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  • Sometimes the best strategy for beauty pageants is to not draw attention to yourself and it seems like this over-enthusiastic mum has had to learn it the hard way!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 834

  • @dr.jessicalindley299
    @dr.jessicalindley299 3 роки тому +2224

    This is insane. There is absolutely someone here who is undiagnosed.... But it's not the little girl!

    • @enjie3061
      @enjie3061 3 роки тому +47

      There's another episode of this girl, and she was diagnosed with ADHD

    • @sammycumming7411
      @sammycumming7411 3 роки тому +4

      @@enjie3061 I have diagnosed adhd

    • @Halp1819
      @Halp1819 3 роки тому +29

      This girl really had ADHD, but she does need to grow up. Good she was diagnosed in later years, you can just tell sometimes when you are used to babysitting or being around children. It’s good she suspected it and got her diagnosed.

    • @janetdrong3605
      @janetdrong3605 3 роки тому +3

      I totally agree!!

    • @k8ball666
      @k8ball666 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂

  • @PaddyPawsRescue
    @PaddyPawsRescue 3 роки тому +2070

    Enabling bad behavior is not the same as ADHD.

    • @Kekkndslgnlwnh
      @Kekkndslgnlwnh 3 роки тому +85

      idk I have ADHD and it kinda seems like she does have it. yes she also has bad behavior, but it probably doesn't help if she has ADHD, it's really hard young to sit still, listen to adults, be calm, etc..

    • @billie-jv5ll
      @billie-jv5ll 3 роки тому +36

      @@Kekkndslgnlwnh I agree. it's hard to focus sometimes and her parents are making her do something she doesn't like, which is why i think is why her behavior is bad

    • @katie3092
      @katie3092 3 роки тому +16

      @@Kekkndslgnlwnh same, (must be a katie thing) i’m also seeing behaviours congruent with oppositional defiance disorder- it’s a common comorbidity in kids with adhd, most outgrow it (i did).

    • @natashabaker7275
      @natashabaker7275 3 роки тому +10

      At least she's not medicating her undiagnosed

    • @laridion7901
      @laridion7901 3 роки тому +2

      I agree. Until you deal with the parenting I wouldn't suggest the plausibility of ADHD or ODD. Kids know when parents don't hold boundaries. Then they'll do what ever they can to bend those boundaries to get what they want.

  • @grudge5150
    @grudge5150 3 роки тому +2274

    Why why why why whyyyyyyy is there a swimsuit competition for a children's beauty pageant?! 😩

    • @avawiththeflava
      @avawiththeflava 3 роки тому +71

      It can’t not be for the pedos behind closed doors in the “pageant world”. Sickos.

    • @tamphex
      @tamphex 3 роки тому +76

      I think we are all now on a list for having watched it

    • @victoriamayo5774
      @victoriamayo5774 3 роки тому +37

      Idk it’s terrible

    • @confu5ed_
      @confu5ed_ 3 роки тому +35

      Even I thought Cassidy’s skirt was a lil’ bit short, ngl

    • @SunFlower-jr2qh
      @SunFlower-jr2qh 3 роки тому +4

      @@confu5ed_ it was half a skirt! But what a smart child

  • @iluvyoukyra
    @iluvyoukyra 3 роки тому +1595

    there are so many mothers on welfare who work so hard for their children and for her to disrespect them is so low down. she also feels the need to say something about other mothers when she chips away at her own child’s confidence and lives through her.. terrible.

    • @victoriamayo5774
      @victoriamayo5774 3 роки тому +17

      I agree

    • @rahkeyareynolds9322
      @rahkeyareynolds9322 3 роки тому +17

      THANK YOU

    • @rebecca8525
      @rebecca8525 3 роки тому +37

      Absolutely. Most people on welfare don't want to be and want to get off it as soon as they can.

    • @daisysummer514
      @daisysummer514 3 роки тому +30

      Yep, that was so unnecessary. Who cares how people get their money, it's about putting your child first and making sure your child has everything they need and feel loved. X

    • @cassiepitman997
      @cassiepitman997 3 роки тому +16

      I agree by the looks of their house looks like they’re on welfare

  • @Squidoh21
    @Squidoh21 3 роки тому +745

    This woman just equated ADHD with brattiness....there is so much wrong with this woman I can't even comprehend it all.

    • @sammycumming7411
      @sammycumming7411 3 роки тому +11

      I know I have adhd and it’s not all hyperactive behaviour

    • @jenniferburchill3658
      @jenniferburchill3658 2 роки тому +1

      That woman has unreasonable expectations for her kid. You don't do that to any child, let alone one with ADHD.

    • @marfa.h3526
      @marfa.h3526 2 роки тому +2

      I have read from many comments that the child got diagnosed with ADHD

    • @skwnjur3179
      @skwnjur3179 2 роки тому +1

      At least she acknolegded its adhd and not totally disregard it

    • @girlzonfilm
      @girlzonfilm 2 роки тому

      As someone with adhd, a lot of kids with adhd come across as “bratty” or “troublemakers”

  • @peytoncooke1334
    @peytoncooke1334 3 роки тому +753

    “ when I don’t win I get mad and want to kick the winner and take the trophy”… if you’re gonna do pageants at least teach your child that it’s okay to lose. To even be in 12th place. Not everyone can be a winner.

    • @kimma508
      @kimma508 3 роки тому +25

      When she made those comments red flags were going up big time for me. You are that kids need to know that winning isn’t everything and losing is a part of life.

    • @amandaveiga908
      @amandaveiga908 3 роки тому +11

      @@kimma508 if you have a shot for every red flag in this video you'll pass out halfway through it

    • @kimma508
      @kimma508 3 роки тому +5

      @@amandaveiga908 So true!

    • @lxsrvsqz
      @lxsrvsqz 3 роки тому +6

      It's not the child's fault it's the mother fault for teaching and enabling that type of thinking

    • @kayyxla4171
      @kayyxla4171 2 роки тому +1

      IM SAYINGGG!!!!!

  • @billybobbenjamin5343
    @billybobbenjamin5343 3 роки тому +315

    “you can’t yell at them, scream at them or y’know beat them.” she sounds so disgustingly disappointed that she can’t punish her child for losing a stupid competition. & look at 9:13 . that little kid HATES this. enough already!

  • @ellencooke7453
    @ellencooke7453 3 роки тому +617

    Cassidy has a passive/aggressive personality and carries a lot of anger. Mom certainly is not going to let her give up pageants because the family has already invested so much.

    • @tracymcardle1236
      @tracymcardle1236 3 роки тому +22

      This is child abuse👎👎

    • @eugenia6356
      @eugenia6356 3 роки тому +8

      Not only is it child abuse, but this family is going to go bankrupt because of this crazy mother. Watch.

    • @Jsee66
      @Jsee66 3 роки тому +10

      Cassidy has a right to carry a lot of anger ........ this whole thing is just warped ........

    • @ralexandra1058
      @ralexandra1058 2 роки тому +10

      I don’t blame her for being angry and acting out… it seems as though she doesn’t enjoy pageants and doesn’t want to do this- but her mother is living vicariously through her and forcing her to participate.
      The entire pageant industry is gross and abusive:

    • @jenniferburchill3658
      @jenniferburchill3658 2 роки тому +3

      That kid is angry and rightfully so. And instead of investing in pageants, how about her true passions in an age appropriate way.

  • @buhlenkosi3840
    @buhlenkosi3840 3 роки тому +264

    Poor kid… she even said she doesn’t like being on stage

  • @DougFoxford
    @DougFoxford 3 роки тому +857

    "I know she is suffering and will suffer, but I don't want to give her clinically proven medication to help treat her."

    • @Kekkndslgnlwnh
      @Kekkndslgnlwnh 3 роки тому +41

      well, tbh I hated most of my ADHD meds when I was little. they suck when it's trial and error. some made me feel way worse, I ended up trying to cope for a looong time without meds and learnt self discipline, until close to highschool and college. I can see why parents are weary of the meds. doctors love to throw pill after pill onto people, and if you can naturally handle it without, it's probably the healthiest. but if you're really suffering and don't have proper guidance on how to go about it without meds, then it may be best just to do the meds.

    • @rileygardiner8097
      @rileygardiner8097 3 роки тому +11

      @@Kekkndslgnlwnh this is true for me to! I can’t be on stimulants so that’s the majority of adhd meds an none have worked

    • @milesmorgan7938
      @milesmorgan7938 3 роки тому +14

      why would you want a child put on medication for ADHD? that's a bandaid fix..ADHD is not something that should be surpressed

    • @familyof1052
      @familyof1052 3 роки тому +9

      @@milesmorgan7938 exactly! There may be a VERY few instances (i only saw 2 in 15 years and they also had other sever mental health issues on top of it) it could be helpful but as an RN and mother of 8 it is usually what parents say just because their child isnt behaving. I tried it with our oldest because we felt guilted into it but after a few months decided against it. Also later in life he ended up addicted to any kind of stimulant and getting arrested for it. I have it severely (see a psychiatrist and counselor for it) but learned to use it to my advantage. My 5th child has it but we are teaching him to learn how to make it work for him. Neither child misbehaved. Just had a really hard time focusing and not figiting. Bad behavior is learned not caused by adhd. Some kids might have a harder time sitting still but being rude and disrespectful is not a symptom of adhd. A LOT of parents just dont want to deal with their kid and teach them how to deal with it.

    • @AL-bv7jt
      @AL-bv7jt 3 роки тому +12

      @@milesmorgan7938 some kids do better with meds. Every kid is different. A friend’s daughter started doing poorly in school in high school. She had never slept well and couldn’t concentrate. She was never a hyper or bratty kid. Finally, she was diagnosed with ADD in grade 12. Since starting her meds, she’s got top marks in all her classes in university. She no longer has problems concentrating and thoughts are clear.

  • @mazzaazar1124
    @mazzaazar1124 3 роки тому +915

    This horrid so called mum is living her childhood through her daughter.

    • @_Emo_rat_
      @_Emo_rat_ 3 роки тому +6

      Omg lol

    • @Dakid015
      @Dakid015 3 роки тому +9

      I think that's what a lot of them do. And it's sad.

    • @fergieingrid2521
      @fergieingrid2521 3 роки тому +4

      She started at 2 months old... The mum is mad

    • @Mimiz8429
      @Mimiz8429 2 роки тому +1

      It’s her other daughter

    • @ToddMiller-nl2wn
      @ToddMiller-nl2wn Рік тому +1

      STAGE MOTHER!

  • @Paula97
    @Paula97 3 роки тому +597

    She Literally says that sie doesn't like it. And she is allowed to Hit her Mum? That's a weird way to raise a Child in my opinion

    • @littleotterowo4655
      @littleotterowo4655 3 роки тому +9

      I agree. :/

    • @patwats8860
      @patwats8860 3 роки тому +30

      The hitting is a really bad parenting method. But I think beauty pageants are the worst.

    • @queensheem3337
      @queensheem3337 3 роки тому +1

      Yup

    • @kelsey2333
      @kelsey2333 2 роки тому

      The best parenting technique is to not parent. (Sarcasm obvi lol)

    • @papsi10
      @papsi10 2 роки тому +1

      @@kelsey2333 in her case not parenting is still better

  • @NoeliaAudrey
    @NoeliaAudrey 3 роки тому +327

    “Probably no worse than WELFARE MOM” Lady...

  • @xoxoPilar
    @xoxoPilar 3 роки тому +230

    The women just called her daughter a "nasty little brat" on national TV. If she's undiagnosed and you truly believe she has it, take her to see a specialist.
    The crazy lady compared herself to "Welfare mom" and admitted neglecting her child's basic needs and spending money on pageants her daughter doesn't want to do.

    • @mauraskerry8461
      @mauraskerry8461 Рік тому

      Spend less money on pageants and put that towards a proper diagnosis for that unhappy child.

  • @vincenzolee6576
    @vincenzolee6576 3 роки тому +315

    Sad when more focus is put on appearance rather than learning good grammar and financial security.

    • @pkay4113
      @pkay4113 3 роки тому +10

      In the USA, appearance is what sells. That's the financial security. Sad but true.

    • @CBC460
      @CBC460 3 роки тому +5

      @@pkay4113 it's funny because beauty doesn't last

    • @user-ue2pq5mi9h
      @user-ue2pq5mi9h 3 роки тому +1

      It's America

  • @skylineXpert
    @skylineXpert 3 роки тому +540

    Its looks more like the mom is making up for lost days

    • @lindseyowen5968
      @lindseyowen5968 3 роки тому +18

      I think that about a lot of these pageant mothers

    • @surlywithfabshoes
      @surlywithfabshoes 3 роки тому +16

      It’s not exactly what you think. There isn’t any excuse for some of these actions. However….This lady had another child, during the late 80’s -90’s. Her first child was also in pageants but absolutely loved them, was very well behaved and worked very hard. The mom was kind of a spaz then too but you can tell she really is a good mom. The child died from cystic fibrosis at age 14. She dealt with the constant medical attention the child needed only to lose her. I’m certain it influenced the way she is raising her other daughter now. They were actually part of another documentary on a and e in about 1997-8?
      Here is the link to part 1 ua-cam.com/video/nwaWCF5lmpI/v-deo.html.
      She died very soon after the a and e documentary.

    • @martymcfly5764
      @martymcfly5764 3 роки тому +1

      That's usually what it's all about. Mom living vicariously through her child in a sad attempt to recapture her glory days as she desperately clings to her fading beauty and youth. Just sad all around.

    • @elieminam4749
      @elieminam4749 3 роки тому

      @@surlywithfabshoes what is the mom's name?

    • @guymontag9577
      @guymontag9577 3 роки тому

      They all are.

  • @utecanbolat3590
    @utecanbolat3590 3 роки тому +629

    Theses "pageants" where little girls are styled to look like adults, attract the wrong kind of viewers, and I am so glad we don't have anything like that here in Germany.
    Plus, why force a kid (a hyperactive kid, at that) to participate, even though she does not even seem to like it all that much?
    And why expose these little girls to the frustration and disappointment that comes with not being the one that some random jury did not consider to be the prettiest?
    Rather teach them that beauty is NOT the most important thing in life.

    • @electric6131
      @electric6131 3 роки тому +17

      Exactly! With all the things that we are doing away with, this day in age, why can’t this go with? There are so many fun and beneficial activities for kids to participate in these days. This shouldn’t be one of them

    • @CBC460
      @CBC460 3 роки тому +24

      It's abuse and it should be banned 😡

    • @sonicundeadmunicipal3420
      @sonicundeadmunicipal3420 3 роки тому +6

      I can agree with you and you live in Germany cool

    • @MsClaudl
      @MsClaudl 3 роки тому +9

      Ja das ist teilweise richtig krank was man da sieht. Furchtbar.

    • @amandashare1281
      @amandashare1281 3 роки тому +5

      totally agree with everything you say!

  • @ellevaniti4525
    @ellevaniti4525 3 роки тому +147

    As someone who's mum ignored their ADHD and didn't get diagnosed or help until I was 28 I am appalled that this woman thinks her kid has ADHD and is refusing to get her diagnosed. Lady get your kid seen to and if she does have ADHD get her some help! I am often still lamenting on the things I could have achieved younger in life if my mum had bothered to take any notice! Going on medication to help me was the best thing I have ever done and it has made my life infinitely easier!

    • @pettybetty4557
      @pettybetty4557 3 роки тому +2

      Same..I'm 41 just getting a diagnosis
      If I could have been helped earlier my life would have been totally different 😢

    • @rebecca8525
      @rebecca8525 3 роки тому +3

      I agree with you and I am so grateful that my mum and dad did the right thing and got me on medication as soon as I was diagnosed with ADHD. I'm still on medication, and it has been a huge benefit. On the days that I accidentally forget to take it, I feel like I'm in a fog. It is sad to read the comments here and find that so many parents still refuse to get their children the help that they need.

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 3 роки тому +3

      My daughter has ADHD, and after many forms of intervention (none which worked) and many, MANY papers of documentation I decided she needed medication. It's a very difficult decision, but it takes the edge off her and she has begun maturing socially and catching up with her peers, and her focus is so much better now! She's on a non stimulant so her weight doesn't drop after Adderall caused a plateau for weight gain and then a dip (she's already skinny). I'm a strong advocate for early intervention, it makes me sad reading stories where people could have thrived with help in their youth but now struggle as adults because of lack of care years ago. 😢

  • @ItHasChicken
    @ItHasChicken 3 роки тому +92

    She doesn't even enjoy it, she just said so. No wonder she doesn't want to smile, she's being asked to fake it to make her mom happy. You've placed all her worth in this "talent" she doesn't even enjoy.

  • @wickedwonka9155
    @wickedwonka9155 3 роки тому +244

    This mom had a daughter with cystic fibrosis who loved pageants and she died at like 14 before Cassidy was born. I hate this moms behavior but my heart also breaks for her.

    • @kathyburtner1082
      @kathyburtner1082 3 роки тому +38

      I thought she looked familiar, surprised to see her doing pageants again since she said that she thought they were unfair before and she was being ripped off on the fees.

    • @SadiesAriel
      @SadiesAriel 3 роки тому +12

      What she profiled on another show?

    • @rebecca8525
      @rebecca8525 3 роки тому +48

      Wow, it's like she's trying to make Cassidy into the girl that died.

    • @ajandrianjafymusic
      @ajandrianjafymusic 3 роки тому +32

      @@rebecca8525 that’s what I thought, she’s literally trying to mould this girl into a child she no longer has. It’s sad but also sick

    • @dlesher3101
      @dlesher3101 3 роки тому +19

      so she is reliving her late daughter's life through this daughter....how horrible and abusive for this little girl.

  • @Keziah2447178
    @Keziah2447178 3 роки тому +221

    The fact she had her on stage at 2 months..Jesus christ.

  • @scarasara
    @scarasara 3 роки тому +96

    The way they look is terrifying to me. The way they smile and turn their heads is creepy

  • @Ruby-gj1wg
    @Ruby-gj1wg 3 роки тому +92

    Cassdy at 2 months old: on stage doing pagents
    Me at 2 months old: falling asleep every time my mum tried to feed me

  • @autumnraehunley8536
    @autumnraehunley8536 3 роки тому +140

    No worse than a welfare mom?!?!? Wtf is she talking about? Does she even have the slightest clue what welfare is? Because that makes absolutely no sense at all not ever kinda sorta lil.bit NO.

  • @jaylacabrie7806
    @jaylacabrie7806 3 роки тому +128

    Why does she encourage her daughter to hit her …

    • @ticketyboo2456
      @ticketyboo2456 3 роки тому +4

      Jayla Cabrie maybe deep deep down she realises that she is an awful mommy and that she treats her poor daughter like a doll and not a human and thus deserves a good hiding.

  • @MsSilentsiren
    @MsSilentsiren 3 роки тому +83

    There's actually a documentary from around 1999 with this same mom with her older daughter Jenny (who she lost to cystic fibrosis at 14) also doing pageants. I recognized her right away. Jenny seemed genuinely happy though.

    • @salysie
      @salysie 3 роки тому +7

      Wait fr? Where can I watch it?

    • @cici2562
      @cici2562 3 роки тому +6

      That is so sad. Also goes to show that we shouldn’t judge people when we haven’t walked in their shoes. This poor woman is obviously traumatized and now this younger daughter is also becoming traumatized by default. I feel for them both. ☹️

    • @jesussaves6625
      @jesussaves6625 2 роки тому +12

      @@cici2562 I feel incredibly sad for her losing her first daughter, but she needs to get help in some way, and stop forcing her youngest daughter to be someone she is not (the other child).

    • @cici2562
      @cici2562 2 роки тому +5

      @@jesussaves6625 I agree she needs help to resolve her issues with her firstborn and to learn how to treat her second like the individual that she is. Understandably, it seems the lines are blurred for her. Making it tough on mother and daughter.

    • @sandrasanders706
      @sandrasanders706 2 роки тому

      What's happened to this Mom and Daughter since then?

  • @user-jb7tq7ko7e
    @user-jb7tq7ko7e 3 роки тому +68

    Why is this legal?

  • @pixieosborne3820
    @pixieosborne3820 3 роки тому +123

    I don't know when this was actually filmed, but I am horrified by that mother's behaviour and comments. Hopefully, she will see this video and reflect on her behaviour, and that which she has taught her daughter. Such a beautiful little girl, who I fear, will grow up with a terrible attitude as a result of her mother. Heartbreaking.

  • @miikaylaraee
    @miikaylaraee 3 роки тому +82

    If you prioritize a pageant over a medical bill, you probably shouldn’t be doing pageants 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @kooolkidninjamaster
      @kooolkidninjamaster Рік тому +3

      Her daughter died at 14-16 and she loved doing pageants. Her medicals bills are from her dead daughter cystic fibrosis. That kid lovedddd pageant. Genuinely the mother needs help and prov uses pageants to feel closer to her dead daughter

    • @miikaylaraee
      @miikaylaraee Рік тому

      @@kooolkidninjamaster doesn’t sound healthy

    • @rosemarynegus5768
      @rosemarynegus5768 11 місяців тому +1

      Or be a parent.

  • @hollykarimi617
    @hollykarimi617 3 роки тому +37

    The little girl said “I don’t even like being on stage that much” the mum is literally forcing her to do it when she doesn’t want to

  • @SisuGirl
    @SisuGirl 3 роки тому +43

    My mum always said, “Money Can’t Buy You Class”. This nasty “mother” apparently doesn’t have either nor respect for her daughter. That anger & obsession she has is being blasted onto this child, causing issues for her girl’s lost childhood. Same can be said for a good 99% of these mums who are attempting to live vicariously through the child. Disgusting!

  • @joshhourigan567
    @joshhourigan567 11 місяців тому +4

    Her forcing her to smile onstage doesn’t help anything! She threw her fists down because I can pretty much tell that’s she’s starting to get sick of it! JUST LEAVE HER ALONE AND LET HER DO HER!

  • @eloahnon4952
    @eloahnon4952 3 роки тому +49

    "Probably no worse than a welfare mom." (Wobbles head)
    What in the flying fcuk does that mean?🤣🙄

  • @ashnkksmom2264
    @ashnkksmom2264 3 роки тому +42

    If you have to bribe your young child to do these pageants and you have to make a choice to pay a medical bill or make her do a pageants I would definitely choose medical bills.

  • @nadinedelle8090
    @nadinedelle8090 3 роки тому +95

    What a horrible mum.... I'm speechless. 🤐🤢🤷‍♀️

  • @julianlastname6948
    @julianlastname6948 3 роки тому +44

    it’s weird how they glossed over the adhd thing. how do you and the school knows she has it if it’s undiagnosed? wouldn’t a school need a note from a doctor with a diagnosis? that was confusing

    • @annastinehammersdottir1290
      @annastinehammersdottir1290 3 роки тому +3

      It's an excuse for her behaviour which is no doubt caused by being forced to do things (pageants, inane smiling, bribery) she dislikes. Child abuse with fake diamonds.

  • @marenawickler4860
    @marenawickler4860 3 роки тому +27

    This is the "perfect" definition of a mother inappropriately living through her child

  • @ItsYaGirlAvacado
    @ItsYaGirlAvacado 3 роки тому +7

    I absolutely DESPISE the way that the mother talks about her daughter. When she hands herself the crown and says “This is for putting up with you,” and begins to shame her for having a disorder, I can’t help but internally rage. As someone who has severe chronic OCD and anxiety, I could never imagine how I would have SURVIVED if my parents had not been supportive and kind. Children who grow up with neurological conditions, now matter how severe or mild, need to be supported and cared for. Poor kid.

  • @jessicahaynes9182
    @jessicahaynes9182 3 роки тому +30

    This mom is on a whole nother level 😳😳😳😳

  • @spookayitsme
    @spookayitsme 3 роки тому +26

    The habit of that mother and daughter blaming herself for when her daughter does poorly is gonna develop into a larger problem later in life

  • @meh.its_bleh
    @meh.its_bleh Місяць тому +2

    Picking a pageant over medical bills is sick work

  • @chanelsummers8071
    @chanelsummers8071 3 роки тому +18

    I remember this mom from a pageant documentary , she had a teen daughter doing them who had cystic fibrosis. Her daughter passed away shortly after filming. Her name was Jenny foster. It was sad so she’s probably trying to relive the time she had with her daughter.

    • @flixtrue6300
      @flixtrue6300 8 місяців тому +1

      Extremely sad for the mother, but don’t abuse your second child because of that. She is a different personality, let her be whatever she wants to be!

  • @lxsrvsqz
    @lxsrvsqz 3 роки тому +8

    The girl clearly said she doesn't like being on stage, it doesn't make her happy so she doesn't want to smile. Her mother is obviously leaving vicariously through her daughter

  • @ChillTheChilli
    @ChillTheChilli 3 роки тому +26

    So many things are illegal in the usa but this isnt? Disgusting.

    • @rabbit0.023
      @rabbit0.023 3 роки тому +1

      Ikr some can get years in jail for possession of weed and then there’s this video…literally soft cp 😐😑😐😑

  • @franjenkins5091
    @franjenkins5091 Рік тому +4

    My daughter did pageants for many years. We did not display them at all. She played with them with her friends, and set them around when she played school, like they were her students! Lol

  • @SunShineDayze
    @SunShineDayze 3 роки тому +13

    Nothing like living vicariously through your ungrateful and entitled child (whom which was taught her ungratefulness and entitlement through YOU, THE PARENT)...
    📢 Instant mom award over here!!!

  • @Kalani_Saiko
    @Kalani_Saiko 3 роки тому +22

    I don't think that was undiagnosed ADHD, nor particularly bad behaviour, it was just Cassidy being a cheeky 7 year old child, as she should've been. Also, Cassidy didn't really seem interested to begin with.

  • @ashleycorum7917
    @ashleycorum7917 Рік тому +4

    “Hello…CPS” 😢

  • @lindseyowen5968
    @lindseyowen5968 3 роки тому +43

    I think If she had ADHD There is no way that she would do something that she didn’t enjoy whether her mum told it to or not. People with ADHD seriously struggle to maintain their attention to something that they neither like nor enjoy. I actually believe that child beauty pageants should be banned. Especially the swimwear kind. It’s a haven for paedophiles. I know for certain sure that I would not be letting my daughters dress like that at such a young age

    • @rebecca8525
      @rebecca8525 3 роки тому +2

      Agree with all you said.

  • @nagitokomaeda6960
    @nagitokomaeda6960 3 роки тому +8

    Omg look at her face she looks so sad and uncomfortable she looks almost like shes gonna cry and it reminds me of what i did when i was going through really bad anxiety i just wanna give her a hug 😭

  • @jordanmichelle9042
    @jordanmichelle9042 Рік тому +3

    Well this little girl clearly admitted she doesn't like being on stage and that her mom forces her. That is sick to me. This mom needs help... in many ways.

  • @hellokitty4451
    @hellokitty4451 3 роки тому +12

    Anyone else hear @4:30 she says “oh she’s doing…awful” like wtf dude that’s your daughter. I don’t have any girls and only have my son (as of now) but I’d never say some nasty mess like this especially about MY OWN CHILD who is only looking for the love and approval of her overbearing underachieved mother.
    I feel like these pageants should only be done if the little girls wanna dress up and feel like princesses and feel beautiful and then at the end not pick 1 huge winner but pick multiple winners for different things like “biggest smile” or “craziest dress” so no one feels disappointed or left out idk they should just do stuff like that instead of deciding who is the most beautiful out of a bunch of under 12 year olds. ://

  • @ellie24601
    @ellie24601 3 роки тому +15

    Tbh even though mum is crazy I actually thought it was really cute when she was like "this will be hard they're all sooo beautiful" since other times they'll put other girls competing against their kid down

  • @mynd420
    @mynd420 3 роки тому +10

    just let her be a kid. it’d be different if she actually wanted to participate and enjoyed dressing up and showing off, but she doesn’t! just let her live her life, mom is trying so fucking hard to relive her childhood dreams.

  • @hcklberypinkbrownies5170
    @hcklberypinkbrownies5170 Рік тому +4

    That mom has a bunch of screws loose......

  • @boombastick7113
    @boombastick7113 3 роки тому +17

    Why is the MAJORITY of the mothers all big ugly things. And push there poor kids into something they never could of done???? .... And notice how that first mum said. About beatin the kid if they don't do as well. ( Bus says it in jokin way)! When u know she ment it.... JUST LET KIDS BE KIDS ffs

  • @alexisrapoza5103
    @alexisrapoza5103 Рік тому +5

    As someone who did grow up with undiagnosed ADHD and also competed in pageants, this mom is doing everything wrong. Reminds me a lot of my mother, and we no longer speak. This child is going to hold a lot of resentment towards her mother, if she doesn't already.

  • @southshore2357
    @southshore2357 25 днів тому +1

    God sake , let that child be a child . When child GROW-UPS that child is going to be a mess . 😡😡😡😡

  • @ryanfleming3475
    @ryanfleming3475 2 місяці тому +1

    The girl in the background at 4:25 was SHOCKED

  • @hopesandoval8047
    @hopesandoval8047 3 роки тому +13

    Her crying at her daughter performing for the swimwear (which why is there even a swimsuit section and a little girls competition) but anyway it gave me the same energy as Kim k crying at North's performance for Kanye's fashion show

  • @mrkennethmccormick
    @mrkennethmccormick Рік тому +2

    The fact that they even have a swim suit composition for children is disturbing..

  • @BillyAlabama
    @BillyAlabama Рік тому +2

    This ranks as being on the edge of child abuse.

  • @richenh.6009
    @richenh.6009 3 роки тому +32

    I don't agree with puting makeup on small children.

    • @niichanzuna
      @niichanzuna 3 роки тому +1

      It depends

    • @miles3262
      @miles3262 3 роки тому +2

      @@niichanzuna on what??

    • @avawiththeflava
      @avawiththeflava 3 роки тому +5

      I have to agree to an extent. Let them play with it at home. Once they get to middle school they should be allowed to experiment with it to express themselves

    • @kennedystarr8094
      @kennedystarr8094 3 роки тому

      Some of them look like a drag Queen did the make up.

    • @avawiththeflava
      @avawiththeflava 3 роки тому +1

      @@kennedystarr8094 you’ve obviously never seen Rupauls drag race if you think they’re in drag makeup 😭

  • @wingicecream7125
    @wingicecream7125 3 роки тому +8

    Someone please save that poor little child. I would gladly take that beautiful girl, that wildebeest doesn't deserve the awesome, unique, and opinionated daughter she has. I really hope my comment reaches her somehow, she needs to know her worth and that her "mom" is WRONG. I cringed when I heard that woman speak about her own kid omg.

  • @leviblevins513
    @leviblevins513 3 роки тому +8

    This is exploitive and gross mental abuse of a child. I wish this show was removed from youtube.

  • @angelinaharshbarger9619
    @angelinaharshbarger9619 3 роки тому +8

    What i see with these pageant moms the worse ones seem to be overweight unhappy and living thru their daughters

  • @surlywithfabshoes
    @surlywithfabshoes 3 роки тому +12

    It’s not exactly what you think. There isn’t any excuse for some of these actions. However….This lady had another child, during the late 80’s -90’s. Her first child was also in pageants but absolutely loved them, was very well behaved and worked very hard. The mom was kind of a spaz then too but you can tell she really is a good mom. The child died from cystic fibrosis at age 14. She dealt with the constant medical attention the child needed only to lose her. I’m certain it influenced the way she is raising her other daughter now. They were actually part of another documentary on a and e in about 1997-8?
    Here is the link to part 1 ua-cam.com/video/nwaWCF5lmpI/v-deo.html.
    She died very soon after the a and e documentary.

    • @sarcasticallyrearranged
      @sarcasticallyrearranged 3 роки тому +1

      You have no idea what we’re all thinking, but the majority of us think it’s wrong and mom needed to get a life of her own.

    • @AnoraJohnson
      @AnoraJohnson 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you for sharing this. Its good to remember there is more to someone's story than we see. I can't imagine the pain the family went through, and how it affects their lives.

    • @TheRavenal
      @TheRavenal Рік тому

      Yes, I remember that episode. Her first daughter Jenny was so sweet and practiced hard and showed respect to her mother. However, Jenny was not a beautiful child nor had a good singing voice. Julie's current daughter Cassidy is very pretty but lacks the positive attributes that Jenny had.

  • @Yugiohfans11
    @Yugiohfans11 Рік тому +1

    I noticed that the child's crown collection is in the living room rather than her bedroom.

  • @amberflores1615
    @amberflores1615 Рік тому +8

    The difference between a “ welfare mom” and pageant mom is one truly cares for the child and the other only cares for themselves and winning 😂

  • @cherylb2008
    @cherylb2008 Рік тому +1

    “She can tear your head off”
    Mom: “ huh huh huh huh huh”
    Omg!

  • @spookayitsme
    @spookayitsme 3 роки тому +13

    Why do little itty bitty kids need to be judged in "swimwear" ??

  • @kat-tiesangels5159
    @kat-tiesangels5159 3 роки тому +11

    As a Mother, I believe whole heartedly that """ The Mothers of these innocent girls are WANNA BE BEAUTIES!!"""""" And people wonder why little girls get trafficked!! Just look at the personalities being drilled into them! A PERFECT EXAMPLE!! SHAME ON YOU! ALL CHILDREN ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL UNDER GODS LOVE!!!

  • @karenvincent5202
    @karenvincent5202 2 роки тому +2

    This woman’s eldest daughter was a pageant girl. She had cystic fibrosis and it eventually killed her. She wasn’t talented but this woman pushed her and got really upset when she didn’t win.

  • @mexipatti
    @mexipatti Рік тому +2

    she started when she was two months old. I am picturing a baby laying on the stage in a teeny tiny outrages night club dress and tons make up,, false eyelashes , fake nails.. a wig and tiny little hight heels.. the grand prize is a years worth of pampers,, and tiny tiara . the only difference is now she is few years older.

  • @KirstinKoppenhaver
    @KirstinKoppenhaver Місяць тому +1

    The mom looks like she should be the grandma

  • @Niallmylove
    @Niallmylove 3 роки тому +8

    “This is mine for putting up with you” who says that to their child??
    “Welfare mom” I don’t even have words
    “Hit me” oh lord
    “Undiagnosed adhd” take her to a damn doctor
    Poor child it’s very obvious she doesn’t want to do this.

  • @carleighbeth7790
    @carleighbeth7790 Рік тому +2

    Anyone else think the fact there's adults judging girls in their bathing suits is disgusting 😮

  • @fatimateresa19
    @fatimateresa19 2 роки тому +5

    I remember this woman Julie. She used to have another daughter that died as a teenager that also did pageants.
    I watched the old documentary when I was little and years after she came out in toolders and tiaras and I was sure I remember her from somewhere.

    • @TheRavenal
      @TheRavenal Рік тому

      Yes, I remember that episode. Her first daughter Jenny was so sweet and practiced hard and showed respect to her mother. However, Jenny was not a beautiful child nor had a good singing voice. Julie's current daughter Cassidy is very pretty but lacks the positive attributes that Jenny had.

  • @michellet7013
    @michellet7013 3 роки тому +10

    Why do all the kids look like southern women from the 80’s? 😂

  • @jabberwaki1625
    @jabberwaki1625 3 роки тому +12

    Her pushy mom cost her the pagent and her childhood.

  • @maribethmorgan7886
    @maribethmorgan7886 2 роки тому +2

    Omfg…as someone with adhd, I can’t imagine having to sit still for hours for those pageants, especially as a kiddo. Also a “welfare mom”??? Wtf does that have to do with you sexualizing your kid and prancing them around like a pony? Literally I hope that eventually they do get their daughter officially diagnosed and get her into therapy so that she can get help for her adhd and she can work through the issues she will have from this :/

  • @butterfly2604
    @butterfly2604 3 роки тому +14

    These Mothers may want to refocus their energies inward towards Themselves and getting their own Bodies, Mind, Health, Spiritual,Careers,Lovelife,etc.back on track and just let their Kids be normal Kids. Go to school and join teams etc..This beauty pageant stuff seems really dysfunctional and unhealthy for the development of children.

  • @chevinmalia8765
    @chevinmalia8765 2 роки тому +1

    I'm a counselor. These kids will be my clients in 6-26 years.

  • @kathleentate8343
    @kathleentate8343 3 роки тому +1

    The girl said it, I don't want to be here, my mom makes me smile

  • @leahbateman5545
    @leahbateman5545 Рік тому +1

    The fact that she was joking around about having to "put up" with her child is so wrong to me, no child should have to hear that they are being put up with by their parent(s) regardless if they're joking or not

  • @cosmicmuffin322
    @cosmicmuffin322 3 роки тому +3

    This is pure misogynistic child abuse. This is a p*do's wet dream. I cannot describe how exploitative and disgusting it is.

  • @eugenia6356
    @eugenia6356 3 роки тому +8

    Why, is she claiming Cassidy has ADHD, when she hasn’t brought Cassidy to a specialist? What the hell?

    • @sammycumming7411
      @sammycumming7411 3 роки тому

      I know I have diagnosed adhd and the meds help

  • @MrMonkeyBusiness
    @MrMonkeyBusiness 2 роки тому +1

    I hate mom's like this. Not only was the wellfare comment rude, unrelated, and ignorant, but also her behavior towards her child where she's not encouraging her but instead instilling bad family dynamics and manipulative skills into her. That poor kid even said she doesn't like pageants.

  • @patriciafinn5717
    @patriciafinn5717 3 роки тому +1

    This is so uncomfortable to watch...their children are not commodities...sad

  • @bellagilbs
    @bellagilbs 3 роки тому +19

    “When they get older like 9 or 10, it’s a serious thing” No, nothing at the age of 9 or 10 should be a serious activity

  • @narjolepsy
    @narjolepsy 3 роки тому +2

    she did not compare a socioeconomically struggling mother to herself. that’s so disrespectful and distasteful.

  • @sabdiivette8936
    @sabdiivette8936 2 роки тому +1

    Why is she letting her daughter slap her hand? Don’t get mad at your daughter if she’s aggressive or hits you when she gets older. Terrible.

  • @lakesuperiorgirl17
    @lakesuperiorgirl17 5 місяців тому +1

    It makes me sick how many pedos are going to these beauty pangents. These mothers are putting their daughters in a very unsafe situation

  • @michelleblacklock
    @michelleblacklock Рік тому +2

    She had another daughter before this one was born ... her name Jenny ... she had cystic fibrosis and passed away at the age of 14 ... I always thought the mom pushed her a little too hard, doing so many pageants and rehearsals over and over again ... still kinda think she is forcing this child to be like her first tho ... it is apparent she does not like pageants ...

  • @WifeMamaArtist
    @WifeMamaArtist 3 роки тому +39

    I don’t understand the point of pageants…

    • @Peaceful_Rayne
      @Peaceful_Rayne 3 роки тому +2

      Me neither

    • @zephyrr914
      @zephyrr914 3 роки тому +11

      It’s so stupid women can live through their children and so gross men can drool over babies. Straight up abuse!

    • @telajames8416
      @telajames8416 3 роки тому +3

      It’s supposed to be to raise there confidence and showcase there talents or whatever but honestly covering them up with makeup and fake tans and making them feel like they have to be perfect kinda defeats the whole purpose of that

    • @swavnasahoo
      @swavnasahoo 3 роки тому

      To bring in money to explotiativve organisations,TV broadcasts and their sponsors.

  • @ticketyboo2456
    @ticketyboo2456 Рік тому +1

    Horrible abusive mother needs a good hiding.

  • @autumnstone7618
    @autumnstone7618 3 роки тому +10

    I'm sorry but it made me so happy to see the other girl win & the brat lose! Lol I lost it when she started punching the balloon! Lmaooo

    • @ticketyboo2456
      @ticketyboo2456 3 роки тому

      Autumn Stone I hope to all that is good that you are not a mother. You sound so vindictive and nasty. The children are the victims here and that chonk of a mother is the actual spoilt brat.

  • @jacquelinevillarreal657
    @jacquelinevillarreal657 3 роки тому +10

    Mom is a crazy lady…

  • @BillyAlabama
    @BillyAlabama Рік тому +1

    Cassidy deserves to have a real mother. It’s certainly not the child pretending to be that.

  • @sharonlotter6689
    @sharonlotter6689 3 роки тому +3

    The way the mum wore the tiara shows that it's all about her 💁‍♀️😑