Actively cheating, threatening to kill her, scaring her into leaving and then committing suicide while she's otp is so abusive and the ultimate manipulation.
Right and people in the comments are still blaming her! His own family said he struggled with his MH long before amber, it’s not her fault! She’s the only victim in this situation.
My opinion is that they were together too young and too long. They didn’t get to know themselves as individuals because they were consumed in a relationship with one another. So many people that are in relationships before they get to actually know themselves individually usually get lost in the other person and it becomes hard to self identify. 😢
Tbh a lot of ppl work out being in a relationship at a young age and some don’t that’s life . I don’t really think it’s that. I think they weren’t meant for each other like she wasn’t his person and vice versa. Tbh Lucas was suffering with a lot before he met Amber so that was the main trigger point he never healed not because they were together young he should’ve put himself first before jumping into a relationship. I think he was 20 and she was 23/24 when they first got together if I’m not mistaken around 2017
Exactly. They should have broke up to find themselves a long time ago. If you aren’t happy in a relationship, leave and go no contact. Don’t do the toxic half in and half out thing. It is okay to feel lonely sometimes. Learn to enjoy your own company.
It’s so weird because it seems like he was raised well. He didn’t seem too wrapped up in his looks or social media. Parents are still together. In their earlier videos, she always had a little attitude and he was always caring and super polite. I assumed he liked his women a little spicy. They seemed like a good match. He was always talking about G-d and they were praying before meals. What went so wrong?! It’s so sad. Did they realize they were unmarried with no kids and could separate?
Lucas just wanted somebody who was obsessed with him. Somebody who loves him more than himself. And that doesn’t exist in everybody. He loved her down and it’s okay to carry that expectation with you but it never ends well. I don’t take my own advice but we gotta love ourselves first. It’s not easy but it’s necessary. ❤❤❤❤ all love to everybody.
Another pick me! He was cheating while also threatening to kill her if she left. Some of yall women have such dirt poor standards. No wonder BW get killed more than any other race of woman in the US. Just thirsty. Glad Amber got away.
@DaHoodAdvocate this isn't really about innocent its more about mental health but all I know is alot of people owe her an apology for blaming her and sending messages to that girl,she had to deal with cheating,threats upon his life and hers,and manipulation and she was most likely scared that he would do something to himself and that's why she stayed but when she finally decided to leave he committed suicide over the phone so that girl is mentally drained and traumatized.
@@breannasmith4344 it’s not about innocence but it’s true. Both Lucas and Amber are at fault for the outcome of their relationship. They both should’ve left each other alone and evidently weren’t strong enough to do so. He already had his mind made up to kill her and himself. By the grace of God she was able to get away before he hurt her.
She gives I’m the baddest and she isn’t and she only played mean so he could chase her because she knew he could do better and if she was nice he would move on like girl bye .. her whole attitude and approach is just disgusting… he telling u he loves u so much and it hurt to say something cute back nah she is a weirdo .
I hate y’all in these comments. Why do y’all keep neglecting the way Amber treated him? As if verbal & emotional abuse isn’t a thing as well. They were both abusive to one another. She also gaslit him A LOT. She was not innocent. Amber disregarded his feelings constantly. Many women have a tendency of doing this not realizing how crushing it is for men. They also have feelings. Smh
so, is this a reason for him to threaten to kill HER and then him? to call HER and off himself on the phone? and traumatize her for life? do you hear yourself?
Damn he should’ve just let her go, she never reassured him. Always made him feel replaceable. I’ve seen numerous videos to back my assumption. Saying you love someone means nothing at the end of the day when you can air out their business and say little hurtful passive aggressive comments.
so she’s the reason why he did what he did? are you dumb? he literally told her that he would kill her & she had to he running for her life, he needed help and yall wanna blame this girl? no woman is gonna stay with a man for all those years & not love someone he cheated on her multiple times and stayed wtf
@@jamelashukura3110 did I say she was the reason he did what he did to himself? are YOU dumb? What I’m saying is whatever happened in their relationship was not only him. She also had a part to play into the toxicity, being aggressive and belittling his feelings. By saying things like “you dragged it” after she aired him out and told him not so nice things. When she continuously say mean things while he’s quiet. That’s verbal abuse. So to go on live and try to clear yourself to paint him as an abuser when she was also an abuser is weird. They should have just went their separate ways. She never took accountability for the part she played. He’s gone, stop beating him down when he cannot defend himself. Doesn’t make him telling her he was going to kill her right but it’s cause and effect. Never had to end that way, and if someone is considering hurting themselves get someone involved, don’t add to it by saying crazy shit. When people are in a certain mental state even if it’s not fair. Don’t throw fire on what’s already burning. I just hate how she got on here to make it seem like she was sitting there taking abuse. Not the case, don’t let her guilt trip you. It’s horrible what she went through yes but the moment she started making him seem insane and pointing fingers she made herself look bad. Saying things like “be careful who you date” like he was always like that to her. When it started getting bad she gaslit him calling him emotional and stuff. Watch all their live. How she moved with him. They be good and she say things. That’s verbal abuse.
This man cheated on her multiple times. She had to run to escape he even threatened to unalive her. She left him and 2 days later after she ran away he unalived himself on the phone on her birthday. This man is sick how is this her fault. He was abusive and permanently traumatized her
@@COPESWITHIT Stfu. They were both abusive. Verbal & emotional abuse exists, not just physical abuse. We all saw the way she handled him as well. Everything wasn’t him.
2:08 …..sheeeeee didn’t have the best attitude and maybe because he was cheating, but leave if you don’t wanna deal with that. They provoked eachother. 5:54 and didn’t nobody on her lives ever tell her she deserved better. She wanted him to feel like she didn’t care about him for whatever reason andddddd, he finally believed her …which is why he deleted himself. All she had to do was reassure him. Why stay with him just to treat him like sh*t????
I just think it’s unfair that he’s not here to speak for himself. I’m not saying it was her fault but it definitely takes two. She provokes him it seems and two stubborn people don’t work. Both of them are at fault I believe.
Nah looking back at this got me soo mad and upset I love him and Amber but this was toxicccc. Wanted to cry when he said “you think my love not stronger than yours” like Amber could’ve reassured this man the signs were there and I feel bad for Lucas I feel like they were both projecting there issues to the live wish he got the help he needed. He should’ve been with someone else that matched him vice versa R.I.P Lucas I messed with his music heavy 🕊️🤍
I agree. She had that “IDGAF” attitude and knew he loved her and wasn’t gon leave her alone. Even if he cheated, abused her, etc. she stayed with him through it all. Both of them were abusive towards each other.
stfu he literally killed himself on the phone w this girl after trying to kill her as well. she most liked tried leaving many times & he manipulated/threatened her into staying. no woman can match that “vibe”
You gotta realize even him saying certain stuff like I need to find someone that could do whatever for me whatever he said it’s like a form of manipulation gaslighting her in this video and saying things to get a reaction he was trying to have complete control and she was probably very well already out of the relationship so it’s not about being mean when someone is constantly cheating on you Belittle you saying all sorts of crazy things what are you supposed to do ??? he couldn’t even take the break up and move on
They should've been left each other alone before it became so damaging. He showed signs of weird behavior. Somebody should've got him admitted to save him 😢 I'll miss his music. I thought he was so talented 🕊🕊🕊
dang she was rough with him, you can tell she didn’t respect him. not saying she’s responsible but it’s objectively wrong to speak to anyone you love the way she was talking. EDIT: now that i know he did what he did while otp with her i have no remorse and am happy she’s free from the relationship.
bitch stfuuuuuu, you don’t know what they had going on. They both disrespected each other, his death has nothing to do w her and she is not to blame in any capacity
@@armyprincessshell6736if he cheated on her so many times, he was clearly unhappy and she shoulda left him for her own self respect. She seems controlling and like she do too much
@@avamelia7410she did leave but he kept coming back to her. Why are y’all so mad about her “doing too much” but have nothing to say about his cheating? Cause if that’s the case why didn’t he also leave her for being mean or controlling towards to him?
My opinion is he seemed unhappy af even from his tweets etc I wish he got to be single I feel the relationship held him back from opportunities or something an that if he was single or with the right person who truly made him happy he’d would still be here. But his eyes an his words he was very unhappy. It seemed toxic.
Like how dare you this young girl just lost someone she spent years with and here come analyzing old azz videos to bash her. Get a life and get it fast.
STOP 🛑 OKAY PLEASE RESPECT LUCAS COLY HIS FAMILY AND AMBER H SHE IS BROKEN 😞 INTERNET HAS NO SYMPATHY ❤️🩹 OR EMPATHY THIS MAN TOOK HIS LIFE!!!!! STOP THE BLAME GAME
How is y'all blaming her for him killing his self, yall are sick asf. He put her through so much shit for so many years, how many times has he threatened to kill her, how many times as he cheated on her and she took him back, how many times has he tried putting his hands on her. Like how many mf times has he put her and her family & close friends in danger. Like y'all really don't know shit so stop blaming her for choosing her self and her family and close friends safety. He had problems he had anger issues that he could not control that why he killed he self. 💯
What does attractiveness have to do with being in a relationship?😂😂 clearly they were attracted to each other, there’s no such thing as being “too attractive”😂🤦🏾♂️
Actively cheating, threatening to kill her, scaring her into leaving and then committing suicide while she's otp is so abusive and the ultimate manipulation.
And above all ghetto
Right and people in the comments are still blaming her! His own family said he struggled with his MH long before amber, it’s not her fault! She’s the only victim in this situation.
They were together for 8 years. Lucas isn't a bad guy. He just really loved her and crashed out at the end.
She wasn't an angel though
@@shantedunn5950 so you’re deeming his actions to be valid?
My opinion is that they were together too young and too long. They didn’t get to know themselves as individuals because they were consumed in a relationship with one another. So many people that are in relationships before they get to actually know themselves individually usually get lost in the other person and it becomes hard to self identify. 😢
Tbh a lot of ppl work out being in a relationship at a young age and some don’t that’s life . I don’t really think it’s that. I think they weren’t meant for each other like she wasn’t his person and vice versa. Tbh Lucas was suffering with a lot before he met Amber so that was the main trigger point he never healed not because they were together young he should’ve put himself first before jumping into a relationship. I think he was 20 and she was 23/24 when they first got together if I’m not mistaken around 2017
Exactly. They should have broke up to find themselves a long time ago. If you aren’t happy in a relationship, leave and go no contact. Don’t do the toxic half in and half out thing. It is okay to feel lonely sometimes. Learn to enjoy your own company.
It’s so weird because it seems like he was raised well. He didn’t seem too wrapped up in his looks or social media. Parents are still together. In their earlier videos, she always had a little attitude and he was always caring and super polite. I assumed he liked his women a little spicy. They seemed like a good match. He was always talking about G-d and they were praying before meals. What went so wrong?! It’s so sad. Did they realize they were unmarried with no kids and could separate?
Some of y'all in the comments need to touch grass.
Pray for amber
Lucas just wanted somebody who was obsessed with him. Somebody who loves him more than himself. And that doesn’t exist in everybody. He loved her down and it’s okay to carry that expectation with you but it never ends well. I don’t take my own advice but we gotta love ourselves first. It’s not easy but it’s necessary. ❤❤❤❤ all love to everybody.
Whoever is gonna comment some bullshitt on my comment, I won’t come back to this video ever again. ❤️❤️❤️
Another pick me! He was cheating while also threatening to kill her if she left. Some of yall women have such dirt poor standards. No wonder BW get killed more than any other race of woman in the US. Just thirsty. Glad Amber got away.
Idc if you come back or not but he was cheating. That's not love.
He told her he would unalive her. That is not love. Y’all just be saying anything. I also don’t care if you come back to this shit either
That is not love it’s fucking abuse. Y’all are insane
He was a sucker for her and she knew it
Don’t know this couple but just research him bc of his death… but she is annoying asf and they had a very toxic relationship on both sides
Just because he was in the wrong in the end CLEARLY it don’t matter the Toxicity still went both ways sometimes.
2:38 “Spirits are real. She be having the spirit of a witch.” 😢💔
I don’t think it was completely lucas fault amber treated him badly you can tell he was broken inside
No one is innocent in that relationship
Not one. I strongly believe she was mentally and emotionally abusive towards him. They loved each other tho.
@DaHoodAdvocate this isn't really about innocent its more about mental health but all I know is alot of people owe her an apology for blaming her and sending messages to that girl,she had to deal with cheating,threats upon his life and hers,and manipulation and she was most likely scared that he would do something to himself and that's why she stayed but when she finally decided to leave he committed suicide over the phone so that girl is mentally drained and traumatized.
@@breannasmith4344 it’s not about innocence but it’s true. Both Lucas and Amber are at fault for the outcome of their relationship. They both should’ve left each other alone and evidently weren’t strong enough to do so. He already had his mind made up to kill her and himself. By the grace of God she was able to get away before he hurt her.
The internet has caused the demise, mentally or physically of many.
In other words, he wouldn't be able to take the pain of her leaving him so he left her forever
6:30 didn’t age well 😢
She gives I’m the baddest and she isn’t and she only played mean so he could chase her because she knew he could do better and if she was nice he would move on like girl bye .. her whole attitude and approach is just disgusting… he telling u he loves u so much and it hurt to say something cute back nah she is a weirdo .
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Rs she killed him
I was thinking the same thing don’t know’em very well but da videos I have watched she be doin to much and she ain’t cute no shade💯💯
I hate y’all in these comments. Why do y’all keep neglecting the way Amber treated him? As if verbal & emotional abuse isn’t a thing as well. They were both abusive to one another. She also gaslit him A LOT. She was not innocent. Amber disregarded his feelings constantly. Many women have a tendency of doing this not realizing how crushing it is for men. They also have feelings. Smh
Mutual ab*se doesn’t exist. She was reacting to years of mistreatment. She finally had enough.
so, is this a reason for him to threaten to kill HER and then him? to call HER and off himself on the phone? and traumatize her for life? do you hear yourself?
@@ToyaMelGirl bye. To react to it on live is toxic.
I agree.
@@sally-rq5onYes, yes, yes & yes. The answers to your questions.
this didnt age well RIP LUCAS💔
Chileee 😩🤦🏾♀️
They were very bad for each other but too immature and blind to see it... 9 years😮 that aint love, its codependency and attention seeking
Damn he should’ve just let her go, she never reassured him. Always made him feel replaceable. I’ve seen numerous videos to back my assumption. Saying you love someone means nothing at the end of the day when you can air out their business and say little hurtful passive aggressive comments.
so she’s the reason why he did what he did? are you dumb?
he literally told her that he would kill her & she had to he running for her life, he needed help and yall wanna blame this girl?
no woman is gonna stay with a man for all those years & not love someone
he cheated on her multiple times and stayed wtf
@@jamelashukura3110 did I say she was the reason he did what he did to himself? are YOU dumb? What I’m saying is whatever happened in their relationship was not only him. She also had a part to play into the toxicity, being aggressive and belittling his feelings. By saying things like “you dragged it” after she aired him out and told him not so nice things. When she continuously say mean things while he’s quiet. That’s verbal abuse. So to go on live and try to clear yourself to paint him as an abuser when she was also an abuser is weird. They should have just went their separate ways. She never took accountability for the part she played. He’s gone, stop beating him down when he cannot defend himself. Doesn’t make him telling her he was going to kill her right but it’s cause and effect. Never had to end that way, and if someone is considering hurting themselves get someone involved, don’t add to it by saying crazy shit. When people are in a certain mental state even if it’s not fair. Don’t throw fire on what’s already burning. I just hate how she got on here to make it seem like she was sitting there taking abuse. Not the case, don’t let her guilt trip you. It’s horrible what she went through yes but the moment she started making him seem insane and pointing fingers she made herself look bad. Saying things like “be careful who you date” like he was always like that to her. When it started getting bad she gaslit him calling him emotional and stuff. Watch all their live. How she moved with him. They be good and she say things. That’s verbal abuse.
@@jamelashukura3110 these females be superficial in their way of thinking. It don’t be nothing there beyond the surface that’s why they go for looks.
This man cheated on her multiple times. She had to run to escape he even threatened to unalive her. She left him and 2 days later after she ran away he unalived himself on the phone on her birthday. This man is sick how is this her fault. He was abusive and permanently traumatized her
omg, so many of you guys lack comprehension skills.
She not a vibe at all, she act like a 🥷
The cute one is always crazy
Both are toxics Rest in peace 🙏🏾 and for Amber stay strong and heathly
She has a weird spirit and i’m unbias af he definitely was unhappy but being with a girl like this wouldn’t make anything better
@@yeahthatsmax exactlt
@@Moylatte^
Did you watch the live when she said he was abusive, disrespectful and a cheater? Cmon now.
Umm . She wanted to leave and he kept saying he will off himself if she did !
@@COPESWITHIT Stfu. They were both abusive. Verbal & emotional abuse exists, not just physical abuse. We all saw the way she handled him as well. Everything wasn’t him.
2:08 …..sheeeeee didn’t have the best attitude and maybe because he was cheating, but leave if you don’t wanna deal with that. They provoked eachother.
5:54 and didn’t nobody on her lives ever tell her she deserved better. She wanted him to feel like she didn’t care about him for whatever reason andddddd, he finally believed her …which is why he deleted himself. All she had to do was reassure him. Why stay with him just to treat him like sh*t????
It’s not her fault. That is not a normal or rational reaction to a break up.
I just think it’s unfair that he’s not here to speak for himself. I’m not saying it was her fault but it definitely takes two. She provokes him it seems and two stubborn people don’t work. Both of them are at fault I believe.
Nah looking back at this got me soo mad and upset I love him and Amber but this was toxicccc. Wanted to cry when he said “you think my love not stronger than yours” like Amber could’ve reassured this man the signs were there and I feel bad for Lucas I feel like they were both projecting there issues to the live wish he got the help he needed. He should’ve been with someone else that matched him vice versa R.I.P Lucas I messed with his music heavy 🕊️🤍
I agree
I agree. She had that “IDGAF” attitude and knew he loved her and wasn’t gon leave her alone. Even if he cheated, abused her, etc. she stayed with him through it all. Both of them were abusive towards each other.
stfu he literally killed himself on the phone w this girl after trying to kill her as well. she most liked tried leaving many times & he manipulated/threatened her into staying. no woman can match that “vibe”
You gotta realize even him saying certain stuff like I need to find someone that could do whatever for me whatever he said it’s like a form of manipulation gaslighting her in this video and saying things to get a reaction he was trying to have complete control and she was probably very well already out of the relationship so it’s not about being mean when someone is constantly cheating on you Belittle you saying all sorts of crazy things what are you supposed to do ??? he couldn’t even take the break up and move on
They should've been left each other alone before it became so damaging. He showed signs of weird behavior. Somebody should've got him admitted to save him 😢 I'll miss his music. I thought he was so talented 🕊🕊🕊
Damn her moderators are telling lucas to get out the camera 😢😂😅
dang she was rough with him, you can tell she didn’t respect him. not saying she’s responsible but it’s objectively wrong to speak to anyone you love the way she was talking.
EDIT: now that i know he did what he did while otp with her i have no remorse and am happy she’s free from the relationship.
bitch stfuuuuuu, you don’t know what they had going on. They both disrespected each other, his death has nothing to do w her and she is not to blame in any capacity
I hate to say it but he cheated on her a lot. We don’t know what he did in this moment for her to speak to him this way. Stop ridiculing her
Plus they argued a lottttt
@@armyprincessshell6736if he cheated on her so many times, he was clearly unhappy and she shoulda left him for her own self respect. She seems controlling and like she do too much
@@avamelia7410she did leave but he kept coming back to her. Why are y’all so mad about her “doing too much” but have nothing to say about his cheating? Cause if that’s the case why didn’t he also leave her for being mean or controlling towards to him?
Rest up luc 😭🫶🏿 rumors going around he unalived his self because of the relationship I hope not
Its true she went live about it 😢
@@PettyassVirgo I watched it as well smh
My opinion is he seemed unhappy af even from his tweets etc I wish he got to be single I feel the relationship held him back from opportunities or something an that if he was single or with the right person who truly made him happy he’d would still be here. But his eyes an his words he was very unhappy. It seemed toxic.
Girl shut up and stop projecting 🙄🙄
Facts.
@@VirgoDollno fr
@@VirgoDoll chile she wanted a chance
Like how dare you this young girl just lost someone she spent years with and here come analyzing old azz videos to bash her. Get a life and get it fast.
This was way To Toxic they needed to break up a long time ago but my condolences 💐 & prayers 🙏🏽🙏🏽
This was toxic energy. 😢
You can tell they weren’t in the right place on this video they were both kinda going at it
RIP Lucas Coly 🥺💔
Yall saw him threatening her on ig, but yet yall still blame her? Dude had issues, yall just don’t wanna face the reality of it
Anyone siding with her is wild. Look at how she talks to him, look at him, how aggressive she speaks. Y’all blind
Im so confused. I’m off social media n I’m tryna piece together what’s going on I’m just reading the new comments 🧑🏾💻
He could have done way better than her.
Right ...i thought to myself oh hell naww
STOP 🛑 OKAY PLEASE RESPECT LUCAS COLY HIS FAMILY AND AMBER H SHE IS BROKEN 😞 INTERNET HAS NO SYMPATHY ❤️🩹 OR EMPATHY THIS MAN TOOK HIS LIFE!!!!! STOP THE BLAME GAME
bruh she's a 5, how lucas found her attractive. rip bro😂
Amber didn't really love him she loved the fame..💔
@@astrqalstop lying , he didn’t killed her dog, he juss gave it away
@@misstimzy he killed her cat though...
@@rosieosabutey1448 no he didn’t !! I was on Amber live.. Lucas gave it away and the girl put it on her TikTok…
They were together 9 years I’m sure she checked out after the first 2
How is y'all blaming her for him killing his self, yall are sick asf. He put her through so much shit for so many years, how many times has he threatened to kill her, how many times as he cheated on her and she took him back, how many times has he tried putting his hands on her. Like how many mf times has he put her and her family & close friends in danger. Like y'all really don't know shit so stop blaming her for choosing her self and her family and close friends safety. He had problems he had anger issues that he could not control that why he killed he self. 💯
They both had attitude problems
He was WAY too attractive for her.
What does attractiveness have to do with being in a relationship?😂😂 clearly they were attracted to each other, there’s no such thing as being “too attractive”😂🤦🏾♂️
@@kilotooraw I said what I said.
Lightskin dudes like pretty dark skins tho, I think she’s very pretty and stylish she does come on live looking crazy tho but I think that’s human.
i wanna know what bitter bitch is under this comment - so dumb
@@semariadiana6021what does her darkskin have to do with attractiveness? Leave darkskin girls alone .
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oof
This didn't age well at all
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