If you have specific questions about breakup recovery when you have children together, please leave your questions in the comments below. 👇 If you need more guidance and assistance, feel free to book a private session with me. It would be my pleasure to help you reach your goals, repair your broken relationship, and get your family whole again. withmyexagain.com/coaching
My ex is engaged to his new gf after just a few months. We have a two year old. She is 23 and he is 42. Im 38. I’m so hurt and blind sided. Right now I’m blocked because I kept arguing with him about this. Part of me wants to never see him again but another wants my family back. This is the most painful thing I’ve gone through.
Finally a video that speaks to my reality. I avoided becoming the stereotypical black single mother all my life, told my ex it was one of my greatest fears so if you’re not interested in having a family lmk. It hurt being left while I was pregnant. It cut deep, I was in and out of hospital majority of my pregnancy due to complications, most times he never came to visit, he entertained young women, hit the bars regularly and ignored me. Now I’m like how tf do I heal and coparent with this evil man at the same time that put me through exactly what I said I didn’t want to.
Thank you Becky I am happy that this video has been useful to you! Great to hear the feedback and I am glad you have persevered through the challenges and struggles! Thank you, Coach Adrian
Thank you so much for this heart felt message. It really spoke to my situation. I'm in the phase where my ex is starting to reach out a bit after 5 months and I need to temper my expectations and not try not to get carried away. We have two children together and I really want my family back together. So this video was perfect.
I did no contact for almost a month but had a setback when we saw each other she gave me a hint that things were looking good and I hugged and tried to kiss her after that she’s been more distant and I haven’t gotten any text or calls like she used to in the beginning of the separation where she reached out sounding like she missed me we have a kid together i pick him up and she’s seems happy no kind of sign of her wanting me back
Thank you, I know a month might seem like a year. Things take time. You have to allow time to run its course. The great thing is because you still have open lines of communication, she can begin to see you evolve and grow. Hope this makes sense? Which could help intrigue and attract her in the future. Continue to work on yourself and your personal goals. It is a journey but you will be working towards a better you! Thank you WMEA Coach Adrian
I'm pregnant with my ex's child. We have been broken up for 2 months. He's become avoidant while I'm trying to stay neutral. He's wanting the baby and to be a family one moment then wants a DNA test the next but also sends me baby ideas. I'm not bitter or resentful. I just want him to be present in his child's life. But he's confusing me on what he really wants. I use to call and msg him trying to be in a better space with him but now I'm not sure what to do. Im now mainly focusing on myself and our child and not allowing myself to stress nor argue over petty things. What do I do.
Is it ok to block their number if y’all have a child together? It’s been 4 days since the last time I heard from her. She doesn’t really respond to my calls or texts anymore since we’ve split up but we do have a child together and I just don’t see the point of keeping her number in my phone if we don’t talk
Hi Adrian you know my whole situation since I’ve been having coaching sessions with you. Do u think it’s ok for me to let him in my home ? As long as we don’t hook up ? Sorry I emailed u same question.
Thank you for the message @wessica7645! I think this would be totally up to you decide on the comfort level. Establishing boundaries and making sure your partner knows where you stand and expectations is also very important. Thank you again for tuning in! Thank you Coach Adrian
I liked the same girl for 7-8 months. She said she fell in love with another guy a long time ago but she didn’t tell me bc she didn’t want to risk losing our friendship I talked to her yesterday and she said she liked me and misses me. It’s really depressing to find this out and I’m not sure what to do know. She never told me how long ago she loved this guy. But we didn’t really talk for a couple months so I assume that’s when it was. What should I do?
But what if there with someone else but keep giving you mixed signs 1 min saying never be together again but then remember what day would have been our anniversary a year after breaking up
Thank you Michelle It seems they are bit confused or they are playing with both sides. We would need to know more about the situation so we can help you. Please consider 1:1 session using link below www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thank you Coach Adrian
I think it really depends on the situation. There are several factors that we take into consideration: length of relationship, reason for the breakup, purpose of going into NC, etc. I would highly recommend booking a session so we can discuss the specifics and set you up for success! www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/#adrian - Coach Adrian
Thank you Tammy This does not mean 100% they are no longer interested. We do not know 100% the reasons and intentions behind this, however continue to work on yourself, your personal journey and growth. We are here to help and strategize, consider booking 1:1 session with us! www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thank you WMEA Coach Adrian
Thank you for the post You can send us an inquiry to our inbox for booking 1:1 session See link below contact@withmyexagain.com Thank you WMEA Coach Adrian
If you have specific questions about breakup recovery when you have children together, please leave your questions in the comments below. 👇 If you need more guidance and assistance, feel free to book a private session with me. It would be my pleasure to help you reach your goals, repair your broken relationship, and get your family whole again. withmyexagain.com/coaching
My ex is engaged to his new gf after just a few months. We have a two year old. She is 23 and he is 42. Im 38. I’m so hurt and blind sided. Right now I’m blocked because I kept arguing with him about this. Part of me wants to never see him again but another wants my family back. This is the most painful thing I’ve gone through.
He is gone, let someone new into your heart, you will forget about him...
How are you feeling now?
Finally a video that speaks to my reality. I avoided becoming the stereotypical black single mother all my life, told my ex it was one of my greatest fears so if you’re not interested in having a family lmk. It hurt being left while I was pregnant. It cut deep, I was in and out of hospital majority of my pregnancy due to complications, most times he never came to visit, he entertained young women, hit the bars regularly and ignored me. Now I’m like how tf do I heal and coparent with this evil man at the same time that put me through exactly what I said I didn’t want to.
Thank you Becky
I am happy that this video has been useful to you!
Great to hear the feedback and I am glad you have persevered through the challenges and struggles!
Thank you,
Coach Adrian
I am praying that the father of my child will give our relationship a second chance.
Omg thanks Adrian been anxiously waiting for this video 😊
Thank you for tuning in!
Thank you,
Coach Adrian
Thanks for the video I wish there more like this on the channel.
Thank you so much for this heart felt message. It really spoke to my situation.
I'm in the phase where my ex is starting to reach out a bit after 5 months and I need to temper my expectations and not try not to get carried away. We have two children together and I really want my family back together. So this video was perfect.
and how it works ????
I did no contact for almost a month but had a setback when we saw each other she gave me a hint that things were looking good and I hugged and tried to kiss her after that she’s been more distant and I haven’t gotten any text or calls like she used to in the beginning of the separation where she reached out sounding like she missed me we have a kid together i pick him up and she’s seems happy no kind of sign of her wanting me back
Thank you,
I know a month might seem like a year. Things take time. You have to allow time to run its course. The great thing is because you still have open lines of communication, she can begin to see you evolve and grow. Hope this makes sense? Which could help intrigue and attract her in the future. Continue to work on yourself and your personal goals. It is a journey but you will be working towards a better you!
Thank you
WMEA Coach Adrian
I'm pregnant with my ex's child. We have been broken up for 2 months. He's become avoidant while I'm trying to stay neutral. He's wanting the baby and to be a family one moment then wants a DNA test the next but also sends me baby ideas. I'm not bitter or resentful. I just want him to be present in his child's life. But he's confusing me on what he really wants. I use to call and msg him trying to be in a better space with him but now I'm not sure what to do. Im now mainly focusing on myself and our child and not allowing myself to stress nor argue over petty things. What do I do.
You should let him come back to you and take his responsabilities.
Thank you so much for this video
You are so welcome!
Thank you
Coach Adrian
Is it ok to block their number if y’all have a child together? It’s been 4 days since the last time I heard from her. She doesn’t really respond to my calls or texts anymore since we’ve split up but we do have a child together and I just don’t see the point of keeping her number in my phone if we don’t talk
Hi Adrian you know my whole situation since I’ve been having coaching sessions with you. Do u think it’s ok for me to let him in my home ? As long as we don’t hook up ? Sorry I emailed u same question.
Thank you for the message @wessica7645! I think this would be totally up to you decide on the comfort level. Establishing boundaries and making sure your partner knows where you stand and expectations is also very important. Thank you again for tuning in!
Thank you
Coach Adrian
I liked the same girl for 7-8 months. She said she fell in love with another guy a long time ago but she didn’t tell me bc she didn’t want to risk losing our friendship I talked to her yesterday and she said she liked me and misses me. It’s really depressing to find this out and I’m not sure what to do know. She never told me how long ago she loved this guy. But we didn’t really talk for a couple months so I assume that’s when it was. What should I do?
But what if there with someone else but keep giving you mixed signs 1 min saying never be together again but then remember what day would have been our anniversary a year after breaking up
Thank you Michelle
It seems they are bit confused or they are playing with both sides. We would need to know more about the situation so we can help you.
Please consider 1:1 session using link below
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thank you
Coach Adrian
Should i write my ex merry Christmas if i am in no conract for over a month now?
I think it really depends on the situation. There are several factors that we take into consideration: length of relationship, reason for the breakup, purpose of going into NC, etc. I would highly recommend booking a session so we can discuss the specifics and set you up for success!
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/#adrian
- Coach Adrian
My ex stopped viewing my fb stories ... is that a bad sign
Thank you Tammy
This does not mean 100% they are no longer interested. We do not know 100% the reasons and intentions behind this, however continue to work on yourself, your personal journey and growth. We are here to help and strategize, consider booking 1:1 session with us!
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thank you
WMEA Coach Adrian
Omgosh is there a email I can send I need to ask something
Thank you for the post
You can send us an inquiry to our inbox for booking 1:1 session
See link below
contact@withmyexagain.com
Thank you
WMEA Coach Adrian
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