💗Should I Find Out The GENDER Of My BABY?💙
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- Опубліковано 17 вер 2024
- 💗Should I find out the gender of my baby or have a big surprise?
That is a question I asked myself time and time again in especially my first two pregnancies.
It seems like such a simple to decision, but to indecisive minds like mine, it was quite the challenge.
I have experienced both finding out the gender and waiting until the birth and even something in between. I hope that this helps you if you are like me and just can not make up your mind.
On one hand it seems so nice to be able to plan but on the other hand waiting until the baby's Birthday is natures way. No matter what you choose congratulations on your blessing!
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Saw the title and thought you were expecting lol
Sian's Bookcases who knows maybe somewhere down the road. I did really want to share my experience with the surprise gender of Darien. 😊
@@DanielleBabyBliss Thank you for sharing
I thought you were pregnant for a moment and thought did I miss a video?!
The Mastermans Oh dear. Hope no ones disappointed. Do hope the video is interesting atleast.
Danielle Zavala was a great video not disappointing at all ❤️ much love from Australia 🇦🇺
The Mastermans Thank goodness! Lots of love to you too! Australia is on my bucket list for sure. Hoping to make it there in the near future like next couple years.
Danielle Zavala if you come to Melbourne one day would love to meet you!
@@DanielleBabyBliss And also travel along the West coast, it's very beautiful....plus I live there lol
I found out with both my 2 boys.. definitely agree about it making the pregnancy more exciting. And gave us better focus for thinking about names. Also it was still a surprise..just earlier.🥰
BUT if we have a 3rd, I am 90% sure that I will decide to wait this time. Reason being that I know I would be a tad shallowly disappointed if we found out it was a 3rd boy, as we will not be having more than 3 kids. But obviously once the baby arrived we would love the baby, and like you said, gender doesn't really matter at birth! For me it would just be the idea during pregnancy, and I have this idea in my head that I'd love to have a daughter since I already have sons.
Also it would be much cheaper to wait, as I don't think I could control myself baby clothes shopping in the baby girl section.😅
I love your hair like this. It’s very flattering on you.
I wanted to find out the first time and not the second but my husband is a planner and really wanted to know. He found out first from the doctor and scheduled a cute (small) gender reveal for me and our parents. It was fun and cute. I was happy that I found out because it took me a week to sort of “except” the sex. Of course I was happy either way, but I really felt like it was the opposite. So it helped me. :)
Kristina Ignagni Interesting perspective! I felt similar with#2. She is so perfect. I started getting so excited about Olivia having a sis after the initial shock of finding out the second when I wanted a surprise. 😀💗
I looooved finding out all 3 times! Loved hearing your stories!
So glad you enjoyed! I enjoy following your journey too! 😘
💗Should I find out the gender of my baby or have a big surprise?
That is a question I asked myself time and time again in especially my first two pregnancies.
It seems like such a simple to decision, but to indecisive minds like mine, it was quite the challenge.
I have experienced both finding out the gender and waiting until the birth and even something in between. I hope that this helps you if you are like me and just can not make up your mind.
On one hand it seems so nice to be able to plan but on the other hand waiting until the baby's Birthday is natures way. No matter what you choose congratulations on your blessing!
~Daily Updates On Instagram: @daniellezavalagram instagram.com/daniellezav...
🤍🤍🤍 you have such a soothing voice!
Angelina Joy Thank you! Nice to know. I think everyone is uncertain of if they get annoying to listen to. After I’m done editing my videos I’m like ugh so glad I don’t have to hear myself babble anymore lol 😂
I’m 34 weeks with my first, and decided to not find out as my parents told me it’s better to wait. I kind of wish I knew as I’d love to be a bit more prepared.. but I am excited to meet this little boy or girl very soon and I’m sure I won’t care at all about the gender once they’re in my arms ❤️
MyLittleJourney Yes as soon as little one is here it is so lovely and a lot is going on. 🥰
Sorry if I reply as Daniellebeautybliss (beautychannel) Forgot to sign out of there first! 😆
I just found you through UA-cam showing me your video and am hooked now 😍😍😍
Yay! Thank you!
First time in Switzerland we didn't want to find out but the doctor forgot and told us. "The baby is growing well, all looks good and it is still a boy..." I was glad to know though as I was so adamant my first would be a girl that it gave me time to become excited and very happy about having a son. The second time we had a home birth in Germany and I got to find our myself. A truly magical moment. Telling everyone it was a girl. I had to double check that "it" was not there :-D The third was born in a hospital in Scotland and we didn't know the gender. My husband was the one to tell me as I was half kneeling half on all fours. It also was a magical moment. A second daughter. We had a loss last year. But if we have another baby I am half thinking it would be nice to find out as we didn't keep any newborn clothes and it would be my last baby. But at the same time I loved the surprise. We will see. It will happen the right way in the end.
cheeerpa Such versatile experiences! Thank you for sharing your stories. I am so sorry for your loss. Wishing all the very best and blessings to your beautiful family. ❤️
Interesting video.🧡 I think I wouldn't be patient enough to wait until the child is born for the gender to be revealed. Even though a surprise would be nice as well....but I would be to curious
Jay in the USA Same. For me it was such a in the moment decision with my first for sure!
I used to think I would want to know ASAP. But now I think it would be fun not to know until birth. Babies don’t need a lot clothing wise so I’d just get mostly everything neutral unless I see an outfit that I can’t resist. Healthy is all I want. Boy, girl doesn’t matter.
And very easy to buy clothes for both and then return what you don’t need - that’s what I did with my third :)
Totally agree! I think part of why I am not drowning in boy things this time is I didn’t find out. Minimalism is a beautiful thing! The buckets of pink in my basement 😬
Bryana exactly!
I never knew the sex of any of my babies. We also never had ultrasounds(? the toxicity of them)... Homebirth Mama of 6 blessings :)
T. Ruth T That’s great fellow home birth mom. I had minimal ultrasounds since I was low risk. I really liked the idea of making sure everything was developing right before choosing to give birth at home 😀 Gave me peace of mind.
Wonderful video, thanks for sharing your experience. To be parents is an awesome thing, most important is that the baby is fine, in a good shape and health.
For my opinion i would be happy with everything, no matter what the gender is and i love a little surprises!
Robert Zander 💯 I absolutely agree. Healthy baby is the most important 😍
Omg I jumped at this video hoping you were pregnant thinking “wait how did I miss the 4th announcement?!” 🤣
Jeannette Elizabeth Oh no! Still hope the video was fun anyway xxx
I found out with 2 of mine. The 3rd one they were certain was a boy, they were wrong haha! For our adopted kids it was obviously different, we were adopting a boy and a girl. Then parents got pregnant. We knew about the baby before she was born but didnt know her gender until the day she arrived, it was such a sweet surprise knowing our 2 soon to be adopted kids had a baby sister, even more of a surprise that we would be getting said baby girl!
Cindy West Now that’s a lovely and interesting story! Thank you so much for sharing 😍
Hi Danielle!! 💜 How are you? Is your eye feeling any better?
I haven't had any children, so I can't say for sure, but think I might want to know the first. I remember with all of your pregnancies how you talked about those things, and how you mentioned about Leah, and you thought they spoiled the surprise for you.
Can't believe how long I've been following your journey though lol... I was soooo excited to hear about another American in Germany back then, and your experiences in general but also your natural style and of course all the baby stuff 😊... I do think being surprised is really cool though.
I remember the weekend you were having Leah, and me and hubs were on a day trip to Hamburg... and I was like she's totally going to have that baby soon, and kept checking my phone lol!!! We were in a movie theater, and I was checking it before and after the movie lol and then on the way home I was like ooooohhhh she had the baby lol! (: It feels simultaneously like yesterday and like a million years ago!
I hope you're well. My family is just getting over the winter colds, so I haven't been on UA-cam as much as usual, so I have a bit of catching up to do.
Your hair looks so pretty here. 😊 Are you excited about spring coming up? It's just around the corner. I'm so happy about it!!!!
I'm going to watch a few more videos now. 💚💜💚 I'm so sleepy haha don't know how long I'll still make it to stay up.... Sorry if there are any typos I missed lol...I am just so sleepy. I'm fighting it though, because work takes up so much of my day, that I want to have me time after! UA-cam is part of that! I was happy to see a video from you in my feed. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
All the best to you and your family! Have a lovely week!! 😊
IamKris411 aww this was the sweetest message ever! I love how much detail you went in about your excitement on Leah bugs arrival. I am like that too when someone I know is on the verge of popping 🥰🤣
The eye is still pretty red. I think it’s dry and irritated from heating and I’m looking into my computer screen more than usual. Hope it gets better soon too. Especially since we’re filming again today. 😆
So much love to you! ❤️❤️❤️
@@DanielleBabyBliss haha yes! I had followed your journey with her, I was invested lol 😊😊😊
I was also really sleepy when I wrote this comment haha! I tend to be a bit more wordy lol!
Can you get some eye drops? That may help a bit? I have this winter dryness a bit too. 💚💜
IamKris411 if it doesn’t calm down I may need to get some drops. Today a little better. Iv also stopped wearing eye makeup a few days 😊
Great video with good perspectives on both ways. We did not find out with our daughter and we loved the surprise. We did find out with our son and loved knowing. If we were to have a 3rd we would go with whichever felt right.
Hawaiian Punch Exactly. In this moment I feel I would find out but I guess I don’t know how I may feel in the future.
My mum and dad didn't find out with all 3 of their children. I definitely want a surprise.
Emma Charlotte You will love it! 🥰
I loved being surprised with my third baby and that is absolutely what I would do again :)
Bryana Lovely! 🥰
Great video as always. If I was pregnant I'd definitely want to find out what the baby would be. I am the most impatient person on the planet. Blame my dad for it.
I’m such a mix. I love surprises yet love to plan and day dream. Thank You so much for taking the time to comment! 👍😀
Waiting to find out if your pregnant lol
Okay no lol
@@LilySalinas11 Aww maybe one day! Who knows! Hope it was interesting anyway.
I literally clicked so quick.
amanda harland You are so lovely. Hope you aren’t too disappointed. 😬
@@DanielleBabyBliss it was very interesting😁. Alot of similarities with my first pregnancy. With the dreams and stuff
I thought I had missed a pregnancy announcement for a second 😂
Great video!
LovesOfJuneBug Oh no! Hope it was still a good watch! Xxx
I found out with my first (girl), found out with my second (boy) but for my third I want it to be a surprise because I have both already:)
Thalia Messmer Yay what a fun idea!
@@DanielleBabyBliss we will see if I could actually last. I'm so impatient! Lol
I would neeeed to know! 🤪
Patience is not my strong point, so hard to wait until the birth😁😁
Tori Ramsey Same! 👍❤️
First I didnt find out. Second i chose to see if I need to go clothes shopping or save my firsts. Lol the only reason
amanda harland Love it! Nice a practical! 😜
I want to wait to find out next time so that I have some more motivation in labor hahaha
Zanna True! I thought it would motivate me but again hormones and sensations were enough to keep my mind quiet to forget. We’re all different though. 🥰
See, you’re saying “partner” again! I’m not crazy!
Bryana I do not know why I have been switching it up lol 😂