I was told it's an adult decision,that I am choosing Satan instead of God, it’s just a phase, go to hell, this isn’t who you are, you were not born this way, “would God want you to be this way?”
My mom outed me to her husband as Trans and then later she told me that me being trans is like losing another childm She doesn't wanna even try to use my real name or pronouns....
pronouns in what kind of sense? i mean the other stuff is horrible, but if you get pissed cause someone mistook you for the gender you transitioned to then perhaps that should be a complement because you look as you want.However if you are getting angry cause not everyone is used to calling people "they, them, or it" when referring to one single person.I hope you find yourself what you want though.
@@stripe1919ify I pretty sure they are not talking about those pronouns and if they were they are talking about their mother who knows what their pronouns are but just doesn't say them
sleep lord you are *not* in a phase. You are normal. You are a human being. These kinds of things, being transgender and multiple sexualities, are already natural in animals, so whatever you may be, it's not really too out of the ordinary. Just do you. Don't listen to her.
Well, my grandma keeps asking if i have any special boy in my heart. I rather say : "Eh, not yet." It's easier than saying that i actually have a crush on girl. :-x
Me talking to my mom and then trying to explain I'm lesbian My mom: when u will grow up u will have a husband and children Me: I don't want to get married to men Mom: Would you like to be alone without children or husbands? You will regret it Me: I just don't like men, and I'll never do it Mom: errm, u will Lmao 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
You should do it. People find that a lot easier to accept than their kids being gay or trans. Not that it is easier. It still takes time to figure it out. Hope you do manage to do it or have already done it.
Hi army! I asked my parents Theo thoughts on LGBTQ community before telling them that I am bi...... and their views were very bad that I am deeply affected and hurt.....they said that it's against the nature and the people are mentally sick.......it hurt me alot. Now, Idk how to come out😭😔😔🥺🥺😣
Sent this video to my mom... She saw it but did not bother to watch it. She asked me "Why did you send me this?" She looked mad. She said that if i was lesbian, she would get sick and have a heart attack. Im scared.
THEY DIDN'T POST MY COMMENT!!! THE FIRST TIME MY ONLY CHILD, TRIED TO TELL ME, I CAUGHT ON!!! BID, GOD HAS BLESSED US & GAVE US, A NEW LIFE..., FROM NEW ORLEANS .WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? I'M SO HURT!!!
In every gay relationships, Parents: So who is the guy and who is the girl? Asking that,is like literally asking a vegan, which one of their salad is the meat. Open your mind people! Spread love❤
Last I checked wether it’s two men two women. Or man and a women(both man and women are fem or both a masculine) it’s your identity so in two men both are the boys two women both are girls and straight relationships is man is boy and woman is girl.
I think is more a "respect one another" kind of shit (as you say). I don't see being kind and minding your own business as a mental illness, do you? Live your life and let others do the same.
I paused to text my mother thank you. When I came out to her, she replied "haha, I figured." When my friend's mother learned she was gay, her mother told her to move out.
I'm sorry that's happening to you. I'm bisexual and my parents seemed okay with it when I first told them which was like the most amazing feeling and was so freeing until 2 days later when they told me that I wasn't allowed to speak about it or bring it up in their home. I lived with them at the time and had to listen to their rules about calling my girlfriend just my friend if they came over because they were disgusted and disappointed and think I'm going to hell so they didn't want to know if/when i ever got my first girlfriend (still haven't yet). Thankfully now I don't live with them though and when I do finally get a girlfriend if they ever meet her they will know her for who she is and either have to get over it or just not be involved in my life. It's so painful to know that religion is causing them to choose the latter. I just wanted to share my story a little because even though it's not exactly the same i know what it feels like to be unrecognized and unvalued by your closest and most important family members and its awful. Just know you are not alone and you can build a family of your own if your family isn't going to be that for you! 💖 best of luck to you!!!
@@diolee4715 i am a lesbian. My parents are divorced and I live with my dad . I came out to my dad and he accepted me . My mom is super homophobic so I am not gonna come pit to her
The moment I wanted to tell my mom I was trans gay, I made a joke about wearing bowties and he response was " normal GIRLS don't wear bowties. You know... Me and your father pray for you.." From that moment on I think I'll stay in the closet until I can fully support myself.
So I know that my parents are cool with the LGBTQ+ community - they voted yes for Australia to get same sex marriage and have shown support/said they fully support the community before, but I’m not out yet, i just don’t know what I am. I’m pretty sure I’m bi, but I don’t want to come out twice - or worst case scenario, me being bi is just confusion and not actually who I am. (I know I’m not trans, 99% I’m not straight and 95% sure I’m not gender non conforming - pretty sure I’m just a masculine girl 😂) so I’m scared that if I come out, then I’ll later find that I’m not actually bi or whatever and then people will turn that onto other out queer people saying that “it’s a phase, my daughter came out as bi but later went back to being straight”. So yeah. I’m not coming out until this shits figured out (well... 3ish (one of them was when I was like Hey I think I’m bi) friends that I trust a lot know and two of them are queer to soo)
You could come out as questioning if you want. It can be comforting not to go through this alone, and for someone to know what’s going on inside your head. All that said: It is purely your choice how to come out (or not to). I support you! :) (btw I’ve been out as bi for 2ish years).
Don’t feel that you have to know who or what you are, it’s perfectly ok to take time figuring yourself out. Don’t be pressured to add labels to yourself either or even to “come out” as anything at all! Be authentic and honest with all your thoughts and actions and everything else will fall in to place as and when the universe seems it so. You do you, that’s all that is required. 👍🏻best of luck
So Ik that this was 2 years ago, and idk if things have changed for you but if you’re still having trouble, I just want you to know that everything will be fine and it’s okay if you don’t know your sexuality yet (I don’t know mine either and I’m also not out to my parents yet) there’s absolutely no rush or pressure because these things take time, and there is no need to put a label on yourself if you don’t feel right about it, so just do what you think will be best for you😊
I came out to my family this June as bi and they said they’re accepting me and it’s alright to just ‘explore’ different people that i like but they don’t realise that I’m gonna be bi forever. They also still say homophobic stuff about certain people and say that gay people shouldn’t have kids because they’ll ‘pass it down’ or something. Now i’m even more terrified to tell them that i’m non binary because i know that they’ll either be really mad at me and just completely disown me (i still have to live with them since I’m a kid) or completely ignore me when i try and help them understand. They just keep doing this and i don’t want to live here anymore if they’re just gonna make me feel bad for existing. I cant wait until i’m old enough to move out.
I had a seriously bad day. My mom was starting telling me off for "disrespecting" her by saying I got it instead of yes ma'am. So we argue loudly in front of guests and I fi almost am able to leave to hide in my room, but she shortly follows and tells me about how rude and arrogant I am. And when I snapped I told her how she never listens to me, how I feel like a stranger at home, how I don't feel loved and accepted. She then responded with "Oh is this because you're bisexual?" And demanded I go eat food I wasn't hungry for. She made me eat in front of our overnight staying guests while I'm full of tears. I ran upstairs crying and now sit here, talking to whoever is reading this! I overheard how the next time I talk back, ill get backhanded in the mouth. I just don't wanna be in my home, I don't feel loved or safe.
@@lucidmoth1023 hello, and thanks for the concern. I am in a better place and my parents are still kinda ehhh but much better. Your support means the world to me
i came out to my mom and grandma at the same time. i did it a couple days ago. and the only response i got was “you aren’t bi. you think you are because it’s some trend going on” and that hurted. i also brought up how i think i’m bigender and they both rolled their eyes
Coming out (as bi) to my mom, dad, and stepdad, they were supportive, but when i came out to my stepmom, it was... awkward. My dad later told my mom saying my stepmom was "concerned", but since she or i have never talked about it idk what she means by that. Things have been odd between us since. She says she wonders if she's a good stepmom but idk if she tries that hard...
Please don’t tell your kids it’s caused by depression. That happened to me, and it’s really hurt. I explained that I’ve felt that way for a long time, and they wouldn’t listen. Listen to your kids, and try to ask your kids how you can best support them.
Honestly, if I told my parents, they would start yelling. My parents are slight homophoebes. It’s not that they want to hurt gay people, they just respect god and we go to church almost every day. I am still a woman of god, yet bisexual too and I hope I can come out to them.
I came out to my mom and dad a couple years go and they both said “oh Люблю we knew since we adopted you silly no need to cry or worry we love you!” With a soft smile and very soft voice. THEY were soooo supportive ❤️🥹 my mom being a shrink made it even more easy & I feel so at peace. Sending all my positive love toward all of you who have hard times with family ❤️ your loved by a lot of people and you might not even know it yet :) (sorry for bad English)
@@iloverainbows9417 mostly just saying certain things around them and saying that a certain girl is cute or pointing out rainbow flags or pride stuff... you know the usual😂😂
I’m a mom to a son that is telling me he is bisexual. I have told him thank you for telling me and I’m feeling good he spoke to me about it. I always tell him I will love you no matter what. You are my pride and joy and you continue to be. But I feel he looks at me like I don’t understand. I’m lost I need help I need to learn the right things to do and say. Please help me
i didn’t want to come out, because i was scared. but once my gf came over (we were pretending to be just friends in front of her) but she found out that we are not just friends. she yelled at me, told me i am disgusting lesbian and she just wants healthly child. i was so scared to say anything.
Thing is being 13 and Asian it’s really hard to get your parents to understand your POV cause they say it’s just a phase and that I only like girls as friends. LIKE THEY KNOW HOW I FEEL AGHH
I just wish I had the confidence to show this to my mum I have come out 2 times and she just yelled at me and now I don’t trust her and I have anxiety and depression and I hate myself and my family I really want her to see this but I’m afraid it will start another fight
Just.. wait 20 more years and this generation will be gone.. my mum said shes ashamed of me but idgaf i do what i wanna do its my life and my choice, we are just one big family who most ppl dont support
I came out as trans ftm when i was 14. They did not and still do not accept me 4 years later. All they showed towards me was anger and my whole family is transphobic and they never fail to bring up transgemderism whenever we have a family meeting. It really hurts and i dont think they ever will accept me. Im almost 18 now and will be starting testosterone as soon as im 18. I know they will hate me for it but i need to transition. I have already attempted suicide and im trying really hard to make it through life. I hope all of you reading this are loved and accepted. I am here for all of you. ❤
I don't know you and I don't know what you are going through. But live your life and go your way. Only you know what is and what feels right for you. I support you and I'm here for you too
I am actually in the years to like someone..... And my parents bring up the family thing I always have tyo low to my mum about me being asexually bi... I hope someday I'll be accepted.... I'm mostly scared of my dad and his family..... So I'll just keep it secret forever...❤❤❤
Parents need to also be careful about what they say about any lgbtq+ identities in general. It makes it really hard to come out even if your parents are generally pretty open and liberal about most things...but will spout out ignorance still. Like I have a cousin that came out as bisexual and my father said something like "oh he must really love sex then". As if that's why my cousin is bisexual ..cause he's just hyper sexual and not just into more than one gender attraction wise. So as a person who is still in the closet with their parents I am now putting off coming out because I know I have to navigate around stuff like that. As if I wasn't nervous already.
My mom found out I was transgender and gay through my instagram account and she totally lost it. She got my grandfather involved and blew the whole thing out of proportion. I felt absolutely terrible because she made me feel as if I could control this and I could fix it. She knew I was struggling before with other mental health issues but she never did anything about it. Loosing it on me didn’t help any of that
Today me (18 years old) and my sister (12, almost 13 years old) came out to my parents... but I'm kinda confused now. What my mom said was that we haven't experienced true passion for someone, that that doesn't come from physical attraction (I came out as bi and asexual), that we shouldn't ristrict ourselves to titles and that tomorrow we might change our minds. Although I understand what she is saying (expecially in regards of my younger sister) I'm not restricting myself to any titles, I know that things might change. Also I've already been in a relationship with a boy for the course of 1 and 1/2 years (we ended in good terms, I love him and we are still very good friends) and I've been in love with girls before? I'm just really confused right now kakakaka *help*
I know my son is gay. He has told some of his friends but not me. I love him and will support him no matter what. Should I ask him about it or wait until he comes to me.
I'll always be in the closet. I have so much shame for being bisexual. I feel like a monster. Not only do my family not accept me, but some in the LGBT+ community. I like boys and girls, but I can't like girls without being disowned. And I really try to convince myself I'm straight.
As a bisexual male, especially as a black one, I get it. Not only do we get a lot of crap from straight people but also from the rest of our own community. It's hard to have to deal with the possibility of being disowned, but you can't let that fear keep you from being 100% your own authentic self. You'll only end up hurting yourself that way.
My mom told me that I was going to make a man really happy some day (everyone in my family, me included, are very well proportioned in our chest and hip area). She also tells me that I’m “such a woman” because I like to clean! I mean I am a woman but I don’t want to make a man happy...
My parents are muslims and i am here, pansexual af dude. One night i told my mom i was bisexual (cuz i didn't think she was ready to hear about pansexual me) she asked what was that mean and I said "I like both girls and boys" she said okay thats normal but after that day whenever i say "look at that girl shes so cute" or that kind of thing even when i wasnt interested in them, she looked so disappointed on me and still, i am acting like i didnt said anything that night, like im still an hetero. I point out boys and say "wow hes handsome" or something. That breaks my heart because she thinks im cured or something.
I have a homophobic mom and she doesn’t know I’m gay, she gets suspicious sometimes and tells me that being gay is seriously bad and if I am that I should be ashamed of myself but I always deny being gay, I wish that my mom would just accept me
Even though your mom doesn’t support you, it doesn’t mean you are alone. If you need a good song to cry to and then you feel happy because someone is like you, then listen to you will be found from Dear Evan Hansen.
My son came out and my now ex husband keeps blaming me saying I gave up on my son that I’m supposed to continue trying to tell him he’s a boy and needs to act like a boy. My baby’s been feminine since he was a baby! At age 2 I already knew this boy was different and by the time he turned 10 I had already accepted it. Hes 14 now and wants to take hormones. But his father is infuriated threatening to take my son away from me, telling me I’m the devil and a horrible mother. It hurts because I loved that man but he’s so homophobic he won’t accept my my son is his own self we can never change him he has his own soul he’s his own self all we can do is love and guide him to be the best version of himself and that he grows up healthy and happy.. his sex has nothing to do with him being a good human. we have another daughter now but his father he said he’ll never accept it. He keeps fighting it’s so abusive and violent and hurtful so hurtful. I know he loves our son but he won’t accept him coming out. It’s so hurtful the things he says my son is hurting it’s so sad. I lost a husband and gained another daughter and my babies are my everything so i feel blessed. My son/daughter is a shining star and I’m proud to be his/her mommy. I stopped going to church I eliminated family out of our lives because I will not accept anyone telling me my son is going to hell. He’s a loving and good human being and all my beliefs everything I grew up believing in I can’t believe in anymore I feel lost but I rather die trying to figure all this out accepting and loving and supporting my baby. I will always protect him that is my job as his mother. I lost alot of people but nobody else matters more to me than my 2 children. Who wants to be in our lives will and who doesn’t accept my baby can turn around and not be a part of our lives plain and simple 🏳️🌈
I cringe every time I hear the term "microaggression" and "misgendering" I am IN that LGBT acronym but gradually we have went from stonewall (strong humans fighting for rights to not be physically removed from a bar) to "Omg someone called me the wrong pronoun I need a safe space" our community needs to.. please.. toughen up
When I was 13 I told my mom I was trans. She just said it was a phase, a year later I told her that that was who I was. She still won't call me by my correct pronouns and insists that I shouldn't make decisions about who I am because I'm still young.
I met my crush who does go to my school through Instagram, they replied to my story and we got talking a lot we ended up on the lgbt topic and they said how they’re scared to come out I asked as what and they said non binary and liking boys and girls (they don’t identify as bi) and I ended up saying I was non binary and liked girls, I ended up liking them ALOT by their personality because I’d hardly seen a picture of their face, (they’re real we hang out sometimes) anyway! I find it really hard to talk to my friends who don’t know they’re non binary, if i bring them up in conversation I’m always tripping on pronouns like “yeah theyr- she’s really good at that” “oh yeah I was talking to them- her about that” like even with them not being out and me not needing to use the they/them pronouns for them irl I still find it so hard
my dad forced me out of the closet, then told me that i wasn't bi. then he told me the only reason i thought I was bi was because no boy had ever liked me.
My mom said that I’m just confused and kept cutting me off to tell me that she wanted me to have a normal childhood. AFTER I TOLD HER IVE BEEN PAN FOR ALMOST A YEAR LIKE WTF
My mom doesn't even try with my name or pronouns. She said, four months ago, "I'm going to try to use your pronouns" and that was a year after I came out. She hasn't called me "he" or "Jaxxen" a single time and she misgenders me and yells my deadname in public and says I'm trying to shame her when I bring it up and ask her to please stop outing me to everyone. She says I need to prove that I'm transgender through therapy and when I asked to see a gender counselor, she's like, no, you have to prove you're transgender first. Like, what the fuck, I shouldn't have to prove who I am to you. She says she's "supportive" but she's not, really. She's supportive except she never genders me right or uses the correct pronouns and name even when I correct her, then gets upset when I even bring up gender.
Many parents I know are so damn immature or preconditioned with heteronormative traits that they scar their kids for lifetime. I have friends from the LGBTQ+ community who can trust their therapist and friends but not parents. How sad. Parents should ideally be their kids best allies. Or not be parents if they have such conditions attached.
All I want is to be safe and to be respected when/if I come out as lgbtqia+ and ex-muslim, it's terrifying when you know you could be in danger because of who you are. I want to be authentic and no I don't want to constantly drink and have sex. I just want a girlfriend and I want to be able to wear perfume. Just let us live our lives and love us.
My parents very casually told me that it is okay to be gay and would still love if that happen to be so. Just as part of their talk about sex conversations. Before I realized I was gay and that really helped me.
Ok, my parents asked if I had a crush on a girl and I said yes, then my whole face went red, and my dad was like, I get it, I mean I married your mother. One of the best days of my life.
While I was questioning my sexuality, my mum asked me out of the blue one day “Why have you been searching up lesbian things on google? Do you think you’re a lesbian?” When I got in the car from school one afternoon. All my siblings were in the car and I felt like my heart completely stopped. She acted as if it wasn’t a huge deal, not personal, and that I could easily say yes or no. I said no and she kept on questioning me about why I search those things up. I ended up getting out of it, but I was traumatised for the rest of the afternoon. I wasn’t ready to come out yet and she didn’t understand that. It didn’t help that I wasn’t completely sure of my sexuality. I was in the questioning stage where I would say I was lesbian but then see a cute guy and change my mind, so it would have gone very wrong if I said yes because I soon realised I definitely am not a lesbian. (I’m Pan and trans)
When I was younger I really lived dancing (and I went to a Christian school) one of my homophobic teachers saw me dancing outside with the girls and told my mom. Long story short I never danced again
I’m a lesbian but not out. My best friend is as well (not out to her coz she would tell everyone)and my parents know this about her but as soon as they found out she wasn’t allowed to come to my house anymore. I also talk to her for hours over the phone because of this my parents sat me down one day because the were concerned that she had corrupted me, I kept lying assuring them I was straight until they let me go. That situation just proves I will not come out to anyone until college lol
Also it shouldn’t matter whether they say they’re bi and later change their label to suit them better. Parents calling it a phase HURTS. It’s not a phase, they’re finding their truth self and you should support that no matter what label they stick with or change to
Hey umm I need advice... I'm bisexual and I come from a Morman family... I don't believe it's wrong. My parents do though and so do my siblings and cousin. I don't know if I could ever tell them... I barely believe in god. After all who made him/ her all ways right... God is just one person. If one person made the decision for the world it would end in terribly. So if you have any advice on how I can tell them lightly I would be very grateful because what they say about gays, trans, and non-binary feels like a stab to the heart to me....
My mom says its a phase and wait till im 18 cuz i told her i was bisexual when i was 12, but ive known since i was a child cuz i expiremented with 4 girls 😂 and had crushes on girls in kinder. 5th grade i had my first guy crush but still liked girls. She had me feel ashamed and even went to confess to a priest, but im proud now and dont need to say sorry to anyone. Not even my parents. The love of my life is a girl and if my doesnt accept it then thats a them problem.
I literally never plan to come out to my mom she's a hardcore Christian and she would never understand I'd rather her never know and let her think i was the good boy she thought i was and not risk her thinking of me as a monster even though I know she doesn't except me. I still love her enough to spare her the pain of her knowing,she's been through alot a divorce a difficult refinancing hurricane Harvey growing up in mesoamerica she deserves better from me than a gay she wont love or at the minimum a son she cant except
I am going through something similar, but my parents know that I am lesbian, but they are Christian and although they accepted me liking girls, I don’t know how they would react if they found out I’m not Christian. I can’t be put in a Christian school though, I would be made fun of because I’m lesbian and Christians aren’t as accepting as others. I am so scared, I don’t know what to do.
Honestly my mom was just straight up rude and made homophobic comments and tried to bring religion into it this was 2 years ago now me and my mom rarely communicate even tho we live together and i still wait for the day she’ll hug me and tell me she loves but that’s not gonna happen so please I’m begging you if you are a parent or just friend or family member please try to be accepting because this is truly painful and you might lose connection with your child or friend
I told my parents I was ace. I asked them if they would accept me if I were to like a girl, my dad does but my mom doesnt really. They would still love me but I just cant tell them I have a big big crush with a girl.
My parents just say everything I believe is a phase. I just don’t know what to do anymore. Everyone says I’m just a teenager. They say my beliefs will become more like theirs with time. (This is not necessarily regarding my sexuality)
I didn’t really realize how lucky I am that my parents already knew and accepted that I’m gay until they told me I couldn’t use female pronouns for my trans cousin around my grandparents because they’re transphobic and homophobic. That’s when I realized that not everyone just accepts you for who you are. My grandparents still don’t know that I’m gay, both of my sisters are bi, my cousin is trans and gay, and their son-in-law’s brother is gay. I know I need to come out to them one day if I want to stay with who I’m with now, but I still have a long way to go. I am, after all, only eleven. Both of my parents and I never thought I was straight. I even remember six year old me asking them how lesbians have children. My best friend to this day and I even one day decided we were dating. We didn’t know how relationships worked, and my parents and sisters knew we didn’t actually think of eachother in that way, but they still accepted that. Anyway, sorry for this weird long message. I just want to rant. Bye!
Imagine being 13 years old, being both non-binary and pansexual and being told it's a faze by both my mother and father. The crazy part is, I've never felt like a girl. It's been 8 years, 8 years if knowing you're not a girl nor a boy. This is why I live in a closet filled with Ice cream and Depression
Another thing NOT to do, is tell your child it's a phase. That alone can be very damaging to your relationship with your kid.
That happened to me... It hurts so freaking much
Maddy How my mother ruined our relationship and because of- whaaaaat?
I was told it's an adult decision,that I am choosing Satan instead of God, it’s just a phase, go to hell, this isn’t who you are, you were not born this way, “would God want you to be this way?”
iTs A mIcRoAgGrEsSiOn
Happened to me today, it hurts
My mom outed me to her husband as Trans and then later she told me that me being trans is like losing another childm
She doesn't wanna even try to use my real name or pronouns....
pronouns in what kind of sense? i mean the other stuff is horrible, but if you get pissed cause someone mistook you for the gender you transitioned to then perhaps that should be a complement because you look as you want.However if you are getting angry cause not everyone is used to calling people "they, them, or it" when referring to one single person.I hope you find yourself what you want though.
I’m soooo sorry I know I can’t do anything but I wish I could nobody should have to go through that ever. Period.
You go girls
@@stripe1919ify I pretty sure they are not talking about those pronouns and if they were they are talking about their mother who knows what their pronouns are but just doesn't say them
I'm sorry. I hope that either she realizes how horrible she is being, or you get out of there.
Ms. Park your son is kind of different.... he keeps sticking safety pins in his ears
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Cherrilynn Lele Zhang i do that
Lol
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@@TheAutist tRiGgErEd
My mom told me that im in a phase....
sleep lord you are *not* in a phase. You are normal. You are a human being. These kinds of things, being transgender and multiple sexualities, are already natural in animals, so whatever you may be, it's not really too out of the ordinary. Just do you. Don't listen to her.
My mom said almost the same thing, she said “sexuality is always fluid and you’re going to change your mind in a few years if not sooner”.
sleep lord same
hopefully she's in a phase, because I know you arent
I dont believe in all that shit Sexuality isn't a phase, if you are born straight you can't be gay, if you are gay you can't be straight.
Well, my grandma keeps asking if i have any special boy in my heart. I rather say : "Eh, not yet." It's easier than saying that i actually have a crush on girl. :-x
Me too
Same
I can relate...
I am asexual also
Me talking to my mom and then trying to explain I'm lesbian
My mom: when u will grow up u will have a husband and children
Me: I don't want to get married to men
Mom: Would you like to be alone without children or husbands? You will regret it
Me: I just don't like men, and I'll never do it
Mom: errm, u will
Lmao 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Same here
My mom needs to realize that just because I’m a lesbian doesn’t mean I’m a pedophile
W-WHAT
Tf is that confusion
@@FenriZz there’s a stereotype that old people (mainly boomers) believe that gay people are sexual predators :/
lol my parents said that about my best friend like wtf
im crying how is that even related
Being straight was my phase lol
Saaaame
S A M E
Kařma Kîñg Sameee
Same😂
Same
Why does everyone has such clear skin
Ashton Brown not me
Zero
Gay tings
Cuz they are probably wearing some makeup before coming on screen.
I wanna tell my mom I'll never find the one, that I'm aromantic and asexual, and that's okay
You should do it. People find that a lot easier to accept than their kids being gay or trans. Not that it is easier. It still takes time to figure it out. Hope you do manage to do it or have already done it.
yoo im aro ace too!! (plus agender, non-binary) good luck kiddo!
Yeah metoo.....but I don't have the courage....
Good luck!!!!
Aha my mom is upset with me since she wont have grandkids
told my mom i’m bisexual, not sure if she believes it or not but at least now she knows
Same. But I'd rather have her not understand me then misunderstand me
Same
I told my mom I love girls😂😂
Same
Hi army!
I asked my parents Theo thoughts on LGBTQ community before telling them that I am bi...... and their views were very bad that I am deeply affected and hurt.....they said that it's against the nature and the people are mentally sick.......it hurt me alot. Now, Idk how to come out😭😔😔🥺🥺😣
My mom said its a phase and it was
A phase of being straight
Lol I am gay and I am tired of hearing that its a phase
@@avastars3393 omg you have the same name as I do!!
Awww I wish I could have told my parents about everything..
Angel Rae Frisbie could?
Sent this video to my mom...
She saw it but did not bother to watch it. She asked me "Why did you send me this?" She looked mad. She said that if i was lesbian, she would get sick and have a heart attack. Im scared.
Don't be scared! :(
THEY DIDN'T POST MY COMMENT!!! THE FIRST TIME MY ONLY CHILD, TRIED TO TELL ME, I CAUGHT ON!!! BID, GOD HAS BLESSED US & GAVE US, A NEW LIFE..., FROM NEW ORLEANS .WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? I'M SO HURT!!!
My Parents Don't Care (In A Good Way).
Pfft i wish
Same (sort of)
My grandma is ok but idk about my grandpa
Same! :)
lol still not out
Ally N same
Ally N Same
Ally N 🌺Hello guys 🌺 Subscribed to my channel 🌻🌼🌻Pleaaaaaase❄️💧❄️I love you guys 🌿🌾🍃
Do not care what people think if they care about you they should except you for you
Nastya East go away
As a pansexual, I have to say
"IT'S NOT A PHASE, MOM!"
Lol
Same
I'm pan romantic and gender non conforming and questioning.
In every gay relationships,
Parents: So who is the guy and who is the girl?
Asking that,is like literally asking a vegan, which one of their salad is the meat. Open your mind people! Spread love❤
Eren says that’s not vEgAn.
Last I checked wether it’s two men two women. Or man and a women(both man and women are fem or both a masculine) it’s your identity so in two men both are the boys two women both are girls and straight relationships is man is boy and woman is girl.
Yes, everytime they said that, I was like _wait whaaaaaaat?_
@@jnlsportsnewsandupdatesjsn5614 Touche'😉
@@zoedlm2565 Right😅
I’m still in the closet 🙌🏼
Same here.
Same
Yep.
Same
Same
This made me cry honestly the first one is true just a parent to listen would be a dream
All of this should just be common sense and I hope one day it is. 💪💛
I think is more a "respect one another" kind of shit (as you say). I don't see being kind and minding your own business as a mental illness, do you? Live your life and let others do the same.
For anyone that reads this: You are valid. Who you love is valid. Be kind to one another and be kind to yourself
Laura pla robert exactly. ❤💛💚💙💜
Brianna Rose i hope your dog comes out as trans to u
Brianna Rose
*sigh*
it is not an illness so please stop saying it is, that's rude.
I'm gay, but the term microaggression just makes me cringe deeply.
How come?? Would you rather just call it homophobia then?
@@TheCiddie I think it's more homophobia but it's minor homophobia
My mom said something along the lines of when I first came out
“Wait until you’re 18 to decide”
I have to wait 4 more years to go
Same, I hate it so much!
I paused to text my mother thank you.
When I came out to her, she replied "haha, I figured."
When my friend's mother learned she was gay, her mother told her to move out.
My parents aren't even trying to use my name and my pronouns... everybody in my family is just ignoring it
I'm sorry that's happening to you. I'm bisexual and my parents seemed okay with it when I first told them which was like the most amazing feeling and was so freeing until 2 days later when they told me that I wasn't allowed to speak about it or bring it up in their home. I lived with them at the time and had to listen to their rules about calling my girlfriend just my friend if they came over because they were disgusted and disappointed and think I'm going to hell so they didn't want to know if/when i ever got my first girlfriend (still haven't yet). Thankfully now I don't live with them though and when I do finally get a girlfriend if they ever meet her they will know her for who she is and either have to get over it or just not be involved in my life. It's so painful to know that religion is causing them to choose the latter. I just wanted to share my story a little because even though it's not exactly the same i know what it feels like to be unrecognized and unvalued by your closest and most important family members and its awful. Just know you are not alone and you can build a family of your own if your family isn't going to be that for you! 💖 best of luck to you!!!
@@diolee4715 i am a lesbian. My parents are divorced and I live with my dad . I came out to my dad and he accepted me . My mom is super homophobic so I am not gonna come pit to her
The moment I wanted to tell my mom I was trans gay, I made a joke about wearing bowties and he response was " normal GIRLS don't wear bowties. You know... Me and your father pray for you.." From that moment on I think I'll stay in the closet until I can fully support myself.
I hope you're ok. Remember you're valid
Same, I can just tell they wouldn't look at me the same so I'll just endure this for another 8 years when I have a job
Same. I'll come out once I move out and get a job.
So I know that my parents are cool with the LGBTQ+ community - they voted yes for Australia to get same sex marriage and have shown support/said they fully support the community before, but I’m not out yet, i just don’t know what I am. I’m pretty sure I’m bi, but I don’t want to come out twice - or worst case scenario, me being bi is just confusion and not actually who I am. (I know I’m not trans, 99% I’m not straight and 95% sure I’m not gender non conforming - pretty sure I’m just a masculine girl 😂) so I’m scared that if I come out, then I’ll later find that I’m not actually bi or whatever and then people will turn that onto other out queer people saying that “it’s a phase, my daughter came out as bi but later went back to being straight”. So yeah. I’m not coming out until this shits figured out (well... 3ish (one of them was when I was like Hey I think I’m bi) friends that I trust a lot know and two of them are queer to soo)
S A M E like literally everything u Said applies to me, too
You could come out as questioning if you want. It can be comforting not to go through this alone, and for someone to know what’s going on inside your head. All that said: It is purely your choice how to come out (or not to). I support you! :) (btw I’ve been out as bi for 2ish years).
Don’t feel that you have to know who or what you are, it’s perfectly ok to take time figuring yourself out. Don’t be pressured to add labels to yourself either or even to “come out” as anything at all! Be authentic and honest with all your thoughts and actions and everything else will fall in to place as and when the universe seems it so. You do you, that’s all that is required. 👍🏻best of luck
SAME (EVEN DOWN TO BEING AUSTRALIAN)
So Ik that this was 2 years ago, and idk if things have changed for you but if you’re still having trouble, I just want you to know that everything will be fine and it’s okay if you don’t know your sexuality yet (I don’t know mine either and I’m also not out to my parents yet) there’s absolutely no rush or pressure because these things take time, and there is no need to put a label on yourself if you don’t feel right about it, so just do what you think will be best for you😊
me shopping with my mom
mom: "hey honey, look at this!"
me"yeah, its nice"
Mom:"its rainbow, and your gay, your gay."
we love that
That's adorable 😂
Aww that's so sweet ❤
I came out to my family this June as bi and they said they’re accepting me and it’s alright to just ‘explore’ different people that i like but they don’t realise that I’m gonna be bi forever. They also still say homophobic stuff about certain people and say that gay people shouldn’t have kids because they’ll ‘pass it down’ or something. Now i’m even more terrified to tell them that i’m non binary because i know that they’ll either be really mad at me and just completely disown me (i still have to live with them since I’m a kid) or completely ignore me when i try and help them understand. They just keep doing this and i don’t want to live here anymore if they’re just gonna make me feel bad for existing. I cant wait until i’m old enough to move out.
Everytime Joon popped up, all I could think was "How tf is that staying on his ear??" But also I WANT 12
😂😂 Nice
I had a seriously bad day. My mom was starting telling me off for "disrespecting" her by saying I got it instead of yes ma'am. So we argue loudly in front of guests and I fi almost am able to leave to hide in my room, but she shortly follows and tells me about how rude and arrogant I am. And when I snapped I told her how she never listens to me, how I feel like a stranger at home, how I don't feel loved and accepted. She then responded with "Oh is this because you're bisexual?" And demanded I go eat food I wasn't hungry for. She made me eat in front of our overnight staying guests while I'm full of tears. I ran upstairs crying and now sit here, talking to whoever is reading this! I overheard how the next time I talk back, ill get backhanded in the mouth. I just don't wanna be in my home, I don't feel loved or safe.
I hope you're in a better place now. I'm so sorry to hear that you're in such an awful house.
@@lucidmoth1023 hello, and thanks for the concern. I am in a better place and my parents are still kinda ehhh but much better. Your support means the world to me
@@00RaveRat That's good to hear, I hope your parents will fully accept you one day, and that your life only continues to get better.
If I would ever let myself out to my mom, she would blame my phone..
i came out to my mom and grandma at the same time. i did it a couple days ago. and the only response i got was “you aren’t bi. you think you are because it’s some trend going on” and that hurted. i also brought up how i think i’m bigender and they both rolled their eyes
Seriously???????
Some trend!?!?!!!??!!!!!
What in the world!?!!!!!!
Im-im-....
Coming out (as bi) to my mom, dad, and stepdad, they were supportive, but when i came out to my stepmom, it was... awkward. My dad later told my mom saying my stepmom was "concerned", but since she or i have never talked about it idk what she means by that. Things have been odd between us since. She says she wonders if she's a good stepmom but idk if she tries that hard...
1:14 exactly. i don’t give a fuck what other people think of me. i just want to feel like my mom accepts me and loves me for who i am.
Please don’t tell your kids it’s caused by depression. That happened to me, and it’s really hurt. I explained that I’ve felt that way for a long time, and they wouldn’t listen. Listen to your kids, and try to ask your kids how you can best support them.
Honestly, if I told my parents, they would start yelling. My parents are slight homophoebes. It’s not that they want to hurt gay people, they just respect god and we go to church almost every day. I am still a woman of god, yet bisexual too and I hope I can come out to them.
Sending positive love! ❤️
I came out to my mom and dad a couple years go and they both said “oh Люблю we knew since we adopted you silly no need to cry or worry we love you!” With a soft smile and very soft voice. THEY were soooo supportive ❤️🥹 my mom being a shrink made it even more easy & I feel so at peace.
Sending all my positive love toward all of you who have hard times with family ❤️ your loved by a lot of people and you might not even know it yet :) (sorry for bad English)
I'm just giving hints until they figure it out!😂😂
Tell me what your doing
@@iloverainbows9417 mostly just saying certain things around them and saying that a certain girl is cute or pointing out rainbow flags or pride stuff... you know the usual😂😂
60 yrs later
Oof I did this for years to my dad and he fcking didn't ask anything about it and I was so annoyed with it I just came out to hin a few days ago😂
Same here!
I’m a mom to a son that is telling me he is bisexual. I have told him thank you for telling me and I’m feeling good he spoke to me about it. I always tell him I will love you no matter what. You are my pride and joy and you continue to be. But I feel he looks at me like I don’t understand. I’m lost I need help I need to learn the right things to do and say. Please help me
Please be my mom . My mom is abusive and homophobic 😒😒
@@avastars3393 thank you 😊 mamas I’m here if you need me
the fact that my parents care more about 3 versus in a 3000 year old book than their own childs life-
i didn’t want to come out, because i was scared. but once my gf came over (we were pretending to be just friends in front of her) but she found out that we are not just friends. she yelled at me, told me i am disgusting lesbian and she just wants healthly child. i was so scared to say anything.
Oh my gosh....
That must have been terrible....
I hope you guys get OK....
Thing is being 13 and Asian it’s really hard to get your parents to understand your POV cause they say it’s just a phase and that I only like girls as friends. LIKE THEY KNOW HOW I FEEL AGHH
As a trans , pan and polyamourous this video made me cry this video is really touched me and made a a very happy boi thx guys 🖤
I just wish I had the confidence to show this to my mum I have come out 2 times and she just yelled at me and now I don’t trust her and I have anxiety and depression and I hate myself and my family I really want her to see this but I’m afraid it will start another fight
I know my parents would hate me if I came out, So ima stay in that uncomfortable yet homely closet for a few more years.
Just.. wait 20 more years and this generation will be gone.. my mum said shes ashamed of me but idgaf i do what i wanna do its my life and my choice, we are just one big family who most ppl dont support
I came out as trans ftm when i was 14. They did not and still do not accept me 4 years later. All they showed towards me was anger and my whole family is transphobic and they never fail to bring up transgemderism whenever we have a family meeting. It really hurts and i dont think they ever will accept me. Im almost 18 now and will be starting testosterone as soon as im 18. I know they will hate me for it but i need to transition. I have already attempted suicide and im trying really hard to make it through life. I hope all of you reading this are loved and accepted. I am here for all of you. ❤
I don't know you and I don't know what you are going through. But live your life and go your way. Only you know what is and what feels right for you. I support you and I'm here for you too
I am actually in the years to like someone.....
And my parents bring up the family thing
I always have tyo low to my mum about me being asexually bi...
I hope someday I'll be accepted....
I'm mostly scared of my dad and his family.....
So I'll just keep it secret forever...❤❤❤
Parents need to also be careful about what they say about any lgbtq+ identities in general. It makes it really hard to come out even if your parents are generally pretty open and liberal about most things...but will spout out ignorance still. Like I have a cousin that came out as bisexual and my father said something like "oh he must really love sex then". As if that's why my cousin is bisexual ..cause he's just hyper sexual and not just into more than one gender attraction wise. So as a person who is still in the closet with their parents I am now putting off coming out because I know I have to navigate around stuff like that. As if I wasn't nervous already.
My mom found out I was transgender and gay through my instagram account and she totally lost it. She got my grandfather involved and blew the whole thing out of proportion. I felt absolutely terrible because she made me feel as if I could control this and I could fix it. She knew I was struggling before with other mental health issues but she never did anything about it. Loosing it on me didn’t help any of that
My mom knows, and she’s supportive.
GUYS
I just came out to my parents a few days ago! I am Bisexual! AND THEY LEGIT SAID
“ It’s probably just a phase “
Uh guys what do I do? 😬
Prove to them that its not a phase.
still on the phase of not being out and sighing everyday that I can't be myself.
Today me (18 years old) and my sister (12, almost 13 years old) came out to my parents... but I'm kinda confused now. What my mom said was that we haven't experienced true passion for someone, that that doesn't come from physical attraction (I came out as bi and asexual), that we shouldn't ristrict ourselves to titles and that tomorrow we might change our minds. Although I understand what she is saying (expecially in regards of my younger sister) I'm not restricting myself to any titles, I know that things might change. Also I've already been in a relationship with a boy for the course of 1 and 1/2 years (we ended in good terms, I love him and we are still very good friends) and I've been in love with girls before? I'm just really confused right now kakakaka *help*
I know my son is gay. He has told some of his friends but not me. I love him and will support him no matter what. Should I ask him about it or wait until he comes to me.
Aww....
I'll always be in the closet. I have so much shame for being bisexual. I feel like a monster. Not only do my family not accept me, but some in the LGBT+ community. I like boys and girls, but I can't like girls without being disowned. And I really try to convince myself I'm straight.
As a bisexual male, especially as a black one, I get it. Not only do we get a lot of crap from straight people but also from the rest of our own community. It's hard to have to deal with the possibility of being disowned, but you can't let that fear keep you from being 100% your own authentic self. You'll only end up hurting yourself that way.
My mom told me that I was going to make a man really happy some day (everyone in my family, me included, are very well proportioned in our chest and hip area). She also tells me that I’m “such a woman” because I like to clean! I mean I am a woman but I don’t want to make a man happy...
My parents are muslims and i am here, pansexual af dude. One night i told my mom i was bisexual (cuz i didn't think she was ready to hear about pansexual me) she asked what was that mean and I said "I like both girls and boys" she said okay thats normal but after that day whenever i say "look at that girl shes so cute" or that kind of thing even when i wasnt interested in them, she looked so disappointed on me and still, i am acting like i didnt said anything that night, like im still an hetero. I point out boys and say "wow hes handsome" or something. That breaks my heart because she thinks im cured or something.
I have a homophobic mom and she doesn’t know I’m gay, she gets suspicious sometimes and tells me that being gay is seriously bad and if I am that I should be ashamed of myself but I always deny being gay, I wish that my mom would just accept me
Even though your mom doesn’t support you, it doesn’t mean you are alone. If you need a good song to cry to and then you feel happy because someone is like you, then listen to you will be found from Dear Evan Hansen.
My son came out and my now ex husband keeps blaming me saying I gave up on my son that I’m supposed to continue trying to tell him he’s a boy and needs to act like a boy. My baby’s been feminine since he was a baby! At age 2 I already knew this boy was different and by the time he turned 10 I had already accepted it. Hes 14 now and wants to take hormones. But his father is infuriated threatening to take my son away from me, telling me I’m the devil and a horrible mother. It hurts because I loved that man but he’s so homophobic he won’t accept my my son is his own self we can never change him he has his own soul he’s his own self all we can do is love and guide him to be the best version of himself and that he grows up healthy and happy.. his sex has nothing to do with him being a good human. we have another daughter now but his father he said he’ll never accept it. He keeps fighting it’s so abusive and violent and hurtful so hurtful. I know he loves our son but he won’t accept him coming out. It’s so hurtful the things he says my son is hurting it’s so sad. I lost a husband and gained another daughter and my babies are my everything so i feel blessed. My son/daughter is a shining star and I’m proud to be his/her mommy.
I stopped going to church I eliminated family out of our lives because I will not accept anyone telling me my son is going to hell. He’s a loving and good human being and all my beliefs everything I grew up believing in I can’t believe in anymore I feel lost but I rather die trying to figure all this out accepting and loving and supporting my baby. I will always protect him that is my job as his mother. I lost alot of people but nobody else matters more to me than my 2 children. Who wants to be in our lives will and who doesn’t accept my baby can turn around and not be a part of our lives plain and simple 🏳️🌈
I cringe every time I hear the term "microaggression" and "misgendering" I am IN that LGBT acronym but gradually we have went from stonewall (strong humans fighting for rights to not be physically removed from a bar) to "Omg someone called me the wrong pronoun I need a safe space" our community needs to.. please.. toughen up
Mr. TruDat everytime I hear that word, I just think of PC Principal from South Park
When I was 13 I told my mom I was trans. She just said it was a phase, a year later I told her that that was who I was. She still won't call me by my correct pronouns and insists that I shouldn't make decisions about who I am because I'm still young.
I met my crush who does go to my school through Instagram, they replied to my story and we got talking a lot we ended up on the lgbt topic and they said how they’re scared to come out I asked as what and they said non binary and liking boys and girls (they don’t identify as bi) and I ended up saying I was non binary and liked girls, I ended up liking them ALOT by their personality because I’d hardly seen a picture of their face, (they’re real we hang out sometimes) anyway! I find it really hard to talk to my friends who don’t know they’re non binary, if i bring them up in conversation I’m always tripping on pronouns like “yeah theyr- she’s really good at that” “oh yeah I was talking to them- her about that” like even with them not being out and me not needing to use the they/them pronouns for them irl I still find it so hard
my dad forced me out of the closet, then told me that i wasn't bi. then he told me the only reason i thought I was bi was because no boy had ever liked me.
Omfg are you ok
My mom said that I’m just confused and kept cutting me off to tell me that she wanted me to have a normal childhood.
AFTER I TOLD HER IVE BEEN PAN FOR ALMOST A YEAR LIKE WTF
My mom doesn't even try with my name or pronouns. She said, four months ago, "I'm going to try to use your pronouns" and that was a year after I came out. She hasn't called me "he" or "Jaxxen" a single time and she misgenders me and yells my deadname in public and says I'm trying to shame her when I bring it up and ask her to please stop outing me to everyone. She says I need to prove that I'm transgender through therapy and when I asked to see a gender counselor, she's like, no, you have to prove you're transgender first. Like, what the fuck, I shouldn't have to prove who I am to you. She says she's "supportive" but she's not, really. She's supportive except she never genders me right or uses the correct pronouns and name even when I correct her, then gets upset when I even bring up gender.
I still can’t tell my mum I’m bisexual...
{Spilled •Tea} you’ll be able to
You can do it! Believe in yourself!
Many parents I know are so damn immature or preconditioned with heteronormative traits that they scar their kids for lifetime. I have friends from the LGBTQ+ community who can trust their therapist and friends but not parents. How sad. Parents should ideally be their kids best allies. Or not be parents if they have such conditions attached.
...ItS JuST FeZE...
they said
But it wasen't
i just wanna know why my parents are so mean sometimes :/
All I want is to be safe and to be respected when/if I come out as lgbtqia+ and ex-muslim, it's terrifying when you know you could be in danger because of who you are. I want to be authentic and no I don't want to constantly drink and have sex. I just want a girlfriend and I want to be able to wear perfume. Just let us live our lives and love us.
I regret coming out to my parents. Guys if you are still in the closet it is not obligatory to tell them if you know that they are homophobic
My parents very casually told me that it is okay to be gay and would still love if that happen to be so. Just as part of their talk about sex conversations. Before I realized I was gay and that really helped me.
Ok, my parents asked if I had a crush on a girl and I said yes, then my whole face went red, and my dad was like, I get it, I mean I married your mother. One of the best days of my life.
I think my mom knows that I’m gay/lesbian I just can’t work up the courage to say it
This is so true, my dad will hate me if I reveal I’m gay
While I was questioning my sexuality, my mum asked me out of the blue one day “Why have you been searching up lesbian things on google? Do you think you’re a lesbian?” When I got in the car from school one afternoon. All my siblings were in the car and I felt like my heart completely stopped. She acted as if it wasn’t a huge deal, not personal, and that I could easily say yes or no. I said no and she kept on questioning me about why I search those things up. I ended up getting out of it, but I was traumatised for the rest of the afternoon. I wasn’t ready to come out yet and she didn’t understand that. It didn’t help that I wasn’t completely sure of my sexuality. I was in the questioning stage where I would say I was lesbian but then see a cute guy and change my mind, so it would have gone very wrong if I said yes because I soon realised I definitely am not a lesbian. (I’m Pan and trans)
When I was younger I really lived dancing (and I went to a Christian school) one of my homophobic teachers saw me dancing outside with the girls and told my mom. Long story short I never danced again
I’m a lesbian but not out. My best friend is as well (not out to her coz she would tell everyone)and my parents know this about her but as soon as they found out she wasn’t allowed to come to my house anymore. I also talk to her for hours over the phone because of this my parents sat me down one day because the were concerned that she had corrupted me, I kept lying assuring them I was straight until they let me go. That situation just proves I will not come out to anyone until college lol
I came out and my parent’s were supportive 👉🏻👈🏻💖💖💖
Aww lucky❤❤❤
I don't want my parents to pretend to accept me. I want the truth. I don't need to be patronized.
Tip: you don’t need acceptance from anyone. Just do your thing and don’t expect approval from people.
Preach 🙌
I'm hoping my mom would just stumble upon this video and see my comment.
Hey mom, guess what!
i want joon park's earring god it LOOKS SO GOOD WHERE DID HE FIND IT
I was okay with my gayness until i was found out. Now i have to watch myself. It's not always safe and I hate myself
Also it shouldn’t matter whether they say they’re bi and later change their label to suit them better. Parents calling it a phase HURTS. It’s not a phase, they’re finding their truth self and you should support that no matter what label they stick with or change to
Hey umm I need advice... I'm bisexual and I come from a Morman family... I don't believe it's wrong. My parents do though and so do my siblings and cousin. I don't know if I could ever tell them... I barely believe in god. After all who made him/ her all ways right... God is just one person. If one person made the decision for the world it would end in terribly. So if you have any advice on how I can tell them lightly I would be very grateful because what they say about gays, trans, and non-binary feels like a stab to the heart to me....
I came out.
Got yelled at and called disgusting and vile .
Went back I the closet cuz I’m tired.
My mom says its a phase and wait till im 18 cuz i told her i was bisexual when i was 12, but ive known since i was a child cuz i expiremented with 4 girls 😂 and had crushes on girls in kinder. 5th grade i had my first guy crush but still liked girls. She had me feel ashamed and even went to confess to a priest, but im proud now and dont need to say sorry to anyone. Not even my parents. The love of my life is a girl and if my doesnt accept it then thats a them problem.
I literally never plan to come out to my mom she's a hardcore Christian and she would never understand I'd rather her never know and let her think i was the good boy she thought i was and not risk her thinking of me as a monster even though I know she doesn't except me. I still love her enough to spare her the pain of her knowing,she's been through alot a divorce a difficult refinancing hurricane Harvey growing up in mesoamerica she deserves better from me than a gay she wont love or at the minimum a son she cant except
You can do it! Believe in yourself, because she will have to accept it soonet or later.
I am going through something similar, but my parents know that I am lesbian, but they are Christian and although they accepted me liking girls, I don’t know how they would react if they found out I’m not Christian. I can’t be put in a Christian school though, I would be made fun of because I’m lesbian and Christians aren’t as accepting as others. I am so scared, I don’t know what to do.
I told my parents that I'm pansexual, and they accepted it, but I'm still scared to tell them that I'm polysexual....
Honestly my mom was just straight up rude and made homophobic comments and tried to bring religion into it this was 2 years ago now me and my mom rarely communicate even tho we live together and i still wait for the day she’ll hug me and tell me she loves but that’s not gonna happen so please I’m begging you if you are a parent or just friend or family member please try to be accepting because this is truly painful and you might lose connection with your child or friend
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How can i send this to my mom without sending it to her.
I can’t tell my parents anything about it
I’ve been trying to get my parents to believe me. At cosplacon 2019 I’m going to tell them
I told my parents I was ace. I asked them if they would accept me if I were to like a girl, my dad does but my mom doesnt really. They would still love me but I just cant tell them I have a big big crush with a girl.
Dear parents being your own self is NOT a phase. Period
My parents just say everything I believe is a phase. I just don’t know what to do anymore. Everyone says I’m just a teenager. They say my beliefs will become more like theirs with time. (This is not necessarily regarding my sexuality)
I didn’t really realize how lucky I am that my parents already knew and accepted that I’m gay until they told me I couldn’t use female pronouns for my trans cousin around my grandparents because they’re transphobic and homophobic. That’s when I realized that not everyone just accepts you for who you are. My grandparents still don’t know that I’m gay, both of my sisters are bi, my cousin is trans and gay, and their son-in-law’s brother is gay. I know I need to come out to them one day if I want to stay with who I’m with now, but I still have a long way to go. I am, after all, only eleven. Both of my parents and I never thought I was straight. I even remember six year old me asking them how lesbians have children. My best friend to this day and I even one day decided we were dating. We didn’t know how relationships worked, and my parents and sisters knew we didn’t actually think of eachother in that way, but they still accepted that. Anyway, sorry for this weird long message. I just want to rant. Bye!
Imagine being 13 years old, being both non-binary and pansexual and being told it's a faze by both my mother and father. The crazy part is, I've never felt like a girl. It's been 8 years, 8 years if knowing you're not a girl nor a boy. This is why I live in a closet filled with Ice cream and Depression