Be careful what you wish for or else it will come true. LOL. Also, they were flinging girls at Brandon through the farmer dating sites and these foreign-dating sites because they were afraid he was gay. Clearly he wasn't. He was just neutered completely by that ball-busting, manipulative mom of his and following them around like an old dog. Sigh...
Omg this one is actually really sad. She seemed to genuinely like him and vice versa. Those parents are condemning him to a lonely life all alone forever.
Children of dysfunctional parents are constantly shocked by their parents' dysfunction because there is a strong part of them that is in denial and holding out hope that for once there parents will just act normal
His mother is manipulative and plays the victim and you can tell his father has a temper and was/is probably abusive. Apparently, Brandon is his mothers only child, but his father has 3-4 more kids.
Yeaaaa i mean she wanted to come to america that's her trade-off but she's still totally respectful, reasonable, rational, accommodating, but also pretty good at communicating. These parents are mess. Her fiancee is a teen boy
That's so beyond fucked up. She left her country to live with him. He's literally her only advocate in this country. How dare he use her as an excuse. Man that's how you know he's never been in a relationship.
When his mom talks to Julia about the birth control, Julia gets really mad. They use Julia. His parents don't know the word boundaries. His parents creep me out. Brandon and Julia just got their own apartment so I bet Julia is happy to be away from these 2 crazy parents.
As someone with lots of livestock: It's NOT for everyone. I can't imagine how hard this must have been for her (weird as shit family dynamics in that home, and a fiance with no balls, aside), and its horrible that he did nothing to prepare her for that lifestyle. It doesn't even seem like he asked her if that would be compatible with her wants and needs. She can do better, honestly.
Definitely agree with you, it feels like the whole working on the farm was sprung on her without advance notice. Completely uncool of him and his parents. I feel really bad for her and wouldn't hold it against her if she left.
i agree, half my childhood grew on a farm on and off, it is not for every1 and animals need atention every day, not to mention food + their parrents treat them like children wouldn't be surprised if she fks off xD
We laughing but I feel for this girl. How sad and scared she must have felt. Imagine changing your life completely and having these asshiles control your life.
@@---ur1nf because the rules that the parents set up were SUPER unfair. i mean, Brandon is a full grown adult, and these parents are babying him and treating him as if he was a child, and he allows that? he blamed julia for everything. youre saying that she perfectly knew that that was gonna happen? brandons parents gaslight him and he is allowing that. im sure brandon didnt say "hey just so u know, my parents are gonna control everything we do and treat us like children". thats why everyone is defending her
Michael Cera is awkward, but he has emotional intelligence and independence Brandon has not been in proximity of. Put some respect on his name lol (I laughed at my own joke at the end).
These are the most manipulative parents I've seen, they coddle him, stunt his growth, yet when he tries to stand up for him and his partner (emphasis on try) they tell him to "be a man" oh if he was a "man" he would've spoken up and communicated to his parents on the boundaries he needs to set and thought for himself.
i relate to brandon's frustration w/ dysfunctional parents. sometimes you can't do ANYTHING right in their eyes and it doesn't matter wtf you want. sometimes the only way to react is to treat it like a joke. you're just so used to that bullshit. however, i think it was extremely immature to throw his SO under the bus. tbh i don't watch this show, but i hope he works his way out of his denial for her sake.
Or brandon's parents are actually normal but they seem dysfunctional because Brandon is so emotionally stunted that he cannot communicate properly with his own parents, that he can't even say what he and Julia wants. It's like he thinks he's still an 8 year old boy.
Theres nothing wrong with that. I spend my time doing the same sometimes if me and my wife switch driving seats and its my turn to sit with our baby in the back. Millenials are too caught up in what 'appears' mature instead of just being sure of themselves and not having such low self-esteem
@@WHATISUTUBE sitting in the back of your car, with your baby is a far cry from sitting in the back of mum and dads ride playing Nintendo. While your mom is on the phone trying to get birth control for you no less.
@@johnnyholmes8840 the birth control is odd, but I've sat in the back of my car while my mom was driving as recent as 6 years ago. Me and my wife now live in a separate state and are saving for a house. Like I said I used to be caught up in the whole, "this isnt what an adult would do, is it?" in my teens but then I grew up and stopped caring
@@WHATISUTUBE holy moly bub, it's not just about the car ride. The "kid", who is almost 30 mind you, has to refer to mom N' dad about everything. Instead of being a man and standing on his own two feet. I am not speaking based purely on optics, I am speaking of the whole dynamic he has with his mommy, and her whipping boy, his dad.
Farming isn’t something you should do unless it’s your passion. It’s working ALL DAY. I feel SO bad for Julia. The parents SELFISH, manipulative jerks. They didn’t want a son, they wanted a farm hand. They wanted to keep him there for his whole life. People; move away from your parents house and out from under their thumb. Holy shit what a terrible life.
My mom pulls the same shit every time I tell her something she doesn’t like. Tears and guilt trips immediately. Also Brandon isn’t ready to commit to someone enough to even have their back. He throws Julia under the bus every chance he gets
Julia actually gave it a shot? did the things they wanted? followed the rules?because she wanted them genuinely happy? No money sending? No In it just for the citizenship? There won’t be another like her on this show.
This has got to be THE ALMOST best 90 day fiance relationship, both of them are at the same age group, both seem to actually be attracted to each other, and both seem to actually love each other; but this wouldn't be on TV if there wasn't some convoluted flaw that viewers are going to be annoyed with. Brandon is one god damn lucky SOB with Julia, but he is way too emotionally stunted for any real relationship, at first glance his parents might seem like uptight overly-strict parents, but they really just seem that way because Brandon doesn't seem to know how to communicate with human beings properly.
nah, this relationship is quite problematic. the healthiest I've seen on the show is the relationship of that ~20 year old brazilian model (juliana I think) and the rich middle-aged american. she's a competent person who's had a tough life, so the age difference doesn't seem to cause problems. even the ex wife and kids end up liking her.
Holy shit, my ex had parents like that. We overslept one sunday and her father got so emotionally abusive she feard he might hit her. So she flet to me. Her Dad needed one conversation alone to reprogram her to again follow his regime of being available helpers you dont need to ask for help, its offered to him as a tribute for existing inside his walls. By the Way, she developed an eating disorder and fear of gaining weight, because he made fun of her when she was child and called her fatty. Plot twist: the mother was even worse.
1 minute in and I want his mother to drop off the face of the earth 🙂 not your body, not your choice. She cannot actually think that dictating someone else’s decisions about their body/ birth control is normal?? Delusional.
This is pretty sad. It seems like these two actually have potential relationship wise, but the parents ruin it. The kid isn’t to assertive but it’s probably his parents fault for that.
Brandon, look at the age of you. Being controlled, bullied, emotionally abused by your parents. Get a back bone and leave! Go live your life on your own terms. This situation is wrong on every level. It's suffocating!😠
I come from a family of ranches and farmers and my parents are similar to Brandon’s, thank god they are not as delusional though. Whenever I tell my mom I will get out of the country, she says “WHO WILL TAKE CARE OF ME THEN?” I end up feeling so guilty, but I know that I am a different person with different needs too and I know she thinks of me as an eventual nurse she’ll have for herself whenever she wants. I am all up for helping them when they are old, dont get me wrong, but the way in which they ask for it and also the way they treat me like isnt making me feel excited for my future :/
You are within your rights to say no. They can't sue you or force you. When you move out you don't have to go back and help. Its your life. Worry about yourself. When the time comes, nursing homes are always available
Tell your mom to travel to you when/if she needs assistance and family close by. You gotta let your kids fly the coop, can't expect them to live with you forever. My grandma spent her teenage years and young adulthood taking care of her mom (on a farm) with MS while her sisters got married, went to university, started their own lives. Eventually she realized, though she loved her mother dearly, she needed to start her own life too (she had met my grandpa at this point so that probably had something to do with it 😛). Her parents hired a neighbor to help them out with cooking and cleaning, taking care of her mother, and it all worked out. They didn't hold it against her. Anyways now my grandma is over 90 and has recently moved from her house in BC to a nice apartment near her daughter, my aunt, in Alberta. My aunt is more than happy having her mom close by and doesn't mind helping my grandma with anything she needs. I'm telling you this to show you what a functional, normal family is like :P Fly the coop! It will be hard at first, you might feel guilty, but just know that this is how it's supposed to be. Young people need to start their own lives.
You do NOT owe your parents your life. Period. I have a shit mother who tried to ruin my life by PRETENDING to be sick, just so she could order me around like a slave. No no no! You get the hell away from toxic parents! You have a right to your own life, your own choices...please don't let them take that away from you.
He works as an exterminator. I wouldn't be surprised if his parents found a way to take his money so he can't save. They'd definitely overcharge for rent or find other reasons to take his money.
I'd say he does have money but it's locked away under messed up conditions and to be honest I think they would have put him on the Will to take over the farm so he'll never leave
I work on a dairy farm and yes; the calves are freaking adorable. But farming is HAARRRDDD WORK. If they were more kind and supportive and GRATEFUL for the work she was doing, I’m sure it would have made a world of difference. There is NOTHING worse than dedicating your life to someone else’s livelihood and receiving condemnation for your efforts. These people are delusional 🤣
People bitch that Brandon's parents wanted Julia on birth control, but can you blame them? Brandon is such a passive simp, you KNOW he wouldn't bother to use birth control. Better to be intrusive than to have Julia get pregnant and have Brandon say, "I don't know HOW this could have HAPPENED!" His parents are looney tunes, but at least they got THIS aspect of their relationship right.
Wow the parentes wanted free help and the farm goes before everything . He cant come with Tea in the morning then she must work all day and after that they have to be in separate rooms. The parents still think that russia is soviet where they had state farms where people worked for the goverment so they tought it Would be naturally for her to be free help on the farm .....but boy did it backfired haha
Honestly for some reason I think his parents would hurt Julia if she was to get him away from them it’s very textbook….strange possessiveness. There’s a sad story of a woman who was in fierce custody battle over her son in the 80’s and the ex husbands family lured her to a farm and killed her and burned her body. Her bone fragments and a button off of her jeans helped solved her murder years after the fact. The son was also in on it so they would get custody of the son and an insurance payout. 😢
Oh God, the control! The co-dependency in that household! This is so sad, this seemed like the first genuine connection on one of these shows I've seen, I feel horrible for Julia.
Ohhhh, I wish I was in Julia's place! Because I'm a banker, and I always smell when something doesn't end up financially. If they have a farm, yet they got themselves regular JOBS; most likely the farm doesn't make them a decent amount of money. There is a good chance all those animals bring more problems than income. And they had to get a girl from another country to look after them instead of hiring a labourer? I'm pretty sure the farm doesn't yield much profit, which is why they can't hire anyone; but they must be too stubborn to admit it. Ohhhh, I wish Julia asked them for cash flow statements, balance sheets and other accounting things! Once I'd be done with them, they'd sell the farm and let poor Julia get a job too, looool.
Okay feel kinda of sorry for brandon, he seemed to have lead a very sheltered life and his parents dont seem to treat him as an adult. I dont know why these type of parents expect their children to grow if they never give them any room to be their own person. Also they set brandon up because they are worried about him never finding a girlfriend but when he does, it's how come you dont spend time with your family. Like maybe he wants to get to know the women, he flew out from Russia.
She's a beautiful girl. He's an average looking dude and she actually seems to like him. That boy seems very naive. He doesn't know the odds he beat. He needs to get this girl the hell out of his parents' house ASAP.
wait a minute, his parents wanted him to find a girl, he gets one, and then they get angry that he's passing his time more with her than with them?
Be careful what you wish for or else it will come true. LOL. Also, they were flinging girls at Brandon through the farmer dating sites and these foreign-dating sites because they were afraid he was gay. Clearly he wasn't. He was just neutered completely by that ball-busting, manipulative mom of his and following them around like an old dog. Sigh...
@@Luboman411 you hit on the nose. Guy's going to get dragged around by his parents his whole life.
What they wanted, was for him to find someone to help them work on the farm lol.
Literally pimping their son out to get free labor. She's from another country so she won't runaway as quickly? That's just cruel.
@@Luboman411 why bqckv
Omg this one is actually really sad. She seemed to genuinely like him and vice versa. Those parents are condemning him to a lonely life all alone forever.
Surprisingly they had made it. If you find thier insta accounts it shows they are still together.
@@tombarnes4980 what's their ig?
@@tombarnes4980 that makes me happy af tbh
What’s up Dustin
Right not to mention this girl is willing to work on the farm lol like 😆
Colt and Brandon could be best friends, both are gaslighters that are married to their parents
This comment took me out LMFAO
haha omg i
brandon may have no balls but at least he isnt a sleazy POS like colty
Children of dysfunctional parents are constantly shocked by their parents' dysfunction because there is a strong part of them that is in denial and holding out hope that for once there parents will just act normal
Damm, you hit right in the nail it actually hurt
Lmao I didn't need you to read my mind tonight
Child: “why can't you just be normal?!”
Parents: “AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH”
stitches. 💯
My mom's work family has always been more important than her actual family 😂
You can tell he's lowkey afraid of his parents by the way he deflects blame to julia and play up to them
Yeah but he needs to grow up they’re old as hell he will be fine
@@arielrose5017 Never said his behavior was justified at all. he’s immature and always blames julia when she doesn’t do anything.
His mother is manipulative and plays the victim and you can tell his father has a temper and was/is probably abusive.
Apparently, Brandon is his mothers only child, but his father has 3-4 more kids.
Those parents seem shady asf
His parents surely own the farm, and he has his sights on inheriting it after working on it for so long.
Everyone's ignoring the fact that the mom and dad operate a puppy and cat mill. Never trust animal abusers.
Oh thank god you're here to demonise these people for us
@@ThePrimeMinisterOfTheBlock the fact that your account is the worst Prime Minister of Australia we ever had speaks volumes
@@janieoak9920 says who, you? I didn't ask to be prime minister through a bloody global pandemic. Abbott and Turnbull would have fared no better
@@ThePrimeMinisterOfTheBlock Phoenix doesn’t need to demonise them. Their actions and decisions do that
But you keep trying to look cool
@@andrewquick4176 no, demonization can only be done by selfish, judgemental people such as yourself. Please don't tell lies.
Julia’s patience with this emotionally stunted man is remarkable
I mean, its for a visa and then citizenship. In 3 yrs, she's dunzo gonzo.
Yeaaaa i mean she wanted to come to america that's her trade-off but she's still totally respectful, reasonable, rational, accommodating, but also pretty good at communicating. These parents are mess. Her fiancee is a teen boy
@@RachelDoesntknow true.. And Russian girls like manly men. She got herself a 27 yr old, 12 yr old.
That whole family is full of manipulators Julia needs to get out!
@@papitosabe I think if that was the case, she wouldn’t care about having to stay in separate rooms
The parents have had so much unchallenged control they can't believe this girl wants her independence
That's so beyond fucked up. She left her country to live with him. He's literally her only advocate in this country. How dare he use her as an excuse. Man that's how you know he's never been in a relationship.
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Trump supporters are almost always narcissists unfortunately. What do you expect?
Lmao “I’m inside plowing, why would I go outside to plow” you had me dying!
i know. i just watched this clip and i rewatched that part like 4 times.
😂😂😂
Jeez these parents. I can't believe this is actually real
Ikr can’t let go of their 27 yr old baby 👶
Got a lot of oink 2 it
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
it's probably not
It's probably scripted
@@jonkabrioska I hope it’s scripted god damn I feel bad for these people if it’s not
When his mom talks to Julia about the birth control, Julia gets really mad. They use Julia. His parents don't know the word boundaries. His parents creep me out. Brandon and Julia just got their own apartment so I bet Julia is happy to be away from these 2 crazy parents.
Nice name
Thanks for the update dude
Its really creep to me the mom saying ur naked in hot tub. Only towel. Huh what
As someone with lots of livestock: It's NOT for everyone. I can't imagine how hard this must have been for her (weird as shit family dynamics in that home, and a fiance with no balls, aside), and its horrible that he did nothing to prepare her for that lifestyle. It doesn't even seem like he asked her if that would be compatible with her wants and needs. She can do better, honestly.
You said everything I was thinking.
Definitely agree with you, it feels like the whole working on the farm was sprung on her without advance notice. Completely uncool of him and his parents. I feel really bad for her and wouldn't hold it against her if she left.
i agree, half my childhood grew on a farm on and off, it is not for every1 and animals need atention every day, not to mention food + their parrents treat them like children wouldn't be surprised if she fks off xD
pump more of these out, they funny as hell bro
Yes, you have to. so funny
Thanks, man. For sure more will be coming!
He said pepepe while them mom was fake crying had me dying 😂
Yess
6:40 "You brought a new fiancee to live with us and we're seeing less of you because you spend time with her. This is totally unexpected😱😱"
Oh just shut up Rachel
His parents watching them kiss is so uncomfy
And then continue to treat them like they're 15??? This is the most confusing shit omg
Parents were like son its time for u to find a farm hand I mean...... girlfriend....
@@emmawhelan2243 exactly.....youre totally on point. Free labor.....girlfriend
The father seemed to enjoy it. 😵
@@jerry4ever18 Dad just staring like "when's my turn?"
The parents are/were swingers, so.
We want personal slave, what's wrong with that.
Personal slave.....illegal .
@@maryroberts9233 that was joke...
@@Bole_ZG true , though
The mother is just crazy 😂😂😂😂
The Mom is a controlling witch. He needs to grow up and move far away from both his parents
We laughing but I feel for this girl. How sad and scared she must have felt. Imagine changing your life completely and having these asshiles control your life.
She knew and still agreed to move to the US, lol. Why is everyone defending her? She perfectly knew the conditions.
@@---ur1nf because the rules that the parents set up were SUPER unfair. i mean, Brandon is a full grown adult, and these parents are babying him and treating him as if he was a child, and he allows that? he blamed julia for everything. youre saying that she perfectly knew that that was gonna happen? brandons parents gaslight him and he is allowing that. im sure brandon didnt say "hey just so u know, my parents are gonna control everything we do and treat us like children". thats why everyone is defending her
I liked Julia. She isnt fake like most of them. And she genuinely tries.
Them parents though, they raised a mush of a person. Congrats!
Strangest family I’ve ever seen. They look like something out of the twilight zone, or the Bates hotel. Brandon is a wuss, he needs to grow up.
Yep, they're a horror movie waiting to happen.
She actually seems so nice & wholesome
Strippers are good actresses
@derekbos4404 going to guess you don't have a girlfriend? 😂
@@derekbos4404she a damn good actress cuz they're still together
@@tefcar6999technically she kinda was a stripper... just sayin
@@waxxy8447 Eat crow
Glad to see Michael Cera has found love
Michael Cera is awkward, but he has emotional intelligence and independence Brandon has not been in proximity of. Put some respect on his name lol (I laughed at my own joke at the end).
@@anthrobeats5927 I laughed too😜
Oh don’t do Michael like that
😂😂😂
These are the most manipulative parents I've seen, they coddle him, stunt his growth, yet when he tries to stand up for him and his partner (emphasis on try) they tell him to "be a man" oh if he was a "man" he would've spoken up and communicated to his parents on the boundaries he needs to set and thought for himself.
"I hate morning, I have all my life" 😂😂😂
So youre telling me that if i wait long enough my parents will find me a mail order bride?
They didn't find Julia.
Brandon’s parents were slave owners in the south in their previous life.😂
😭😭
“Why be freemen out there when you could stay here at the plantation and be family?”-👴🏻👵🏻
@@Davidpostingshid🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 “I’ll even let you sleep an extra 10 mins on Sundays”
They think they are slaves owners to Julia, now.
i relate to brandon's frustration w/ dysfunctional parents. sometimes you can't do ANYTHING right in their eyes and it doesn't matter wtf you want. sometimes the only way to react is to treat it like a joke. you're just so used to that bullshit. however, i think it was extremely immature to throw his SO under the bus. tbh i don't watch this show, but i hope he works his way out of his denial for her sake.
Or brandon's parents are actually normal but they seem dysfunctional because Brandon is so emotionally stunted that he cannot communicate properly with his own parents, that he can't even say what he and Julia wants. It's like he thinks he's still an 8 year old boy.
@@aLwE17 lol no they are definitely NOT normal. Come on. Their behaviour is insane and emotionally abusive, that's how he ended up like that.
Yeah exactly. My mom is toxic and dysfunctional so i get it.
He's an adult and could leave but....
@ aLwE17--
If you think those are normal parents, PLEASE do not have children.
You didnt show the clips of him playing his Nintendo in the back seat, while his mom was on the phone with the gynecologist.
Theres nothing wrong with that. I spend my time doing the same sometimes if me and my wife switch driving seats and its my turn to sit with our baby in the back. Millenials are too caught up in what 'appears' mature instead of just being sure of themselves and not having such low self-esteem
@@WHATISUTUBE sitting in the back of your car, with your baby is a far cry from sitting in the back of mum and dads ride playing Nintendo. While your mom is on the phone trying to get birth control for you no less.
@@johnnyholmes8840 the birth control is odd, but I've sat in the back of my car while my mom was driving as recent as 6 years ago. Me and my wife now live in a separate state and are saving for a house.
Like I said I used to be caught up in the whole, "this isnt what an adult would do, is it?" in my teens but then I grew up and stopped caring
@@WHATISUTUBE holy moly bub, it's not just about the car ride. The "kid", who is almost 30 mind you, has to refer to mom N' dad about everything. Instead of being a man and standing on his own two feet. I am not speaking based purely on optics, I am speaking of the whole dynamic he has with his mommy, and her whipping boy, his dad.
@@johnnyholmes8840 No I agree with what youre saying, Im just talking specifically about his game console.
No, I agree that he's a man child
It’s so crazy when parents are surprised their children want to leave
It’s kind of sick
Farming isn’t something you should do unless it’s your passion. It’s working ALL DAY. I feel SO bad for Julia. The parents SELFISH, manipulative jerks. They didn’t want a son, they wanted a farm hand. They wanted to keep him there for his whole life. People; move away from your parents house and out from under their thumb. Holy shit what a terrible life.
My mom pulls the same shit every time I tell her something she doesn’t like. Tears and guilt trips immediately. Also Brandon isn’t ready to commit to someone enough to even have their back. He throws Julia under the bus every chance he gets
Julia actually gave it a shot? did the things they wanted? followed the rules?because she wanted them genuinely happy? No money sending? No In it just for the citizenship? There won’t be another like her on this show.
This has got to be THE ALMOST best 90 day fiance relationship, both of them are at the same age group, both seem to actually be attracted to each other, and both seem to actually love each other; but this wouldn't be on TV if there wasn't some convoluted flaw that viewers are going to be annoyed with. Brandon is one god damn lucky SOB with Julia, but he is way too emotionally stunted for any real relationship, at first glance his parents might seem like uptight overly-strict parents, but they really just seem that way because Brandon doesn't seem to know how to communicate with human beings properly.
nah, this relationship is quite problematic. the healthiest I've seen on the show is the relationship of that ~20 year old brazilian model (juliana I think) and the rich middle-aged american. she's a competent person who's had a tough life, so the age difference doesn't seem to cause problems. even the ex wife and kids end up liking her.
@@Ass_of_Amalek they divorced
Not at all his parents really are those things. Don't respect boundaries and are just weird asf
The parents are nutcases
No his parents come off as creepy and controlling. That dynamic most likely made Brandon so non-confrontational. His parents made him this way.
Holy shit, my ex had parents like that. We overslept one sunday and her father got so emotionally abusive she feard he might hit her. So she flet to me. Her Dad needed one conversation alone to reprogram her to again follow his regime of being available helpers you dont need to ask for help, its offered to him as a tribute for existing inside his walls. By the Way, she developed an eating disorder and fear of gaining weight, because he made fun of her when she was child and called her fatty. Plot twist: the mother was even worse.
I completely lost it when you started mocking his mom😭😭😭!!!!!
1 minute in and I want his mother to drop off the face of the earth 🙂 not your body, not your choice. She cannot actually think that dictating someone else’s decisions about their body/ birth control is normal?? Delusional.
She's a manipulative control freak.
Well at least this went better than the last time a guy tried to date a Russian girl
😂
I really like Julia, girl is cool as hell and she really tried to fit in with his family.
Please,she wanted to come to America!there's no way she'd date this dork
It feels like the parents really just see her as an object
These parents are nuts. Brandon needs to get away from them and live his own life.
This is pretty sad. It seems like these two actually have potential relationship wise, but the parents ruin it. The kid isn’t to assertive but it’s probably his parents fault for that.
Brandon, look at the age of you. Being controlled, bullied, emotionally abused by your parents. Get a back bone and leave! Go live your life on your own terms. This situation is wrong on every level. It's suffocating!😠
I come from a family of ranches and farmers and my parents are similar to Brandon’s, thank god they are not as delusional though.
Whenever I tell my mom I will get out of the country, she says “WHO WILL TAKE CARE OF ME THEN?” I end up feeling so guilty, but I know that I am a different person with different needs too and I know she thinks of me as an eventual nurse she’ll have for herself whenever she wants.
I am all up for helping them when they are old, dont get me wrong, but the way in which they ask for it and also the way they treat me like isnt making me feel excited for my future :/
You are within your rights to say no. They can't sue you or force you. When you move out you don't have to go back and help. Its your life. Worry about yourself. When the time comes, nursing homes are always available
Tell your mom to travel to you when/if she needs assistance and family close by. You gotta let your kids fly the coop, can't expect them to live with you forever.
My grandma spent her teenage years and young adulthood taking care of her mom (on a farm) with MS while her sisters got married, went to university, started their own lives. Eventually she realized, though she loved her mother dearly, she needed to start her own life too (she had met my grandpa at this point so that probably had something to do with it 😛). Her parents hired a neighbor to help them out with cooking and cleaning, taking care of her mother, and it all worked out. They didn't hold it against her.
Anyways now my grandma is over 90 and has recently moved from her house in BC to a nice apartment near her daughter, my aunt, in Alberta. My aunt is more than happy having her mom close by and doesn't mind helping my grandma with anything she needs.
I'm telling you this to show you what a functional, normal family is like :P
Fly the coop! It will be hard at first, you might feel guilty, but just know that this is how it's supposed to be. Young people need to start their own lives.
You do NOT owe your parents your life. Period. I have a shit mother who tried to ruin my life by PRETENDING to be sick, just so she could order me around like a slave. No no no! You get the hell away from toxic parents! You have a right to your own life, your own choices...please don't let them take that away from you.
@UCSZKAaTWGoAXNjdRF-LCXdA Nursing homes in most places are shitholes, unless you are shit rich.
RUN!!!!
She is even prettier without makeup. I'm sincerely jealous lol
Yeah she’s a babe
Same 😅
My question is does Brandon have an income or do his parents control it? If they are this controlling he probably doesn't have the funds to leave
He works as an exterminator. I wouldn't be surprised if his parents found a way to take his money so he can't save. They'd definitely overcharge for rent or find other reasons to take his money.
I'd say he does have money but it's locked away under messed up conditions and to be honest I think they would have put him on the Will to take over the farm so he'll never leave
Wouldn’t surprise me if this is the case.
The way his dad's vein in his neck was popping out at the table scared me 😳
The sarcasm in your narration is some of the best I've ever heard ! . Please put out more of these , I've been Lmfao
10:15
Brandon's Mom: You wanna leave...why!?🤯
Brandon: Well bec...
Brandon's Mom: No. No. No. No. No. 🙅🏼♀️😖
You're an amazing commentator. Keep it up man.
I’ve never laughed so hard whoever is doing the voice overs is funny asf keep it up
Brandon would be hot if he had a completely different personality.
Ewww hell no!
Yeah he's really cute
He can’t help it with these psychos
No.
He looks like Howdy Doody.
And, there's no getting over that garbage personality .
when she started crying I DAMN NEAR DIED. TOO FUNNY🤣😂😂
He's fucking 27, he doesn't need your permission to move out
I find it ridiculous and get so pissed off when a parent equals a child leaving to give independency a go, and equals that as "losing a child"
She is awesome and deserves so much better than him
And his parents are controlling AF
"You guys ready too plow? I talked too the gyno!!!!"💀💀💀💀💀
12:00 Brandon’s mom can’t figure out how to cry like a person
Mah•nip•ula•tive!!!!
“Please have it ready soon, they plow all the time”
😂😂😂
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Always happy to see you upload! Brandon and his parents suck, I hope that Julia runs back home cause the dysfunction there is ridiculous
I haven’t watched u I’m so long but then I got a notification. Keep up the great work!
I work on a dairy farm and yes; the calves are freaking adorable. But farming is HAARRRDDD WORK. If they were more kind and supportive and GRATEFUL for the work she was doing, I’m sure it would have made a world of difference. There is NOTHING worse than dedicating your life to someone else’s livelihood and receiving condemnation for your efforts. These people are delusional 🤣
Birth control: yes
Same room: no
Mandatory naked hottub: yes
The hell is wrong with his parents?
Foreal.
They're not even farmers, they're just homesteaders.
these are the most controlling parents i've ever seen
You should meet my in laws.
People bitch that Brandon's parents wanted Julia on birth control, but can you blame them? Brandon is such a passive simp, you KNOW he wouldn't bother to use birth control. Better to be intrusive than to have Julia get pregnant and have Brandon say, "I don't know HOW this could have HAPPENED!" His parents are looney tunes, but at least they got THIS aspect of their relationship right.
Brandon's mom looks like Brandon in a wig
Poor kid. She seems to really like him but he just can't stand up for himself or for his fiance.
Can't imagine any women could survive in his household
Wow the parentes wanted free help and the farm goes before everything . He cant come with Tea in the morning then she must work all day and after that they have to be in separate rooms. The parents still think that russia is soviet where they had state farms where people worked for the goverment so they tought it Would be naturally for her to be free help on the farm .....but boy did it backfired haha
the fact that the parents set the entire thing up just speaks for itself
He’s received social skills from his parents and farm animals, he can’t communicate his needs or wants!
Dude your videos are so good, the editing is awesome, and your voice is beautiful and great for commenting. Keep it up!
Honestly for some reason I think his parents would hurt Julia if she was to get him away from them it’s very textbook….strange possessiveness. There’s a sad story of a woman who was in fierce custody battle over her son in the 80’s and the ex husbands family lured her to a farm and killed her and burned her body. Her bone fragments and a button off of her jeans helped solved her murder years after the fact. The son was also in on it so they would get custody of the son and an insurance payout. 😢
Sadly I agree it seems like that. As well as other couples in the 90 day franchise good thing the cameras are there
But they made it. They eventually moved to Florida, found jobs and are still together.
He said, "Nothing is going to come from it" while talking about birth control.
Bahahahahahahahaha
Hes always playing the victim
I could listen to you commentate on anything. Anytime.
One of few the few content producers that make me laugh repeatedly.
I like this couple, but this guy need to be a men, not a kid
The mom is major league messed up man
How many times did the parents say “we weren’t happy” when they’re son is 27?
Oh God, the control! The co-dependency in that household! This is so sad, this seemed like the first genuine connection on one of these shows I've seen, I feel horrible for Julia.
Nice, I've been waiting for you to get to the poor bastards on this season.
His parents pondering on why he’s single is hilarious. Like come on it’s UUU!!!😂😂😂
Ohhhh, I wish I was in Julia's place! Because I'm a banker, and I always smell when something doesn't end up financially. If they have a farm, yet they got themselves regular JOBS; most likely the farm doesn't make them a decent amount of money. There is a good chance all those animals bring more problems than income. And they had to get a girl from another country to look after them instead of hiring a labourer? I'm pretty sure the farm doesn't yield much profit, which is why they can't hire anyone; but they must be too stubborn to admit it. Ohhhh, I wish Julia asked them for cash flow statements, balance sheets and other accounting things! Once I'd be done with them, they'd sell the farm and let poor Julia get a job too, looool.
They don't own the farm, it's their extended families farm they just work it (that's the rumor st least)
I heard the “farm” is mostly just a puppy mill but they don’t show it on camera
“Of course we have sex we just have sex in different place”
And in one sentence she’s figured out why Americans have so many accidental pregnancies.
Okay feel kinda of sorry for brandon, he seemed to have lead a very sheltered life and his parents dont seem to treat him as an adult. I dont know why these type of parents expect their children to grow if they never give them any room to be their own person.
Also they set brandon up because they are worried about him never finding a girlfriend but when he does, it's how come you dont spend time with your family. Like maybe he wants to get to know the women, he flew out from Russia.
Great video! I’m working on one about Brandon & Julia as well, specifically with regard to the legality of all that unpaid labor 😊😊😊
She's a beautiful girl. He's an average looking dude and she actually seems to like him. That boy seems very naive. He doesn't know the odds he beat. He needs to get this girl the hell out of his parents' house ASAP.
I grew up in a farm and it has to be the hardest job I’ve ever done and this city girl I’m surprised she just didn’t give up in the first week.
His parents are every woman's worst nightmare for in law's.
Julia thought she was coming to Beverly Hills but she ended up with the Beverly Hill Billies
😂😂😂nice 1 classic anime movie btw. I have it on dvd
Lol his dad is more happier than his son to see his sons future wife
I bet his dad was soo happy bc he knew about the naked tub 🤣🤣
The parents are swingers. He probably wants to "try out" Julia.
@@blobbertmcblob4888 I died when that info came out
I'm obsessed with these
The commentary is just so good
I love that she forgets she’s crying
Those parents are nuts. They can be naked together in a hot tub but they can’t sleep in the same room??
So him moving out and making his own family is her losing her son? Wow, that's a super dramatic take. Kids are supposed to grow up and move out, lol.
I LOVE your commentary....Laugh til I've got tears streaming.
No mister you aren't old enough to leave parents house. Next year you will have second 14th birthday.
Brandon's mom reminds me of mine. Crazy af!