You’re totally right. Something seemed off with my ex and I found out she was a meth addict. Glad I escaped from that monster hence the title of this video
These narcissist women run a script with everyone they meet. If you give them the right amount of energy for the given script, they will choose you to feed off of. I'm currently married to one and it is hell the games that she plays. We have kids and she decided to start dating other people. Just the standards that I live up to and expect others to live up to is how she got in. She mirrored me to get me defenses down then turned into the dusty weirdo she always was. I don't have time for it. There's a beautiful life out there for me. She tries to block me from living it in any way she can. My divorce is already written out and waiting for her signature for the last 6 months. She says she wants to work on it but makes no effort. Just wants the energy you spend. And the energy from anyone else willing to give it
And I find “more bitter” than death - *the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands:* (Ecclesiastes 7:26) *The bands of the wicked have robbed me:* But I have not forgotten Thy law. (Psalm 119:61) *The robbery of the wicked shall destroy them:* because they refuse to do judgment. (Proverbs 21:7) *For the love of money is the root of all evil:* which while some coveted after, they have "erred from the faith," and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. (1 Timothy 6:10) *(She) that is 'greedy of gain' troubleth (her) own house;* but he that hateth gifts shall live. (Proverbs 15:27) *The getting of treasures by a lying tongue is a vanity tossed to and fro of them that seek death.* (Proverbs 21:6) *Riches profit not in the day of wrath:* but righteousness delivereth from *death.* (Proverbs 11:4)
For from garments cometh a moth, *and from women wickedness.* (Ecclesiasticus 42:13) I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, *than to keep house with a wicked woman.* (Ecclesiasticus 25:16) Give me any plague, but the plague of the heart: and any wickedness, *but the wickedness of a woman.* (Ecclesiasticus 25:13) All wickedness is but little [compared] *to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.* (Ecclesiasticus 25:19) *For wickedness hath exceedingly polluted the whole earth, and their hurtful works are fulfilled.* (2 Esdras 15:6) *Whoso taketh pleasure in wickedness shall be condemned:* but he that resisteth pleasures crowneth his life. (Ecclesiasticus 19:5) *For they sought out all wickedness, till the vengeance came upon them.* (Ecclesiasticus 47:25)
*For the Most High hateth sinners, and will repay vengeance unto the ungodly,* and keepeth them against the mighty day *of their punishment.* (Ecclesiasticus 12:6) *There be spirits that are created for vengeance,* which in their fury lay on sore strokes; in the time of destruction they pour out their force, *and appease the wrath of Him that made them. Fire, and hail, and famine, and death, all these were created for vengeance; Teeth of wild beasts, and scorpions, serpents, and the sword punishing the wicked to destruction.* (Ecclesiasticus 39:28-30) Number not thyself among the multitude of sinners, but remember that wrath will not tarry long. Humble thyself greatly: *for the vengeance of the ungodly is fire and worms.* (Ecclesiasticus 7:16-17) Woe to the nations that rise up against my kindred! *The Lord Almighty will take vengeance of them in the day of judgment, in putting fire and worms in their flesh; and they shall feel them, and weep forever.* (Judith 16:17) Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein: and (she) that setteth a trap shall be taken therein. (She) that worketh mischief, it shall fall upon (her), and (she) shall not know whence it cometh. Mockery and reproach are from the proud; *but vengeance, as a lion, shall lie in wait for them.* They that rejoice at the fall of the righteous *shall be taken in the snare; and anguish shall consume them before they die.* (Ecclesiasticus 27:26-29)
My vibes go out to you my man. I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, let alone being married to someone like that. There is no “working it out” with people like this, there really isn’t. The best option is to distance yourself as far away as possible and live for yourself and your kids, definitely don’t live for her anymore.
You are on fire sir. Very wise for someone as young as you are. It’s been 6 months since I went through a horrible break up and I thought I was getting better and healing but I relapsed last week and right back to being continuously upset and depressed over a dime a dozen worthless woman who manipulated me. I take full responsibility for getting myself into this mess but that isn’t helping me at the moment. Had to quit my job just to get away from that monster who was also the assistant manager where I used to work. Trying to get my woodworking business off the ground but it’s been daunting and frustrating. I’m not here to make people feel sorry for me but it’s nice to vent what I’m going through.
I recently just got out of a relationship with a hardcore female narc. It only took her a handful of weeks to get into the sack with a brand new F boy, while I haven’t slept with anyone since her, which was literally months ago. These chicks don’t care and will move on IMMEDIATELY without question. I’m done with the game at this point. If God places someone in my life later on in my life, so be it, but as it stands for me, I’m done with “women”. Too much at risk emotionally.
I feel pity for such people cuz they're just traumatized, they suffer and can't be by themselves. That is why they need someone, they can't be alone with themselves. Their own identity is their enemy.
This is the true tragedy. They used to call it possessed, or corrupted by a demon. I can see why My ex deep down had a soul, but it was being consumed by a monster
Yep just got out of a relationship with one and she ruined my life, shes a monster. Ironically she actually made me want to be more social and believe in love again, cause anything out there is better than being with her. She “fell in love” within a week of breaking up and latched onto her new victim now
Once you figure them out after the discard they treat you like the narc and as if you were the one who betrayed them it’s ridiculous nowadays when a woman tries to get close to me fast af and randomly I automatically fwb her
@@overlanddrone3354 Set the standard. It doesn't matter what others do. The ability of true leadership is to demand nothing of others. True leadership is set through lived example. Expect of the self what we expect of others. When the example of leadership is sound others will follow.
@@Bigkahunatype100 Don't worry what others do. Use those experiences as lessons. Who are you and what have they taught you? Who do you choose to become? True leadership is found when we understand the self and the purpose we serve. The greatest test of strength is the ability to lead the self well. It doesn't matter what others do. It is how you choose to respond which truly matters. Only you can allow others into your world. When the boundaries are established and cared for, you will take greater care on who enters into your world beyond the line. When you know your self, so to shall others. 🙂
I have found almost everybody to have narcissistic tendencies. I kind of stay away from pretty much everybody now. I try to be as self-reliant as I possibly can be. I don't want anyone leaning on me so I don't lean on anyone else. 🙏🏼
Man I feel the same way about people lately and stick to myself and I recently went through a hurtful breakup, You know our heart is NOT a punching bag!
Unfortunately as the chosen ones we radiate our positive energy..we consequently attract the attention of narcissists..we also irk the demons around these people. Negative ppl wanna draw your positive energy. When you have eyes to see...yiu cant unsee what ppl truly are. You can simply feel it when your discernment increases.
im so afraid of gaslighting that i started leaving notes around my bedroom to wakeup and remind myself. im too nice and forgiving that i overthink what really might have happened in order to validate them. sometimes even feeling like i am in the wrong here. but now....every time i look at the notes hanging on my door or by my bed....my guard goes up again and i feel stronger to confront them. gotta have a really good memory and strong mind to survive.
The narcissist leaves you in the trenches, stay there for a while, go for therapy. You will bounce back but it'll take some time. Time heals all wounds. Take some time to get better, improve your life.
Jesus dude. I literally just got out of a relationship with a woman I dedicated myself to (first mistake) and was more deeply in love with than any of my past relationships or girls I’ve ever met. The slow process of switching the dynamic and gaslighting me into thinking I’m the issue until the point I couldn’t move my right toe without worrying about an explosive reaction. I should have dropped her the second I saw the signs. Ended with false r*pe allegations and $1700 stolen from me. That didn’t hurt as bad as the realization that she genuinely could care less about my feelings as a human being or even my wellbeing. Can’t believe how stupid I was in hindsight. Never again
People don’t know people too well sometimes like friends cause they don’t always see their friends just as people hanging out together doesn’t mean they really know them
Literally my first proper relationship was with an OCD girl that I suspect was a covert narcissist.All the behaviour was straight out of narcissist playbook. I saw the signs immediately but I just thought she had issues or was insecure. Oh, boy was it worse! She started with the victim complex to get my guard down. Then the first couple weeks were amazing & then she suddenly started flipping script & constantly berating me for this & that. After the honeymoon was over. And it ended because she was easily offended at everything. That inconsistency was there too. She was amazing one date & the next date they were distant. And they always gave such a lame excuse like they're just tired or feel like they don't deserve me and are sad and that's why they're distant & ruin the whole date. I was just too ignorant to see what was happening. I can only imagine what she did behind my back because she gave me bullshit excuses that she probably rehearsed but she erred enough to leave me clues to piece things together. But what I know for certain is that my gut was warning me the whole time & I was too inexperienced & wondered why I was so stressed out & exhausted all the time. I was walking on egg shells but thought it was normal because she did the push-pull tactic with me. So there were good & bad times. And I think she did them to gain control over me. And when I stopped doing everything for her at all times out of my own frustrations, because it was never enough. She discarded me. And there's other hurtful things I dare not mention. Even all the affection was fake & reserved. And in the end I was left to deal with the fallout & what the hell just happened. And it hurt that all those sensitive moments with each other over the months were based on a lie. But next time I'll be on my toes whenever I encounter girls like that. It's scary how they can be anywhere & that random seemingly sweet person can be a narcissistic energy vampire. I'll not let that happen to me next time.
I have gone through the same situation as you, i met this girl about a year ago, and the chemistry was amazing at first, she did a lot of things for me and invested good amounts of time and energy for me, but a few months in and things started to get strange, i have a history dealing with narcs, its always like this the begginning is great but it gets worse and worse, so basically i never had any problem with her dissappearing and not texting me for like days, i was ok with that, the problem is when i was the one who did it, because i have a defense mechanism that if someone is ignoring me i just distance myself because if that person actually wanted me she would just give me the signs, no signs whatsoever, and when i was the one who didnt chase she would tell me that i was ignoring and manipulating her, and making push pull games, but i was not, i was gaslighted heavily, at times i used to catch myself like i was actually mistreating this girl, but in reality i was the one actually doing everything in the relationship, i was the one who initiated any sort of conversation, i was the one who planned dates, and most importantly i was the one who came up with the affection first. She said that she has a hard time showing affection, because of her traumas in the past, but that is a lie because whenever she is with her female friends she is a completely different person, and with me she is always cold and distant, whenever i was with her i felt a strong negative energy, and as months passed, we started arguing, and i follow this channel for a long time and i know for sure i shouldnt waste my time arguing with women, the problem is that she blameshifts me for the bad behaviour she does to me, so lets say she ignores me and mistreats me for no reason, or gets cold and distant, everytime i would come up to her and tell these things she would just say nope you are the one who is cold and distant, not only that but she never apologizes for anything, her ego is bigger than the universe, it literally hurts her to just say ''im sorry''. I had doubts in the beggining because she seemed so correct and mature that i thought to myself i was being the toxic one, but people have patterns, i realize that she was a narc after the arguments we had, because she would never take responsibility for anything, it was always my fault, always, she was always correct, and i did a lot of things for this girl man, i made even a song for her on her bday, and you know what she told me? that it was forced, that wasnt made with true love, so like im sad for the time i wasted with this person, you can tell when someone really loves you, because of the energy they put onto you, when they are happy to see you or ask about you, and i had that on the begginning but she completely shifted,and drained all my energy... but now she lost me, because i have absolutely no feelings for her anymore, and once she realizes that im no longer her supply she will get desperate, but i wont fall for the games man, its all manipulation, they want you to fall for them, unfortunately nowadays the majority of women are like that.So throughout this relationship i felt like it was never enough, she was never investing her time and energy for me, but i was doing that for her. And the push pull tacticts was insane, for 5 days it was amazing, because i have a high positive energy, so even when someone is depressed i can make their day bright, and randomly she would get cold, take hours to reply back with a short phrase, and like i said, when that happened i just pull away because i dont want to deal with that, and just like you said, it was always the same excuses: ''im sad'' or ''im just tired'' ''no, you are the one who's distant''. And the constant feeling fo walking in eggshells, because anything you question, turns into an argument, and because they never take responsibility for anything i know for sure its going to be my fault, so i reserved a lot of my frustrations, i get jealous but i just keep it to myself because i know that whenever i show her whats making me mad it's going to be my fault anyways, your comment make me feel better about this situation because i thought i was actually the crazy one, but i rezlize that most women are like this, and i hope i can help you as well my comment, and i hope you can find someone that actually deserves you and treat you correctly my friend, and keep working on yourself it never fails.
@@huaynaX Reading your story gave me an eery feeling. Like I was reliving my relationship again. The same damn script! So now I know she was a narc. She would come to my apartment at times from my invitation, because I wanted to relive the glory days of the summer, when we would barbeque & make love. Instead, she's cold & distant. Tells me that this evening doesn't have to lead anywhere. I try to ask what's wrong & she's just that it's her bad self-esteem & she's sads again & more bitching & moaning. I tell her gently to cut it out & she tells me who am I to criticize her with a deadpan stare from my couch. And proceeds to leave. I tell her & come on, we had something prior, right? And she tells me that she isn't getting from the night what she was looking for. Pure gaslighting. Looking back I think she enjoyed it. I start a fight & she gives excuses that I was too tense that night. We would make up & things would go well again. Until she repeats the same pattern. Tells me that she doesn't want to sleep with me & accuses me of being rude when I leave. And everything was always somehow my fault. That I was the one who kept rejecting her, which was her justification to get angry at me all the time. When I wanted to leave her she hoovered me & dated me for a while until ghosting me one fateful night. Like a narc done with her toy. Leaving the relationship I was gaslighted to hell & confused. I cried for days & needed months to heal from the fallout. Sometimes I wake to reminiscing about the good times, only to then realize that it was all a lie. And it always hurts. I have regained my self-esteem. And to this day I debated whether she was just neurotic or narcissistic. Because I wasn't sure. Until I read your comment & it sounded all too familiar. I think she was a narc who knew what she was doing. I don't have a grand closener, other than to be our own best friends in times like these & to learn from the experience. Never again. Stay strong, fellas!
@Jango-ei5nu We were dating & fucking. Planning a life together. The whole nine yards. For a long time in the relationship I was being understanding of her issues & supporting her. But she would just constantly complain about her insecurities & I would at first listen. As time went on for months I then try to encourage her to work through that stuff. She never did, especially when we planned a nice steamy evening at my apartment or hers, which was when I eventually grew frustrated & asked her to cut it out. And that's when she didn't like it. I don't know about your experiences, but being a long time with someone who constantly sees the negative in everything, doesn't believe in themselves, doesn't want to improve their situation. Not just physically, but mentally. It's really draining & sucks all of the happiness & the energy in a relationship. It was the sort of stuff not even sex would fix. Because those feelings are highs that fade away. Psychologically it didn't progress anywhere. I made some mistakes, but me hoping us to deal with our problems weren't one of them. I do believe that she had best intentions in the relationship, but her mindset was such that she probably was after an ego boost. She complimented me a lot. Calling me a treat & so handsome & courageous when she was infatuated. Wanted me sexually. But was having a hard time saying she loved me. She just wanted some guy to make her feel better about herself.
@Jango-ei5nu No problem. Idk if I was gaslighted enough or what, but I think she's not entirely evil. She's just got issues & neither of us got what we wanted out of the relationship. I just wanted a chill gf to love & some clear boundaries for a healthy lifestyle while she sort of wanted 24/7 attention for her loneliness.
You have to understand ,keep in mind women have more power in the social media game. Losers are going on dates , following script with friendzone energy , or bf energy and their faking it . Women can actually don't even have to find you attractive to receive what they want . Looks doesn't matter to a women . It's all about what you can do for her and provide . Love is non existence , it was build off business. Separate logic from emotion and you will be find . Theirs far more women narcs then it is men.
The worst part is when you get real with them and ask "are you happy?" Then they lie to you a say yes, then go and screw u over anyway! Even after you give them a way out
Peoples Pride & Ego get in the way of them being Normal . I always tell people just be Normal . But pride Ego jealousy and Gang stalking . Is really messing them up . .
Women with cluster B traits have been around for a long time. Sure there are more narcs now, but the epidemic of BPD women has been going on for decades
Just paid half my exes rent for the month and she’s trying to squeeze another $300 out of me. What in the world? She wants $915 for the month. These women are out of their minds.
Its give and take. Reciprocation. They don’t seem to have it in them to do the same and it will run you dry. Your finances and your emotions… Its tiring and draining and brings down your vibration. Their actions, and lack of actions, affect people and they don’t see what’s wrong with it. Just as long as their needs and wants are met.
We fell in love with a construct, yes. But now that's over. Now we must grieve the loss of that construct, just as if someone we loved had died. All five stages. Acceptance is the goal. We must make our own closure. No one said it was going to be easy, but it's not impossible either. We have to go away and stay away. That's most of our struggle. We can do this.
why did you have kids with her? did you use condoms? was she on birth control did you have the discussion with her that if she got knocked up you maybe wanted an abortion? I just don't understand this unless she poked holes in your condoms which has happened to people I know you have to be extremely careful these days chicks are insane!
Yesterday a female dismissed herself from roun me smh when she showed up an hour b4 some felt off when she came through the door, when she notice I wasn't giving in she flipped the script n was like I'm not gone lie we can't be friends or even chill ima just go i was just like i ain gone stop ya theres the door 🤷🏾♂️💁🏾♂️ o opened it and she left i was like good and started playing spiderman 2 ps5 lol smh another reason why I'm glad I ain in no relationship single for 4 years now😌self peace
I surely did for in love with a narsarsistic women. Even proposed to marry her. She told me that marriage ain't built on love alone. You need money,she said... And declined me .. THANK GOD for that...
@terryjoeljunior - Did you notice this weirdness b4 C19 or did it coincide with it? Ofc, narcs have been around since time immemorial but I noticed a bizarre energy change in the planet during C19. Many people started acting oddly and strange behaviours emerged more and more. Not a good direction for humanity whatsoever!
Agree 1000% people in general became extremely toxic but it’s the way of the world. Ups and downs of life then things settle down eventually and bam! Lol
@@TheeUgleeDuckling Yes, I do. I know intimately all about it and its not as Hellish as it might seem at times. Though you are most definitely dealing with an agent of Satan. You must always remember to laugh and to not take it too seriously.
These people aren't giving you true information about what they're speaking on... They're regurgitating what they've heard so they can reel you in like a fish, as if they have some gift or knowledge... And for a lot of them, they're really exposing themselves BCS they're speaking from experience.
I did all this. I was at the same Level career wise as him, I was equally attractive, I worked out and have a low body weight but NO doesn’t matter what you do l! He claims his exs were fat and losers despite them cooking for him and taking care of him. He doesn’t care once he done with you! Save yourself
I had this exact same experience! An absolute beautiful woman! I mean head turning 20 out of 10 stunner, killer body. She did everything 100% right that a man would ever want then if you set a boundary or expectation on them they will snap on you and break that exact boundary you set! They will use the hell out of you after they get you sucked in! But they will start to want to give nothing back. You will be in a cloud of fog wondering what am I doing wrong! You can ask them what are you doing wrong or how can you make them happy there is no way! I jumped through hoops of fire and completed tasks that I though was virtually impossible only to have her good for a bit then back to the same habits of gaslighting, breaking up and getting back, and using me for money, any skill I could offer round the house! I did all of this because I loved her and in the end she would keep me at a distance. I’d stay at her house for weeks or months at a time basically in a move in situation and then ever once in awhile she will tell me to leave and that she needs times alone etcetera! In the most of this happening there was not one single bad thing going on! Call it narcs, dismissive avoidant, bpd, bad child hood missing daddy ect but this person will waste years of your life! This person is damaged and def. Had many issues to overcome! It’s very sad for them and the person trying to be with them. I was able to put up with this for years due to blind love! I have no idea how I was able to do it but it showed me how much I can love someone and how much I can do for someone if I put my mind to it but I want it reciprocated and not just in the beginning but through the whole relationship! She was a huge attention getter, they cause arguments out of the blue, it’s a wild crazy foggy ride that will have you thinking it’s you and that you’re not good enough! I’m not saying there ls not times you might make mistakes but it’s them bro not you! They will kick you out break up with you block you then when they have done this multiple times more than 3 in months then you go out they will call you a cheater and say omg you don’t even wait for me! Fellas this is manipulation and gas lighting! Yes first few times stay home wait do the right thing but when this patterned is repeated go do you and find a better woman and if she wants to have sex with you hang out that is your choice but don’t think you will ever have a good happy loving relationship with this person it is impossible! And yes woman and men are suppose to compliment each other and be life partners! Things are very messed up in this world the more beautiful they are the more you will find this! They also want a goofy beta man that don’t pay attention so they can walk all over him, cheat on him, go out to bars and clubs while he is home with the kids smh! This is why with me it don’t last long unless I’m the one to hang on and I’ve held on way to dam long! Best of lucky 🍀 fellas!
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We men have played defense too long. Learn how to battle narcs, and cause the biggest "narc injury" you can to them. Once you can be in complete control of your emotions no matter what nonsense a cluster B may throw at you, then you are ready. Expose their cheating, their evil deeds, in the most public, explosive, and ego-crushing way you can. Then go ghost - completely unreachable forever. And continue doing the best for your own life. Be the best man you can and be happy!
@@ezdeezytube All we just heard is the victim making excuses and being a coward. You have no idea what we have survived and endured. You are just weak.
@@ezdeezytube What we have survived would have crushed you, child. Far less already has done so. What you endure is nothing. It is selfish whine bagging, nothing more.
Great video. What you said about it being sub conscious is true. I've noticed that this mentality comes usually when the girl has been mistreated by men in the past or has not had a good father figure. She pain she feels is what makes her destructive. Sub conscious revenge, but they long for connection. Black widow effect
Brother straight up that is my title Seriously this blows my mind because I am experiencing this b******* right now with a 7 year old child stuck in the Middle
Thanks for sharing... I needed the pep talk today...my narc ex keeps trying reel me back in but now that I have boundaries, expectations...he trying to bring me down a notch because in his warped mind it's easier to bring me down then rise up
Well said, what these people do not realize is to those who cannot spot these red flags, they end up beating themselves up for a person that is not worth it, if they cheat, they lost u......as they never going to be content with even the next person ;)
“Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth. 25 Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths. 26 For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her. 27 Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.” (~Proverbs 7:24-27 KJV)
People are emotionally weak nowadays even older men and women they constant need proof of their own value bothering you with it YES people are very overated
It’s only possible to be heartbroken if your life doesn’t revolve around God and your higher Self. It has to revolve around a woman to FALL in love, and once your life revolves around a woman she feels like she’s the best you can do and she will leave you and you’ll be heartbroken and if you’re smart you’ll learn your lesson - someone even wrote a song about it: She Hates Me by Puddle of Mudd.
This is so true when something off they start disrespecting you throwing the sht they do onto you cause they know they aint sht.... Shame I threw right and walked out the door do you devil don't come back stay where you lay trash thats what you are worth
Funny being single and friends are like...when will you get married..... next married men are hiding in their work , hobbies away from their wives.. yeah.. thats why I'm single...
Honey if you looking for a perfect woman she’s not on the earth 😂 But the Standard should be of Jesus Christ! Maybe you still trying to get your money up for her woman of the world! 😢 Get in the word!!!!! Get saved!!!!
It's not hard to be a decent person, and that's the bare minimum that we are asking for but no. The fact that a woman intentionally play these games with you, cheating on you, ruining your rep, means they are the opposite of perfect, they aren't even decent they are all the way to the left of being evil which takes effort but it's the wrong kind of effort
Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. Yet she will be saved through childbearing-if they continue in faith and love and holiness, with self-control. 1 Timothy 2:11-15 This is what the word says, get saved. The fact you go to money is literally the last temptation the Devil offered Jesus in the scripture. You’re triggered.
Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. 9 “All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.” 10 Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’[e]” 11 Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him. Matthew 4:8-11
Yep it’s sad and when they say it’s only 144thousand good souls … I mean it’s starting to make sense now this shit is just weird af at a certain point it’s just like dude what’s with all the narcs it’s super over saturated where it seems like literally only 1out of a thousand shoot maybe 1 out of thousands are not a narc. Most important thing I think is to pat yourself in the back that u can see it fast and keep meeting people cuz the few are out there it’s just so few so not allowing it to turn you into a recluse is very important that’s what I’m focused on right now. Stay up guys you can meet good souls just keep looking don’t let the narcs get u down don’t even let it bother u for long. Allow urself to feel the feelings sure be mad for a sec or even hurt but let it go release it because allowing it to keep u down for long isn’t benefiting u and literally the narc isn’t either they’re just delusional and making u be down is what gives these weirdos a sense of feeling powerful so just don’t move on u got this. A moment is just a moment in time let it pass keep spreading happiness and authenticity cuz keeping u down just takes out one more authentic person in a world that needs to see us getting back up over and over cuz they need to see the real power lies within us authentic people who truly love ourselves and others that can really sleep at night Cuz we’re not pretending we’re good people and we don’t have a list of messed up stuff we did to people keeping us up at night like they really do behind the scenes
If you didn't get hit hard enough the first came back for more the 2nd time or 3rd time you are going to get hit so hard that it will be a life or death situation and trust me it is not worth it. You better wake up before its too late
Don't ignore what your subconscious tells you about a person. If you have a feeling that something is off then it is
Exactly how I got into many stupid situations
Yeah, butterflies lol
Yep, learn to listen to your intuition. It’s an art.
It's the holy spirit
You’re totally right. Something seemed off with my ex and I found out she was a meth addict. Glad I escaped from that monster hence the title of this video
These narcissist women run a script with everyone they meet. If you give them the right amount of energy for the given script, they will choose you to feed off of. I'm currently married to one and it is hell the games that she plays.
We have kids and she decided to start dating other people. Just the standards that I live up to and expect others to live up to is how she got in. She mirrored me to get me defenses down then turned into the dusty weirdo she always was.
I don't have time for it. There's a beautiful life out there for me. She tries to block me from living it in any way she can. My divorce is already written out and waiting for her signature for the last 6 months. She says she wants to work on it but makes no effort.
Just wants the energy you spend. And the energy from anyone else willing to give it
And I find “more bitter” than death - *the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands:* (Ecclesiastes 7:26)
*The bands of the wicked have robbed me:* But I have not forgotten Thy law. (Psalm 119:61)
*The robbery of the wicked shall destroy them:* because they refuse to do judgment. (Proverbs 21:7)
*For the love of money is the root of all evil:* which while some coveted after, they have "erred from the faith," and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. (1 Timothy 6:10)
*(She) that is 'greedy of gain' troubleth (her) own house;* but he that hateth gifts shall live. (Proverbs 15:27)
*The getting of treasures by a lying tongue is a vanity tossed to and fro of them that seek death.* (Proverbs 21:6)
*Riches profit not in the day of wrath:* but righteousness delivereth from *death.* (Proverbs 11:4)
For from garments cometh a moth, *and from women wickedness.* (Ecclesiasticus 42:13)
I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, *than to keep house with a wicked woman.* (Ecclesiasticus 25:16)
Give me any plague, but the plague of the heart: and any wickedness, *but the wickedness of a woman.* (Ecclesiasticus 25:13)
All wickedness is but little [compared] *to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.* (Ecclesiasticus 25:19)
*For wickedness hath exceedingly polluted the whole earth, and their hurtful works are fulfilled.* (2 Esdras 15:6)
*Whoso taketh pleasure in wickedness shall be condemned:* but he that resisteth pleasures crowneth his life. (Ecclesiasticus 19:5)
*For they sought out all wickedness, till the vengeance came upon them.* (Ecclesiasticus 47:25)
*For the Most High hateth sinners, and will repay vengeance unto the ungodly,* and keepeth them against the mighty day *of their punishment.* (Ecclesiasticus 12:6)
*There be spirits that are created for vengeance,* which in their fury lay on sore strokes; in the time of destruction they pour out their force, *and appease the wrath of Him that made them. Fire, and hail, and famine, and death, all these were created for vengeance; Teeth of wild beasts, and scorpions, serpents, and the sword punishing the wicked to destruction.* (Ecclesiasticus 39:28-30)
Number not thyself among the multitude of sinners, but remember that wrath will not tarry long. Humble thyself greatly: *for the vengeance of the ungodly is fire and worms.* (Ecclesiasticus 7:16-17)
Woe to the nations that rise up against my kindred! *The Lord Almighty will take vengeance of them in the day of judgment, in putting fire and worms in their flesh; and they shall feel them, and weep forever.* (Judith 16:17)
Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein: and (she) that setteth a trap shall be taken therein. (She) that worketh mischief, it shall fall upon (her), and (she) shall not know whence it cometh. Mockery and reproach are from the proud; *but vengeance, as a lion, shall lie in wait for them.* They that rejoice at the fall of the righteous *shall be taken in the snare; and anguish shall consume them before they die.* (Ecclesiasticus 27:26-29)
You should be able to press charges, that should be illegal to date other men in a marriage. Put your assetts into monero a pricacy crypto.
My vibes go out to you my man. I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, let alone being married to someone like that. There is no “working it out” with people like this, there really isn’t. The best option is to distance yourself as far away as possible and live for yourself and your kids, definitely don’t live for her anymore.
I've learned not to give my energy to anyone whoes undeserving
You are on fire sir. Very wise for someone as young as you are. It’s been 6 months since I went through a horrible break up and I thought I was getting better and healing but I relapsed last week and right back to being continuously upset and depressed over a dime a dozen worthless woman who manipulated me. I take full responsibility for getting myself into this mess but that isn’t helping me at the moment. Had to quit my job just to get away from that monster who was also the assistant manager where I used to work. Trying to get my woodworking business off the ground but it’s been daunting and frustrating. I’m not here to make people feel sorry for me but it’s nice to vent what I’m going through.
Visualize your future how you want it . Then you shall overcome anything. It won't be a easy road but you got this
@@mattsmith1137 it is OK, thank God you're still free, healthy and alive
Mattsmith commoko comonno ano shut the fuck up demon and quit abusing it
when they know you are onto them they think in their minds "a whole lotta gang sh!t going on around here"
😂😂😂 this is so funny yet relatable....it's war to them but only if anything a buzzing fly sound to you 😂😂😂
Lmao
I recently just got out of a relationship with a hardcore female narc. It only took her a handful of weeks to get into the sack with a brand new F boy, while I haven’t slept with anyone since her, which was literally months ago. These chicks don’t care and will move on IMMEDIATELY without question. I’m done with the game at this point. If God places someone in my life later on in my life, so be it, but as it stands for me, I’m done with “women”. Too much at risk emotionally.
Females don't respect boys.
Don't be hard on yourself, brother. They need to have a stand in and cannot be alone with themselves for long. They will settle for much less
Ur on a good track..now...keep it up
This happened to me right now same thing after two years she moved on in weeks
@@etmerde my ex wanted to be married two nights a week... Apparently, the married guy... She talked to at work would get the other 5..wow it's a wow
I feel pity for such people cuz they're just traumatized, they suffer and can't be by themselves. That is why they need someone, they can't be alone with themselves. Their own identity is their enemy.
This is the true tragedy.
They used to call it possessed, or corrupted by a demon. I can see why
My ex deep down had a soul, but it was being consumed by a monster
Jezebel spirits, leave them alone, let them be.
ex slept with another dude a week after breaking up
Yep just got out of a relationship with one and she ruined my life, shes a monster. Ironically she actually made me want to be more social and believe in love again, cause anything out there is better than being with her. She “fell in love” within a week of breaking up and latched onto her new victim now
Her name wasnt Aubrey by chance was it !
Once you figure them out after the discard they treat you like the narc and as if you were the one who betrayed them it’s ridiculous nowadays when a woman tries to get close to me fast af and randomly I automatically fwb her
Garbage attracts garbage.
@@overlanddrone3354 Set the standard. It doesn't matter what others do. The ability of true leadership is to demand nothing of others. True leadership is set through lived example. Expect of the self what we expect of others. When the example of leadership is sound others will follow.
@@universalmother not even i date nice women try to move on with my life but i get so triggered over everything and just friendzone everyone
Universal mother ty mother !!! For the knowledge, well needed
@@Bigkahunatype100 Don't worry what others do. Use those experiences as lessons. Who are you and what have they taught you? Who do you choose to become? True leadership is found when we understand the self and the purpose we serve. The greatest test of strength is the ability to lead the self well. It doesn't matter what others do. It is how you choose to respond which truly matters. Only you can allow others into your world. When the boundaries are established and cared for, you will take greater care on who enters into your world beyond the line. When you know your self, so to shall others. 🙂
My ex was a narcissist, had daddy issues, had borderline personality disorder, and was a feminist. She had no friends that were girls. Red Flag.
Pretending to like what i like. Mirroring my thoughts was a diabolic way to my heart.
I have found almost everybody to have narcissistic tendencies.
I kind of stay away from pretty much everybody now.
I try to be as self-reliant as I possibly can be.
I don't want anyone leaning on me so I don't lean on anyone else. 🙏🏼
Man I feel the same way about people lately and stick to myself and I recently went through a hurtful breakup, You know our heart is NOT a punching bag!
Unfortunately as the chosen ones we radiate our positive energy..we consequently attract the attention of narcissists..we also irk the demons around these people. Negative ppl wanna draw your positive energy. When you have eyes to see...yiu cant unsee what ppl truly are. You can simply feel it when your discernment increases.
im so afraid of gaslighting that i started leaving notes around my bedroom to wakeup and remind myself. im too nice and forgiving that i overthink what really might have happened in order to validate them. sometimes even feeling like i am in the wrong here. but now....every time i look at the notes hanging on my door or by my bed....my guard goes up again and i feel stronger to confront them. gotta have a really good memory and strong mind to survive.
The narcissist leaves you in the trenches, stay there for a while, go for therapy. You will bounce back but it'll take some time. Time heals all wounds. Take some time to get better, improve your life.
Jesus dude. I literally just got out of a relationship with a woman I dedicated myself to (first mistake) and was more deeply in love with than any of my past relationships or girls I’ve ever met. The slow process of switching the dynamic and gaslighting me into thinking I’m the issue until the point I couldn’t move my right toe without worrying about an explosive reaction. I should have dropped her the second I saw the signs. Ended with false r*pe allegations and $1700 stolen from me. That didn’t hurt as bad as the realization that she genuinely could care less about my feelings as a human being or even my wellbeing. Can’t believe how stupid I was in hindsight. Never again
That's a crazy story. I dated someone with NARC traits. Bad toxic behaviour. Luckily I dumped her after 8 months
the fights and hissy fits out of nowhere never made any sense
People don’t know people too well sometimes like friends cause they don’t always see their friends just as people hanging out together doesn’t mean they really know them
Literally my first proper relationship was with an OCD girl that I suspect was a covert narcissist.All the behaviour was straight out of narcissist playbook. I saw the signs immediately but I just thought she had issues or was insecure. Oh, boy was it worse! She started with the victim complex to get my guard down. Then the first couple weeks were amazing & then she suddenly started flipping script & constantly berating me for this & that. After the honeymoon was over. And it ended because she was easily offended at everything.
That inconsistency was there too. She was amazing one date & the next date they were distant. And they always gave such a lame excuse like they're just tired or feel like they don't deserve me and are sad and that's why they're distant & ruin the whole date. I was just too ignorant to see what was happening.
I can only imagine what she did behind my back because she gave me bullshit excuses that she probably rehearsed but she erred enough to leave me clues to piece things together. But what I know for certain is that my gut was warning me the whole time & I was too inexperienced & wondered why I was so stressed out & exhausted all the time. I was walking on egg shells but thought it was normal because she did the push-pull tactic with me. So there were good & bad times. And I think she did them to gain control over me. And when I stopped doing everything for her at all times out of my own frustrations, because it was never enough. She discarded me. And there's other hurtful things I dare not mention. Even all the affection was fake & reserved. And in the end I was left to deal with the fallout & what the hell just happened. And it hurt that all those sensitive moments with each other over the months were based on a lie.
But next time I'll be on my toes whenever I encounter girls like that. It's scary how they can be anywhere & that random seemingly sweet person can be a narcissistic energy vampire. I'll not let that happen to me next time.
I have gone through the same situation as you, i met this girl about a year ago, and the chemistry was amazing at first, she did a lot of things for me and invested good amounts of time and energy for me, but a few months in and things started to get strange, i have a history dealing with narcs, its always like this the begginning is great but it gets worse and worse, so basically i never had any problem with her dissappearing and not texting me for like days, i was ok with that, the problem is when i was the one who did it, because i have a defense mechanism that if someone is ignoring me i just distance myself because if that person actually wanted me she would just give me the signs, no signs whatsoever, and when i was the one who didnt chase she would tell me that i was ignoring and manipulating her, and making push pull games, but i was not, i was gaslighted heavily, at times i used to catch myself like i was actually mistreating this girl, but in reality i was the one actually doing everything in the relationship, i was the one who initiated any sort of conversation, i was the one who planned dates, and most importantly i was the one who came up with the affection first. She said that she has a hard time showing affection, because of her traumas in the past, but that is a lie because whenever she is with her female friends she is a completely different person, and with me she is always cold and distant, whenever i was with her i felt a strong negative energy, and as months passed, we started arguing, and i follow this channel for a long time and i know for sure i shouldnt waste my time arguing with women, the problem is that she blameshifts me for the bad behaviour she does to me, so lets say she ignores me and mistreats me for no reason, or gets cold and distant, everytime i would come up to her and tell these things she would just say nope you are the one who is cold and distant, not only that but she never apologizes for anything, her ego is bigger than the universe, it literally hurts her to just say ''im sorry''. I had doubts in the beggining because she seemed so correct and mature that i thought to myself i was being the toxic one, but people have patterns, i realize that she was a narc after the arguments we had, because she would never take responsibility for anything, it was always my fault, always, she was always correct, and i did a lot of things for this girl man, i made even a song for her on her bday, and you know what she told me? that it was forced, that wasnt made with true love, so like im sad for the time i wasted with this person, you can tell when someone really loves you, because of the energy they put onto you, when they are happy to see you or ask about you, and i had that on the begginning but she completely shifted,and drained all my energy... but now she lost me, because i have absolutely no feelings for her anymore, and once she realizes that im no longer her supply she will get desperate, but i wont fall for the games man, its all manipulation, they want you to fall for them, unfortunately nowadays the majority of women are like that.So throughout this relationship i felt like it was never enough, she was never investing her time and energy for me, but i was doing that for her. And the push pull tacticts was insane, for 5 days it was amazing, because i have a high positive energy, so even when someone is depressed i can make their day bright, and randomly she would get cold, take hours to reply back with a short phrase, and like i said, when that happened i just pull away because i dont want to deal with that, and just like you said, it was always the same excuses: ''im sad'' or ''im just tired'' ''no, you are the one who's distant''. And the constant feeling fo walking in eggshells, because anything you question, turns into an argument, and because they never take responsibility for anything i know for sure its going to be my fault, so i reserved a lot of my frustrations, i get jealous but i just keep it to myself because i know that whenever i show her whats making me mad it's going to be my fault anyways, your comment make me feel better about this situation because i thought i was actually the crazy one, but i rezlize that most women are like this, and i hope i can help you as well my comment, and i hope you can find someone that actually deserves you and treat you correctly my friend, and keep working on yourself it never fails.
@@huaynaX Reading your story gave me an eery feeling. Like I was reliving my relationship again.
The same damn script! So now I know she was a narc. She would come to my apartment at times from my invitation, because I wanted to relive the glory days of the summer, when we would barbeque & make love.
Instead, she's cold & distant. Tells me that this evening doesn't have to lead anywhere. I try to ask what's wrong & she's just that it's her bad self-esteem & she's sads again & more bitching & moaning. I tell her gently to cut it out & she tells me who am I to criticize her with a deadpan stare from my couch. And proceeds to leave. I tell her & come on, we had something prior, right? And she tells me that she isn't getting from the night what she was looking for.
Pure gaslighting. Looking back I think she enjoyed it. I start a fight & she gives excuses that I was too tense that night.
We would make up & things would go well again. Until she repeats the same pattern. Tells me that she doesn't want to sleep with me & accuses me of being rude when I leave.
And everything was always somehow my fault. That I was the one who kept rejecting her, which was her justification to get angry at me all the time.
When I wanted to leave her she hoovered me & dated me for a while until ghosting me one fateful night. Like a narc done with her toy.
Leaving the relationship I was gaslighted to hell & confused. I cried for days & needed months to heal from the fallout.
Sometimes I wake to reminiscing about the good times, only to then realize that it was all a lie. And it always hurts.
I have regained my self-esteem. And to this day I debated whether she was just neurotic or narcissistic. Because I wasn't sure. Until I read your comment & it sounded all too familiar. I think she was a narc who knew what she was doing.
I don't have a grand closener, other than to be our own best friends in times like these & to learn from the experience. Never again. Stay strong, fellas!
@Jango-ei5nu We were dating & fucking. Planning a life together. The whole nine yards. For a long time in the relationship I was being understanding of her issues & supporting her.
But she would just constantly complain about her insecurities & I would at first listen. As time went on for months I then try to encourage her to work through that stuff. She never did, especially when we planned a nice steamy evening at my apartment or hers, which was when I eventually grew frustrated & asked her to cut it out. And that's when she didn't like it.
I don't know about your experiences, but being a long time with someone who constantly sees the negative in everything, doesn't believe in themselves, doesn't want to improve their situation.
Not just physically, but mentally. It's really draining & sucks all of the happiness & the energy in a relationship. It was the sort of stuff not even sex would fix. Because those feelings are highs that fade away. Psychologically it didn't progress anywhere.
I made some mistakes, but me hoping us to deal with our problems weren't one of them. I do believe that she had best intentions in the relationship, but her mindset was such that she probably was after an ego boost. She complimented me a lot. Calling me a treat & so handsome & courageous when she was infatuated. Wanted me sexually. But was having a hard time saying she loved me. She just wanted some guy to make her feel better about herself.
@Jango-ei5nu No problem. Idk if I was gaslighted enough or what, but I think she's not entirely evil. She's just got issues & neither of us got what we wanted out of the relationship. I just wanted a chill gf to love & some clear boundaries for a healthy lifestyle while she sort of wanted 24/7 attention for her loneliness.
Sent by the Devil to Destroy!
You have to understand ,keep in mind women have more power in the social media game. Losers are going on dates , following script with friendzone energy , or bf energy and their faking it . Women can actually don't even have to find you attractive to receive what they want . Looks doesn't matter to a women . It's all about what you can do for her and provide . Love is non existence , it was build off business. Separate logic from emotion and you will be find . Theirs far more women narcs then it is men.
The worst part is when you get real with them and ask "are you happy?" Then they lie to you a say yes, then go and screw u over anyway! Even after you give them a way out
Also leaving someone for someone else and dating someone within 2 weeks after.
2 weeks is a long time for one of these harlots to wait, usually it's the same day (and I don't exaggerate).
a week for me
Peoples Pride & Ego get in the way of them being Normal . I always tell people just be Normal . But pride Ego jealousy and Gang stalking . Is really messing them up . .
Funny, we see that same exact behavior on these channels.
im 40 and yeah u youngins missed out ... Females act totally different nowadays and not in a good way
There have always been wrong ones, brother.
More so now, it seems.
Women with cluster B traits have been around for a long time. Sure there are more narcs now, but the epidemic of BPD women has been going on for decades
Toxic femininity
Agree
When someone paints you a picture don’t let them paint you another one
Just paid half my exes rent for the month and she’s trying to squeeze another $300 out of me. What in the world? She wants $915 for the month. These women are out of their minds.
Dude you're actually crazy for falling for that.
I definitely feel your pain man. Our world has gone beyond crazy. Nobody helps anyone any more.
just keep moving forward only time will tell
Be very careful because a narcissist will try to pull you in fast. Don’t let that happen.
Its give and take. Reciprocation. They don’t seem to have it in them to do the same and it will run you dry. Your finances and your emotions… Its tiring and draining and brings down your vibration. Their actions, and lack of actions, affect people and they don’t see what’s wrong with it. Just as long as their needs and wants are met.
They are actresses. Period. Use masks all the time. Their nature.
I also believe that. This is a real hard pill to swallow. I don't want anything to do with them anymore
We fell in love with a construct, yes.
But now that's over.
Now we must grieve the loss of that construct, just as if someone we loved had died.
All five stages.
Acceptance is the goal.
We must make our own closure.
No one said it was going to be easy, but it's not impossible either.
We have to go away and stay away.
That's most of our struggle.
We can do this.
Lol two people I love the most is my daughter and myself right now.
To me it's the same way as it was back in the 70's as a teenager. Not everyone can be trusted.
My baby momma is a narcissist. I didn't even know what that was until I met her.
why did you have kids with her? did you use condoms? was she on birth control did you have the discussion with her that if she got knocked up you maybe wanted an abortion? I just don't understand this unless she poked holes in your condoms which has happened to people I know you have to be extremely careful these days chicks are insane!
Yesterday a female dismissed herself from roun me smh when she showed up an hour b4 some felt off when she came through the door, when she notice I wasn't giving in she flipped the script n was like I'm not gone lie we can't be friends or even chill ima just go i was just like i ain gone stop ya theres the door 🤷🏾♂️💁🏾♂️ o opened it and she left i was like good and started playing spiderman 2 ps5 lol smh another reason why I'm glad I ain in no relationship single for 4 years now😌self peace
If you ask them about what is off and they turn it onto you. That’s how you’ll know.
I surely did for in love with a narsarsistic women. Even proposed to marry her. She told me that marriage ain't built on love alone. You need money,she said... And declined me .. THANK GOD for that...
Wow! That's direct.
@@debbier9555 it was a nightmare that broke me bad... teenage sweetheart,thought she was
@terryjoeljunior - Did you notice this weirdness b4 C19 or did it coincide with it? Ofc, narcs have been around since time immemorial but I noticed a bizarre energy change in the planet during C19. Many people started acting oddly and strange behaviours emerged more and more. Not a good direction for humanity whatsoever!
Agree 1000% people in general became extremely toxic but it’s the way of the world. Ups and downs of life then things settle down eventually and bam! Lol
literally they’re not that cute that’s exactly how I feel after the love spell broke
Go with your gut feeling.
I fell in love with a gangstalker
#metoo 👈🙃
Same; she allegedly “left the country” but she has friends that still work with me that give me the vibe that they’re keeping tabs.
@@simhess9720metoo? This is hell that shouldn’t be for everybody to know but do u
@@TheeUgleeDuckling Yes, I do. I know intimately all about it and its not as Hellish as it might seem at times. Though you are most definitely dealing with an agent of Satan. You must always remember to laugh and to not take it too seriously.
the love spell has broken in Jesus name amen
My sister is a total NARCICIST
Yes you can feel it. 💯 Their behavior is just weird.
Protect you heart and enegry chosen ones you only get one go around with this life dont waste it with people who take you for granted.
These people aren't giving you true information about what they're speaking on... They're regurgitating what they've heard so they can reel you in like a fish, as if they have some gift or knowledge... And for a lot of them, they're really exposing themselves BCS they're speaking from experience.
A womans soul was created below . - Led Zeppelin . [ Dazed and confused ]
I did all this. I was at the same
Level career wise as him, I was equally attractive, I worked out and have a low body weight but NO doesn’t matter what you do l! He claims his exs were fat and losers despite them cooking for him and taking care of him. He doesn’t care once he done with you! Save yourself
Yes. My ex preferred his new 'supply', low-class gal so they could have a fun life of drugs and sex. Forget the classy family life - too boring.
I had this exact same experience! An absolute beautiful woman! I mean head turning 20 out of 10 stunner, killer body. She did everything 100% right that a man would ever want then if you set a boundary or expectation on them they will snap on you and break that exact boundary you set! They will use the hell out of you after they get you sucked in! But they will start to want to give nothing back. You will be in a cloud of fog wondering what am I doing wrong! You can ask them what are you doing wrong or how can you make them happy there is no way! I jumped through hoops of fire and completed tasks that I though was virtually impossible only to have her good for a bit then back to the same habits of gaslighting, breaking up and getting back, and using me for money, any skill I could offer round the house! I did all of this because I loved her and in the end she would keep me at a distance. I’d stay at her house for weeks or months at a time basically in a move in situation and then ever once in awhile she will tell me to leave and that she needs times alone etcetera! In the most of this happening there was not one single bad thing going on! Call it narcs, dismissive avoidant, bpd, bad child hood missing daddy ect but this person will waste years of your life! This person is damaged and def. Had many issues to overcome! It’s very sad for them and the person trying to be with them. I was able to put up with this for years due to blind love! I have no idea how I was able to do it but it showed me how much I can love someone and how much I can do for someone if I put my mind to it but I want it reciprocated and not just in the beginning but through the whole relationship! She was a huge attention getter, they cause arguments out of the blue, it’s a wild crazy foggy ride that will have you thinking it’s you and that you’re not good enough! I’m not saying there ls not times you might make mistakes but it’s them bro not you! They will kick you out break up with you block you then when they have done this multiple times more than 3 in months then you go out they will call you a cheater and say omg you don’t even wait for me! Fellas this is manipulation and gas lighting! Yes first few times stay home wait do the right thing but when this patterned is repeated go do you and find a better woman and if she wants to have sex with you hang out that is your choice but don’t think you will ever have a good happy loving relationship with this person it is impossible! And yes woman and men are suppose to compliment each other and be life partners! Things are very messed up in this world the more beautiful they are the more you will find this! They also want a goofy beta man that don’t pay attention so they can walk all over him, cheat on him, go out to bars and clubs while he is home with the kids smh! This is why with me it don’t last long unless I’m the one to hang on and I’ve held on way to dam long! Best of lucky 🍀 fellas!
let us love one another brothers and sisters, especially those who we married to
May The Great Spirit
Bless You, Brother🌞
Yeshua Said "The Father"
Is The Only True God 🌈
"And this is life eternal: 🔯
that they might know Thee,
the only true God, and Jesus
Christ whom Thou hast sent."
Allah is El / Al. ⭐🙏
Yeshua Spoke Aramaic
Elah, Elaha, Pronounced Allah.
The Apostles Were Jews 🕎
Jews Do Not Believe In Trinity
The Trinity Was Roman Paganism:
A Formula Interpolated In Scriptures
The Name of The Creator
In Paleo-Hebrew Is Yahayah
Native Americans
Chant His Name
Allah Is One, There Is No Other
He Begets Not, Nor Is He Begotten
🙌🏻 Godbless and Godspeed my friend.
We men have played defense too long. Learn how to battle narcs, and cause the biggest "narc injury" you can to them. Once you can be in complete control of your emotions no matter what nonsense a cluster B may throw at you, then you are ready. Expose their cheating, their evil deeds, in the most public, explosive, and ego-crushing way you can. Then go ghost - completely unreachable forever. And continue doing the best for your own life. Be the best man you can and be happy!
All we just heard was an angry boy who never learned how to be a man and lead.
Typical retort from someone who doesnt understand the psychopathology of NPD or BPD. Opinion dismissed.
@@ezdeezytube All we just heard is the victim making excuses and being a coward. You have no idea what we have survived and endured. You are just weak.
@@ezdeezytube What we have survived would have crushed you, child. Far less already has done so. What you endure is nothing. It is selfish whine bagging, nothing more.
Classic victim-role and blame shifting techniques. I know exactly what YOU are. Have some accountability for your evil behavior.
Love the backsplash tile in your kitchen bro
Omg right on point, unbelievable. I feel like you are sent for a time as this
Great video. What you said about it being sub conscious is true.
I've noticed that this mentality comes usually when the girl has been mistreated by men in the past or has not had a good father figure. She pain she feels is what makes her destructive. Sub conscious revenge, but they long for connection. Black widow effect
Thank u bro for helping others
Brother straight up that is my title
Seriously this blows my mind because I am experiencing this b******* right now with a 7 year old child stuck in the Middle
Keep this vibe!! This is you on the up n up
The best thing you could do, is make sure that you are ALWAYS in a better position than a woman.
Don't say I love you until you know them and their families and friends really well. Only date for marriage, not for attention. 🕊
Yes bro she is a narcissist monster 💯👌
I'm the most psycho insane kindest and loving person that's also stable for the Lord
Brashkono I’d rather have someone crazy having my back lol
Thank you for being you- seriously
Thanks for sharing... I needed the pep talk today...my narc ex keeps trying reel me back in but now that I have boundaries, expectations...he trying to bring me down a notch because in his warped mind it's easier to bring me down then rise up
Thanks alot for this one bro.
"Is everybody like this wtf is going on?" ❤
Well said, what these people do not realize is to those who cannot spot these red flags, they end up beating themselves up for a person that is not worth it, if they cheat, they lost u......as they never going to be content with even the next person ;)
“Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth.
25 Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths.
26 For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her.
27 Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.”
(~Proverbs 7:24-27 KJV)
You speak the truth
Keep dropping videos !
People are emotionally weak nowadays even older men and women they constant need proof of their own value bothering you with it
YES people are very overated
Its crazy how the devil uses that love spell to get you brainwashed.
It’s only possible to be heartbroken if your life doesn’t revolve around God and your higher Self. It has to revolve around a woman to FALL in love, and once your life revolves around a woman she feels like she’s the best you can do and she will leave you and you’ll be heartbroken and if you’re smart you’ll learn your lesson - someone even wrote a song about it: She Hates Me by Puddle of Mudd.
Oh and Black by Pearl Jam
I knew this woman once, she put other people down (mainly men) & talk about how tough she when the opposite was obvious!
Not everyone has integrity.
This is so true when something off they start disrespecting you throwing the sht they do onto you cause they know they aint sht.... Shame I threw right and walked out the door do you devil don't come back stay where you lay trash thats what you are worth
Something is up,,Are u Under Stress,selling all these Supplements & everthing, you're sure breaking out ?
nahh Brotha 🙏 AN ANGEL 😇 MY TESTIMONY LEGENDARY BECAUSE OF HER❤ TREAL TALK, and I WAS THA SQUARE "INCONSISTENT"
Funny being single and friends are like...when will you get married..... next married men are hiding in their work , hobbies away from their wives.. yeah.. thats why I'm single...
Bro my ex still calls its been almost 2 years 😂
Can u talk about weird male narc bosses
Consistently weird is the only consistency with these types ...hey are consistently fkd up ..
had to escape it
Honey if you looking for a perfect woman she’s not on the earth 😂 But the Standard should be of Jesus Christ! Maybe you still trying to get your money up for her woman of the world! 😢 Get in the word!!!!! Get saved!!!!
It's not hard to be a decent person, and that's the bare minimum that we are asking for but no. The fact that a woman intentionally play these games with you, cheating on you, ruining your rep, means they are the opposite of perfect, they aren't even decent they are all the way to the left of being evil which takes effort but it's the wrong kind of effort
Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. Yet she will be saved through childbearing-if they continue in faith and love and holiness, with self-control.
1 Timothy 2:11-15
This is what the word says, get saved. The fact you go to money is literally the last temptation the Devil offered Jesus in the scripture. You’re triggered.
Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. 9 “All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.”
10 Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’[e]”
11 Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him.
Matthew 4:8-11
Yep it’s sad and when they say it’s only 144thousand good souls … I mean it’s starting to make sense now this shit is just weird af at a certain point it’s just like dude what’s with all the narcs it’s super over saturated where it seems like literally only 1out of a thousand shoot maybe 1 out of thousands are not a narc. Most important thing I think is to pat yourself in the back that u can see it fast and keep meeting people cuz the few are out there it’s just so few so not allowing it to turn you into a recluse is very important that’s what I’m focused on right now. Stay up guys you can meet good souls just keep looking don’t let the narcs get u down don’t even let it bother u for long. Allow urself to feel the feelings sure be mad for a sec or even hurt but let it go release it because allowing it to keep u down for long isn’t benefiting u and literally the narc isn’t either they’re just delusional and making u be down is what gives these weirdos a sense of feeling powerful so just don’t move on u got this. A moment is just a moment in time let it pass keep spreading happiness and authenticity cuz keeping u down just takes out one more authentic person in a world that needs to see us getting back up over and over cuz they need to see the real power lies within us authentic people who truly love ourselves and others that can really sleep at night Cuz we’re not pretending we’re good people and we don’t have a list of messed up stuff we did to people keeping us up at night like they really do behind the scenes
Just ran into you...ty listening to every word because your so correct
When she starts reassuring your take that ads a red flag
Your so rite💯thank u
Like you 😂😂😂😂😂❤
How do u get over the hate 4 these monsters
They deadass went too far doing witchcraft broke all altars in the name of jesus christ
In my case a paid narcissistic monster 😂😂 😶
Videos got me cracking up I swear . Not the monster 😂🧌
Very valuable material, I wish you all the best bro
God is saying, "I got no time to waste. Now learn from others mistake. I mean there is internet and all."
If you didn't get hit hard enough the first came back for more the 2nd time or 3rd time you are going to get hit so hard that it will be a life or death situation and trust me it is not worth it. You better wake up before its too late
Good One!
Damnn this hit a little close 👌
Giant ball of love butter