Why Gods Chosen Don't Fit In, Embrace Being Different
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- Опубліковано 2 січ 2023
- "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect" - Romans12:2
It’s not REJECTION
it’s PROTECTION!!! ❤❤❤
So true ! Blessed sis❤
Yes it is total protection! Praise his holy name!
Hearing this alot
Amen!
Yes I’ve come to realize that I don’t fit in because I was meant to stand out!!
We’re not supposed to fit in. We’re meant for more
I refuse to fit in ...im living the life God has destined me to be .❤
Which God?
I'm always alone, single and no friends and I love it. I'm a spiritual gangsta with 22 years in this earth since my first breath. Thank you my sister
Beautiful! Keep that mind set! ❤
Me too!
the only gangster is God.
You're not the problem, you are different. It's God's blessing
Amen! Because I been different from others for years and I been booted out because of being a child of God
Amen 🙏🏾
Thank you. I'm autistic.
IM ALWAYS THE BLACK SHEEP!!!! NEVER FIT IN ANYWHERE!!!!!
VERY VERY LONELY
I find myself feeling alone also but I fill my time with prayer and learning more about Christ. Although I don't feel "chosen" it provides comfort.
I feel the same way. It reminds me of high school with clicks and then they outcast others that are not "part" of the group.
I'm an introvert and I certainly don't fit in. From I was growing up I didn't fit in. I use to think that I was the problem. But that's not the case. Over the past year and half it drawn on me that I'm different. I was made to not fit in or do whatever the crowd deems popular, whether in person or on social media.
If you are depressed then you are living in the past, if you are anxious then you are living in the future. And if you are at peace then you are living in the moment. And that is were God acts upon your life. Knowing this and constantly monitoring my emotional state and seeing were I am at in my mind (in the future or the past) then bringing myself back to the current moment has changed my life and brought me so much closer to the most high creator of All.
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Wow! Thank u for that comment, I really needed that. God bless u!
2:07pm I am so happy with who I am and coverable.I sometimes have to hold the joy enword so.I do.I don't mind going fishing alone. I just have alot of peace. So ✌ everyone and love.
Yes. I feel like I don’t fit in anywhere. It hurts so badly sometimes.
Yes it does. I'm like what's wrong with me
I'm 56, and everything you describe in your introduction. No family left who talks to me. No close friends. Not even associates. I don't use social media. It's garbage. I've been alone all my life. Now I'm too _exhausted_ to care.
I feel rejection by the whole world.
I’m definitely this person. I never fit in in school and I’m beginning to think I don’t fit in with my own family but it’s cool I rather be set apart and be ready for God.
Everyone thinks this is them but its not. Only 1% of the world is chosen.
Remember when GOD HIMSELF interacted with this world (old testament) Abraham could not even find 1.
Dont slumber believing a lie.
I felt like this all my life. Even with some believers. I have come to enjoy my alonesness because I refuse to fit in. I'M ACCEPTED BY THE ONE WHO MATTERS MOST, JESUS CHRIST!
I’m naturally a friendly person but I notice that once I start talking about Jesus some of my friends would get so upset. I realized I can be friendly but I don’t have to compromise my faith for my friendships.
AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
Maybe some of your friends are narcissistic ? I'm pretty sure a narcissistic person would hate to talk about religion, so he will hate to talk about Jesus too. Talking from my experience. You should check with whom you spend your time with and test them.
Autistic, adhd, ptsd, rejected by family, no friends. My entire 49 years alone, bullied, ostracized, failing. No hope. No hope.
I will be your friend!! I also have ptsd, I am the outcast in my family because I no longer decided to go along with the lies and deceit! There is hope love! I talk to the lord because I know he is a trusted friend and companion and comforter!
@@thg348good for you
God is your friend
Thank God for brothers and sisters in Christ! I'm more than your friend I'm your Sister ❤ Hugs to you.
@thg348 Amen Sister ❤
Girl, I understand what you’re talking about. It happened at school, church, work etc… I don’t fit in. Rn, I’m at church and no one comes to greet me or try to get to know me. But God knows my name, He loves me and He’ll guide me.
I don't conform to this world.. people feel left behind when they can't understand your purpose on this 🌏
I don’t need anyone’s acceptance but my own, thank you for this message
All my life. The evil one has even whispered in my ear and told me I was "marked" or "cursed" that is why the cruel rejection keeps finding me, because I had experiences of abuse In childhood.
Being chosen is not an easy task, but we thank God who gives us strength day by day. And I'm so glad that there are amazing souls like you out there. May the Lord Jesus bless you with more wisdom and courage to continue doing His work.
Amen
Who is Jesus? This violates the 1st COMMANDMENT
I have always felt like I don't fit in. I feel like this world is not my home. I am lonely most of the time. I hate it.
I am a chosen one and being a chosen one is not easy. I have always being lonely and isolated for a very long time. I don't just fit in the crowd. When people are doing one thing, I do something different and think different out of the box I don't know why. Many people are scared of me and all my friends are leaving my life and they hate me know for no reason. Am 17 years old and what am going through know is too much for me. Thank you for the message.
Different is beautiful. I love it. ❤
but some things are harder☹️
Amen
@@anushree8984 Yeah that's true.
I can relate. I'm autistic. I regret masking for years because I never fit in.
I am going to be who GOD created ME to be. I have dealt with so many negative people, trying to make me think and act like them. I Thank GOD for opening my EYES to the TRUTH. NOW I CAN BE TO MYSELF AND BE CONTENT, JUST ME AND JESUS. THE 😈 FAMILY WAS THE WORST, I AM THANKFUL HE SET ME APART, 🙏 TO LEARN WHO I AM AND WHO I AM SUPPOSE TO ME. ❤😂😊 ❤ I THANK GOD FOR THE ISOLATION, NO MORE TRYING TO FIT IN WITH THE WORLD. THANK YOU FOR THIS WORD OF TRUTH❤❤🎉😊 KEEP SPEAKING TRUTH. GOD BLESS YOU!!!
I never fit in . I am quite, watching people, and most dont like me.
I'm 70 yrs old and the haters are still on the rampage.
@@MakeitmakesensejoI Thank God for my enemies, God said he would prepare a table for me in front of them. Amen . Do it Lord 🙏.
@@Makeitmakesensejo Lol. They are still on the rampage.
@putsomerespectonit.1638 Amen and Amen. This is so funny to me. 😆.
I don't care how old we get the haters are still active in our lives. But no weapon that formed against us shall prosper in Jesus Name.
this made me cry
In America church culture, it’s now “okay” to drink. I have literally been rejected by fellow believers for not engaging in drinking alcohol. What’s super strange to me is that I’m 51! Rejection happens at all ages.
I told my family the same that we shouldnt be drinking at all n they quick to say we can just dont get drunk
Wow smh stay on the straight and narrow sis.
They even like to justify it saying drinking is not the sin drunkenness is.
Pray the Lord leads you to a sound doctrine based Church my friend. God bless.
Stop being self righteous it’s absolutely nothing wrong if u choose to not drink an others indulge
Yup 100% that's exactly how I feel... from the day I was born.
It only took me 10 minutes to see that social networking was just a sham....
People should lead, follow or just get out of the way...
What a great soul you are. Sending love to all that read this.
People dont like my light co workers hate me slander my name on Point !! I still going shine shine in my lightt for tge Lord❤😂🙏🏽
The world love their own
Story of my life 🙏🏼 after 37 years I’ve found out why and it changed everything. Blessing in disguise ✨
I have gone through all you are speaking of sis. I never cared about being popular in school. I got called names in High school bc I would not be immoral. Even after being born again most I met in church do not have the close relationship with Yeshua that I do and they think I am odd. I go to a small home church where most of the people are like me, in love with Christ. I started going in January. Praise God Almighty.
Amen. It feels wonderful to know that God chose me. I am soo grateful to God. I love him so much. I strive every day to be closer to him. Jesus is the only way. Thank you God for your love grace and mercy. I never feel lonely because I know he is always with me.
If the world doesn't want to accept a child of God I see it has a protection against you engaging and entrapped which to re engage in the affairs of this world ,and polluted which is a an abaminition unto God. Nothing of this world would not lead you straight forward into heaven but if you do the will of God it would rather lead you much closer to God and it is freedom to not be yoke again by the weight of sin instead we are called out to be in heaven with God therefore we are ahead for the future coming of our lord saviour Jesus Christ to be there for fit in or accepted into heaven .let continue to keep our garments clean for the bride groom cometh
Being a tool vs being chosen requires discernment.
Just because you are different doesn't make you CHOSEN different. Don't steal HIS GLORY.
I was bullied at school. I had Frenemies. At times I played with them, at times I sat alone. They always picked fights with Me everyday. I end up getting sent to the Office and get a paddling. I told them My Mother wanted Me to hit those kids back if they hit me. I was very emotional and got angry easily so they enjoyed picking on Me. I had one special best friend who they bullied also and I always defended her. I was mentally, emotionally, and physically abused at home half of the time also as a Child. As an adult, I dealt with family issues, Me Vs Family. I battled with Church Hurt. Being Controlled by Church leaders. Today at 46. I still stand alone, having nobody hardly to talk to. When I try to connect with people, they still connect with who they want to connect with. Family, the same way. Church the same. I am waiting for God to send Me My Tribe. My Divine Connections, My Destiny Helpers. If He wants Me to overcome Rejection by continuing to stand alone, then I will.
I love this message! It really hit home for me. I was the bullied kid reading the book you described of and I still like reading books. Till this day, I still don’t feel like I fit in anywhere, no matter how kind I am to people. It’s a really lonely feeling but, I know God is with me wherever I go.
Same
exactly a misfit everywhere and among everyone. i m a forever misfit. I embrased it and accepted it. but people won't ever accept me being different. they have so much darkness inside.
Amen ❤ God always had me stand out since I was little I didn't know what it was and as I got into the word found out why peole have turned on me trashed my name for no reason it hurts but God knows why I don't like to do what everyone else does and waste my life ❤😢
Love your message sis, very well explained ❤❤❤
I’d Rather be HATED for who I AM……..
Than to be LOVED for who I’m Not
❤️❤️❤️ I will give you the recommendation and the respect that you deserve for the statement you made you are a very intelligent lady!!!! Probably more so then the lady giving the message!!!!
Remember... Don't be arrogant we absolutely must overcome who we are born into.
I definitely feel different and because I choose to focus on the Kingdom Of Heaven I get blaspheme and not taken serious. It’s hurts my feelings and It’s lonely right now but With God I’m grateful He never left of Forsaken me. thank you Val this Video was a God sent 😊
Whew! Your speaking truth.
Can relate to this video a lot I felt like this my whole life appreciate you 🙏🏾🙏🏾.
So true. I felt like I had to learn Amapiano (South African music) dances so that when someone of the world comes to me I know it so that I can appear like ‘’I’m not like other Christian’s’’ “I’m fun”, I felt like I had to prove and go to someone to show them I am worthy to be their friend. But in that flexibility I would be dividing my love between God and the world. Thank you for your message.
Stay real to your self I'm from south africa
I've never had anybody describing my own past that accurate 😂🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✝️🌹💓 God bless you Sister 🌹 you touch my heart in Jesus name 🙏🏻✝️💓
I’ve experienced not fitting and now I embrace it. I welcome it. Early on I would be teased for all sorts of random things but now I know who I am.
I've always been a person who everybody knew, hanging out with them an drinking an just having fun..but after my Baptism they started calling me sister Helen an alm sorts of names but it really didn't affect me because I know my purpose an I was being set apart for a reason..so thank you for your words of wisdom..God bless you my sister
Thank you Virtuous Val. I appreciate your help with this. I find myself still getting aggravated by how much I am treated so differently from everyone else. It's disturbing sometimes. Like today for instance. I'm at a reggae festival wearing my usual dress and head wrap (something other females were wearing as well) yet I see three people actually video taping me while I am just standing there or walking around. I wasn't doing anything out of the ordinary and I definitely wasn't half naked like some others were but I get stared at and talked about. Other females were wearing similar to what I was wearing but no one else was saying anything strange about them or acting like they were weird at all. Everywhere I go, people act strange when I am around. They get extremely loud, have forced laughter bouts, standing or walking near me for no reason, or plain old looking at me for prolonged periods of time. I don't know why they video tape me , that's so cringe. One girl was video taping me , then I put my phone up like I was video taping her back, then she suddenly puts her own phone down. LOL 😹...So weird. SMH. It's annoying sometimes
Thanks Di for realising me our worth and I am that kind of child who do not used to play in recess time during school days.
I been like this all my life, i never fit in even when i was in a relationship
I'm tell you I became homeless because I choose to become me not whatever one else including my family wanted me to be.
Know I love me, I love that I'm different, I love the light that radiates out of me🙏🏽💓🕊🌅
Needed to hear this thanks again sis for this message
I agree this is why I am watching your video right now. I have been struggling to fit in for a long long long time and it is causing me stress and anxiety. I agree with you acceptance is a big thing I just want to fit in and not be an out cast.
Powerful words
CONFIRMATION!!! THIS IS HOW I FEEL, ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN. NOW I UNDERSTAND. GOD HAS CHOSEN ME TO BE DIFFERENT. NOW I KNOW TO WALK ALONE AND TRUST, A BE WHO GOD CREATED 🙏 ME TO BE.❤❤❤😊😊
Thank you, this video/message is confirmation for me of my life situations. I was that child sitting alone , I am that co-worker that eats alone, and I often find myself in a crowd totally alone. I used to question was it my clothes, my appearance, was I unapproachable, was I rude. But since I no longer live as the world I find it as a constant attack on attempting to provoke me to get out of line with my beliefs. So thank you for sharing, now I have add strength to focus on my salvation not who's feathers are ruffled.
Be blessed..
That was me, that little lady...up until this very day. Thank you Lord for gifting me with the grace of peace, discernment & protection (not rejection & false affection) HALLELUJAH, a gift of God through Christ Jesus of Nazareth🙌🏽
I've been this way all my life.... My name is Jasper for a reason
I have definitely felt like this all my life however since a child I've known that I am chosen and this is what comes with the territory! 🔥🕊️
I feel the same way it so sad how people is today they don't appreciate you for you so sad but Jesus he love you no matter what
Amen,what it is to be holy, I have bane bullied,even by my own family,I always stood out and bane stepped on and looked down up on,they enjoy me being down,they have joy and pride within that,I used to cry untill I got headaches because it was like a routine or a cycle,and I still go through this
That what happens to me always but am not worried for I know God is with me, thanks for that powerful message and God bless you 🙏 🙏
Always…but we are in this World 🌍 but NOT of it 🙏🏼
Only time I ever felt like I "fit in" was with others who also didn't feel like they fit in anywhere.
We are all one in our awareness 🐘💙
We are in the world, not of the world...we are just travelers passing through ...this world is not our final destination, heaven is our destination.
All my life I've never fit in from about 5 yrs alone up to 64 yrs old...but the Holy Ghost came upon me 44yrs ago and convicted me of my SINS...I live a REPENTED lifestyle and I know I'm CHOSEN and. CHOSEN
Wonderful Message Sister 🙏🏾
To God be the Glory! It was not by chance that I came across your channel. Please, continue to be used as a conduit of the Most High.
Amen 🙏
I recently lost a job because of this. My boss was lying to me to control and intimate me and i was not doing anything wrong. She had green eyed envy all over her but i was kind to her. She's had been with the company 20 years and i had no recourse. I graciously took the slap but at least she is not calling me up on Monday morning and yelling at me anymore.
Amen sis 🙏🏾
I always feel like this every day when I go to work, sometimes at my fitness camp and in my social life in general. This message helped me to embrace who I really am. All a long I thought that it was me who had the problems when really it’s people in her general. I’m starting to accept the fact that I’m different from others and it’s ok to be different and to be your true self.
I think it’s opened are eyes for century’s, that we live a lie,,pure heart is needed, no fear
This word was such an encouragement to me. Young lady, your wisdom is from God and beyond your years. Praise Him❤
Grace and peace be unto you Sis. Val. You have a true inspiration and blessing to me. I feel that I don't fit in. I pray that God bless you with a double increase. Please pray that this spirit that has been harassing me all of my life leave me permanently. Amen.
Thank you, thank you, Thank you 😊
Blessings Queen. You totally speaking truth! Been listening to some of your videos and you are spot on. Keep letting God use you for his glory and his praise. Blessings 🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💯❤️❤️
A friend sent me one of your videos recently, so I just started watching. This was amazing and I sent it right back to her. Thank you so much for your spirit and guidance.
RIGHT ON VAL !!!!!!!! I’m both quirky and an extroverted introvert. And there’s a person who I can’t believe I felt so desperate to have a relationship with then I sat and listened to then tell to change in all the thinks that me and that I needed counseling ect. What an idiot and I think he’s a covert narc. And I’ve detached from them. They keep texting ect. I’m no longer responding and if I ever run into him and he asks why I’m going to tell him. God reminded me that my church friends tease me well and ect.
You are talking about everything that I have or either experiencing now God is good Keep becoming system
I'm a "weirdo" and I'm done forcing myself to suppress myself just to fit in with the crowd. I did all that to avoid being an outcast because i was afraid to be lonely, but I learned that when you arent being real with yourself, you'll be surrounded by people and still lonely af. Also being alone for a while I realized it isn't that bad. Take advantage because people are like seasons. That time alone is a space for you to transform.
I make peace with being an oddball. God just has a different plan for me.
To V. V. Thank you! See you soon! Amen
Looking forward to it!
...To Add- "Rejection is ALWAYZ GODZ Protection"💯🎯🎯🎯
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Your words touch my soul ❤
Amen thank you Jesus and thank you for being obedient to The Lord. 🙏 God Bless you.
Matthew 7: 13-14
“Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go thereat. Because straight is the gate and narrow is the way, which leadeth into life, and few there will find it.
From the first video I watch every thing you said is like you talking to me I experience the same thing my girl
“We are not called to look like the world and act like the world” 💯💯
Never be a photo copy be your original beautiful you ,one of a kind 😊!
Exactly how I always felt, am very talented , but have been sabotaged by circumstances my whole life.
You are speaking the truth I am one of those people I’ve been struggling with cancer for years often on don’t nobody care less friends! I always want it to surround myself with people like you God bless you baby girl keep speaking the truth love you🙏❤️🙏
I hope your well,thinking of you
Being around chosen people is no different than standing in the middle of a fire.
Many call upon HIS NAME but few are answered.
I wanted to thank you for your encouraging words, God Bless you, Amen.
I been there didn't understand I do now thanks
Many are called but few are Chosen.They are cut from a different cloth.
Yeah!🕶️😃I Feel That All The Time But Theres Something That I Am Afraid The Lies That They Say About Me Man They Gonne Slander My Name If I Dont Do Something So God Prevent That In Ilas Name Amen
the story of my life I've never fit in I've always been different and now I understand why but I do enjoy spending time by myself it would be nice if I had a fellow Christian to fellowship with and someone that kept the Saturday Sabbath people think that I'm in some kind of cult because I believe in keeping the Sabbath day as if a few years now I dress modestly skirts and dresses only I do not cut my hair I tried not to live worldly and people do think you're strange but then again I've been that way all my life
Hi Jacquita, you’re not strange at all! We were called to be set apart and many people may not understand you or the things that you do but The Most High sees your efforts. I know it may be hard feeling like you don’t fit in but the only acceptance that we need is His acceptance.
Powerful!!!
It is okay to be not ok,thank you for sharing...you sparked a fire!!!
What a beautiful soul you are. Sending unconditional love 🤍🤍🤍