Not a Clickbait. 100% Real Secret HOW TO MAKE ALL WOMEN INSTANTLY ATTRACTED TO YOU WITHOUT WORDS.
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In this video, you'll learn the secrets to making women instantly attracted to you without saying a single word. Through mastering the art of nonverbal communication and body language, you can convey confidence, charisma, and magnetism that draws women to you like a moth to a flame. Whether you're looking for love, romance, or just more success in your dating life, this video is a must-watch. So sit back, relax, and discover the ultimate guide to making all women instantly attracted to you.
Basically the same nonchalant energy you have when talking to a random man, you need to have that exact same nonchalant energy when approaching and talking to woman.
Easier said than done, when she's like a total 20 out of 10 Unicorn (they don't come along very often!) ......that you're instantly helplessly attracted to, and shitting yourself with potential rejection! But yeh i get it....
@@luker1hutcher315 she’s still human bro. Women get tired of being put on a pedestal. Too many simps on social media already doing that. You gotta stand out. And all you have to do to stand out, is treat her no different from a random man in the street.
@@luker1hutcher315 they pick their boogers, they fart, they reuse their dirty shit stained panties without washing, they burp, they commit crimes like shoplifting and con innocent men, they could be terribly abusive. And you are afraid of them, really?
Fuck. I get anxiety around men too. Probably can trace it to a traumatic event way back that makes me nervous around people in general.
Same energy less ass slapping and saying good game
Also you can minimize your pain of getting brutally rejected by just not caring about being rejected. After all it doesn't matter anymore, don't let something in the past afflict your present.
Easier said than done, you can become numb (and then you're basically cut off from emotion) but that emotion might still work on you inside - meditation and/or other types of inner work might help
How do you not care, like if you didn’t care you wouldn’t walk up and approach
@@SZNJesus is coming. Repent and believe the gospel
@@camilosanchez831 I agree
@@SZN How so? What i mean is that you shouldn't lament any results, you should only focus on your actions, because you can only control what you do, not what happens.
This man deserves some credit. Back in the day when I was single I randomly talked to everybody men women everywhere. After some time I snesed that all people started acting in a more friendly manner and girls started liking me more. So how you feel matters if you feel nervous all people pick it up not just women.
Exactly, learning to just be comfortable talking to anyone really.
From my experiences it comes down to vibration / energy / frame whatever.
Being purely calm 24/7 doesn't do much. You have to show you have an emotional range if you feel happy show it, feel shit show it etc
It's called being congruent or authentic. That's what people like about people.
Agree with you - authentic not boring and an actor
No bro fake doesn't last long, but I think one do his maximum potential of fun with whome he acts normal.
@@techontube4735 You're essentially agreeing, so saying "No bro fake doesn't last long" is kinda redundant in terms of adding to the topic, if you were countering with a different view then I'd understand saying it 🤔
@mar8285 @mar8285 Ok let's read the main comment in which we both are debating, in the comment he says don't be calm, I think calm doesn't means being calm like a monk, and be energetic how can one be energetic when he is faking it. If you are real and calm, you doesn't give a fuck to the result, obviously in that scenario you will perform better. Bruh i am talking of another level of mentality it may take you some time to decode, I am not a good explainer so sorry I can't explain it, but lastly I can say, bitches love dominant men, no lady loves weak man, everyone loves balance and mystery, If you will want to impress or get your crush you emotions will be high, don't care about her start with small lamb, get the flow and lastly got the main sheep.😊
Le donne tendono a creare una idea di persona a emozione, quindi creando sinceramente una idea nella loro mente, una idea di uomo estremamente simpatico e di successo, per loro lo sarai. Aggiungi un pizzico di fortuna, e molta logistica e il risultato è molto probabile 3/10.....
Back in the PUA days Julien Blanc said "When talking to girls you must use attraction triggers:
- calm, unreactive movement
- vocal tonality goes down at the end
- laser eye contact
- self-amusement"
true, all this stuff just implies self trust and confidence. your good with or without her. women are drawn to your inner self-security.
Don't emulate or simulate confidence. Be really confident. Get your confidence from inner self-validation. Back your confidence up with real life accomplishments and let them help you to build self-worth. Realize your masculine potential. Then all will fall in place.
@@hellucination9905 yeah you need to find what type of confidence that generates those things without trying, and julian is talking about this specific thing in his new videos
@@hellucination9905 easier said than done mate, you saying "just be confident" is no different than others saying "just act confident"
This teaches you only the external effects instead of the internal mindset that lets you naturally become that guy who just does these things without having to think about them. The second you have to think about any of the things you mentioned, that's when you fail, and the woman smacks you in the face with a rejection. This is why learning externalities isn't the way to success (unless you're complete sperg who only knows how to mimic).
So, how do I know this? Well ;) Let's just say I've experimented _a lot._ I've also sold e-mail courses for a while, but I stopped bcos this is really something fathers should teach their sons, big brothers should teach their little brothers, and so on. But in a fatherless world, that's how the globe turns...
But let's just get right down to it! When you get your mindset right, the rest will follow. Let me repeat that for emphasis: When you get your mindset right, the rest will follow. If you've got your mindset right, you won't have to even _consider_ externalities. Your bl - short for body language within the inner circle (heh been at it since MASF) - will just straighten itself out completely on its own, without any need of thinking about it. You won't even have to worry about it. Your voice pitch and intonation and tonality will just change too, all naturally. This is the essence of confidence.
(Btw. I disagree slightly with the OP here on confidence. As a licensed teacher I know it's a real thing, and that it can be learned - tho OTOH that's exactly what he's talking about so I'll let it slide. xD)
So learn how to visualise the outcome you want in your mind. You don't even have to believe in it, because your brain can't know the difference anyway. So just do it, even if it feels stupid. Then meditate on that. Go deep and sensual, until you can feel your will willy move. When you get this right, the girls will notice, and you will have the wildest days you've ever imagined having. Girls will undress for you on the dance floor. Women will cross the street just to say hi or make out with you then and there. I'm not making this up, btw. This has all happened to me. In real life. Outside of the mind, by controlling the mind.
Best of luck on your adventures. And I wish you a big and happy family with many beautiful children. Skål!
There's something about the way you record your videos, always seems like you're being genuine, this energy that you transmit. I might have actually understood your message.
This channel will blow up.
😅😅
He just called himself the most handsome guy on the planet, seriously?
@@heartofsteel8808 it doesn’t matter what you call yourself, what matters is whether you believe it.
Recently I am rejected by a girl because of my looks😢
Only looks matter in 20-- time
100% agree about this. It happened to me numerous times. Girls touching me and start to flirt with me when I literally did nothing extra, I mean I was just chillin' and worried about nothing.
Great content, always keep it 💯
Did u have to go a lot of dates to get this?
I discovered at a very young age that there are so many females in the world that it is extremely easy to have any kind of relationship that you want with women in general.
I never pay to much attention to any women because they will reject you when you do that.
I have always made them chase me by simply ignoring them. This technique works like a charm if you do it correctly. Also do not be in a hurry to become intimate with them. Patience always pays extra dividends when dealing with any woman. It will come and so will she. Chasing a woman only drives them away or worse makes them despise you in the long run.
Can you tell me more briefly
How exactly you ignore?
I think what you are referring to is called congruence. Women can sense when a man is incongruent. They can sense when a man is not being his true self. This means that if she perceives you to have a certain kind of personality and then observes a very different personality from you, even if both are objectively positive, she will be turned off. That is like saying to her “I’m not confident enough in myself to show you the real me.”
that and having an agenda. don't approach thinking "I am getting her digits". she will pick up on that incongruent thought-spreech pattern .
Just BE honest and dont CARE about outcome.
Age old saying; Treat a hot girl like dirt and she will stick to you like mud.
Being happy being alone is paramount before you can attract women.
The worst part is when you are too aware of your own insecurities and however much you want to hide it
Just be yourself bro.
Bwahahaha
I work in Healthcare on a University campus where women outnumber men 10 to 1. My take away, Make them feel comfortable talking to you and they will brighten up when they see you coming.
same here bro, my job is literally 80% women and most of them are under 30. I learned to just talk to them and get them comfortable enough to open up.
Jeez that's sound like a friend zone recipe but what do I know.
@@mohamedadan6678lucky
But did you get lucky with anyone??
@@mohamedadan6678did you get lucky with anyone???
Abundance mindset is the key. Women like men that are grounded in energy, not men who are “in the air” nervous and jittery and unsure.
This is pure gold. I fixed mine by going on hikes where there was loads of women. I would talk to young and old women. After a few months I started to talk to random girls and successfully too. Your ENERGY is super important.
Where do I find those hikes
💀@@David_99778
1 I like hiking
2 I like women
Thanks, will do the same.
In my 50 years of living, you have perfectly articulated the laws of attraction. Man’s confidence is rooted in his “varied” experiences, both good and bad. MEN of integrity and common sense also know the whole world is a stage… Simply put, we always have an opportunity to plant, cultivate and harvest ALL relationships we invest in. Thank you for reinforcing what it takes to become a thinking/sensing/feeling SIGMA MALE who must first work on SELF. Iron sharpens iron and the weak hates correction/accountability.
So do we SIGMA's sharpen one another. Peace, Success and Victory to you brother.
I agree. Your varied experiences have their impact. But also awareness, working on yourself, getting better can far enhance yourself as well. For less experiences that could have been good for self confidence, getting better independently on your own....and then going out in the world with it can definitely make up for the deficit of positive experiences.
Since we Sigma’s are reputed for being self-contained/aware and student’s of life, we’re often the most well-rounded of those around us. With that comes a sense of arrogance, that places us into an “all knowing” state-of-being. Because I personally don’t have it all figured out, I seek Men of honor/integrity/experience to surround myself with, and learn from. Alternatively, I’m able to share my insight(s) as well. So to answer your question: “Yes, we have the ability to sharpen each other, as SIGMA’s have an obligation to point out inconsistencies around us. In doing so, we must be ready to receive messaging that may benefit us as well.
I’m a very emotional person in the first place. This video really make sense and touched me the most. Definitely the video raised my confidence from -10 that I was today. Now I feel like I want to go talk some girls.
@@reactivemotorcycle6067so did u talk to some girls
Hey everyone a reminder, this doesn't mean be a deadpan, it just means talk to her like you talk to yourself, act like you do when you're alone and free of social fears
But what if you talk to yourself like the JOKER, or The Ridler does?! Pretty eccentric!
Exactly. Im kinda concerned by how many people are "dickriding" in the comments and keep echoing the same thing about being "stoic" and talking to a girl in the same way you talk to a "random dude" on the street and its rly stupid, you are allowed to be expressive and show investment in the interaction, just be calm and be yourself and don't try too hard to appeal or impress a girl, just treat her like a friend free of any lust and needyness. Dont be a boring fake persona to appear macho man, just be genuine and polite with confidence.
Basically be "authentic". But also work on yourself and your emotional state, so that the way you authentically feel, also feels healthy.
@@lfpt21 No ones meat ridinn, being yo self turns women off, being polite turns women off. Confidence only works for attractive men.
Man, the story telling alone is worth a watch, the advice is a bonus 🙏🏼
Women sense your lack of confidence and dishonest confidence when you are trying too hard. You just gotta be yourself and not feel intimidated. When you approach someone don't set any expectations, just go with the flow and talk like you are talking to yourself, that level of relaxation in your body and mind. Turn off your inner thinking and just speak. Easier said than done but you just need to find the right frequency in your mind and after a few failures you will become great and best part this talent will stay with you forever.
"be yourself" that never works wit women.
@@YuhhFeelMe It works if you are tall, hot, and rich!
If u cant be yourself around women there is things you can work on,( your not who you wanna be)
Thanks man, you explained the concept in a way I wouldn't have even imagined to be possible. By
This is completely on point. It reminded me when I once dated a girl who wasnt exceptionally beautiful. I like her but she was like average but feminine and nice. I wasnt affraid how she reacts or thinks about what I say or do. If she sometimes didnt want to hang out I said ok and go to do my own stuff with other people. If she tested or at least tried I didnt care. It was completely easy to pass this because I didnt care I still kept my emotional composure being playful. I've never tried to impress her. No flowers no gifts, but from her I've got this. I mean without flowers lol. And she was totally into me. Thank you George for reminding me this in my own experience.
The secret is to talk to women in a calm but manly way, almost like your talk to a male stranger. I usually start by saying, Yo so what's going on and their answers is," I'm not a dude, but they just keep talking to me because their intrigued by the way I'm speaking to them.
I havent watched, ruminated, debated, or challenged myself, over any other so-called dating channel since i came across "Better Call George"'s channel. That was a week ago. For me, the reason is easy and simple. Every other channel is talking about "what you gotta DO". George is the ONLY 'Advisor', that i know of, talking about "Who you gotta BE". And the only way SHE gonna be who you want her to be, is be yourself. To be yourself, is to KNOW yourself. To know yourself, you gotta get those experiences George talks about. Those experieces are the soup from which insight will be drawn. Really doesnt matter what she says. Either shes down or she ain't. Once you hit that mode, your eyes, your tone, your body language will have congruently integrated. You will have become whole, and unshakeable.
George is the realest...
The way you described your rejections was the most hilarious thing I've watched all week 🤣🤣🤣
I just had to watch it again.
That was awesome and thank you for the tip. 🙏
Damm, I laughed and laughed until my stomach started paining.🤣🤣
I just finished reading the first chapter of the book Models by Mark Manson... the first chapter was all about NON ATTACHMENT... and he basically explained all of what I read which blown my mind....
being vulnerable and unattached will make a girl chase you...
it implies self trust. your good either way, with or without her.
I don’t get it. How can you be vulnerable and unattached at the same time?
@@user-uc7qb1su4e by just observing the vulnerability notice that you notice when your being vulnerable indentify with the observing not the emotion itself fam
@@user-uc7qb1su4e being vulnerable is being accepting the fact that she might reject you and hurt your feelings... unattachment is knowing those things but you still do what you wanna do without being tied by the result
That is a great book. It was the first dating book to change how I thought about women instead of using pick up lines.
He's being "normal". It's the energy
This guys video is GOLD. I always suspected this being the truth about the default emotional state.
It makes perfect sense.
it all boils down to not putting them on a pedestal or fret losing one girl because you're learning along the way you'll find your style
*To put it in a nutshell:* Emotional stability during the interaction is the culprit and those brutal rejections following after taking a long pause and looking directly into eye contact was the time they were scanning/registering emotional wavelenght and that data being processed was the determinator for making up their mind on their reaction. That was why their focus was straight into your eye rather than reading full figure, posture or clothing or any other detail but the most important source of data that speaking more volume about emotional state. Experience is the key to manipulate that data you are sending and that was making the difference between the jigolo doing what he used to do versus a guy that doesn't have experience with women, hyped up but trying to mimic someone actually experienced and casual. Thus you were sending completely different outputs and that was the thing that were being analysed during those long pauses.
Exxxactly what I was thinking and gonna say until I read ur comment. Glad I'm not the only one who thought this
Bruh yahll too much into this im glad i found my wife early you dudes acting like chicks are t1000 yet all of spewing bs yet need advice ,you modern men are hella goofy
It gotta a be a hack for not caring about the outcome or seem to
Dude, you hit the nail on the head. This is something I have always felt but never was able to put into words. You are a BEAST. THANK YOU
This idea is perfectly described in the Mark Manson's book "Models". It's basically about not being needy and too attached to the outcome.
Abundance Mindset 👌
I finished the entire video and I just want to thank you for providing so much value!
The worst thing she can say is "No!"
Woman to Honest Manipulator: "Can you leave me alone now?!" 😂😂
Are you finished?! hahhaha Yeah, I never had that bad rejections as I always go for girls that show interest in me.
and that is the way u do it …. That is the best way … go for who goes for u …. So all u can do is improve yourself to attract as many woman as u can
They were totally destroying him 😂
@@zibtihaj3213 Could never improve to attract women.
Wow the realest shit i lve ever heard on UA-cam. I use to hype women up in my head because of pornography and lame ass highschool movies that put females on pedastools. I didnt realize how much affect it was having on my phyche until i became "dumb" whenever females came around. I would have this heightened emotional state automatically, didnt matter if i were attracted to them or not. Im dating now and its all repetition. Also i had to cut out also the softcore porn from Twitter and IG, also importantly not to live vicariously threw other people, you will begin to emitt emotions that arent really yours.
My most brutal rejections were when I was nervous and pushy at the same time.
You basically just gotta be nonchalant about everything. A woman is attracted to a man who is unfazed by every situation-a man who is like a hunter and can handle every situation, reacting nonchalantly. They are particularly disgusted if you can't even remain unflustered when talking to a woman, let alone a difficult situation.
A man who can comfortably handle any kind of emotional tension. It really is all about how you handle energy.
When a man wants to appear like less of a threat, he will raise the tone of his voice, women pick up on this and label you as a "people pleaser" which is counter productive if you want to exhibit "bad boy traits", same with smiling too much or too big, you radiate "people pleaser" energy and she won't trust you. You come off as a "nice guy" and we all know how women are repulsed by fake men, how can she trust you if another man violates her boundaries and all you want to do is please everyone? She can't.
Where are you getting this bs from are you the woman fairy
What are u even talking about😂
None of you in these comments are badboys
@@ChrisM-oy5ju You'll find out when you're older, Sport.
Point is…. Confidence is key.
😂 no it’s not
Your confidence will get crushed an infinite number of times lolz
It's confidence specifically in YOUR TRUE SELF; you should never compromise who you are in order to appeal to someone else. This is true with not just women, but with people in general. Your self-value revolves around YOU, it does not revolve around anyone else.
For attractive men only.
@@YuhhFeelMe For physically unattractive men as well. This is why you see conventionally ugly men with beautiful women (most of the time, it's not money, status, etc.).
Thank you, I never seen a guy who is honest and explain it for free
Well done. I’ve come across a few other people saying the same thing. It really does work and you can use this principle even in your work environment that will command attention of your colleagues. Everyone enjoys being around the calm collected person.
You’re very on point with this but I had already picked up on something similar to this point though I didn’t think of it in terms of basic emotional state. I had realized many years ago that I seemed to always attract women that I wasn’t that attracted to myself and realized over time it was because I WAS nonchalant and didn’t seem to care much for them. I never hooked up with them or anything though. Just noticed the signs of their attraction.
I even attracted a few girls who I thought were sort of attractive and figured I’d see what’s up with them just because, but once I started to try to make moves and sort of wanted to make something happen it fell COMPLETELY flat and their attraction seemed to change. I had situation at work recently when I thought a girl was giving me signs, I got her number (to which she seemed excited), and shit hit the fan RIGHT when I started texting her. It’s ABSOLUTELY crazy!
It’s just a NASTY self-esteem, self-worth issue that I’ve had my whole adult life. I’ve never had even an “ugly” girl that I just had sex with for fun to this day. I’m just completely hopeless in that department.
Edit: I have the nervousness and bad body language BAD to boot. I’ve just had a seriously tough time with the anxiety. I don’t approach women though so I’m saving myself from that inevitable embarrassment.
It's just like sales, the more you talk the higher your chances to have one of them.
No. I’ve banged over 100 women the last 3 years. Non chalance has zip to do with it. Maybe for some men it’s good but for most others, what I’ve seen is that they just come off basic and boring. The reason those women you weren’t interested in, were interested in you… wasn’t because of nonchalance or not caring. It was because they were ugly. This isn’t rocket science guys. Women want 3 things from men depending on the woman, the society she lives in and the girl herself:
Children
Excitement
Safety
Most women want more of one than the other, but all women want a bit of both. Safety is money and aggression, being a leader, being able to handle business. Excitement is looks, money, personality/mysteriousness/being funny or interesting, being good in bed etc etc
That’s all that women really want, 3 things. Figure out both where you are lacking in those departments and where you are strong and do your best to improve your strengths and minimise your weaknesses.
13:08 and 23:15 Right there dude, you just established yourself as LEAGUES ahead of a lot of these other "self help" videos for men. Too many men fail to realize that the reason you're being rejected is no one elses fault but there's. If you're fake, if you're desperate, if you're creepy, etc. Women can pick up on that vibe and shut you down.
As you show, the best way to be attractive to a woman is not worrying about what she thinks. Its about being genuine and confident. Too many people mistake cockiness for confidence, and that doesn't get them very far. True self confidence will open a lot of doors.
Yessir, thats why I like him. He takes responsibility for his self-image and how he comes across rather than blaming it on 'modern-women' like these redpill losers 😂😂
@@polymathablethis is bullshitt u can be fake as fuck but if you look like damian kader or Jacob elordi girls will throw themselves at you
How is it your fault if she thinks you're ugly?
@@polymathableTo be fair their is some blaim to go around on both sides.
There is only one truth, balance, and you can only learn to balance through experience. This is why it's an art. If you can get one, you can get another 10
There is no 1 special secret
In essence your giggolo friend just knew how to tap into a woman's mood and energy which is highly connected with what you couldn't explained about which is our self awareness and presence of mind. Some men are born with this gift, while others cultivate it through life. It's more psychological mix with emotions than anything else... I'm 51 years old and in the 80s and 90s we never had UA-cam, and you're right women aren't complicated but for those who understand them. My giggolo days are over as am more trying to redeem my soul in Christ Jesus but I enjoy the stories.
What you're saying is that his gigolo friends was acting accordingly to the women's mood ?
Thank God you found Christ Jesus🎉🎉
1:15 "when I learned what women really wanted, I lost all my hair..." 😆
This is the only channel with this type of content that I like and can get a different understanding from. There is no secret to women. Just be a man and they will naturally feel attracted to you
George, that’s the most amazing aspect I heard so far. Thanks so much.
The word confidence is overused. Many try to fake confidence or build themselves up mentally before going out to feel confident. The word confidence is often misused as well, you can't be confident just because you saw a video telling you to be confident. It's not "confidence" it's comfort in your own self. That can only be achieved by experience. Like a musician who is about to perform on stage for the first time and the same musician performing on stage for the 500th time. You can build up confidence for that first time and make mistakes because you have very little experience where as at performance 500 you don't even think about it. You are simply comfortable and have no reason to "fake" confidence or talk yourself up. You have no nerves. Same thing you are saying and I agree 100%. This type of information is way more valuable than hundreds of how to videos where they tell you number one is confidence. Number two is good cologne and number three is hygiene. You can have it all down and still be rejected every single time. Same reason many married men have girls chasing them. Because after you've been married for a while you understand female nature and you talk to women like you'd talk to your wife and they can see you are comfortable around them. Maybe you even push them away because you know they are drama. But that only makes them want you more.
Love this.... attitude is everything... act as if they are like a guy or your friend already and it is just another day..... it really doesn't matter what happens anyway ...... all is going to be all right. Finally ....I really liked we are all to blame for our own issues.... so take personal responsibility is the best message here. Thank you Sir !
Adding to your last explanation. There is the factor of rationality by someone who's learning by making approaches to women that a natural has the advantage and doesn't need to go through. Because YOU had to learn it you might not notice it.
Women not only mainly respond emotionally but also are s uceptible to emotions that are transmitted to them.
A guy who's natural relies on her responses, having natural emotional reactions to them that they pick up immediately, projecting himself as being genuine and trusting. Some guys as naturals can't help reacting emotionally first, showing this in micro expressions and other corporal language signs she reads easily.
When you HAVE TO LEARN through techniques you rely on rationalizations which NEVER has the same effect on her, even utilizing the exact same liners that a "natural" uses successfully (which is how you started the story with your friend)
This is perfect. I used to tell my friend this was the reason girls like me and he always thought it was his looks that set apart me and him
Great video!
You have the same effect when you talk to people who are more successful than you or are in a better position than you‘re at.
This is a great video. Having a low emotional state as someone with no experience is difficult but it needs to be done.
you dont need to sleep with a lot of women, you need to be you dont copy others characeters and talk about you and talk about what you want from her (not only for sex) if you like a woman and she reject you find another who love and care about you.
Yeah what if you want get good with women but you only want one to be with.
Maybe you are the best now but there was a man named Gary Brodsky who taught me most of what you're saying. The biggest thing I've learnt from you is how to talk to other men. Don't argue, get defensive or raise the pitch in your voice, I've been applying this to women but not other men. Hysterical is my word of the week!
What did you experienced?
you gotta act and feel like no matter what - you're gonna be ok. that's it
The way u confidently shared the real fact about yourself man, i appreciate being such real 🤝
You have to be transparent with women and honest with yourself when you’re starting out. Just be true, you’re nervous because you’re not experienced and that’s okay. Women appreciate realness and that’s what’s most important. Instead of faking it, be real, your progress will come much faster and eventually you will come to a point where you’re not as intimidated. But faking confidence is the worst thing you can do.
Why should we listen to your advice when you're here on this video too?
Cope
@@Leukick solid advice tbh
Best advice ever to fix your problems: Just fix your problems!
@@LeukickLmfao
Man, you made my day. You are so funny while telling us your story. For sure, your sense of humour is on point.
i have gone through hundreds of videos related to this topic and this is the best ever advice I ever got.
Damn getting rejected by Russian women is crazy difficult but you achieved it
When you are secure inside the outside does not faze you. Your interior determines your exterior💯
To be honest i saw your video in a thumbnail randomly (i wasnt even looking for this content) and i clicked without any expectation of a good-new advice as usual with these kind of videos. When i saw in your intro and also made sure looking in the description that wasn't an other paid course promo video, i gave it a try...
Just straight to the point with an extra storytime that makes the minutes pass like seconds. I wont say that this is the ONLY thing that will bring you women, there are other things that are also important for sure, but we all kind of aware of them. That little detail you mentioned (to be honest i was sure from the first minutes of the video) also explains many other theories as "I need to drink to go have more possibilities with girls" (being known that alcohol relaxes you), "When i have a girlfriend, i see more girls flirting with me" (cause you are actually "safe" and not in "hunting mode" anymore) and finally "Why only ugly (to my preference) girls are flirting with me?" (cause you don't care of making a good impression to them).
Just a tip for the new hunters out there that are trying to break the circle you mentioned (to maintain default emotional state to catch girls, you need experience with girls and so on) you have to drop your beauty standards. By dropping them you also drop your emotional state closer to default, when you gain more experience with these girls, you will automatically build more immunity to changes in that emotional state, until you will get to a level that will almost lock ;) Then you are ready to rock.
P.S Cause 2 girls aren't even in your eyes, doesn't mean they don't have the same mechanism of attraction.
Thanks! A small token of appreciation.. However, I believe these valuable insights are worth their price in gold!
This is right, i remember an italian friend of mine always said to me: "with women you have to be always tranquil". And yeah, no matter if you are handsome man, if you are nervous and can't manage the intensity of emotions you are lost, i'm still strugglin with this issue yet, is not easy. But confidence is also a great ally for this. Great content bro thanks for this, your videos have a lot of value.
George, man, you really know your stuff. You have put to words what i've noticed in myself but not so conciouslly. It is always the struggle to keep it stoic, solid, when talking to beautys, but is not the case if the girl is not my type or I actually dont like her. It's always like, "i have to behave like if she's ugly!!" But thats not enough: we men get to that silly state of nervousness, akwardness, hesitation and raised emotional state EVEN WITH THE "UGLY" WOMAN. Is like if we have grained in our mind that pick-up a girl / trying them to hook up / etc is "bad" and degrading for women. Obviously is a cultural thing, learned, and developed over time and needs to be see and take action, erradicated. And thats what you are doing in this video, you are putting words into place about this topic. Is not technique, not looks, not any external thing... is very internal, it is about the self-regulating emotional state, the base of play, the ground. Are you grounded or not? Women will notice. So we bettee are. Thanks a lot for this video and all of the other ones. Keep it real!
I thought he was going to say the great secret WAS TO SHAVE YOUR HEAD AND GROW STUBBLE! (that does often help, as it looks Masculine, like Bruce Willis, Andrew Tate etc). So it was refreshing to hear what he was saying. Also PRESELECTION plays a big part, if any woman knows other woman want you..... you got it made.
The fact I couldn't call George, when I was small kid is criminal. I Better Call George!
Awesome channel.
What you describe as 'The default emotional state' is very similar to what The Fearless Man talks about with being comfortable with tension. His interpretation is you have a scale from 1-10. 1 being small tension and 10 being it will blow the circuit breaker. By doing 1's, 2's, 3's, 4's a ton, you bring down what would normally be a 7 down to a 4. You gotta become very comfortable with being uncomfortable. The more tension you can handle the better your life gets. At least that's my understanding of it.
CONFIDENCE is key. Still will get rejected but that is part of life.
Did you watch the video attentively ?
😂😂
Speak for yourself im every woman's dream man
@@ChrisM-oy5ju Yu not every womans dream bro stop the cap.
Try being a confident average man n see how it works for ya.
This is a great video. Its definitely about the "VIBE" you give off. If your vibe is calm, open, self assured, she will feel it. Its not about what you say, but HOW you say it, or in this context, the VIBE you say it with. Looking forward to more great content from you man. 👍
Out of all the comments you hit the nail on the head.
Did anyone notice that at no point has he said anything we can't do? Also even most "self improvement", "become him" videos would make you feel even worse of our current improvements by creating a standardised archetype for us (hence an emotional elevation), he has communicated one thing and the only thing that matters which is keeping our emotional self same throughout. Nobody on yt,ig has ever focussed on this part. For that, at least I can say, I am glad I clicked on this video and most likely abandon all other attraction preaching videos (leaving one odd). Thank you for helping us realise our true shortcomings.
Its confidence, the change in 'energy' is anxiety, and they feel it
Excellent advice. I think the key point here is to talk to women as if you are not impressed by them, using the art of intentional ignorance, treating them as if you want to challenge everything they say or do. Weirdly, women crave intellectual conversation but want a man who will not always agree with them with valid reasons, and does not give them attention or approval of their beauty right away. She has to earn it. About the girl asking where the washroom is: you should have asked her: "why go here? My place is just around the corner." :o)
So true, from past experiences. One time I was going home from pub I saw a beautiful girl, being approached by several guys. I just wanted to go home, I looked at her as I passed them. but while waiting for taxi, that girl came over and asked me to hold her purse. I just said ok, took the purse and continued to talk to another man. She just looked at me for a short while, walked over to her friend, came back and asked me, my place or your place.
Haha good joke
That never happened
lol
Damn the replies just ain't having it for shit🤣🤣🤣🤣nobody is buying it lmao
@@chadgrimes252 I know I wouldn't believe it myself, but it's true, I swear😁
Oh my God, this video opened my eyes especially about the default emotional state. I actually relate to this so much, whenever I I'm talking to a girl i didn't know or I'm interested in, i try to make my voice sweet and behave in a gentle way.
Damnn i have been delusional my whole life 😂😂😂.
Thank you so much for this video
Bro a real girl will like you regardless of how you are, stop listening to coaches, i swear yahll eat up anything these dudes say
@@ChrisM-oy5ju oh I see thanks for the tip
woke up this morning..and your channel was randomly recommended to me on youtube..glad I found it..breath of fresh air.
When I clicked on my first video of you and heard your russian accent I knew this guy had some bombs to drop. It's good to hear a foreigners perspective and opinion on things, everyone else in this space is mostly americans.
>learns how to talk to women
>lose gains
>lose money
seems like a true story xD
Keep a smile on your face be polite and even when she rejects you still have a nice like demeanor cause the moment you start to look and feel defeated you will ultimately believe that to be the case think about it if you smile before you get rejected and then after it’s easy to just play it off laugh it off and don’t take yourself serious
Say if I get rejected and in my head I’m laughing like dang I’m pretty cringy that makes getting rejected more easier cause your not being super serious about it
Thank you for this, so many pickup artists charging thousands a year screwing people over. When in reality, it’s the aura of authenticity (intuitive security system) that God built within them to be safe.
This is facts, only seems to happen with girls I have high interest in. I always forget to stay masculine and not chase and be too nice. Fumbled some baddies, 😢😢, moving forward I will always remain masculine regardless of my attraction
Buddy youre not gonns get a stable relationship w this advice
Bro ur a g, I literally was talking to my girlfriend on the phone yesterday, she's on a trip to visit her family right now. She started going on about something and I really, reallllly focused... It sounded like a rant that I would hear from my 11 year old cousin. 😂
Bro you are top
In comparison to others you really honestly talking reality
Its obvious that you have made a lot of money also with youtube and now you are not playing with people nerves trying to get views
Just straight and honest
Thats the most important
Great guy
The level of authenticity in the video is through the roof! Fun fact is there are also women watching
So basically it's like this just be yourself and doesn't give a shit. Whether she's a 10 or 1 and focus on yourself!!
I realize 100% what you mean.
Your tone of voice has to be cool calm & composed = talk like you don’t give a shit about how she’ll react.
Talk with a clear mind & in a calm way.
You know that stress you feel whenever you’re going to talk to a woman that is “out of your league”.
Tune it down & realize that woman bleed the same blood & poop the same poop. Stop approaching them as your SUPERSTART Crush & talk to them like they were normal.
In a sense talk to her like she was your 10 year sister who’s annoying sometimes.
Act like you’re not trying & if she says something stupid, brush it off
Did I get it right ?
just talk to her like she's just another person. don't put her on a pedestal.
the whole bratty sister concept is helpful bc your not trying too hard and attached to a specific outcome yet your still playful and giving her good emotions even if your busting her chops a bit. women like emotional contrast when its done right.
No need to bring toilet humor into it ! it's enough to say they're just humans!
20 minutes of watching just to find out I need to stop being nervous. 👍🏼
So I guessed it right masculinity, exert masculinity and project due the voice by sounding masculine and emotionally stable/strong. So stay in your masculine energy speak slow and composed. She must feel the force behind it (the voice)
This is so true. And real ones knows this even applies to online dating. I don't know how, but i swear women have a sixth sense and they can perceive when you're being overly emotional/invested.
You aint gonna find your dream woman in online dating
Calmness, composure reflect confidence and positive energy... stress , anxiety generate negative energy
Hey George I like a lot for you sharing your true stories and your genuine way of explaining facts. No other person in real world would explain in this way. Thanks for sharing this knowledge with men and it would really save their lives including mine.
“I still have 0 women in my life“
Yeah, bro. Very convincing.
Well you can't fix stupid
I like the way you explained it.
I noticed this in myself, it doesnt happen often but i feel it as well when it does, and now that i understand wtf is going on it makes things so much easier. cheers
I remember a time when I was fed up of being so shy, that I decided to approach girls no matter what, I was hitting the gym and I started gaining muscles. I had the goal to approach at least 2 girls a day on my way to work (I had to walk like 15 minutes through colleges where a lot of girls I stumbled across), I reached a point in which even in the public bus I was able to start geting conversations with girls in a crowded bus and getting their numbers. The thing is I stopped doing it and I'm shy again jaja
Oh well relatable
Holly shit!! Now, you need to start over again.
hell yeah bro, this shit has worked fr for my friend.. gotta try this
Yeah. Happens to me all the time. It's almost like it has to be treated as a way of life, something to do everyday. I'm having to push the reset button. Kinda like hitting the gym for the first time in a long time
Waste of time bud just settle for one
That's a genuine advice my friend who's good with women told me the same thing to go out on dates with as much as many woman I can doesn't matter hoe they look just for pure experience of being around feminine energy and once you get comfortable you'll know how to roll. Thank you for the video.
Bruh yahll dudes are so late 😂 this is highschool shit glad i found my lady early , dating is weird
Being calm is everything
Dang, brother, you beat me to it. I don’t see Dating coaches, giving the true advice. They kind of say the same thing over and over again. My advice to men, usually specially younger men, is to get your feet wet. Just constantly going out there and not being afraid to fail is apart of the equation. When I was younger in my 20s, I would play the numbers game. Overtime, I would become numb to all the stuff they would say, it really just didn’t matter.
Sidenote- My bad y’all, I was using talk type over the phone in the car.
I aibt taking advice from a guy who needs dating advice 😂
I don't think you necessarily need to be emotionless or not at all nervous; although it definitely is better. But what most guys do wrong is they have this neediness agenda or scarcity mindset that turns off women. woman will start to pull away and men will chase them hard which is the big turnoff. it definietly is better to be calm but ive attracted some women even being a nervous wreck
"Once a week I prefer to spend my time with my lady."
Haha! BEST line!
Thanks for a great, helpful, incisive and entertaining vid.
This story is Fishy, no joke.
Another eye opener as usual...
I have the feeling that deep inside every man knows this by heart but is it lack of self control? Or maybe society that sometimes dictates us to behave in a way that goes against our nature?
In any case, no doubt I will start practicing these interactions with women (not necessarily with the scope of flirting but to control my emotions) and let's see what will come out of it
Thanks man, still waiting for the continuation of the 5 feminine traits men have video
Watch any movie or TV show post 1960s. The men always defer to the women, even when in a position of power over them. Plus, we are also told by both women and society from the time we can speak to work hard to impress and prove ourselves to women. Boys are literally being programmed to be beta providers.
Many of us grew up without proper father figures and never taught us anything about how to talk to women. My Father got lucky with my mother going after him. He only asked out 1-2 girls and both said no. He's barely had experience with dating which puts my brother and I in a weird position. My brother has no interest in women. So, I decided to learn how to expand my comfort zone, little by little. Noticing how people reacted towards me as I became for social. Despite seeing escorts and being pretty decent in bed, I still have only asked out 5-7 women in my life so that's something I gotta actively work on.
@@bladelazoehow did u step out of ur comfort zone
@@andreharris144 honestly a lot of it is learning how to become comfortable in uncomfortable situations. Say for instance you like women with big boobs, but you’ve never really talked to that many of them. Well would you be nervous and anxious if you talked to 100 women with big boobs? Same thing in life. Anxiety, nervousness, etc is solved through exposure. Go to a bar 100 times and you’re gonna be pretty damn comfortable at that bar. That’s all there is too it.
I like your way of storytelling and your mindset towards women. You are a worthwile addition to all the other UA-camrs talking about female nature.
Based. This is the truth. Don’t talk to women like she’s a dude, talk to her like you talk to a dude. Respect the delicate difference of mindset. Quality advice. Dont think you need much of anything else
True, I was interested in a girl and I don't care about any other and I interacted with them normally without differentiating with men and that was brutal. I didn't let them disrespect me whenever they did I would roast them.
Their approach was way different.