Dear, “my fiancé changed when we got engaged”: Run! I didn’t heed the red flags as I should have when I was in your situation and now I’m divorced and have PTSD. Listen to your elders, we’ve suffered so you don’t have to. Take good care of you, get out while it’s easier.
Yess exactly. She can just give the engagement ring back and run, there’s nothing else that ties them together. No children, no legal stuff, the door is still open!
"If your family are pissing you off and they're bad people, then your family are pissing you off and they're bad people." So many people fail to understand this. Blood relation means nothing if that person is toxic. Period. Parent, sibling, grandparent, sibling of parent, spouse, even child or child of sibling... it does not matter. If they are toxic, leave them out and move on. You owe them nothing.
This is so true, and I'm glad they addressed it because with things like this you know what you need to do, but sometimes you need to hear it a bunch of times, especially from people removed from the situation, before you can go through with it.
I was going through that until very recently. They would poke fun at my appearance so I told them to stop looking at me and look in the mirror and see if it does them any good. I got scolded by my mother and asked to apologize to them. My dad stepped in to tell them kindly mind their business and not bother with mine.
I love how the only pro-marrying reasons Robert could find were like „if you die and you want to leave some money for your partner“ or „if you are dying and you want to see your partner at the hospital“.
I agree 100% over the years, my man and I have touched the wedding subject many times, weighing the pros and cons, and besides the legal reasons above, we didn't find any advantage or any difference with our current state... I guess we'll put our signatures in at the registry office at some point, but we feel no rush 😊
This is on a country to country basis. There are several countries that accept common law/defacto partnerships as "legal" and have tje exact same rights as those who have chosen to go down the marriage route.
Yeah, other than legal or tax-related reasons, I don't really see the need or benefit to get married nowadays. Also, at least in the US, it can help prevent you from having to testify against your partner in a court of law, so that's a nice bonus if you like to get up to no good. And conjugal visits if the trial doesn't go your way. 😂
@@bratshats same. I’ll be 43 in Dec (get told by everyone I look 28 lol) and I don’t miss those days. I wish I had the energy I had in my 20s because I have a 6 year old and 2.5 year old (she turns 3 one week after my birthday lol). I made mistakes and I learned from those mistakes.
Who would have thought I’d be totally obsessed w/ the welsh men just by watching a “make up “ video a year ago… I love all 3 of you! The dynamic is outstanding
I saw the red flags but was scared to back out and disappoint everybody, even his friends wives said before the wedding ‘it’s not too late you know you don’t have to go through with it’ but I did anyway. Divorced 2 years later after a long time of shit. Leaving that man was the best thing I ever did and Iv never looked back.. Edit: il just add on to this nobody was disappointed or upset that we divorced, I had full support and they were all glad I was out of it. He’s since moved onto a new victim, same stuff going on by all accounts with her too. (And the one prior to me which I chose to ignore because he said it was all lies and she was crazy)
Good for you!! Even when it's the logical decision, walking away is not that easy when you're the one in that situation. I'm so proud you made the decision to divorce and followed through, better 2 years than 5, or worse, a lifetime!
@@Marina_7 it was almost 6 years altogether but only the first couple were without that much trouble, but I moved away from my friends and family and that’s when everything changed, it kind of creeps up on you and you question yourself if it’s just you or if there actually is something sinister going on. The happiest id ever been was being on my own after that relationship free to just be me without fear. ❤️
@@amiwilkinson518 Moving away from your loved ones and even just being in the point to question ehether something more sinister is going on honestly sounds like a thriller/horror movie premise... I'm glad you can finally enjoy the freedom you deserve!
I've also been their to,,get out while u still can,,life is way to sort to live unhappy we only get 1 chance of life so live it how you want to not how they wan't..
@@Marina_7 it was literally like someone else was there in my place at times because I’d never let this happen, that’s just not me.. but there I was 🤷🏻♀️ some people are born manipulators and only show their true colours to a few behind closed doors. His mum, dad and sister knew what he was, his sister is probably still dealing with his shit now tbh, I cut ties with them so I don’t know. Funny thing was after I’d left I bumped into him once in my local area shopping arndale and he shouted me and said ‘oh aren’t you going to say hello?!’ I just laughed and said wow you really are mad if you think I would ever want to set eyes on you again let alone talk to you’ it was like nothing had ever happened between us on his part.. surreal
I freaking love Marcus. He is so funny and does such great editing. And I can see such "brotherly love " when all 3 are having a chat. All there laughs are so contagious that my husband cant stop laughing when I'm watching them. One Love thanks for brighten up my day ✌🏼❤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤
When I watch the twins together, I just wonder about their mum. I just can't imagine James and Robert not being a handful! 😂 And I love how that the family is involved in their careers!
Never too much. Not enough. Listen, I work at least 8 hours, 5 days a week, at a boring desk job that I hate. I need more Welshy content please and thank you. Also, please get poor darling Marcus a mood ring so he can find out how he's feeling STAT!
I started watching James first, then figured out about Robert and loved them together...then Marcus joined the party and now it's better than I ever could have imagined. Love all 3 of them separately and even more together 💜💜💜
I need y'all to know that my partner saw the thumbnail for this and called to me "hey, you need to come watch the Welsh twins new video. Jesus is back!" In reference to Marcus. She adores him and finds his increasing presence on your videos to be quite wonderful.
James counting down Marcus trying to plug his cult documentary Robert adjusting his curtains and checking his e-mails I cannot get enough of welsh brothers content, if yall made videos of your dogs doing a visual podcast i would probably watch it
They should add the trio videos into the regular rotation ( if it isn't already)! I LOVE Robert and James together, but Marcus joining occasionally is such a fun change! An entertaining and refreshing added bonus!
For the engagement question. Be straight up. Tell this person you have no problem giving the ring back if they’re gonna start changing up. Be like “this is not the person I got engaged to” and be ready to walk away. If they care about you and the relationship they will reflect on their actions and work on it. If not you are WAAAAAY better off!!!!
Just wanted to add my thoughts to the career discussion… careers are fluid!!!! We aren’t in our parents generation where we keep the same career for 40 years! If you’re 30, and discover you adore pottery… do it!!! Even if come 33 you hate it, move on to the next thing! You don’t need to decide on one career or define yourself based on what you do!!
I needed to hear this, thank you! My parents define _everyone_ by what they and/or their parents do. Grandparents generation also adds the husband's job to the list (ofc not the wife's though...). It's really infuriating. I get someone being educated, but you are not a school or a job etc, you are a whole person with your own thoughts, beliefs and experiences. There are looots of "educated" assholes out there, the intellectual difficulty of career obviously didn't shape their character. As long as you do your best not to have your kids suffer from hunger and stuff, do whatever you want. Whether people think it's an "acceptable"/"respectable"/etc job or education level/path is their own problem.
@@Marina_7 I sometimes get shade from older relatives and family friends because I’ve changed career twice and it’s no longer related to my degree. My stock answer now is “I know right? Turns out I’m good at more than one thing” 💅
I'd asked a very similar question because I somehow ended up in a job I hate and I've been here for 8 years...but I have absolutely no idea how to figure out what I want to do nor what the heck I'd be good at. Dear internet wise ones, send haaaalp.
@@heatherg7224 honestly, think of some things your interested in, and reach out to people doing it! Chat to them on Twitter get an idea of the job role- maybe do a day or 2 of shadowing if you can!! The absolute worst they can do is ignore you or say no!
When Robert's battery died and his image cut to his first Christmas Special I WHEEZED! Like fell out laughing that turned to wheezing! I wasn't ready!!! 😂😂😂
James and Roberts simultaneous excited “Are you!” When Marcus was telling them how many followers he has is so sweet. I love how they all support each other. And there is never too much Welsh brothers.
Thank you all for the wonderful videos (all three of you)! I'm a mom to two young adults, both are LGBTQIA and we live in the south (USA) and all of our family is conservative, Southern Baptist, so.... It's not the best situation. Thank you so much for sharing your lives and opinions and honesty. ♥️♥️
As a 36yr old bisexual woman who just recently started dating a woman, I just want to say that things might get weird with other people, typically ones that don't matter, but the only people that matter are your kids. Make sure that your kids are okay, and the rest will fall into place. That is not saying others will not treat you differently at first. Especially if no one saw it coming, which was my case. I don't "look gay" whatever the fuck that looks like, so people didn't believe it at first. Or they thought I was going through some things as a single mom. There were a lot of theories. However, if you truck through that weirdness there will be a turning point where people say, possibly literally out loud, "You guys are so NORMAL".... When they realize that you aren't going to change into a completely different person, they usually come around. And if they don't? Fuck em.
Love all 3 of you.❤❤❤ To the person who feels like he should already be settled down at 30. My uncles brother went to university in NYC. He did different odd jobs while figuring out what he wanted to do. Drove a cab, wedding photographer waiter and more. As he kept changing majors it took 10yrs to get his under grad. Eventually he went to Columbia university to get a degree in Law. He was 35 ish when all was said and done. Now he's a lawyer in Washington DC. Just do you. You'll eventually figure out what you want to be when you grow. I'm 53 and still don't know what i want to be. However im comfortable with it just like the triplets said.
My therapist said that the difference with burnout is the feeling of being unable to do something that you want to do or something that will make your life a lot easier or less stressful. It’s a bit like depression, when you lose interest in stuff you enjoy. I have adhd and one of the hallmarks of adhd is when you want to do something and your brain stops you doing it, for apparently no reason (the reason is dopamine deficiency, but that’s not really easy to explain in a work email)
@@ThivyaThevakumar again, according to my therapist (because I’m not qualified for anything!): clinically, grief and depression are so similar that you usually won’t be diagnosed with depression for a year after losing someone. Grief can take many forms including freezing, feeling unmotivated, or feeling angry or anxious. I lost my dad 3 years ago and I’m still not recovered from that grief - and that’s okay. Big life changes (even positive ones like getting married or moving house) can have a big impact on your mood for a lot longer than people think - at least 6 months. If you’ve been through a bit change, I really recommend talking to someone whether that’s a therapist, counsellor, friend or even just journaling or recording voice messages to yourself.
@@ThivyaThevakumar also yes, that passion will come back but it takes time and you need to take care of yourself to heal. A broken foot doesn’t heal properly if you keep walking on it; your mind and your soul can’t heal if you keep putting pressure on yourself. There is nothing wrong with being kind to yourself.
@@katemellifont4078 thank you so much for the reply! I appreciate it so much. I lost my dad 11 months ago as well. It comforts me to know that people can take their time to recover. Thank you again. xx
I was diagnosed with ADHD at 37 (I’m 40 now) and I’m learning so much about executive function and that I was never “lazy” I was just mentally stuck. Since I stopped all that negative self talk (and started meds) It has become easier to make my life work for me instead of me struggling to fit someone else’s idea of what life should be. ANYWAY - James, Robert & Marcus are the epitome of making their life work for them and I am HERE for it. 💜🖤💜🖤💜🖤
My experience with burning out…I got burnt out fall of 2020. I was doing full time work and full time school(college). I am an architecture student and we get really heavy heavy hw. So for about two years i would not sleep for about 3-4 days a week because of school work and then having to go to work. I was so tired, I got depressed but I kept going. In fall 2020 in the last two weeks of school I broke. I couldn’t get outta bed, I couldn’t do my hw, I didn’t finish my final project, I didn’t do final exams or hw. I was completely burnt out. It was such a horrible feeling, no motivation whatsoever. I took spring semester as a break and only worked and relaxed. I picked school back up and now I’m taking it easy. Plz take care of yourselves!!! Your health matters! Stay safe guys
I feel this so much. Spring, summer, & fall 2020 were my burnout and breakdown semesters. I was a doctoral student working on my proposal in the spring, and the editing was just going nowhere. I also teach full time, and that was the semester of all covid shut downs. By the summer, all doctoral work had stopped, and I didn't get out of bed for most of July and August. My chair reached out and I guess through the kindness and grace she showed me, I slowly started getting my personal life back together. Thankfully, I have now successfully defended my proposal for candidacy, and I'm in the midst of conducting my research study. Burnout happens, and it's okay that it does. I would have been totally fine if I had dropped out, but I'm glad for now that I didn't. I needed the freedom to stop for a while and take care of ME. At the end of the day, no goal I reach will be worthwhile if I do emotional or psychological damage to myself in the process. Congrats to the both of us for finding our way through that tunnel, and finding that we still had the will to carry on!
"Retail managers can be quite culty." As a very young retail manager, yes, yes they really can be 😅 (Still love you guys tho, you guys are totally right)💜💜
I LOVE THIS! ESPECIALLY with Marcus!!!! PLEASE do more with you all answering and giving advice! Your take on advice is great! I am in my 50's now, I started doing hair at 18 and have always kept my license active, BUT I have also done nails, worked as a cake decorator, a floral arranger, a Make up artist AND my final career change was to work as a case worker for family services doing food stamps and medicaid for poor families. You can DO ANYTHING that interests you!!!!! ANYTHING!!!!!
I know EXACTLY what it’s like growing up with younger twin brothers…….. I feel u Marcus, the torment u must have endured 🤣🤣. Absolutely love the lot of u hysterical!! ❤️❤️
I read an article recently that proposed there is no such thing as 'lazy'; there is always a human reason why things don't happen. Being overworked, emotionally or socially drained or just overwhelmed generally. It was so liberating to read and I cried for awhile lol. Cut yourself some slack!!
I recently got dropped from my grad program because COVID and the job I was at really affected my ability to continue with my courses and this video helped me so much. Thank you all for everything you do, I feel better about taking on a new path now 🖤
Robert saying that the issue is with your mom is just….Idk…..truth. The best thing I have ever heard 🤯 I needed these conversations today, more than ever.
We love you all so much, you could literally have 1000 channels between you and I'd give up my job to be a professional Welsh brothers watcher, just saying 😁💙
On the mental break question - it has helped me to think about what "productivity" really means. Doing nothing isn't really "doing nothing" bc your brain is always working even when *you* aren't. If your body isn't doing anything but your brain is sorting things out, I'd argue that that is *still* "productive" even if no one else can see the results. Plus, if you can get rid of the guilt (not an easy thing), you might notice you feel more refreshed or creative after. ✌🏽❤
The university part is so relatable. I didn't drop out, because I didn't want to disappoint my family, and ended up not graduating on time, because I couldn't cope with all the stress. If you really feel that you're not in the right place, drop out, find something you really love!
It's lovely to see such a supportive, comfortable and grounded family atmosphere. It has me all tearful and emotional, in a good way! Thank you for letting us share it with you 🥰
I love the 3 of you on videos together! Marcus has a great way of explaining and vocalizing things in a way to where it's not confusing or rude or mean and to where it's understanding.
I can't even imagine what it must be like with all of you together when around other people because you three together are too much and I love it! You all crack me the hell up and Marcus is always a delight when he is on.
I really enjoyed the three of you together. I still appreciate James and Robert as much as always, but you have such great positive energy as a family that you are a joy to watch. You support each other and build each other up without talking over each other or competing for the spotlight. As the twin of a highly competitive sibling, I especially like that about your relationship.
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I won't
I love these!! You guys have great advice and gift bread 🍞 lol
I don’t care what you talk about, I’m just addicted to the lot of you 💓
I would watch them just reading a takeaway menu
Yesssss ❤️❤️❤️
The Welsh trio is never too much. The chaotic energy is what I need in my life.
makes my chaotic mess of a life seem relaxed haha
Same
Absolutely
Agreed
OMG facts ❤
Marcus’ “I’m here!” is a total damn mood all in itself.
I loved that so much - it was such a shift in energy from the first video he was in 😂
I hollered out loud when he said “And I’m here!” 🤣
Marcus: "I'm 34"
Robert: "You're so brave"
💀
I'm 35... pretty much dead lol
It was the shaking hands that did it for me lol
Robert's drama is one of my favorite things in this world. 🤣
The best
I'm 35... I feel old now lol 😂
Dear, “my fiancé changed when we got engaged”:
Run! I didn’t heed the red flags as I should have when I was in your situation and now I’m divorced and have PTSD. Listen to your elders, we’ve suffered so you don’t have to. Take good care of you, get out while it’s easier.
Same! He sounds like a Narcissist and she needs to RUN!
^^^^^^^^^🗣FACTS!!!!
THIS THIS THIS!!
YES! Some people show their true colours when they think they don't need to court you anymore. So if the question's poster is reading this: RUN
Yess exactly. She can just give the engagement ring back and run, there’s nothing else that ties them together. No children, no legal stuff, the door is still open!
"If your family are pissing you off and they're bad people, then your family are pissing you off and they're bad people." So many people fail to understand this. Blood relation means nothing if that person is toxic. Period. Parent, sibling, grandparent, sibling of parent, spouse, even child or child of sibling... it does not matter. If they are toxic, leave them out and move on. You owe them nothing.
This is so true, and I'm glad they addressed it because with things like this you know what you need to do, but sometimes you need to hear it a bunch of times, especially from people removed from the situation, before you can go through with it.
You can't choose your relatives but you can choose family. 🥰🥰
@@tkmiller_author that’s lovely, thank you ☺️
I was going through that until very recently. They would poke fun at my appearance so I told them to stop looking at me and look in the mirror and see if it does them any good. I got scolded by my mother and asked to apologize to them. My dad stepped in to tell them kindly mind their business and not bother with mine.
I love how the only pro-marrying reasons Robert could find were like „if you die and you want to leave some money for your partner“ or „if you are dying and you want to see your partner at the hospital“.
Really there aren't many more reasons that you can't do unmarried. I agree 💯👍🏽
I agree 100%
over the years, my man and I have touched the wedding subject many times, weighing the pros and cons, and besides the legal reasons above, we didn't find any advantage or any difference with our current state...
I guess we'll put our signatures in at the registry office at some point, but we feel no rush
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Yeah the only other one I can think of is you pay less tax in some countries if you’re married.
This is on a country to country basis. There are several countries that accept common law/defacto partnerships as "legal" and have tje exact same rights as those who have chosen to go down the marriage route.
Yeah, other than legal or tax-related reasons, I don't really see the need or benefit to get married nowadays. Also, at least in the US, it can help prevent you from having to testify against your partner in a court of law, so that's a nice bonus if you like to get up to no good. And conjugal visits if the trial doesn't go your way. 😂
"I'm 34" "You're so brave" me to my sister who just turned 31 lmao
😂
@@laura24590 good! You should be!
33 and I died laughing 😂 RIP my youth
I'm 40, and would NEVER go back to my 30s or 20s. I embrace it.
@@bratshats same. I’ll be 43 in Dec (get told by everyone I look 28 lol) and I don’t miss those days. I wish I had the energy I had in my 20s because I have a 6 year old and 2.5 year old (she turns 3 one week after my birthday lol). I made mistakes and I learned from those mistakes.
I love how they all have their own background that fits them all perfectly
I love the backgrounds!
I was thinking the same thing. Very similar to their individual channel backgrounds. I can’t speak for Marcus but the twins for sure.
James: Marcus has been through a lot of things, he is much older and wiser
Marcus: 😑 I am 34
So brave 😣🥺🥺
🫢🤲🏽*shake shake*
Working in Child care field... I must say Robert has a EXCELLENT threatening "teacher voice" I cant stop laughing!
As a parent I was thinking the same 😅
Who would have thought I’d be totally obsessed w/ the welsh men just by watching a “make up “ video a year ago… I love all 3 of you! The dynamic is outstanding
“Tell your mom to grow up and tell us how it goes”. 😂😂😂
*runs away in Ukrainian* 😬😬😬
Ducks a flying wooden spoon in Italian
Hides in Jamaican
Shuts up to avoid verbal abuse in Polish
Flying chappal (slipper) in India 😂
4 channels and 2 podcasts...The Welsh boys are taking over my life.
I saw the red flags but was scared to back out and disappoint everybody, even his friends wives said before the wedding ‘it’s not too late you know you don’t have to go through with it’ but I did anyway. Divorced 2 years later after a long time of shit.
Leaving that man was the best thing I ever did and Iv never looked back..
Edit: il just add on to this nobody was disappointed or upset that we divorced, I had full support and they were all glad I was out of it. He’s since moved onto a new victim, same stuff going on by all accounts with her too. (And the one prior to me which I chose to ignore because he said it was all lies and she was crazy)
Good for you!! Even when it's the logical decision, walking away is not that easy when you're the one in that situation. I'm so proud you made the decision to divorce and followed through, better 2 years than 5, or worse, a lifetime!
@@Marina_7 it was almost 6 years altogether but only the first couple were without that much trouble, but I moved away from my friends and family and that’s when everything changed, it kind of creeps up on you and you question yourself if it’s just you or if there actually is something sinister going on.
The happiest id ever been was being on my own after that relationship free to just be me without fear. ❤️
@@amiwilkinson518 Moving away from your loved ones and even just being in the point to question ehether something more sinister is going on honestly sounds like a thriller/horror movie premise... I'm glad you can finally enjoy the freedom you deserve!
I've also been their to,,get out while u still can,,life is way to sort to live unhappy we only get 1 chance of life so live it how you want to not how they wan't..
@@Marina_7 it was literally like someone else was there in my place at times because I’d never let this happen, that’s just not me.. but there I was 🤷🏻♀️ some people are born manipulators and only show their true colours to a few behind closed doors. His mum, dad and sister knew what he was, his sister is probably still dealing with his shit now tbh, I cut ties with them so I don’t know. Funny thing was after I’d left I bumped into him once in my local area shopping arndale and he shouted me and said ‘oh aren’t you going to say hello?!’ I just laughed and said wow you really are mad if you think I would ever want to set eyes on you again let alone talk to you’ it was like nothing had ever happened between us on his part.. surreal
Marcus knows some shit when he started talking about “red flags” he was spot on.
James says something brilliant and Robert simultaneously smiles and nods like he said it! It's a twin thing! 😍
😂😂😂😂😂😂
"tell your mom to grow up and let us know how it goes" I actually laughed out loud.
HOW can Marcus be so adorable and so deeply intelligent and succinct at the same time?? Marcus, I'm 34 too! 😉😍😘
I freaking love Marcus. He is so funny and does such great editing. And I can see such "brotherly love " when all 3 are having a chat. All there laughs are so contagious that my husband cant stop laughing when I'm watching them. One Love thanks for brighten up my day ✌🏼❤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤
Aww thanks!
My husband and I watch them together every Sunday! He loves them
When I watch the twins together, I just wonder about their mum. I just can't imagine James and Robert not being a handful! 😂
And I love how that the family is involved in their careers!
Never too much. Not enough. Listen, I work at least 8 hours, 5 days a week, at a boring desk job that I hate. I need more Welshy content please and thank you. Also, please get poor darling Marcus a mood ring so he can find out how he's feeling STAT!
@@heatherg7224 😂😂 mood ring...😂
I can't stop laughing when Marcus says "and I'm here!" And just smiles with the awkward silence. I love the videos with the 3 of yall! 🤣💙💙💙
We Stan Marcus in this household. 🥺💓
The brothers giggling is my happy pill.
I’m going to use “ I need my glasses adjusted and my arm hurts” to get out of the next family event.
Definitely planning to use this today lol
I get to use I have Covid. My 6 year old daughter got it at school and we all have it.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Robert’s view on marriage revolving all around death is peak 2021.
I started watching James first, then figured out about Robert and loved them together...then Marcus joined the party and now it's better than I ever could have imagined. Love all 3 of them separately and even more together 💜💜💜
Same here 🙋🏻♀️
Is Marcus married?
Marcus is a whole vibe ❤️❤️❤️
thanks, is that good?
@@MarcusWelsh ofcoz it is !! xx
@@MarcusWelsh it is 😉
Marcus: All I do is edit videos of you two eating.
Also James and Robert poking Marcus in the eye whilst laughing evilly 😂
It’s important to bully your staff 💜
that was such a big bro moment XD "yeah touch my eye"
sounded like hes been saying that since the twins were old enough to poke at his eyes
Nothing is better at cheering you up than the three brothers, it’s lovely to see Marcus is almost a triplet in your dynamic!
I need y'all to know that my partner saw the thumbnail for this and called to me "hey, you need to come watch the Welsh twins new video. Jesus is back!" In reference to Marcus. She adores him and finds his increasing presence on your videos to be quite wonderful.
No such thing as too much Welsh boys!!! Keep the channels coming! We’re here for it!
Marcus is a year younger than me.
Allow me to decompose in peace.
I refuse to accept he is only 34,so you can head cannon him older than you until it's confirmed 😉 x
He's 5 years younger than me, so I feel your pain hahaha
I thought the SAME thing when he said his age!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Julia you're so brave 🙏🥺🥺🥺🤣🤣
James counting down
Marcus trying to plug his cult documentary
Robert adjusting his curtains and checking his e-mails
I cannot get enough of welsh brothers content, if yall made videos of your dogs doing a visual podcast i would probably watch it
I rewound it like 10 times. Soooooo hilarious
They should add the trio videos into the regular rotation ( if it isn't already)! I LOVE Robert and James together, but Marcus joining occasionally is such a fun change! An entertaining and refreshing added bonus!
Marcus getting his revenge by smacking Robert is a mood.
For the engagement question. Be straight up. Tell this person you have no problem giving the ring back if they’re gonna start changing up. Be like “this is not the person I got engaged to” and be ready to walk away. If they care about you and the relationship they will reflect on their actions and work on it. If not you are WAAAAAY better off!!!!
James: “everyone is always going to have nails…”
Robert: “… well… we don’t know how evolution is going to go”
I spit out my smoothie
Just wanted to add my thoughts to the career discussion… careers are fluid!!!! We aren’t in our parents generation where we keep the same career for 40 years! If you’re 30, and discover you adore pottery… do it!!! Even if come 33 you hate it, move on to the next thing! You don’t need to decide on one career or define yourself based on what you do!!
I needed to hear this, thank you! My parents define _everyone_ by what they and/or their parents do. Grandparents generation also adds the husband's job to the list (ofc not the wife's though...).
It's really infuriating. I get someone being educated, but you are not a school or a job etc, you are a whole person with your own thoughts, beliefs and experiences. There are looots of "educated" assholes out there, the intellectual difficulty of career obviously didn't shape their character.
As long as you do your best not to have your kids suffer from hunger and stuff, do whatever you want. Whether people think it's an "acceptable"/"respectable"/etc job or education level/path is their own problem.
@@Marina_7 I sometimes get shade from older relatives and family friends because I’ve changed career twice and it’s no longer related to my degree. My stock answer now is “I know right? Turns out I’m good at more than one thing” 💅
@@sallyfrench007 ooh good one! tell them sis 👏💖
I'd asked a very similar question because I somehow ended up in a job I hate and I've been here for 8 years...but I have absolutely no idea how to figure out what I want to do nor what the heck I'd be good at. Dear internet wise ones, send haaaalp.
@@heatherg7224 honestly, think of some things your interested in, and reach out to people doing it! Chat to them on Twitter get an idea of the job role- maybe do a day or 2 of shadowing if you can!! The absolute worst they can do is ignore you or say no!
Robert: "Two trucks are kissing in front of us."
Marcus: "Going to kiss exhaust pipes."
James: "Awww" (Taking a photo)
Me: "What?" Also me: CRYING!!!
For some reason I heard horses so that's why I thought it was cute lmaooo
When Robert's battery died and his image cut to his first Christmas Special I WHEEZED! Like fell out laughing that turned to wheezing! I wasn't ready!!! 😂😂😂
James and Roberts simultaneous excited “Are you!” When Marcus was telling them how many followers he has is so sweet. I love how they all support each other.
And there is never too much Welsh brothers.
Thank you all for the wonderful videos (all three of you)! I'm a mom to two young adults, both are LGBTQIA and we live in the south (USA) and all of our family is conservative, Southern Baptist, so.... It's not the best situation. Thank you so much for sharing your lives and opinions and honesty. ♥️♥️
I think we’re neighbors. There is a BIG difference in Baptist and “Southern Baptist”
Has Marcus always been the voice of reason? I feel like he can answer all my problems
Marcus now has 20.6 subscribers! And we love all the channels. Keep them coming. PLEASE Marcus-do a "what your dreams mean" video.
Your parents must be amazing, they raised some awesome men!! 💕💕
As a 36yr old bisexual woman who just recently started dating a woman, I just want to say that things might get weird with other people, typically ones that don't matter, but the only people that matter are your kids.
Make sure that your kids are okay, and the rest will fall into place. That is not saying others will not treat you differently at first. Especially if no one saw it coming, which was my case. I don't "look gay" whatever the fuck that looks like, so people didn't believe it at first. Or they thought I was going through some things as a single mom. There were a lot of theories. However, if you truck through that weirdness there will be a turning point where people say, possibly literally out loud, "You guys are so NORMAL".... When they realize that you aren't going to change into a completely different person, they usually come around. And if they don't? Fuck em.
Love all 3 of you.❤❤❤ To the person who feels like he should already be settled down at 30. My uncles brother went to university in NYC. He did different odd jobs while figuring out what he wanted to do. Drove a cab, wedding photographer waiter and more. As he kept changing majors it took 10yrs to get his under grad. Eventually he went to Columbia university to get a degree in Law. He was 35 ish when all was said and done. Now he's a lawyer in Washington DC.
Just do you. You'll eventually figure out what you want to be when you grow. I'm 53 and still don't know what i want to be. However im comfortable with it just like the triplets said.
I love the sound of all three of you laughing together. It’s priceless haha. 😍🥰
My therapist said that the difference with burnout is the feeling of being unable to do something that you want to do or something that will make your life a lot easier or less stressful. It’s a bit like depression, when you lose interest in stuff you enjoy. I have adhd and one of the hallmarks of adhd is when you want to do something and your brain stops you doing it, for apparently no reason (the reason is dopamine deficiency, but that’s not really easy to explain in a work email)
is it possible to feel burnt out after a significant change in your life? i.e death of a loved one. Is it possible to gain back the passion to do it?
@@ThivyaThevakumar again, according to my therapist (because I’m not qualified for anything!): clinically, grief and depression are so similar that you usually won’t be diagnosed with depression for a year after losing someone. Grief can take many forms including freezing, feeling unmotivated, or feeling angry or anxious. I lost my dad 3 years ago and I’m still not recovered from that grief - and that’s okay. Big life changes (even positive ones like getting married or moving house) can have a big impact on your mood for a lot longer than people think - at least 6 months. If you’ve been through a bit change, I really recommend talking to someone whether that’s a therapist, counsellor, friend or even just journaling or recording voice messages to yourself.
@@ThivyaThevakumar also yes, that passion will come back but it takes time and you need to take care of yourself to heal. A broken foot doesn’t heal properly if you keep walking on it; your mind and your soul can’t heal if you keep putting pressure on yourself. There is nothing wrong with being kind to yourself.
@@katemellifont4078 thank you so much for the reply! I appreciate it so much. I lost my dad 11 months ago as well. It comforts me to know that people can take their time to recover. Thank you again. xx
I was diagnosed with ADHD at 37 (I’m 40 now) and I’m learning so much about executive function and that I was never “lazy” I was just mentally stuck. Since I stopped all that negative self talk (and started meds) It has become easier to make my life work for me instead of me struggling to fit someone else’s idea of what life should be. ANYWAY - James, Robert & Marcus are the epitome of making their life work for them and I am HERE for it. 💜🖤💜🖤💜🖤
My experience with burning out…I got burnt out fall of 2020. I was doing full time work and full time school(college). I am an architecture student and we get really heavy heavy hw. So for about two years i would not sleep for about 3-4 days a week because of school work and then having to go to work. I was so tired, I got depressed but I kept going. In fall 2020 in the last two weeks of school I broke. I couldn’t get outta bed, I couldn’t do my hw, I didn’t finish my final project, I didn’t do final exams or hw. I was completely burnt out. It was such a horrible feeling, no motivation whatsoever. I took spring semester as a break and only worked and relaxed. I picked school back up and now I’m taking it easy. Plz take care of yourselves!!! Your health matters! Stay safe guys
I feel this so much. Spring, summer, & fall 2020 were my burnout and breakdown semesters. I was a doctoral student working on my proposal in the spring, and the editing was just going nowhere. I also teach full time, and that was the semester of all covid shut downs. By the summer, all doctoral work had stopped, and I didn't get out of bed for most of July and August. My chair reached out and I guess through the kindness and grace she showed me, I slowly started getting my personal life back together. Thankfully, I have now successfully defended my proposal for candidacy, and I'm in the midst of conducting my research study. Burnout happens, and it's okay that it does. I would have been totally fine if I had dropped out, but I'm glad for now that I didn't. I needed the freedom to stop for a while and take care of ME. At the end of the day, no goal I reach will be worthwhile if I do emotional or psychological damage to myself in the process. Congrats to the both of us for finding our way through that tunnel, and finding that we still had the will to carry on!
"Retail managers can be quite culty." As a very young retail manager, yes, yes they really can be 😅
(Still love you guys tho, you guys are totally right)💜💜
Just change the L in culty to an N and that is exactly a retail manager description.
I like these advice ones, because you give the answer everyone wants to hear and then "No listen, realistically here's how it should be handled."
I LOVE THIS! ESPECIALLY with Marcus!!!! PLEASE do more with you all answering and giving advice! Your take on advice is great! I am in my 50's now, I started doing hair at 18 and have always kept my license active, BUT I have also done nails, worked as a cake decorator, a floral arranger, a Make up artist AND my final career change was to work as a case worker for family services doing food stamps and medicaid for poor families. You can DO ANYTHING that interests you!!!!! ANYTHING!!!!!
I know EXACTLY what it’s like growing up with younger twin brothers…….. I feel u Marcus, the torment u must have endured 🤣🤣. Absolutely love the lot of u hysterical!! ❤️❤️
Marcus: "I joined a cult!" Robert: "Get out of my house!" James: "I don't know what's going on." The chaos is irrationally funny 🤣
LOVE “featuring Marcus”
Describing retail managers as “culty” was the best thing I’ve heard all year 😂 I have never heard that described more accurately
marcus is a star ofcourse he does everthing for us and james and robert are the best
Robert just learning you have to pay to divorce. No one tell him it costs THOUSANDS AND THOUSANDS of pounds
It’s lovely to see Marcus laughing and smiling and not doing the “I’m the moody one” act 😁 x
Yeah no acting today! Real me for once
Exactly!!!! Loved it!!
You guys have the best humor!
Robert's Christmas photo is everything xD you can feel the spirit of the holidays radiating from it🙌
I read an article recently that proposed there is no such thing as 'lazy'; there is always a human reason why things don't happen. Being overworked, emotionally or socially drained or just overwhelmed generally. It was so liberating to read and I cried for awhile lol.
Cut yourself some slack!!
I recently got dropped from my grad program because COVID and the job I was at really affected my ability to continue with my courses and this video helped me so much. Thank you all for everything you do, I feel better about taking on a new path now 🖤
Robert saying that the issue is with your mom is just….Idk…..truth. The best thing I have ever heard 🤯
I needed these conversations today, more than ever.
We love you all so much, you could literally have 1000 channels between you and I'd give up my job to be a professional Welsh brothers watcher, just saying 😁💙
Professional Welsh brother watcher, I love that 💜🖤
Just when I didn’t think a Welsh brother more, here comes Marcus shimmying into my life 💕
YAY! Marcus so happy to see you as well!
This was awesome!! Marcus, congratulations on 20K!
Thank you Stacey!!
James is such a lovely guy. He really has a back of seeing peoples problems and being sympathetic and wise.
Wise AND beautiful 🥰
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The three of you together is absolute perfection. You manage to make me die with laughter whilst simultaneously giving good advice…HOW?!
Not even a minute in and y’all are already making me laugh 😂
I juts burst out laughing at the doctors.
Out laughing 30seconds I’m we need once a weekly oh i can’t stop laughing every eppisode
On the mental break question - it has helped me to think about what "productivity" really means. Doing nothing isn't really "doing nothing" bc your brain is always working even when *you* aren't. If your body isn't doing anything but your brain is sorting things out, I'd argue that that is *still* "productive" even if no one else can see the results. Plus, if you can get rid of the guilt (not an easy thing), you might notice you feel more refreshed or creative after. ✌🏽❤
Robert looks like a Priest, I’m not mad about it
Petition for Marcus to host this one with you guys! We need this beautiful chaos on a regular basis. Also you complete each other so well.
It took my mom into her late 50's early 60's before she realized its OK to cut out toxic people - even if its family! 🙏
I love the fabulous family dynamic between the three of you! It's so healthy and supportive. You are all wonderful!
The unsung hero for these videos.... MARCUS!!! love you all
Marcus using an old awkward photo of Robert when his battery ran out is peak older sibling energy.
Robert is coming through with that good life advice 👌
Marcus: I joined a cult
Robert: Getoutmahhouse 😆😆😆
Thank you to the parents for blessing us with these 3 lovely and fun humans. 🖤
Marcus is a gem! I have two sisters, and one you put the three of us together it's a riot. This is a Welsh riot and I'm here for it.
You three are absolute treasures! Your parents must be super proud of each of you!
The university part is so relatable. I didn't drop out, because I didn't want to disappoint my family, and ended up not graduating on time, because I couldn't cope with all the stress. If you really feel that you're not in the right place, drop out, find something you really love!
Me a 17 year old thankful I’m getting this info so young!!! 💖💖💖
It's lovely to see such a supportive, comfortable and grounded family atmosphere. It has me all tearful and emotional, in a good way! Thank you for letting us share it with you 🥰
Yay!!🥰 Happy Welsh Day!!💜🖤🤗🤗🖤💙
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I love the 3 of you on videos together! Marcus has a great way of explaining and vocalizing things in a way to where it's not confusing or rude or mean and to where it's understanding.
I can't even imagine what it must be like with all of you together when around other people because you three together are too much and I love it! You all crack me the hell up and Marcus is always a delight when he is on.
I like Marcus. He always has a fresh perspective.
This is a video of 3 people trying to share a single brain cell and I love it
Oh 👀 well..
The three of them together is absolutely everything!
It's absolutely not too much of you! I only discovered this channel last week, I can't remember when I laughed so much, thank you
I really enjoyed the three of you together. I still appreciate James and Robert as much as always, but you have such great positive energy as a family that you are a joy to watch. You support each other and build each other up without talking over each other or competing for the spotlight. As the twin of a highly competitive sibling, I especially like that about your relationship.
“Sandra bullock in space kinda situation..yeah..” I can’t with robert today 😂
YaY more Marcus! More sibling giggling and touching each others eyes!! You're great together.
The Welsh brothers are dominating all platforms 🥰
Marcus was hitting everything spot on with his advice today.
Omg I'm laughing so hard when James counted down Marcus little speech and then they both lost it 🤣🤣🤣Woke my husband up hahaha
I've been feeling so down on myself recently and this was massively helpful. Thank you Welsh family 💖