, the most important thing when her parents say anything to her she always listens to them but when her parents in law say something she thinks that this is the interference in her life, so these are the double standards
This is a practical situation if you are living in your own house..if you are living in rented apartments this wont be practical and so we have to move to a separate apartment right?
Ali bhai One major querry that i feel got left out is, how would the guy will be able to do justice when it comes to serving his parents and on the other hand completing his obligations to his significant other , while both the parties live in different houses. Would love to know your thoughts on this Ali bhai.
Get a house nearby or a double storey house with separate entrance and kitchen also do not force your wife to cook and clean for your parents it is not her duty
@@waytoguidance i do not understand why people can not get this simple thing in their mind it is Allah's decision why argue I'm glad to see someone agreeing
Kia Allah ke Rasool ke Walidain Hayaat the Rasool ( s.a.w) ke nikaah ke baad?...Aur agar hotey tou kia aap s.a.w apne walidain ko apne se alag rakhtey? Ali Bhai Aapka Question incomplete hai,
Ji aap ka sawal acha hai... ... parents ka khyaal bande ne hi rakhna hai... wo alag ghar me reh k bhi ho sakta hai.... jese chota sa portion agar mian bv ka ho ga to parents door nahi hon gay un ko regulerly visit keray un ki zarooriat poori keray... issue ye hai k susral walon ko mian bv k kisi bhi mamle pe taang nahi arani chahiye...
@@positivevibes5079 Kia Koi aisa data hai aapke pass jou ye sabit karta hou ki zyadatar Susral walon ke Maa Paab hi taang aada tey hain har mamle mein? Aur jayez taur pe bete par maa paab ka pura haqq hota hai har masle par rai rakhne kaa, sirf "SHIRK" karne ko Maa-Paab nahi bol saktey agar bolte hain tou unki nafarmani ki jaa sakti hai.
Sir age maa baap kahain k apni bv ko maaro to kya khawand ko marne lag jana chahiye... sir her rishte ki apni ehmiat hai... or aurat k bare me sawal us k khawand se ho ga na k khawand k maa baap se.. haan agar beta kuch ghalat kertA hai ya us ki bv ghalat kerti hai to apne betay ko zaroor samjhayain... mera point sirf ye hai k mian bv k apas k mamlat me nahi ghusna chahiye... us ko ye na kahain bv pe rob dabdaba rakho.. salan me namak taiz ho to us ko chanta lagayo... khawand ko apne hisab se deal kerte rehne dena chahiye.... baaki sir Allah hisab lene wale hai... apni niatain saaf rakhni chahiyein.. Allah ham sab ko hadayat de..
@@positivevibes5079 sir aurat se sawaal uske khawand ke ghar ke baare mein bhi hoga ( Surah Nisa'a )... Tou kia aapko Lagta hai har Khawaand ka ghar bina "Walidain" ke hoga? Aur Kia Biwi Khawaand ke Walidain ki Properties, gold aur Jaidad ko accept nahi karegi unke inteqaal ke baad?
@@AbrarAhmed-ep2ru hmmm.. sir ye point valid hai aap ka........ asal me I think in points ko or jo aap k sawal hain in sab ko le ka aik comprehensive kisam ki question answers session hona chahiye... ya koi dars aisa ho jis me do tarfa nazria rakha jaye.......mujhe aap ka to nahi pta lekin mein khud ko is qabil nahi samjahta k bharpoor andaaz me is pe baat ker sakoon... mera sirf ye concern hai k mard or aurat ko apna apna maqam pta hona chahiye or dono ko apne faraiz ehsan tareeke se hal kerne chahiyain...... or alag hone k dalail meri knowledge k mutabiq zyada hain... lekin ap ka sawal boht valid hai k walidain kahan jayain... or us k sath larkay, bv or waldain ka kirdar kya hona chaiiye is hawale se...
Mother-in-laws nowadays are mostly two faced..they treat their children as precious while treat the daughter-in-law as slave, want to have full control over her daughter-in-law's life..even being sick she is not given any relief from work, if she oversleeps due to illness they start taunting and making faces while when her own daughter is sick she will call her to live with her and won't let her do any work...can't live without seeing her own daughter even for a day while wouldn't let the daughter-in-law visit her own parent's house...They plot against the daughter-in-law most of the time and say bad things about her to everyone even though she is trying her best to serve her in-law's family...The Daughter-in-laws are only slaves to most of the Mother-in-laws no matter how good natured and educated she is...😞
Assalam o alikum warahmtullah Ali bhai main Web designing or graphics designing karna chata hun or Alhamdulillah main tehqiq ka shoq rakhta hun mainay ye jana hai k graphics designing main face logo haram hain e. g kisi bird ko bnana ye living thing ko. Maira question ye hai k kia hum living things bnain or face bnanay ki jga hum blank chor dain means k hum outline kar dain but ear nose month etc na bnain to jaiz hai q k ek bar ye b suna k hum living things k related kuch b nahi bna saktay e. g hands feet etc please mujhe guide krain jazakallah u khair
As'salam o Alaikum Sir Please Give some lectures for positivity. I am at stage of my life where i really can't understand what is happening to me , I'm actualy a very Positive person And Alhmdulilah i have strong tawakal in ALLAH but Sometimes shaitan or my nafas causes me undue Stress and Depression. I don't want to disobey ALLAH with any of my action Please Tell me some zikr for this Please. Hope you will see this ! I don't have any other mean to talk you.
السلام وعلیکم ورحمة الله وبركاته sister I can understand what you mean and how you feel as I too feel the same way..I feel that no one understands me except for ALLAH Subhana hu wa ta'ala.. I too feel so depressed sometimes and have a very hard time in controlling my anger. For me I find relief when reading the quran with translation and trying to ponder over its verses and their meanings.. instead of racing to finish the quran this Ramadan I'm taking my time and reciting slowly and trying to gain more understanding by the will and mercy of ALLAH
Solution accha hai.. Mostly middle class mai bilkul aise he hota hai... But i have one question to you! Ke maa baap jab boodhe ho Aur beta out of country ho Tou unki khidmat ki zimmedari kese puri kari jaye.. Qki ajkal ki bahu nahi karna chahti hai... Please anwser it?
Aslkm wrwb! Bahu nhi kerti to ap ek nauker rakhlen...jis biwi ko apne shoher se muhabbat hogi wo khidmat zaroor kre gi ..lekin shoher k walden ka bertao theek hona chahiye shiher ki ghair maujoodgi mein kyu k aksar saas sasur iska najaez daeda uthlete hain tbhi to biwi unki khidmat kerna to door sath b rehna nhi chahti.
Asslam o alaikum wa rehmatullah webr hu . My name is mussadiq nazar i did chemical engineering and recently serving in oil sector as a process engineer.. em also doing 4years kuliaya tus - sharia from one of the famous branch of JAMAT UR RASHEED KARACHI named as HIDAYA ACADEMY.. iam living in islamabd and i want to join youth club for the purpose of dawaah..
Assalamualaikum,, mara Zahn aik bat sa boht preshan rahta ha, K Michelle choti choti Baton sa hurt ho jati hun,, phir m bout roti hun,, sometimes baghair kisi waja k rona ata ha ,,kindly diagnose me,, m kia krun?
Lekin hota Yun hai k saas susar Apne betay se khidmat Lene Ka zariya uski biwi ko smjhte Hain..yaani beta hua is zimmedari se mustasna,nashta Khana Mai Zara si kotahi pr beta bhi aur saas susar BHI bahu se baaz Purus shuru krdete Hain..
no it's not unfortunate, ye sirf aap ka future hota hai k jo aap karain gay wahi aap k bachay bhi karain gay aur ye Allah ka insaf hai jis main koi shak nahin
janab mera har busnus me ham log yani mera beta ka har busnese me nuksan hi hota he apki sare.vidio..deka he bhuut nukasnet ho chuuka..ap se hall batye .mera name javed bete ka nme waqar majid...frome india..allha..apki deien me izafa kare..
bhaai aap aur aap k ghar walay sirf drood shareef aur Astaghfar parhye, wuzu bina wuzu, uthtay baithtay, In Sha Allah aap ki sari mushkilain khatam ho jayen gi
Sahi hal ha ik to susural walo ki chaplosian b krni parti ha sare kam b krny party ha phir b aglo ka moo bana rehta ha. Phir sara din ye sochny me guzer jata ha k bhala me ne kya kia tha aj jo in sab ka moo bana ha 😂
India aur Pakistan jaise mulkon me iski koi ehmiyat nai hai...yahan bahuon ko noukar smjha jaata hai aur inki koi auqaat nai hoti ghr me Bhot zyada discrimination aur humiliation ka saamna krna pdta hai ghr ki bahuon ko Jo bhot unfair hai
Agar flat me rehtay hon to phir is ka kya hal hai?kyun k flat me portion nhu banaya ja sakta aur aj kal mostly 3-4 rooms k flat me shadi kr k biwi ko apni mother k sath rakha jata hai takay mard tension free rahy lekin biwi ko jo mental aur physical torture mil raha hota hai mother in law se wo janray boojhty shohar nhi mantay aur 10,10 saal ye aziyat bardasht krne k bad bhi agr biwi alag ghar ya portion ki demand kar lay to istata'at hone k bawajood biwi ko nafarman ka laqab dia jata hai aur kaha jata hai aise hi rehna hai to raho warna chali jao,alag hojao may alag nahi rakh sakta aur agar alag rahogi to may apni maa k sath rahonga tmhare aur bachon k sath nhi. Is surat me bhi rehnumai farmayen please.
Sir kindly iss topic pe b bat karein k jo rishta aya hou n larka bahir hou n shadi kar k chala jae n phir larki 6/8 months ya saal baad visa lage n phir bahir jae
agar log achay hain to koi farq nahin perta, meri wife kayi salon k baad America aa saki lekin wo meri walida k saath hi rahi, sometimes ye possible nahin hota k husband saath hi lay jaye, bahut visa ki aur immigration ki qanooni majbooriyan hoti hain
First of all if man cannot afford even a small separate portion then he should not get married or Atleast accept that this is his weakness and should compensate by other ways, and also what if husband has his own house and other family members share it? In that Case wife still has to compromise, may Allah give us hidayah. Ameen
Marriage is run by compromise and sacrifice like every other good and strong relationship. Marriage is not run by "You give me that, and I will give you this." Marriage is not a business deal. Nowhere in shariah Allah commands men that if you cannot afford separate portion then DONT GET MARRIED. The purpose of marriage is very noble one. A man marries to save his eman, to continue his progeny and for mental and physical peace. If the man is of good nature and pious, but cannot afford separate portion, he should be very good to his wife and secure her mentally through every support. If the house belongs to man and other family members share it, then should he kick them out? Is that expected of a man who is a brother and a son. What's wrong in wife compromising in that? As mentioned above, marriage is not a dry and rigid business deal that a partner will only be happy if all conditions and rights are fulfilled. Marriage is a blessed Institute whose pillars are compromise, sacrifice, taqwa. And this applies to both husband and wife. Hope it answers. Jzk
@@MuhammadAlichannel Actually the shariah does dictate that if a man cannot afford to marry, then he should instead fast, what's wrong in a wife 'compromising' and agreeing to live with her brother in laws is everything, it is haram, the prophet of Allah swt told us the brother in law is death. marriage is not a business deal but both husband and wife have god given rights they do not need to compromise on, these protect the wellbeing and welfare of both and society at large, a woman having her own quarters, not necessarily a villa or an entire house is one of the most basic rights of a woman found in the QURAN, Allah in his infinite wisdom knows well the evils that come from denying this right or expecting a compromise on a womans right to privacy
@@saleemchohan1255 ho sakta hai ....aaj kal har koi shayad gharz k saath hi jeeta hai......hum muslims hain laikin humari knowledge deen mein sirf apnay matlab ki had tak hai......
Rasul ne har biwi ko alag ghar diya tha.. Unpe ma baap aur bhai bahno ko zimmedaari nahi thi to 4-5 alag kamre dene me kya jata hai.. Ma baap aur family ko sambhalna nahi tha.. 1-1 biwi ko ghar dena aasan hai
This woman is a gem being a mother in law supporting daughter in laws!Great woman her words un ki zindagi main interfere na karain I love that!
یہ بات تو ا نکی بہوئیں بتائیں۔ انہوں نے تو صرف دعوی کیا ہے۔
I believe that this is the most practical solution of every home’s problem of our society. Really happy that any mother has thought that and did that too👍
MA SHA ALLAH AN EYE OPENER FOR EVERY FAMILY❤️
Masha Allah mam ap ne bht sahi hal bataya h pr aj kl k sasural wale bahuo ko in sb se maheroom rakhte h aur unpr zyadti krte h ,Allah sb bacchio ko neek saoher ate kre ameen
Naik shohar to de hi naik sasural wale bhi mile
Ali bhaie Allah apko jannat m Alla muqaam ATA kary....m ny jitna search Kiya Pakistan wahid ik mulaaq laga mujy his mulaq m Islam Ka fahem zayda hay....m Kashmir Srinagar say ho Allah ki kasam jitny hihaalt is qoem m Hy Allah reham kary big reason shirk Nd bidda't m ny har ik cheez choud di Allah SWT k liye bss ik umeed Hy Ali bhaie Allah mujy Toheed p mout dey
Ma shaa Allah, Ali bhai seriously ap itny zabardst topics la ry, learning alot from you 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
@Sahil 1 bhai I think you are unmarried that y you thinking this is zabardasti ka topic
loved listening to this video and I agree.. a woman deserves her privacy and she should live seperately if she wants to without burdening her husband with more than what he is able to provide..
If you can not afford then do not get married simply because it is her God-given right and you have to provide separate accommodation
@@your_habibi yes yes yes!
Nice topic thanks for this topic .ALLAH sub behno ke naseb ache kare .jo jo Walden apne bachon ke rishton ki wajha se preshan ALLAH sub ki preshani dor kare.
Despite of being Muslim, this woman is still wise. 👌👌👍👍
Masha Allah good question and best reply by baaji sahiba
Jazak Allah 💕 Allah Rab ul Izzth apko Dunya or akhirth main bada maqaam aata fermaye Ameen....
ALLAH ap pe apni khaas rehmaten barsaye #Ali bhai you r very very kind person
ماشاء اللہ
اللہ پاک سب کو اپنے جیسئ ساس دے آمین یا رب العالمین
اللہ جی ہمیں ایسی ساس دینا😝🤣🤣
Oo brother how sweet of you actually each and every family face these types of problems and the solution definitely works . mashallaha
Allah always A capital name of the only King 👑 of all the worlds please always type A capital
Ali sir your all lectures are very good
Learning a lot from you
watching your lectures for last 3 days ❤️❤️
ماشاءاللہ جی شکریہ بھائی یہ مسلا بھی پتا چل گیا
May Allah reward these people in the best way possible.
And may Allah make us walk on the straight path.
subhanAllah a woman with so much wisdom 💕
Shuker hy k k new generation main b Islam hy salute
جزاك الله خير
بہت ہی آلہ بات کی ہے
Mame Allah ap ko Allah jazay kher day ... Ap nay bilkul thek kaha lakin yahan koi Iss sadgee ko manta he ni ... Mery kitnay ristay sirf status ki waja say khtm hovay ... Han Jitna Mame ap nay kaha itna too thek ha ...
Allah sub k lye aasani karay
Ajeeb toxic mahol hota hai taqreeban saari Pakistani joint families ka is se acha to insaan ek kamre ke ghar mai sukoon se reh le vrna choti si to zindagi hai vobhi fazul chik chik mai guzar jayegi
JazakaAllah , Ustadh Muhammad Ali ♥️
Ma sha Allah! Zabberdast baat status mein tabaah hojare...
*Joint Family system ko Islam boht ziyada support karta hen. Ajkal ek misconception bana hua hen Joint Family ke khelaf*
Masha Allah full lecture suna h bhot acha tha
Allah always A capital name of the only King 👑 of all the worlds please always A capital
@@Noor-y1p7n ok thanks
Masha Allah very nice n heart touching videos .
Ma sha Allah very convenient and practical tips.
Masha Allah best solution 👍
Saari UMMATH E RASOOL _saw_ iss baath pe amal karen. Ameen
Aameen summa aameen🤲
Ameen❤️
I love this man❤️
Alhamdulillah beautiful discussion. Jazak Allahu Khair
MashaAllah. Ma is idea se agree krta hn
Allah Bibi sahiba ko salamat rakhy
Rent par separate ghar le lo agar ladka rent bhi nahi afford karsakta to aise ladke ko apni beti he kyun deto ho aur ladki ko rented ghar mein nahi rehna to uska rishta kisi makan se karo insan se nahi 😅
What a great wisdome she has mashallah Allah AP khush rakhe
Alhumdulliah 👍👍 Beautiful byan
Best video on you channel... Zabardast discussion till date 👌
sahi hai "Asal mein Alhakum takasur ke chakkar mein sara nizaam bigad kar rahe gaya hai 'zara quraan ke ahkaam pe amal karke dekhen'!!
*بالکل درست*
The problem is when the guy becomes someone who can now finally afford a home for his wife, he is expected to do for parents and siblings instead of buying a house for his wife first now even though now he is capable.
Please sir upload the new episode of “ things that matter” . Waiting for that ... for boosting Iman.
Jazaak Allah Hu Khaira
Mashallah ktna Acha bola
Allah hum sab ko sahi samjh ata farma
Nizam mai interference sb se bara masla ha, chahy alag ghr dy b dein, phir b is had tk madakhlat hoti ha k jeisy sans leiny mai mushkil ho, Pakistan mai jo divorce ratio itni bher rhi han, ik hi solution ha k husband and wife ko at least 6 month alag rehny ka court order dy aur agr 6 month alag reh kr b wo ik dosry ko divorce deina chahein tu phir un ki marzi.
Ma shaa Allah great info
Ma Shaa ALLAH problem solve
I am regularly watching your videos
Jazak Allah khair. 👍
Allah The Greatest Name
Ar-Rahman 1 The All-Merciful
Ar-Rahim 2 The All-Beneficient
Al-Malik 3 The Absolute Ruler
Al-Quddus 4 The Pure One
As-Salam 5 The Source of Peace
Al-Mu’min 6 The Inspirer of Faith
Al-Muhaymin 7 The Guardian
Al-‘Aziz 8 The Victorious
Al-Jabbar 9 The Compeller
Al-Mutakabbir 10 The Greatest
Al-Khaliq 11 The Creator
Al-Bari’ 12 The Maker of Order
Al-Musawwir 13 The Shaper of Beauty
Al-Ghaffar 14 The Forgiving
Al-Qahhar 15 The Subduer
Al-Wahhab 16 The Giver of All
Ar-Razzaq 17 The Sustainer
Al-Fattah 18 The Opener
Al-‘Alim 19 The Knower of All
Al-Qabid 20 The Constrictor
Al-Basit 21 The Reliever
Al-Khafid 22 The Abaser
Ar-Rafi’ 23 The Exalter
Al-Mu’izz 24 The Bestower of Honors
Al-Mudhill 25 The Humiliator
As-Sami 26 The Hearer of All
Al-Basir 27 The Seer of All
Al-Hakam 28 The Judge
Al-‘Adl 29 The Just
Al-Latif 30 The Subtle One
Al-Khabir 31 The All-Aware
Al-Halim 32 The Forebearing
Al-‘Azim 33 The Magnificent
Al-Ghafur 34 The Forgiver and Hider of Faults
Ash-Shakur 35 The Rewarder of Thankfulness
Al-‘Ali 36 The Highest
Al-Kabir 37 The Greatest
Al-Hafiz 38 The Preserver
Al-Muqit 39 The Nourisher
Al-Hasib 40 The Accounter
Al-Jalil 41 The Mighty
Al-Karim 42 The Generous
Ar-Raqib 43 The Watchful One
Al-Mujib 44 The Responder to Prayer
Al-Wasi’ 45 The All-Comprehending
Al-Hakim 46 The Perfectly Wise
Al-Wadud 47 The Loving One
Al-Majíd 48 The Majestic One
Al-Ba’ith 49 The Resurrector
Ash-Shahid 50 The Witness
Al-Haqq 51 The Truth
Al-Wakil 52 The Trustee
Al-Qawi 53 The Possessor of All Strength
Al-Matin 54 The Forceful One
Al-Wáli 55 The Governor
Al-Hamid 56 The Praised One
Al-Muhsi 57 The Appraiser
Al-Mubdi 58 The Originator
Al-Mu’id 59 The Restorer
Al-Muhyi 60 The Giver of Life
Al-Mumit 61 The Taker of Life
Al-Hayy 62 The Ever Living One
Al-Qayyum 63 The Self-Existing One
Al-Wajid 64 The Finder
Al-Májid 65 The Glorious
Al-Wahid 66 The Only One
Al-Ahad 67 The One
As-Samad 68 The Satisfier of All Needs
Al-Qadir 69 The All Powerful
Al-Muqtadir 70 The Creator of All Power
Al-Muqaddim 71 The Expediter
Al-Mu’akhkhir 72 The Delayer
Al-Awwal 73 The First
Al-Akhir 74 The Last
Az-Zahir 75 The Manifest One
Al-Batin 76 The Hidden One
Al-Walí 77 The Protecting Friend
Al-Muta’ali 78 The Supreme One
Al-Barr 79 The Doer of Good
At-Tawwab 80 The Guide to Repentance
Al-Muntaqim 81 The Avenger
Al-Afu 82 The Forgiver
Ar-Ra’uf 83 The Clement
Malik al-Mulk 84 The Owner of All
Dhul-Jalali
Wal-Ikram 85 The Lord of Majesty and Bounty
Al-Muqsit 86 The Equitable One
Al-Jami 87 The Gatherer
Al-Ghani 88 The Rich One
Al-Mughni 89 The Enricher
Al-Mani’ 90 The Preventer of Harm
Ad-Darr 91 The Creator of The Harmful
An-Nafi 92 The Creator of Good
An-Nur 93 The Light
Al-Hadi 94 The Guide
Al-Badi 95 The Originator
Al-Baqi 96 The Everlasting One
Al-Warith 97 The Inheritor of All
Ar-Rashid 98 The Righteous Teacher
As-Sabur 99 The Patient One
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All my life my mother in law told me the house doesn’t belong to me.
So sad! Aurat he aurat per Zulm karti hai.
Its unfortunate. Plz pray that Allah forgives her. And may Allah reward you for your patience.
Best solution for saas bahu nok jhonk and even bahu can live peacefully without anyone's interference. Even the son can serve his parents as he will be always near them
Huzoor S.W yateem thay
Unke maan baap nhi thay Jo issues or narazgi hoti.
Muhammad Ali Bhai Love you Bro
Mashallah
Need english subtitles, JazakAllah Khairan
Jazzak Allahu khayr🤍
Keep guiding us
Yes,but a culture where parents don’t plan for their retirements and where the responsibility of mothers, sisters , daughters fall on brothers, sons, fathers I think we should also address this issue. The reason why there is so much dependency on fathers, brothers and sons is because of women who don’t work. When the children start going to school full time, women should either start work from home or outside part time. So she can have financial independence and can contribute in the household. Then a young couple can afford an apt in the beginning and then move slowly to a .smaller home. But in joint family system due to indo pak culture it is very hard to live in joint family system. Especially when in islam there is concept of mehram and na mehram. One cannot be in purdah 24 hours in their own home. Usually people dont have that big lands where 3 families can live in same house hold. Also the inheritance should only be given to children when both father and mother passes away. And it should be divided accordingly to religion to both daughters and sons.
A good case study ... This is the Issue
InnShaAllah i will support my spouse to be self independent ... Thanks for reminder
Deep n logical thinking.
a San, it doesn't make any difference, I am the only son and have 4 younger sisters, so I took the responsibility and now Alhamdulillah my all sisters are married n happy Ma Sha Allah, when i see my parents they are so relaxed but I must say my wife was with me at every moment, if she wasn't there I couldn't manage everything but as of now my parents love her more than me, I hope Allah will give her extra rewards also, I been married 20 years as of now but never heard any arguments till date, very fortunate Ma Sha Allah
If the Islamic Shariah is exactly followed as directed, then women will not even require to work outside. Anyhow, if she is concerned about "mehram/non-mehram" issue so much, she will not work outside in the first place. Because there is hardly a workplace where intermixing doesn't happen. Only if Shariah is exactly followed by all members of the family: woman's family and her in-laws as well..then she will have all her rights- no need to work outside. As for a separate home, again i would say if shariah is properly followed by both parents of the husband and the wife, the women/bahu can have her own space. Islamic instructions are easy, we complicate it with our own lifestyle and thinking.
@@JustAnotherMuslimah10 there is no doubt about islamic teaching but in this era everything is expensive including kid's education then there is no harm to work, husband is not the full time labourer, she should help her husband if she has the qualities plus these all problems come only when there is no sincerity in relationships, if she considers his parents like her own and his parents consider their daughter in law as their own daughter then believe me no problems at all, both parties should compromise little little, the most important thing when her parents say anything to her she always listens to them but when her parents in law say something she thinks that this is the interference in her life, so these are the double standards
Sahi baat Mashallah
Jazakallah khair ❤️
MashaAllah
*Agar kisi husband ki income 35000 hen toh woh apne hesiyat ke mutabiq maintenance deyga. Phir Separate home or kitchen dena zaroori nahi hota*
اگر تمام سسرالیوں کی نیت صاف ہو تو یہ حل دیا جاسکتا ہے۔ لیکن مسئلہ یہی ہے کہ نیت ہی بری ہوتی ہے۔ الگ الگ نظام دیدیا تو ساس سسر کے کام کون کریگا۔
This is a practical situation if you are living in your own house..if you are living in rented apartments this wont be practical and so we have to move to a separate apartment right?
Ali bhai One major querry that i feel got left out is, how would the guy will be able to do justice when it comes to serving his parents and on the other hand completing his obligations to his significant other , while both the parties live in different houses.
Would love to know your thoughts on this Ali bhai.
Get a house nearby or a double storey house with separate entrance and kitchen also do not force your wife to cook and clean for your parents it is not her duty
@@your_habibi I totally agree with you.
@@waytoguidance i do not understand why people can not get this simple thing in their mind it is Allah's decision why argue I'm glad to see someone agreeing
Masha Allah
Thanks so much.nice topic
Kia Allah ke Rasool ke Walidain Hayaat the Rasool ( s.a.w) ke nikaah ke baad?...Aur agar hotey tou kia aap s.a.w apne walidain ko apne se alag rakhtey?
Ali Bhai Aapka Question incomplete hai,
Ji aap ka sawal acha hai... ... parents ka khyaal bande ne hi rakhna hai... wo alag ghar me reh k bhi ho sakta hai.... jese chota sa portion agar mian bv ka ho ga to parents door nahi hon gay un ko regulerly visit keray un ki zarooriat poori keray... issue ye hai k susral walon ko mian bv k kisi bhi mamle pe taang nahi arani chahiye...
@@positivevibes5079 Kia Koi aisa data hai aapke pass jou ye sabit karta hou ki zyadatar Susral walon ke Maa Paab hi taang aada tey hain har mamle mein? Aur jayez taur pe bete par maa paab ka pura haqq hota hai har masle par rai rakhne kaa, sirf "SHIRK" karne ko Maa-Paab nahi bol saktey agar bolte hain tou unki nafarmani ki jaa sakti hai.
Sir age maa baap kahain k apni bv ko maaro to kya khawand ko marne lag jana chahiye... sir her rishte ki apni ehmiat hai... or aurat k bare me sawal us k khawand se ho ga na k khawand k maa baap se.. haan agar beta kuch ghalat kertA hai ya us ki bv ghalat kerti hai to apne betay ko zaroor samjhayain... mera point sirf ye hai k mian bv k apas k mamlat me nahi ghusna chahiye... us ko ye na kahain bv pe rob dabdaba rakho.. salan me namak taiz ho to us ko chanta lagayo... khawand ko apne hisab se deal kerte rehne dena chahiye.... baaki sir Allah hisab lene wale hai... apni niatain saaf rakhni chahiyein.. Allah ham sab ko hadayat de..
@@positivevibes5079 sir aurat se sawaal uske khawand ke ghar ke baare mein bhi hoga ( Surah Nisa'a )... Tou kia aapko Lagta hai har Khawaand ka ghar bina "Walidain" ke hoga? Aur Kia Biwi Khawaand ke Walidain ki Properties, gold aur Jaidad ko accept nahi karegi unke inteqaal ke baad?
@@AbrarAhmed-ep2ru hmmm.. sir ye point valid hai aap ka........ asal me I think in points ko or jo aap k sawal hain in sab ko le ka aik comprehensive kisam ki question answers session hona chahiye... ya koi dars aisa ho jis me do tarfa nazria rakha jaye.......mujhe aap ka to nahi pta lekin mein khud ko is qabil nahi samjahta k bharpoor andaaz me is pe baat ker sakoon... mera sirf ye concern hai k mard or aurat ko apna apna maqam pta hona chahiye or dono ko apne faraiz ehsan tareeke se hal kerne chahiyain...... or alag hone k dalail meri knowledge k mutabiq zyada hain... lekin ap ka sawal boht valid hai k walidain kahan jayain... or us k sath larkay, bv or waldain ka kirdar kya hona chaiiye is hawale se...
Mother-in-laws nowadays are mostly two faced..they treat their children as precious while treat the daughter-in-law as slave, want to have full control over her daughter-in-law's life..even being sick she is not given any relief from work, if she oversleeps due to illness they start taunting and making faces while when her own daughter is sick she will call her to live with her and won't let her do any work...can't live without seeing her own daughter even for a day while wouldn't let the daughter-in-law visit her own parent's house...They plot against the daughter-in-law most of the time and say bad things about her to everyone even though she is trying her best to serve her in-law's family...The Daughter-in-laws are only slaves to most of the Mother-in-laws no matter how good natured and educated she is...😞
Mojy koi asya tariqa batay k mere beta namz k liye a jay or farmbardar bun jay
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Masla kitchen hi tu hai
As'salam o Alaikum
Sir Please Give some lectures for positivity. I am at stage of my life where i really can't understand what is happening to me , I'm actualy a very Positive person And Alhmdulilah i have strong tawakal in ALLAH but Sometimes shaitan or my nafas causes me undue Stress and Depression. I don't want to disobey ALLAH with any of my action Please Tell me some zikr for this Please. Hope you will see this ! I don't have any other mean to talk you.
السلام وعلیکم ورحمة الله وبركاته
sister I can understand what you mean and how you feel as I too feel the same way..I feel that no one understands me except for ALLAH Subhana hu wa ta'ala.. I too feel so depressed sometimes and have a very hard time in controlling my anger.
For me I find relief when reading the quran with translation and trying to ponder over its verses and their meanings.. instead of racing to finish the quran this Ramadan I'm taking my time and reciting slowly and trying to gain more understanding by the will and mercy of ALLAH
Solution accha hai..
Mostly middle class mai bilkul aise he hota hai...
But i have one question to you!
Ke maa baap jab boodhe ho
Aur beta out of country ho
Tou unki khidmat ki zimmedari kese puri kari jaye..
Qki ajkal ki bahu nahi karna chahti hai...
Please anwser it?
Aslkm wrwb!
Bahu nhi kerti to ap ek nauker rakhlen...jis biwi ko apne shoher se muhabbat hogi wo khidmat zaroor kre gi ..lekin shoher k walden ka bertao theek hona chahiye shiher ki ghair maujoodgi mein kyu k aksar saas sasur iska najaez daeda uthlete hain tbhi to biwi unki khidmat kerna to door sath b rehna nhi chahti.
Aisa rishta accept karna chahye?
Asslam o alaikum wa rehmatullah webr hu . My name is mussadiq nazar i did chemical engineering and recently serving in oil sector as a process engineer.. em also doing 4years kuliaya tus - sharia from one of the famous branch of JAMAT UR RASHEED KARACHI named as HIDAYA ACADEMY.. iam living in islamabd and i want to join youth club for the purpose of dawaah..
Assalamualaikum,, mara Zahn aik bat sa boht preshan rahta ha, K Michelle choti choti Baton sa hurt ho jati hun,, phir m bout roti hun,, sometimes baghair kisi waja k rona ata ha ,,kindly diagnose me,, m kia krun?
Love from kashmir
Lekin hota Yun hai k saas susar Apne betay se khidmat Lene Ka zariya uski biwi ko smjhte Hain..yaani beta hua is zimmedari se mustasna,nashta Khana Mai Zara si kotahi pr beta bhi aur saas susar BHI bahu se baaz Purus shuru krdete Hain..
Unfortunately agar ham apni society me aise bat krte hen to log kahte hen ki ye abhi se apne maa baap ko chorna chahte hen 🙄
no it's not unfortunate, ye sirf aap ka future hota hai k jo aap karain gay wahi aap k bachay bhi karain gay aur ye Allah ka insaf hai jis main koi shak nahin
@@saleemchohan1255 ji bilkul
Sir ap wsy tu bd lecture dety ha addiction pr .but ap sy contact kesy kry .or kese baat ap kesy kry
What is the name of D scholar other than Muhammad Ali?
janab mera har busnus me ham log yani mera beta ka har busnese me nuksan hi hota he apki sare.vidio..deka he bhuut nukasnet ho chuuka..ap se hall batye .mera name javed bete ka nme waqar majid...frome india..allha..apki deien me izafa kare..
bhaai aap aur aap k ghar walay sirf drood shareef aur Astaghfar parhye, wuzu bina wuzu, uthtay baithtay, In Sha Allah aap ki sari mushkilain khatam ho jayen gi
SHUKRIYA JANAB
Sahi hal ha ik to susural walo ki chaplosian b krni parti ha sare kam b krny party ha phir b aglo ka moo bana rehta ha. Phir sara din ye sochny me guzer jata ha k bhala me ne kya kia tha aj jo in sab ka moo bana ha 😂
India aur Pakistan jaise mulkon me iski koi ehmiyat nai hai...yahan bahuon ko noukar smjha jaata hai aur inki koi auqaat nai hoti ghr me
Bhot zyada discrimination aur humiliation ka saamna krna pdta hai ghr ki bahuon ko Jo bhot unfair hai
*aap yaha 1 point miss kar rahen hen. Point is har husband ko apney status ke mutabiq maintenance dena chaiye.*
Agar flat me rehtay hon to phir is ka kya hal hai?kyun k flat me portion nhu banaya ja sakta aur aj kal mostly 3-4 rooms k flat me shadi kr k biwi ko apni mother k sath rakha jata hai takay mard tension free rahy lekin biwi ko jo mental aur physical torture mil raha hota hai mother in law se wo janray boojhty shohar nhi mantay aur 10,10 saal ye aziyat bardasht krne k bad bhi agr biwi alag ghar ya portion ki demand kar lay to istata'at hone k bawajood biwi ko nafarman ka laqab dia jata hai aur kaha jata hai aise hi rehna hai to raho warna chali jao,alag hojao may alag nahi rakh sakta aur agar alag rahogi to may apni maa k sath rahonga tmhare aur bachon k sath nhi.
Is surat me bhi rehnumai farmayen please.
Sir kindly iss topic pe b bat karein k jo rishta aya hou n larka bahir hou n shadi kar k chala jae n phir larki 6/8 months ya saal baad visa lage n phir bahir jae
agar log achay hain to koi farq nahin perta, meri wife kayi salon k baad America aa saki lekin wo meri walida k saath hi rahi, sometimes ye possible nahin hota k husband saath hi lay jaye, bahut visa ki aur immigration ki qanooni majbooriyan hoti hain
Chachhi(recpect fully) bhot inyeligent hai.
Thank you Sir
❤️
Best soloution,by the way kon h mohterma?
See the video of the entire podcast on this channel. Ali bhai gave her intro in the starting.
First of all if man cannot afford even a small separate portion then he should not get married or Atleast accept that this is his weakness and should compensate by other ways, and also what if husband has his own house and other family members share it? In that Case wife still has to compromise, may Allah give us hidayah. Ameen
Marriage is run by compromise and sacrifice like every other good and strong relationship. Marriage is not run by "You give me that, and I will give you this." Marriage is not a business deal. Nowhere in shariah Allah commands men that if you cannot afford separate portion then DONT GET MARRIED. The purpose of marriage is very noble one. A man marries to save his eman, to continue his progeny and for mental and physical peace. If the man is of good nature and pious, but cannot afford separate portion, he should be very good to his wife and secure her mentally through every support.
If the house belongs to man and other family members share it, then should he kick them out? Is that expected of a man who is a brother and a son. What's wrong in wife compromising in that? As mentioned above, marriage is not a dry and rigid business deal that a partner will only be happy if all conditions and rights are fulfilled. Marriage is a blessed Institute whose pillars are compromise, sacrifice, taqwa. And this applies to both husband and wife.
Hope it answers.
Jzk
@@MuhammadAlichannel study Quran more deeply. Your reply seems just a reaction to the comment.
@@MuhammadAlichannel Actually the shariah does dictate that if a man cannot afford to marry, then he should instead fast,
what's wrong in a wife 'compromising' and agreeing to live with her brother in laws is everything, it is haram, the prophet of Allah swt told us the brother in law is death.
marriage is not a business deal but both husband and wife have god given rights they do not need to compromise on, these protect the wellbeing and welfare of both and society at large, a woman having her own quarters, not necessarily a villa or an entire house is one of the most basic rights of a woman found in the QURAN, Allah in his infinite wisdom knows well the evils that come from denying this right or expecting a compromise on a womans right to privacy
Es system ki waja se sirf miyan biwi ki nhi bachay bhi disturb hotay hain.😔
nahin bhai system ki wajah say nahin dil chotay honay ki wajah say, khud gharzi ki wajah say
@@saleemchohan1255 ho sakta hai ....aaj kal har koi shayad gharz k saath hi jeeta hai......hum muslims hain laikin humari knowledge deen mein sirf apnay matlab ki had tak hai......
Bhai ye lady kon hai? Plz batay?
Lo aab to UAE ne bhi unmarried cohabitation ko and alcohol ko legal kar diya , quamaat sach me najdeek hai
bohot heee zyaada afsos hua mujhay bhi... arab ki barbaadi shuru ho chuki hai.. Allaah Taalah hidaayat dain hum sab musalmaanon ko... aameen
@@ummrawamus 😥
Rasul ne har biwi ko alag ghar diya tha.. Unpe ma baap aur bhai bahno ko zimmedaari nahi thi to 4-5 alag kamre dene me kya jata hai.. Ma baap aur family ko sambhalna nahi tha.. 1-1 biwi ko ghar dena aasan hai