Indian parents 21 century me bhi apne baccho k mann ko samjhne me sakshm nhi hai.... Unhe sirf khudke status or society ki jyada chinta hai... Jab baccha suicide krta hai tab wo rote baithte hai
Tbh, they are just some birth givers who use their kids as a source of pride, tell them again and again whatever they do from them, curtail their freedom of speech, belief, openness, those ght, they are not parents, they are just some masters who give birth to their slaves. But it's not their fault. They are just ignorant and pathetic
uncle kaafi hd tk shi bhi hai..aaj ke time me school ki quality of education bilkul pit gyi hai...tatti pdhai hoti hai school me...aur na hi hm logo ka mindset ush tareeke se build kra jata hai ki hum aage koi bhi competitive exam ke liye soch paay....
😂😂😂 सत्य कहूँ तो इनके वचनो को सुनकर हँसी रोक नही पा रही हूँ। सारा दोष किसी और पर मढ़ना कोई इनसे सीखे ।हे प्रभू! धरती पर विचरने वाले इन प्राणी को कौन समझाएँ कि हर इन्सान अलग है। उसकी सोचने-समझने की क्षमता ,उसके विचार-व्यवहार, उसकी बुद्धि आदि हर चीजे एक- दूसरे से काफी हद तक भिन्न होती है। पर नही समाज जिस धारा मे बह रही है हम भी उसी धारा मे बहेंगे, और इस चीज को पूरा करने के लिए दबाव बच्चो पर पड़ता है।उनसे कभी ये नही पूछा जाता उनके सपने क्या है या वो क्या बनना चाहता है? एक तो वैसे ही दुनिया मे रेस चल रहा है सबको आगे निकलने की । ऊपर से अंजान शहर मे अकेले रहना, उसके सोच से परे पाठ्यक्रम, कोंचिग सेंटर मे रोज होती परिक्षाएँ, घरवालो के नखरे अलग से हैं । कोई समझने को तैयार नही है और न सुनने को, बस emotional blackmail का खेल चलता है बस। नतीजा ये होता है कि बच्चे ये सारा दबाव झेल नही पाते है । छोटे से कंधो पर एकसाथ कई सारे बोझ डालना कहाँ तक सही है?
She is blissfully unaware that syllabus is reduced for those topics which were repeated topics and need to be deleted. For example electric motor was deleted from 10th as it is already there is 12th. This point was raised by A.P.J Abdul Kalam Sir around 15 years ago. Biggest problem is respect given by society to each profession. Because maximum respect and money is shared by doc., engg. and UPSC qualifiers they are projected as heroes. Right now you see another shift we see respect and money for some entrepreneur. Only solution is give respect to each profession and reduce pay check disparity between professional as much as possible. In Germany we don't see any difference in salary and respect given of an average engg. and avg. carpenter. In Japan they thank sweeper by bowing. Let's respect everyone and create an honorable society.
After 10th My brother also prepared for IIT and got admission in a dummy school. It was purely his own decision. My parents never forced him. He got admission in a renowned college after a year he dropped out. He did not clear IIT but he got his passion. Now he is doing very well in his field. I am proud of my brother.
Reason behind the suicide is these type of parents..ye parents inke pass degree bhale hogi but inki baato se ye ptaa lgta hai ki ye kitne uneducated hai,.in parents ko education ki jarurat hai , aise parents apne bachho ke dimag ko gattar bnaa dete hain..
@@srivastavaapoorva4613 tumhri knowledge itni Kam hai ki tumhe ews reservation se bhi kahi selection nahi hoga, Tum abhi padhai Karo uske baad apna gattar jaisa muh kholo
Salute to you mam if you feel it honestly this pain .... I really respect your point of view and understand about social structure as well as society....
All these parents you talked to are the kind of people who put unnecessary pressure on their kids. Ask their kids whether he/she is under pressure or not and I'm quite sure he/she would answer yes. All this suicide thing is happening because of toxic parents and coaching institutes. The coaching institutes create massive hype for IITs and medical colleges for their own benifits and the parents and innocent and immature kids fall for it. There are also ivy league schools in the US which are way better and ahead than IITs but you would hardly find anyone being extremely depressed and committing suicide just because he/she failed to get into one of those colleges. This toxic educational environment in India needs to be brought to an end. It's high time now.
Bro rajesthan has 70% reservation, and there is more than 50% reservation in medical seats all over India don't you think we are giving very less chance to real talented and deserving candidate.
@@indian-jc5bo Real talented people made discrimination and disallowed less talented people from education and self respect from late Vedic period till 1950. General category comprise only 10% of total population why should they get more reservation.
@@medicalalerts what is fair chance? Those who have money to afford coaching and those who are having education from remote areas ....are they have fair chance?
@@indian-jc5bo should be stoped reservation in education. Every where resarvation reservation reservation. At least spare this field for the shake of kids who are studing hard since very early age. And 60%seats are alloted on the basis of reservation .
This interview is a honest truth about thinking of Indian parents ... after this much happenings the parents don't know the reason lol....the reporter is awesome!!! Has rational points❤
Very Good stand and explanation provided by Reporter on Reservation ... one parent is blaming reservation only .but there are various causes which should be understand !!
यह हमारे समाज की भयानक सच्चाई है कि हम भारतीय केवल डॉक्टर इंजीनियर या कोई भी एक अदना सी सरकारी नौकरी चाहते हैं। और कोई भी प्रोफेशन में अगर बच्चे जाते हैं तो भले ही मां बाप मान ले पर दूसरे जान पहचान वाले ताने कसते रहते हैं। उसी का नतीजा है कोटा में इतनी बड़ी-बड़ी कोचिंग इंस्टिट्यूट खुलने का। हम कोई दूसरा प्रोफेशन अपने बच्चों से करना ही नहीं चाहते।
I lost my very dear friend in 2013. He hanged himself. That day alone 2 students lost their lives. JEE Main was around the corner. I knew exactly who was responsible for his death. It was his parents, he couldn't take the pressure his parents put. I see this video and the attitude of parents. I feel hopeless. The incidents will keep increasing in the future. Society, government, parents, teachers and students all have failed. No one is duty bound.
I think here LT and the reporter Sonal touched on a key point. The skipping of regular school and it's structured program. Instead, going full hog into 24x7 coaching. I attended regular school _and_ prepared for JEE etc. Class XI XII were valuable learning experiences in themselves. Inko coaching me jhonk diya jata hai. That is wrong. Because coaching is too narrowly and exclusively focused on achievements. Regular school me bhi "competition" ke pressures rehte hain, but I don't remember this machine-like effort, right from class XI or before. We had sports, drama, literary events, elocution, teen romance-shomance etc etc - and I think 2 baje chutti.
Faltu hi hota he school Jana sare competitive students na toh school jate he and na unhe school ke padhane ke standards pe vishwas hota he . Mere school me jo 12th me bura perform kar rahe he vohi school ate he compete ki kis se kare , aur romance vagera bhi apni barabari walo se karo toh hi badiya he .
aap science student nahi the lagta hei... boards and school ka isss jamaane me koi value nhi hei.. rahi baat jo jee neet ke liye serious hei unko in sab teen romance showmance se dur rehna chiye, kyuki harr koi iit jata nhi hei,, jo jaate hei most of them settle very comfortably and achieve big,.. and achievment is more than our enjoyment.. achieve krrke enjoy krrna hota hei actual majje... jo log sapne pura nahi krr pate hei wo aapke jese baatein krrte hei makeover dene ke liye
I stayed 1 year in kota in year 2022-23 and in the 2nd half my kota time my heart literally cried every single day i dont want to mention but i cleared exam
I am currently studying in IIT BHU Mechanical branch. I didnt go to Kota for prep and studied from my home town. Toughness and competition are the basic needs of exams like NEET and JEE as it is not possible otherwise to select 15000 candidates out of some 10 lakhs. But at the same, you should enjoy the journey of prep rather than taking tension. Becoz at the end process is important and destination is the secondary outcome. Even if u can not clear the exam, life is not over... there are many examples who have achieved extraordinary success from non-IIT/NIT colleges.👍
True. If a student enjoys the journey then it's fine. Sometimes they tend to discover a subject of their liking and then want to pursue some other field like research. Scientists of ISRO achieving such great milestones are products of regional colleges and not at all from IITs and NIT. Reservation is also a great hindrance as these students then get into depression once they reach IIT. It's not easy to survive their also.
Compitition is not because of reservation but because of less job vacancy The matter of reservation is that due to reservation students dont get a level playing field Some get better chance with less marks than u but both may have done same hardwork Abolition of reservation in education is what i also support because without reservation in education we will get a level playing field,
@@Futureinnursing98 yes.. Mere padosi ka baccha mbbs kr raha hai.. Mera bhi beta mbbs krega... Ye soch parents ki hoti hai... Government ki nhi... College owner or institutions ye bat smjh chuke hai.. M isliye colleges ki fees aaj crore me ho gayi hai... Or aaj education ek business hai....
इन मातापिता को ऐसे नहीं बोलना चाहिए कि, बच्चे खुद आ रहे हैं।और भी विकल्प हैं इसके अलावा।क्योंकि जब बच्चे को 6th class से ही कई मातापिता foundation करवा रहे हैं और उनसे कम उम्र में ही घर पर सिर्फ डॉक्टर इंजीनियर की ही बातें करेंगे,तो बच्चे की कोई गलती नहीं है।ये बात बच्चों ने इनके मुंह पर थप्पड़ की तरह कह भी दी।मग़र मातापिता खुद के सपने थोप रहे हैं उन्हें और activities में support तो खुद नहीं करते फिर यहां वीडियो पर चिंता दिखा रहे हैं।बच्चे बहुत ज़्यादा तार्किक और समझदार हैं इन मातापिता से,साफ दिख गया। पहले अपनी ज़िम्मेदारी समझें।👍
GAP YEAR OR GAP YEARS= finding your equilibrium and comprehending/exploring career options that you won't have to quit kyunkae parakh kae soch samajh kae chayun kiya hae! The stigma attached to " dropping a year or GAP years or bridge courses or backlog students or those who have not " worked" " naukree/ mahnat naheen naa kiyae ho" IS an abhishaap more for those(samaaj kae custodians) who attach these stigmas than for those stigmatised!! ONCE AGAIN excellent reporting by sonal and roohani from THE LT!
See the main reason for this is that schools is not able to provide proper platform for JEE preparation there are multiple reasons for same. 1. The teachers in schools can never be as qualified as talented as teachers in coaching just for reference a top pvt school in a city pays it senior school teacher around 60-70k meanwhile in coaching a iit fresher is paid 12-15 LPA for being a teacher. 2. In school they prepare you for boards which are subjective in nature meanwhile in JEE and NEET you need problem solving skills with good speed and accuracy for objective exams which is a different game altogether. Plus difficulty of these exams is completely different. 3. In schools they have to keep extra curricular activities like various competitions/annual function/sports day, assembly, sports/music/arts period also which reduces the time for education plus schools have to give holiday on all public holidays meanwhile coaching gives holiday only on diwali and holi. This helps them to increase lecture hours for preparation. 4. Schools can only give you mock tests and regular assessments according to board pattern which is again not useful for JEE/NEET. 5. School can never pay as much as coaching because they have to maintain infra for sports/music/art, pay to teachers of other subjects, organize regular activities and events plus in school they have limited class sizes so the teacher:student ratio is higher. 6. Every city doesn't has good schools and the schools which are good are again too expensive and have limited seats and are difficult to get to. Many top pvt schools in cities even take interview of parents and check their backgrounds before giving admissions. The fees of top pvt schools in big cities is even higher than coaching institutes. 7. This problem can only be solved if govt hires coaching level teacher in govt schools and pay them well along with focus on preparing them for JEE/NEET like the coaching do. 8. Coaching can't reduces fees because the teachers they keep need high salaries because they are talented and mostly iit graduates so they will have the desire to earn as much as their friends who graduated from iit/nit with them so that's why many of the experienced teachers are even drawing salaries like 60/70/90 lakhs and some even are drawing 1/1.5/2 crore salaries which are on par with industry. I have completed my 11th and 12th from regular school without coaching and did coaching for a year after that.
सोनल जी बहुत ही सही बात कही आज कल कुछ भी ग़लत होता है उसको आरक्षण पे डालदिया जाता है जबकि यदि देश की सरकारों जनसंख्या के हिसाब से स्कूल और कॉलेज बनाये होते तो ऐसा नहीं होता
रिजर्वेशन की बात करने वालो रिजर्वेशन कितवा परसेंट है sc-13 , st- 7, obc-27 कुल मिलाके ४७ बचा हुवा ५३ जगह तो जनरल कॅटेगरी कि ही है. फिर किसे है रिजर्वेशन? मैं अपनी बात कहती हूॅं. मैं st कॅटेगरी से हूॅं. मैने २०१७ हे महाराष्ट्र लोकसेवा आयोग ( MPSC) का एक्झाम क्रॅक किया. मेरे ७८ मार्कस् थे और मेरे साथ इंटरव्ह्यू देने जनरल कॅटेगरी से ४४ मार्कस् वाली महिला थी. फिर रिजर्वेशन किसे है?
Solution as per my opinion - Schooling ke time me hi student ko diff diff other field me carrier bnane ke bare me jankari deni chahiye jisse student ko pta chalega ki engineering aur Medical ke alawa bhi bahut ache ache field exist karte hai...aur unhe apne path ko select karne me asani hogi... Kyuki Maximum student ko JEE aur NEET ke alawa koi aur option nhi dikhta hai.. Jbki aur bhi bahut ache option hai... For example- Architecture, Hospitality & Tourism, Law, Journalism, Digital Marketing & Advertising, Business, Content writer, RJ, Mass Com, fashion designing and many more...
No point in doing that. My son studies in a reputed school where they have been provided with career counselling along with parents to explore different career options. My son is the class topper but because he was more interested in humanities than in science, he wanted to pursue humanities in ISC. For the last two years I am having to answer all the parents why I spoilt his future by allowing him to take humanities in spite of he being academically bright. This is the thought process of educated parents. Educated or uneducated, the idea is that if you are a bright student you go for science and appear for JEE and NEET, if not you take humanities. Commerce is for business class. First and foremost we need to bring out the parents from this typical mindset.
The man rightly spoke about reservations..but then the anchor interrupted him by talking about 3000yrs they were not given right to education etc... Reservations are the biggest drawback in our country.Seats have to be souly on merit basis.
Hello Iska ek solution ye ho sakta h ki NEET eligibility jo h uska ek point ho ki "ONLY AFTER FIRST DROP'" after class 12. Isse board pressure + Neet pressur Kam rahega aur competition bhi Kam hoga. Kyunki very few students are able to crack such exams in very first attempt. Secondly, competition exam coaching from initial phase like class 6 and 9 or even more early should stop. Coaching should be there only for DROPPERS. Seats in basic science should increase
@@dandez3126 Why so? Are you 200% sure ki tumhara Ist attempt mei AIIMS D mei selection hoga? So, don't be so rude and try to understand the gravity of situation. Kisi ki Jaan gayi h So, you better keep your mouth shut 😤
@@dandez3126 you didn't get my point. The point was simple after 12 th child becomes little mature to handle things but at age of 12 or 16 the pressure due to lack of seats, expenses creates fuss. So, no of attempts should not be limited. But in the drop year they will be in a calm state to prepare with sufficient time without unnecessary pressure of managing boards as well. Living a terrible 2 year life. In this way no of candidates will reduce hence the competition will too reduce. Eliminating all 11+12 coaching students from entire country. I think this makes sense. Therefore UPSC is after graduation and CA foundation exam even are after sometime gap
Uncle ko kuch basic knowledge nahi h kota ki 😅 ese hi parents bache ko pressurize karte h to take such steps thank god my parents ar not like him they are very understanding 😊
सब से पहले government ये करे.. कि कोटा में पढ़ने वाले बच्चों के लिए उनकी फीस refundable बनाये... ज्यादातर माँ बाप मिडिल क्लास होते हैं.. और वो अपनी जमा पूँजी लगा कर.. और या फिर कर्ज लेकर बच्चे को पढ़ने भेजते हैं... तो इसी वजह से बच्चा इस दबाव में आ जाता है.. कि पापा मम्मी ने इतना पैसा लगाया है.. तो मैं लौट कैसे जाऊँ... वो बच्चा जबरदस्ती पढ़ने की कोशिश करता रहता है... और कई बार परेशान होकर आखिर गलत कदम उठा लेता है...
I have been to Kota for coaching 15 years back and I can say situation is similar from last 2 decades but this time it is creating Storm. I'll blame everyone including system, parents, society and week kids of these generation who can not handle one percent of pressure.
I know taking extreme steps is not right but That's not only the 1 % of pressure ,,indeedly I've seen such parents who emphasize their child to score good rather appreciating or consoling them in worse situations,,,nd that's cause the feeling of guilt nd Contrition,,nd they choose wrong steps 😔 parents should encourage theirs child to do better
You do not seem to be someone who has been to Kota 15 years ago as I have myself studied from Kota as soon as I graduated my 12th. These type of problems were not there at that time in 2005-06.
@@Dr.RishabhNeurosurgery-Jackson bcz at that time competition wasn't that tough or enormous,,,also my cousin is in kota from previous year nd his parents indeedly used to schold him if he hadn't performed well in his weekly tests...that's what I'm saying,, in those situation student choose extreme steps
@@Itz_me_842 Yes, I do understand the problem. Just smile, be dedicated towards your goal just like how Arjuna pointed his bow and arrow towards the point. If you score low in the tests, smile and analyse, work on yourself and you will get the results. All the best to you all the way from Chicago, United States!
@@Dr.RishabhNeurosurgery-Jackson exactly, I do this same ,,we should never break the Cain of hopes ,,,nd the best part is that my parents even don't pressurize me ,,,🙂
मैं सभी बच्चों के parents को बोलना चाहूंगा pls अपने बच्चो को कोटा ना भेजे अपने शहर में या गांव के पास जो भी local coaching है वहा भेजे.. kota में कोई आपके बच्चो पर ध्यान नहीं देगा... सफलता सिर्फ kota जाने से ही नही मिलती... मेहनत करके ही मिलती है.. इसीलिए मैं बोलना चाहूंगा.. बच्चों को घर पर रहकर ही पढ़ाई के लिए support करे... कोटा जाने के बाद वहां हर प्रकार की समस्याओं से उन्हें गुजरना पड़ेगा मैं जब वहा गया था कि kota कैसा है हालात कैसे है ये सब देख के ये सब बोलना पड़ा... ये कड़वा है पर सच है 💯
As a reporter your work is to ask questions whatever you want but not to debate with common person because they are not the experts they are the common citizens of India your work is to take input from them later you give statement whatever you think on that.....
True, I think she is unnecessarily debating . This is not balanced reporting. Parents too have their point. Schools do not prepare a student for a competitive exam. Hence students need coaching to bridge the gap. Also good coaching may not be available in every small town and city . So parents are forced to send their kids to Kota or other bigger cities with good coaching facility. Dummy schools are a good option for those students who are sincere with their studies and utilise their free time in preparing for a competitive exam. If you compare the the chances of a student from dummy school and regular school, certainly a student from dummy school has much better chance of clearing the exam provided he has utilised that time properly and invested it in his studies. Managing regular school and coaching is an unnecessary burden on students. Just condemning dummy schools and parents is unjustified.
Absolutely, the reporter seemed biased towards her understanding and missed the bigger picture. I'm from Kota, an IIT alum, so I've witnessed it all. Education is the trusted path for the less fortunate to break free from poverty and even leave the country. Dummy schools exist due to bureaucracy; coaching thrives as a free-market solution. Parents recognize regular school isn't enough. 📚🌟
I think coaching institutes should give time for revision …..coaching are like syllabus complete ho jae bas at least student need a break after 3 day to revise overall 2 day leave in a week or reduce class duration
Schools are not teaching NEET/JEE main/adv POV, if only this is included in school teaching rather than only teaching CBSE or State board exams, coaching mafias can be limited
HOW TO STOP IT Rajasthan Govt 1. Fee in monthly or quarterly installment. A child can leave and doesn't feel trapped. 2. One park has been under development for years and now it is about to open. 3. Create sports facility in smaller parks. Mostly they are in depleted condition near Allen Sankalp Coaching Institute 1. Screening of students before admission. This means no admissions in Allen for those who don't meet criteria. 2. You earn so much. Please investment in sports facility 3. In short run loss of some revenue. But if Kota earns a bad name, parents will stop sending their children to Kota resulting in Bigger Loss Parents 1. Don't take loans or sell property for coaching 2. Use online such as PW, E Saral. If child has capability most probably he will succeed. Child 1. JEE or NEET are not the only pathway to success. 2. If you learn to study for more than 10 hrs a day, you are on road to success. 3. At least 20 minutes of physical exercise
They should have a particular session for giving suggestions to the students who doesn't clear these exams about other career opportunities rather than glorifying these premium institutions. Are these institutions bigger than their life?
Kuch bahut hi important points hai isme.... Actually hota aisa hai ki baccha jab apne city ke school mein bahut accha perform karta hai, ya topper hota hai toh waha toh uska confidence bilkul upar hota hai joki acchi baat hai, but jab wahi baccha aise institutes mein jata hai coaching ke liye tab usko pata padta hai ki mein akela koi hero nahi ho actually, aur dusre bhi bright students hai mujhse compete karne ke liye. Institute wale pehle din hi samajh jate hai ki kaun bacche ka kya potential hai and phir wo us hisab se baccho pe focus karte hai as per their directives. Ab isme at the end jo baccha emotionally and pychologically strong hota hai, intelligent and consistent hota hai wo ultimately crack kar leta hai IIT-JEE or NEET and others may be not so lucky. Dusri baat aj bhi koi mane ya na mane hamare desh mein bahut hi narrow mindset hai wahi 100-200 saal purana ki hamara baccha ya toh engineer banega ya doctor ya IAS/IPS banega.. bas ho gaya. That's it! Iske aage koi sochta hi nahi and baacho ko bhi bachpan se hi aise condition kiya jata hai continuously... While in reality there are so many very good and equally satisfying and rewarding options out there. I think it's high time now that baccho ko bachpan se hi is tarah se encourage kare according to his/her capacity that he/she can make her career related choices very clearly and decisively at the right time and at the right moment.... Wo bacche ki mother bol rahi hai ki bacche itne hi samajhdar hote toh baat hi kya thi, wo toh dekha-dikhai mein decision le lete hai... But wo madam ko koi samjhaye ki baccho ko ye sab ultimately bade hi sikhate hai right from the very childhood. It all starts from home itself and then at school and everywhere else. This conditioning process... I think bas ye conditioning ko thoda sa alter kar ke bacche ka dimag sahi time pe gradually explorative banaya jaye toh naturally wo correct decisions le payega apne liye. And this has to be done without any kind of fear of social stigma or anything...
The first step to finding solution to any problem is to address the problem. Ye log problem hi nhi mante isliye they should be punished. Bacho pe itna pressure dalte rhenge taki paise bnaye zyada aur inke padosi se zyada status bne inka
Ma'am great and brave Interview. Appreciate to you. Ma'am m kota m ek saal raha hun. Ma'am actually m saari samasya coaching walo mein hai. Interview m coaching k director badi badi baat karte hain par actual class m vo sweet poison krte h. Topper ko appreciation kewal, jhuthe sapne dikhana, expectation dena, ghar p marks bhejna, or to or syllabus bhi ache se cover nhi krte. Btw mujhe bhut ache teacher mile the physics ke, Dear Shantanu Sir from Darbhanga Bihar( Physics)❤
One should attend school till class 12th. Not just for studies. It will make you mentally prepared for the outside world. Schools never create throat cutting competition environment. Their only motive is to make the students pass with some good grades. Board exams can be scary for a students. From School teachers pov, it is just an ordinary exam that you have to pass as usual. But coaching teachers make it feel like life and death. Beware aware of money making coachings, they are just sucking your money and squeezing your child's mental health. Rather look for a tution where a teacher is only teaching less than 10 students. That would be more fruitful.
Mentally prepared for outside world by closing yourself in a classroom? Koi sense hai is baat ka? I am not in support of school nor coaching centre. Homeschooling is best.
I think iss soch ko he samaj khate h .....A lady saying ki" 30% syllabus reduce kiya h but why its not needed" i.e agar council baacho par burden kam kar rhi h toh its bad ...wow nice
The fundamental question arises how many of selected candidates do engg jobs as a large no are working in management, civil services and other related field which clearly manifests the motivation these students had regarding so called engg jobs. It is only because of the exposure they get in IIT they come to know about different fields which parents like these denied them at younger age.
Reservation ka gyaan dene wale , tumhara 10% awaadi 40% seat hai aab kya chahiye ? 700 saal se sirf swarn ko reservation mila 100% , 70 saal se 50% reservation kya mila pet dard hone lagq
@@anugautam2627 jab shamaj me bhej bhav jati ke basis hota hai to economic base pr kyu reservation milna chahiye ? 1 garib Brahman , 1 garib niche cast ka dono ko same treat krta hai society ?
@@Ayush_the_bankerbhai man liya reservation hona chahiye bilkul pr uska review bhi to hona cahiye ki sc ya st catagory se hi jo reservation ka fayda kon utha Raha h usme bhi layer BN gyi h bhai kuch percent log hi upr wale pura fayda utha rhe h Maine khud apne gav me dekha h SC or OBC se bhut se log h jinko reservation ka kuch khass fayda ho hi nhi Raha kyuki ve vaha tak pahunch hi nhi rhe education level pr ki vo compitition me aa ske unko to reality me fayda ho hi nhi Raha jaise ST catagory me Meena mostly seats cover kr rhe h ajj kl hr government job me
As a teacher mai ye keh sakti hu ki 99℅ parents apne baccho ko jyda se jyda padhai me lage rhna dekhna chahte h aur score unke lie bahut mayne rakhti h Jabki parents ko chahie apne baccho ka Moral values pr dhyan de Education jeevan jeene ka hathiyar h na ki aap use apna breathing system bana le
Reservation has logic behind it but interviewer also need to understand the geound reality. It is actually unjust for general category too. To give justice to a segment there is injustice happening to other.
Life में 99% does not matter. Its your attitude and confidence which matters. Parents बच्चों को robot बनना चाहते हैं। जीवन जीने से ज्यादा डॉक्टर इंजीनियर बनाते हैं।
Teachers directly demotivate students . I also faced that type of demotivation spread by teachers during neet coaching. Teachers always try to brag infront of avg stud and try to show the students that they are inferior.
कितने खतरनाक parents हैं। जब ये कोटा आए हैं तो ये हाल है । घर से तो क्या ही हाल करते होंगे बच्चों का फोन पर ।
Parents be like '' agar suicide ki kosish ki to Jaan se maar dunga".😢😢
Bahut jyada kharab parents hai
@@sr-dt3pl😢😢😢
Parents dabav Nahin banate hain
फ़ोन पर सन्डे टेस्ट का स्कोर पूछते है
Parents be like :- हमारे बच्चे तो ऐसे ही मरते रहेंगे... आपको क्या दिक्कत है 😂😂
Ha bhai
Indian parents 21 century me bhi apne baccho k mann ko samjhne me sakshm nhi hai.... Unhe sirf khudke status or society ki jyada chinta hai... Jab baccha suicide krta hai tab wo rote baithte hai
Sahi baat hai ek din tum log mar jao isilye to paida karte hain
Tbh, they are just some birth givers who use their kids as a source of pride, tell them again and again whatever they do from them, curtail their freedom of speech, belief, openness, those ght, they are not parents, they are just some masters who give birth to their slaves. But it's not their fault. They are just ignorant and pathetic
Uncle talks like students studying in regular schools become nothing in life😂😂😂😂
Yes😢
uncle kaafi hd tk shi bhi hai..aaj ke time me school ki quality of education bilkul pit gyi hai...tatti pdhai hoti hai school me...aur na hi hm logo ka mindset ush tareeke se build kra jata hai ki hum aage koi bhi competitive exam ke liye soch paay....
yes this is truth
Parents will never admit their mistakes
It's mind conditioning mind's...they never change easily
Reservation se itnaa dikaat .😂😂😂😂
@@itsinvalid07shi kaha bhai
Lekin parents apni Galti nhi manegi.
Mujhe iss bar neet main 600 Mila but Mera selection nahi hua but Mera dost st hai uska 540 Mai selection hogaya what is this
@@shashikr814bilkul sahi
सबसे ज्यादा माता-पिता ही बच्चों को टॉर्चर करते हैं। बच्चों को घर परिवार की मजबूरियाँ बताते हैं जिससे बच्चा डिप्रेशन में चला जाता हैं।
😂😂😂 सत्य कहूँ तो इनके वचनो को सुनकर हँसी रोक नही पा रही हूँ। सारा दोष किसी और पर मढ़ना कोई इनसे सीखे ।हे प्रभू! धरती पर विचरने वाले इन प्राणी को कौन समझाएँ कि हर इन्सान अलग है। उसकी सोचने-समझने की क्षमता ,उसके विचार-व्यवहार, उसकी बुद्धि आदि हर चीजे एक- दूसरे से काफी हद तक भिन्न होती है। पर नही समाज जिस धारा मे बह रही है हम भी उसी धारा मे बहेंगे, और इस चीज को पूरा करने के लिए दबाव बच्चो पर पड़ता है।उनसे कभी ये नही पूछा जाता उनके सपने क्या है या वो क्या बनना चाहता है? एक तो वैसे ही दुनिया मे रेस चल रहा है सबको आगे निकलने की । ऊपर से अंजान शहर मे अकेले रहना, उसके सोच से परे पाठ्यक्रम, कोंचिग सेंटर मे रोज होती परिक्षाएँ, घरवालो के नखरे अलग से हैं । कोई समझने को तैयार नही है और न सुनने को, बस emotional blackmail का खेल चलता है बस। नतीजा ये होता है कि बच्चे ये सारा दबाव झेल नही पाते है । छोटे से कंधो पर एकसाथ कई सारे बोझ डालना कहाँ तक सही है?
She is blissfully unaware that syllabus is reduced for those topics which were repeated topics and need to be deleted. For example electric motor was deleted from 10th as it is already there is 12th. This point was raised by A.P.J Abdul Kalam Sir around 15 years ago. Biggest problem is respect given by society to each profession. Because maximum respect and money is shared by doc., engg. and UPSC qualifiers they are projected as heroes. Right now you see another shift we see respect and money for some entrepreneur. Only solution is give respect to each profession and reduce pay check disparity between professional as much as possible. In Germany we don't see any difference in salary and respect given of an average engg. and avg. carpenter. In Japan they thank sweeper by bowing. Let's respect everyone and create an honorable society.
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Yes I agree 💯 we should come out of the box from the same engineer, doctor 😅
Uncle is very confident 😂😂
Gen LG rha hai😅
Inke bete ki bhawan rakha kare ..100% he encouraged or forced him to be a part of dummy school
Thank you lallantop for showing reality of coaching industry. Resuffling system and top batches has created havoc.
Yess.. Bro shrf top score vale p dhyaan dete h... Aaur baaki ko puchte bhi nhi h
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Topper are ranker and other are bankers🥲
After 10th My brother also prepared for IIT and got admission in a dummy school. It was purely his own decision. My parents never forced him. He got admission in a renowned college after a year he dropped out. He did not clear IIT but he got his passion. Now he is doing very well in his field. I am proud of my brother.
सारे नेताओ के बच्चे सरकारी स्कूल मे पढे ऐसा कानून होना चाहिए तब एजुकेशन सिस्टम मे सुधार होगा।
Sarkari iit/IIM m sirf sarkari school se padhai kiye baccho ko compete Karn mile,.....private Wale private m jay
Salute to you maam for tackling these literally senseless opinions and arguments of these toxic minded parents.....
yeah
True
Reason behind the suicide is these type of parents..ye parents inke pass degree bhale hogi but inki baato se ye ptaa lgta hai ki ye kitne uneducated hai,.in parents ko education ki jarurat hai , aise parents apne bachho ke dimag ko gattar bnaa dete hain..
@@srivastavaapoorva4613 tumhri knowledge itni Kam hai ki tumhe ews reservation se bhi kahi selection nahi hoga,
Tum abhi padhai Karo uske baad apna gattar jaisa muh kholo
The boundaries of strict parents.Its only the reason students get suicide.Sorry to say still some parents still force the Student 😢
we are 3rd world country
After watching her interview with some stubborn parents, whom she handled them respectfully She is too good ✨
Salute to you mam if you feel it honestly this pain ....
I really respect your point of view and understand about social structure as well as society....
All these parents you talked to are the kind of people who put unnecessary pressure on their kids. Ask their kids whether he/she is under pressure or not and I'm quite sure he/she would answer yes. All this suicide thing is happening because of toxic parents and coaching institutes. The coaching institutes create massive hype for IITs and medical colleges for their own benifits and the parents and innocent and immature kids fall for it. There are also ivy league schools in the US which are way better and ahead than IITs but you would hardly find anyone being extremely depressed and committing suicide just because he/she failed to get into one of those colleges. This toxic educational environment in India needs to be brought to an end. It's high time now.
Bro rajesthan has 70% reservation, and there is more than 50% reservation in medical seats all over India don't you think we are giving very less chance to real talented and deserving candidate.
@@indian-jc5bo Real talented people made discrimination and disallowed less talented people from education and self respect from late Vedic period till 1950. General category comprise only 10% of total population why should they get more reservation.
First of all end reservation, so all students get equal and fair chance
@@medicalalerts what is fair chance? Those who have money to afford coaching and those who are having education from remote areas ....are they have fair chance?
@@indian-jc5bo should be stoped reservation in education. Every where resarvation reservation reservation. At least spare this field for the shake of kids who are studing hard since very early age. And 60%seats are alloted on the basis of reservation .
This interview is a honest truth about thinking of Indian parents ... after this much happenings the parents don't know the reason lol....the reporter is awesome!!! Has rational points❤
वाह मैडम reservations पे चाचा को बढ़िया gyan दे दिया. सामंतवादी को ऐसे ही जवाब देना चाहिए
Truly the person was directing the debate to other direction !!
Tu bhut chela hai tujhe bhi to Kam number ka obc reservation mil rha hai dalal
उसिके उपर कॅमेरा फोकस ज्यादा किया गया 😂
agar itne kabil ho to apne dam par lo barabar lake bolna to aata h par no. nahi lana
achchha mam aap ka bachchha h
Sarkaari collage chaiye, par privatization bhi chahiye !!😅
Among so called media news channels, lallantop is doing tremendous work and showing the real and genuine news which everyone should know.
great interview mam u have the guts to answer typical questions n ask too
Very Good stand and explanation provided by Reporter on Reservation ... one parent is blaming reservation only .but there are various causes which should be understand !!
यह हमारे समाज की भयानक सच्चाई है कि हम भारतीय केवल डॉक्टर इंजीनियर या कोई भी एक अदना सी सरकारी नौकरी चाहते हैं।
और कोई भी प्रोफेशन में अगर बच्चे जाते हैं तो भले ही मां बाप मान ले पर दूसरे जान पहचान वाले ताने कसते रहते हैं।
उसी का नतीजा है कोटा में इतनी बड़ी-बड़ी कोचिंग इंस्टिट्यूट खुलने का।
हम कोई दूसरा प्रोफेशन अपने बच्चों से करना ही नहीं चाहते।
Being a JEE Aspirant from kota, I Really appreciate your efforts mam, Keep it up Lallantop ❤
Kis institute se ho bro
@@abhinavkumarsingh42 vibrant academy
I lost my very dear friend in 2013. He hanged himself. That day alone 2 students lost their lives.
JEE Main was around the corner.
I knew exactly who was responsible for his death. It was his parents, he couldn't take the pressure his parents put.
I see this video and the attitude of parents. I feel hopeless. The incidents will keep increasing in the future. Society, government, parents, teachers and students all have failed. No one is duty bound.
I think here LT and the reporter Sonal touched on a key point. The skipping of regular school and it's structured program. Instead, going full hog into 24x7 coaching.
I attended regular school _and_ prepared for JEE etc. Class XI XII were valuable learning experiences in themselves.
Inko coaching me jhonk diya jata hai. That is wrong. Because coaching is too narrowly and exclusively focused on achievements. Regular school me bhi "competition" ke pressures rehte hain, but I don't remember this machine-like effort, right from class XI or before.
We had sports, drama, literary events, elocution, teen romance-shomance etc etc - and I think 2 baje chutti.
Bhai class 12th board ki value kidhr h especially for pcm !
Faltu hi hota he school Jana sare competitive students na toh school jate he and na unhe school ke padhane ke standards pe vishwas hota he . Mere school me jo 12th me bura perform kar rahe he vohi school ate he compete ki kis se kare , aur romance vagera bhi apni barabari walo se karo toh hi badiya he .
aap science student nahi the lagta hei... boards and school ka isss jamaane me koi value nhi hei.. rahi baat jo jee neet ke liye serious hei unko in sab teen romance showmance se dur rehna chiye, kyuki harr koi iit jata nhi hei,, jo jaate hei most of them settle very comfortably and achieve big,.. and achievment is more than our enjoyment.. achieve krrke enjoy krrna hota hei actual majje... jo log sapne pura nahi krr pate hei wo aapke jese baatein krrte hei makeover dene ke liye
Shocked to see the thoughts of parent's of this century
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Me too bro
Shock se jyada scared 😢
@@phalgunitamrakar2142Toxic parents🤢
Inke Karan hi bache sucide krte hain phir baad mein drama krte
I stayed 1 year in kota in year 2022-23 and in the 2nd half my kota time my heart literally cried every single day i dont want to mention but i cleared exam
Iit??
I think parents are also right atleast involved in this interview...they are trying to understand the problem 😊
Kudos to Suman mam....to put her rational veiw so boldly on these competition maniac society....good work lallantop👍
Great coverage, great initiative…carry on the good work Lallan top show
Parents are parents for a reason, it's their job to understand their kids, not the other way around.
I am currently studying in IIT BHU Mechanical branch. I didnt go to Kota for prep and studied from my home town. Toughness and competition are the basic needs of exams like NEET and JEE as it is not possible otherwise to select 15000 candidates out of some 10 lakhs. But at the same, you should enjoy the journey of prep rather than taking tension. Becoz at the end process is important and destination is the secondary outcome. Even if u can not clear the exam, life is not over... there are many examples who have achieved extraordinary success from non-IIT/NIT colleges.👍
True. If a student enjoys the journey then it's fine. Sometimes they tend to discover a subject of their liking and then want to pursue some other field like research.
Scientists of ISRO achieving such great milestones are products of regional colleges and not at all from IITs and NIT.
Reservation is also a great hindrance as these students then get into depression once they reach IIT. It's not easy to survive their also.
Compitition is not because of reservation but because of less job vacancy
The matter of reservation is that due to reservation students dont get a level playing field
Some get better chance with less marks than u but both may have done same hardwork
Abolition of reservation in education is what i also support because without reservation in education we will get a level playing field,
This uncle is completely removed from reality!
सब parents का गलती है और दोष Government ko dena h
Private college me ek cror fee parents ki galti hai.
parents ki puri galti nhai hai jab wo apna paisa laga rahe tu uska outcome to mangega hi
@@Futureinnursing98 yes.. Mere padosi ka baccha mbbs kr raha hai.. Mera bhi beta mbbs krega... Ye soch parents ki hoti hai... Government ki nhi... College owner or institutions ye bat smjh chuke hai.. M isliye colleges ki fees aaj crore me ho gayi hai... Or aaj education ek business hai....
Bilkul galti hai,jab aapke paas jab resources nahi h toh baccha paida mat karo,aaj ki date m agar bank balance crores m na ho mat karo bache paida
Khud kabhi school nhi gyi photo dekh k suhagrat krke bachche paida kiye bachcho ko bill gates se. Zyada aage chahiye
हे पार्थ अब रथ को पटना की और ले चलो...😢
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इन मातापिता को ऐसे नहीं बोलना चाहिए कि, बच्चे खुद आ रहे हैं।और भी विकल्प हैं इसके अलावा।क्योंकि जब बच्चे को 6th class से ही कई मातापिता foundation करवा रहे हैं और उनसे कम उम्र में ही घर पर सिर्फ डॉक्टर इंजीनियर की ही बातें करेंगे,तो बच्चे की कोई गलती नहीं है।ये बात बच्चों ने इनके मुंह पर थप्पड़ की तरह कह भी दी।मग़र मातापिता खुद के सपने थोप रहे हैं
उन्हें और activities में support तो खुद नहीं करते फिर यहां वीडियो पर चिंता दिखा रहे हैं।बच्चे बहुत ज़्यादा तार्किक और समझदार हैं इन मातापिता से,साफ दिख गया।
पहले अपनी ज़िम्मेदारी समझें।👍
GAP YEAR OR GAP YEARS= finding your equilibrium and comprehending/exploring career options that you won't have to quit kyunkae parakh kae soch samajh kae chayun kiya hae! The stigma attached to " dropping a year or GAP years or bridge courses or backlog students or those who have not " worked" " naukree/ mahnat naheen naa kiyae ho" IS an abhishaap more for those(samaaj kae custodians) who attach these stigmas than for those stigmatised!! ONCE AGAIN excellent reporting by sonal and roohani from THE LT!
Ye parents ajeeb बात kar रहे हैं. Bacche khud से कहा sooch te hai. Parents pressure daalte hai. JEE और neet का bhoot बना rakha hai...
वाह! Mam Reservation par kya jabab diya aap ne,🙏🙏🙏🙏
Salute to best Reporter Mam🙏🙏🙏
See the main reason for this is that schools is not able to provide proper platform for JEE preparation there are multiple reasons for same.
1. The teachers in schools can never be as qualified as talented as teachers in coaching just for reference a top pvt school in a city pays it senior school teacher around 60-70k meanwhile in coaching a iit fresher is paid 12-15 LPA for being a teacher.
2. In school they prepare you for boards which are subjective in nature meanwhile in JEE and NEET you need problem solving skills with good speed and accuracy for objective exams which is a different game altogether. Plus difficulty of these exams is completely different.
3. In schools they have to keep extra curricular activities like various competitions/annual function/sports day, assembly, sports/music/arts period also which reduces the time for education plus schools have to give holiday on all public holidays meanwhile coaching gives holiday only on diwali and holi. This helps them to increase lecture hours for preparation.
4. Schools can only give you mock tests and regular assessments according to board pattern which is again not useful for JEE/NEET.
5. School can never pay as much as coaching because they have to maintain infra for sports/music/art, pay to teachers of other subjects, organize regular activities and events plus in school they have limited class sizes so the teacher:student ratio is higher.
6. Every city doesn't has good schools and the schools which are good are again too expensive and have limited seats and are difficult to get to. Many top pvt schools in cities even take interview of parents and check their backgrounds before giving admissions. The fees of top pvt schools in big cities is even higher than coaching institutes.
7. This problem can only be solved if govt hires coaching level teacher in govt schools and pay them well along with focus on preparing them for JEE/NEET like the coaching do.
8. Coaching can't reduces fees because the teachers they keep need high salaries because they are talented and mostly iit graduates so they will have the desire to earn as much as their friends who graduated from iit/nit with them so that's why many of the experienced teachers are even drawing salaries like 60/70/90 lakhs and some even are drawing 1/1.5/2 crore salaries which are on par with industry.
I have completed my 11th and 12th from regular school without coaching and did coaching for a year after that.
True... Exploration period is really needed... It helps to identify what field we want to go in and make our career into it..
Hats off to sonal mam
Very nice rational views 👍
And correct answers to that uncle's question....
सोनल जी बहुत ही सही बात कही आज कल कुछ भी ग़लत होता है उसको आरक्षण पे डालदिया जाता है जबकि यदि देश की सरकारों जनसंख्या के हिसाब से स्कूल और कॉलेज बनाये होते तो ऐसा नहीं होता
रिजर्वेशन की बात करने वालो रिजर्वेशन कितवा परसेंट है sc-13 , st- 7, obc-27 कुल मिलाके ४७ बचा हुवा ५३ जगह तो जनरल कॅटेगरी कि ही है. फिर किसे है रिजर्वेशन? मैं अपनी बात कहती हूॅं. मैं st कॅटेगरी से हूॅं. मैने २०१७ हे महाराष्ट्र लोकसेवा आयोग ( MPSC) का एक्झाम क्रॅक किया. मेरे ७८ मार्कस् थे और मेरे साथ इंटरव्ह्यू देने जनरल कॅटेगरी से ४४ मार्कस् वाली महिला थी. फिर रिजर्वेशन किसे है?
51% sbke liye open hai general ke liye reserve nhibhai
51 percent reservation sbke liye open hai madam
Aapko to pta hona chahiye
Aapne mpsc clear Kiya hai.
Solution as per my opinion -
Schooling ke time me hi student ko diff diff other field me carrier bnane ke bare me jankari deni chahiye jisse student ko pta chalega ki engineering aur Medical ke alawa bhi bahut ache ache field exist karte hai...aur unhe apne path ko select karne me asani hogi... Kyuki Maximum student ko JEE aur NEET ke alawa koi aur option nhi dikhta hai.. Jbki aur bhi bahut ache option hai... For example- Architecture, Hospitality & Tourism, Law, Journalism, Digital Marketing & Advertising, Business, Content writer, RJ, Mass Com, fashion designing and many more...
No point in doing that. My son studies in a reputed school where they have been provided with career counselling along with parents to explore different career options. My son is the class topper but because he was more interested in humanities than in science, he wanted to pursue humanities in ISC. For the last two years I am having to answer all the parents why I spoilt his future by allowing him to take humanities in spite of he being academically bright. This is the thought process of educated parents. Educated or uneducated, the idea is that if you are a bright student you go for science and appear for JEE and NEET, if not you take humanities. Commerce is for business class.
First and foremost we need to bring out the parents from this typical mindset.
Baki field me Paisa nahi he
The man rightly spoke about reservations..but then the anchor interrupted him by talking about 3000yrs they were not given right to education etc...
Reservations are the biggest drawback in our country.Seats have to be souly on merit basis.
abe UR ki cut off clear karo na apna, kyu ro rahe ho
The anchor said 💯% correct
Anchor was 100000% right .Dikkat hai toh padho na, tumse na ho paya toh ilzaam lagane wala of course koi toh chahiye.
Remove reservation
@@anuradhabajpai3860 remove caste system
Parents level of maturity is very low ... They are doing wrong they will never accept it.
Hello
Iska ek solution ye ho sakta h ki NEET eligibility jo h uska ek point ho ki "ONLY AFTER FIRST DROP'" after class 12. Isse board pressure + Neet pressur Kam rahega aur competition bhi Kam hoga. Kyunki very few students are able to crack such exams in very first attempt.
Secondly, competition exam coaching from initial phase like class 6 and 9 or even more early should stop.
Coaching should be there only for DROPPERS.
Seats in basic science should increase
Exactly that's the only solution. .....the regular hsc should be compulsory for all aspirants ,and to stop this blind coching bussiness
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@@dandez3126 Why so? Are you 200% sure ki tumhara Ist attempt mei AIIMS D mei selection hoga?
So, don't be so rude and try to understand the gravity of situation. Kisi ki Jaan gayi h
So, you better keep your mouth shut 😤
@@NandiniSharma-zv9oj neet m koi limit nhi honi chakya jiska mann wo de
@@dandez3126 you didn't get my point. The point was simple after 12 th child becomes little mature to handle things but at age of 12 or 16 the pressure due to lack of seats, expenses creates fuss. So, no of attempts should not be limited. But in the drop year they will be in a calm state to prepare with sufficient time without unnecessary pressure of managing boards as well. Living a terrible 2 year life. In this way no of candidates will reduce hence the competition will too reduce. Eliminating all 11+12 coaching students from entire country.
I think this makes sense. Therefore UPSC is after graduation and CA foundation exam even are after sometime gap
Uncle ko kuch basic knowledge nahi h kota ki 😅 ese hi parents bache ko pressurize karte h to take such steps thank god my parents ar not like him they are very understanding
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Pink t shirt wale ancle ji ko jawab Dene ke liye thank you mem ❤💪
सब से पहले government ये करे.. कि कोटा में पढ़ने वाले बच्चों के लिए उनकी फीस refundable बनाये...
ज्यादातर माँ बाप मिडिल क्लास होते हैं.. और वो अपनी जमा पूँजी लगा कर.. और या फिर कर्ज लेकर बच्चे को पढ़ने भेजते हैं... तो इसी वजह से बच्चा इस दबाव में आ जाता है.. कि पापा मम्मी ने इतना पैसा लगाया है.. तो मैं लौट कैसे जाऊँ...
वो बच्चा जबरदस्ती पढ़ने की कोशिश करता रहता है... और कई बार परेशान होकर आखिर गलत कदम उठा लेता है...
Salute to u ma'am for your opinion on reservation❤❤
Right 👍
Mahan hai aap.,,,ki saara dosh AARAKSHAN ka hai......wah uchch vichar.
I have been to Kota for coaching 15 years back and I can say situation is similar from last 2 decades but this time it is creating Storm. I'll blame everyone including system, parents, society and week kids of these generation who can not handle one percent of pressure.
I know taking extreme steps is not right but That's not only the 1 % of pressure ,,indeedly I've seen such parents who emphasize their child to score good rather appreciating or consoling them in worse situations,,,nd that's cause the feeling of guilt nd Contrition,,nd they choose wrong steps 😔 parents should encourage theirs child to do better
You do not seem to be someone who has been to Kota 15 years ago as I have myself studied from Kota as soon as I graduated my 12th. These type of problems were not there at that time in 2005-06.
@@Dr.RishabhNeurosurgery-Jackson bcz at that time competition wasn't that tough or enormous,,,also my cousin is in kota from previous year nd his parents indeedly used to schold him if he hadn't performed well in his weekly tests...that's what I'm saying,, in those situation student choose extreme steps
@@Itz_me_842 Yes, I do understand the problem. Just smile, be dedicated towards your goal just like how Arjuna pointed his bow and arrow towards the point. If you score low in the tests, smile and analyse, work on yourself and you will get the results. All the best to you all the way from Chicago, United States!
@@Dr.RishabhNeurosurgery-Jackson exactly, I do this same ,,we should never break the Cain of hopes ,,,nd the best part is that my parents even don't pressurize me ,,,🙂
मैं सभी बच्चों के parents को बोलना चाहूंगा pls अपने बच्चो को कोटा ना भेजे अपने शहर में या गांव के पास जो भी local coaching है वहा भेजे.. kota में कोई आपके बच्चो पर ध्यान नहीं देगा... सफलता सिर्फ kota जाने से ही नही मिलती... मेहनत करके ही मिलती है.. इसीलिए मैं बोलना चाहूंगा.. बच्चों को घर पर रहकर ही पढ़ाई के लिए support करे... कोटा जाने के बाद वहां हर प्रकार की समस्याओं से उन्हें गुजरना पड़ेगा मैं जब वहा गया था कि kota कैसा है हालात कैसे है ये सब देख के ये सब बोलना पड़ा... ये कड़वा है पर सच है 💯
As a reporter your work is to ask questions whatever you want but not to debate with common person because they are not the experts they are the common citizens of India your work is to take input from them later you give statement whatever you think on that.....
Right…reporting kam debate kr rhi h…reservation bhi isse acha lg rha h lol
True, I think she is unnecessarily debating . This is not balanced reporting. Parents too have their point. Schools do not prepare a student for a competitive exam. Hence students need coaching to bridge the gap. Also good coaching may not be available in every small town and city . So parents are forced to send their kids to Kota or other bigger cities with good coaching facility. Dummy schools are a good option for those students who are sincere with their studies and utilise their free time in preparing for a competitive exam. If you compare the the chances of a student from dummy school and regular school, certainly a student from dummy school has much better chance of clearing the exam provided he has utilised that time properly and invested it in his studies. Managing regular school and coaching is an unnecessary burden on students. Just condemning dummy schools and parents is unjustified.
👍👍👍👍 best interviewer.......
Absolutely, the reporter seemed biased towards her understanding and missed the bigger picture. I'm from Kota, an IIT alum, so I've witnessed it all. Education is the trusted path for the less fortunate to break free from poverty and even leave the country. Dummy schools exist due to bureaucracy; coaching thrives as a free-market solution. Parents recognize regular school isn't enough. 📚🌟
बेलगाम चुदायी और ठुकाई के कारण जनसंख्या में वृद्धि हो रही है और प्रतिस्पर्धा की पराकाष्ठा पार हो रही है यही सारी समस्या की जड़ है 😢
Exactly!!
Wonderful reporting and discussion. Salute
I think coaching institutes should give time for revision …..coaching are like syllabus complete ho jae bas at least student need a break after 3 day to revise overall 2 day leave in a week or reduce class duration
Being a Neet aspirants ,this is best ground level reporting
Schools are not teaching NEET/JEE main/adv POV, if only this is included in school teaching rather than only teaching CBSE or State board exams, coaching mafias can be limited
HOW TO STOP IT
Rajasthan Govt
1. Fee in monthly or quarterly installment. A child can leave and doesn't feel trapped.
2. One park has been under development for years and now it is about to open.
3. Create sports facility in smaller parks. Mostly they are in depleted condition near Allen Sankalp
Coaching Institute
1. Screening of students before admission. This means no admissions in Allen for those who don't meet criteria.
2. You earn so much. Please investment in sports facility
3. In short run loss of some revenue. But if Kota earns a bad name, parents will stop sending their children to Kota resulting in Bigger Loss
Parents
1. Don't take loans or sell property for coaching
2. Use online such as PW, E Saral. If child has capability most probably he will succeed.
Child
1. JEE or NEET are not the only pathway to success.
2. If you learn to study for more than 10 hrs a day, you are on road to success.
3. At least 20 minutes of physical exercise
They should have a particular session for giving suggestions to the students who doesn't clear these exams about other career opportunities rather than glorifying these premium institutions. Are these institutions bigger than their life?
So nice sonal, you argued well raised the much needed debate 👏👏👏
Sonal mam you nailed it! Appreciate your interviewing skills
Why are we finding solution of a problem from the cause of problem😂
Great job Sonal, very serious content
Kuch bahut hi important points hai isme....
Actually hota aisa hai ki baccha jab apne city ke school mein bahut accha perform karta hai, ya topper hota hai toh waha toh uska confidence bilkul upar hota hai joki acchi baat hai, but jab wahi baccha aise institutes mein jata hai coaching ke liye tab usko pata padta hai ki mein akela koi hero nahi ho actually, aur dusre bhi bright students hai mujhse compete karne ke liye. Institute wale pehle din hi samajh jate hai ki kaun bacche ka kya potential hai and phir wo us hisab se baccho pe focus karte hai as per their directives. Ab isme at the end jo baccha emotionally and pychologically strong hota hai, intelligent and consistent hota hai wo ultimately crack kar leta hai IIT-JEE or NEET and others may be not so lucky.
Dusri baat aj bhi koi mane ya na mane hamare desh mein bahut hi narrow mindset hai wahi 100-200 saal purana ki hamara baccha ya toh engineer banega ya doctor ya IAS/IPS banega.. bas ho gaya.
That's it! Iske aage koi sochta hi nahi and baacho ko bhi bachpan se hi aise condition kiya jata hai continuously... While in reality there are so many very good and equally satisfying and rewarding options out there.
I think it's high time now that baccho ko bachpan se hi is tarah se encourage kare according to his/her capacity that he/she can make her career related choices very clearly and decisively at the right time and at the right moment....
Wo bacche ki mother bol rahi hai ki bacche itne hi samajhdar hote toh baat hi kya thi, wo toh dekha-dikhai mein decision le lete hai... But wo madam ko koi samjhaye ki baccho ko ye sab ultimately bade hi sikhate hai right from the very childhood. It all starts from home itself and then at school and everywhere else. This conditioning process...
I think bas ye conditioning ko thoda sa alter kar ke bacche ka dimag sahi time pe gradually explorative banaya jaye toh naturally wo correct decisions le payega apne liye. And this has to be done without any kind of fear of social stigma or anything...
The best explanation I have seen over this crisis😊.... Ek ek baat sahi samjhayi aapne ...very well observed
This lady is arguing with people instead of interviewing them 😂 what a disgrace to journalism
The first step to finding solution to any problem is to address the problem. Ye log problem hi nhi mante isliye they should be punished. Bacho pe itna pressure dalte rhenge taki paise bnaye zyada aur inke padosi se zyada status bne inka
Aunty ne sahi kaha dekha dekhi mein aa gye hai .
Whole world is responsible but sending Children at class 7 to prepare for IIT etc. by Parents not responsible what I heard in this interview.
Brilliant reporting🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤
Ma'am great and brave Interview. Appreciate to you. Ma'am m kota m ek saal raha hun. Ma'am actually m saari samasya coaching walo mein hai. Interview m coaching k director badi badi baat karte hain par actual class m vo sweet poison krte h. Topper ko appreciation kewal, jhuthe sapne dikhana, expectation dena, ghar p marks bhejna, or to or syllabus bhi ache se cover nhi krte. Btw mujhe bhut ache teacher mile the physics ke, Dear Shantanu Sir from Darbhanga Bihar( Physics)❤
Plzz make these kind of videos for upsc and state pcs coaching industries and the situations of students...
Reservation cancel karne se pahle sabko basic schooling government provide karna chahiye.
These parents are so hypothetical and self obsessed that they can't even see and realize what their own child is going through
Thank u mam आपने pink tshirts वाले uncle का दिमाग ठिकाने लगाने के लिए ❤❤
Maidam shi boli,sirf genius student par hi focus krta hai
One should attend school till class 12th. Not just for studies. It will make you mentally prepared for the outside world. Schools never create throat cutting competition environment. Their only motive is to make the students pass with some good grades. Board exams can be scary for a students. From School teachers pov, it is just an ordinary exam that you have to pass as usual. But coaching teachers make it feel like life and death. Beware aware of money making coachings, they are just sucking your money and squeezing your child's mental health. Rather look for a tution where a teacher is only teaching less than 10 students. That would be more fruitful.
Mentally prepared for outside world by closing yourself in a classroom? Koi sense hai is baat ka? I am not in support of school nor coaching centre. Homeschooling is best.
The interviewer is good. Some parents think their kid will not be affected. Any kid can feel depressed if not supported by parents.
Pink tshirt wale uncle k bacche bahut pareshan hone wale h
I think iss soch ko he samaj khate h .....A lady saying ki" 30% syllabus reduce kiya h but why its not needed" i.e agar council baacho par burden kam kar rhi h toh its bad ...wow nice
Media, institutions and politician have put all the blame on parents only. Which is very very wrong.
bhai kya reporter hai savvage broo ek dum nice inerviewing skills
The fundamental question arises how many of selected candidates do engg jobs as a large no are working in management, civil services and other related field which clearly manifests the motivation these students had regarding so called engg jobs. It is only because of the exposure they get in IIT they come to know about different fields which parents like these denied them at younger age.
I totally agree with the reporter
Reservation ka gyaan dene wale , tumhara 10% awaadi 40% seat hai aab kya chahiye ? 700 saal se sirf swarn ko reservation mila 100% , 70 saal se 50% reservation kya mila pet dard hone lagq
Reservation ke limit hone chahiye Reservation cast base nhe economical based hone chahiye
@@anugautam2627 jab shamaj me bhej bhav jati ke basis hota hai to economic base pr kyu reservation milna chahiye ? 1 garib Brahman , 1 garib niche cast ka dono ko same treat krta hai society ?
Smaj ko change krna hota hai na ke old thinking ko lekr aage Chlte hain
@@Ayush_the_banker ajj bbhi dalit ke gasv upper caste se duur rhthe ha
@@Ayush_the_bankerbhai man liya reservation hona chahiye bilkul pr uska review bhi to hona cahiye ki sc ya st catagory se hi jo reservation ka fayda kon utha Raha h usme bhi layer BN gyi h bhai kuch percent log hi upr wale pura fayda utha rhe h Maine khud apne gav me dekha h SC or OBC se bhut se log h jinko reservation ka kuch khass fayda ho hi nhi Raha kyuki ve vaha tak pahunch hi nhi rhe education level pr ki vo compitition me aa ske unko to reality me fayda ho hi nhi Raha jaise ST catagory me Meena mostly seats cover kr rhe h ajj kl hr government job me
As a teacher mai ye keh sakti hu ki 99℅ parents apne baccho ko jyda se jyda padhai me lage rhna dekhna chahte h aur score unke lie bahut mayne rakhti h
Jabki parents ko chahie apne baccho ka Moral values pr dhyan de
Education jeevan jeene ka hathiyar h na ki aap use apna breathing system bana le
Reservation has logic behind it but interviewer also need to understand the geound reality. It is actually unjust for general category too. To give justice to a segment there is injustice happening to other.
Uncle ne sahi khaa hai.... ekdum
that uncle is correct in red shirt.. many parents do force going to coaching
Life में 99% does not matter. Its your attitude and confidence which matters.
Parents बच्चों को robot बनना चाहते हैं। जीवन जीने से ज्यादा डॉक्टर इंजीनियर बनाते हैं।
Reservations point is 💯 correct…Treat all students equally..Say no to reservations.
Ye sab parents ke bachho ko pucho. Wo Kota me Jaana chahte the kya?
Ye parents agree nhi honewale.
Sab logo me ego saaf dikh raha hai..
Teachers directly demotivate students . I also faced that type of demotivation spread by teachers during neet coaching. Teachers always try to brag infront of avg stud and try to show the students that they are inferior.
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Sad reality