The whole "when you make a woman uncomfortable you're not just ruining it for yourself, you're ruining it for everyone else because then THEN OTHER MEN CAN'T HIT ON HER" thing is one of the most obvious "I don't consider women to be people" statements I've ever heard
Yeah man that's like telling the other people in the boat to stop talking because they're making the fish nervous. They think women have the same level of intelligence as I think my dog has and tbh I treat my dog with more respect than they treat women, so that's something...
what i've learned today: 1. writing paragraphs is feminine 2. there are babies out there with hourglass figures and that's fucking horrifying 3. don't have *_d e b t_*
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Podcast is literally an example of everything NOT to do in a relationship. What's worse is that young and impressionable boys might listen to this and actually take this advice.
Imagine if you’re in a great relationship but your boyfriend is taking advice from this podcast and the relationship crumbles due to this dingdong… like oof. 12:23 “Never be human around your girl, ignore what she tells you she wants, and be completely stoic around her” Like bruh being someone’s rock doesn’t mean you _actually act like a rock._ It’s just an expression! 💀
@@christopherbrown5409 It really doesn’t? That’s my whole point? Edit: Even if it did, you think being completely checked out is “strong”? Cause trust me it’s not healthy or stronger than being honest and emotionally open with your SO.
Not necessarily, in the dumbest, most pathetic examples they ARE right to an extent but they're limiting themselves to girls who also think this way and are equally shallow and simple minded. So then OF COURSE they will have a dogshit relationship because they're both completely juvenile and will feel vindicated in their views on women. And then it's just a cycle that repeats, worse and worse.
@@BiratesoftheCaribbean same here TBH. I honestly feel like I'm one of those people who's pretty attractive (by conventional standards) but then people talk to me and realize how weird I am and it could go either way from there
Not to mention, the reason astronauts have muscle atrophy issues in space is because there is no gravity for them to work against. This stupid thought of theirs is actually not just false but would be reversed in the hypothetical- gravity makes it easier to gain muscle than no gravity.
"Paragraphs are feminine behaviour." So I guess Shakespeare, George Orwell, Steven King, Oscar Wilde, Douglas Adam and every other famous male author are feminine kings 💅
That also means every "book" ppl like them have made to profit off of insecure men and confused teenaged boys makes them feminine. Support your feminine kings, people!
""pffft! you worry about keeping yourself in a good mental state and make sure to not overwork yourself! LMAO! look at these losers! now im gonna go cut lumber while firing ak 47s and riding an sick motobike" -these guys, probably
And that is coming from guys who most likely than not would go around shooting at schools and parades, and think that is normal. 😒🙄 In fact, one of them look like the shooter that massacred children at Uvalde, while the other was the shooter of July 4th parade. 🤦
These incels telling guys on the internet to not open up to their girlfriends and share their emotions with them is quite possibly the literal worst piece of advice ever given.
The problem is these guys, at least the host is a popular UA-camr who became famous for picking girls on the street, so he will get a lot of guys to listen.
@@bigotbondedlol wtf and that’s why men don’t open to anyone but other men because even when it’s not directed at women women still got something negative to consider about a man not sharing to women
I don't understand this anti-communication agenda. When manly man existed in the 1960s, there's plently of stories of women shooting their husbands because of cheating, abuse, or violence due to closeted homossxuality. This is the future relationship these men wants.
I dont know if this is the same guy who said women only like cats and the bachelor (that’s why they suck) and I, as a woman who sucks, enjoy those things!
Them saying that everyone works out to impress the opposite sex unless they’re asexual made me laugh out loud. I’m ace and never before have I heard our name invoked in such a strange way. Asexuals work out to prepare for the skeleton wars, confirmed.
thank you for preparing,i wish the rest of us could help but we're too busy impressing the opposite sex. As a bi person myself i have to work out for both, so thanks for taking the important jobs king/queen/kqueen
“Women send way more paragraphs” The centuries worth of male dominated literature would disagree like what is this obsession with making it so that women are the most talkative? (We know why) Like they’ve literally done studies on this proving that men talk more or the same amount than women, and when women contribute past a certain threshold (not even near a majority) it’s viewed as women dominating the conversation when they aren’t
Their idea that women write too much reminds me of the woman in The Yellow Wallpaper that has to hide her journal because her husband won't allow her to write even single paragraphs for fear that picking up a pencil will cause her to develop an independent identity. Funny, that.
From personal experience, men DEFINITELY talk more than women when they're around other men, joking and banter to the point of it being obnoxious. That was in an office where there was more than one man. I'm not saying every man is talkative but it's subjective to begin with.
If you spend your entire life in a desert you'll be amazed by a pond. If you spend your entire life listening to men cut women off and dominate the conversation, you'll only notice the women.
The whole “women don’t want their guys to be emotional, they lie about it” is so sad to me. It’s harmed so many people. So many men suffer in silence and so many women are miserable because they want to help or understand their partners, and this has killed so many relationships. Also it just makes me personally sad. I don’t think I’m into men, but thinking about a potential future partner hearing stuff like that and believing it and not telling me stuff like that is just upsetting.
im literally so glad drew brought up that they never consider lesbians. i’m lesbian and every time i see these “takes” im always just like bruh, what 😭
@@RackednStackeddd fr, whenever i tell a guy im a lesbian they immediately start questioning me as if im like an extra-terrestrial, keep in mind they're all teenage boys and the ask me the weirdest questions LMAOO
There was an asshole in my class that loved these two guys and started to behave the same way- until a teacher heard him talking bullshit abt women and said “now tell that to ur mother’s face”.. I think he never opened his mouth again. We need more teachers like this.
The way they talk about men hooking up online as “getting kills in” then shame women for the same thing is so telling. Also I’m so fuckinh excited that drew is here!!!
Yup. & They're the same men who'll shame hardworking single mothers *_while actively_* creating more babies, then will turn around and tell us to "choose better men".
Right like why are you spending 1-2 hours of your life every day to talk to another guy? Like, you want to connect with him on an emotional level and find out you two have a lot in common, but because of your fragile masculinity and heterosexual ideologies, you two start to live in denial of your attraction and then go on to hate each other because of it, but then, in the most 2010s wattpad twist ever, you guys dramatically run through a late monsoon just to see each other and confess your feelings, you two share a passionate kiss and live happily ever after with your golden retriever and two adopted kids named Haley and Jason, meanwhile continuing to shit on women and bond over your hatred of women as long as you two live or something? 🤨
19:56 i'm literally "lgbqt" and a mental health awareness advocate and. honestly nothing is more comforting than knowing i'm conventionally unattractive to these guys. this is a win for the lgbt community
same here brother, I know it isn't just an ace thing but I genuinely cannot comprehend how guys can see a girl and prioritise sex over everything else to the point they make asses of themselves
It’s so weird to obsess over it. Yeah, it’s a biological process for reproduction, but it doesn’t have to be the reason people do anything. For allo people, I can see how it could be a common occurrence, but at some point it becomes an obsession. Once sex impacts everyday choices, like when to talk to a girl and how, it becomes unhealthy. These men encourage unhealthy sexual behavior and make anyone in the right mind uncomfortable. As an allo guy, these guys need help. This isn’t healthy.
@@stuffedbrains As a gay man it's crazy to me how sex-driven some guys are, such as myself. Also even tho the primary purpose of sex is reproduction, there's other functions too such as bonding
drew mentioning how they left out same-sex attracted people early in the video and the bad bros later criticizing supporting the "LGBQT" community.... perfection
@Safwaan I personally don't understand why you believe that they're an sjw. You can't call someone sjw without any evidence or reason. I think that's not okay... You should realise that someone not having the same opinion as you isn't mena they're a sjw. You should at least try not to be rude to other people online . I hope you understand my message and don't call random people sJw etc. That's not okay. Please at least try to be nice to peopke instead of attaxking them and calling them sjw or tlany of those buzzwords . Supporting gay people is not Sjw. Being nice to other people is not Sjw. Remember : Homophobia is not okay.
I’m literally a girl who basically only does arm day. How is that to attract guys? I want big sexy muscle mama arms so I can flex in the mirror and pretend I’m a war goddess
Yeah, we even gotta keep it on when we sleep so that we don't float up to the ceiling, but that just makes us sleep upside-down vertically. The blood travels to the fans in our heads, that's how we keep our skin and that of the face on the back of our heads healthy and glowy 🤩😌👌🏻
Man I WISH being a lesbian made a woman unattractive. D'ya know how many women, myself included, have gotten incredibly disgusting and disrespectful creepy things thrown at them by guys *because* they're lesbians? An unfortunately high amount no doubt. 😒 The one thing in this video I wish they were right about LOL
Thats because they acknowledge asexual people exist the same way they acknowledge queer people, by mocking them 😭 they ended up on that r/accidentally ally spectrum
Cause the existence of asexual people doesn't contradict their faulty logic -- at least for that argument-- when all the others do and they aren't gonna acknowledge things that debunk them, they'll just hope it doesn't even occur to their audience.
The whole ''dudes, dont cry in front of wamen else they will lave you'' comes from guys, only for guys. Most women will be annoyed with you and sad and actually LEAVE you if you always keep everything inside all the time: because it is UNHEALTHY and leads to substance abuse (most men have this struggle I think) also violence and childish behavior of all kind because those guys CANT deal with emotions, not their own, not other's...... (Meaning the girls in the relationship have to always guess how they think, always try to fix things alone, always be the mature one etc., then WE turn crazy because of that and are still labelled as hysterical for taking the load all to ourselves) Recipe for disaster, and I should know; I was one of those female who couldn't do any of these..... I struggled hard for 30 years trying to open up, ask for help etc. I hurt people due to being emotionally unintelligent..... These guys are doing the exact thing but worse; because for me I wasn't actually trying to be mean. It just came from genuine ignorance. From hardcoded blockages......
Stuff like this terrifies me to be honest. My boyfriend watches these kinds of alpha male podcast things. He loves to cry on my shoulder - i'm the only one who's ever seen him cry - and he talks to me about his big feelings. I'm scared one day he's gonna stumble across this shit and become closed off again, and I worked really hard for him to open up and understand that its okay for men to be vulnerable. Sometimes i wish these men would just actually....talk to a woman....and shut the fuck up Edit: He gaslit me into believing he had changed and lied about going to therapy. I broke it off after two years.
Once you get stabbed in the back by the very person who said all the fake bollox your saying now about opening up and trusting... you realise you should keep your damn mouth shut, especially around lying manipulative women
The worst part about this guy is his attitude about showing emotions in a relationship. It's so upsetting to me that he would tell this to guys who are probably already struggling. Men, I hope you know that your feelings are real and valid. Men can cry, men can be sad, especially in front of the person they love.
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dude my middle aged parents both have student debt and they’re “well-off”, “comfortable”, etc. these guys seem to think having debt means someone can’t afford luxuries or non-necessities. also lmfao the fact that he gave doctor as an example just goes to show how few little know about the costs of medical school
I mean if you have debt you really shouldn’t be spending much money on luxuries. Having debt is owing money, it should be thought of as negative money until it is paid back. Buying things with money you don’t really have isn’t really being able to afford it. But I agree about doctors and medical school.
@@jerryrocketandthegogogirls3517 That's such a bad take tbh. If you're only in debt a couple hundred or so, then yes you're right. But if someone has $30k in student loans, there's going to be almost no point in their lives that they can fork over that exact amount of money all at one time, even if they're living "comfortably". It'd be such a miserable life to never buy a single nice thing for yourself because you decided to go to school and have to wait to pay it off.
@@apperusenpai LMAO 😂 My point is literally that you shouldn’t spend extravagantly when you’re in debt and just because you CAN buy something doesn’t mean you should when you owe a lot of money or don’t make much money. And you say that’s a terrible take 😂 Holy shit please don’t give out financial advice to anyone you care about.
@@apperusenpai Also if you owe $30,000 dollars, holy shit dude yeah that person ESPECIALLY needs to be working overtime and trying to save, not blowing money on a new car or clothes or shit. Also the longer you pay on a loan, the more you pay. You should always avoiding interest as much as you can. Also 1. I never said don’t buy anything you want and 2. It’s crazy to me that your life is “miserable” to you if you don’t have all the material things you want to buy 😬
@@jerryrocketandthegogogirls3517 Average student loan debt is at least $30k man lol. So college grads shouldn’t get a new car or a new house? People also usually pay off their debt in monthly increments over the course of multiple years. $30k over 10 years is like $250 a month. This is standard for college graduates. Ofc it depends on the individual’s salary, but if they live on a comfortable salary, debt wouldn’t really stop someone from buying a new car or clothes or luxury item if they want to.
The "leave out lesbians" transition into Kurt's LOL is true comedy gold and today's #1 reason I'm so proud to be a citizen of Kurtis Town Also Drew is our undisputed Queen bye
The common theme with a lot of misogynists is "Girls say this but they don't mean it". Like, just not believing women with what they say. If you see that? Boom, that's it. Red flag.
literally i've stated certain of my preferences for guys and had guys argue with me. a good example is the guys who believe all women only like tall men--again, even in spite of women saying that's not their preference--so they attribute the fact that women don't like them to their height, because it's out of their control, so that they can continue to blame women for being shallow/unreasonable rather than confronting the actual reason: they're insufferable. they will do anything to deny that they're the problem.
@@elisecode2212 Yes!! Exactly. I've had it happen to my best friend that she REPEATEDLY rejected a friend and he constantly said delusional shit like "But your body language tells me differently". (She is just a friendly and affectionate person to literally anybody.) He later became her stalker. Disgusting shit. The thing with height I've heard so many times too. Men straight-up will deny there are people out there for them so they don't have to make the effort, exactly like you say. Anita Sarkeesian has this great quote which is “One of the most radical things you can do, is to actually believe women when they tell you about their experiences." That really hits the nail on the head for me.
These issue seems to apply to everyone from my experience...i reject a girl once and she immediately goes on how it's because she's overweight (she is chubby yes) and I only prefer slim hourglass ladies with perfect tits and ass, I just said no.. it's because i only sees her as a friend ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
He's literally so wrong about not crying in front of your girlfriend. Listen, I'm a lesbian, but istg every single one of my bisexual/straight friends LOVES vulnerability from their boyfriends. Even when they've shown it before, they love being able to truly connect with their boyfriend.
Absolutely . Im a straight female and when my bf says "yo you better not tell my boys i did . . . " or something like that, its actually so cute!! Its a form of bonding and its healthy to show a certain side of urself to ur partner and nobody else. Thats why we build these relationships and call them our partners. The first time my man cried in front of me (he was just really frstrated and tired) it bonded us together more than anything previously. Its actually one of the moments I reminisce about when I think about how much I love him and our bond. Jobody wants to be with a shell of a human being. We want the good stuff, the stuff inside. 🥰🥰🥰
I mean women have been saying they like this for years, but they just ignore it, cause of course men know what women like better than women themselves.
Exactly! I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and because of guys like this and toxic masculinity he's still working on showing his emotions around me. He's making a lot of progress since I've been helping him unlearn these behaviors but we still have a long way to go. It takes a lot, but being able to be vulnerable around the person you love is actually the stronger and braver thing
@@lm3341 The general consensus is women like men who are open about their feelings. If a woman threatens to break up with a man who shows his feelings, he needs to break up. (Gonna clear this up because I know someone will point this out: I am a woman, ignore my UA-cam name, it's an alt and a joke name) For me, the reason I prefer men expressing emotions is because 1. It shows that he trusts me enough to be vulnerable in front of me 2. It can strengthen our bond 3. I don't want him to go through whatever he is going through alone, I want him to be okay physically and mentally, and talk him through his problems. 4. I prioritize good communication in relationships. 5. This is my own personal bias but a man who shares his feelings is more attractive than a man who bottles it up. I associate men who bottle up their feelings for the sake of manliness to be misogynistic and too prideful to the point of it being unattractive, and they might be the type to punch a hole in the wall when angry. What many women (or really many people in general regardless of gender) DON'T like are emotionally dependent partners that bring down the mood in absolutely every occasion. Ones that treat you like their lifeline (example: "if it weren't for you, I would have killed myself" or "if you break up with me I will kill myself" or if the group is having a happy conversation and the partner just brings up something depressing that happened a long time ago for the 50th time, out of the blue, and very frequently, and then refuses to talk about it when asked in private/get help, then continues to do it). It's sad that there are actual young boys taking inspiration from those tiktok men on how to get a girlfriend. The best people for men to ask advice from is a woman who has dating experience, just like how I'll ask men what they find attractive about women. Either that or set basic standards for the type of partner you want (within reason)
The way that the sexist men aren’t aphobic confused me, the ‘if you aren’t ASEXUAL’ hit me like a surprise fist to the gut I never woulda seen that one coming
I’m a trans guy, and I can confirm that as soon as I came out I started feeling the full effects of gravity. I completely lost my ability to float above the ground, and I even had to skip leg day too. It was difficult at first, but it was a worthy sacrifice to truly be myself ✨
Lucky, when I came out as a trans guy mine totally malfunctioned. Sometimes it just slams my face into the ground because I'm just so fukcin MANLY and I am subject to so much gravity Other times I float upside down and it makes it hard to drink my coffee. D'oh.
My daughter is trans and nobody told me about this and we almost lost her into the sky like a party balloon floating away when she came out. The things nobody tells you...
yeah..gotta say, as a trans man, getting used to having to fight gravity has been the hardest part of my transition. as soon as i got that first T shot my previously angelic weightless floating body hit the ground like a rock. it sure is hard for men with all this gravity.... :/
honestly this is the main reason my parents don't want me taking T. I've never used my legs cause i prefer to float around everywhere, and while this wasn't an issue before i realised i was trans, now that im considering T i have to go to the 5 hours a day to prepare myself for the crushing gravity of the earth.
See for me it started as soon as I accepted the fact that I'm a woman. Now I'm flying uncontrollably in the vacuum of space and I don't know how to turn it off. Please respond with advice, thanks!
Yet these men show extreme weakness by their insecurity and sexist ideas. That’s not mentally stable to me, being a triggered sexist is definitely not rational and „manly“ (or womanly)
like how he leaves the echo- effect of some audio clips going for what sounds like literally forever so a echo fart like this one 0:32 just sounds like it never stops
As a woman, I can safely say that I actually genuinely appreciate it when my bf confides in me about things he’s having trouble with. It shows that he knows I’ve got his back and that he values my input. I can’t imagine not confiding in your partner at all because you have to be the “strong” one. Can’t be great for your mental health.
love when my bf is vulnerable! love when he shares that hes sad or stressed and cries so i can be there for him! because i am a human person with genuine human emotions and connection that wants to support and be there for the people i care for, unlike these shitty little podcaster men
my bf used to be scared to confide in me because of how he was raised (+the media had a big influence too.) he's still embarrassed about showing vulnerability sometimes, but he has gotten so much better about it in the past years, and his health (plus our relationship!) has improved a whole lot because of his openess :). teaching this type of shit to boys is really harmful, for them and their future partners.
@@JohnStockton7459 as a guy, nah honestly its mostly guys who laugh or get uncomfortable when another guy opens up. men usually find it "weirder" to open up even to other guys they're friends with
He's saying men are "the logical ones" while most of his videos he's presenting shower thoughts like facts. Also you don't have to make up theories about what women want. Women exist, can tell you what they want and it's definitely not that.
they act like women are puzzles they have to decipher but we’re just human beings with thoughts and feelings if you want to know what a woman wants ASK HER
Probably because his only interaction with girls was in mid/high school with actually confused girls just like confused boys, because they're stupid teenagers. He's literally talking to confused boys as a confused boy himself, that's his whole show sadly.
I unfortunately matched with Will (the one who has a beard) on tinder years ago. this man literally called himself “cringe daddy” and constantly referred to his hookups as “sneaky night kills” 💀
Gonna have to assume you're making this up cuz something something who would lie on the internet but I would be oh so pleased if this was the truth lol
"I hate women who have dept" Going by the logic that I have heard a certain kind of men use, this means that this guy is an opportunistic gold-digger who just wants your money. Good to know.
"THEY'RE RUINING SOCIETY EVERYONE'S TOO OFFENDED" -Guy who's professional job is being offended and ranting about what offends him into a microphone for hours and hours
As a very proud asexual, when he brought up "don't say your doing it for yourself unless you're ace" I was like this is NOT the representation I was looking for 😓 experiencing sexual attraction doesn't mean you can't look good for yourself! Excellent video, all you peeps out there stay good looking for yourselves!
if you're asexual, then genuine question, why bother? why not just wear walmart clothes and rock a buzz cut? I really would like to know. barring dating clothes, expensive haircuts, skin products, nails all of that shit is just useless shit and things you don't need
I know right? Like how can he mention aces (albeit in a fucked up and incorrect way) but also say that being LGBTQ made a woman unattraictve? Why mention us at all? He can "include" aces but obviously has a terrible and outdated view on women..I genuinely don't understand men like this LOL. From one proud ace to another, I hope for more (proper) representation in the years to come
Dude, yeah, what’s scary to me is that if I heard that as a young child or teen I would probably believe that. I am an asexual (while also being demiro and sex-repulsed) and if he said “unless you’re ace”, I would totally believe that it just applies to us and not allos, like who am I to know? He would be much more qualified to give advice about how allos feel… I know we’re quite a small and probably not very dangerous and influential community, but some young asexuals, could really believe this sort of a narrative…
dude i'm ace as fuck (if i can put it that way lol) and i look hot not only for myself but for everyone else as well, just to show them what won't ever get 💀
100%, I bet they're gay or bisexual but can't comprehend they might be bc they've gotten too deep into cosplaying as a "straight man." When you're secure in your sexuality you don't give a fuck what anyone thinks.
One of the most ironic parts of this is that it's actually more difficult for women to build muscle because of our different biologies. So women usually have to work harder to gain the same amount of muscle as a guy gains.
Testosterone helps build muscle too so that on it's own automatically helps most men build muscle faster. It's funny because a lot of people like these dudes also use that one against trans women too (when they're fear mongering about trans women in sports), trans women tend to have even harder time building muscles than cis women cuz their estrogen supplements tend to make them have higher estrogen levels than most cis women and so it can be really really difficult for trans women to build muscle too
21:12 was such an emotional whiplash for me because I thought they had developed empathy for a second and I was like "Yeah, if a woman just feels like every man around her is an asshole, she might have a harder time connecting with people, she might end up in a toxic relationship and think that's just what she has to settle for, etc. Nice of them to think about the long-term impacts of harassing people beyond just the immediate hurt." And then they hit me with "and that's a problem for the other men trying to hit on her"??????
I’m a natural blonde and I’m sick of blondes being fetishized🙄 there are so many hair colors that I think frankly should be much more popular. One of the most frequent shit I have to deal with is “oh I thought you would different because your a blonde.” What?! Still baffled when people find out I’m not dumb or “easy.”
Ikr! I myself am not blonde, but I feel so bad for blonde people because everybody portrays people that are blonde as dumb and all this other stuff I feel so bad for you guys. I’m so sorry like I said, I am myself I’m not blonde I am brunette, but still.
This annoys me a lot too!!! I'm not blonde, but I have a few blonde haired friends and I find it so stupid that people judge others based on things they cannot control, eg hair colour
Idk I feel like (as an ace person) he was just using the identity as a tool to try and back up his argument and seem inclusive lol better than aphobia yeah but still made me feel weird
I have absolutely zero doubt in my mind that that dude bottled up all his feelings for years and years, then all at once just absolutely just UNLEASHED a tsunami of emotion onto some unsuspecting girl he just started dating (or maybe not even dating, eek) and when she got weirded out (because that would indeed be quite weird) he just decided that it couldn't have _possibly_ been something he did and we're seeing the end result of "it's wamen's fault! Never cry in front a girl!" Lol so frickin sad, jesus christ. ------ Edit:what's even funnier is that he was SO close to having a healthy take. He finally realized that it's ok for men to have emotion. He finally realized that dudes should absolutely be more open about their feelings. He finally realized that therapy is a super useful tool... which are all really good things! And yet... _he STILL somehow ends up concluding some misogynist nonsense!_ HOW DUDE?! HOW? How do you miss so badly when you're that close?!
Ikr. Or maybe he just confided in another sexist woman, who thought he was weird for not being socially acceptable in front of her. In which case, that could also be her fault as well.
yea a lot of people confuse "opening up about your emotions" with "dumping all the emotional baggage in my life" on someone they only started getting to know
@@JohnStockton7459 They're obviously making fun of the fact that he took out his bottled emotions on women... I can understand where you're coming from, but always keep in mind that someone's trauma doesn't excuse them from being a piece of shit. Like I always say, "explainable, not excusable".
transitioning was tough because I had to give up most of my anti gravity powers but since I'm a demiboy I still have some so I'm just kinda stuck hovering :/
I love it when they make broad claims about what “all” women are into despite not being women and clearly having no idea what women are actually attracted to. Like, not all of us are into Dorito shaped muscular men who never show emotion 💀
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I love how the yes man literally clarified that only me, an asexual person, is allowed to work out at the gym only for myself and not for the male gaze/ for a guy. I don’t know whether to feel validated or insulted.
Someone on Jarvis' video said something about how it's funny that they acknowledged ace people exist and didnt say anything offensive while still making a stupid point
Oh no that was awful. It’s basically like saying being asexual makes us not care about being attractive, and that EVERY allosexual person is solely focused on attracting other people. It’s like offensive to everyone lmao
Also how they claimed, that tattooed people are the best in bed, and if you're looking for sex, you should find yourself a tattooed woman. I already knew that some men think that having tattoos is a sign of promiscuity, risk taking and being a bit of a "wild girl", which is disgusting and upsetting as a heavily tattooed person, that this would be the first thing to come someone's mind when looking at me. Not to mention, that I'm also asexual. What does that make me then?
21:26 He mentions one bad interaction becoming the cause of women hating men as if men haven't been causing havoc for don't centuries and women doesn't come across creepy guys on a daily basis and we don't hate them already .
When Drew said she’s seen guys make fun of each other for showing emotion, that made me really sad. I’m fortunate enough to be friends with a lot of guys (most of them straight) who are not weirded out by talking about emotions, or crying, or hugs or other totally normal stuff. Guys like that exist. But it sucks to know that that’s not the reality in many social circles.
Personally it’s the reason I have more female friends than guy friends, I will never forget back in highschool when I gave a tearful and personal speech to one of my classes some boys in my class just kept giggling. Then proceeded to tease me from then on.
I only realized how that work for guys, when one of my friends went to hug his friend, crying because they saw each other a very long ago, and a couple of people kept looking weird at them, that was really uncomfortable, and it hit, when I am with my girl friends, i can jump on them, walk holding hands, hug them, and it's always seen as normal... That's such a nasty thing!
Yea it Sucks that most exoeriences are like that I can never imagine not being able to rely on my friends for emotional support to me that's part of being friends
As a trans man, the "fact" that men have to work so much harder in the gym is NOT true at all. It's infinitely easier to have more visible results when you have testosterone in your body. The same workout I did pre-testosterone (that did barely anything) proved ridiculously more results while on testosterone.
@@j.a.sinclair5932 exaclty! without even working out, i gained SO much muscle just by taking T 😭 otherwise you have to work so much harder to get any results even with consistent dedication
Fr!!! Before testosterone I was barely able to do four (4) push-ups, but not even 3 weeks on T and I was able to do upwards of 25 without any training or exercise.
This one doesn't bother me. I always say girls, chicks, etc. I just hate the word woman/women. Obviously there are times these types do it deliberately to be disrespectful, but in general I just don't care. Everything else is atrocious though.
@@blueberries408 Just one of those words. Like how a lot of people hate the word moist. Husband makes my skin crawl. Copacetic makes me want to vomit. Woman is just... ugh. I'll use it when necessary, but never to refer to myself.
I literally can’t lol everytime a girl tells men what they want, men just turn around and preach doing the exact opposite of what the woman told them. “Girls tell you they want you to open up but they actually don’t want that at all” lol like wut🤦🏼♀️
But you cannot be proud of your progress and post about it either. If another man that is not your partner lays eyes on you it is your fault for being a female
I'm glad that Drew talked about what women want the majority of the time when we post selfies because it's so true. My absolute least favorite response I get to my standard selfies is random dudes cold messaging me after I post them. I'm looking for my friends and fellow queer people to compliment me on the rare days when I put effort in.
the "they do it for other women" is TRUE bc if a pretty woman cuts me down on social media, I'll think about it for days. but if a guy does the same thing, I laugh it off knowing their opinion is irrelevant
being put down by a pretty woman is so embarrassing because i literally can’t say anything back. she’s gorgeous, i can’t say anything because i’d be lying and look like a fool
"which bro is she?" Bruh Drew is so effortlessly funny and always manages to hit the mark without being unnecessarily insulting and I'm h e r e for it 👏
I don't have a designer bag, or spend a fortune on dates, but I do have standards. And I find it hilarious these muppets think they're such a catch while offering nothing but mediocrity wrapped in privilege.
I like how these men who are like “don’t talk about your feelings to your girl” are also the ones who are like “men struggle with depression more than women 😔” Edit: holy shit they just said “mental health awareness” is unattractive oh my god
It's because they really don't care about men's issues, and we've all known from the beginning. Whenever a woman or a non-binary person brings up feminism or womanism they only, ONLY mention suicide rates for men to counteract or distract from the original topic. Then, when a guy is r@ped, k!lls themself, or struggles through any kind of mental illness they mock them, bring them down, laugh at them. They don't even realize it hurts them too, not just their dating life or potential friendships with people.
A problem I always had with 'don't show your feelings' is because it's IMPOSSIBLE. Happiness is a feeling. Pride is a feeling. Excitement is a feeling. Everyone regardless of gender experiences these things, for example it's not out of the ordinary for a guy to cheer and be visibly very happy when his favourite sports team wins a game. People don't see that as cringe, but if the same guy cries in public he's seen as weak? Why? Feelings like happiness, loving etc should have the same value as sadness, depression, anxiety - they're all meaningful.
Fun story about these guys- I randomly met them on my birthday a few years ago and had absolutely no clue who they were… they had the biggest superiority complex and then when someone mentioned it was my 20th that day one looked me dead in the eyes and said “you literally look 12” and walked away lmfaoo love to see that they’re getting roasted on the internet now
I'm surprised they didn't try to flirt with you when they realized you only looked 12 but were of age. guys like them are literally hypocrites and creeps.
this dude literally got kicked out of the residence I work in at an Ontario university. he specifically came for homecoming to hang out with people 10 years younger than him. a total creep through and through.
@@convoree that's exactly what he does or at least did. He does "pranks" and films "movies" at college campuses (basically just to sleep with 18yo college girls)
I love how these guys always start off like "Don't be afraid to approach a girl in real life." And I'm like 'yeah, ok, that's a good play. It kinda depends how you approach them, but still' and then it just suddenly goes to "NEVER CRY IN FRONT OF YOUR GIRL! SHE'LL LEAVE YOU THE MOMENT YOUR WEAK! LIE TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND! GIRLS ARE SLUTS!" and I just suddenly fall backwards.
@@urmomcalled1028 Our little emotions can't handle seeing a man be weak like we are. It's too scawy🥺 Big strong men do the logics for us, we can't even fathom anything else with our emotional lil minds
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@@ikilledthemoon Right and now your changing the subject. Have you been taking gish galloping lessons from Ben Shapiro? Lol The point you mention is a serious issue for men, and it's a form of sexism against men. There should definitely be many shelters for men saving themselves from abusive wives.
The whole "when you make a woman uncomfortable you're not just ruining it for yourself, you're ruining it for everyone else because then THEN OTHER MEN CAN'T HIT ON HER" thing is one of the most obvious "I don't consider women to be people" statements I've ever heard
Who cares
Yeah man that's like telling the other people in the boat to stop talking because they're making the fish nervous. They think women have the same level of intelligence as I think my dog has and tbh I treat my dog with more respect than they treat women, so that's something...
@@J_Lynn what if dogs are smart js
@@Baldjotarokujo women
@@genevieveroy780 ?
Sometimes Drew and Kurtis have a similar expression when telling jokes or like a similar delivery. It’s really great.
Or it’s really very good
yo that's so true, it is pretty funny
Agreed! They have great synergy and I hope they do this again soon.
@@aubsbobaubs or it’s very really good
@@sirbob9667 Ik I did it wrong lol I didn’t catch it till someone liked
Referring to having sex as "getting kills" is one of the cringiest most insecure things you can do
it also makes you sound like a serial killer
Oh hi Blue
Fatherless behavior.
That's what it means??? Ew gosh
Oh me? I have a body count of leave me the fuck alone and take your luggage of shit outta here
The reason men "tie the knot" with their wives is to prevent them from floating away due to their lack of gravity.
NICE!
LMAOO
Hilarious and genius
😂😂😂
So the husbands were really the ball and chain 😂
Can't make fun of Tik Tok alpha males without Drew involved lmao
i wanty drew gooden ;(
@@rexplays4956 i ate him
@@ruetistic oh ok guess I’ll wait ..
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Does Drew have a channel?
The “Leave Out Lesbians” graphic into “LOL” when Kurtis laughed. 💀
I know he was SO proud when he edited that.
This is cinema storytelling at its piece. Nolan will never do better than this
@Fern the Green Fairy leave out lesbians-ing
Instead of "working out" i'm always gonna tell people I was "battling gravity"
301 likes and no comments!? I guess I will be the first
coming in second for the comments
I will be the third comment
i’ll be fourth 😗
I’ll take 5th
what i've learned today:
1. writing paragraphs is feminine
2. there are babies out there with hourglass figures and that's fucking horrifying
3. don't have *_d e b t_*
lmao
Also women don’t have to fight gravity. I was today years old when I got to know that my life long dream of flying can be true.
@@ashitakedia5814 yes, its honestly a miracle
I've also learned that Isaac Newton invented gravity.
HOW
I love how she kept laughing at his troll voice so he kept doing it. Weirdly wholesome.
fr it’s genuinely so nice to see funny people getting along and being funny at each other
"Awwww" -sfx plays-
JESUS KNOCKS ON YOUR HEART AND LONGS FOR YOU TO ANSWER! HE DOESN'T WANT TO SEE ANYONE PERISH INTO HELL. GOD LOVES YOU SO HE GIVES YOU FREE WILL AND A CHOICE TO ACCEPT HIM OR REJECT HIM. TO LOVE HIM OR TO LOVE SIN/THIS WORLD. CALL UPON JESUS & ASK HIM TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS! SURRENDER YOUR WILL & YOUR LIFE TO HIM AND HE WILL GIVE YOU ETERNAL LIFE IN HEAVEN! PICTURE YOUR BEST DAY ON EARTH TIMES A BILLION FOR ETERNITY, THAT'S HEAVEN! NOW PICTURE YOUR WORST DAY ON EARTH TIMES A BILLION FOR ETERNITY, THAT'S HELL! HE WILL GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT SO IF YOU REJECT HIM YOU WILL BE SEPARATED FROM HIM & HIS BLESSINGS (LOVE, PEACE, JOY, HOPE, REST, ETC). IN HELL YOU WILL BE ALONE WITHOUT GOD OR PEOPLE, YOU WILL BE HOPELESS, YOU WILL BE IN DESPAIR & AGONY FOREVER!
GOD'S STANDARD FOR HEAVEN IS PERFECTION AND ONLY JESUS (THE SON OF GOD/GOD IN THE FLESH) LIVED THAT PERFECT LIFE! HE LAID DOWN HIS LIFE & TOOK THE WRATH OF THE FATHER ON THE CROSS FOR YOUR SINS! GOD IS JUST SO HE MUST PUNISH SIN & HE IS HOLY SO NO SIN CAN ENTER HIS KINGDOM OF HEAVEN. IF YOU ARE IN CHRIST ON JUDGEMENT DAY GOD WILL SEE YOU AS HIS PERFECT SON (SINLESS SINCE YOUR SINS ARE COVERED BY JESUS' OFFERING). YOU CAN ALSO CHOOSE TO REJECT JESUS' GIFT/SACRIFICE & PAY FOR YOUR OWN SIN WITH DEATH (HELL) BUT THAT SEEMS PRETTY FOOLISH! GOD SEES & HEARS EVERYTHING YOU HAVE SAID & DONE. YOU WONT WIN AN ARGUMENT WITH HIM & YOU CANT DEFEND ANY OF YOUR SINS TO HIM. WE'RE ALL GUILTY WITHOUT ACCEPTING JESUS' SACRIFICE FOR OUR SINS!
MUHAMMAD DIDN'T DIE FOR YOUR SINS, BUDDHA DIDN'T DIE FOR YOUR SINS, NO PASTOR/PRIEST/MARY OR SAINT DIED FOR YOUR SINS, NO IDOLS OR FALSE GODS DIED FOR YOUR SINS, NO ACTOR OR CELEBRITY DIED FOR YOUR SINS, NO ATHLETE OR POLITICIAN DIED FOR YOUR SINS!
JESUS CHRIST ALONE DIED FOR YOUR SINS & WAS RESURRECTED FROM THE GRAVE! HE IS ALIVE & COMING BACK VERY SOON (THESE ARE END TIMES) WITH JUDGEMENT! PREPARE YOURSELVES, TURN FROM SIN & RUN TO JESUS! IT STARTS WITH ASKING HIM TO FORGIVE YOUR SINS & INVITING HIM INTO YOUR HEART/LIFE, SURRENDER ALL TO HIM! IT'S ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR CREATOR. HE KNOWS YOUR PAIN & TROUBLES, TALK TO HIM LIKE A BEST FRIEND! ASK HIM TO REVEAL HIMSELF TO YOU & HELP YOU TO BELIEVE IF YOU DOUBT! DON'T WAIT TO CRY OUT! NO ONE IS PROMISED TOMORROW! HE LONGS FOR YOU TO INVITE HIM IN, HE LOVES YOU MORE THAN ANY PERSON EVER COULD, HE CREATED YOU!
Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."-John 14:6
"But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven."-Matthew 10:33
“For the wages of sin is death (hell), but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord”-Romans 6:23
@@JESUSCHRIST-ONLYWAYTOHEAVEN noob
@@JESUSCHRIST-ONLYWAYTOHEAVEN omg guys jesus watches kurtis conner
Podcast is literally an example of everything NOT to do in a relationship. What's worse is that young and impressionable boys might listen to this and actually take this advice.
Omg I thought you were saying you shouldn’t do podcasts if you’re in a relationship and honestly it was so funny
Imagine if you’re in a great relationship but your boyfriend is taking advice from this podcast and the relationship crumbles due to this dingdong… like oof. 12:23 “Never be human around your girl, ignore what she tells you she wants, and be completely stoic around her”
Like bruh being someone’s rock doesn’t mean you _actually act like a rock._ It’s just an expression! 💀
@@christopherbrown5409 It really doesn’t? That’s my whole point?
Edit: Even if it did, you think being completely checked out is “strong”? Cause trust me it’s not healthy or stronger than being honest and emotionally open with your SO.
Not necessarily, in the dumbest, most pathetic examples they ARE right to an extent but they're limiting themselves to girls who also think this way and are equally shallow and simple minded. So then OF COURSE they will have a dogshit relationship because they're both completely juvenile and will feel vindicated in their views on women. And then it's just a cycle that repeats, worse and worse.
Honestly if anyone is giving advice it should be the gender\genders you are into.
"Being born with an hourglass figure" saying that just screams "I have never seen or touched or interacted with real women before"
The idea of a little baby with boobs and curved hips
As someone with a somewhat hourglass figure: it means absolutely nothing
I wasn't born with an hourglass figure, I was born chubby and bald
@@BiratesoftheCaribbean same here TBH. I honestly feel like I'm one of those people who's pretty attractive (by conventional standards) but then people talk to me and realize how weird I am and it could go either way from there
It doesn't
This guy: men are the logical ones
Also this guy: gravity only affects men which is why it’s easier for women to get muscles
Not to mention, the reason astronauts have muscle atrophy issues in space is because there is no gravity for them to work against. This stupid thought of theirs is actually not just false but would be reversed in the hypothetical- gravity makes it easier to gain muscle than no gravity.
He's right tho, I'm a genderfluid female, and all i do is float in air.
"Paragraphs are feminine behaviour."
So I guess Shakespeare, George Orwell, Steven King, Oscar Wilde, Douglas Adam and every other famous male author are feminine kings 💅
Well Oscar Wilde certainly was 💅🏼 but I get your meaning ha
That also means every "book" ppl like them have made to profit off of insecure men and confused teenaged boys makes them feminine.
Support your feminine kings, people!
What about Ernest Hemingway?
True alphas write everything in poetic verse
Also every single scientist and doctor who writes research papers are feminine
My jaw dropped when he said “mental health awareness is unattractive “
""pffft! you worry about keeping yourself in a good mental state and make sure to not overwork yourself! LMAO! look at these losers! now im gonna go cut lumber while firing ak 47s and riding an sick motobike"
-these guys, probably
“I’m only attracted to mentally vulnerable people”
His moustache are the unattractive thing i've ever seen.
fr put my drink down had to sit back and think on that line
And that is coming from guys who most likely than not would go around shooting at schools and parades, and think that is normal. 😒🙄 In fact, one of them look like the shooter that massacred children at Uvalde, while the other was the shooter of July 4th parade. 🤦
I said “you’re f***ing kidding me” out loud at the title. Did not disappoint!!! Amazing.
I think I squeaked like a cat when I saw the title out of sheer excitement
I lost my shit tbh
you didn't even finish the video at the time of commenting
how did you know it did not disappoint
@@morty1609 don’t be a killjoy…
LITERALLY
These incels telling guys on the internet to not open up to their girlfriends and share their emotions with them is quite possibly the literal worst piece of advice ever given.
The problem is these guys, at least the host is a popular UA-camr who became famous for picking girls on the street, so he will get a lot of guys to listen.
Nah they are right, girls just pretend to be understanding but they all do get the ICK and get turn off.
@@bigotbondedlol wtf and that’s why men don’t open to anyone but other men because even when it’s not directed at women women still got something negative to consider about a man not sharing to women
I don't understand this anti-communication agenda.
When manly man existed in the 1960s, there's plently of stories of women shooting their husbands because of cheating, abuse, or violence due to closeted homossxuality. This is the future relationship these men wants.
@@linooliva3965what
As a female i can confirm that im a floating hourglass baby that has no hobbies (other than writing paragraphs)
I dont know if this is the same guy who said women only like cats and the bachelor (that’s why they suck) and I, as a woman who sucks, enjoy those things!
Watch out boy she'll chew you up ohh ohh here she comes she's a maneater lol
I love how you simply write single sentence.
BUT DO YOU HAVE DEBT 👹
Are you suuuure you’re a female? This comment ain’t a whole paragraph
Them saying that everyone works out to impress the opposite sex unless they’re asexual made me laugh out loud. I’m ace and never before have I heard our name invoked in such a strange way. Asexuals work out to prepare for the skeleton wars, confirmed.
Asexuals finally get mentioned but why does it have to be like this LMAO 😭
We gotta get them gains to prep for world domination 💪
i was surprised that they even knew the word asexual 😂
gotta spread them ace agenda by doing leg day yah know
(fellow aro-ace here)
thank you for preparing,i wish the rest of us could help but we're too busy impressing the opposite sex. As a bi person myself i have to work out for both, so thanks for taking the important jobs king/queen/kqueen
“Women send way more paragraphs”
The centuries worth of male dominated literature would disagree like what is this obsession with making it so that women are the most talkative? (We know why) Like they’ve literally done studies on this proving that men talk more or the same amount than women, and when women contribute past a certain threshold (not even near a majority) it’s viewed as women dominating the conversation when they aren’t
Their idea that women write too much reminds me of the woman in The Yellow Wallpaper that has to hide her journal because her husband won't allow her to write even single paragraphs for fear that picking up a pencil will cause her to develop an independent identity. Funny, that.
From personal experience, men DEFINITELY talk more than women when they're around other men, joking and banter to the point of it being obnoxious. That was in an office where there was more than one man. I'm not saying every man is talkative but it's subjective to begin with.
it’s literally bc they will mansplain everything, there’s very little information with the minutes of words they speak
If you spend your entire life in a desert you'll be amazed by a pond.
If you spend your entire life listening to men cut women off and dominate the conversation, you'll only notice the women.
You all must be betas or women. Look at these paragraphs 😡😡😡
The whole “women don’t want their guys to be emotional, they lie about it” is so sad to me. It’s harmed so many people. So many men suffer in silence and so many women are miserable because they want to help or understand their partners, and this has killed so many relationships. Also it just makes me personally sad. I don’t think I’m into men, but thinking about a potential future partner hearing stuff like that and believing it and not telling me stuff like that is just upsetting.
"women don't like men to show emotions" dude- i am pretty sure most women's favorite male fictional characters have emotional baggage
nah fr. i personally believe ur s/o should be one of ur best friends
Literally. So many of us love the sensitivity and vulnerability of characters like Mr Darcy lol. A literally gentle man.
There was literally a whole ass stereotype that women like sensitive artistic guys like poets etc because they DO LIKE men showing emotions. Like??
Literally the _only_ thing every single one of my crushes has in common is that they're openly emotional 😭
My favorite character ever is a man and one of my favorite scenes is when he cries emotionally🧍🏻
Like yes king let it out, I’ll hold you 🥺
im literally so glad drew brought up that they never consider lesbians. i’m lesbian and every time i see these “takes” im always just like bruh, what 😭
I'm convinced these types of guys don't think lesbians exist outside of porn
They also only talked about blond blue eyed white women
@@RackednStackeddd fr, whenever i tell a guy im a lesbian they immediately start questioning me as if im like an extra-terrestrial, keep in mind they're all teenage boys and the ask me the weirdest questions LMAOO
Me, too!
tbh i wouldn't be surprised if these were the type of dudes who think they can 'turn' a lesbian 9_9
There was an asshole in my class that loved these two guys and started to behave the same way- until a teacher heard him talking bullshit abt women and said “now tell that to ur mother’s face”.. I think he never opened his mouth again. We need more teachers like this.
kurtis and drew are literally the perfect duo to make fun of weird men
You mean dann- wait that doesn't work here
factual
factual
factual
truth
The way they talk about men hooking up online as “getting kills in” then shame women for the same thing is so telling. Also I’m so fuckinh excited that drew is here!!!
It's a case of " sm€x is something done to women "
that's actually Danny Gonzales not Drew
I feel so slow because I really thought they were talking about playing video games online.
Yup. & They're the same men who'll shame hardworking single mothers *_while actively_* creating more babies, then will turn around and tell us to "choose better men".
@@anthonyabraham8534 You’re not slow, their way of talking about it is just nonsensical, violent, and dehumanizing
It's funny how they only class crying as being emotional.
As if anger isn't, which is the base level emotion for creeps like these.
And anger can cause actual harm.
Drew addressed that during the video, still extremely relevant though
the ace rep we neither wanted nor needed
the fact they were talking about how it's "feminine behaviour" for men to write paragraphs yet they literally have a podcast where they just... talk
Right? They literally sit and talk about their feelings with other guys. Gay 😂 /s
Real men don't write. They can't. Literacy is feminine behaviour.
Right like why are you spending 1-2 hours of your life every day to talk to another guy? Like, you want to connect with him on an emotional level and find out you two have a lot in common, but because of your fragile masculinity and heterosexual ideologies, you two start to live in denial of your attraction and then go on to hate each other because of it, but then, in the most 2010s wattpad twist ever, you guys dramatically run through a late monsoon just to see each other and confess your feelings, you two share a passionate kiss and live happily ever after with your golden retriever and two adopted kids named Haley and Jason, meanwhile continuing to shit on women and bond over your hatred of women as long as you two live or something? 🤨
Gossip***
Yeah bro that's so feminine behavior 😨😨😨
Drew singlehandedly has saved my tiktok fyp, every time I see some misogynist and her username, I sit back and wait for them to be decimated
Yes!! I always look forward to those cackles.
I dislike her so much
@@lennardusyoutube8505 Aw you must be the type of men she makes fun of🥺
@@lennardusyoutube8505 of course you do 😂 thats saying a lot about you, bro.
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19:56 i'm literally "lgbqt" and a mental health awareness advocate and. honestly nothing is more comforting than knowing i'm conventionally unattractive to these guys. this is a win for the lgbt community
right I feel so much more safe and well off 🤩 W for the lesbians. And as a plus size lesbian, extra W
HELL YEAH!!! 💪😎 we gays simply stay winning
Our powers are unmatched.
They think that by saying we are unconventionally attractive we will be offended but jokes on them, we don’t want them here.
Always winning,bestiee ✨
This is a win for every community. We’re not missing out on anything from those two
as an asexual guy it's still crazy to me how sex-driven some men are
same here brother, I know it isn't just an ace thing but I genuinely cannot comprehend how guys can see a girl and prioritise sex over everything else to the point they make asses of themselves
It’s so weird to obsess over it. Yeah, it’s a biological process for reproduction, but it doesn’t have to be the reason people do anything. For allo people, I can see how it could be a common occurrence, but at some point it becomes an obsession. Once sex impacts everyday choices, like when to talk to a girl and how, it becomes unhealthy. These men encourage unhealthy sexual behavior and make anyone in the right mind uncomfortable.
As an allo guy, these guys need help. This isn’t healthy.
As a non-ace woman, it's crazy to me how sex-drivrn some women are, such as myself.
Tbh, sometimes it's also uselessly overstated.
@@stuffedbrains As a gay man it's crazy to me how sex-driven some guys are, such as myself. Also even tho the primary purpose of sex is reproduction, there's other functions too such as bonding
drew mentioning how they left out same-sex attracted people early in the video and the bad bros later criticizing supporting the "LGBQT" community.... perfection
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@Safwaan wehhh gay people exist wehhhhh
@Safwaan Oh no ! I can't believe not hating gay people makes me an sjw... I can't believe I was an sJw this whole time.
Supporting LGBT = "sJw "
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@Safwaan why are you here man? kurtis wouldn't like u
@Safwaan I personally don't understand why you believe that they're an sjw. You can't call someone sjw without any evidence or reason. I think that's not okay... You should realise that someone not having the same opinion as you isn't mena they're a sjw. You should at least try not to be rude to other people online . I hope you understand my message and don't call random people sJw etc. That's not okay. Please at least try to be nice to peopke instead of attaxking them and calling them sjw or tlany of those buzzwords .
Supporting gay people is not Sjw.
Being nice to other people is not Sjw.
Remember : Homophobia is not okay.
incredible crossover; omg drew is a genius
NISI YOURE HERE im a huge fan :D
Woah hey!! just wanna say that you’re a really kind and funny person, I hope you have a great day and stay hydrated!
i was laughing so much omg
OMG NISI
hey, we have like the same name and i luv ur vids
I’m literally a girl who basically only does arm day. How is that to attract guys? I want big sexy muscle mama arms so I can flex in the mirror and pretend I’m a war goddess
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Finally here.
lmao same
You could also deck guys who think they can take advantage of you too
As you should queen 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Who doesn't wanna be a war goddess?! You go girl!
as a hijabi woman, i actually start floating when i take off my hijab so that's why i shower with it on
LMFAOOO
I’m learning so much
@@Lamsus854 im so glad that my intentions of teaching have been fulfilled
Yeah, we even gotta keep it on when we sleep so that we don't float up to the ceiling, but that just makes us sleep upside-down vertically. The blood travels to the fans in our heads, that's how we keep our skin and that of the face on the back of our heads healthy and glowy 🤩😌👌🏻
oh so it's like to weigh u down?
I didn't expect these guys to know what asexuality is. The only representation i didnt ask for
For real like this isn't the kind of representation I was hoping to get today
@@bootsncatsndawgs guys like these typically only know gay, not gay, & trans. just the bare minimum to be homophobic
@elo i like ur pfp:)
@elo I like you
they said it as an othering though, like they could've easily swapped it out with 'alien' or fucking 'amoeba'. i wouldn't say i feel seen exactly.
Their senses of humor bounces off of each other so well.
I swear I see this kind of comment on every collab that includes Kurtis lmao
@@kumquat2799 same with the Cody Ko collab
things that make you unattractive:
-being lgbt
-caring about the wellbeing of yourself and others
-DEBT
Man I WISH being a lesbian made a woman unattractive. D'ya know how many women, myself included, have gotten incredibly disgusting and disrespectful creepy things thrown at them by guys *because* they're lesbians? An unfortunately high amount no doubt. 😒 The one thing in this video I wish they were right about LOL
DEBT!
@@mimthyss You just missed your chance to wish to be able to fly.
@@AlexM-is6ru did you not watch the video??? Women always fly, they just have unairplane mode on 😒😒😒
@@waffleiron3956 ah yes, how could i forget the most important red flag, having debt
kurtis' uncertain "girls like guys' butts too right?" was so cute
as a lesbian these podcasts are the only scenario that i don't mind being left out of
I thought I was safe as an asexual, but they have since proved me wrong
honestly i'm glad they forgot about our existence
as a nonbinary person, same lmao
@@mo-pb5ek same too lol
@@pomegranatejuice5139 until they see the word lgbt and laugh and the mere thought of it.
It’s so strange to see them acknowledge asexuals but completely forget that lesbian, gay or bi people exist.
It's surprising finding out that they know asexuals exist
fr, they seem like the type of people to say that they can ‘turn’ people straight too
Thats because they acknowledge asexual people exist the same way they acknowledge queer people, by mocking them 😭 they ended up on that r/accidentally ally spectrum
Cause the existence of asexual people doesn't contradict their faulty logic -- at least for that argument-- when all the others do and they aren't gonna acknowledge things that debunk them, they'll just hope it doesn't even occur to their audience.
literally was just about to comment this. it’s the first time i felt recognized while the rest of lgbt identities were not 💀💀
if my boyfriend never cried in front of me i would break up with him. he’s obviously an undercover robot trying to take over the world.
A wise choice.
hush. dont give the robots ideas
She figured out our secret! We must abort the mission!
u had me in the first half, ngl
The whole ''dudes, dont cry in front of wamen else they will lave you'' comes from guys, only for guys.
Most women will be annoyed with you and sad and actually LEAVE you if you always keep everything inside all the time: because it is UNHEALTHY and leads to substance abuse (most men have this struggle I think) also violence and childish behavior of all kind because those guys CANT deal with emotions, not their own, not other's...... (Meaning the girls in the relationship have to always guess how they think, always try to fix things alone, always be the mature one etc., then WE turn crazy because of that and are still labelled as hysterical for taking the load all to ourselves)
Recipe for disaster, and I should know; I was one of those female who couldn't do any of these..... I struggled hard for 30 years trying to open up, ask for help etc.
I hurt people due to being emotionally unintelligent..... These guys are doing the exact thing but worse; because for me I wasn't actually trying to be mean. It just came from genuine ignorance. From hardcoded blockages......
Stuff like this terrifies me to be honest. My boyfriend watches these kinds of alpha male podcast things. He loves to cry on my shoulder - i'm the only one who's ever seen him cry - and he talks to me about his big feelings. I'm scared one day he's gonna stumble across this shit and become closed off again, and I worked really hard for him to open up and understand that its okay for men to be vulnerable. Sometimes i wish these men would just actually....talk to a woman....and shut the fuck up
Edit: He gaslit me into believing he had changed and lied about going to therapy. I broke it off after two years.
Cant, woman to scary
Once you get stabbed in the back by the very person who said all the fake bollox your saying now about opening up and trusting... you realise you should keep your damn mouth shut, especially around lying manipulative women
i hope you have broken up with him by now.
@@massivel We have not, but he has changed so much. He’s attended therapy and ditched the toxic entertainment
@@massiveldumbest take ever
The worst part about this guy is his attitude about showing emotions in a relationship. It's so upsetting to me that he would tell this to guys who are probably already struggling. Men, I hope you know that your feelings are real and valid. Men can cry, men can be sad, especially in front of the person they love.
@boli milda
I am glad i am aromantic and i would rather stay that way because of incels like that
Everyone reading this i hope you have a wonderful day! A blessed life! Hope you become successful and wealthy!💸💸💸💸 Hope you are healthy!! I love you!! You are wonderful and beautiful and unique and perfect!!🧿💙🧿💙🧿💙🧿💙🧿💙🍉🧂☁🙏🏼
@@rhiannonsubliminals
Thank you so much
Hope it works out for you too
@@notwerkinginthishouse8634 💙💙💙
YES EXACTLY. I've had relationships fail cause the guy wasn't telling me how he felt about anything, that kind of communication is so important
Drew and Kurtis make watching misogynists bearable.
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@@watchonjar cry about it !
@@watchonjar I don’t really disagree with you but this comment section might not be the place
@@watchonjar ah yes making fun of pos men makes them misandristic. totally makes sense.
@@watchonjar she literally makes fun of misoginistic ppl, where is that misandry??
dude my middle aged parents both have student debt and they’re “well-off”, “comfortable”, etc. these guys seem to think having debt means someone can’t afford luxuries or non-necessities. also lmfao the fact that he gave doctor as an example just goes to show how few little know about the costs of medical school
I mean if you have debt you really shouldn’t be spending much money on luxuries. Having debt is owing money, it should be thought of as negative money until it is paid back. Buying things with money you don’t really have isn’t really being able to afford it. But I agree about doctors and medical school.
@@jerryrocketandthegogogirls3517 That's such a bad take tbh. If you're only in debt a couple hundred or so, then yes you're right. But if someone has $30k in student loans, there's going to be almost no point in their lives that they can fork over that exact amount of money all at one time, even if they're living "comfortably". It'd be such a miserable life to never buy a single nice thing for yourself because you decided to go to school and have to wait to pay it off.
@@apperusenpai LMAO 😂 My point is literally that you shouldn’t spend extravagantly when you’re in debt and just because you CAN buy something doesn’t mean you should when you owe a lot of money or don’t make much money. And you say that’s a terrible take 😂 Holy shit please don’t give out financial advice to anyone you care about.
@@apperusenpai Also if you owe $30,000 dollars, holy shit dude yeah that person ESPECIALLY needs to be working overtime and trying to save, not blowing money on a new car or clothes or shit. Also the longer you pay on a loan, the more you pay. You should always avoiding interest as much as you can. Also 1. I never said don’t buy anything you want and 2. It’s crazy to me that your life is “miserable” to you if you don’t have all the material things you want to buy 😬
@@jerryrocketandthegogogirls3517 Average student loan debt is at least $30k man lol. So college grads shouldn’t get a new car or a new house? People also usually pay off their debt in monthly increments over the course of multiple years. $30k over 10 years is like $250 a month. This is standard for college graduates. Ofc it depends on the individual’s salary, but if they live on a comfortable salary, debt wouldn’t really stop someone from buying a new car or clothes or luxury item if they want to.
The "leave out lesbians" transition into Kurt's LOL is true comedy gold and today's #1 reason I'm so proud to be a citizen of Kurtis Town
Also Drew is our undisputed Queen bye
The common theme with a lot of misogynists is "Girls say this but they don't mean it". Like, just not believing women with what they say. If you see that? Boom, that's it. Red flag.
literally i've stated certain of my preferences for guys and had guys argue with me. a good example is the guys who believe all women only like tall men--again, even in spite of women saying that's not their preference--so they attribute the fact that women don't like them to their height, because it's out of their control, so that they can continue to blame women for being shallow/unreasonable rather than confronting the actual reason: they're insufferable. they will do anything to deny that they're the problem.
@@elisecode2212 Yes!! Exactly. I've had it happen to my best friend that she REPEATEDLY rejected a friend and he constantly said delusional shit like "But your body language tells me differently". (She is just a friendly and affectionate person to literally anybody.) He later became her stalker. Disgusting shit.
The thing with height I've heard so many times too. Men straight-up will deny there are people out there for them so they don't have to make the effort, exactly like you say.
Anita Sarkeesian has this great quote which is “One of the most radical things you can do, is to actually believe women when they tell you about their experiences." That really hits the nail on the head for me.
@Doasdin it is! accurate though in this context imo
These issue seems to apply to everyone from my experience...i reject a girl once and she immediately goes on how it's because she's overweight (she is chubby yes) and I only prefer slim hourglass ladies with perfect tits and ass, I just said no.. it's because i only sees her as a friend ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@hansbloodsmith Yeah, to be fair taking polite rejection very personally is on her, not on you
He's literally so wrong about not crying in front of your girlfriend. Listen, I'm a lesbian, but istg every single one of my bisexual/straight friends LOVES vulnerability from their boyfriends. Even when they've shown it before, they love being able to truly connect with their boyfriend.
Absolutely . Im a straight female and when my bf says "yo you better not tell my boys i did . . . " or something like that, its actually so cute!! Its a form of bonding and its healthy to show a certain side of urself to ur partner and nobody else. Thats why we build these relationships and call them our partners. The first time my man cried in front of me (he was just really frstrated and tired) it bonded us together more than anything previously. Its actually one of the moments I reminisce about when I think about how much I love him and our bond. Jobody wants to be with a shell of a human being. We want the good stuff, the stuff inside. 🥰🥰🥰
I mean women have been saying they like this for years, but they just ignore it, cause of course men know what women like better than women themselves.
Exactly! I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and because of guys like this and toxic masculinity he's still working on showing his emotions around me. He's making a lot of progress since I've been helping him unlearn these behaviors but we still have a long way to go. It takes a lot, but being able to be vulnerable around the person you love is actually the stronger and braver thing
my friend says if a guy ever cries in front of her she'll break up with him immediately 🤷🏼♀️ there are toxic women out there too
@@lm3341 The general consensus is women like men who are open about their feelings. If a woman threatens to break up with a man who shows his feelings, he needs to break up.
(Gonna clear this up because I know someone will point this out: I am a woman, ignore my UA-cam name, it's an alt and a joke name)
For me, the reason I prefer men expressing emotions is because
1. It shows that he trusts me enough to be vulnerable in front of me
2. It can strengthen our bond
3. I don't want him to go through whatever he is going through alone, I want him to be okay physically and mentally, and talk him through his problems.
4. I prioritize good communication in relationships.
5. This is my own personal bias but a man who shares his feelings is more attractive than a man who bottles it up. I associate men who bottle up their feelings for the sake of manliness to be misogynistic and too prideful to the point of it being unattractive, and they might be the type to punch a hole in the wall when angry.
What many women (or really many people in general regardless of gender) DON'T like are emotionally dependent partners that bring down the mood in absolutely every occasion. Ones that treat you like their lifeline (example: "if it weren't for you, I would have killed myself" or "if you break up with me I will kill myself" or if the group is having a happy conversation and the partner just brings up something depressing that happened a long time ago for the 50th time, out of the blue, and very frequently, and then refuses to talk about it when asked in private/get help, then continues to do it).
It's sad that there are actual young boys taking inspiration from those tiktok men on how to get a girlfriend. The best people for men to ask advice from is a woman who has dating experience, just like how I'll ask men what they find attractive about women. Either that or set basic standards for the type of partner you want (within reason)
Drew is so naturally funny! Everything she says is so perfectly worded and her comedic timing is great. Really liked her as a guest
She was amazing, I couldn’t stop laughing. Their comedic chemistry together is great!
that- coming from a women- probably means a lot to her
so true she has such naturally good vibes
Yea especially that where she goes "ROAD WORK AHEAD?!?"
ngl thought this was a “haha kurtis is drew gooden joke” at first
The way that the sexist men aren’t aphobic confused me, the ‘if you aren’t ASEXUAL’ hit me like a surprise fist to the gut I never woulda seen that one coming
They are, they just acknowledge it exists. Which sadly puts them ahead of 90% of people regardless but still
drew is an ICON.
@chrx literally when
@chrx when?
@chrx source pls
@chrx she just points out how all misogynistic men are balding not how all balding men are misogynistic 💀
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“if you disagree i will end the zoom call” kurtis your need for validation is showing
That made me laugh so hard lmao I love Kurtis' humor.
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I’m a trans guy, and I can confirm that as soon as I came out I started feeling the full effects of gravity. I completely lost my ability to float above the ground, and I even had to skip leg day too. It was difficult at first, but it was a worthy sacrifice to truly be myself ✨
Lucky, when I came out as a trans guy mine totally malfunctioned. Sometimes it just slams my face into the ground because I'm just so fukcin MANLY and I am subject to so much gravity
Other times I float upside down and it makes it hard to drink my coffee.
D'oh.
My daughter is trans and nobody told me about this and we almost lost her into the sky like a party balloon floating away when she came out. The things nobody tells you...
( Oh my god I love this thread so much!! 😂😂 You're all amazing ♥️♥️ )
You're so brave, stay strong and fight that gravity dude it ain't easy but someone's gotta do it 🙇♀️
am trans, can confirm
19:28 I'm surprised you didn't mention how expensive tattoos are! Completely contradicted his point about spending money on excess
yeah..gotta say, as a trans man, getting used to having to fight gravity has been the hardest part of my transition.
as soon as i got that first T shot my previously angelic weightless floating body hit the ground like a rock. it sure is hard for men with all this gravity.... :/
honestly this is the main reason my parents don't want me taking T. I've never used my legs cause i prefer to float around everywhere, and while this wasn't an issue before i realised i was trans, now that im considering T i have to go to the 5 hours a day to prepare myself for the crushing gravity of the earth.
I hope you can get used to it 🙏 I have to warn my transitioning friend about the fighting gravity thing
nice pfp :D
See for me it started as soon as I accepted the fact that I'm a woman. Now I'm flying uncontrollably in the vacuum of space and I don't know how to turn it off. Please respond with advice, thanks!
damn too bad you had to lose your ability to fly😔 (congrats on your transition dude that's awesome!)
" Never cry in front of your girl cuz they need you to be the strong one " Yeah cuz if you aren't strong enough, how will you fight gravity?
These poor men going against nature smh
poor men, how do they survive while fighting gravity
Yet these men show extreme weakness by their insecurity and sexist ideas. That’s not mentally stable to me, being a triggered sexist is definitely not rational and „manly“ (or womanly)
@@chikooochikkk6235 Read your comment again but this time out loud. And reflect
misogynist: likes tattoos on girls
me: oh no… my tattoos are meant to DETER people like you
also the fact that they think tattoos don't cost money lmaooo
like "spending money on ur appearance doesn't count when it's something that I LIKE"
just get your partner's name tattooed to deter these type of people 🤣
Just get a tattoo of a male name, apparently
just get any male relative’s name tattooed on you
@@mik4_4 yeah lmao I was like wait... most tattoos cost the same, if not more than a 'nice bag' so whats the difference?
like how he leaves the echo- effect of some audio clips going for what sounds like literally forever so a echo fart like this one 0:32 just sounds like it never stops
As a woman, I can safely say that I actually genuinely appreciate it when my bf confides in me about things he’s having trouble with. It shows that he knows I’ve got his back and that he values my input. I can’t imagine not confiding in your partner at all because you have to be the “strong” one. Can’t be great for your mental health.
Also like...having a "strong man" that's vulnerable with you? Now that's attractive
love when my bf is vulnerable! love when he shares that hes sad or stressed and cries so i can be there for him! because i am a human person with genuine human emotions and connection that wants to support and be there for the people i care for, unlike these shitty little podcaster men
@@JohnStockton7459 ik damn well you don't know enough women to know that. otherwise you would know how untrue that is
my bf used to be scared to confide in me because of how he was raised (+the media had a big influence too.) he's still embarrassed about showing vulnerability sometimes, but he has gotten so much better about it in the past years, and his health (plus our relationship!) has improved a whole lot because of his openess :). teaching this type of shit to boys is really harmful, for them and their future partners.
@@JohnStockton7459 as a guy, nah honestly its mostly guys who laugh or get uncomfortable when another guy opens up. men usually find it "weirder" to open up even to other guys they're friends with
He's saying men are "the logical ones" while most of his videos he's presenting shower thoughts like facts. Also you don't have to make up theories about what women want. Women exist, can tell you what they want and it's definitely not that.
they act like women are puzzles they have to decipher but we’re just human beings with thoughts and feelings if you want to know what a woman wants ASK HER
They talk about us like we're all just clones and we all like the same things
Probably because his only interaction with girls was in mid/high school with actually confused girls just like confused boys, because they're stupid teenagers.
He's literally talking to confused boys as a confused boy himself, that's his whole show sadly.
They talk about women like we are an alien species they have “studied”. It’s serial killer sounding shit
@@ALH02 Girl: I just want you to give me attention and stay loyal
Guy: interesting reaction, but what does it mean?
I unfortunately matched with Will (the one who has a beard) on tinder years ago. this man literally called himself “cringe daddy” and constantly referred to his hookups as “sneaky night kills” 💀
Reading this gave me the biggest ick 💀
i actually vomited reading this
Zoinks' 😬
Gonna have to assume you're making this up cuz something something who would lie on the internet but I would be oh so pleased if this was the truth lol
Wait I do not understand what cringe daddy even is. Like at all
"I hate women who have dept"
Going by the logic that I have heard a certain kind of men use, this means that this guy is an opportunistic gold-digger who just wants your money. Good to know.
Got to love when these types shoot their own foot and make it easy for us folks to avoid these walking red walks in the first place.
"THEY'RE RUINING SOCIETY EVERYONE'S TOO OFFENDED"
-Guy who's professional job is being offended and ranting about what offends him into a microphone for hours and hours
literally. "you wouldn't survive a cod lobby" you are the one saying that because i have she/him in my bio. whos the snowflake ??? nawt me
THIS
God these snowflakes are so offended!
Also them: WHY GIRL LIFT WEIGHT
i love your name.
this truly is the epitome of "have the confidence of a mediocre white guy"
100%! These "bros" scream mediocrity.
the love hypothesis!!!
Love this reference bro!
less than mediocre 🥴
@@rayebailey5181 yeah Lowkey the original comment is kinda doing a disservice to mediocrity 😂
As a very proud asexual, when he brought up "don't say your doing it for yourself unless you're ace" I was like this is NOT the representation I was looking for 😓 experiencing sexual attraction doesn't mean you can't look good for yourself! Excellent video, all you peeps out there stay good looking for yourselves!
if you're asexual, then genuine question, why bother? why not just wear walmart clothes and rock a buzz cut? I really would like to know. barring dating clothes, expensive haircuts, skin products, nails all of that shit is just useless shit and things you don't need
I know right? Like how can he mention aces (albeit in a fucked up and incorrect way) but also say that being LGBTQ made a woman unattraictve? Why mention us at all? He can "include" aces but obviously has a terrible and outdated view on women..I genuinely don't understand men like this LOL.
From one proud ace to another, I hope for more (proper) representation in the years to come
Dude, yeah, what’s scary to me is that if I heard that as a young child or teen I would probably believe that. I am an asexual (while also being demiro and sex-repulsed) and if he said “unless you’re ace”, I would totally believe that it just applies to us and not allos, like who am I to know? He would be much more qualified to give advice about how allos feel… I know we’re quite a small and probably not very dangerous and influential community, but some young asexuals, could really believe this sort of a narrative…
My dude was mad misunderstanding what asexuality really is.
dude i'm ace as fuck (if i can put it that way lol) and i look hot not only for myself but for everyone else as well, just to show them what won't ever get 💀
Life hack: if you think women are so terrible, just date men
100%, I bet they're gay or bisexual but can't comprehend they might be bc they've gotten too deep into cosplaying as a "straight man." When you're secure in your sexuality you don't give a fuck what anyone thinks.
One of the most ironic parts of this is that it's actually more difficult for women to build muscle because of our different biologies. So women usually have to work harder to gain the same amount of muscle as a guy gains.
Exactly this!
Exactly! We naturally have much higher percentage of fat in our bodies, what the heck was he trying to say? I guess he got it all wrong xd
Testosterone helps build muscle too so that on it's own automatically helps most men build muscle faster. It's funny because a lot of people like these dudes also use that one against trans women too (when they're fear mongering about trans women in sports), trans women tend to have even harder time building muscles than cis women cuz their estrogen supplements tend to make them have higher estrogen levels than most cis women and so it can be really really difficult for trans women to build muscle too
@@katd7716
I want to shape my body so badly
@@dudeman5303 Do you have a source for this info? I've never heard about it before and would like to know more!
y’all have the same sense of humour and bounced jokes off each other so naturally. LOVED drew as a guest 🥰
drew gooden
wanny doogen
21:12 was such an emotional whiplash for me because I thought they had developed empathy for a second and I was like "Yeah, if a woman just feels like every man around her is an asshole, she might have a harder time connecting with people, she might end up in a toxic relationship and think that's just what she has to settle for, etc. Nice of them to think about the long-term impacts of harassing people beyond just the immediate hurt." And then they hit me with "and that's a problem for the other men trying to hit on her"??????
yo i was literally thinking the same thing like they were SO close to having a good point there but NOPE lol
I’m a natural blonde and I’m sick of blondes being fetishized🙄 there are so many hair colors that I think frankly should be much more popular. One of the most frequent shit I have to deal with is “oh I thought you would different because your a blonde.” What?! Still baffled when people find out I’m not dumb or “easy.”
Ikr! I myself am not blonde, but I feel so bad for blonde people because everybody portrays people that are blonde as dumb and all this other stuff I feel so bad for you guys. I’m so sorry like I said, I am myself I’m not blonde I am brunette, but still.
This annoys me a lot too!!! I'm not blonde, but I have a few blonde haired friends and I find it so stupid that people judge others based on things they cannot control, eg hair colour
Honestly, I'm just positively surprised that that one guy even acknowledged that asexual people exist.
I was just about to comment that
At least he isn't aphobic 💀
Idk I feel like (as an ace person) he was just using the identity as a tool to try and back up his argument and seem inclusive lol
better than aphobia yeah but still made me feel weird
@@ChloroformHM oh 100%
@@ChloroformHM as an ace i felt those vibes too. they could never be genuinely inclusive lol
i know right, that combined with misogyny is such a weird combination
it's crazy scary that two grown men have such a terrible understanding of women and human interactions in general
I am socially awkward and not really smart but Gosh, i guess misery loves the company in their case
Scary but far from uncommon unfortunately
Makes it even more scary that they have a platform to spread this misogynistic misinformation to young people
Absolutely
And even sadder and scarier is they spread these false narratives and flat out lies and misinformation for their 180k followers
I have absolutely zero doubt in my mind that that dude bottled up all his feelings for years and years, then all at once just absolutely just UNLEASHED a tsunami of emotion onto some unsuspecting girl he just started dating (or maybe not even dating, eek) and when she got weirded out (because that would indeed be quite weird) he just decided that it couldn't have _possibly_ been something he did and we're seeing the end result of "it's wamen's fault! Never cry in front a girl!" Lol so frickin sad, jesus christ.
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Edit:what's even funnier is that he was SO close to having a healthy take. He finally realized that it's ok for men to have emotion. He finally realized that dudes should absolutely be more open about their feelings. He finally realized that therapy is a super useful tool... which are all really good things! And yet... _he STILL somehow ends up concluding some misogynist nonsense!_ HOW DUDE?! HOW? How do you miss so badly when you're that close?!
Ikr. Or maybe he just confided in another sexist woman, who thought he was weird for not being socially acceptable in front of her. In which case, that could also be her fault as well.
yea a lot of people confuse "opening up about your emotions" with "dumping all the emotional baggage in my life" on someone they only started getting to know
If he "bottled it up for years" you just admitted men suffer and now you're making fun of it?? Ew victim blaiming 🤢
@@JohnStockton7459 They're obviously making fun of the fact that he took out his bottled emotions on women...
I can understand where you're coming from, but always keep in mind that someone's trauma doesn't excuse them from being a piece of shit.
Like I always say, "explainable, not excusable".
3:56 you could almost say he’s… defying.. gravity..
as a genderfluid person it is so hard to have to constantly switch from floating to hitting the ground due to this issue with gravity :((
I use one of those big clear inflatable spheres, like a human bouncy ball
i recommend bubble wrap, one of my friends said it works really well
fr sometimes i just morph into air so that the gravity wont affect me
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transitioning was tough because I had to give up most of my anti gravity powers but since I'm a demiboy I still have some so I'm just kinda stuck hovering :/
I love it when they make broad claims about what “all” women are into despite not being women and clearly having no idea what women are actually attracted to. Like, not all of us are into Dorito shaped muscular men who never show emotion 💀
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They didn't say all
@@ff-qc7qy tell that to fresh fit bro
DORITO SHAPED LMAO 😭 Fr tho, guess I need to have my Woman Card revoked because I find short skinny men who wear makeup attractive 😔💥💳
@@benjirivoh this isn't fresh and fit
I love how the yes man literally clarified that only me, an asexual person, is allowed to work out at the gym only for myself and not for the male gaze/ for a guy. I don’t know whether to feel validated or insulted.
Someone on Jarvis' video said something about how it's funny that they acknowledged ace people exist and didnt say anything offensive while still making a stupid point
Coming from that guy, I almost want to go back to us aces being invisible 😭 /j
Oh no that was awful. It’s basically like saying being asexual makes us not care about being attractive, and that EVERY allosexual person is solely focused on attracting other people. It’s like offensive to everyone lmao
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Also how they claimed, that tattooed people are the best in bed, and if you're looking for sex, you should find yourself a tattooed woman. I already knew that some men think that having tattoos is a sign of promiscuity, risk taking and being a bit of a "wild girl", which is disgusting and upsetting as a heavily tattooed person, that this would be the first thing to come someone's mind when looking at me. Not to mention, that I'm also asexual. What does that make me then?
21:26 He mentions one bad interaction becoming the cause of women hating men as if men haven't been causing havoc for don't centuries and women doesn't come across creepy guys on a daily basis and we don't hate them already .
When Drew said she’s seen guys make fun of each other for showing emotion, that made me really sad. I’m fortunate enough to be friends with a lot of guys (most of them straight) who are not weirded out by talking about emotions, or crying, or hugs or other totally normal stuff. Guys like that exist. But it sucks to know that that’s not the reality in many social circles.
Personally it’s the reason I have more female friends than guy friends, I will never forget back in highschool when I gave a tearful and personal speech to one of my classes some boys in my class just kept giggling. Then proceeded to tease me from then on.
@@bulkypigeon Oh my God, that’s horrible! : (
I only realized how that work for guys, when one of my friends went to hug his friend, crying because they saw each other a very long ago, and a couple of people kept looking weird at them, that was really uncomfortable, and it hit, when I am with my girl friends, i can jump on them, walk holding hands, hug them, and it's always seen as normal... That's such a nasty thing!
Yea it Sucks that most exoeriences are like that I can never imagine not being able to rely on my friends for emotional support to me that's part of being friends
I don't agree, maybe it's culture or social circle or age but most male friends groups I see tend be very capable of emotionally supporting eachother.
As a trans man, the "fact" that men have to work so much harder in the gym is NOT true at all. It's infinitely easier to have more visible results when you have testosterone in your body. The same workout I did pre-testosterone (that did barely anything) proved ridiculously more results while on testosterone.
yeah no ur hella right,,, I worked so hard pre-t and got 0 results. but literally 2 months on t I had the muscle mass that had been my goal for years
@@j.a.sinclair5932 exaclty! without even working out, i gained SO much muscle just by taking T 😭 otherwise you have to work so much harder to get any results even with consistent dedication
Fr!!! Before testosterone I was barely able to do four (4) push-ups, but not even 3 weeks on T and I was able to do upwards of 25 without any training or exercise.
As a fellow trans man, I agree.
Preach
The fact that they say “girls” and “chicks” and kurtis and drew say “women” says a lot
This one doesn't bother me. I always say girls, chicks, etc. I just hate the word woman/women. Obviously there are times these types do it deliberately to be disrespectful, but in general I just don't care. Everything else is atrocious though.
@@luna-p why do you hate the words woman/women?
@@blueberries408 Just one of those words. Like how a lot of people hate the word moist. Husband makes my skin crawl. Copacetic makes me want to vomit. Woman is just... ugh. I'll use it when necessary, but never to refer to myself.
@Luna P i get that way when i hear certain words i hate the word fart for some reason
Its not because of what the word means i just genuinely hate that word
I literally can’t lol everytime a girl tells men what they want, men just turn around and preach doing the exact opposite of what the woman told them. “Girls tell you they want you to open up but they actually don’t want that at all” lol like wut🤦🏼♀️
Literally this! If women didn’t like it, they wouldnt be constantly telling tons of men to do it
That April Fools joke was funnier than it needed to be
He's a little April fool
It's rather relatable too
My birthday is April fools so some could say that I am an April fool
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Never heard of Drew before but she's funny af, God Tier guest
Same here. I want to see more of them working together.
shes honestly hilarious i love her
@@pokerface7061 ha..ha?😐
@@pokerface7061 That's the best insult you can come up with? 🤣
@@pokerface7061 safe to say u get no bitches💔
So not only do women need to always look perfect (even after birthing a literal child) for men, but they have to work for that too?
But you cannot be proud of your progress and post about it either. If another man that is not your partner lays eyes on you it is your fault for being a female
Yeah but women don’t need to work as hard to be attractive though!! Most of them are naturally hourglassed and didn’t work for it or earn it 😀😀😀😀😀 /s
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@@hannacosmos i honestly can’t tell if this is satire or serious
@@norine6337 satire lol! Sad that there are people that think like that tho
I'm glad that Drew talked about what women want the majority of the time when we post selfies because it's so true. My absolute least favorite response I get to my standard selfies is random dudes cold messaging me after I post them. I'm looking for my friends and fellow queer people to compliment me on the rare days when I put effort in.
the "they do it for other women" is TRUE bc if a pretty woman cuts me down on social media, I'll think about it for days. but if a guy does the same thing, I laugh it off knowing their opinion is irrelevant
being put down by a pretty woman is so embarrassing because i literally can’t say anything back. she’s gorgeous, i can’t say anything because i’d be lying and look like a fool
its only true to you though, your not the only person out there js
@@lalalanddddd7584 Yes you're right! That was the point of the comment. What she says is true to me and something I found to be relatable
Tbh I feel like I’m one of the few women who doesn’t relate to this and idk how to feel about that…I was a tomboy growing up…
@@lalalanddddd7584 I’ve seen A LOT of women say this though so it’s definitely true for a good amount of people…
"which bro is she?"
Bruh Drew is so effortlessly funny and always manages to hit the mark without being unnecessarily insulting and I'm h e r e for it 👏
I don't have a designer bag, or spend a fortune on dates, but I do have standards. And I find it hilarious these muppets think they're such a catch while offering nothing but mediocrity wrapped in privilege.
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And what do YOU offer? Girls really think they're all that clinging onto patriarchal roles but want men to shed all of it. Hypocrites.
@@Syldoriel no bitches 🥺
@@Syldoriel don't worry babes. Noone's trying to offer you anything because I can assure you: no girl would ever want you♥️
@@Syldoriel insecure much?
When the guy says “Really??” (16:44) it sounds like he’s being told Santa is real for the first time as a kid 😭😭
This TikToker: “Men are busy fighting gravity in the gym.”
Pregnant women carrying men’s children: “Hold my beer.”
hey wait a minute they shouldn’t be drinking smh
more like “hold my gummy vitamins”
@@Azimii That's why you should hold it.
@@Azimii hold my alcohol free beer perhaps?
You left out the second part of her sentence, which is "because I'm about to float away because I'm unaffected by gravity"
I like how these men who are like “don’t talk about your feelings to your girl” are also the ones who are like “men struggle with depression more than women 😔”
Edit: holy shit they just said “mental health awareness” is unattractive oh my god
The guys I've dated have always had this mentality 😐
It's because they really don't care about men's issues, and we've all known from the beginning. Whenever a woman or a non-binary person brings up feminism or womanism they only, ONLY mention suicide rates for men to counteract or distract from the original topic. Then, when a guy is r@ped, k!lls themself, or struggles through any kind of mental illness they mock them, bring them down, laugh at them. They don't even realize it hurts them too, not just their dating life or potential friendships with people.
A problem I always had with 'don't show your feelings' is because it's IMPOSSIBLE. Happiness is a feeling. Pride is a feeling. Excitement is a feeling. Everyone regardless of gender experiences these things, for example it's not out of the ordinary for a guy to cheer and be visibly very happy when his favourite sports team wins a game. People don't see that as cringe, but if the same guy cries in public he's seen as weak? Why? Feelings like happiness, loving etc should have the same value as sadness, depression, anxiety - they're all meaningful.
@@elizabethchavez1855 It’s totally sad, bro. I hope those dudes get therapy or something
which is funny bcs most women with depression are told they're "just too emotional" or "are u on your period" and not diagnosed
Fun story about these guys- I randomly met them on my birthday a few years ago and had absolutely no clue who they were… they had the biggest superiority complex and then when someone mentioned it was my 20th that day one looked me dead in the eyes and said “you literally look 12” and walked away lmfaoo love to see that they’re getting roasted on the internet now
You know who else has a Young Face™? Danny Gonzalez. And he's awesome so don't worry my dude!
Lmaoo. These dudes are big time incels losers with no game
Story of my life 😭 I feel your pain
I'm surprised they didn't try to flirt with you when they realized you only looked 12 but were of age. guys like them are literally hypocrites and creeps.
@@ggundercover3681 remembering this kills me inside out
as a female minor, i only started working out to attract creepy middle-aged dudes with no life. makes sense.
Same
Well lot of women do like older men soo...
@@halocraze9839found a nonce
@@RR.LL.3B al pacino wink wink
@@halocraze9839 real, however being attracted to older men doesnt necessarily mean i want them to be attracted to me
this dude literally got kicked out of the residence I work in at an Ontario university. he specifically came for homecoming to hang out with people 10 years younger than him. a total creep through and through.
The dude in the podcast?
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no fucking way 😭😭 you gotta give me more info than this
@@convoree that's exactly what he does or at least did. He does "pranks" and films "movies" at college campuses (basically just to sleep with 18yo college girls)
tell me it isnt queens im going there next year
I love how these guys always start off like "Don't be afraid to approach a girl in real life." And I'm like 'yeah, ok, that's a good play. It kinda depends how you approach them, but still' and then it just suddenly goes to "NEVER CRY IN FRONT OF YOUR GIRL! SHE'LL LEAVE YOU THE MOMENT YOUR WEAK! LIE TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND! GIRLS ARE SLUTS!" and I just suddenly fall backwards.
@@urmomcalled1028 Our little emotions can't handle seeing a man be weak like we are. It's too scawy🥺 Big strong men do the logics for us, we can't even fathom anything else with our emotional lil minds
These guys literally searched up "women stereotype" and just started hating them
@@ikilledthemoon Did you even watch the video?
@@ikilledthemoon 😐
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@@ikilledthemoon And lots of men fall into the misogynistic abusive man stereotype. What's your point?
@@ikilledthemoon Right and now your changing the subject. Have you been taking gish galloping lessons from Ben Shapiro? Lol
The point you mention is a serious issue for men, and it's a form of sexism against men. There should definitely be many shelters for men saving themselves from abusive wives.
Need more content of Kurtis and Drew because they bounce off of each other so well
"Turn offs: LGBT flag"
Bro, I don't think she's into you if she has that anyway lmao
also he didn't even get the order of the letters right
Bisexuals : Crying softly as usual
I mean, technically, she could be. Bisexuality exists.
@@tiptoes9847 fair point, but also let's be honest, even if that person's bi she's probably gonna pass on mr "lgbqtehhhhh?!" regardless
@@macularius Oh, I sure hope. Unless she's a masochist. lol