Hey Big Sisters - Dilemma episode | Episode 129
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- Опубліковано 27 лют 2024
- Finally a Dilemma episode this is not only an episode filled with tea and juice but there’s also lots of learning one can get from these episodes 😮💨
From relationship issues, friendship and even family matters and all we can say is 😶😶 we may not give you an expert answer but we try our best so sit back and enjoy the video 🤓
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No where in the bible are we told to follow our hearts...actually the Bible says that the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked.
Let's go back to singing.. The intro today was a nay
I agreeeee!
me too,tuimbe tafadhali😂
Yes, please I was waiting ❤
Totally agree, bring back singing 😂😂😊
No, we refuse to grow Murugi😅 let's sing
Murugi's honesty in the matter concerning her experience with sexual sin and her Christian faith, is refreshing in this online space!
Download button is back🎉🎉
Yess it issss 🥳
Finallly
thanks i love listening to TMI as i do my walking in the morning
Finally I can download❤❤❤❤
This has made me so happy this morning
If I may, first I appreciate the candor on the disconnect between Christianity vs how we choose to live. It's really refreshing honestly. I'd also like to add, not because their responses were insufficient pe se, that Christianity at its root isn't following rules but an invitation to r/ship with God.
And this is facilitated by acknowledging despite how I have fallen short, God has been gracious to me. It is undeserved grace, that Christ lived the life I could never have lived. As Jo is sharing, none of us can fulfill the whole law yet Christ did that for me and died for my sin that I may live life in His Victory.
And in receiving that grace, our affections change to love God. To love what He loves and hate what he hates. To see things from His perspective. So even sth like sex. Sex is God's design. He is not anti-sex but it is reserved for marriage. Why? A lot of times engaging in sex before marriage can make us miss some red flags/misalignment of values/need for important conversations eg finances. This can lead to heartbreak over and over and I think waiting is God's protection. And in the context of marriage, it helps build trust that I have forsaken all others to love and cherish you alone. Because of the discipline it takes to wait, bebs this really helps fortify trust esp when things are hard. This setup makes it also safe to bring kids.
May I add, that marriage, in God's design is one of the tools God uses to help us reflect Christ. Marriage helps us think of other people besides ourselves. Imagine this situation whereby the husband and wife are thinking how best can I meet the needs of my spouse? Like how loving it feels and not to negate the place of self-care. For me, that's why I believe masturbation is a sin. It doesn't discipline us to think of another's pleasure as they think about ours. And then we come together to make bombs, hihihi. Also imagine a world whereby we are continuously thinking about ourselves, even on larger scales. I doubt they would be human flourishing in govt, business, friendship, and family. God is saying even at the most mundane things, my heart is of love and He equips us to have that by growing in the consideration of others.
Do people go to heaven for being moral? Not really because we've all fallen short. We go to heaven because of the grace of God through the Blood of Christ that saves and sanctifies us to be like Him. And the opposite is also true, we miss heaven for rejecting the Lord's grace of salvation. I would really encourage you to consider and question our beliefs? Do I really love God if I am hurting Him and living in disobedience? Guilt a lot can be a precious gift to receiving the grace of God. xoxo bebs
Amazing reply, not all will understand your perspective thou
First of all, it is our birthday this weekend. March 2 baby here, heavily pregnant with an actual baby 😂 and more dreams. I'm watching this at work because everything hurts. I can barely sit. But Thank the Universe for the sufficiency of grace and good vybes. Ladies, it's Pisces Season. We thrive here. Happy Birthday ladies.
Happy birthday to us❤
1st March here, home with a 2 month old🥰 Happy Birthday March babies!❤
March 2 babe am here❤
The decision is being influenced by the enemy because his aim is to go against God! As Christians, being that we are sinners, we MUST always strive to make the right decisions. Be willing to forgo the SIN! Sinning intentionally is a dangerous dance. Just my two cents❤
Love how you guys have navigated the question on christianity and sexuality. If i may share, 'sexual sins' like fornication etc are things of the flesh. They satisfy the flesh. When it comes to the bible, what it says about things that satisfy the flesh is, not to try to avoid, or to fight it, or not to think about it but to FLEE from it. Like there's no two way to it but just to flee coz the flesh is the worst enemy when it comes your walk with Christ.
Don't we just love these two beautiful women 💕
Lydia, my past relationship was also 7 years ago because I find people with different value systems or who we are completely not aligned, (for instance, someone told me they will marry me but I have to quit my job). Would I want a partner, yes! But, I put desperation on the side, because I will not succumb to the pressure of relationships or marriage, just to be like everyone and end up dating Legion😅. And I am genuinely living happily, because I thrive on gratitude for what I have and not want I don't have.
Murugi, of course, one can have men around them, but if they are not serious suitors, what should one do? A situationship is not a relationship, and I'd rather be single than have a situationship.
Murugi broke me at "Making a conscious decision to sin 😭😭"
I wish we could talk more about this NO sex before marriage thing and the trauma it comes with. It's called Purity culture, but here's the question, what is the goal with keeping ourselves pure before marriage? Does it really help?
And truely how far is far? Because surely Kissing is a sin too, should we also not be in the same room as men?
How many sexual sins have been committed in the Bible alone? There are so many question marks 😢
I battled with this guilt so much-still do. But after i listened to the podcast our Bibles, our ourselves by Blessing Omakwu I got a better perspective of defining my sexual parameters and my relationship with God.
I would recommend to anyone who needs clarity in discerning their decisions in sex.
Edited: I just listened to an episode from "It's related I Promise Podcast" call Faith, sex and secondary virginity.
As an In-betweener, i felt obligated to share for those who need help with findings clarity with their sexual desires.
It's about caution n preve9the atrocities that can happen with reckless sexual encounters prior to marriage. It might lead to;
Wrong decisions
Unwanted pregnancies/abortions
Spiritual ties
Sexual diseases
Cloudy judgement from situationships.
Lack of personal growth
The list is endless.
Sex is a Spiritual experience more than physical I believe so be mindful who you lay with.
I need to listen to that podcast.Am currently going through challenges pertaining my sexual life.The older I get the more sexual desires I have.
Yes to Christianity and sexuality. Especially a pastor. Anyone else agree??? Okay, leo I'm commenting as I watch
On matters sexual purity, before i got married, i was like Lydia. I did fornicate but really didn't feel guilty coz i managed to convince myself that since I was going to get married to this man (which we did) then he was my husband already and so its okay.
In marriage, I've come to realise why God feels so deeply about sexual sin. It's because sexual sin is the only sin where you sin against your body and is with consequences, some of which we can't see or fathom until now you're in a marriage (speaking from experince).
1 Corinthians 6:18-20 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own;
you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.
All i can say is, if we are truly intentional about our relationship with God that is through prayer and reading the Word for ourselves, the Word will change us and purify us, and we wont be comfortable in sin. The Bible is like a mirror essentially.
If i were to go back in time I'd definitely abstain till marriage.
Do you mind sharing the experience? What is it that made you wish you had abstained?
@cindyndeda532 Sex is worship to the Lord. The reason God sex created sex is not primarily for pleasure but to produce Godly offspring, so that we can grow the family of Christ.
In marriage there's no shame in sex it is something so beautiful I can't explain it, you have to experience it to know what I mean. And even in marriage as Murugi said we have to practice purity.
Things like masturbation, watching porn with your partner, oral sex and sexual orgies (3 somes and the like) are considered sin or defiling the marriage bed.
Sex can be so beautiful and wholesome without these things. I experience this in my marriage.
So when I say I wished I abstained is coz now I realise when God says we shouldn't fornicate its because He wants us to enjoy sex only in the confines of marriage.
There is a podcast on Spotify that talks about Faith, Sex and Second Virginity. Honestly, it offers a really refreshing perspective.
Name?
What's the name of the podcast
@sellahchabe1248 It's related I promise is the name of the podcast. It was such an interesting listen. I feel like we give ourselves too much pressure in relation to sex cause of the conditioning
Thank you for making downloads available
The part about both Lyd and Murugi’s moms being pregnant on their wedding days hit hard considering all my siblings and I attended our parents wedding.
I was born 27 days into my parents' wedding 😮
29:56 the spirit is willing but the body is weak
First of all...I loved the intro today,so classy...on the question of sexual sin,I think you guys should consider inviting(you tubers) Michele Ngoje and her husband Ian to help you tackle the issue of sexual purity among young christians...I have heard them address the issue and I was so blessed. Loved the advice, especially the girl getting 20 missed calls from her bf,it only gets worse,alafu the more anamzoea the more he will demand of her,guyz like those get violent really fast.
Thank you so much for the download option I love you 😍 girlies
You two are just amazing 😻
The way I said it's definitely TMIII with a lot of confidence 😂😂😂
Rudisheni hio intro ladies
Banaa...
Happy birthday beautiful souls❤
Finally the choir is out🎉the original definitely TMI!!! Sounds so good
Thank you let me watch my download and come back with my 2mb data to share and comment
I loved this episode soo much. Hearing your different views on the topics is very informative
Thank you TMI for considering our requestss...we can now download🤗🤗🤗...we had missed alot..😢
Can't stop screaming,,I had missed a dilemma episode so bad.
The download button is back! Yeeeei🎉🎉 Much love Lydd and Murugi❤️❤️❤️.. it's definitely TMI. How I love the dilemma episodes 💓
Thank you for bringing back the download button
We need more of this ..... Atleast once a month
A 1st March babe here. Happy birthday gang!!
Happy birthday pretty ladies 🎉❤the universe is lucky Ur in it😊 you had impacted so many live....mine to start with 👌
Another day to thank God that I work from home, because, I get to watch TMI as I work🥳🥳🥳🥳
Isn’t it a beautiful day ? 😍
Hi @dorahmulinge3800 if I may ask, what do you do? I'm looking for work from home opportunities.
Am so glad I discovered TMI the discussions are really nice.
I love the happy upbeat “singing” 😂 I’m 44 and I do it with you
happy birthday darlings.....lov ya'll
Happiest birthday ladies!!
Mine was on Sunday
Pisces 🎉🎉🎉
Aki Murugi and Lyd! I like the way your conscience is alive. And it's your conscience that will either accuse one or excuse one. There's a difference though btwn someone who's conscience is alive and one who has no conscience.
Suggesting Nyawira Gachugi to come talk about matters Christianity 😊
I love this dilemma episode Soo much I'm happy that I'm here watching
Who else feela like Pastor T Mwangi would do justice to that sex conversation?
Happy birthday girls,lydia we share a birthday, 3 march,i turn 30....wow...such a blessing to be alive.
I miss the song already 😢
I salute a woman who can do place holders coz the way i fall in love weeeeh!!!😂
Its murugi saying "jezebel" for me.. aaah murugi
Happy birthday girls. Nime chukua simu ya wenyewe hapa kazi na nime subscribe😂
😂😂😂
Please Siiiiing. The intro was bomb 💣💣
I love the saying than singing ❤
Happy birthday in advance Ladies ❤
May Yahweh bless and keep you both. 🎉
Happy birthday my ladies🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 can't wait to watch how you celebrate 🎈❤
So much love for you Murugi and Lyd❤
Let's just sing guys I love it🤗
Thank you for the download button again❤
"I have been called a lukewarm Christian before by the hot ones I presume" 😂😂😂LYDIAAAA!!! I died 💀💀😭
Same 😂
the pipehot😂😂
Me too...the piping hot ones🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅😅😅
On the point for sex and being a Christian, I saw a preaching by either Kirk Franklin or Mike Todd and they mentioned people in the Bible who God has used to show his power and these people had weaknesses and God still used them and came through for them! 😍😍 That's what comforts me 🥲
Happy birthday 🥳 ladies all the best 🎈🥳
Happy Birthday TMI 🎉🎉🎉
I love this dilemma episodes ❤❤❤
Singing intro like ❤
Murugi and Lydia they align realy well❤
Very unrelated to the convo, but video quality is crisp! flowers to your production team!
Nawapenda
Happy Birthday fellow Pisces queens😍😍😍😍
"And if that sends me to hell I'll be really sad, cause I do love God... If you're watching this" 🥹🥹🥹 I feel you Murugi!!!😭😭😭😭 same here sis🥹🥹
Happy birthday Murugi and Lydia 🙏🎁💐🎂💃♥️💕 My birthday is on the 18th #PiscesQueens
We need the singing intro please🥲
I'm with Murugi on the sexual conversation. I felt a huge relief too when i got married. And of course confessed for the past 🙂
Lydia nice dress. Where did you get it?
It's not Wednesday, it's TMI day🎉🎉🎉
The download button is back,,nimerudi kama I never left na msiitoe tena pliz
Na let’s go back to singinggggggggg😊
For me and my friends I would learn from that modern pastor and Christianity
A place holder helps in the dating world I guess. Like I will talk to different Men and may the best man win. Ain't committing with no ring(and no we don't smash)
The "its definitely TMI" lacked the badassesory that it should have! If its going to be meh, then i accept the singing 😂😂😂
Murugi at 1:03:45…..it's painful but that's the truth....that man will ruin you girl if he's doing that when you're pregnant...what do you mean he says you don't want to see him happy when you call him out...hugs girl
Murugi, you're right about Nigerians 😂😂. First day of meeting you're called babe, second day he confesses his love for you, and on the third day his friends and him are call you our wife😅.. I had to block one because it felt so fake. How can one fall in love with someone they don't even know well??? Love-bombing.
I get you girl 😂😂😂😂
Finally 🎉
What a day TMI episode then love is blind new episodes uuh❤❤
Isn’t it a beautiful day ? 😍
Riiiiiggghhht??
29:10 🤣🤣🤣 I can’t with Murugi Jeeeeez!!!
It's meme-worthy 😂😂😂
My mum's birthday is also on the 3rd of March
It's definitely......
Happy Birthday Murugi ❤️ Sisi ni twins wako 10 years apart 😊 Turning 24 on 2nd March ❤ Sartoooo😂 Happy Birthday Lydddd ❤
New word alert: "Theses lizards!" has me finished 😂😂😂😂
You can maybe have Curtis and Soila or Mitchele Ngoje and her husband on the podcast please please please..
Dilemmas😂😂😂,,, let's gooooo
Let’s go let’s goooo ! 😘🙌🏽
First as always, It's definitely TMI🎉🎉🎉🎉
You know the vibez 🤩
Whaaaat? Where's the singing part?
Hey Big Siz❤❤! It's Definitely TMIIIIIIII💃🏿🚀.
🤩🤩🤩
My day just got better. Hello big sisters
Hello 😍
Ladies ladies ladies, I couldn't sing with you guys today😢😢😢😢.... Whaaaaatttttt?????😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.
When it’s about sin whether sexual or physical its only God who will enable you navigate, your body will always be in conflict with the soul.
"I've been called a luke warm Christian by the hot ones I presume, they're piping hot" 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭 I'm screamingggg Lydia!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Please share the link gor the live with father wounds❤
Finally I can download 😍😅🤭
Yaaaaaaaay 🥳🥳🥳
Its Murugis honesty for me. The bible is clear on fornication and other sins. We all strugglw with these things and I have chosen to do some things that are against the BIble primciples because I have chosen to. Plus it depends on how and where one grew up as Lydia says
It's my birthday on 5th March
Happy birthday fellow pisces 🎉🎉
Great episode😍, heeeh, I was tired of the singing too, on a light note, Also, the way Lydia says Mamaaa!🤦🏿 is very unromantic😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 she used the mama mboga pronunciation instead of ma-maa
I'm team singing. The intro was a NO for me today.
If you bring someone on to discuss sex and Christianity it would be insightful if we had a guy on board to share on whether they struggle with the same questions/shame/guilt and also someone who was not brought up from the staple religions with known texts like christianity judaism and islam like buddhism or asian upbringing. Like the Hindu religion has Kamasutra as a sacred text....
😂 Lydia whyyyy omggggg😂😂😂