I have both of the false vows Dr. Schuchts mentioned in the video. I've said them for years. Time to get to work on renouncing them.... After a difficult time a few years ago, my wife and I started saying our vows to each other every day when we wake up and before getting out of bed. It has been a wonderful way to start each day.
God placed this video on my feed at the precise moment in time. I am going through the darkest times in my marriage right now also due to my husband recently confessing to me the same thing Dr. Bob felt. It has completely crushed me. Please I ask for your prayers for my marriage so that the Holy Spirit can help my husband see where his fears are and the false vows he has lived out of. That The Lord brings him back home to his wife and two little ones.
wow - this just brought me confirmation for what the Holy Spirit made me realize today. That the pain that is coming up from hearing some news is because it is another part of me that Jesus wants to heal. I'm turning the corner today and seeing it as a healing opportunity. God is so good!
This is great! I am a widow of almost 18 years following a very troubled relationship with my husband for almost 40 years. All young married folks, please cherish and embrace this advice. Try to not point finger at your spouse but instead focus on your own personal anti-marriage vows. God Bless you!
"You enter marriage and think that your wife is your healing balm, but she's the diagnosing finger of God, to push on every break and find our where you are broken". - Thank you Chris. She keeps me on the narrow path, to my betterment, and she deserves my eternal love. I will remember these words when she gently corrects me and my pride wants to fight what I know deep down is right. Another line from you helps me....."Just do the next right thing". Thanks again for all you and your wife do for us!
I almost wouldn’t watch this because I tht it was going to be a classic judgementally type of message for Catholic ppl. But it’s the open wounds of marriage and vulnerability we need to get to in order to heal and live whole married lives. Thank you for your open heart.
Wow, it really took me back to my childhood experiences and led me to re-evaluate my thinking and behavior a lot.. thank you for this! I really find a lot of your videos so helpful! God bless you, your lovely wife & your family.. Regards all the way from India!
It's such an important book! When I read it I immediately started giving copies to my priest friends and others close to me. I go back to it again and again because there's always more to digest. I went to a monastery for a weekend with it to really enter in.
Please, please pray an urgent prayer for my marriage! My husband has filed for divorce and his heart is so hard against me. I am praying for reconciliation. Thank you 🙏
I am interested in this in hindsight. I married out of the church at 16. I was pregnant and the man I married was 21. Then I was married, out of the church, and had more children. 1 died and my husband was an alcoholic. Then my youngest son was electrocuted and had a near death experience. There was a lawsuit and my son got money. After healing a lot, I met my soul mate. I got a prenuptial to protect my sons finances. I felt it was my duty. My husband who I married in a church was unhappy about it and I don't think he ever got over it but I did not see the problem. Now that I have heard this, I have doubts. My husband recently died and I feel he and I are tied to each other eternally. Woe if it isnt so. He did have some issues with money also, but I love him and accepted his struggle. By the way I do not protect myself from what people think , but I am saying all if this to suggest that some circumstances requires some things that other circumstances don't. I am curious about your interpretation but even if that is not possible I want to say that not everything is black and white. There are situations. Thanks...I think I said too much....😅
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I have both of the false vows Dr. Schuchts mentioned in the video. I've said them for years. Time to get to work on renouncing them....
After a difficult time a few years ago, my wife and I started saying our vows to each other every day when we wake up and before getting out of bed. It has been a wonderful way to start each day.
God placed this video on my feed at the precise moment in time. I am going through the darkest times in my marriage right now also due to my husband recently confessing to me the same thing Dr. Bob felt. It has completely crushed me. Please I ask for your prayers for my marriage so that the Holy Spirit can help my husband see where his fears are and the false vows he has lived out of. That The Lord brings him back home to his wife and two little ones.
Hold tight
Jesus have mercy on this beautiful wife and her husband. Restore that man to his wife and children in the name of Jesus!
Praying for you now!
Heal, repair, and cherish the family life and vocation of marriage
Praying for you ❤
wow - this just brought me confirmation for what the Holy Spirit made me realize today. That the pain that is coming up from hearing some news is because it is another part of me that Jesus wants to heal. I'm turning the corner today and seeing it as a healing opportunity. God is so good!
This is great! I am a widow of almost 18 years following a very troubled relationship with my husband for almost 40 years. All young married folks, please cherish and embrace this advice. Try to not point finger at your spouse but instead focus on your own personal anti-marriage vows. God Bless you!
I am a Catholic Convert and so grateful to have heard this talk❤ it is very profound!
"You enter marriage and think that your wife is your healing balm, but she's the diagnosing finger of God, to push on every break and find our where you are broken". - Thank you Chris. She keeps me on the narrow path, to my betterment, and she deserves my eternal love. I will remember these words when she gently corrects me and my pride wants to fight what I know deep down is right. Another line from you helps me....."Just do the next right thing". Thanks again for all you and your wife do for us!
Thx brother. For being on THE road with us!
I love Dr Bob Schuhts and the healing work he does for the body of Christ!
I almost wouldn’t watch this because I tht it was going to be a classic judgementally type of message for Catholic ppl. But it’s the open wounds of marriage and vulnerability we need to get to in order to heal and live whole married lives. Thank you for your open heart.
I know that’s a “brand” but I honestly don’t encounter that more among Catholics than anywhere else..perhaps less!
Thx for watching!
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These insights are pure gold. Now, how to see them in the pain of the moments when we most need to?
Wow, it really took me back to my childhood experiences and led me to re-evaluate my thinking and behavior a lot.. thank you for this! I really find a lot of your videos so helpful! God bless you, your lovely wife & your family.. Regards all the way from India!
Thanks for this.
Has allowed me to re-evaluate.
God bless you
Keep at it....
Hey Chris, we know marriage is a sacrament, it does have smooth or rocky path but they will get along together through the pain or happiness.
Thank you for this profound presentation.🌺📿🙏
Beautiful, thank you.
Beautiful Love with God in the midst of it all. ❤
I need to read this book "Be Healed", instead of just meaning to. Thanks for the prompts.
It's such an important book! When I read it I immediately started giving copies to my priest friends and others close to me. I go back to it again and again because there's always more to digest. I went to a monastery for a weekend with it to really enter in.
Me too. I have it sitting on my shelf.
To have and to hold = 1 Corinthians 7.5 "do not defraud.."
Marriage is a natural/legal construct. The meaning of the vows are in Church LAW.
Please, please pray an urgent prayer for my marriage! My husband has filed for divorce and his heart is so hard against me. I am praying for reconciliation. Thank you 🙏
Robinson Cursoe, Tess of D' Urbervilles, get Three Musketeers for my son-he loves it
I am interested in this in hindsight. I married out of the church at 16. I was pregnant and the man I married was 21. Then I was married, out of the church, and had more children. 1 died and my husband was an alcoholic. Then my youngest son was electrocuted and had a near death experience. There was a lawsuit and my son got money. After healing a lot, I met my soul mate. I got a prenuptial to protect my sons finances. I felt it was my duty. My husband who I married in a church was unhappy about it and I don't think he ever got over it but I did not see the problem. Now that I have heard this, I have doubts. My husband recently died and I feel he and I are tied to each other eternally. Woe if it isnt so. He did have some issues with money also, but I love him and accepted his struggle. By the way I do not protect myself from what people think , but I am saying all if this to suggest that some circumstances requires some things that other circumstances don't. I am curious about your interpretation but even if that is not possible I want to say that not everything is black and white. There are situations. Thanks...I think I said too much....😅
Much fruit, thank you
Awesome!
God bless you
Jesus is using Bob Schuchts to heal the church.
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Very often the 40 yr. old man has to live with the decisions of a 19 year old.-author unknown
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If marriage is love, then no one can consent and everyone can get an annulment because love has no legal definition.
Thanks for this.
Has allowed me to re-evaluate.
God bless you