I’ve heard that reason you get songs stuck your head is because you don’t know know the words to the end, so you subconsciously sing the same part over and over. In order to get the song out of your head, sing the whole song until the end of it, or sing the part you have stuck in your head and slow down as if you’re ending the song. Your brain realizes you finished the song Usually that’s what I do and surprisingly it works for me!
I often get that muppet tune stuck in my head ma na ma na, you know that one. I think you're right though because when it's a song it's always the same section over and over that you end up humming or singing. I shall try this in future by looking up the song online and listening to the whole thing to see if it works. Hopefully it will because like you annoy yourself with ear worms (that's what I've always known them as).
I have been seeing a lot of people complaining that brands are releasing too much too fast for the everyday consumer so I am hoping the drugstore market has taken note and has scaled back on the quantity of releases to focus on quality of releases!
"Vicious"?? No ma'am! "Victorious"!! 💋💋 Feeling beautiful and confident positively improves every aspect of your life. Self care is very importa4nt and neglecting yourself puts a damper on every aspect of your life. Nobody wants that "vicious" cycle! 😘😘😘😘
I honestly CANT believe ppl actually call u out for your makeup!! Seriously?! I honestly couldn’t do what u do. People are so critical. Look in the mirror!! Truth is they’re just unhappy with themselves. You are absolutely beautiful and I LOVE your eye looks always.
Calling out her nose contour (unless done rudely) only benefits her. Having someone point out a mistake can help you to not make the same one in the future or push you to reevaluate and try a different approach.
I agree with K. Yes there are some people just saying it to be mean out of some insecurity but most of the time when trying out new techniques or products we're not 100% sure how we feel about it so we ask for opinions from friends. Same as when clothes shopping. That's why sometimes Tati will ask what we think about certain products.
The reason she gets called out is because, for better or worse, people see her as an authority figure. Subconsciously anything we see on TV or a screen becomes authority to SOME degree. And when that authority makes any mistake in the mind of the viewer (and has an open channel of communication), people will feel the need to be vocal about it. Can't really do anything about that... Just ignore and move on. She's absolutely right about the lights - cam lights make things look totally different. So I guess I'm just saying people will comment, and hopefully Tati will move past those comments and keep doing her thing with positivity in mind :)
Dear Tati, Just wanted you to know that I crave for the moment I get to bed after work, relax and watch your videos! You’re part of my “me time” and I could not be more grateful that you’re here everyday! Loads of love from Mexico ❤️
I love this look. How on earth does she hold the girls up? I have enhanced girls but I still need support since I gained like 50lbs after having them done 14years who. I know TMI LOL
Literally anyone can watch your channel makeup loving or not. Your advice literally applies to anyone with anything or any goals they want to accomplish I love it!!! Keep up the positivity
Girl I do the exact samething when I go to bed. Except I stress about something I said or done 20 years ago. Its by far worse when I know I have to get up early. It helps me somewhat to count my breaths and try not to think of anything.
I really like when you zoom in super close like in this video! It really helps to see the steps of each product application and makes it easier to follow as a tutorial. Love you so much Tati!! 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
liz I like Coffee with Dani’s sign in the background that says “It’s just make up.” People get so butt hurt and pissy over the silliest stuff. It literally washes right off and it isn’t your face, so calm the hell down. Lol
Some people are just here to spread their miserable attitudes & judge too harshly. I guess that’s what they use this platform for. Maybe they should just be ignored?!
When someone goes out of their way to tear someone else down based on something so trivial as contour -behind the comfort of a computer-they seriously need to re-evaluate their life lol...possibly get one, grow up and lighten up. 🙄
I just wanna say Tati that you are the sweetest most genuine person on youtube. Keep spreading a positive message and being an inspiration for people everywhere! Love you and hope you see this and it brings a smile to your face.
A way to get songs out of your head is to listen to the whole song. Your brain is trying to complete the song but because it forgot the ending it keeps repeating
When I cannot shut off my brain at night, I put on a TV show that is mostly talking, like Law & Order, and I close my eyes and listen to the show. By focusing of the dialogue in the show, it helps me to stop the "inward" dialogues going on in my head. It also stops me from focusing on the "I CAN'T FALL ASLEEP" thoughts. I will fall asleep without knowing it. Give it a try!
This is the ONLY way my boyfriend can fall asleep, he listens to ESPN or other sports shows and he’s OUT, but if the tv isn’t on he takes hours to fall asleep 😅
See I am completely opposite. If the room isn't completely silent, my brain will focus on whatever noise is in the background, such as a tv show like law & order SVU, and I will lay there for forever with my eyes shut just listening to every single word they are saying and picturing the damn scenes in my head. lol Kind of sucks too because my husband NEEDS the tv to be up so he can fall asleep. I usually just let the tv be turned up for awhile until he falls asleep (takes like 5 mins) and then I turn it all the way down as soon as I hear him breathing heavy.
as a smaller youtuber I literally still don’t know how to fix my lighting to make my skin look flawless while tati could be in a dark room with one light source and still have amazing skin!!
Hi Tati. My boyfriend sleeps terribly and I got him some aromatherapy sleep lotion from bath and body works and he went from sleeping an average of 2hrs a night to about 6 hrs a night. You should give it a try!!!
before you said you wearing foundation i was like WOWWWWW TATI your skin omg, i need HALO!! your skin looked so skin life!! wowwowwwwww thank you for always having our backs when it comes to drugstore makeup
I'm on my second month of Halo and my skin has never looked better. Trust me girl, you DO need Halo. I had terrible cystic acne on my chin, to the point where it would hurt to smile. Since being on Halo, all my acne has cleared and I haven't had a break out since.
I know the feeling of dread when you experience insomnia so I really feel for you Tati. As for me, I think using the Laneige Water Sleeping Mask worked. Love you!
I have a high stress job and it’s easy to bring those issues home, especially when all is quiet and your brain decides it’s a great time for your worst moments highlight reels. This time of the year as well....wonder day light savings time messes with my sleep cycles. I have tried a method to encourage positive/directed thinking. As you lay down, start intentionally thinking about a positive experience (time with family, meeting your significant other, finding your perfect shade) and truly try to remember how you felt. It helps to stop random thoughts and positive emotions. Love your channel. Hope you feel better.
All hail the Queen of bougie, drugstore, queen of truth, queen of Halo, queen of glow, queen of James, queen of uploads, of class.. What am I missing? Someone help I know there's more.. Anyway, all hail our beautiful queen Tati 👑❤
You are not the only one. I have been suffering insomnia a few weeks now and with a busy schedule. Probably the time zone changes, and seasons etc. I hope it gets better for you soon!
Tati do you do work in bed ever? Like even go through emails and stuff? I read online that if you’re constantly working in bed your brain eventually starts to associate being in bed with working and being awake instead of relaxing or sleeping. I used allllways do school work in my bed because it’s comfy and I could never ever fall asleep until like 2-3 am almost every night🙄 sooo I started strictly only working at my kitchen table or at my desk in my room and I can honestly say I get tired at a more reasonable time and my sleep is MUCH better.
this and no phones/screens at least an hour before bed. And turning the lights down a little and having a set night routine that you do every night really helps
I have heard this, and I’ve also heard that you should only associate your bed with sleeping, so it’s even better if you don’t lay around in your bed all evening watching Tv, etc. I’m going to start watching TV in another room and then, when I get tired, go get in bed and read or something (not screen related!) til I fall asleep. I figure it’s worth a shot, and it makes sense!
That orangey shade makes your eyes look even more beautiful, even if you didn't get your mustard dream to come true it suits you, and the pop of blue was excellent
It's just crazy... Last summer I was at my drugstore in France, I was in the beauty area (of course) and I told myself "well... why not trying this little highlighting palette from Essence" and HERE YOU ARE loving it and recommending it! I'm SHOOK 😂😂 Your mustardy look is absolutely stunning! I'm IN LOVE 😍
oh my husband snores and i couldn't get any sleep until he got a mouth-guard for nighttime and now we BOTH get a better nights sleep ...they really work!!!! i know it's hard having that conversation but i suffered thru 20 years of him snoring and it only gets worse ...get him one you'll thank me!!
Dru Champion-Payne what mouthgaurd and where did you get it? I need one for my husband! I kick and push him all night to roll over so he will stop snoring and that lasts all of 20 minutes.
My wonderful hubby had to pass the mouth guard and go straight to a C-pap machine and WOW.... There is 0 noise from him! Well maybe just the nice hum from the machine, but that is it. He also is way more awake all day long now, because he is actually getting oxygen all night long. It has really changed our lives. 👍😁
@@melissaluvsplease1664 Mine too !! But it blows cold air at me and I freeze 😤 don't know which is worse ... it doesn't keep him awake all day either (if he's not at work he's in bed) 😤💔
When I have insomnia I read random Wikipedia pages until I fall asleep. Or I watch boring documentaries on UA-cam . I’ve been watching a lot of docs on British royalty. Elizabeth I wore A LOT of makeup y’all. 😴😴😴
Alyssa it was a must back then because the more makeup you used, the more you needed it! Their makeup destroyed the skin and health over all. Also there’s a conspiracy she was actually a man in drag because she died as a child and it was hidden from Henry VIII. There’s a documentary about it on UA-cam. I don’t believe it but it’s interesting to watch.
I've been watching your videos for a while now, and to see just how gracious and kind you are really is inspiring. I am not positive anymore, but you make me want to be.
Tati, you’ve been sleeping on LA Colors Strobing Illuminators!!!! No bigger beauty guru has mentioned them. They’re gorgeous! The champagne color is a 10! And they’re all $3. THREE DOLLARS!!!!
La colors actually just came out with a whole bunch of other stuff, their body/face loose shimmer is really a really good glittery but not too glittery highlight or eyeshadow!
Annabelle makes a beautiful liquid highlight too “Perfect Gleam custom highlight drops” 😍😍 I’m really fair (the lightest or one of the lightest in most foundations I’ve tried) and I use aurora under or in my foundation sometimes, as long as I don’t use too much , or on my cheeks in a light amount or mixed with a lighter one
Not Your Mother's Mom oh my God, I get so frustrated because I can’t sleep, I assault my husband over the snoring. It sounds like a damn freight train. I have a lot of friends who sleep in separate rooms over it. What ear plugs do you use? I’ve even tried the waxy kind that form to the ear to try to block it out as much as humanly possible. Send Help! Lol
I'm a drugstore makeup enthusiast, because my budget doesn't allow me to splurge... Every time I need to buy something from a drugstore brand, I wait for Tati's honest review... Thank you, Tati! You're amazing 💞
Maybe you are already doing this but I will share just in case. I too have trouble sleeping from time to time. Here is what works for me before bed: relaxing yoga (super chill), no screens, write down everything that is rolling around in your head, no sugar and carbs, and give yourself permission to let go (of your day, your future, your past, etc.). Take it or leave it, just wanted to share:) :) :)
Tati has such a lovely way of making me feel as if we are good friends just chillin doing our makeup. I can relate to her 1000%. When I cant sleep I toss on some ASMR to quiet my head down. Works well for me :)
I have insomnia as well at times. What helps me is to say to myself “ok I’m going to lay here and relax and try not to stress, my bed is a stress free zone.. if it takes me awhile to fall asleep that’s ok. Rest and relaxation is also good for my body” laying there stressing and looking at the clock makes it worse. It maybe easier said than done not to stress though and that’s ok too. It will take a few try’s before you really relax from this method😊
Ashley Dawn Beauty Same. I take two melatonins and take a hot bath then just lay down and act like I don’t care if don’t get sleep that night that which is a LIE but it helps calm my mind and fall into a natural sleep. If I keep stressing about how I can’t fall asleep and start getting frustrated and mad then I have realized it takes me even longer to fall asleep.
Tanuhbanana EXACTLY! lol it’s so crazy that to sleep you have to seriously not care about sleep... which you think it’d be the opposite lol but i was thinking of making a video on my personal techniques. I don’t see many helpful vids here on UA-cam for insomnia.
I’m would love love love, to see a lot more actual tutorials especially eyeshadow in real time no editing. So we can see every single step and where you place it, how long it really takes. What brushes you are using. I know I’m not the only one. And duh it is just makeup it washes right off. I would be so blessed to have your talent on your absolutely worst makeup day. You are so very blessed to have all the talent that you do in so many different avenues. Just truly a beautiful woman inside and out. Xoxo
I work for Walgreens and the only new stuff we’ve gotten in so far is for Revlon. I know a ton of new stuff is coming cause of all the clearance on the wall. It just hasn’t came in yet. It’s still a little early.
I’m loving when you and other youtubers are doing more looks without using 10 different shadows. This was a gorgeous eye look using just a few things. I love that!
Tati! Your insomnia is my insomnia. Lately, my brain has been drawing out Train's "50 Ways To Say Goodbye" like it's some emotionally heavy Broadway ballad, only the lyrics are P.O.D's "Here Comes the Boom." I don't know why my head is doing this to me. It's not even a real thing, so I can't cleanse by listening to it.
You "sleep" the way I "sleep." Something that helps me is 4-7-8: breathe in for 4 seconds, hold for 7, and exhale all of it out of mouth in 8. I do that 3 times and I find it helps more often than not. The only way I know how to get a song out of my head is to listen to that song. Otherwise, it just plays the chorus on loop in my head. If it makes you feel any better, I have the Burger King christmas song in my head and it's driving me nuts. Ding fries are done! Ding fries are done!
Kandis I have insomnia and that doesn’t work at all😫😫 I’ve done it SOO many times but it doesn’t work!! Sometimes I try counting backwards from 100 and I literally end up doing it like 5 times and I’m still wide awake by the end of it
Depending on the level of ambient noise that you (and anyone sharing the room with you) find relaxing to fall asleep to, I sometimes find that the "Sleep with me" podcast helps. It sounds weird, but it may help.
@@ishane Oh man, I know how frustrating that can be. I have insomnia as well and my suggestion works for me sometimes, but definitely not all the time. There are nights I just lay there with my mind racing as I watch the clock and do the math of how much less time I have to get in some sleep. Those nights can suck it. I wish you some peaceful sleep this weekend!
@@nicoleross6025 That's interesting, thank you for sharing! I have never heard of that podcast. I don't mind noise, it's when it gets really quiet that causes me more struggle. I'm on the mom sleep schedule, so I can pass out for a nap anytime...except bedtime. ha ha ha.
Kandis Thank you! What I find works the best is actually thinking of what I want to dream of. Obviously I never end up dreaming about it but like I just get tired thinking about dreaming so I fall asleep
I would love to see a BH Cosmetics video! I have their Take Me Back To Brazil, and Night Rose palettes and I absolutely love them. But I’m scared to venture into more products.
I LIVE for BH Cosmetics!!!! Their palettes are amazing quality at a drugstore price! I have been really into their Zodiac palette as of late. I get every palette they put out right when it releases :) What a lot of folks don't know is that Kohl's carries the BH Cosmetics line and they have periodically amazing sales on all the palettes! I got a few of the 120 color palettes for $10 at Kohl's!
Patricia Woodward whaaaaaattt?! That’s amazing ! Thank you for sharing this❤️❤️❤️ if I can see it in person it would totally make me more comfortable with purchasing 😁
How do you use the take me back to brazil? I absolutely hate it it is chalky, not close to pigmented and the shimmers aren’t that shimmery. Did i get a bad palette or is there a certain way to use it because everyone seems to love it.
Talar Mustafa perhaps you got a bad palette. I don’t do anything too special, I use shape tape as a base and set it with a matte nude color shadow from the Milani mattes palette and then just go in. B2B definitely needs to be layered! Which some people may hate. But I much prefer something buildable
Melatonin doesn't always help. It actually made my insomnia worse. I only got an extra hour of sleep each night but kept falling asleep during the day. During tests, at service, P.E., etc.
I’m from Australia and we are SO far behind with drug store make up, and it’s honestly not as cheap as it is in America, I use the same concealer and it’s usually $17-$19 not on special, and we have just got the Maybelline loose setting powder which has been out for ages in America, but it’s ‘new’ here.
Vandellia Clark ... I too live in Australia and I watch a lot of Tati's videos and yes a lot of stuff she mentions we haven't got over here as yet ... our minimum wage over here is roughly 18$per hour ... and if you have a qualification you can demand 28$ and upwards ... also if ya can get a job in the mines as a cleaner, you would be on 38$ per hour and upwards, not bad hey ... I'd just love to get some of the products Tati mentions, instead of having to send to America all the time .... Grrrrrr ☺️
really? ive been playing with eyeshadows lately an the only color i havent done is yellow because there arent any yellow eyeshadows but im also a golden undertone so idk if itd look too monochrome or something
@@jennytam9704 I'm as close to yellow as you can get skintone-wise-- the only mustard and yellows that have shown up on me are the Yellow Blush from Inglot ($$ tho) and two of the transition shades from Wet'n'Wild: The top one in Comfort Zone and the bottom one in Rose in the Air.
@@jennytam9704 a good way to get the yellows really register om your skin is to start with a white base... either a primer or a white highlighter stick... ( i do the same thing with white nail polish under colored nail polish so that the color appears on nials as it does in the bottle)
To get a song out of your head you have to listen to it from start to finish. It's weird but it works. (A song is in your head because you don't know how it ends so by listening to it you get reminded of how it goes so then it's out of your head) PS. LoVE YOUR VIDEOS ❤️❤️😍😍😍🙌🙌
Lucky! That doesn't work for me. My whole family has currently been infected with a song for more than a week. We try not to sing it, but we always catch someone humming it. Then we have to hear it and the cycle begins. 🤣🤣🤣😓
I have been using the essence highlighter for a few months now (maybe its new in the states), its nice if you need a highlighter but dont want to spend so much money on one, but tbh there are better highlighters out there, and even better essence ones.
Gurl, my seasonal depression is a monster. I learned a few years ago to start taking my anti-depressant around October 1. I can then wean off of it around the end of March or beginning of April. The holidays are hard, and with all the plants dying (so there's no greenery or flowers outside) and the weather being colder (which almost makes my bones hurt), winter is hard on me mentally. Positive affirmations help me so I say them in the morning, and if the sun is out, I try to get in it as much as possible. Good luck Tati! I hope you can get past it sooner than later! It also sounds like you're putting too much pressure on yourself to go to sleep. Instead think to yourself "5 hours? Well, that's fine; I'll just catch up tomorrow night." That Milani liquid metallic eye shadow looked promising... Got to check those out! Also think this look would have been stunning with a dark red lip...
Tati I feel you with that no sleep thing. I can't fall asleep but when I do without fail I wake up at 4 AM. So I most nights I get 3 or less hours of sleep and I have to go to school and work and practice and I'm exhausted but can't go to bed
Tati i would love it if you would do a full face using Ulta brand vs full face Sephora brand.
Oooh, she could do it half and half!
Great idea!!
That is such a good idea!!
YES THAT!!! ^^^^ YES
Yaaaye
Tati please try the Laqa desert mirage eyeshadow pallet. I bought it at TJ Max for $6 and was really impressed by it! Please thumbs up so she can see!
Gray Fox I love tjmaxx
Elf is suppose to have a tacha silk canvas primer dupe for $8. On their website!!!! Tati can you try it out and find out if it really is a dupe?????
Nicole Bailey which product is the dupe?
Let me try to find it on their website. And i will let u know. :) i know its new. And it looks like tacha too!
Poreless putty primer
This
I’ve been using a Catrice primer that I really love. It’s in a jar and it’s called Prime & Fine Smoothing Refiner and it is SO good! 🦋
I love it when Tati does the drug store makeup videos. Gives so much info on the affordable ones. I just love her 😍
I’ve heard that reason you get songs stuck your head is because you don’t know know the words to the end, so you subconsciously sing the same part over and over.
In order to get the song out of your head, sing the whole song until the end of it, or sing the part you have stuck in your head and slow down as if you’re ending the song.
Your brain realizes you finished the song
Usually that’s what I do and surprisingly it works for me!
i've always done that. i never knew that was really the "cure" lol. it does work!
I often get that muppet tune stuck in my head ma na ma na, you know that one. I think you're right though because when it's a song it's always the same section over and over that you end up humming or singing. I shall try this in future by looking up the song online and listening to the whole thing to see if it works. Hopefully it will because like you annoy yourself with ear worms (that's what I've always known them as).
Oh, I like that thought. It makes quite a bit of sense really.
@@shendisackett doo doo be do mananama... THX, lol :) Now that's in my brain. Better Rio it soon, early shift tomorrow :)
Riley Elaina yesss I’ve heard the same I’m glad someone said it
I have been seeing a lot of people complaining that brands are releasing too much too fast for the everyday consumer so I am hoping the drugstore market has taken note and has scaled back on the quantity of releases to focus on quality of releases!
like the zoomed in view as it helps show the intricacies of the eye make up
I figured it out...Tati is the Bob Ross of makeup
yes!!! mindblown!
i really thought the same ^^
Literally was thinking the same exact thing. Shes so calm cool and collected lol
Happy little lashes!
YESSSS
Please do a "best affordable makeup brushes" video
With the Miss A brushes.....yessss girl!
Yes please!!!
OMG YAAAAASSSSSS!!! I would love to see that too!!!!
WE NEED THIS
Idk how Tati feels but the ones from BH Cosmetics are really good!
I absolutely love drugstore tutorials! I get great recommendations and save so much money... Which i use to buy even more makeup! Its a vicious cycle
Omg, FACTS.
"Vicious"?? No ma'am! "Victorious"!! 💋💋
Feeling beautiful and confident positively improves every aspect of your life. Self care is very importa4nt and neglecting yourself puts a damper on every aspect of your life. Nobody wants that "vicious" cycle!
😘😘😘😘
yass girl
I love your channel ivory ❤️
Ivory Cherry 🍒 I checked out your channel and subscribed! 💗
I honestly CANT believe ppl actually call u out for your makeup!! Seriously?! I honestly couldn’t do what u do. People are so critical. Look in the mirror!! Truth is they’re just unhappy with themselves. You are absolutely beautiful and I LOVE your eye looks always.
Erica Fender unhappy with themselves? Really!
Isabelle Lemieux yep!
Calling out her nose contour (unless done rudely) only benefits her. Having someone point out a mistake can help you to not make the same one in the future or push you to reevaluate and try a different approach.
I agree with K. Yes there are some people just saying it to be mean out of some insecurity but most of the time when trying out new techniques or products we're not 100% sure how we feel about it so we ask for opinions from friends. Same as when clothes shopping. That's why sometimes Tati will ask what we think about certain products.
The reason she gets called out is because, for better or worse, people see her as an authority figure. Subconsciously anything we see on TV or a screen becomes authority to SOME degree. And when that authority makes any mistake in the mind of the viewer (and has an open channel of communication), people will feel the need to be vocal about it. Can't really do anything about that... Just ignore and move on. She's absolutely right about the lights - cam lights make things look totally different. So I guess I'm just saying people will comment, and hopefully Tati will move past those comments and keep doing her thing with positivity in mind :)
Dear Tati,
Just wanted you to know that I crave for the moment I get to bed after work, relax and watch your videos! You’re part of my “me time” and I could not be more grateful that you’re here everyday! Loads of love from Mexico ❤️
I feel that Tati could be a great singer. Her little Cosette sounds so good.
HelloOlga she is a singer
HelloOlga same! She should audition now as an adult!
Tati can u do all of ur makeup from the eyeshadow zoomed in level?
Jade W yes yes yesss!!
Jade W yessss
Yes! I agree!
Jade W yes!
I keeeeeepppp asking her 🤔
Tati in her natural habitat...an oversized sweater off the shoulder
why do I love this comment so much. lol. that IS her natural habitat, so right.
I love this look. How on earth does she hold the girls up? I have enhanced girls but I still need support since I gained like 50lbs after having them done 14years who. I know TMI LOL
Don’t forget the white shirt 😁😁
Whenever i see her wearing one it makes me want to go throw a sweater on.. and now I own too many of them 😂🙈
....and WHITE!!! 😂😂😂
Literally anyone can watch your channel makeup loving or not. Your advice literally applies to anyone with anything or any goals they want to accomplish I love it!!! Keep up the positivity
Use the YES PLEASE palette from Colourpop!!! you can totally make mustard yellow dreams come true ;)
absolutely LOVE that palette
SAME. that’s my ride or die pallete
Girl I do the exact samething when I go to bed. Except I stress about something I said or done 20 years ago. Its by far worse when I know I have to get up early. It helps me somewhat to count my breaths and try not to think of anything.
The mustard in Jaclyn's Morphe palette is AMAZING!
This is exactly what I was going to say!
I really like when you zoom in super close like in this video! It really helps to see the steps of each product application and makes it easier to follow as a tutorial. Love you so much Tati!! 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
There was mustard yellow in that pallette, in the middle row, I kept saying - why aren't you using it Tati!!
Same I kept thinking that too!!! Like what do you mean?! Your mustard dreams can be a reality!!! It’s right there!!!! Lol 😂
I saw it too.
Ditto!
Yes! I have this palette and that third color, middle row is perfect! 👌
Was just about to comment this 😁
“Not in my studio Boobra” I’m actually dying😂
But really...where is she...
I laughed so hard.
I laughed so hard when she said that!
Does Tati have merch? I want a “Boobra picked my makeup” shirt!
I can't believe people honestly come to the comments to complain about what your nose contour looks like..... honestly come on
liz I like Coffee with Dani’s sign in the background that says “It’s just make up.” People get so butt hurt and pissy over the silliest stuff. It literally washes right off and it isn’t your face, so calm the hell down. Lol
Some people are just here to spread their miserable attitudes & judge too harshly. I guess that’s what they use this platform for. Maybe they should just be ignored?!
When someone goes out of their way to tear someone else down based on something so trivial as contour -behind the comfort of a computer-they seriously need to re-evaluate their life lol...possibly get one, grow up and lighten up. 🙄
I just wanna say Tati that you are the sweetest most genuine person on youtube. Keep spreading a positive message and being an inspiration for people everywhere! Love you and hope you see this and it brings a smile to your face.
*Everytime a bell rings, a beauty guru perfects their eyeliner wings!*
❤️❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋💋
That was cute!
😂 Love this
YES
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A way to get songs out of your head is to listen to the whole song. Your brain is trying to complete the song but because it forgot the ending it keeps repeating
Veronica Kozak my luck my brain will just now sing entire said song. Lol
When I cannot shut off my brain at night, I put on a TV show that is mostly talking, like Law & Order, and I close my eyes and listen to the show. By focusing of the dialogue in the show, it helps me to stop the "inward" dialogues going on in my head. It also stops me from focusing on the "I CAN'T FALL ASLEEP" thoughts. I will fall asleep without knowing it. Give it a try!
same, i fall asleep to Friends every night 😂 thank you netflix!
@@belleovedHime Me too😂
Omg I do this too with documentaries
This is the ONLY way my boyfriend can fall asleep, he listens to ESPN or other sports shows and he’s OUT, but if the tv isn’t on he takes hours to fall asleep 😅
See I am completely opposite. If the room isn't completely silent, my brain will focus on whatever noise is in the background, such as a tv show like law & order SVU, and I will lay there for forever with my eyes shut just listening to every single word they are saying and picturing the damn scenes in my head. lol Kind of sucks too because my husband NEEDS the tv to be up so he can fall asleep. I usually just let the tv be turned up for awhile until he falls asleep (takes like 5 mins) and then I turn it all the way down as soon as I hear him breathing heavy.
You are so pretty, entertaining, and skilled! Love the blue!!!
"I don't want any Satan liners hanging out in my drawer."
She got rid of Annabelle lip liner too 😂😂
Nahime A what did she mean by this comment?
@@monaomari7575 There's a Wet & Wild lip liner in 666. She was commenting on that. Lol
I lost it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"Not in my studio, Boo-bara."
as a smaller youtuber I literally still don’t know how to fix my lighting to make my skin look flawless while tati could be in a dark room with one light source and still have amazing skin!!
RavonsLyfe just subscribed to you :)
Poison ivy Envy omg thank you!!
philly79westchester aww thanks love! 😊♥️
Don't make your skin look perfect with lights, do it with skin care.
Hi Tati. My boyfriend sleeps terribly and I got him some aromatherapy sleep lotion from bath and body works and he went from sleeping an average of 2hrs a night to about 6 hrs a night. You should give it a try!!!
What a gorgeous glam, cozy look!! Thanks Tati! 🍂
That lip topper might look really cute over a red lip for the holidays.
AnnetteLamour great idea
The companion liquid matte lipstick in the Elf Modern Metals collection is a nice rusty red, and that with the topper look great together!
before you said you wearing foundation i was like WOWWWWW TATI your skin omg, i need HALO!! your skin looked so skin life!! wowwowwwwww thank you for always having our backs when it comes to drugstore makeup
You still need Halo.
I'm on my second month of Halo and my skin has never looked better. Trust me girl, you DO need Halo. I had terrible cystic acne on my chin, to the point where it would hurt to smile. Since being on Halo, all my acne has cleared and I haven't had a break out since.
@@amberveihl5143 are you on the kiwi one or the original?
Rose Kimberly me too! I thought she was already wearing foundation lol
Try watching ASMR before going to sleep, helps me every time I have insomnia
I know the feeling of dread when you experience insomnia so I really feel for you Tati. As for me, I think using the Laneige Water Sleeping Mask worked. Love you!
“Makeup is DANGER” 😂😂😂
I have a high stress job and it’s easy to bring those issues home, especially when all is quiet and your brain decides it’s a great time for your worst moments highlight reels. This time of the year as well....wonder day light savings time messes with my sleep cycles. I have tried a method to encourage positive/directed thinking. As you lay down, start intentionally thinking about a positive experience (time with family, meeting your significant other, finding your perfect shade) and truly try to remember how you felt. It helps to stop random thoughts and positive emotions. Love your channel. Hope you feel better.
All hail the Queen of bougie, drugstore, queen of truth, queen of Halo, queen of glow, queen of James, queen of uploads, of class.. What am I missing? Someone help I know there's more.. Anyway, all hail our beautiful queen Tati 👑❤
Jasmine Hanway hair flips
@@zeeharris9814 yess!
All hail queen Tati the beautiful goddess
Queen of being real af!!!
Queen of description boxes like hello I cant imagine how long it takes to list all of those products out I'm so grateful for that extra touch.
You are not the only one. I have been suffering insomnia a few weeks now and with a busy schedule. Probably the time zone changes, and seasons etc. I hope it gets better for you soon!
Jaclyn Hill Original Palette has my favorite mustard yellow
Lauren Kinnear mine too!! It’s the best.
Tati do you do work in bed ever? Like even go through emails and stuff? I read online that if you’re constantly working in bed your brain eventually starts to associate being in bed with working and being awake instead of relaxing or sleeping. I used allllways do school work in my bed because it’s comfy and I could never ever fall asleep until like 2-3 am almost every night🙄 sooo I started strictly only working at my kitchen table or at my desk in my room and I can honestly say I get tired at a more reasonable time and my sleep is MUCH better.
Very good point and it’s very true.
this and no phones/screens at least an hour before bed. And turning the lights down a little and having a set night routine that you do every night really helps
I’m lying in bed surrounded by my laptop and papers and folders and calculators right now......I think I need to take your advice
I have heard this, and I’ve also heard that you should only associate your bed with sleeping, so it’s even better if you don’t lay around in your bed all evening watching Tv, etc. I’m going to start watching TV in another room and then, when I get tired, go get in bed and read or something (not screen related!) til I fall asleep. I figure it’s worth a shot, and it makes sense!
I work in my bed but I have the opposite problem. I just end up passing out and not getting work done.
the mustard yellow shade in the original Jaclyn Hill morphe palette is nice!!
That orangey shade makes your eyes look even more beautiful, even if you didn't get your mustard dream to come true it suits you, and the pop of blue was excellent
Tati there IS a mustard yellow in that elf palette! 🤣😘 I wish I had blue eyes so I could use a blue liner as a pop of color! 💙
I was thinking the same thing lol. I was like it's right there 😂
It's just crazy... Last summer I was at my drugstore in France, I was in the beauty area (of course) and I told myself "well... why not trying this little highlighting palette from Essence" and HERE YOU ARE loving it and recommending it! I'm SHOOK 😂😂 Your mustardy look is absolutely stunning! I'm IN LOVE 😍
I LOVE their highlighter palettes! I wear the holowow palette almost every day
oh my husband snores and i couldn't get any sleep until he got a mouth-guard for nighttime and now we BOTH get a better nights sleep ...they really work!!!! i know it's hard having that conversation but i suffered thru 20 years of him snoring and it only gets worse ...get him one you'll thank me!!
Dru Champion-Payne what mouthgaurd and where did you get it? I need one for my husband! I kick and push him all night to roll over so he will stop snoring and that lasts all of 20 minutes.
My wonderful hubby had to pass the mouth guard and go straight to a C-pap machine and WOW.... There is 0 noise from him! Well maybe just the nice hum from the machine, but that is it. He also is way more awake all day long now, because he is actually getting oxygen all night long. It has really changed our lives. 👍😁
I just opted for the soft foam earplugs. 😃
@@melissaluvsplease1664
Mine too !! But it blows cold air at me and I freeze 😤 don't know which is worse ... it doesn't keep him awake all day either (if he's not at work he's in bed) 😤💔
Rachel Marples Are you saying the machine does not help your husband be way more awake during the day?
Your eye color just pops with the contrasting blue eyeliner!! Gorgeous as always!
I really like the yellow shade in the Jaclyn hill X morphe palette
When I have insomnia I read random Wikipedia pages until I fall asleep. Or I watch boring documentaries on UA-cam . I’ve been watching a lot of docs on British royalty. Elizabeth I wore A LOT of makeup y’all. 😴😴😴
Alyssa it was a must back then because the more makeup you used, the more you needed it! Their makeup destroyed the skin and health over all. Also there’s a conspiracy she was actually a man in drag because she died as a child and it was hidden from Henry VIII. There’s a documentary about it on UA-cam. I don’t believe it but it’s interesting to watch.
When I can’t fall asleep I watch Bob Ross painting videos. His voice is so calming to me and puts me right to sleep.
I appreciate you so much for uploading five times a week, Tati! Have a nice weekend :-)
I've been watching your videos for a while now, and to see just how gracious and kind you are really is inspiring. I am not positive anymore, but you make me want to be.
Tati, you’ve been sleeping on LA Colors Strobing Illuminators!!!! No bigger beauty guru has mentioned them. They’re gorgeous! The champagne color is a 10! And they’re all $3. THREE DOLLARS!!!!
Rachel Marks exactly!
La colors actually just came out with a whole bunch of other stuff, their body/face loose shimmer is really a really good glittery but not too glittery highlight or eyeshadow!
Rachel Marks I own them too
Annabelle makes a beautiful liquid highlight too “Perfect Gleam custom highlight drops” 😍😍 I’m really fair (the lightest or one of the lightest in most foundations I’ve tried) and I use aurora under or in my foundation sometimes, as long as I don’t use too much , or on my cheeks in a light amount or mixed with a lighter one
My husband is a snorer too and I have insomnia. Ear plugs are saving our marriage!
Not Your Mother's Mom oh my God, I get so frustrated because I can’t sleep, I assault my husband over the snoring. It sounds like a damn freight train. I have a lot of friends who sleep in separate rooms over it. What ear plugs do you use? I’ve even tried the waxy kind that form to the ear to try to block it out as much as humanly possible. Send Help! Lol
I use ear plugs too. Wonderful!!
Not Your Mother's Mom this made me laugh so hard haha “ear plugs are saving our marriage”
The BOOBRA reference killed me
Rachel Quartz lol! Me too
Creamscicle in the Jacklyn Hill morphe palette is a mustard-y color that I love! It looks so good with blue eyes! 😍
Wait wait wait..... $17 L’Oréal BROW product??? Ridiculous
Sydney Merrill in Australia they cost $22
@@caitlin1370 Australian dollars have less value so it works out the same
Their BB Cream here in Brazil costs R$ 49.90
(Couldn't find the same product :( )
Sydney Merrill I was literally about to comment the same thing and saw yours. They are losing their mind.
It's like $10 at walmart. I bought it.
get the NYX Fire palette. it has the most beautiful yellow shade and the perfect transition shade for it!
I'm a drugstore makeup enthusiast, because my budget doesn't allow me to splurge... Every time I need to buy something from a drugstore brand, I wait for Tati's honest review... Thank you, Tati! You're amazing 💞
Me too!! I used to buy clinique and lancome and dept store brands when i was younger....then i bought a house and now its walgreens and CVS!!!
The Jaclyn Hill Morphe palette has an amazing mustard yellow
You should get a weighted blanket, you will sleep like a baby. It will be so relaxing.
I have one and love it, it's so cozy. Can't say it helped my insomnia much but it does soothe anxiety.
Oh dear God those make my anxiety hit the roof. I feel like someone is trying to suffocate me 😂
Maybe you are already doing this but I will share just in case. I too have trouble sleeping from time to time. Here is what works for me before bed: relaxing yoga (super chill), no screens, write down everything that is rolling around in your head, no sugar and carbs, and give yourself permission to let go (of your day, your future, your past, etc.). Take it or leave it, just wanted to share:) :) :)
Tati has such a lovely way of making me feel as if we are good friends just chillin doing our makeup. I can relate to her 1000%. When I cant sleep I toss on some ASMR to quiet my head down. Works well for me :)
Yes!! Hey Tati!!!!! Love drugstore videos! Thanks so much for your dedication!!❤️
I have insomnia as well at times. What helps me is to say to myself “ok I’m going to lay here and relax and try not to stress, my bed is a stress free zone.. if it takes me awhile to fall asleep that’s ok. Rest and relaxation is also good
for my body” laying there stressing and looking at the clock makes it worse. It maybe easier said than done not to stress though and that’s ok too. It will take a few try’s before you really relax from this method😊
Ashley Dawn Beauty Same. I take two melatonins and take a hot bath then just lay down and act like I don’t care if don’t get sleep that night that which is a LIE but it helps calm my mind and fall into a natural sleep. If I keep stressing about how I can’t fall asleep and start getting frustrated and mad then I have realized it takes me even longer to fall asleep.
Tanuhbanana EXACTLY! lol it’s so crazy that to sleep you have to seriously not care about sleep... which you think it’d be the opposite lol but i was thinking of making a video on my personal techniques. I don’t see many helpful vids here on UA-cam for insomnia.
Ashley Dawn Beauty you should girly 🖤
A dupe for that lipstick that is phenomenal is praline by elf! It's sooooo good
I’m would love love love, to see a lot more actual tutorials especially eyeshadow in real time no editing. So we can see every single step and where you place it, how long it really takes. What brushes you are using. I know I’m not the only one. And duh it is just makeup it washes right off. I would be so blessed to have your talent on your absolutely worst makeup day. You are so very blessed to have all the talent that you do in so many different avenues. Just truly a beautiful woman inside and out. Xoxo
I work for Walgreens and the only new stuff we’ve gotten in so far is for Revlon. I know a ton of new stuff is coming cause of all the clearance on the wall. It just hasn’t came in yet. It’s still a little early.
I lost my father today and this video made me smile ❤️
Karas Foreso So sorry! 😢
I'm so sorry for your loss :(
lost mine 7 years ago, still hurts me till now. I'm sorry for your lost, stay strong!!
Prayers
My condolences and hugs sent your way! I lost mine the day before father's day so I feel the pain.
I don't know how I made it a full day without seeing Tati in an off shoulder top 🌻🌻
The mustard yellow look really brings out your blue eyes. So pretty! ❤️💕
"UgggggGGGHHHH MAKEUP IS DANGER"
👏 Best 👏 line 👏 yet.
Not, "I don't want any Satan liner in my studio. Not today, Bu-Bra!" 😳😂😂😂
StarKnight1Sunshine my wallet agrees. The tumbleweed blowing through my bank account proves this.
I love what you said about not having to be perfect!!! LOVE THAT
Quick question: would these liquid glitter shadows be a close dupe for the Stila Magnificent Metals???
Nikki A yes!!! There are so many reviews going around with them. They go on sale at every other week or sale at Ulta!
@@marissacoubrough8068 Thanks, love! I'm super excited to try them out now! ❤
Yesss they are soooo good! I actually like them better than the Stila ones! 💖
Which one? The flower beauty or milani? I want to try them too I love the magnificent metals
@@laurensalas6883 yeah, which one is best between the milani and flower?
I’m loving when you and other youtubers are doing more looks without using 10 different shadows. This was a gorgeous eye look using just a few things. I love that!
What helps for me to get s song out of my mind is listening to the song a couple of times
The worst for me is when I don't know the lyrics but there's part of the song stuck in my head and I can't finish it! Kills me.
Exactly. You need to hear the song end
I post it to Facebook.
Mango from the Dominique Cosmetics Lemonade Palette is such a beautiful mustard shade!
Tati! Your insomnia is my insomnia. Lately, my brain has been drawing out Train's "50 Ways To Say Goodbye" like it's some emotionally heavy Broadway ballad, only the lyrics are P.O.D's "Here Comes the Boom." I don't know why my head is doing this to me. It's not even a real thing, so I can't cleanse by listening to it.
I love when you sing! You’re such a good singer!!! ♥️
You "sleep" the way I "sleep." Something that helps me is 4-7-8: breathe in for 4 seconds, hold for 7, and exhale all of it out of mouth in 8. I do that 3 times and I find it helps more often than not. The only way I know how to get a song out of my head is to listen to that song. Otherwise, it just plays the chorus on loop in my head. If it makes you feel any better, I have the Burger King christmas song in my head and it's driving me nuts. Ding fries are done! Ding fries are done!
Kandis I have insomnia and that doesn’t work at all😫😫 I’ve done it SOO many times but it doesn’t work!! Sometimes I try counting backwards from 100 and I literally end up doing it like 5 times and I’m still wide awake by the end of it
Depending on the level of ambient noise that you (and anyone sharing the room with you) find relaxing to fall asleep to, I sometimes find that the "Sleep with me" podcast helps. It sounds weird, but it may help.
@@ishane Oh man, I know how frustrating that can be. I have insomnia as well and my suggestion works for me sometimes, but definitely not all the time. There are nights I just lay there with my mind racing as I watch the clock and do the math of how much less time I have to get in some sleep. Those nights can suck it. I wish you some peaceful sleep this weekend!
@@nicoleross6025 That's interesting, thank you for sharing! I have never heard of that podcast. I don't mind noise, it's when it gets really quiet that causes me more struggle. I'm on the mom sleep schedule, so I can pass out for a nap anytime...except bedtime. ha ha ha.
Kandis Thank you! What I find works the best is actually thinking of what I want to dream of. Obviously I never end up dreaming about it but like I just get tired thinking about dreaming so I fall asleep
I would love to see a BH Cosmetics video! I have their Take Me Back To Brazil, and Night Rose palettes and I absolutely love them. But I’m scared to venture into more products.
OnCloudCaudill the Zodiac palette is amazing!!!
I LIVE for BH Cosmetics!!!! Their palettes are amazing quality at a drugstore price! I have been really into their Zodiac palette as of late. I get every palette they put out right when it releases :) What a lot of folks don't know is that Kohl's carries the BH Cosmetics line and they have periodically amazing sales on all the palettes! I got a few of the 120 color palettes for $10 at Kohl's!
Patricia Woodward whaaaaaattt?! That’s amazing ! Thank you for sharing this❤️❤️❤️ if I can see it in person it would totally make me more comfortable with purchasing 😁
How do you use the take me back to brazil? I absolutely hate it it is chalky, not close to pigmented and the shimmers aren’t that shimmery. Did i get a bad palette or is there a certain way to use it because everyone seems to love it.
Talar Mustafa perhaps you got a bad palette. I don’t do anything too special, I use shape tape as a base and set it with a matte nude color shadow from the Milani mattes palette and then just go in. B2B definitely needs to be layered! Which some people may hate. But I much prefer something buildable
Have you thought of trying Melatonin for your insomnia?
Melatonin doesn't always help. It actually made my insomnia worse. I only got an extra hour of sleep each night but kept falling asleep during the day. During tests, at service, P.E., etc.
@@raindownchoas which makes sense. It works for me but doesn't always work for others :)
Magnesium deficiency is linked to insomnia. Bathing in magnesium salts helps. A lot.
Plus it takes some time (i think at least 2weeks, but can be wrong) to kick in and settle the circadian rythm
Melatonin is super damaging over time
Out of every YT beauty channel I watch. Tati is hands down THE BEST at eyes!! She slays EVERY, SINGLE TIME! Not a look I do not like. Muah!
The yellow shade in the original Jaclyn Hill Pallet gives a really nice mustard look
leylapats agreed!
I was gonna comment that🙌🏼💛
I was going to say the same thing. I love that shade.
I’m from Australia and we are SO far behind with drug store make up, and it’s honestly not as cheap as it is in America, I use the same concealer and it’s usually $17-$19 not on special, and we have just got the Maybelline loose setting powder which has been out for ages in America, but it’s ‘new’ here.
That really sucks.... But, our national minimum wage is $7.25...
I’m in the UK and we don't have the maybelline fit me as a loose powder, only as compacts! It is so annoying.
Shendi Sackett I feel that, we only just got them and their still hard to find.
Its the same in Europe :(
Vandellia Clark ... I too live in Australia and I watch a lot of Tati's videos and yes a lot of stuff she mentions we haven't got over here as yet ... our minimum wage over here is roughly 18$per hour ... and if you have a qualification you can demand 28$ and upwards ... also if ya can get a job in the mines as a cleaner, you would be on 38$ per hour and upwards, not bad hey ... I'd just love to get some of the products Tati mentions, instead of having to send to America all the time .... Grrrrrr ☺️
I love these videos! And thank you for listing all the prices in the description box and in your footage. So appreciated!
Colourpop in shade “I like you” is a really pretty mustard! Super bright and has pink glitter in it!
I wish Tati would try sugarpill eyeshadows😩🙄🙄
Katie Johnson she doesn’t like color though. I love sugarpill 💯🌈
Yes, please!!
NYX has some very intense yellows in different tones
really? ive been playing with eyeshadows lately an the only color i havent done is yellow because there arent any yellow eyeshadows but im also a golden undertone so idk if itd look too monochrome or something
@@jennytam9704 I'm as close to yellow as you can get skintone-wise-- the only mustard and yellows that have shown up on me are the Yellow Blush from Inglot ($$ tho) and two of the transition shades from Wet'n'Wild: The top one in Comfort Zone and the bottom one in Rose in the Air.
@@jennytam9704 a good way to get the yellows really register om your skin is to start with a white base... either a primer or a white highlighter stick... ( i do the same thing with white nail polish under colored nail polish so that the color appears on nials as it does in the bottle)
@@mbr7156 yeah whenever i do eyeshadow ill prime and start off with a cream color as a base
To get a song out of your head you have to listen to it from start to finish. It's weird but it works. (A song is in your head because you don't know how it ends so by listening to it you get reminded of how it goes so then it's out of your head) PS. LoVE YOUR VIDEOS ❤️❤️😍😍😍🙌🙌
It works for me too 🙌
Does this really work for you?
Lucky! That doesn't work for me. My whole family has currently been infected with a song for more than a week. We try not to sing it, but we always catch someone humming it. Then we have to hear it and the cycle begins. 🤣🤣🤣😓
@@MarissaRenee211 yh it does
@@inky006 oh no 😂😂
Tati, the Deep Sleep Pillow Spray and roll on is so amazing! I find it so hard to fall asleep and those have really worked for me 😊❤️
The other yellow in that elf palette looked more mustardy to me.
FierceJadeMakeup I thought same
When she was doing the whole eye look, just mentally screaming at my phone ‘THE OTHER MUSTARD, WHY’ 😭🤣
Even in the swatches it was better! 😩
FierceJadeMakeup I was thinking the same
Gracias! Pensaba lo mismo!
anyone else noticing tatis dope singing a little more in every vid
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kay d she doesn’t have a bad voice either! I was wondering if she ever sang for realz at some point. The woman seems to have done everything.
Mish mash she said in this video she would sing in musicals.. she said I used to sing that song to audition when I did musicals.... so yes she did
What about the mustard shade in the Alien palette?
Not drug store. But that is a great palette!
That eye look makes your eyes look so blue! Gorgeous xxx
Milani & Essence do come out with some gems, can't wait to give the ones in your video a try! Thanks, Tati, for the swatches and reviews
I have been using the essence highlighter for a few months now (maybe its new in the states), its nice if you need a highlighter but dont want to spend so much money on one, but tbh there are better highlighters out there, and even better essence ones.
I bought the elf pallet, and let me tell you if you are dark or have deep skin do not buy it. It's ashy and barely shows up
Tati starting listing your Starbucks coffee down below! Love trying new things from Starbucks! Love you and your content sooo much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Gurl, my seasonal depression is a monster. I learned a few years ago to start taking my anti-depressant around October 1. I can then wean off of it around the end of March or beginning of April. The holidays are hard, and with all the plants dying (so there's no greenery or flowers outside) and the weather being colder (which almost makes my bones hurt), winter is hard on me mentally. Positive affirmations help me so I say them in the morning, and if the sun is out, I try to get in it as much as possible. Good luck Tati! I hope you can get past it sooner than later! It also sounds like you're putting too much pressure on yourself to go to sleep. Instead think to yourself "5 hours? Well, that's fine; I'll just catch up tomorrow night."
That Milani liquid metallic eye shadow looked promising... Got to check those out!
Also think this look would have been stunning with a dark red lip...
Tati I feel you with that no sleep thing. I can't fall asleep but when I do without fail I wake up at 4 AM. So I most nights I get 3 or less hours of sleep and I have to go to school and work and practice and I'm exhausted but can't go to bed