The inner monologue on insanity mode is frustrating for sure. Ive recently been medicated and it's actually created almost silence. And it's scary on this side too. Ive started listening to house and dnb just to feel calm as the chaos is missing I also feel so slow. Never thought the loud mind would be something to miss. If any of you ever get medicated, be prepared. It's a mad adjustment
To James, it seems you prefer niche fragrances over designer, so my niche recommendations for gourmand/vanilla are Guerlain Spiritueuse Double Vanille, Killian Angels Share, Bond No 9 Tribecca and Lafayette, Nishane Hundred Silent Ways, BDK Velvet Tonka and Gris Charnel, Montale Arabians Tonka, Mancera Vanilla Aoud or Black Vanilla, I have some Xerjoff recs too but I'm unsure if they hit the mark 🤔. ALSO check out this fragrance house called Argos. They are so good, long lasting and have the most beautiful bottles to add to your collection. Each fragrance is inspired by Greek/Roman mythology so every description comes with lore. I recommend getting their sample set, because they are all pretty complex. I think you may like Sacred Flame and Adonis Awakens.
The boys have been looking scrumptious lately! The cardigan, the glasses, 2 piece matching set… *chef’s kiss*. Also James needs to make his New Year’s resolution to control his anger and competitiveness lol it’s getting old
They're all competitive and all of them, except Ellis, showed that today. Didn't Rem say he'd walk out the studio? Didn't Fuhad scream/yell/growl at one of his correct answers? They can all be themselves, not just 3 out of 4 when it comes to being competitive. 😊 ✌🏽
The way James fluttered his lashes when he had Fuhad sniffing his neck, just to make Fuhad squirm when he later finds out, is the funniest thing! James is too funny 😂
13:51 I don’t know if this weird but everything Fuhad said about the brain and how he forgets things but remembers certain things and music gives him peace is exactly how I feel I have undiagnosed ADHD and in Nigeria nobody really believe people when they say they have mental illness that stresses them imagine walking on the road and have brain fog and it’s been very hard for me to explain how I feel and the trouble I’m facing Thanks to Fuhad I know how to explain and express my situation to everybody but the issue is will they understand me well enough to help me. Nevertheless this explanation has helped me 😌🙏🏾
Fuhad literally explains what I go through word for word; in the sense of overthinking and not remembering. I realize that I have an issue being present, and also If I don't have an interest in something I don't give it my energy or time. It' 's sometimes scary to have someone going through the same thing you're going through. I feel seen 😭
0:26 JAMES’ giddiness is flipping hilarious! Let me just say, you both sharing about how you are desiring improvement and addressing your concerns…this convo is so needed. Inner monologue is so real…and I totally get it. Again, thank you both. ❤️
Please go directly to 45:25 to hear Fuhad growl; and then to hear him FULL ON ROAR at 45:49....I HOLLLLERRRRDDDDD. I would've jumped OUT OF MY EFFING SKIN had I been there in the studio.🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I'll be 43 in March and I've had ADHD all my life. These days it's too much a pill for everything. When I was a kid, we didn't have that issue. We had to learn to adapt. Teachers spent time with students, and parents paid attention to their kids. My grandpa taught me how to play chess and train my brain to focus on the task at hand. The internal monologue is facts, and I struggle with it daily. But instead of my parents having a doctor give me a pill for whatever, they took measures to help me learn to adapt and/or control my obstacles. We need more of the old-school methods in my opinion. It's been a lovely experience to see the growth and personal improvement you guys have made. I just wish you would show Ellis and Rem more during the show. They're a big part of it for a lot of us. But I love the content, love the channel, and I'm excited to see what you have in store. Love from the US
11:17 THIS is so relatable. I got diagnosed last January at 36y.o and it's so difficult to explain to people how exhausting it is living your life like this! Medication has been completely life changing as everything else I've ever tried just hasn't worked. The difference is night and day, I never knew life could feel this easy and the relief is massive. So much love for them talking about this 💕💕💕💕💕
Really liked the conversation at the start of this . The vulnerability is refreshing and I hope u continue to figure yourselves out . More blessings to you guys this coming year . Happy new year everyone, God bless you🫶🏽
Fuhad's loud inner monologue really resonates with me and I agree with James on implementing ways to work with how your brain works instead of trying to change it 👌🏿
16:01 I don’t have a “voiced” inner monologue. Meaning I can’t hear my thoughts but I do see my thoughts in words and subtitles almost. My thoughts appear to me as text in my head or wherever I cast them. It’s still hard to focus with it 😂 the grass isn’t always greener
you literally read your thoughts?? i’m picturing like a karaoke machine… because i do have an inner monologue and everything appears in my brain as pictures. for example reading, the voice in my head is reading while my brain plays it out as a movie
@ yes! So it’s closer to a lyric music video. If my head is scrambled and my thoughts are all over the place, Ill see a pile of words jumbled and will have to sift through everything and what I’m actually trying to say gets highlighted out of the pile. It’s been like this for as long as I can remember. I was so shook to know people could hear themselves in their head
My son (23) has just been diagnosed with ADHD and i now realise that i also have it because I thought his struggles were "normal". He has had coaching and is on Meds and the difference is insane. I desperately want to to be diagnosed but the waiting list is about 6 years!
The more you gain followers, you will also gain haters. People hate to see people succeed, & those people are the problem that none of us need to worry about! You have more love from your CB’s that will always surpass them❤
That inner monologue/ getting so distracted you have to replay shit over and over is SO real. I didn't know other people were as bad as me, I thought my brain was just broken lmao. Love you daddies
James had me in tears with the facials he’s making while Fuhad was smelling his neck to smell the new cologne he had on 😂😂 Also, oldie but goodie fragrance is Acqua Di Gio by Giorgio Armani. It still has me breaking my neck to see what the man looks like while wearing it, 13 years later lol
I feel like the working for the weekend is everywhere. Even here in America we all say on Monday “can’t wait until Friday” It’s just a normal working thing I think
That inner monologue issshh is crazy Fuhad bro, I have OCD and I like planning and writing everything so it hits me hard as well, I end up just having the movie or series on but having not watched it at all
Oooo an hour and a half🎉 also Fuhad, don’t wait till you’re older to just be tested for ADHD, I turned 40 and just found out and the meds have turned that monologue off and it’s amazing! Otherwise my suggestion is caffeine because you brain NEEDS an upper chemically… otherwise you’re going to do twice the work to do the same as everyone else
Seems like an adventure to an apothecary/perfume bar is in store. This way James can create exactly what he wants and name it himself. He obviosly knows his notes/ingredients.
Y'all have been keeping my Mondays this year!!! So thankful you've continued to upload every week even with the busy schedules, it means the most to us! Happy New Year!!
I’ve never related to somebody’s brain so much … Fuhad describing his brain activity and loudness sounds exactly like mine on a day to day basis and I get so overwhelmed with it .
Literally not even 20 seconds into the episode and James is already flirting 😭 Fuhad makes more than 2 seconds of eye contact with him and he’s smirking and blushing. “I don’t-it-you never look at me with such intensity, it made me nervous” ????? Tell me why he’s stumbling over his words 😭😭 he can’t keep getting away with this
James - you need Jean Paul Gualtier -Le Male Elixir, or Scandal Absolu. Hugo Boss - The Scent Elixir is also fantastic and if you want cacao and vanilla, get Carolina Herrera Bad Boy Extreme! Also Althair is NOT a subtle fragrance, I think you might just be going nose blind (anosmic).
Hey Fuhad. I go through pretty much the same mind thing. When it comes to remembering things. I sometimes need that trigger to remember. The people in my life know this is how I am and I accept this is how I am. But I always try to be better. By taking down note, making lists,and setting alarms. For example I would set an alarm for like 2:55. Then I would write title saying “Therapy session in 5 minutes ” it helps me greatly. I hope this method of being on top of things helps you.
James Licking his Lips, When Fuhad Was Smelling His Perfume Was Toooooo Funny🙅😭💀 Can't Defend James No More
JAMES IS THE KING OF SUS!!!!! LMBO (STILL LOVE HIM, BUT....??) 😂😂
Swearssss😂
At that point he's on his own lol😂
I can't be the only one who is obsessed with our Daddies upgraded wardrobe 😭😭. It's so mature..... Very Cutesy as Fuhad said
LOVING ITTTTT
Yes please!!!
I’m with you guys!
Can anyone tell me where Fueges set is from!! I can’t read the brand for the life of me
init its a fkn vibe
I've never related to Fuhad like today when he was talking about the inner monologue thing. Sometimes I feel like screaming, "Shut up!!"
Faaaaacts! This is also why sleep is a luxury to me. My brain's always busy!
1000% yes!
Same. People think adhd is fun and quirky but it's a pain in the butt.
The inner monologue on insanity mode is frustrating for sure.
Ive recently been medicated and it's actually created almost silence. And it's scary on this side too.
Ive started listening to house and dnb just to feel calm as the chaos is missing
I also feel so slow.
Never thought the loud mind would be something to miss.
If any of you ever get medicated, be prepared. It's a mad adjustment
@thedorkasaur I haven't been medicated in over 10 years now. Only thing I can remember is that I could concentrate for longer periods of time
James' old PT clients watching this video calling them butters like: 👁👄👁
😂😊
😂😂😂😂😂
My thoughts exactly 😂😂😂
Im crying😂
Hey he called all women from atalanta butters so this is mild for him.
Why is Fuhad making James blush with that eye contact 😂😂😂
We all know why, that gym fanfic stays on his mind
Fuhad is the king of eye contact 😂😂😂
Because James is the girlfriend of this duo 🤣🤣
@@mysliktmyou took the words right out of my mouth lol I was going to say we all know why 😂
James is SO sus it makes it funny
"You never look me with such intensity, it made me nervous" Chhiiilllddd!!! I just begun the video you mahn!! 😂😂😂❤❤❤
That was crazy from James😭
@keisha7412 IKR!!!! 😂😂😂
Took me tf out like broooo😂😅
James got lost in those eyes for 2 entire seconds😂
@@BandileNzimande 😂😂
Fuhad smelling James had me laughing so hard! "Trying to find my scent" and Fuhad pulling Jame's collar like, "GET OVER HERE!!" lmao 😂😂
If he doesn’t love me like James loves Fuhad, it ain’t for me. 😂😅
i swear Fuhad knows what he’s doing with those glasses and gold chainnnn😩
If it's prescription glasses, I hope he keeps them forever 😅 and never get the surgery
Right KEEP IT GOING
His he gay
To James, it seems you prefer niche fragrances over designer, so my niche recommendations for gourmand/vanilla are Guerlain Spiritueuse Double Vanille, Killian Angels Share, Bond No 9 Tribecca and Lafayette, Nishane Hundred Silent Ways, BDK Velvet Tonka and Gris Charnel, Montale Arabians Tonka, Mancera Vanilla Aoud or Black Vanilla, I have some Xerjoff recs too but I'm unsure if they hit the mark 🤔.
ALSO check out this fragrance house called Argos. They are so good, long lasting and have the most beautiful bottles to add to your collection. Each fragrance is inspired by Greek/Roman mythology so every description comes with lore. I recommend getting their sample set, because they are all pretty complex. I think you may like Sacred Flame and Adonis Awakens.
I’d also say Penhaligons halfeti is a pretty solid daily
Thanks for the free game much appreciated
I recommended Hundred silent ways because it seems to his taste
I watched your videos back to back all day every day during my pregnancy, and now my newborn only falls asleep when I put on one of your videos 😂
Rem at 40:06 is EVERYTHING! "imma run out this studio and never come back" 🤣
“I’M TRYINGGGG!!!”😭😭😭😭😭✋🏽
Fuhad with those glasses 😅 🥰 and James with that sweater 😍
Like I can't breathe!
That Mr. Rogers energy. 🎶🎹 "It's a beautiful day in the neighborhood...Would you be mine. could you be mine..."🎵
Approaching uncle mode
You clocked it too? I paused the video just to stare 😂
They look like Dilfs fr
So relate to Fu's inner monologue, I frequently realise I have been lost in my inner thoughts and have missed chunks of a meeting, film etc.
Fuhad looks FINEEE
👀
The boys have been looking scrumptious lately! The cardigan, the glasses, 2 piece matching set… *chef’s kiss*. Also James needs to make his New Year’s resolution to control his anger and competitiveness lol it’s getting old
james needs to make a new years resolution to keep his new years resolutions
Is that not all of us 😢
They're all competitive and all of them, except Ellis, showed that today. Didn't Rem say he'd walk out the studio? Didn't Fuhad scream/yell/growl at one of his correct answers? They can all be themselves, not just 3 out of 4 when it comes to being competitive. 😊
✌🏽
How they romanticize going to the pen is crazy!! 😂😂
Lowkey, everyone in the room was happy James won. He was angry when it seemed like he was losing, man is too competitive 😂😂
Rem trying to cheer James up when he was sulking was soo sweet lol ❤
The way James fluttered his lashes when he had Fuhad sniffing his neck, just to make Fuhad squirm when he later finds out, is the funniest thing! James is too funny 😂
13:51 I don’t know if this weird but everything Fuhad said about the brain and how he forgets things but remembers certain things and music gives him peace is exactly how I feel I have undiagnosed ADHD and in Nigeria nobody really believe people when they say they have mental illness that stresses them imagine walking on the road and have brain fog and it’s been very hard for me to explain how I feel and the trouble I’m facing
Thanks to Fuhad I know how to explain and express my situation to everybody but the issue is will they understand me well enough to help me. Nevertheless this explanation has helped me 😌🙏🏾
Fuhad literally explains what I go through word for word; in the sense of overthinking and not remembering. I realize that I have an issue being present, and also If I don't have an interest in something I don't give it my energy or time. It' 's sometimes scary to have someone going through the same thing you're going through. I feel seen 😭
What a year these guys have had! Wishing everyone a prosperous 2025!
Fuhad on ADHD -----> daily struggles and so recognizable
How does one not like James bro.He is the pinnacle of likeable😂.
0:26 JAMES’ giddiness is flipping hilarious!
Let me just say, you both sharing about how you are desiring improvement and addressing your concerns…this convo is so needed. Inner monologue is so real…and I totally get it. Again, thank you both. ❤️
1:25:24 "I'm trying to be polite ; Fuck off" 😂😂😂😂. HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!!
Watching your content always brightens my mood.
"It sounds like there is a gunman in there"...Dat one had me cackling!
Please go directly to 45:25 to hear Fuhad growl; and then to hear him FULL ON ROAR at 45:49....I HOLLLLERRRRDDDDD. I would've jumped OUT OF MY EFFING SKIN had I been there in the studio.🤣😂🤣😂🤣
😍😍😍😍😍
@ IKR? ❤️
Coming back to this when I’m ovulating 🤤
@ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Best way to wrap up 2024! Thanks SNG for the laughs, the memories and everything in between! 2025 ain’t ready for the daddies and their babies ❤️❤️❤️
James being so damn competitive in these games makes me laugh so much 😂
“Wrong ! “ with his little expo marker 😂
James: "Wet floor sign, Wet floor sign, Wet floor sign"
James!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
56:07rem killed me with that rawtid😂 😂😂🇯🇲🇯🇲
Frr i was looking for this comment😂
I'll be 43 in March and I've had ADHD all my life. These days it's too much a pill for everything. When I was a kid, we didn't have that issue. We had to learn to adapt. Teachers spent time with students, and parents paid attention to their kids. My grandpa taught me how to play chess and train my brain to focus on the task at hand. The internal monologue is facts, and I struggle with it daily. But instead of my parents having a doctor give me a pill for whatever, they took measures to help me learn to adapt and/or control my obstacles. We need more of the old-school methods in my opinion. It's been a lovely experience to see the growth and personal improvement you guys have made. I just wish you would show Ellis and Rem more during the show. They're a big part of it for a lot of us. But I love the content, love the channel, and I'm excited to see what you have in store. Love from the US
31:54 james searching for the blackest female names is spinning me for some reason😂😂😂
11:17 THIS is so relatable. I got diagnosed last January at 36y.o and it's so difficult to explain to people how exhausting it is living your life like this! Medication has been completely life changing as everything else I've ever tried just hasn't worked. The difference is night and day, I never knew life could feel this easy and the relief is massive.
So much love for them talking about this 💕💕💕💕💕
Hearing these gym stories while I’m at a the gym is hilarious 😂
Ellis liking English food is Soo funny to me 😂😂😂😂
Hearing the boys talking about fragrances which is one of my favorite hobbies was incredible, James seems to like gourmands
I love these end of year episodes/reviews. . . It gets personal and heart warming
James you should try Arabian perfumes, especially Kamhra or something like that. Very vanilla very strong and it lasts ages
those first 40 seconds are golden ; James and Fuhad, please don't ever stop😊
James sulking is the best thing I have ever witnessed. 😂❤
Really liked the conversation at the start of this . The vulnerability is refreshing and I hope u continue to figure yourselves out . More blessings to you guys this coming year . Happy new year everyone, God bless you🫶🏽
Fuhad's loud inner monologue really resonates with me and I agree with James on implementing ways to work with how your brain works instead of trying to change it 👌🏿
best duo on the planet, cant get enough of these man (pause)
Monday funday... Letsss goooo!!!🔥🔥🫡♥️
Fuhad just said....I forget a lot too but once someone says something then I remember.This is why I love this show.Thank you ❤
My husband can suddenly lock in on me and I feel super shy and school girl crush and I've known this man for years. 😅😅
Yes!! That inner monologue is so serious. Perfect way to explain it
They way the wardrobe has improved! 👩🏽🍳💋😘 like yall care that you’re at work! Love it
My prayers has been answered and the episode is finally more than 50 minutes 😭💯
Hearing Fuhad talk about how his inner monologue works and stops when listening to music makes me feel so validated. IT BE LIKE THAT
James with the grey cardigan is 🔥🔥🔥💖💖💖
It sounds like the next patreon episode is James and Fuhad going through the process of making their own perfume scent
Fugas with the glasses and gold chain INSTANTLY 4 points added to his Aura
16:01 I don’t have a “voiced” inner monologue. Meaning I can’t hear my thoughts but I do see my thoughts in words and subtitles almost. My thoughts appear to me as text in my head or wherever I cast them. It’s still hard to focus with it 😂 the grass isn’t always greener
you literally read your thoughts?? i’m picturing like a karaoke machine… because i do have an inner monologue and everything appears in my brain as pictures. for example reading, the voice in my head is reading while my brain plays it out as a movie
@ yes! So it’s closer to a lyric music video. If my head is scrambled and my thoughts are all over the place, Ill see a pile of words jumbled and will have to sift through everything and what I’m actually trying to say gets highlighted out of the pile. It’s been like this for as long as I can remember. I was so shook to know people could hear themselves in their head
@@jordynkess😮
Your spelling but be on point. Wow 🤯
That’s wild omg 😮😅
Ellis says ‘Fair’ at least 20 times every episode 😂
Fuhad is so expressive, it's beautiful even if it's usually funny😂❤
1:50 James giving out the light skin playbook 😂
😂😂
Fuhad and his little glasses are so cute 😭😭
Fuhad my good sir that chocolate brown and glasses combo is a real flex! my my my
My son (23) has just been diagnosed with ADHD and i now realise that i also have it because I thought his struggles were "normal". He has had coaching and is on Meds and the difference is insane. I desperately want to to be diagnosed but the waiting list is about 6 years!
James what is going onnnn hahahah!!! That was aaaaalmost uncomfy hahahaaa
The best advice I ever received about scents was "they should get a hint and want to get closer. Not smell it from a distance". Subtle is good.
Fuhad with his glasses is big DADDY energy ❤😍
Found you guys this year and I cannot wait to see what 2025 has in store for yall 💌✨❤️
Monday funday with no WORK... just me & this hot cuppa tea
James nearly always wins. I say they all do an iq test for fun lol. Although it might inflate James' ego a bit more haha but Id love to see it 😂
The more you gain followers, you will also gain haters. People hate to see people succeed, & those people are the problem that none of us need to worry about! You have more love from your CB’s that will always surpass them❤
Fuhad making James stutter and blush less than a minute in is JOKES
This was a great episode ❤ I laughed the whole time 😂
55:40 James sounds so cute with his little “mhm” 😂
James quoted freakaleek lyrics when he was listing womens names during the cheating part lmaoo
THE FIRST 30 SECONDS OF THE POD IS WHY I WATCH THESE GUYS AHAHHAHAHAHHAHA
That inner monologue/ getting so distracted you have to replay shit over and over is SO real. I didn't know other people were as bad as me, I thought my brain was just broken lmao. Love you daddies
James had me in tears with the facials he’s making while Fuhad was smelling his neck to smell the new cologne he had on 😂😂
Also, oldie but goodie fragrance is Acqua Di Gio by Giorgio Armani. It still has me breaking my neck to see what the man looks like while wearing it, 13 years later lol
James: 15:29
Me: 🎶🎵Say my name, Say my name 🎶🎵
🤣🤣🤣
Thank you SNG for being the best part of this year...open invitation to return to Seattle anytime!!
For fragrances i recommend jean paul gartier elixer, versace eros, prada black and valentino
I feel like the working for the weekend is everywhere. Even here in America we all say on Monday “can’t wait until Friday”
It’s just a normal working thing I think
Nah Fuhad talking about how his mind works with the loud monologue really resonated with me
So cute how REM cheered James up for the sports segment 😅😢😂❤
That inner monologue issshh is crazy Fuhad bro, I have OCD and I like planning and writing everything so it hits me hard as well, I end up just having the movie or series on but having not watched it at all
Maybe for a log cabin episode, invite a fragrance expert. Arabian scents are where it’s at!
Oooo an hour and a half🎉 also Fuhad, don’t wait till you’re older to just be tested for ADHD, I turned 40 and just found out and the meds have turned that monologue off and it’s amazing! Otherwise my suggestion is caffeine because you brain NEEDS an upper chemically… otherwise you’re going to do twice the work to do the same as everyone else
CAN WE ADD A SUS COUNTER FOR JAMES ON THE CORNER OF THE VIDEOS? Lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Seems like an adventure to an apothecary/perfume bar is in store. This way James can create exactly what he wants and name it himself. He obviosly knows his notes/ingredients.
Y'all have been keeping my Mondays this year!!! So thankful you've continued to upload every week even with the busy schedules, it means the most to us! Happy New Year!!
I’ve never related to somebody’s brain so much … Fuhad describing his brain activity and loudness sounds exactly like mine on a day to day basis and I get so overwhelmed with it .
26:27 is my favorite 😂😂😂 Fuhad’s laughter get me every time!
Fuhad with the fresh cut and glasses ❤. Lawd have mercy. Happy new yrs guys
Love the episode. Ngl the quiz aint the same with the different voice over asking questions. It dont hit the same vibe
Literally not even 20 seconds into the episode and James is already flirting 😭 Fuhad makes more than 2 seconds of eye contact with him and he’s smirking and blushing. “I don’t-it-you never look at me with such intensity, it made me nervous” ????? Tell me why he’s stumbling over his words 😭😭 he can’t keep getting away with this
James - you need Jean Paul Gualtier -Le Male Elixir, or Scandal Absolu. Hugo Boss - The Scent Elixir is also fantastic and if you want cacao and vanilla, get Carolina Herrera Bad Boy Extreme! Also Althair is NOT a subtle fragrance, I think you might just be going nose blind (anosmic).
“2024 was our year till it wasn’t”sent me😭😭😂😂
Hey Fuhad. I go through pretty much the same mind thing. When it comes to remembering things. I sometimes need that trigger to remember. The people in my life know this is how I am and I accept this is how I am. But I always try to be better. By taking down note, making lists,and setting alarms. For example I would set an alarm for like 2:55. Then I would write title saying “Therapy session in 5 minutes ” it helps me greatly. I hope this method of being on top of things helps you.
Not my co worker asking me why I'm smiling so much watching you guys 😊😊
My daughter asked me the same thing