How To Pull Yourself Out Of A Bad Mood - Tim Ferriss

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  • Опубліковано 3 чер 2024
  • Chris and Tim Ferriss discuss why you might have bouts of low mood occasionally. How does Tim Ferriss combat low mood? What does Tim Ferris cause his bouts of 'depression'? What does Tim Ferriss do yearly to ensure he doesn't get trapped in a low mood?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 121

  • @ChrisWillx
    @ChrisWillx  Місяць тому +9

    Hello you savages. Watch the full episode with Tim here: ua-cam.com/video/9G5dXlMGMf8/v-deo.html! Get up to 32% discount on the best supplements from Momentous at livemomentous.com/modernwisdom

    • @kosmos5420
      @kosmos5420 29 днів тому

      Could you provide any references for the claim that the advertised supplement has been FDA approved? I haven’t found any online, neither on the retailer‘s website nor elsewhere. Thanks.

    • @Eggs-n-Jakey
      @Eggs-n-Jakey 29 днів тому

      What time good sir?

  • @MC-ze8wj
    @MC-ze8wj Місяць тому +72

    I used to get depressed/anxious a lot but since I've had a few kids and started being active at my church I don't get that anymore - even when something bad happens. Things that would have totalled me before I am more able to cope now. I have community/ friends through church and my family. It's not just support, it's that they need me. They also force me to get out; my three boys need a lot of outside time. I have play dates/ classes I take my boys to and in friends with the moms so we get to have a chat while the boys play, church is twice a week too. I think it's that my life is now built so that it's not just mine; I have responsibilities to other people. I think that's what has been different for me at least and it has helped way more than when I was trying to perfect my diet or my sleep/ exercise and seeing a therapist etc.

    • @shanesawyer5103
      @shanesawyer5103 Місяць тому +5

      Thanks for sharing. That is useful info for me. And I’m glad you are feeling better.

    • @karadiberlino
      @karadiberlino Місяць тому

      @@shanesawyer5103❤

    • @pavelvalenta2426
      @pavelvalenta2426 Місяць тому +2

      Responsibility to yourselves and to others, sounds like Jordan Peterson recepy for meaning and antidote to depresion. :) Good for you.

    • @DimitriTheBarbarian
      @DimitriTheBarbarian 25 днів тому

      Nice Sherlock. Having kids gives you purpose in life. Who knew

  • @user-ee1fn4vt8b
    @user-ee1fn4vt8b Місяць тому +41

    I really like the distinction they're making between low moods and depression. A lot of the internet really focuses on mental health from a disorder point of view, but even totally normal people have low periods and it's interesting to think about how you can do things to minimize those moods or the occurrence of them.

    • @scottstorchfan
      @scottstorchfan Місяць тому

      Having low mood for more than 2 weeks is classified as clinical depression

    • @NoctLightCloud
      @NoctLightCloud 27 днів тому

      ​@@scottstorchfanthen everyone I know is depressed

  • @livingrickroll1576
    @livingrickroll1576 28 днів тому +3

    Yo the flipping background actually sets the mood I don’t care how stupid people think it is it honestly is just so good at creating a scene.

  • @Garrus1995
    @Garrus1995 28 днів тому +11

    I feel like it’s solid advice for people who actually have friends. I’ve reached a point in my life where I literally have no friends. The only contacts in my phone are family members and my work superiors. I legitimately don’t understand how to make friends as an adult.

    • @chrisconover1971
      @chrisconover1971 28 днів тому

      Hang in there 🙏

    • @Garrus1995
      @Garrus1995 28 днів тому

      @@chrisconover1971 It’s so hard, though.

    • @concertautist4474
      @concertautist4474 28 днів тому +1

      Shared experience is a great way to start a friendship.
      A trip or holiday with a group can help built the foundations of a friendship.

    • @Garrus1995
      @Garrus1995 26 днів тому

      @@concertautist4474 With a group, sure. But where is the group? Who are these people? You don’t typically go on a trip with people you don’t know and that’s the issue right there; I don’t really know anyone.

    • @Alex-tm4th
      @Alex-tm4th 25 днів тому

      Yeah man all my friends died and the only people I have left is the last of my immediate family. It fucking blows. I don’t know how to find anything anymore.

  • @mustafabaris9681
    @mustafabaris9681 Місяць тому +29

    I watched an eye-opening jaw-dropping episode on the pernicious effects of alcohol done by Andrew Huberman and went cold turkey quit alcohol .. My anxiety as well as the depression went away within weeks ... I am never drinking again and will be forever grateful for Andrew for that wonderful episode !

    • @shanesawyer5103
      @shanesawyer5103 Місяць тому +1

      Nice!

    • @DimitriTheBarbarian
      @DimitriTheBarbarian 25 днів тому

      😂 let’s hope this is sarcasm

    • @mustafabaris9681
      @mustafabaris9681 24 дні тому

      @@DimitriTheBarbarian It is very true my man.. Alcohol creates anxiety , Andrew Huberman talks about the baseline , meaning your normal state of mind, when people often consume alcohol even if they may go days without drinking it , because of it's structure to be water-soluable meaning alcohol gets into every cell in your body and does extensive damage , it also effects your mood by getting into your brain cells so your baseline happiness actually goes down as a result of consuming alcohol. It simply means, when you are sober you still get very anxious if you often consume alcohol ..

    • @DimitriTheBarbarian
      @DimitriTheBarbarian 24 дні тому

      @@mustafabaris9681 lol whatever. I can prove that eating hamburger is a coping mechanism against anxiety and depression

    • @AlexanderAl-gc9qz
      @AlexanderAl-gc9qz 20 днів тому

      @@DimitriTheBarbarian then go ahead please,try explaining how it does that compared to the ethanol, specifically in quantities that people drink it and is it the same depressant effect with the sludge syndrome in neurons, how many people commit crimes after burgers.

  • @malcolmlarri8236
    @malcolmlarri8236 29 днів тому +2

    Tim is a huge positive influence on my life over the last decade - very grateful for his podcast and books which have been like an ongoing MBA - as a high school dropout this has been HUGE for me (and my bank account).

  • @julianagregori5888
    @julianagregori5888 Місяць тому +11

    Exercise, social activities, sleep.. always good ;-)

  • @katiegreene3960
    @katiegreene3960 Місяць тому +8

    Good advice if you have family and friends 😢

  • @thekidsallgrownup
    @thekidsallgrownup Місяць тому +2

    Love this, experienced the EXACT circumstance where one of my interests were down but hit a PR the next day and suddenly everything was fine lol. Walking the path.

  • @how_you_talk
    @how_you_talk 28 днів тому +2

    I went through the comments and seriously being a human behaviour expert I see there is another bigger issue with people before sadness and that is how to make friends...how to communicate with people..how to see which ones are worth the friendship..which are not...I really wish schools teach these instead of regular subjects...

  • @johnl5316
    @johnl5316 Місяць тому +27

    having the shower be COLD at the shower's end helps

  • @LBBW94
    @LBBW94 Місяць тому

    Exercise is key. Prolonged feelings of uneasiness is definitely not ideal but some here and there in the short term can definitely be used for fuel in building something creative.

  • @nikeshkumar9055
    @nikeshkumar9055 Місяць тому +8

    Dope background

  • @jessreed3159
    @jessreed3159 29 днів тому +2

    Several week long trips per year with family and friends alone would cure all my depression 😅 forget the rest of that stuff if i could do that.

    • @angryox3102
      @angryox3102 28 днів тому +2

      I’d be a much happier person if I had the money and vacation time available to take MULTIPLE week trips in a year.

  • @zensvlognotapro
    @zensvlognotapro Місяць тому

    Love and purpose saved me from possible depression. I experienced super downdays or darknight of the soul. I feel so helpless especially when my children were still young. Because I wanna go to work but no one will take care of the children. That time between being a mom and being a professional I can't balance them.

  • @Zebra66
    @Zebra66 Місяць тому +10

    Exercise is important but it can't cure depression. In my experience too much can actually contribute to it by making you feel depleted.
    More than anything you must learn to control your thoughts and find a purpose in life.
    Allowing the negative committee in your head to run away with itself will cause fear, anxiety, insomnia and depression.
    This is why prayer is so beneficial. Forcing yourself to focus on something positive like showing gratitude for the blessings in your life or thinking about someone else for a change is life altering.

    • @bradthompson5383
      @bradthompson5383 Місяць тому

      If you are depressed the risk of doing too much exercise is negligible.

    • @Zebra66
      @Zebra66 Місяць тому +1

      @bradthompson5383 You are wrong. I've lived that cycle and seen it in others. People who think they can run their depression away and end up making it worse or injuring themselves.
      Some over-exercise. Others become lethargic and do nothing. Some flip flop between the two.
      A lot of depression is effected by hormone deficiencies. Low testosterone, for example, is often dismissed as depression. It makes injuries more likely.
      It's better to think of depression as a symptom, not a condition, then figure out the cause before deciding how to treat it.
      Depending on the cause exercise could hurt them, kill them (heart failure can cause depression) or help a little. Probably a good idea to figure out which ahead of time...

    • @bradthompson5383
      @bradthompson5383 Місяць тому

      @Zebra66
      Anything to excess, to cover up something is bad. If you areexercising regularly doing so will improve things. To suggest otherwise is silly.

    • @Zebra66
      @Zebra66 Місяць тому

      @@bradthompson5383 it's silly to claim something is a solution before you understand the problem.

    • @bradthompson5383
      @bradthompson5383 Місяць тому

      @@Zebra66
      I didn't say it's a solution. Don't lie by putting words in my mouth.
      And prayer to a demon that commands genocides and genital mutilation is immoral.

  • @CaelanTierney
    @CaelanTierney Місяць тому +2

    The production level here is incredible Chris. Fair play.

  • @smartman123
    @smartman123 20 днів тому

    100 % correct

  • @cag1
    @cag1 Місяць тому +4

    Really cool that Tim is on some podcasts as a guest again. He was also on My First Million. Any other ones I missed?

    • @jaywon06
      @jaywon06 Місяць тому

      Joe rogan

    • @cag1
      @cag1 Місяць тому

      @@jaywon06 over 10 years ago, right? Not recently. I meant recently.

    • @deinemiesemutter4661
      @deinemiesemutter4661 Місяць тому

      Huberman as well 😊

  • @techjunky82
    @techjunky82 Місяць тому +6

    Micro dose psilocybin. Worked wonders for me. I had been on Cymbalta for neuropathy for over a year. And I really didn’t like it after a while. I didn’t like who I was. And it didn’t give me enough relief to justify it. So I went off it. And for months after I was an emotional roller coaster. Mostly just depression. I decided to try micro dosing. And it changed everything for me almost immediately. I was only doing it once to twice a week. I have felt 2 kinds of depression. One is despair. That’s when u focus to much on things in life that aren’t going your way. This one felt chemical. Like I had no power to get out of it. And I couldn’t enjoy anything. I think that’s why it worked so well. Because it changed me on a chemical level. I never even took enough to feel any effects at all. It’s absolutely crazy how well it worked. Anecdotally I know. But I hope people look into it and it helps them. Not medical advice. Do your own research.

    • @h4ck3rd4wg
      @h4ck3rd4wg Місяць тому

      what do you do about the despair one

  • @mischievouscat296
    @mischievouscat296 Місяць тому +24

    Well, you are assuming I have that many good friends and able to take time off for several weeks a year. Ha!

    • @Johnnykendall
      @Johnnykendall Місяць тому +2

      Get a better job and be a better friend! Take action pal!

    • @mattyb808
      @mattyb808 Місяць тому +4

      We should stick to cold exposure and movement the rest is a bonus for most.

    • @griffinsdad9820
      @griffinsdad9820 Місяць тому +4

      Ikr. Lol but I can try a cold bath

    • @tobik2627
      @tobik2627 Місяць тому +1

      It’s not you daily weekly or annual routine. Think in decades and centuries!!!

    • @NoctLightCloud
      @NoctLightCloud 27 днів тому +1

      ​@@Johnnykendall"get rich"😂👌 what a piece of advice.

  • @RossDoughty
    @RossDoughty Місяць тому +3

    These are all really good, assuming you have friends.

  • @Bubbagump871
    @Bubbagump871 Місяць тому +4

    What if you're over 50 and don't have any friends? I haven't looked forward to anything in the last 10 years.

  • @oscarabizanda9615
    @oscarabizanda9615 Місяць тому

    Hi there
    I have been listening and watching Modern Wisdom for more than 2 years now, also subscribed for a while now.
    I have one piece of feedback only about the UA-cam shows, I find the background very distracting and makes it hard to enjoy fully the conversations.
    I love the content, however I now consume Modern Wisdom solely in the podcast format.
    Please consider going back to the previous realistic, normal, maybe boring for some background.
    Congratulations for all the good content you are putting out there

  • @jubben331
    @jubben331 Місяць тому

    Question: use cold showers for a rainy day so to speak or regularly? The latter would lead to adaptation which means the stimuli response of cold exposure lessens over time....

  • @TheWittyVitor
    @TheWittyVitor 28 днів тому

    Diversity is our strength. It feels right in this context 🎉🎉🎉

  • @julianagregori5888
    @julianagregori5888 Місяць тому

    So, besides the supplement sponsor there is Huberman's PR.. worth looking who has ownership of the company..

  • @The6thShadow
    @The6thShadow Місяць тому +19

    I don't know if cold exposure also includes my girlfriend being cold towards me.😅
    It's making me damn sad though.

    • @BorisBidjanSaberi11
      @BorisBidjanSaberi11 Місяць тому +2

      Hope she realizes that being cold was a response to her parents. She can change it but you two need extra discussion and compassion. Goodluck man

    • @The6thShadow
      @The6thShadow Місяць тому +1

      @@BorisBidjanSaberi11 thank you for this man

    • @BorisBidjanSaberi11
      @BorisBidjanSaberi11 Місяць тому +3

      @@The6thShadow I've been through the same thing brother... Until we both realized we just had our guards up all the time. Many people do and don't realize it, it's to protect ourselves. Best of luck

    • @The6thShadow
      @The6thShadow Місяць тому +1

      @@BorisBidjanSaberi11 God bless you brother. I didn't expect to receive such wisdom on the internet.
      I really treat her as my best friend yet here I am left with no one to share what I'm feeling so I took the chance to comment in this video.

    • @slayerspam
      @slayerspam Місяць тому +1

      Hahaha I don't mean to laugh at your suffering, but it's so funny the way you phrased that

  • @tallndorky
    @tallndorky Місяць тому +8

    3-4 friends!!!

    • @annb1
      @annb1 Місяць тому +4

      He said as many as ten! Can you imagine trying to get 10 people to commit to that these days?

  • @fredzama8425
    @fredzama8425 Місяць тому

    WHERE IS THE FULL VIDEO?

  • @astreakaito5625
    @astreakaito5625 Місяць тому +2

    "How to cope?"

  • @taturay
    @taturay Місяць тому +1

    Sitting dow to have a chat with the most interesting people in the world is not a sacrifice Chris... even if i was in a hangover i would not cancel either

  • @kaoticmind09
    @kaoticmind09 Місяць тому +2

    Wish these people had kids they were involved with to give advice for the rest of us...

    • @angryox3102
      @angryox3102 28 днів тому +1

      It’s so obvious that these two guys have a lot of free time, extra money, and low stress jobs.

    • @kaoticmind09
      @kaoticmind09 28 днів тому

      @@angryox3102 yuuuup. And it's not to just use excuses but I have a hard time going outside even digging a hole in the garden without my kids screaming for my attention.

  • @_deep6186
    @_deep6186 Місяць тому

    I feel so pressured to drink in university, It's just uncomfortable

  • @smartman123
    @smartman123 20 днів тому

    you guys look like brothers really like 100 % like brothers

  • @kittypurry4056
    @kittypurry4056 Місяць тому

  • @youngcolt5305
    @youngcolt5305 Місяць тому +1

    Curious abt the background... Did u record this episode in a church?

  • @chrisbutler6597
    @chrisbutler6597 29 днів тому

    What if you don't have friends

  • @dolphin7860
    @dolphin7860 Місяць тому +6

    Chris! You should a pod in a prehistoric setting with Dinosaurs walking in the background!!! I want to learn about male loneliness and the social media crisis with a giant TRex in the background 😂

    • @BorisBidjanSaberi11
      @BorisBidjanSaberi11 Місяць тому

      😂😂😂 yes

    • @1234567marks
      @1234567marks Місяць тому

      Top tip guys, girls aren’t interested in dinosaurs 😏

    • @dolphin7860
      @dolphin7860 Місяць тому +2

      @@1234567marks no way bro!!! Girls love Raptors and stegosauruses!!!😂😂😂

  • @ricol2465
    @ricol2465 Місяць тому +5

    Must be nice to be so wealthy that 4-5 weeks of trips a year are no problem. Working for jerks and never getting time off is pretty depressing. If I got a month or two off every year I would feel better, too. Hey, if you aren't diversified and just work one job (for 10-12 hours a day), find time for rock-climbing? Can we get advice for people who aren't rich?

    • @shanesawyer5103
      @shanesawyer5103 Місяць тому +1

      Word

    • @joshuasmith5368
      @joshuasmith5368 Місяць тому

      Maybe not the exact specifics of what is being said here, but the general guidelines have worked incredibly well for me for over a decade and a half. My income bounces between 18-24k a year. I know wealthy can be a vague amorphous term, yet I am somewhat confident that most people in our culture would not consider that to be wealthy. I have worked for jerks. That in itself was cause for low mood. I walked away. There are plenty of ways to obtain a sufficient sustainable income. Another cause for low mood would be always thinking that the answer to what is a sufficient sustainable income for me is “more” or “mine is not enough”.

  • @Santon-Motho
    @Santon-Motho Місяць тому

    Jack Wilshere, but as a lifestyle guru.

  • @toddkobell4441
    @toddkobell4441 Місяць тому +2

    You can hang out with friends without drinking and if that's not possible then you probably don't have the right friends or the right mindset and maybe you should worked on that

  • @user-nd4xz2hj5z
    @user-nd4xz2hj5z Місяць тому

    These clips are like spoiling the full podcast.

  • @SS-vt4hz
    @SS-vt4hz Місяць тому +2

    This video is packed with alpha

  • @user-ci5eq1fr2s
    @user-ci5eq1fr2s Місяць тому +1

    How can you expect calm and peace in mind when you had invaded million of people in iraq afghanistan japan how can you expect that united state of israel and america have blood of millions of kids in hands how can you expect the peace in your heart

  • @astreakaito5625
    @astreakaito5625 Місяць тому

    5:35 true.. been feeling terrible ever since I had to give up on art due to ai.

    • @trevorf2098
      @trevorf2098 Місяць тому

      Why would you have to give up on art due to AI?

  • @Szilvia_Szilvia
    @Szilvia_Szilvia Місяць тому

    If you want to correct your T, fix your diet before you touch any supplements...

  • @dsha2006
    @dsha2006 Місяць тому

    Religion can help you with that existential spiral.

  • @stevenkohls9717
    @stevenkohls9717 Місяць тому

    I wonder why he prefers slightly smaller people for his wilderness adventures 🤔

  • @ba8e
    @ba8e Місяць тому

    MONEY 😆

  • @mike_romine
    @mike_romine Місяць тому

    Where is having millions of dollars come in to play?

  • @NaeemMahmood
    @NaeemMahmood 25 днів тому

    lol you guys take yourselves way too seriously

  • @richardthegingerbo909
    @richardthegingerbo909 Місяць тому +6

    Should I listen to Tim Ferriss? Profound or bullsh!t artist?

    • @tallndorky
      @tallndorky Місяць тому +5

      Seems intelligent, curious and humble to me.

    • @ryano952
      @ryano952 Місяць тому +4

      He’s awesome, definitely check his podcast out. Lots of experts and helpful conversations

    • @MrSean737
      @MrSean737 Місяць тому +1

      I mean the stuff he says seems scientifically proven so I trust him

    • @richardthegingerbo909
      @richardthegingerbo909 Місяць тому

      @@MrSean737 For instance?

    • @TanakaJulian
      @TanakaJulian Місяць тому +1

      Don't judge him by the titles of his books.