15 Daily Habits To Build A Strong Romantic Relationship

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  • Here are some steps you can turn into daily habits that build a strong romantic relationship with your partner. You may already know that all relationships require effort to make them work. There are no shortcuts to cultivating a strong romantic bond with your girlfriend or boyfriend. Especially if you want them to become your wife or husband!
    For this reason, happy couples understand the importance of forming small, everyday habits, in order to maintain trust and to keep the romance alive.
    The good news is, that you can consciously put the steps outlined in this video into practice, until they become second nature to you. Of course, you won’t get it right all the time. But as long as you’re willing to adjust and form positive habits, you’ll be well on your way to building a strong romantic relationship with the one you love.
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  • @BrainyDose
    @BrainyDose  5 років тому +591

    What do you think is the single most important aspect of building a strong romantic relationship?

    • @jeniwatkins3297
      @jeniwatkins3297 4 роки тому +223

      COMMUNICATION

    • @sachajohnson9530
      @sachajohnson9530 4 роки тому +66

      @@jeniwatkins3297 you are CORRECT. I WILL NOT PUT UP WITH THE GHOSTING. ITS WAY TOO MEAN AND DISRESPECTFUL FOR ME. THATS NOT HOW YOU TREAT THE ONE YOU LOVE. INSIDE N OUT. COMMUNICATION IS A MUST.

    • @jeniwatkins3297
      @jeniwatkins3297 4 роки тому +40

      @@sachajohnson9530 I wasn't ever referring to ghosting! But that's true too. I mean in general. You have to be able to talk to one another about anything

    • @tigerlily5347
      @tigerlily5347 4 роки тому +62

      Direct eye contact when speaking to eachother

    • @exoticblondestripper
      @exoticblondestripper 4 роки тому +65

      Great satisfying sex!

  • @arizenstudio1729
    @arizenstudio1729 4 роки тому +8098

    I opened this video because I thought I was doing something wrong in my relationship but it turns out I've been doing everything right, just doing it on the wrong person

  • @sammartin3174
    @sammartin3174 4 роки тому +3948

    Been married for over 24 years now and I can't even imagine my life without my beautiful wife. She is easy to love. ❤️

  • @vernellguillory
    @vernellguillory 4 роки тому +3445

    1,, practices free and open communication
    2,, cultivate shared interest
    3,, keep intouch throughout the day
    4,, pay attention to the small stuff
    5,, speak each others love language
    6,, do chores
    7,, compliment each other
    8,, laugh together
    9,, express appreciation
    10,, resolve arguments the same day
    11,, take time to say hello and goodbye
    12,, say those there little words (I LOVE YOU, YOU ARE AMAZING, YOU ARE MY WORLD) ECT
    13,, do things just because
    14,, give affection and physical contact
    15,, go to bed at the same time.

  • @chrisd3994
    @chrisd3994 4 роки тому +1293

    Been married 13 years. This is the best list I've seen. Every morning, my wife is sleeping when i leave for work, i always kiss her forehead and tell her I love her, she usually says it back and falls right back to sleep. Great list

    • @Rosalina_Wolf
      @Rosalina_Wolf 4 роки тому +16

      @@DebbieDoll yes, yes it's very sweet and wonderful

    • @DazzlingStar07
      @DazzlingStar07 4 роки тому +12

      Who makes breakfast?

    • @ladyfibonaccii
      @ladyfibonaccii 3 роки тому +5

      My partner still does this 🥰

    • @kayokaflowers2316
      @kayokaflowers2316 3 роки тому +19

      Been married for 10 and my Husband does that every morning 💙. The kisses and the I love you, really do fill my mornings with love.

    • @madhurikanda9242
      @madhurikanda9242 3 роки тому +4

      Blessings

  • @jurisajoubert6325
    @jurisajoubert6325 4 роки тому +1255

    When a problem occurs, don't fight each other. Learn to fight the problem together.

    • @Z5Z5Z5
      @Z5Z5Z5 4 роки тому +6

      Hell yeah

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 роки тому +6

      I like u 😍😍😍😍😍😍🌷

    • @5starchikify
      @5starchikify 4 роки тому +8

      I love this, thank you I'll keep this in mind

    • @mclyte20
      @mclyte20 4 роки тому +21

      Only folks who are mentally and emotionally evolved enough can comprehend this. The rest will faulter and end up turning on not only one another but themselves.

    • @jaycampbell6402
      @jaycampbell6402 4 роки тому +12

      Just another way to say the same thing....In any relationship, I think its important to recognize that there might be times when you annoy and/or irritate each other. Its not eliminating that which makes a strong relationship, but its how you bounce back and talk about it when it does happen.

  • @plum_charisma6955
    @plum_charisma6955 4 роки тому +1486

    I hope anyone single who's watching this will find their true love

  • @donnagreen4966
    @donnagreen4966 3 роки тому +101

    I'm in a long distance relationship but he does just about all of the ones listed.Even though we're apart we have movie nights.He puts the projector on the wall.And we video talk and watch a movie together.Never thought I would meet someone so thoughtful and loving.He also surprised me with a beautiful sculpture rose .He sent to me engraved with our names on it. I've always been the type of the thought that counts.

  • @tonystark8599
    @tonystark8599 4 роки тому +3686

    Those who r single but still watching😂, hit like.

    • @teemakara3183
      @teemakara3183 4 роки тому +27

      Tony Stark watching for the future 😂

    • @tonystark8599
      @tonystark8599 4 роки тому +5

      @@teemakara3183 definitely YES😍

    • @anelisajustanelisa236
      @anelisajustanelisa236 4 роки тому +23

      ITS CALLED STUDYING!😂😂😩

    • @KJ-gr6ho
      @KJ-gr6ho 4 роки тому

      Hey Tony would u date 2 women at a time??

    • @tonystark8599
      @tonystark8599 4 роки тому +11

      @@KJ-gr6ho Never, one for the lifetime😍♥️

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 років тому +3128

    *The important thing is not to lose the sense of self-sufficiency. Be your own person and have a separate life.*

    • @sachajohnson9530
      @sachajohnson9530 4 роки тому +60

      You are supposed to be in each other's lives and if you plan to marry let the other one KNOW when u think about the other one. When you don't hear from me them after 3 days it hurts.

    • @sachajohnson9530
      @sachajohnson9530 4 роки тому +27

      The other needs to be aware of the little things.

    • @sunshine2049
      @sunshine2049 4 роки тому

      O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me 👍

    • @deealfaro-baeza8314
      @deealfaro-baeza8314 4 роки тому +2

      Very true

    • @jerene6804
      @jerene6804 4 роки тому +5

      Your comment is visible in most of my watch list

  • @sagewaifu3272
    @sagewaifu3272 4 роки тому +161

    Screw all those saying : "Be a bad guy, ignore her, keep her waiting, don't show your feelings it makes you weak".
    Show your affection every single time you have the chance.

    • @zt2552
      @zt2552 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly ❤️🙌🏻

    • @johnwilmoth4017
      @johnwilmoth4017 2 роки тому

      I believe in that I've been with my girl now 2 yrs . I relocated from Maryland to Missouri for her . She never walks up to me and just hugs me .I do it to her all the time .When it comes to the bedroom Sex is off the charts it's awesome at least she says it is . She just don't hug me on her own and that hurts me a lot . We've talked about it and she says it's because I grew up in foster homes and it stems from childhood . I kinda wonder if it's real or am I being used

  • @francyyap9234
    @francyyap9234 4 роки тому +58

    I agree with all that you mentioned except you forgot the most important one, have faith and pray together. My fiancé and I have been together for 7years now running 8yrs. Praying never failed

    • @mhrmisodi4402
      @mhrmisodi4402 2 роки тому +3

      Mine we have been praying together for the past three years now but he still cheats on me. Salvation is personal

    • @Prinxes69
      @Prinxes69 2 роки тому

      Aw although that’s a beautiful key that I’m sure does help you. Many people are not religious anymore that’s why they don’t put it in videos like this 🙏🏻❤️

  • @Metalbass10000
    @Metalbass10000 3 роки тому +70

    In number one, the open communication, he said the word, "talk," five times, and a few variations like, "share," and, "express," which are all absolutely important, but he NEVER mentioned the most important component of communication, especially in a relationship, and some people are terrible in this area, some don't even know how bad they're failing to prioritize this fundamental, and critical, aspect of communication, and that's LISTENING.

    • @harshitasingh8856
      @harshitasingh8856 3 роки тому

      I am falling into a relationship, I just have met him, and we are planning to get married. Circumstances are like this. He is very naive. He doesn't know how these emotional sentiments works in a relationship. He is improving, but you know marriage is a big commitment. Do you really think I should go
      Ahead ?

    • @monamonet2643
      @monamonet2643 3 роки тому

      🎯🎯🎯

  • @jeniwatkins3297
    @jeniwatkins3297 4 роки тому +222

    Communication is the number one most important thing in any relationship!!! Without it, nothing else can work. Be friends first! Give one another space and trust. Do not break that trust!

    • @sunshine2049
      @sunshine2049 4 роки тому +4

      Jeni Watkins The other part of communication is actively listening, and then once you hear what the person wants or needs you must be able to deliver it otherwise what’s the point

    • @jeniwatkins3297
      @jeniwatkins3297 4 роки тому +1

      @@sunshine2049 that is part of communication

    • @sunshine2049
      @sunshine2049 4 роки тому +4

      Jeni Watkins The word communication is overstated, people need to hear the breakdown of what exactly that means, like I said listening and delivering, the downside of it is sometimes when you get to know what a person is upset about or dislikesYou may not be OK with it

    • @idmtztemp9211
      @idmtztemp9211 4 роки тому +2

      Forgive each other an communicate a lot..if you don't communicate you can't forgive each other..

    • @ektasharma3520
      @ektasharma3520 4 роки тому +2

      I think the focus should also be in indirect communication. People want their partner to take cues of their needs and expectation.

  • @arthurdavis1978
    @arthurdavis1978 4 роки тому +483

    Doing these things for 18+ years. I love my wife very much.

    • @diofel3384
      @diofel3384 4 роки тому +11

      Blessings! I'm sure she does too.

    • @nihal-ru4sy
      @nihal-ru4sy 4 роки тому +13

      She is so lucky

    • @hotshaafijimale175
      @hotshaafijimale175 4 роки тому

      Arthur Davis divorcé her

    • @arthurdavis1978
      @arthurdavis1978 4 роки тому +12

      @@hotshaafijimale175 Not. I pray you get a companionship like or better than us I pray in Jesus name.

    • @arthurdavis1978
      @arthurdavis1978 4 роки тому +1

      @@nihal-ru4sy thank you

  • @neyokaskinner4484
    @neyokaskinner4484 2 роки тому +18

    My husband and I have been married for 20 years and the fire is still burning in our relationship, and now that I have subscribe to this channel & watched this video on the topic of relationships. Now I know I've been doing everything right. Thanks 👍

  • @ungata101
    @ungata101 4 роки тому +32

    I live with my boyfriend and I message him when I’m at work every hour. He works at home for now. He never gets bored with my messages. I can’t imagine my life without him

  • @VikkiLynn
    @VikkiLynn 5 років тому +2001

    Never go to bed mad at eachother, ever! :)

  • @kkuczak0001
    @kkuczak0001 4 роки тому +375

    #10: Amend arguments in the same day reminds me of the bible quote to not let the sun go down while you're still angry. -Ephesians 4:26

  • @elng5571
    @elng5571 4 роки тому +814

    It hurts when you do these things but they don’t reciprocate :(

    • @Z5Z5Z5
      @Z5Z5Z5 4 роки тому +35

      Exactly! Like some of us give it our all but the other doesnt

    • @NonanoN-er6de
      @NonanoN-er6de 4 роки тому +15

      I guess their love language is different?

    • @toughtittypdiddy4634
      @toughtittypdiddy4634 4 роки тому +35

      Yep i did pretty much everything thing on this list, only to have my heart broken. It happened almost 5 years ago and I'm still terrified of falling in love again.

    • @brianmabbitt902
      @brianmabbitt902 4 роки тому +10

      Leave them

    • @G8fulguy
      @G8fulguy 4 роки тому +13

      Ella Popita I heard it said once that “Loving is giving yourself without expecting anything in return?”

  • @tedpedraza5253
    @tedpedraza5253 2 роки тому +43

    Going on 8 years and can’t imagine loosing her. We had to go through so many challenges and even being homeless and she stuck with me through it. We learned from it and made us strong minded and confident to take any challenges that comes our way. We got a home and both got good jobs just waiting for a good time to get married.

    • @johnwilmoth4017
      @johnwilmoth4017 2 роки тому +3

      Good job Ted

    • @Wolvish
      @Wolvish 2 роки тому +2

      Why wait? If you want the perfect wedding, do it after a small wedding. Who knows how many months or years will go by before the time is right and the $ is gathered for the perfect one. 20-30 some odd years is not too long to wait if you are already married.

    • @joet4811
      @joet4811 2 роки тому +2

      You one lucky man, Ted. I really do envy you and may you and your wife forever prosper 👍.

  • @jennalinacalandriello5505
    @jennalinacalandriello5505 4 роки тому +628

    It all starts with communication and never going to bed angry

    • @azianzheep
      @azianzheep 4 роки тому +26

      I agree strongly with your first advice about communication. 'Never going to bed angry' however is, I think, one of the most over said poor advice. When two people are arguing, they need to de-escalate the situation (rather than escalating it further), and try to find common ground so that defensiveness drops and the two people can hear each other again. Being tired late at night does not help people to have these productive conversations and it can easily be a bad conversation that escalates the fight further (such as swearing or name calling) just because the two people are tired and cranky. It is totally acceptable to say 'let's get some sleep and talk about it tomorrow lunch time when we're better rested'. The promise to address the conversation tomorrow is important as burying the topic is also bad. It probably won't feel good to have so much uncertainty like a black cloud overhead. But ultimately it leads to productive conversations the next day. And more importantly avoids escalating the conversation further to a place where the very hurtful things can be said.

    • @uyiclementina6984
      @uyiclementina6984 4 роки тому

      Yes true talk

    • @evajoyschorer8669
      @evajoyschorer8669 4 роки тому +1

      Point noted it's clear

    • @sumintradeshong3497
      @sumintradeshong3497 4 роки тому

      Understanding is the key because you can communicate but if they don't understand then that's a huge problem

    • @Gifted.LIl.Thang884
      @Gifted.LIl.Thang884 3 роки тому

      That's what I say.. communication births everything else..

  • @sally-annesmit7743
    @sally-annesmit7743 4 роки тому +33

    I adore my husband... he’s my world! I’ve always tried to find ways to tell or show him and it’s helped him to become more trusting and loving!

  • @danashumway7090
    @danashumway7090 2 роки тому +7

    I have never agreed with the "don't let the sun set on an argument." Everyone is different and for me sometimes exactly what I need is a good night's sleep and the fresh perspective the morning brings.

  • @karenthomas714
    @karenthomas714 4 роки тому +129

    Never go to bed without resolving an disagreement, good to bed at the same time, and learn each other love language❤

    • @darrynmuguruzo2784
      @darrynmuguruzo2784 4 роки тому +3

      True but sometimes solving some issues wil take days with some ladies

    • @KJ-gr6ho
      @KJ-gr6ho 4 роки тому

      Baby I don't think u understand as a woman how it can b difficult when yall are mad with us u can get us hard put it on us and we go to sleep happy Ms Karen I hope u can handle truth if so we can talk

  • @Zarghami
    @Zarghami 5 років тому +1046

    *Some partner are selfish and insecure.*
    No matter how hard you work, they don’t want you to grow...

    • @GothicTech
      @GothicTech 4 роки тому +18

      yeah... I know what you are talking about mate.

    • @aaii5378
      @aaii5378 4 роки тому +25

      I had issues with selfishness but I am gradually becoming external and overcoming it. I do anything to help my girl. ❤️

    • @TheWarRoom
      @TheWarRoom 4 роки тому +16

      Then, you should ask yourself, "Why is this the 'partner' I've chosen for my life?" The problem isn't always in "them." Sometimes, they are the answer

    • @martanunez56
      @martanunez56 4 роки тому +1

      @@TheWarRoom exactly

    • @martanunez56
      @martanunez56 4 роки тому +2

      Exactly

  • @astridlove2327
    @astridlove2327 2 роки тому +8

    Wow amazing. I have been with my significant other for 13 years. We never married but might as well be. We always say we don’t need a legal binding to secure our relationship, but we have a very passionate and strong relationship, just like it was since the very beginning. We do all of these!! We are like school kids and leave each other cute notes where we can find them. We always say good bye and goodnight with a hug and kiss and we always hug kiss when we see each other after being gone. He’s my best friend. We tell one another everything. We have been doing all of these for so long that it doesn’t feel like effort at all. It comes so natural.

  • @jamiebennett6354
    @jamiebennett6354 2 роки тому +8

    never say "you look good in that dress," say "THAT dress looks good on you" because shell always look great no matter what she's wearing

  • @raziazaheer4951
    @raziazaheer4951 2 роки тому +7

    I agree... absolutely right..I'm so happy to notice that I share most of the signs wth my love, exept, going to bed together, as we are still not married n living in Our parental places ... Thanks

  • @bbqvocalist
    @bbqvocalist 4 роки тому +221

    In short, be kind. Every time the chance presents itself....be very, very kind.

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 роки тому +1

      I need u really i like u merrye 🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹🙋🙋🙋💑💑💑💑😍😍😍❤❤❤💗💗💗😙😚😘💏💏👫👫👫👫👫👫👫👫💞💞💞💞💕💕💕💕💕💕

    • @Hifcrea
      @Hifcrea 4 роки тому

      No no wrong. In short. Demand blow jobs every day.
      Use the phrase “on your knees... NOW” more often than the word “the”

    • @chrischima7558
      @chrischima7558 4 роки тому +1

      Here when you're kind to a girl, she think you're too weak 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @sidharthballavmohanty5686
      @sidharthballavmohanty5686 4 роки тому

      Yes,it will reciprocate all good qualities..

    • @neelbhavsar1977
      @neelbhavsar1977 2 роки тому

      @@chrischima7558 There's a difference between being kind and strong vs compromising your integrity if the other person is toxic. If she respects you, you will know and will want to be kind to her during her hard times or small mistakes

  • @deadpan715
    @deadpan715 4 роки тому +4

    Going on 2 & 1/2 years with my man, he ALWAYS makes the 'hellos' a big deal, and it makes me melt every time. Never really thought of how much that actually means to him

  • @dasomkim1336
    @dasomkim1336 3 роки тому +24

    I am so blessed to have been in a beautiful relationship with a beautiful person for so long, and i feel proud to be able to say "yes, we already do it" to each of the 15 enlisted things mentioned in the video🙏

  • @drdhruvdentalcare6573
    @drdhruvdentalcare6573 4 роки тому +12

    Loving each other and spending quality time with each other

  • @BLACKstar4Real
    @BLACKstar4Real 4 роки тому +509

    Video should be called: “How to extend the Honeymoon phase”

    • @gaonethatodaniel4890
      @gaonethatodaniel4890 4 роки тому +13

      IDon'tTryAnymore
      😂😂😂 honestly

    • @simderellatales2282
      @simderellatales2282 4 роки тому +3

      Lmaoo so true

    • @PennyJackson123
      @PennyJackson123 4 роки тому

      Yeah🙈😂

    • @alking7655
      @alking7655 4 роки тому +41

      You want to put it like that it's more, "How to maintain elements of the honeymoon phase." As the video says "You're not going to get it right all the time" but things that are worth it and that you want to make work take effort. Look at grandparents who have been married 50 years. It's not that they haven't had ups and downs, or always the whole "death till you part, " it's about the fact that they make an effort and they don't forget about what attracted them in the first place.

    • @jenna8987
      @jenna8987 4 роки тому +20

      Maybe always showing your affection and how important someone is how to make it past the honeymoon phase. Maybe that's why there are so many divorces and cheating.

  • @harveymalice
    @harveymalice 4 роки тому +226

    The golden formula for me has been this: find something to genuinely apologize for and apologize first. Then speak my mind, then let her have the last word.
    Women are much more likely to listen after they feel they’ve been validated. The goal is not to win the argument, but to get your point across without damaging the relationship. This has proven to be the most effective method thus far.

    • @DM-nw5lu
      @DM-nw5lu 4 роки тому +11

      Seems manipulative and like your partner is insecure honestly. This would work on insecure men, too. I appreciate you at least put the “genuinely” before apologise. But you shouldn’t have to play mind games to be able to bring across your opinion and feelings.

    • @gavinhendricks8689
      @gavinhendricks8689 4 роки тому +3

      D M then maybe someone needs to have the conversation with women that they aren’t always right no matter what 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @DM-nw5lu
      @DM-nw5lu 4 роки тому +7

      @@gavinhendricks8689 No woman thinks that. Humans generally are inclined to believe they're correct but most of us are aware when we're far off. What is "right" can be subjective in many situations. I think that's the issue many couples have.

    • @fatimapidomson668
      @fatimapidomson668 4 роки тому

      I into a long distance marriage though but its working great..... we love each other and respect each others decisions.

    • @carpediem4268
      @carpediem4268 3 роки тому

      Most guys wants to have a submissive woman, I supposed. Me and husband have both strong characters but when it comes to big arguments, i am very emotional and my husband is logical and I have to swallow my pride in able for us to have a clear conversation and resolve the conflicts. In relationship, it is not about who is right but it is about the willingness to listen and understand. With those ways, we easily fix our arguments.

  • @jimrowe9285
    @jimrowe9285 2 роки тому +13

    My wife & I were both in previous "bad marriages", and thankfully found each other 10 years ago. We're far from perfect, but we can honestly say we are doing at least 12-13 of the 15 suggestions in this video. Compared to our previous lives, following at least 10 of the suggestions in this video are VITALLY important to a successful marriage/long-term relationship! Great video, well-produced, and should be a "must" for couples in new relationships!! 😎👍

  • @letthere-belight
    @letthere-belight 3 роки тому +9

    When my husband was attracted to another woman I told him I want to have a couple devotional prayer (aside from adjusting to his demands) and the power from above gave us a clear understanding that our marriage is more important that sexual desires and nice other woman.

    • @DuelistWave
      @DuelistWave 2 роки тому

      Relationship is way more important than one experience

  • @ryhanahaneefa9780
    @ryhanahaneefa9780 4 роки тому +168

    I CAME HERE TO FIND OUT WHY THE GIRL ON THE THUMBNAIL HAVE ONE SIDE OF HER JEANS AS SKIN COLOURED😅

  • @687805
    @687805 4 роки тому +10

    15 is one of the most important. Being on the same schedule even if sleep habits don't match... Not tired yet? Read a book or find some way to be there without disrupting your partner. Then, wake up at the same time as them. Most days...
    side note- quickies are not generally "quality." Take the time and intention to make them feel what they long for.

  • @fullofcandies4706
    @fullofcandies4706 3 роки тому +9

    Spending quality time everday with your love ones makes someone very special.

    • @jimtorres1523
      @jimtorres1523 3 роки тому

      I am not particularly interested in long distant relationships any further and would rather be able to talk directly with the love of my life and I am done with the whole being ghosted and not seeing her while she gives access or attention to others.

  • @jocelynpresilda6329
    @jocelynpresilda6329 4 роки тому +7

    I like it when my boyfriend start talking about everything even though I'm not asking. I love listening to his stories. We fight a lot but we love each other and I accept and loved him in his worse and in his best. 💖

  • @Simply_Deanna_726
    @Simply_Deanna_726 4 роки тому +515

    Why my single butt is watching this, is beyond me. Guess I’m preparing for when I’m in a relationship 😊

    • @dipnarinemaharaj3104
      @dipnarinemaharaj3104 4 роки тому +4

      Same here...lol

    • @dullegriet5786
      @dullegriet5786 4 роки тому +3

      😁

    • @me6ur
      @me6ur 4 роки тому +11

      Finds someone, forgets steps lol

    • @thismyjam4212
      @thismyjam4212 4 роки тому

      @@me6ur do you know how to make a match burn two times?

    • @toongirl06able
      @toongirl06able 4 роки тому +3

      It might be that you're wondering why your last relationship didn't work out and making sure you're ready for the next one ;)

  • @ManuelHernandez-dv4zg
    @ManuelHernandez-dv4zg 4 роки тому +16

    Always remember the golden rule. Do unto others.... Treat them with as much common courtesy as you would a complete stranger.

  • @sharondorthy1496
    @sharondorthy1496 Рік тому +1

    I was married 41 years all of those things are very important but communication is key!

  • @gabrieladarlene
    @gabrieladarlene 4 роки тому +17

    For me, understanding my partner’s love language has been very important. I think that’s a factor all couples should pay close attention to.

    • @jimtorres1523
      @jimtorres1523 3 роки тому +2

      It is very important to learn each others love language and have faith and trust in your love for each other or the love for each other is not real.

  • @loralefebvre7157
    @loralefebvre7157 4 роки тому +31

    Open, HONEST communication and loving touch.

  • @vvallejo1
    @vvallejo1 4 роки тому +804

    Pray together everyday even if for a moment.

  • @eberjom9119
    @eberjom9119 4 роки тому +84

    Can't wait until I find the right person to do all the right things with

    • @jimtorres1523
      @jimtorres1523 3 роки тому

      I've been with the right person I just wasn't the right person for her and it breaks my heart more than anything. I really don't want to go another day without seeing her and not telling her directly how much I love her kills me in my heart. I don't want to go on another day without her not hearing directly that I love her more than anything other than the lord.

    • @eberjom9119
      @eberjom9119 3 роки тому

      @@jimtorres1523 What is stopping you from telling her? Why not try so she'll know how you feel?

    • @jimtorres1523
      @jimtorres1523 3 роки тому

      @@eberjom9119 she isn't here with me.

  • @kennithdaniels6798
    @kennithdaniels6798 3 роки тому +41

    Just wanna to absolutely agree with what you saying, this is a great path to a long lasting relationship given it's coming from both sides.
    A few years ago my wife was attacked in our home and end up struggling to survive in hospital whilst in a coma after an almost fatal gunshot. I was in a meeting out of town and couldn't be reached. A long story short, the one thing that kept me sane was the image of her in my mind when we kissed goodbye when I left for the airport the day before. She past away few theirs later due to complications and I still cherish all 15 of your points when looking at her picture. Let it become a habit of successful relationships.

  • @tierrab.h4268
    @tierrab.h4268 4 роки тому +38

    All of these things are things my boyfriend and I have been doing since day 1. It comes so naturally to us so we have always had a very strong relationship. Other couples come to us all the time for advice and we always tell them to just talk about everything. That was really the only thing we ever had to talk about seriously at the beginning of it all, we decided we have to talk about everything. If one of us hurt the other then we say something and resolve it right there and we don’t hold onto it. We have a very honest and trustworthy relationship. I’m so in love 🥰

  • @user-zz3rw6gi2q
    @user-zz3rw6gi2q 4 роки тому +13

    Oh wow I thought I could learn something new but I’m in a happy relationship right now and we’re doing all of this. So thankful

  • @colintierney92
    @colintierney92 4 роки тому +12

    Omg, this video was amazing! I love my partner and I’s relationship because like it says open and honest communication is key! I’d also add don’t be afraid to humble yourself to correction and don’t be afraid to respectfully address things to your partner!

  • @yessir5205
    @yessir5205 4 роки тому +5

    I really need to start integrating these into my relationship. I feel as if I’m missing all of these, recently I’ve been a little apathetic to my partner and I really want to make things work. Their loving and deserve a better me. Thank you for this video.

  • @blairwillis9199
    @blairwillis9199 4 роки тому +56

    We do go to bed at the same time...it's a good habit and a ritual of togetherness. Thanks for a great video.

  • @Youtubing5999
    @Youtubing5999 4 роки тому +25

    I love watching videos like this because it just makes me feel like I found the perfect person for me

  • @ts1331ts
    @ts1331ts 4 роки тому +2

    I’m talking to someone and I actually am super excited to talk to him and see him. I haven’t felt like this in a long time. I hope that watching this will help me keep this going if we do get into an exclusive relationship and to keep that relationship strong 🥰

  • @Real-Dante-lopes
    @Real-Dante-lopes 2 роки тому +3

    Been with my girlfriend for 3 1/2 months I believe communication is a huge part of a steady strong relationship

  • @khoubbazhakeem3888
    @khoubbazhakeem3888 4 роки тому +15

    Applying some of the things I didn't know before I watched this video in my relationship with my wife , was so helpful ... thanks for the video

  • @wintrishanabasirye7927
    @wintrishanabasirye7927 4 роки тому +356

    Save battles for big issues,stop being picky on everything on your partner

    • @martanunez56
      @martanunez56 4 роки тому +2

      Well my ex... Is a fucking ghost on my mind he left with no reasons or explanations cowardly he did by whatsaap... He didn't face me just text ..like coward he did .. I gave all what i fucking could i got weak so much of giving... Long distance relation... He seen this video after dump me like trash he blocked everywhere... My heart is weak but i am allowing myself to be love ... He watches all this because why i don't understand... When he was heartless cold heart with me... I felt like cheated on myself... Giving my life my young age for nothing i got catched like 17... Waited him 6 years to come to visit me .. Get me out of all but nothing for me now who he is i made himself grown on a work he would never have... He was leaving his career for being with his friends bad friendship what is the reality what all their friends are married and he isn't... He started to stare at me with painful truths... And i kept there until i gave up my battle ... I dissapear 1 week... He left me dumped me..he never needed me or wanting to meet me or experience real love is himself said love sucks while i was with him ... He never knew how to handle any argument he was always attacking me... Like that..tell me you what if your partners makes you jealous so much he made me experience jealous badly... Like he is on tura where women rules that that they can steal men and fuck them and wanting them.... So i got freaked out my hell ... I am so territorial woman who's not??...

    • @fernandoemh
      @fernandoemh 4 роки тому +1

      @@martanunez56 hola Pia, yo también soy de valpo. También tengo una relación a distancia. Sucede que es mala idea tener una pareja a distancia que primero no se ha sanado a si misma. La ayudas a crecer. A mejorar. A cambiar para bien si es que lo necesita. Pero uno no es terapeuta de la pareja, ni madre, ni padre, ni tutor. Debe ser algo recíproco. Para crecer en conjunto. Si de verdad tu pareja no hizó absolutamente ningun esfuerzo por intentar verte, tocarte, abrazarte, sin importar la distancia, lamento decirte que eso nunca fue amor de parte de él. Sólo un capricho. Necesitaba validación, y se la diste. Si te interesa te cuento mi historia, para que creas en el amor nuevamente, saludos.

    • @thismyjam4212
      @thismyjam4212 4 роки тому

      Exactly geez 😂

    • @martanunez56
      @martanunez56 4 роки тому

      @@fernandoemh gracias ... 👍👍..

    • @martanunez56
      @martanunez56 4 роки тому

      @@fernandoemh simplemente prefierio irse a lo más facil engañarme ... Era como su terapeuta nadie lo entendia fui su jugete 7 años... Cuando lo necesité... Ya no estaba cuando murio mi abuelo el me bloqueó... 15 dias y yo lo esperé... Y yo desaparecí 1 semana.. No aguantanba más su personalidad ... Que hablaba de otra mina... Una de norte de la india...que se ven como chinos y el aborrese a la gente china...pero un dia me amenazó con golpearme me trataba mal.... Muy mal... Ya no te amo .. Por hang out... Le decia te amo por siempre y lo repetia... El pensando que era cierto .... Pero su corazón si es que tiene uno no sabra... Donde se metió en un Lugar donde las mujeres mandan y el no lo manda nadie hace poco vi una foto por Instagram... El no tiene... Instagram.. Pero fue de un familiar de la mina fea por cierto ... Gorda no tengo nada en contra pero no debio meterse en el medio y el caer ..que era buena con yo ya intua tuve un sueño ...antes que me bloqueara de la nada un mensaje creo que esto va funcionar... Y me bloqueó 15 dias.... Y soñe... Una mina en mi sueño tengo sueño premonitorios .. He soñado con el todo cortado diferentes formas.... Pero el no entiendo mi sensibilidad el interpreto como controladora y egoista el era acuario y yo igual pero de el feb y yo enero
      Pero mi sensibilidad era más me ha roto el corazon..... Sus palabras fueron un dia domingo me perdiste estoy muerto para tí
      Pero en esa foto que lo vi barbon todo descuidado nada bien se ve el reflejo cuanto lo cuide a la distancia cuanto lo mime...7 años... Le perdoné de todo sus tonterias todo.. Pero el nada...un narscisista total

  • @shirleylangton7967
    @shirleylangton7967 2 роки тому +5

    I think that taking time to sit down together and talk every day is the most important thing. Loved the video.

  • @tigressburdick7505
    @tigressburdick7505 3 роки тому +9

    Make time for each other every single day

  • @aaii5378
    @aaii5378 4 роки тому +15

    I have been going through addiction with bondages on video games. I had a lot of arguments about these things with my girl and I finally decided to make a change for the better.
    But all that matters to me is I love my girl and I treat her good and with respect.
    And I will stand by her forever! And I will never leave her no matter what we both go through.
    I love her ❤️ I keep telling her she can trust me with her life ❤️

  • @andreajanewilliams
    @andreajanewilliams 4 роки тому +81

    Wow my partner and I already do all of this stuff! And we never let the sun go down on an argument which incidentally I keep provoking. He’s just too sweet 😍

    • @loveoffialextremo6507
      @loveoffialextremo6507 4 роки тому

      He watch this vid before you lol

    • @martanunez56
      @martanunez56 4 роки тому +2

      Good luck on that..👍🌈

    • @Hifcrea
      @Hifcrea 4 роки тому

      Lol that’s so great for you and your partner. Now consider heavily doing yoga in front of an Iranian firing squad

    • @SternDrive
      @SternDrive 4 роки тому

      @@Hifcrea is still grumpy. You got a lot of work to do Art.

    • @andreajanewilliams
      @andreajanewilliams 4 роки тому

      @@martanunez56 Thank you.

  • @Taimoor2711
    @Taimoor2711 3 роки тому +5

    Loved it. I think open and honest communication, making time for each other and adjusting for each other are the most important points.

  • @melaniefortin7272
    @melaniefortin7272 2 роки тому +2

    This is a good advice . I actually use to do all of this but it takes two to make relationships work not just person making the effort . I think another really important is being honest with each-other, loyal , respectful, and trusting.

  • @DuDu-tc6df
    @DuDu-tc6df 4 роки тому +13

    get to bed at the same time is very helpful!! but of course, each relationship has its own character.

  • @shaguftasheikh7304
    @shaguftasheikh7304 5 років тому +24

    15 habits video. It's so so perfect any marriage would last for life time. Perfect and positive all the way. Well done team who put it together. You are loved unconditionally.

  • @DestinDreamer
    @DestinDreamer 4 роки тому +9

    I'm single and madly inlove with the man I love. I cant ask for anything anymore his the most precious gift God Gave me ..Happy Holidays

    • @daveyt4802
      @daveyt4802 3 роки тому

      Boy, that's nice to hear. Lucky you!

  • @LifeWithMe004
    @LifeWithMe004 2 роки тому +3

    Just started a new and first relationship and wasn’t sure if we were doing the things that help us bond but we already do all of this, and some before we started dating.

  • @arthurgregory9673
    @arthurgregory9673 5 років тому +61

    Definitely emotionally honest transparent communication

  • @shannonsanchez9164
    @shannonsanchez9164 4 роки тому +148

    Make sure she knows that she is your one and only. And that you're not clumping her together with all the rest. "Isn't that right sexy" oh that's what you say to all the girls . Make her feel special. Give her the part of you no one else will ever have.

    • @malikaa9899
      @malikaa9899 4 роки тому +4

      Facts... I was just explaining that same thing to my soon to be ex the other day .why would i feel special when you treat everybody the same🤔🤷

    • @jimtorres1523
      @jimtorres1523 3 роки тому +1

      I guilty of that and not insuring that our communication was meant for her and her only. I screwed up and deeply regret that I didn't insure she knew how important to me she was. I would love to have a chance to show her how much I have grown and and become more of a man she would love to come home to and WHO'D love her like no one else could, and GAWSH do I love her.

  • @WhiteAngelLovesEarth
    @WhiteAngelLovesEarth 4 роки тому +37

    ''I love you'' doesn't matter if you don't feel it heavy in your soul.

  • @jesuslovesyou916
    @jesuslovesyou916 4 роки тому +5

    After 2 marriages, I now see that my love language that hasn't been addressed is growing together in the WORD of the Most High. I've always been unequally yoked and after this divorce, I plea and decree I'll find my Boaz who will lead me as the man should towards bettering me, not turn me into a hurting/unloved woman..because I've always made my partner happy, but I've been missing out on fulfilling my needs. We all need our love languages bring met, also we need to cultivate our partner into the person we desire to have by oyr side. Thus , we'll not be lusting after someone else

  • @rm-nelson1256
    @rm-nelson1256 4 роки тому +14

    You guys nailed it to the core 🎯🎯🎯 Very TRUE and Important.
    Thank you for sharing this ❤

  • @hoshanksivana5325
    @hoshanksivana5325 4 роки тому +30

    Most important thing in relationships is never lie your partner and always trust your partner

  • @gladysbarbour1472
    @gladysbarbour1472 2 роки тому +3

    Right on! Our marriage lasted 68 years.......it was a great run! Seems like we applied all your suggestions. Who knew it was the right way.

  • @lulurebornbeautyqueen7985
    @lulurebornbeautyqueen7985 4 роки тому +6

    Trying to learn and practice good habits to keep my relationship strong and healthy.Praying for love and peace for all😊

  • @julia_puglia
    @julia_puglia 4 роки тому +84

    Watching this now I realized my past relationship lacked most of these. Now that I am out and dating new people I’m realizing some of the new people have a lot of these. Lol Glad I am seeing this. :)

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 роки тому

      I love u i like you really meet me i am single need true love 🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹😍😍😍😍😍😍💑💑💑💑💑😘😚😙💞💕💞💕💗💗💗💗💗💗❤❤❤❤❤🙋🙋🙋🙋🙋

    • @alzaahnpetrus7402
      @alzaahnpetrus7402 4 роки тому

      Me too 💛

    • @Hifcrea
      @Hifcrea 4 роки тому

      You aren’t our meeting no one. You will never have a happy relationship or marriage. Give up and turn gay

  • @bluerockalot
    @bluerockalot 4 роки тому +11

    The most important is to speak their love language followed by much affection and positive affirmation, then working together as a team.

  • @saranicholls713
    @saranicholls713 3 роки тому +2

    I think the most important thing in a romantic relationship is saying I love you every day!! It means so much!! ❤️

  • @WarmHearts
    @WarmHearts 4 роки тому +5

    You highlighted on great and healthy ways to build in a relationship, also talking in an open and honest way to settle your differences in a calm manner. Everything else will follow. Great video! Big like! 👍 and yes, laughter is the best medicine! in any relationship.

  • @mikeirl3565
    @mikeirl3565 4 роки тому +42

    Learning her "love language" that's a really good way to look at that, cuz yeah we all are different and so it's different for each of us, thanks for the tip man, appreciate it

    • @mikeirl3565
      @mikeirl3565 4 роки тому +2

      Arthur Dealy aaaaaaaand that’s why people complain about not having a lasting relationship, that’s just a sad, shallow, stupid, way to look at it man

    • @KylieJohnson
      @KylieJohnson 4 роки тому +1

      Read “the five love languages”

  • @kennithdaniels6798
    @kennithdaniels6798 3 роки тому +13

    After 5 years and Covid19 I was able to let go of a partner that didn't even get 10% out of the 15 things of importance for our relationship. These include me proposing to get married in the fall! It's sad but true, I was hoping it will change and maybe she's just kind of shy but realise that being with me was just an "option" than a desire. Great ideas 💡, my light just came on and will consciously look for these affirmations next time around.

  • @earlbunce7677
    @earlbunce7677 3 роки тому +1

    The single most important thing is be honest totally honest. Little lies make you not trust people. If you lie about a little thing you lie about anything. Instead of running hiding from your problems talk it out. And whatever you do don't manipulate people. Love you beth.

  • @christianlamb
    @christianlamb 4 роки тому +5

    Solid vid!! Cultivating that kind regard for each other is crucial. We do this by really choosing to be with each other and respond to each other throughout the day. Thx!!❤❤

  • @patriciasaluti5084
    @patriciasaluti5084 4 роки тому +27

    Human touch. Laugh together. Daily I love you. Hugs. All of it.

  • @danielludlow8960
    @danielludlow8960 5 років тому +11

    Communication...under communication there are subsets that are also strengthened...Trust, understanding, acknowledgment being a few.

  • @rachelcross27
    @rachelcross27 Рік тому +5

    Trust & vulnerability Is definitely most important to build a strong relationship 😊

  • @jessicamartinez9477
    @jessicamartinez9477 2 роки тому +4

    I so needed to hear this. After ending a marriage and starting a new relationship, my new relationship skills are not where they need to be. I come off hard and cold. I received the most beautiful gifts from the new relationship and didn’t give the appreciation I should have🥺. I hope the new relationship still has a chance. I need to be more aware of my reactions because they mean so much to me ❤️

    • @johnsmith2221
      @johnsmith2221 2 роки тому +1

      It’s nice that you have the self-awareness to recognize where you need to improve. Many people don’t do this.

  • @hexxxed69cherrypie24
    @hexxxed69cherrypie24 4 роки тому +10

    #1 most IMPORTANT....all else will come naturally if it's unconditional by both partners.....Equal balance in all things will keep it SOLID&TRUE&STRONG!!!!YUP!!!😊

  • @andndmmcmnf1321
    @andndmmcmnf1321 4 роки тому +7

    My girl and I do almost all these thing everyday 😊😊..... Great video!!

  • @powermovement247
    @powermovement247 3 роки тому +1

    Such great advice Brainy Dose. Thank you!

  • @briana14333
    @briana14333 4 роки тому +7

    The clip of the guy loading the dishwasher got me hot! YES!
    These acts come so easy when you're with the right person. Great list!

  • @multiknowledgemediaenterta963
    @multiknowledgemediaenterta963 3 роки тому +4

    Resolve the argument on same day is very important

  • @sarasrandomz
    @sarasrandomz 3 роки тому +5

    "Good morning beautiful", smile & kiss = the first thing in the morning 🥰

  • @abijeyarajan2173
    @abijeyarajan2173 4 роки тому +6

    This is one of the best lists to improve your relationship with your partner. My hubby and I are doing 14/15 of the list for the last seven years and recently bought the book The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman and got to know our love languages as well. It’s good to know your partners love language as you can express your love in their love language.

  • @kikakuba9447
    @kikakuba9447 4 роки тому +5

    I totally loved this video. I feel these are things I can incorporate into my daily life during my relationship esp resolving arguments the same day. I feel the most important ones are speaking each others love language, definitely, practice free and open communication because if you don't talk, then you won't know and finally, expressing appreciation for each others effort.

  • @rosestudstrup540
    @rosestudstrup540 4 роки тому +8

    Never forget it's a two-way street. It's not about give and take, which is usually very unbalanced - selfless person constantly giving to a selfish partner who is more than happy to take and then critique the gift. It should be about sharing, which is much more intimate.

  • @growingwithgwen
    @growingwithgwen 4 роки тому +332

    aw these were all so cute and me and my bf do them all and never been in a happier relationship so can confirm they work awwwww

  • @Dino-uo5vj
    @Dino-uo5vj 2 роки тому +2

    After 27 years, I can say that the special time you spend together as freinds is very important. Not the sex and making out, but just talking about things, feelings emotions, freinds family. How you connect on that level, will decide the length of your relashionship.