Zolita is such a comfort for me :””))) I love hearing her talk abt firsts and dating stuff and life stories she literally RAISED ME and made me feel so much better and safer and normal at every stage of my life literally feel like I’ve been growing up w her coz I relate to everything she says/sings abt 😭😭
You two should do a show or something together.. .You are both instantly even more lovable when you are together… I can’t wait for Zolita’s movie and I am so grateful for her. We need our happy ending ❤ Also, will there be any ballet videos? I love your aesthetic…
I've always loved your videos, especially me growing up as a ballerina, but I feel since I started listening to the podcast like you're literally my best friend
45:11 Honestly, my craving for male validation is what kept me thinking I was bi for so long. I eventually realized though, that I didn’t actually want a relationship with men. I’m not by any means saying that’s you. But a lot of women who’ve had bad experiences with men have that craving for validation. Comp het even effects straight women, since it can impact the dynamics of their relationship with men.
This talk is so necessary, thank you Luna for bringing my Sapphic mother back, thanks to your SIFO video I came out of the closet with my sister and at my university
Omg watching ur last episode on sex the same exact thought crossed my mind i was wondering itd be SO awsome to view the topic from diverse sexual preference and now finally zoey can tell us HER point of view and her experiences i love this ❤
WHAT I’ve found your channel recently and I loved Zolitas music for like 2-3 years now, so now that I’ve seen this I just was so shocked and that’s so cooooool
one thing i did wanna mention is i used to do the same thing as luna when i was a kid with other girls and when i was in therapy i was told that it was considered as child to child sexual assault because both of us couldn’t consent. it caused a lot of embarrassment and shame for me growing up and i became sex repulsed i think because of those feelings from engaging in that as a kid. i would get intrusive thoughts about it after and i judged myself for it. in some ways maybe it is normal for kids to do that but it also can sometimes be trauma. trauma isn’t what happened to you, it’s what happens inside of you as a result of that and for me that child to child assault was traumatic because of the intense shame and repulsion i felt for years afterwards.
First episode I saw from you, thank you, this was so needed and I loved your honesty!! I felt very validated by you both sharing that you had pretend sex with girls at elementary school age, cause I had that too and I thought that was sooo weird, there was shame attached, I thought I'm the only one, and I never heard people speak about it. :) I have more compassion for myself now. Much love to you! Also: Just started watching Heartstopper and its so cute!!!! 💜
Knowing yourself is very good advice. However I'd take it a step further. They say communication is the most vital thing and that's true, but also doesn't work because people are too awkward with communicating things like this and they hold back too much. The best thing to do is to have your partner show you what they like by doing it to themselves (Self pleasure) Just one time, have them do this in front of you while you watch and don't interfere. Make sure they go from start to finish, and what you see will be instructional. Naturally you should also reciprocate for them too. The understanding it brings will always help.
Sometimes I remember how my guy best friend and I would have "pretend sex" around age 7 or 8 and that makes me feel so odd to think about now in hindsight haha. And that I'm pretty sure it was my idea because I'd seen romantic sex scenes in movies and was a little obsessed about kissing passionately. The period thing is so funny haha. My BF and I were living apart and only really able to see each other on weekend and then we were traveling a lot, so it was hard to set intimate opportunities. And then somehow we were on a terribly unfortunate schedule when I always had my period. And we tried period sex on a less heavy day, but he was a little freaked out about it. So menstrual discs fixed my issue haha! Totally recommend!
why does that matter? she can use whatever word she wants and she also just said how that word was only used towards her as a slur…no wonder she doesn’t use it a ton 😭
It's okay to try butt stuff buddy. Don't be so insecure in your own sexuality that you project it onto other people who are confident in theirs. Science verifies this. Also, women aren't fkn adapters kid. Maybe show some respect for women as sentient beings instead of treating them like inanimate objects for a creepy cave man mentality.
They both look like lesbians to me, it's the first time I've heard of them but it seems that the other says she's straight but she seems too interested and not because she's the sister but I really don't think she hasn't had sex with women.and then let's face it, what straight man wants to be with a woman who is obviously a lesbian but denies it to herself?
Я не сомневалась,что у Золиты хороший вкус!Freja Beha действительно,очень интересная,стильная и разная. Люблю твои,Zolita, фильмы и музыку, желаю всегда творческого вдохновения и любви! ❤ from Ukraine 🇺🇦☮️.
Zolita is such a comfort for me :””))) I love hearing her talk abt firsts and dating stuff and life stories she literally RAISED ME and made me feel so much better and safer and normal at every stage of my life literally feel like I’ve been growing up w her coz I relate to everything she says/sings abt 😭😭
You two should do a show or something together.. .You are both instantly even more lovable when you are together… I can’t wait for Zolita’s movie and I am so grateful for her. We need our happy ending ❤ Also, will there be any ballet videos? I love your aesthetic…
dying laughing at how fast she said she doesn’t care for male validation 😂 no second guessing at all. (45:25)
I've always loved your videos, especially me growing up as a ballerina, but I feel since I started listening to the podcast like you're literally my best friend
45:11 Honestly, my craving for male validation is what kept me thinking I was bi for so long. I eventually realized though, that I didn’t actually want a relationship with men.
I’m not by any means saying that’s you. But a lot of women who’ve had bad experiences with men have that craving for validation. Comp het even effects straight women, since it can impact the dynamics of their relationship with men.
This talk is so necessary, thank you Luna for bringing my Sapphic mother back, thanks to your SIFO video I came out of the closet with my sister and at my university
Omg watching ur last episode on sex the same exact thought crossed my mind i was wondering itd be SO awsome to view the topic from diverse sexual preference and now finally zoey can tell us HER point of view and her experiences i love this ❤
me finishing this episode and then continuing heartstopper :)) we really need a wlw equivalent
WHAT
I’ve found your channel recently and I loved Zolitas music for like 2-3 years now, so now that I’ve seen this I just was so shocked and that’s so cooooool
Ahhhhhh I love whenever you have Zolita on one of your videos and the podcast episodes have been so good ❤❤❤
i love how this ended, i feel like i needed to hear this! thank you
I can listen to you two forever! Love love love! 🩷
I love your podcasts w ur sister! I listened to her music bf knowing she was ur sister! 🩷 u guys
one thing i did wanna mention is i used to do the same thing as luna when i was a kid with other girls and when i was in therapy i was told that it was considered as child to child sexual assault because both of us couldn’t consent. it caused a lot of embarrassment and shame for me growing up and i became sex repulsed i think because of those feelings from engaging in that as a kid. i would get intrusive thoughts about it after and i judged myself for it. in some ways maybe it is normal for kids to do that but it also can sometimes be trauma. trauma isn’t what happened to you, it’s what happens inside of you as a result of that and for me that child to child assault was traumatic because of the intense shame and repulsion i felt for years afterwards.
SO EXCITED LOVE UR PODCAST LUNA! ❤
First episode I saw from you, thank you, this was so needed and I loved your honesty!! I felt very validated by you both sharing that you had pretend sex with girls at elementary school age, cause I had that too and I thought that was sooo weird, there was shame attached, I thought I'm the only one, and I never heard people speak about it. :) I have more compassion for myself now. Much love to you!
Also: Just started watching Heartstopper and its so cute!!!! 💜
you two have the most beautiful names and are so pretty 💕
You should make an episode on queer films/ how the community is portrayed on tv and such!!
Zoe and my definition of sex is the same and it pisses me off when people think it's only sex if it's penetration...
I would love to see a podcast ep with you two and your mom
Knowing yourself is very good advice.
However I'd take it a step further.
They say communication is the most vital thing and that's true, but also doesn't work because people are too awkward with communicating things like this and they hold back too much.
The best thing to do is to have your partner show you what they like by doing it to themselves (Self pleasure)
Just one time, have them do this in front of you while you watch and don't interfere. Make sure they go from start to finish, and what you see will be instructional.
Naturally you should also reciprocate for them too.
The understanding it brings will always help.
do we get ballet vlogs soon? i really really love them ❤
The Movie "Crush" on Disney is a good lesbian Heartstopper pendant, I think. Also with a happy ending💕
taking the zolita advices on dating now haha
Love you both so and I can listen to you both forever! ❤
Thanks, I need the advice from Zolita on dating 😂❤
Needed this! I’m pursuing my first same sex partner since coming out
I feel validated! I also had a hook-up experience with a guy and I felt NOTHING.
I had this with dating girls!
LOVE THIS❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰
I love it. Love Zolita
I can’t help but think she looks like Natalia Taylor
the title made me think you were dating your sister lmao
omg the am i a lesbian masterdoc SO REAL HAHA
How old are you ?
Sometimes I remember how my guy best friend and I would have "pretend sex" around age 7 or 8 and that makes me feel so odd to think about now in hindsight haha. And that I'm pretty sure it was my idea because I'd seen romantic sex scenes in movies and was a little obsessed about kissing passionately.
The period thing is so funny haha. My BF and I were living apart and only really able to see each other on weekend and then we were traveling a lot, so it was hard to set intimate opportunities. And then somehow we were on a terribly unfortunate schedule when I always had my period. And we tried period sex on a less heavy day, but he was a little freaked out about it. So menstrual discs fixed my issue haha! Totally recommend!
My daughter was born in 2012 and ive taken her to pride parade a couple of times.
If not attracted why did it happen .
Fingernails and tattoos and I'm a bi guy ..it's so easy to find queer..It's sort of magnetic..Queer finds queer!
she avoids the word lesbian a lot
why does that matter? she can use whatever word she wants and she also just said how that word was only used towards her as a slur…no wonder she doesn’t use it a ton 😭
Very naughty things their saying but everybody needs to know everything to have a nice time and be happy! 🙂
All men know that a Woman can be or is AC/DC.
It's okay to try butt stuff buddy. Don't be so insecure in your own sexuality that you project it onto other people who are confident in theirs. Science verifies this. Also, women aren't fkn adapters kid. Maybe show some respect for women as sentient beings instead of treating them like inanimate objects for a creepy cave man mentality.
Women live in a ridiculous alternate reality
They both look like lesbians to me, it's the first time I've heard of them but it seems that the other says she's straight but she seems too interested and not because she's the sister but I really don't think she hasn't had sex with women.and then let's face it, what straight man wants to be with a woman who is obviously a lesbian but denies it to herself?
literally what are you saying
Я не сомневалась,что у Золиты хороший вкус!Freja Beha действительно,очень интересная,стильная и разная.
Люблю твои,Zolita, фильмы и музыку, желаю всегда творческого вдохновения и любви!
❤ from Ukraine 🇺🇦☮️.
Then she ended up with a man again.
Who? Zolita is a lesbian.