I really needed this reassurance. I had a date tonight and it was amazing. My fiancé cheated on me a while ago and I’m finally recovering and growing from insecurity and fear. I’m back to my old self. Thank you ma’am ❤
Thank you so much for this. I went for my first date ever recently and this has reassured me. I met the girl a week ago and we already seem to have clicked, we laugh together, we are very open and complimentary of each other and I suspected a bit of flirting on both sides of the coin so to speak. I'm just so surprised she agreed to come out for a drink with me. I am a fairly large guy, my weight isn't the best, and I'm trying to loose weight and she's been genuinely supportive of that. She is in the same show as me and I feel lucky to have met her, trying to arrange a second date. Thank you for this video cause during my date there was not a dull moment. Any tips for a second date?
@@DearSybersue that’s very kind thanks 😊 she’s currently unwell so waiting until she gets better but we had a lovely long conversation last night on Facebook with some voice messages making each other laugh. Not sure exactly where she stands with me, but I really like her.
@@MrTardis11 Just keep doing what you’re doing by being your authentic self. She’s staying engaged in conversation so that’s definitely a positive! The fact that you’re making her laugh is also a good sign she’s interested. Everything sounds like it’s going well!
@@DearSybersue thank you 😊 is there a limit to how often I should talk to her on text? Obviously I want to respect her busy schedule and she’s currently unwell. When she’s well I definitely want to meet her again. When we were laughing on the date I could feel my heart kinda racing a bit was a weird momentary feeling. That’s kinda when I knew I liked her.
@@MrTardis11 Don’t go crazy texting. It can scare people off when they receive numerous texts in a day. Give her some space while she’s sick but you could text her to see if she needs anything.
My first date with a lady went well according to the 5 points. After our date a text her to thank her and tell her i enjoyed her conversation. The next day she text to me "sorry about the date, but our conversations over text was very good" ...then she become quite. Before meeting we had good communication over text. As a man her message is not clear, should i askher for another date the same week? Like drinks.
Hi Menno, it sounds like she felt a better connection with you during your texting, and then when you met in person she didn't get the same vibe. Maybe she didn't feel a spark or chemistry with you. This is fairly common when dating and that is why we date, to see if we are compatible. We aren't going to click with everyone. Did you feel a connection with her? You could ask her if she is interested in getting together in the next few weeks and if her answer is vague, or she doesn't seem excited about the opportunity, you will then have your answer. It's always better to know than to have regrets about not making the effort to find out.
I really needed this reassurance. I had a date tonight and it was amazing. My fiancé cheated on me a while ago and I’m finally recovering and growing from insecurity and fear. I’m back to my old self. Thank you ma’am ❤
Hi! I am so happy to hear things went well on your date!! Thanks for taking the time to comment! ❤️
Thank you so much for this. I went for my first date ever recently and this has reassured me. I met the girl a week ago and we already seem to have clicked, we laugh together, we are very open and complimentary of each other and I suspected a bit of flirting on both sides of the coin so to speak. I'm just so surprised she agreed to come out for a drink with me. I am a fairly large guy, my weight isn't the best, and I'm trying to loose weight and she's been genuinely supportive of that. She is in the same show as me and I feel lucky to have met her, trying to arrange a second date. Thank you for this video cause during my date there was not a dull moment. Any tips for a second date?
I don’t think you need any help! You’re doing great! ❤️
@@DearSybersue that’s very kind thanks 😊 she’s currently unwell so waiting until she gets better but we had a lovely long conversation last night on Facebook with some voice messages making each other laugh. Not sure exactly where she stands with me, but I really like her.
@@MrTardis11 Just keep doing what you’re doing by being your authentic self. She’s staying engaged in conversation so that’s definitely a positive! The fact that you’re making her laugh is also a good sign she’s interested. Everything sounds like it’s going well!
@@DearSybersue thank you 😊 is there a limit to how often I should talk to her on text? Obviously I want to respect her busy schedule and she’s currently unwell. When she’s well I definitely want to meet her again. When we were laughing on the date I could feel my heart kinda racing a bit was a weird momentary feeling. That’s kinda when I knew I liked her.
@@MrTardis11 Don’t go crazy texting. It can scare people off when they receive numerous texts in a day. Give her some space while she’s sick but you could text her to see if she needs anything.
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My first date with a lady went well according to the 5 points. After our date a text her to thank her and tell her i enjoyed her conversation.
The next day she text to me "sorry about the date, but our conversations over text was very good" ...then she become quite. Before meeting we had good communication over text.
As a man her message is not clear, should i askher for another date the same week? Like drinks.
Hi Menno, it sounds like she felt a better connection with you during your texting, and then when you met in person she didn't get the same vibe. Maybe she didn't feel a spark or chemistry with you. This is fairly common when dating and that is why we date, to see if we are compatible. We aren't going to click with everyone.
Did you feel a connection with her? You could ask her if she is interested in getting together in the next few weeks and if her answer is vague, or she doesn't seem excited about the opportunity, you will then have your answer. It's always better to know than to have regrets about not making the effort to find out.
I agree with your comments, thank you for your advice and recomendations @@DearSybersue
Thank you ❤