I specifically chose to keep this episode as a main episode because I have no shame in sharing where I currently am. “Work” isss my safe space and while it may not be for some, it is for me. And I’ll be whatever you want to say I am. If I’m not an empath, I’m not one. Sure. I appreciate those who can listen objectively and whether you agree with me or not, recognize we all live through the lenses of our own experiences whether we admit it or not. I implore you all to remain on this journey as growth with me. NOW GET BACK TO WORK LMAO! -M
I've been where you are in life before babygirl so I understand, trust me. I can admit I came on a little too strong, and i too might have also been "seeing through my own lenses". I have grown alot over the years and have been through more than most people have in their whole life. So It only comes from a place of wanting others to not make certain mistakes that I did that could've been avoided if I had the right advice. But another thing I've learned is people have to go through their troubles to learn as well. So instead of me trying to help you avoid the trouble. I think it's healthy that you're going through it. AND I THINK YOURE DOING AS BEST AS YOU CAN with what experiences you've had so far. Considering you've never been cheated on before surprises me because of how well you actually are taking it! And i hope you only get better!!!! Glad you found some empathy within this experience. Empathy is one of the most important things we can have as humans. Growing Empathy is a key part of our Growth in Life. Just remember that! This was both karma and the universe teaching you so that you can understand others, NOT BC YOU FVCKED MARRIED MEN, THAT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT. The men who were cheating on their wives will get (or have already gotten) the karam for those situations. 💯🖤Much love and blessings to you mandi!!!! ❤😘🙏🥰💋💯
I healed and learned to love myself by spending alot of time with myself. So keep on doing what you're doing! Smoke you them blunts and take them nature walks and whatever else makes you happy. Try new things and just learn yourself and learn to love every bit of it! 💖💖
I understood your view Mandi and any job or employer would and will do the same and that’s the thing most ppl can’t take with employers but I was also Raised some things are not personal it’s just business and yes IF someone needs that much time off and your business cannot afford it I’m not going let my business suffer bc of that. Just bc I’m empathetic to you doesn’t mean I have to accommodate your need if I can’t. So we both suppose to suffer? I do not agree in that way. And losing a grandparent can very much so be like losing a parent for those who were raised by their grandparents and/or had a deeper relationship with them so that comment was strong and wrong. But I appreciate you being wildly open and honest mandi and as always Weezy for really trying to understand while also holding Mandi accountable. The hoe shit is cool/entertaining but I Really appreciate these kinds of convos and perspectives each week with y’all . Ima get back to see the thing is too Mandi lol but ima get back to work now too like you said suh
Mandii, you're not an empath if you only have empathy for relatable things. An empath is someone who has empathy regardless of if they have relatable situations.
Man, I’ve tried to like Mandi over the years and her break up actually made her more relatable and kinder. But then this episode reminds me that she is a woefully rigid and myopic person. And the whole “I LOVE WORK I HAVE BUSINESSES, I HAVE A CORPORATE MIND” thing isn’t an excuse. I am a senior leader in corporate company that employs 100,000+ people. And I would fire a leader who has such a profound lack of empathy in a heartbeat. It’s interesting she labels her ex as a narcissist. Has her therapist identified she may have psychological issues too that stem from lack of empathy for others?
Wanting someone to get over loosing their parent "for your business model" really disturbed me, especially as Mandi is clearly not over her ex traumatising her, not being able to bridge her feeling of loss to the black hole of loss it would be to loose a parent is insane. Surely if you are at the most successful point of your career you could allow someone an adequate grieving period/ let them to minimum hours at home. Money really makes people loose their humanity and it's a shame, I would be equally judegemental if a man said this but less surprised.
53:30 Mandi met this boy when he was my little brothers age, I can't listen to this podcast anymore omfg how disgusting, I was even thinking about going to the London show YIKES.
@@gracesimba6323facts.. I really have been hesitant to listen to the episodes without guest because Mandi constantly brings up this break up sometime even with guest on and it’s extremely annoying
I was trying to wrap my mind around this as the grieving person and the business owner. The grieving person is going to take however long it takes for them to get moving again, and the business owner hopefully will try to work with the person. But we all know, some businesses aren't able to be that flexible or don't want to. The grieving person may not be able to even THINK about working and the business owner could feel bad for that person, but they have to keep moving. All we can ever ask is that someone will have the ability to help us stay employed when we feel like our whole world has fallen apart.
@@oreabejide I'd say so, in doing things because you know it's the right thing or because you want the other person to be happy and not because you understand what the person is going through. Still a kind person
The conversation about losing a parent and work, Mandi pov is crazy to me she's not really empathetic unless she unless experience something She really can't put herself in someone's shoes. Capitalism and work will never end. It's a non-ending cycle. People gotta experience their emotions
Mandi as someone in HR, as much as you need your business run, you can always hire someone temporarily to replace the person who needs leave for losing a parent. Probably cheaper than the lawsuit you would get if the person choses to sue you for not allowing their leave for needing to grieve
: but you just said the same thing. The job still has to get done, so you’re gonna find someone to come in and do it. The operation isn’t going to shut down for one person. You fill the need and keep going. That’s not to say that the person can’t come back; but being down a person is just not feasible in every scenario
Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition that requires medical diagnosis. Also it is not curable. It honestly seems like Mandy had poor self image and that showed up in how she viewed others. As her self image has improved so has her view of other.
Mandii is the complete opposite of an empath and proved it with every statement she made in this episode lol all she does is listens to respond, and rarely listens to understand or comprehend. I hope she continues to grow and starts holding herself accountable more.
It sucks because people like Mandii have to learn from experience in order to understand/ feel anything.. that’s a really karmic way of living.. similar to the, “it’ll never be me” and then God humbles you very quickly.. it feels like she gets defensive/ doubles down when she feels called out instead of leading with grace. As someone who has lost both parents, and countless family members I hope she’ll be able to stomach to lost of her close ones. I dated someone who acted this way, when his mom got cancer and unfortunately passed- he suddenly had understanding.. like it shouldn’t have taken you lose everything to have a heart..
Mandi is a narcissist. She met a worst narcissist and he taught her humility. His trauma bonded her and she's shocked that someone made it past her tough exterior and hurt her. Mandi sounds like a horrible human being. Treats her employees and friends like shit under the guise of tough love or being "honest". I'm sure that she has deliberately hurt many over the years, she's finally getting a taste of the shit she's been dishing out. That is all.
Mandiii girllll idk about this one. The corporate white male mindset is reasons why our community suffers. I get you're proud of where you are, but don't forgot your humble beginnings.
This this this! It wasn’t commendable to hear she compares the way she runs her business to how the do in corporate America. I would hope someone in her position would see the harm in having that mindset and choose to run her business differently. There are so many more options than viewing your employees as replaceable/disposable.
Mandii is so lost and doesn’t like to be wrong or corrected. She has ALOTTTT to learn which may never happen because she doesn’t think she’s wrong and doesn’t listen. Super hard headed and combative
TRUE. Mandii is STRONG and WRONG most of the time, but she is just too ignorant/insecure/selfish/defensive to notice. If Mandii wasn't so abrasive, I would actually pity her. I am proud of her work ethic and accomplishments, though 🙏🏾✨❤️. I hope she heals for real.
Realizing how hard it must be for weezy having these conversations with mandi solo really put it in perspective. They’re having these conversations without our dialogue or any other persons at that moment so think about how hard it must be.. and she still holds it down and makes valid points AND it’s still good content and conversation. Idk if I’m explaining my point the way I’m intending to. Oh and vice versa when the shoes are on the other foot in their conversations
She knows damn well she’s trauma dumping on her friends hell she can’t make it through 3 minutes on this pod without talking about her ex 🤨 she lacks empathy AND accountability
Mandii brings up finances and her living situation up like that makes her a good partner/person .The exact thing she said she hates men lead with. She’s lacks substance and is self centered and that’s not even close to being a good partner At 30 plus to still be this mentally stunted is actually sad. And to have no empathy for someone dealing with a death of family when she’s been constantly talking about the “grief” of her break up for months. This girl is lost
Damn lost a lot of respect for Mandi in this one. Her thinking losing a grandparent is anything similar to losing a parent is wild. The white corporate man treated me better than she clearly would treat her own when I lost my mom. Good luck when she loses hers cause what…….
@@Chellie4854 no. I was lucky enough to be raised by both but no. It is also tragic, but the severing of a very different relationship. I try to express this to people as much as possible. Even estranged parents when they die- it is the separation and severance of a very different relationship and tie
Couldn’t even finish the episode after Mandi pity party. The KARMA and HUMILITY will not stop until she can actually learn and grow from it. Crazy how she is mentioning realizing how she’s talked shit about other people relationship and still continues to clearly lack empathy. Ima pray her homegirl (the universe) protects her mama
It’s interesting that after being “cheated” on, the one thing Mandii didn’t mention feeling bad about was knowingly sleeping with married men and then proudly saying it on the show 🤔 I love the show but that was one of her biggest cringe moments for me. I hope now she truly realizes that was a messed up thing to do and that she has some sort of empathy for those wives.
Unfortunately she is still missing it(Mandi) the lesson has not been fully learned. Being humbled when you think solely of your own feeling will rock your world. overall great episode. I love how Weezy takes her time trying to get you to fully understand . Patience is indeed a virtue.
I find it insane mandi thinks her relationship is worth being worked up over but losing a parent isn’t? lol she’s wild made me look at her completely different
A really good manager should always be prepared for life’s unfortunate events. If you run a proper team in the corporate sense, if someone needs time off for grievance, health or otherwise. Healthy corporate environments that are prepared for this, have happier employees.
I lost my grandma in June (who along with my grandfather were basically my parttime parents), and I cried for months prior to her death (she was sent home on hospice), made several damn comics about it, and now I still surprise cry throughout the day. My job gave me a week. I was able to fly home and reminisce with my family about her, go to her funeral and celebrate her life, grieve her departure, rekindle old familial relationships, and then return to work. I don't own a business, but I can definitely say that I appreciated that my job gave me that much time for my granny.
Also mandi, its okay to think the way you do. But if its really not right, the universe will keep putting you through certain things until your way of thinking changes. And if it never does, then youll never stop going through certain things like this. Just how life is!!!!
This is the episode where Weezy actually discovered that Mandii just talks to talk...doesnt know herself and doesn't even realize what she just said. And she is never completely honest about her feelings. She 100% gave the impression that all of those break ups were her doing the breaking up. She also uses the wrong words..so she says a lot of stuff that will end up looking false because she doesnt know the definition. For example empath. And if you can only show kindness about something if you can relate..or if it's your friend..you are the one that is a narcisscist. Which she admitted years ago, but doesn't realize she still is. She is in therapy and learning nothing about herself..but just finding the faults of the guy. I think at 14:20 Weezy saw how deep her issues are and that she's not really a great partner..or person like she thinks she is. She knows nobody ask for no fucking 2 months
The transformation of their relationship is really great to see. You can tell they are now friends and care for each other. I think this past relationship has made Mandii mature and change in aspects that maybe she hasn't realized the more I hear her speak. Heartbreaks are hard and take time to heal from but the lessons learned throughout those hardships are ones we never forget.
He clearly was younger than 18..that's why she said she wouldn't be able to tell anybody about him. She groomed a damn teenager that she knew was going to get drafted..admitted it on camera and nobody will say a damn thing. Let a man do this and watch what happens. Even if it was legal, what the hell is a 30 something woman doing entertaining a boy that will never take her seriously. when that is clearly what she wants?
I really like Weezy’s patience with Mandi. Weezy you’re so level headed and understanding. And real af. Mandi … yea. Healing is a journey. Empathy isn’t something you are. Either you have empathy or not. Everyone is not an empath and that’s okay. But heal and grow. You’ll be ard after you learn more in life. That’s all I got. Anywho, Gila is a cute weird ass name lol
I just started watching & I could never be friends with someone like Mandi, she’s selfish a’f that losing a parent convo was enough for me. I’m actually happy she’s going through a bad breakup maybe she’ll learn something 🤷🏾♀️
I found this episode hella hard to her through because of Mandi’s lack of self awareness or even active listening. She’s operating from what sounds like such a place of hurt & defensiveness. Mandi, sis, ya got work to do…which is very human.
MANDI, YOU WILL NEVER TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY AND WILL NEVER BE TRULY HONEST WITH YOURSELF OR ANYONE IF YOU CANT ADMIT THAT THIS BREAKUP WAS KARMIC. THE UNIVERSE TEACHES YOU THINGS BY PUTTING YOU THROUGH SOMETHING SO THAT YOU CAN BUILD THE STRENGTH TO GET YOURSELF OUT. KARMA ISNT A BAD THING. THINGS FALL APART SO BETTER THINGS CAN FALL TOGETHER. THE UNIVERSE NEEDED YOU TO STOP MAKING OTHERS FEEL BAD ABOUT THEIR GROWTH PROCESS AND PAIN AND TO STOP JUDGING THEM. TRUE EMPATHS DONT HAVE TO GO THROUGH SOMETHING TO UNDERSTAND IT. REAL EMPATHS DEEPLY FEEL THE SAME EMOTIONS AS ANOTHER WOULD SO THAT WE CAN COMFORT AND UNDERSTAND THEM WITH THE BEST POSSIBLE PERSPECTIVE. SINCE YOU ARE NOT AN EMPATH, AND YOU WERE MOVING AND JUDGING OTHERS AS IF YOU DID KNOW WHAT THESE PEOPLE WERE GOING THROUGH, THE UNIVERSE DECIDED TO SHOW YOU HOW THEY FELT, MAYBE EVEN WORSE, JUST SO THAT YOU COULD NO LONGER MAKE ANYONE ELSE FEEL BAD ABOUT THE WAY THEY HANDELED THE SAME OR A SIMILAR SITUATION!!!! JUST ADMIT TO IT, ACCEPT IT, UNDERSTAND IT, HANDEL IT, AND THEN YOU CAN MOVE PAST IT!!!! BUT BE HUMBLE AND USE HUMILITY. YOULL NEVER BE UNDERSTOOD EITHER IF YOU DONT LET YOURSELF BE. YOU HAVE TO BE OPEN AND HONEST AND NOT ASHAMED OF YOUR PAIN OR MISTAKES SO THAT YOU CAN FORGIVE YOURSELF AND TEACH OTHERS TO. Happy growth to you Mandi & Weezy youre so beautiful and such a great empath and humble human!!!! Keep being you ❤😍🥰 Ps. Mandi, I know you might not have realized you were hurting others, but the universe doesn't look over that sh!t so this definitely was KARMIC for you, but that isn't necessarily a bad thing! It needed to be done so that you could become a better human, and not hurt others anymore rather it was un or in-tentionally 💯🖤 And trust me, theres still alot more to come since you obviously still have such a closed and "corporate" mindset! Just be ready!!! 💪
Mandi needs to be on an island by herself. Well with her cat, her studio and that one friend who can check on her because she’s going through heartbreak and not have a life. I think that’ll be perfect for her. How dare the world not revolve her.
I KNEW this realization was coming Court! It’s bittersweet, but it’ll definitely humble you going forward. I too have experienced what I didn’t understand but spoke on.. I love y’all 💓
Ugh I love this podcast especially for Weezy but Mandi really makes it hard to watch. She tells us time and time again she only cares about her friends and her family and no one else. I can’t ever see her knowing what empathy looks like with the mindset she has now. I can only hope as she goes through life that her selfish mindset will change.
I’ve lost a parent and the things that have to be handled after a loss takes time! Sometimes more than 2 months which means you don’t even have an opportunity to even mourn the loss until all the paperwork is done.
A TRUE empath feels the emotions of others no matter if they’ve been through similar or not. If you are not a true empath, then you will feel just like this where you can only relate to the emotion of someone if you’ve gone through similar yourself. If you have no feeling towards someone’s experience/emotion whether it’s your friend/family or not, then usually you are considered a narcissist. Mandii may not be a narcissist but she she sure isn’t an empath. She is growing and slowly understanding her emotions while learning to become more empathetic. With time she will better understand the meaning behind all her emotions and how to better deal with them. 💕
I am a person really trying to understand Mandii and like her but my issue is she is super self-absorbed. Everything in her life is about her and has to be for it to work. Including her friendships. She is NOT empathetic. I'm not sure even a little bit. Just hearing her talk about loss. I was like that's the shit her therapist needs to tap into. But she has to as well and I'm not sure when she will be able to. I appreciate the growth she has shown but whew... Work is my safe space That doesn't justify that shit. It's lack of EMPATHY...which Mandii lacks. And sits in the bullshit. I've lost my mother. Imagine I was working for this chick. Employers have bereavement. What is this girl talking about? Anyone sitting in that room as an employee should look at her nuts. Even quit. It has 100 percent to do with empathy
Sometimes it seems like Mandi is trying to disagree with Weezy on purpose. And your view on loosing a parent and showing up to work is wild..i wouldn't want to work for you after hearing your views.
Baby, being a true empath means that not only can you innerstand what people feel, you may even be able to physically feel what another is feeling. Now, what you have is perspective on the people you used to judge and that my beautiful Mandii, is GROWTH!!!! PROUD OF YOU!!!
It makes me sad hearing "work" is Mandii's safe space. I once heard someone say if you don't heal you will feel.....she may be stuck in a karmic loop like Weezy was gently trying to say. I like the moments between 5:00 min to 13:00 on Weezy's part. Idk i think healing isnt linear so I wish Mandii the best alwaysss. Sometimes hearing a difference in opinion from them both helps break the parasocial bond 😅
So proud of Mandi’s honesty… a lot of ppl feel and think this way and don’t care enough to be vulnerable and share Also shout out to Weezy for listening and speaking to holding accountability and valuing truth and perspective Weezyyyyy scissor meeee pleaseee lol
As an empath, I think it allows you to sympathetize with someone's struggles whether you can personally identify with it or not. It's like oh that snake bit you. Im sure that hurt. I dont have to be personally bit. I think that's what Weezy was trying to say.
I appreciate people calling her out for not being an empath cause she’s not but people calling her out don’t mean they don’t love her nor care about her so don’t take it as aggressive or shots towards you Mandi. Even criticism can come from a place of love.
I totally can relate to not having empathy for other’s going through traumatic dating experiences. From the outside, it looks easy to dissect. But I too am currently experiencing the end of a very toxic, and emotionally complicated relationship that kept me in shambles and on the other side the kind of advice I needed from friends I never got so I always liked her calling a thing a thing. I too probably need to apologize for not saying the cliche thing so my friends could confidently keep effing themselves in the head with silly men and women…but to experience abuse, people need to realize how much you can miss the forest for the trees even if you’re in the forest. I send good energy your way Mandi. I don’t think people understand how dark of a place you’re coming from. It’s never going to “come off” the way they think your healing should. And at least you’re actively working on yourself. 💕
Chile mandi mandi mandi…..this episode was hard to get thru with her mindset shes def a narcissist & needs to fix herself instead of that man she’s obsessed with
Speaking on Weezy’s situation w her friend. You don’t know how hard it is for someone to open up & be vulnerable. I’ve been friends with one of my friends for YEARS & I only recently opened up to her about some trauma that I went through. Everyone heals & deals with life differently.
It’s crazy to me how Mandi is really getting all the growth she needed out of finally having a serious relationship. This is why I recommend REAL dating in your 20s and giving yourself time to make the emotional mistakes and investments that are apart of love. I can say that I always feared being old and ignorant or getting older and not having taken the time to learn learn lessons in the proper season. Take your time, be humble, have humility and listen to other people. We can’t possibly know everything and our experiences individually are very limited in the world. The more you allow yourself to learn and explore through listening to others the more easily you’ll be able to move through these breakups without being DOWN BAD like this.
Damn I typed this ( and youtube pauses it while you type) and as soon as I finished Weezy said I don’t if this is maybe karma and the universe teaching you some humility. SAME to lack so much humility for so long THIS is the only way GOD could reach you sis. He had to smack you down.
I hate to let the cat out of the bag..but Mandii was not in a relationship. Her and that dude were pandemic bae's. She made it a relationship in her mind. As soon as we got back outside he was back to business. Just because he was willing to meet her friends, take out the trash and stretch her muscles doesn't mean he wanted her as his girl forever. He only dragged it out because she was about sex clubs, 3sums and willing to take him back every time he broke up. She waited until after 30 and decided to force something with a 50 year old. This so crazy it may just be content creation
so in short mandi isn’t an empath at all lol only feeling for those who you can relate to is more sympathetic. thank god weezy is the voice of reason in these situations
I think as people we get caught up on how much “growth” we feel a person should have, but at the end of the day growth is growth and it’s subjective to each individual person. This was a very REAL conversation, and even though I may not agree on some of the takes, I respect the vulnerability and honesty 👏🏾🤎
Hola girls! Mandii exposes everything she learns and how she's changing while it's happening so all of the judgement for what she still needs to learn is not necessary. She's so brave for sharing the way she does cause y'all do not allow people to change and grow. So yes she doesn't yet fully understand what being a empath is but geez let her make her mistake and come back like she always does ... notice that. Notice how she bravely admits when she's wrong; so many people don't have that level of authenticity. I love y'all ladies!!!
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 All I hear is blessings unfolding for you Mandi B. Your vulnerability, honesty and accountability is beautiful. Thank you for sharing your healing with us.
An Empath doesn't have to go through the same thing in order to feel empathy. They feel it anyways, it's a much more heightened experience! Having empathy is a normal human experience. (Unless you're a sociopath. Not calling Mandi that BTW❤)
Having listened to your podcast over the years, I’m struck by the progression of both of you. In regards to the conversation around empathy, I wonder whether Mandi might be neurodivergent? Struggling with cognitive empathy is a fundamental factor in autism. It’s beautiful to see how much patience and emotional intellect Weezy has when having these sorts of chats. Much love 🫶🏽
I love the introspection and I love when y’all serious the pod out, ik it’s not everyone’s fav but for me this is a güd episode ❤ love the accountability Mandii that was kind to even circle back and apologize to the supporters who shared their stories that u shat on low key. Nice job sis, growth ✨
Had to tune out of this episode as someone grieving the loss of both of her parents. Shoutout to Weezy for holding Mandii accountable. An empath is empathetic to all, not just those they can “relate” to….
The conversation about friends and relationships is a good one!! I agree with Weezy 100%!! And Mandi as far as friends falling short when they are in relationships. I share the sentiments exactly
Hope Mandi watches her words -- money is the root to all evilness and homegirl is not understanding . Hope she never has to experience a real lost … sound a like a trauma defense
I specifically chose to keep this episode as a main episode because I have no shame in sharing where I currently am. “Work” isss my safe space and while it may not be for some, it is for me. And I’ll be whatever you want to say I am. If I’m not an empath, I’m not one. Sure.
I appreciate those who can listen objectively and whether you agree with me or not, recognize we all live through the lenses of our own experiences whether we admit it or not. I implore you all to remain on this journey as growth with me.
NOW GET BACK TO WORK LMAO! -M
Don’t be calling me out like that Mandi 😂 I need to get back to work fr tho , love ya❤
I've been where you are in life before babygirl so I understand, trust me. I can admit I came on a little too strong, and i too might have also been "seeing through my own lenses". I have grown alot over the years and have been through more than most people have in their whole life. So It only comes from a place of wanting others to not make certain mistakes that I did that could've been avoided if I had the right advice. But another thing I've learned is people have to go through their troubles to learn as well. So instead of me trying to help you avoid the trouble. I think it's healthy that you're going through it. AND I THINK YOURE DOING AS BEST AS YOU CAN with what experiences you've had so far. Considering you've never been cheated on before surprises me because of how well you actually are taking it! And i hope you only get better!!!! Glad you found some empathy within this experience. Empathy is one of the most important things we can have as humans. Growing Empathy is a key part of our Growth in Life. Just remember that! This was both karma and the universe teaching you so that you can understand others, NOT BC YOU FVCKED MARRIED MEN, THAT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT. The men who were cheating on their wives will get (or have already gotten) the karam for those situations. 💯🖤Much love and blessings to you mandi!!!! ❤😘🙏🥰💋💯
I healed and learned to love myself by spending alot of time with myself. So keep on doing what you're doing! Smoke you them blunts and take them nature walks and whatever else makes you happy. Try new things and just learn yourself and learn to love every bit of it! 💖💖
I understood your view Mandi and any job or employer would and will do the same and that’s the thing most ppl can’t take with employers but I was also Raised some things are not personal it’s just business and yes IF someone needs that much time off and your business cannot afford it I’m not going let my business suffer bc of that. Just bc I’m empathetic to you doesn’t mean I have to accommodate your need if I can’t. So we both suppose to suffer? I do not agree in that way.
And losing a grandparent can very much so be like losing a parent for those who were raised by their grandparents and/or had a deeper relationship with them so that comment was strong and wrong.
But I appreciate you being wildly open and honest mandi and as always Weezy for really trying to understand while also holding Mandi accountable. The hoe shit is cool/entertaining but I Really appreciate these kinds of convos and perspectives each week with y’all .
Ima get back to see the thing is too Mandi lol but ima get back to work now too like you said suh
Live yo life love ❤❤❤❤
If you can only see things through the lense of your own experiences you are not an empath🖤
Exactly
Correct. Its opposite to the actual definition of empathy forsure.
I think mandii had empathic or empathy mixed up with being empath
What mandi is describing is sympathy not empathy
@djharris8491 she is none of those though....according to her own words that isn't what any form of the word empathy is
Mandii, you're not an empath if you only have empathy for relatable things. An empath is someone who has empathy regardless of if they have relatable situations.
Yeah it's called sympathy
Weezy is holding Mandy accountable, and I agree this isn’t Karmic is humility. We all have to grow .
Man, I’ve tried to like Mandi over the years and her break up actually made her more relatable and kinder. But then this episode reminds me that she is a woefully rigid and myopic person. And the whole “I LOVE WORK I HAVE BUSINESSES, I HAVE A CORPORATE MIND” thing isn’t an excuse. I am a senior leader in corporate company that employs 100,000+ people. And I would fire a leader who has such a profound lack of empathy in a heartbeat. It’s interesting she labels her ex as a narcissist. Has her therapist identified she may have psychological issues too that stem from lack of empathy for others?
Wanting someone to get over loosing their parent "for your business model" really disturbed me, especially as Mandi is clearly not over her ex traumatising her, not being able to bridge her feeling of loss to the black hole of loss it would be to loose a parent is insane. Surely if you are at the most successful point of your career you could allow someone an adequate grieving period/ let them to minimum hours at home. Money really makes people loose their humanity and it's a shame, I would be equally judegemental if a man said this but less surprised.
53:30 Mandi met this boy when he was my little brothers age, I can't listen to this podcast anymore omfg how disgusting, I was even thinking about going to the London show YIKES.
But she can’t get over a man breaking up with her. She is just a sad gal
@@gracesimba6323facts.. I really have been hesitant to listen to the episodes without guest because Mandi constantly brings up this break up sometime even with guest on and it’s extremely annoying
I was trying to wrap my mind around this as the grieving person and the business owner. The grieving person is going to take however long it takes for them to get moving again, and the business owner hopefully will try to work with the person. But we all know, some businesses aren't able to be that flexible or don't want to. The grieving person may not be able to even THINK about working and the business owner could feel bad for that person, but they have to keep moving. All we can ever ask is that someone will have the ability to help us stay employed when we feel like our whole world has fallen apart.
This. She says financially she’s at a good place. Yet she can’t afford for someone to take time off if they are grieving? Like make it make sense lol
Ma'am you are the exact opposite of an empath lmao. That doesnt mean you still arent a kind and loyal person. The terms arent interchangable 😂
Right! She can be sympathetic def not empathetic!
do kind people lack empathy ??
Right lmao Mandii isn’t even empath adjacent lol she ain’t nothing or nowhere close to an empath 😂
@@oreabejide I'd say so, in doing things because you know it's the right thing or because you want the other person to be happy and not because you understand what the person is going through. Still a kind person
@@Walmartgimp people who are kind are empathetic. kind people are considerate. warm, & genuine. nice people are not empathetic
Mandi using all this therapy lingo like she’s learning something 😭 girl your memorizing words lmao
Thts what they all do lol
Facts 😂😂 she is the same and only feeling a way because she got played by a bum and she thought she knew better but she does not 😂
The conversation about losing a parent and work, Mandi pov is crazy to me she's not really empathetic unless she unless experience something She really can't put herself in someone's shoes. Capitalism and work will never end. It's a non-ending cycle. People gotta experience their emotions
I can understand that because I'm the same way. Until I experience it, I can't empathize with it. Even then, I might not get it.
Mandi as someone in HR, as much as you need your business run, you can always hire someone temporarily to replace the person who needs leave for losing a parent. Probably cheaper than the lawsuit you would get if the person choses to sue you for not allowing their leave for needing to grieve
: but you just said the same thing. The job still has to get done, so you’re gonna find someone to come in and do it. The operation isn’t going to shut down for one person. You fill the need and keep going. That’s not to say that the person can’t come back; but being down a person is just not feasible in every scenario
That’s y she said temporarily.
She's a trash human being. Getting sued for wrongful termination is the only way she would learn a lesson in treating her employees like humans.
After watching the entire Pod, I’m convinced that Mandii is a narcissist herself.
Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition that requires medical diagnosis. Also it is not curable.
It honestly seems like Mandy had poor self image and that showed up in how she viewed others. As her self image has improved so has her view of other.
She actually said she was years ago somewhere around episode 6
@@War22652 Well damn. Straight from the horse's mouth. Forget it.
Lol Mandii has empathy for grieving a relationship but not a death
Wild!!! 🤦🏽♀️
like huh? she keep talking bout this man who dogged her MONTHS ago but losing a parent the person could just “go to the funeral” she’s ridiculous 😂
Ass backwards
Lol of someone you know your whole life at that. Thats crazy
Listening to Mandi really opened my eyes about her mindset and who she really is. Lol yikes
Fr, like WOWWW
She’s low key narcissistic asf, self centered, selfish and can’t never take accountability fr.. ima Weezy fan all the way love her pure heart realbess
Mandi still has a lot to learn. But that is life.
Mandii is the complete opposite of an empath and proved it with every statement she made in this episode lol all she does is listens to respond, and rarely listens to understand or comprehend. I hope she continues to grow and starts holding herself accountable more.
Mandi sounds exhausting as a friend and partner but glad she's working on herself
so exhausting bro
100%
Yes! 😢
@@jordanluthers4209you must be the ex tf…
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It sucks because people like Mandii have to learn from experience in order to understand/ feel anything.. that’s a really karmic way of living.. similar to the, “it’ll never be me” and then God humbles you very quickly.. it feels like she gets defensive/ doubles down when she feels called out instead of leading with grace. As someone who has lost both parents, and countless family members I hope she’ll be able to stomach to lost of her close ones. I dated someone who acted this way, when his mom got cancer and unfortunately passed- he suddenly had understanding.. like it shouldn’t have taken you lose everything to have a heart..
Well said
Mandi is a narcissist. She met a worst narcissist and he taught her humility. His trauma bonded her and she's shocked that someone made it past her tough exterior and hurt her.
Mandi sounds like a horrible human being. Treats her employees and friends like shit under the guise of tough love or being "honest". I'm sure that she has deliberately hurt many over the years, she's finally getting a taste of the shit she's been dishing out. That is all.
I feel like Weezy has definitely outgrown Mandi
I love how weezy holds Mandii accountable for wild stuff, she says.. Mandii, you are no empath lol you are the opposite
Mandiii girllll idk about this one. The corporate white male mindset is reasons why our community suffers. I get you're proud of where you are, but don't forgot your humble beginnings.
This this this! It wasn’t commendable to hear she compares the way she runs her business to how the do in corporate America. I would hope someone in her position would see the harm in having that mindset and choose to run her business differently. There are so many more options than viewing your employees as replaceable/disposable.
I would truly hate to ever see her in any position of true power because she has a sinister spirit.
Mandii has therapized her whole life. She has "learned" and started using these buzzwords but she's misusing them in every way.
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Mandii is so lost and doesn’t like to be wrong or corrected. She has ALOTTTT to learn which may never happen because she doesn’t think she’s wrong and doesn’t listen. Super hard headed and combative
TRUE. Mandii is STRONG and WRONG most of the time, but she is just too ignorant/insecure/selfish/defensive to notice. If Mandii wasn't so abrasive, I would actually pity her. I am proud of her work ethic and accomplishments, though 🙏🏾✨❤️. I hope she heals for real.
Realizing how hard it must be for weezy having these conversations with mandi solo really put it in perspective. They’re having these conversations without our dialogue or any other persons at that moment so think about how hard it must be.. and she still holds it down and makes valid points AND it’s still good content and conversation. Idk if I’m explaining my point the way I’m intending to. Oh and vice versa when the shoes are on the other foot in their conversations
I 100% agree. Weezy holds her ground when it comes to Mandii, but you can tell she chooses her words carefully to avoid offending Mandii
She knows damn well she’s trauma dumping on her friends hell she can’t make it through 3 minutes on this pod without talking about her ex 🤨 she lacks empathy AND accountability
Finally somebody said it!
Hee friends got to be tired of her ass. The ones that need her will continue to take her shit though.
That part!!!
Right and on her other pod
Literally right after the fucking intro
Humility isn’t about being selfless but thinking about your self LESS.
Mandii bb, we got to pause before we respond! I’m working on it myself
Mandii brings up finances and her living situation up like that makes her a good partner/person .The exact thing she said she hates men lead with. She’s lacks substance and is self centered and that’s not even close to being a good partner
At 30 plus to still be this mentally stunted is actually sad.
And to have no empathy for someone dealing with a death of family when she’s been constantly talking about the “grief” of her break up for months. This girl is lost
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Damn lost a lot of respect for Mandi in this one. Her thinking losing a grandparent is anything similar to losing a parent is wild. The white corporate man treated me better than she clearly would treat her own when I lost my mom. Good luck when she loses hers cause what…….
She’ll probably need time to grieve if her cat dies or if she goes bankrupt, or even losing a friend. She’s made it clear what’s valuable to her.
I mean grandparents are like parents for those who were raised by their grandparents, no?
@@Chellie4854 no. I was lucky enough to be raised by both but no. It is also tragic, but the severing of a very different relationship. I try to express this to people as much as possible. Even estranged parents when they die- it is the separation and severance of a very different relationship and tie
loll and she says shes learned to have empathy. she clearly lacks empathy
@@devankathryn ahhh, thank you for pointing that out. ❤️
Mandii’s view on losing a parent is wild.
Mandii is definitely NOT an empath, and she does not listen. She still has a whole lot of growing to do.
I love Weezy's energy towards Maggie 😂😂😂
Couldn’t even finish the episode after Mandi pity party. The KARMA and HUMILITY will not stop until she can actually learn and grow from it. Crazy how she is mentioning realizing how she’s talked shit about other people relationship and still continues to clearly lack empathy. Ima pray her homegirl (the universe) protects her mama
It’s interesting that after being “cheated” on, the one thing Mandii didn’t mention feeling bad about was knowingly sleeping with married men and then proudly saying it on the show 🤔 I love the show but that was one of her biggest cringe moments for me. I hope now she truly realizes that was a messed up thing to do and that she has some sort of empathy for those wives.
Right now she knows how those wives feel
Unfortunately she is still missing it(Mandi) the lesson has not been fully learned. Being humbled when you think solely of your own feeling will rock your world. overall great episode.
I love how Weezy takes her time trying to get you to fully understand . Patience is indeed a virtue.
Same! And I like that when you saw that she still wasn't getting it, she moved on instead going in on her.
Weezy & Mandi being vulnerable to us is therapy in itself i like how far u have come & grown as women i hope u both find what u looking for long term
I find it insane mandi thinks her relationship is worth being worked up over but losing a parent isn’t? lol she’s wild made me look at her completely different
Mandii so self absorbed, I can’t understand how people have the patience. You not an empath, actually the complete opposite lol.
Honestly dont know how Weezy works with Mandi
A really good manager should always be prepared for life’s unfortunate events. If you run a proper team in the corporate sense, if someone needs time off for grievance, health or otherwise.
Healthy corporate environments that are prepared for this, have happier employees.
I lost my grandma in June (who along with my grandfather were basically my parttime parents), and I cried for months prior to her death (she was sent home on hospice), made several damn comics about it, and now I still surprise cry throughout the day. My job gave me a week. I was able to fly home and reminisce with my family about her, go to her funeral and celebrate her life, grieve her departure, rekindle old familial relationships, and then return to work. I don't own a business, but I can definitely say that I appreciated that my job gave me that much time for my granny.
How many more days would you have needed if you had to plan it?
That girl has so much more Karma coming her way with that mindset, smh.
Also mandi, its okay to think the way you do. But if its really not right, the universe will keep putting you through certain things until your way of thinking changes. And if it never does, then youll never stop going through certain things like this. Just how life is!!!!
This is the episode where Weezy actually discovered that Mandii just talks to talk...doesnt know herself and doesn't even realize what she just said. And she is never completely honest about her feelings. She 100% gave the impression that all of those break ups were her doing the breaking up. She also uses the wrong words..so she says a lot of stuff that will end up looking false because she doesnt know the definition. For example empath. And if you can only show kindness about something if you can relate..or if it's your friend..you are the one that is a narcisscist. Which she admitted years ago, but doesn't realize she still is. She is in therapy and learning nothing about herself..but just finding the faults of the guy. I think at 14:20 Weezy saw how deep her issues are and that she's not really a great partner..or person like she thinks she is. She knows nobody ask for no fucking 2 months
The transformation of their relationship is really great to see. You can tell they are now friends and care for each other. I think this past relationship has made Mandii mature and change in aspects that maybe she hasn't realized the more I hear her speak. Heartbreaks are hard and take time to heal from but the lessons learned throughout those hardships are ones we never forget.
Yooo.. being almost 30 and "talking" to a 18 year old.. and later having sex, with them being 22, IS WILD!!! 🤯😱😖
I thought I was the only one who thought that was crazy like she saying it like its regular...wild predatory
He clearly was younger than 18..that's why she said she wouldn't be able to tell anybody about him. She groomed a damn teenager that she knew was going to get drafted..admitted it on camera and nobody will say a damn thing. Let a man do this and watch what happens. Even if it was legal, what the hell is a 30 something woman doing entertaining a boy that will never take her seriously. when that is clearly what she wants?
@@War22652men get away with this stuff all day everyday 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@materialgirl4769doesn’t make it okay
I really like Weezy’s patience with Mandi.
Weezy you’re so level headed and understanding. And real af. Mandi … yea. Healing is a journey. Empathy isn’t something you are. Either you have empathy or not. Everyone is not an empath and that’s okay. But heal and grow. You’ll be ard after you learn more in life. That’s all I got.
Anywho, Gila is a cute weird ass name lol
Telling people they have to be stoic after losing a parent is wild to me. In my opinion a "bad break up" is much more trivial than that
I just started watching & I could never be friends with someone like Mandi, she’s selfish a’f that losing a parent convo was enough for me. I’m actually happy she’s going through a bad breakup maybe she’ll learn something 🤷🏾♀️
I found this episode hella hard to her through because of Mandi’s lack of self awareness or even active listening. She’s operating from what sounds like such a place of hurt & defensiveness. Mandi, sis, ya got work to do…which is very human.
Y’all just realized this about mandi??? She says fuck dem kids like every episode!!! We here for her sex talk not her morals
MANDI, YOU WILL NEVER TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY AND WILL NEVER BE TRULY HONEST WITH YOURSELF OR ANYONE IF YOU CANT ADMIT THAT THIS BREAKUP WAS KARMIC. THE UNIVERSE TEACHES YOU THINGS BY PUTTING YOU THROUGH SOMETHING SO THAT YOU CAN BUILD THE STRENGTH TO GET YOURSELF OUT. KARMA ISNT A BAD THING. THINGS FALL APART SO BETTER THINGS CAN FALL TOGETHER. THE UNIVERSE NEEDED YOU TO STOP MAKING OTHERS FEEL BAD ABOUT THEIR GROWTH PROCESS AND PAIN AND TO STOP JUDGING THEM. TRUE EMPATHS DONT HAVE TO GO THROUGH SOMETHING TO UNDERSTAND IT. REAL EMPATHS DEEPLY FEEL THE SAME EMOTIONS AS ANOTHER WOULD SO THAT WE CAN COMFORT AND UNDERSTAND THEM WITH THE BEST POSSIBLE PERSPECTIVE. SINCE YOU ARE NOT AN EMPATH, AND YOU WERE MOVING AND JUDGING OTHERS AS IF YOU DID KNOW WHAT THESE PEOPLE WERE GOING THROUGH, THE UNIVERSE DECIDED TO SHOW YOU HOW THEY FELT, MAYBE EVEN WORSE, JUST SO THAT YOU COULD NO LONGER MAKE ANYONE ELSE FEEL BAD ABOUT THE WAY THEY HANDELED THE SAME OR A SIMILAR SITUATION!!!! JUST ADMIT TO IT, ACCEPT IT, UNDERSTAND IT, HANDEL IT, AND THEN YOU CAN MOVE PAST IT!!!! BUT BE HUMBLE AND USE HUMILITY. YOULL NEVER BE UNDERSTOOD EITHER IF YOU DONT LET YOURSELF BE. YOU HAVE TO BE OPEN AND HONEST AND NOT ASHAMED OF YOUR PAIN OR MISTAKES SO THAT YOU CAN FORGIVE YOURSELF AND TEACH OTHERS TO. Happy growth to you Mandi & Weezy youre so beautiful and such a great empath and humble human!!!! Keep being you ❤😍🥰
Ps. Mandi, I know you might not have realized you were hurting others, but the universe doesn't look over that sh!t so this definitely was KARMIC for you, but that isn't necessarily a bad thing! It needed to be done so that you could become a better human, and not hurt others anymore rather it was un or in-tentionally 💯🖤
And trust me, theres still alot more to come since you obviously still have such a closed and "corporate" mindset! Just be ready!!! 💪
Why are you spamming this message over and over?
Mandi needs to be on an island by herself. Well with her cat, her studio and that one friend who can check on her because she’s going through heartbreak and not have a life. I think that’ll be perfect for her. How dare the world not revolve her.
I KNEW this realization was coming Court! It’s bittersweet, but it’ll definitely humble you going forward. I too have experienced what I didn’t understand but spoke on.. I love y’all 💓
Ugh I love this podcast especially for Weezy but Mandi really makes it hard to watch. She tells us time and time again she only cares about her friends and her family and no one else. I can’t ever see her knowing what empathy looks like with the mindset she has now. I can only hope as she goes through life that her selfish mindset will change.
I don't even know if she cares for her family as much. Mostly her friends
that dead parent take is so insane lol
I've been working in Corporate America for 15yrs and I can confidently say that Corporate America has more empathy.
You described the opposite of an empath lol
I know Mandi works Weezys nerves. Lord have mercy
I’ve lost a parent and the things that have to be handled after a loss takes time! Sometimes more than 2 months which means you don’t even have an opportunity to even mourn the loss until all the paperwork is done.
A TRUE empath feels the emotions of others no matter if they’ve been through similar or not. If you are not a true empath, then you will feel just like this where you can only relate to the emotion of someone if you’ve gone through similar yourself. If you have no feeling towards someone’s experience/emotion whether it’s your friend/family or not, then usually you are considered a narcissist. Mandii may not be a narcissist but she she sure isn’t an empath. She is growing and slowly understanding her emotions while learning to become more empathetic. With time she will better understand the meaning behind all her emotions and how to better deal with them. 💕
Mandi, I appreciate your honesty and transparency. Keep evolving 👑
❤❤❤ would love to see you in Oregon 💚🎄💚
Perfect timing! I’m at work not finna do nothing but watch this episode!!!#Nurselife
I am a person really trying to understand Mandii and like her but my issue is she is super self-absorbed.
Everything in her life is about her and has to be for it to work. Including her friendships.
She is NOT empathetic. I'm not sure even a little bit. Just hearing her talk about loss. I was like that's the shit her therapist needs to tap into.
But she has to as well and I'm not sure when she will be able to. I appreciate the growth she has shown but whew...
Work is my safe space That doesn't justify that shit. It's lack of EMPATHY...which Mandii lacks.
And sits in the bullshit.
I've lost my mother. Imagine I was working for this chick.
Employers have bereavement. What is this girl talking about?
Anyone sitting in that room as an employee should look at her nuts.
Even quit.
It has 100 percent to do with empathy
Sometimes it seems like Mandi is trying to disagree with Weezy on purpose. And your view on loosing a parent and showing up to work is wild..i wouldn't want to work for you after hearing your views.
Baby, being a true empath means that not only can you innerstand what people feel, you may even be able to physically feel what another is feeling. Now, what you have is perspective on the people you used to judge and that my beautiful Mandii, is GROWTH!!!! PROUD OF YOU!!!
Being in nature is a healing pro-tip that more people need to take advantage of more often.
Weezy is so beautiful and her style is fayaaa, love to see the evolution of fashion in the show during the past 6 years😂
I can see those floaters too... 😂😂😂 we just got nutty ass eyes. 26:05
Wheezy was really trying to get a perspective shift going
“ima keep it a bean!” “what type of bean? butter or pinto?” LMAO 35:28
It makes me sad hearing "work" is Mandii's safe space. I once heard someone say if you don't heal you will feel.....she may be stuck in a karmic loop like Weezy was gently trying to say.
I like the moments between 5:00 min to 13:00 on Weezy's part.
Idk i think healing isnt linear so I wish Mandii the best alwaysss. Sometimes hearing a difference in opinion from them both helps break the parasocial bond 😅
So proud of Mandi’s honesty… a lot of ppl feel and think this way and don’t care enough to be vulnerable and share
Also shout out to Weezy for listening and speaking to holding accountability and valuing truth and perspective
Weezyyyyy scissor meeee pleaseee lol
As an empath, I think it allows you to sympathetize with someone's struggles whether you can personally identify with it or not. It's like oh that snake bit you. Im sure that hurt. I dont have to be personally bit. I think that's what Weezy was trying to say.
I appreciate people calling her out for not being an empath cause she’s not but people calling her out don’t mean they don’t love her nor care about her so don’t take it as aggressive or shots towards you Mandi. Even criticism can come from a place of love.
I totally can relate to not having empathy for other’s going through traumatic dating experiences. From the outside, it looks easy to dissect. But I too am currently experiencing the end of a very toxic, and emotionally complicated relationship that kept me in shambles and on the other side the kind of advice I needed from friends I never got so I always liked her calling a thing a thing. I too probably need to apologize for not saying the cliche thing so my friends could confidently keep effing themselves in the head with silly men and women…but to experience abuse, people need to realize how much you can miss the forest for the trees even if you’re in the forest. I send good energy your way Mandi. I don’t think people understand how dark of a place you’re coming from. It’s never going to “come off” the way they think your healing should. And at least you’re actively working on yourself. 💕
I love when it’s just the two of you. Both you guys were looking amazing 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Aye salute Mandi for growth and holding herself accountable. Witnessing her shedding her toxicity will help a lot of ladies out here.. beautiful
Chile mandi mandi mandi…..this episode was hard to get thru with her mindset shes def a narcissist & needs to fix herself instead of that man she’s obsessed with
I see eye floaters too 😂
I think Mandi is the narcissist.
Speaking on Weezy’s situation w her friend. You don’t know how hard it is for someone to open up & be vulnerable. I’ve been friends with one of my friends for YEARS & I only recently opened up to her about some trauma that I went through. Everyone heals & deals with life differently.
So don’t take it personally.
It’s crazy to me how Mandi is really getting all the growth she needed out of finally having a serious relationship. This is why I recommend REAL dating in your 20s and giving yourself time to make the emotional mistakes and investments that are apart of love. I can say that I always feared being old and ignorant or getting older and not having taken the time to learn learn lessons in the proper season. Take your time, be humble, have humility and listen to other people. We can’t possibly know everything and our experiences individually are very limited in the world. The more you allow yourself to learn and explore through listening to others the more easily you’ll be able to move through these breakups without being DOWN BAD like this.
Damn I typed this ( and youtube pauses it while you type) and as soon as I finished Weezy said I don’t if this is maybe karma and the universe teaching you some humility. SAME to lack so much humility for so long THIS is the only way GOD could reach you sis. He had to smack you down.
I hate to let the cat out of the bag..but Mandii was not in a relationship. Her and that dude were pandemic bae's. She made it a relationship in her mind. As soon as we got back outside he was back to business. Just because he was willing to meet her friends, take out the trash and stretch her muscles doesn't mean he wanted her as his girl forever. He only dragged it out because she was about sex clubs, 3sums and willing to take him back every time he broke up. She waited until after 30 and decided to force something with a 50 year old. This so crazy it may just be content creation
mandi has such crooked thinking. Some people learn therapy vocabulary and run with it omg
I be checkin my phone to make sure my phone ain’t call the person I’m talking shit abt lol
It’s crazy how people have completely turned on Mandi.
Well Mandi, I applaud your honesty and vulnerability and you’re getting finer by the episode 😂
Not everyone can learn from someone else's experience.....experience is the greatest teacher......give the space to grow.
so in short mandi isn’t an empath at all lol only feeling for those who you can relate to is more sympathetic. thank god weezy is the voice of reason in these situations
It's funny how Mandi always say how bad/fucked up people are and she's literally no different
I died when she said "You can go to the funeral"...Girlll what...
ok but the bunny ears in the photobombed pics was teaaaaaa i ain’t know dat 😂
I think as people we get caught up on how much “growth” we feel a person should have, but at the end of the day growth is growth and it’s subjective to each individual person. This was a very REAL conversation, and even though I may not agree on some of the takes, I respect the vulnerability and honesty 👏🏾🤎
Hola girls! Mandii exposes everything she learns and how she's changing while it's happening so all of the judgement for what she still needs to learn is not necessary. She's so brave for sharing the way she does cause y'all do not allow people to change and grow. So yes she doesn't yet fully understand what being a empath is but geez let her make her mistake and come back like she always does ... notice that. Notice how she bravely admits when she's wrong; so many people don't have that level of authenticity. I love y'all ladies!!!
If she is still in denial then all that’s happening now is that she is aware of some things, not working on it.
@@crbf9151it takes time..esp away from distractions. She'll get there.
This actually just means unless she experiences it she wont have patients or understanding with anyone.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 All I hear is blessings unfolding for you Mandi B. Your vulnerability, honesty and accountability is beautiful. Thank you for sharing your healing with us.
An Empath doesn't have to go through the same thing in order to feel empathy. They feel it anyways, it's a much more heightened experience!
Having empathy is a normal human experience. (Unless you're a sociopath. Not calling Mandi that BTW❤)
Having listened to your podcast over the years, I’m struck by the progression of both of you.
In regards to the conversation around empathy, I wonder whether Mandi might be neurodivergent?
Struggling with cognitive empathy is a fundamental factor in autism. It’s beautiful to see how much patience and emotional intellect Weezy has when having these sorts of chats.
Much love 🫶🏽
I love the introspection and I love when y’all serious the pod out, ik it’s not everyone’s fav but for me this is a güd episode ❤ love the accountability Mandii that was kind to even circle back and apologize to the supporters who shared their stories that u shat on low key. Nice job sis, growth ✨
Had to tune out of this episode as someone grieving the loss of both of her parents. Shoutout to Weezy for holding Mandii accountable. An empath is empathetic to all, not just those they can “relate” to….
I pray you have years to come before you’re forced to “empathize” with those that have experienced the death of their parents.
The conversation about friends and relationships is a good one!! I agree with Weezy 100%!! And Mandi as far as friends falling short when they are in relationships. I share the sentiments exactly
Hope Mandi watches her words -- money is the root to all evilness and homegirl is not understanding . Hope she never has to experience a real lost … sound a like a trauma defense