MY BOYFRIEND IS OLDER AND IT'S NOT A BIG DEAL

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  • @dnl6478
    @dnl6478 7 років тому +474

    Met my man when I was 21, he was 35. 17 years later, we are married and still together!!

    • @MrStGeorgeIllawarra
      @MrStGeorgeIllawarra 7 років тому +15

      Congrats, you're very lucky but that's not the norm for most gay people, hell even straight people too.

    • @jesssecrest89
      @jesssecrest89 7 років тому +5

      MrStGeorgeIllawarra oh if the older one has money, its very normal. lol gay or straight
      its funny how for some little young guys, the dollar signs make the differences melt away..

    • @santana233
      @santana233 7 років тому +3

      D Hodson he's 51!! LMAOOOOOO

    • @objectiveuser8517
      @objectiveuser8517 7 років тому

      D Hodson hell yea honey get that pension and social security check!! Shit go on with yo bad self bayby!

    • @schmerzensgeld7294
      @schmerzensgeld7294 7 років тому +2

      EWEWEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

  • @brittanycournoyer1900
    @brittanycournoyer1900 7 років тому +333

    It annoys the piss out of me that people are making a huge deal over your age "difference". It's your relationship and no one else's. Keep doing whatever it is that makes both of you happy and don't take what everyone else says to heart. They are just jealous they don't have someone look at them the way he looks at you :)

    • @kumitetoday
      @kumitetoday 7 років тому +12

      the fact they have been together for three years should shut everyone down. My own parents had a 20 year difference and it worked

    • @elizabethdanielle
      @elizabethdanielle 7 років тому +1

      Brittany Cournoyer age is nothing but a number.

    • @brittanycournoyer1900
      @brittanycournoyer1900 7 років тому +2

      Lizzy Pearsall exactly but some people feel the need to give them crap about the "ginormous" age gap (I'm being sarcastic that's why I put it in quotes btw) it's freaking ridiculous. Clearly they are happy or they still wouldn't be together after 3 years.

    • @elizabethdanielle
      @elizabethdanielle 7 років тому +1

      True

    • @GenZ_Zillenial
      @GenZ_Zillenial 7 років тому +1

      I 100% agree. It stems from jealousy.

  • @shreyasvivek4919
    @shreyasvivek4919 7 років тому +304

    when aaron kissed more than 15 people and I haven't even kissed 1... 😂😂😂😑

    • @khalilwade1949
      @khalilwade1949 7 років тому +4

      Shreyas Vivek Soo relatable 😂😂

    • @AB-bt9eb
      @AB-bt9eb 7 років тому +4

      You'll find someone. Don't worry.

    • @GrayXKarmanda
      @GrayXKarmanda 7 років тому

      Shreyas Vivek same goes with me

    • @dahabizizy
      @dahabizizy 7 років тому +2

      #shreyas we still virgin hhhhhhhh

    • @chloearmstrong9535
      @chloearmstrong9535 7 років тому +2

      mohan abdi Not to brag but it's good having sex if you're both very sexual people but hey it's up to you and don't lose it if you don't find the right person, don't do it with the wrong person. Sorry about my advice, you can take it to heart but it's good to wait

  • @dongbat7746
    @dongbat7746 7 років тому +3

    I was 17 he was 32, he was Catholic I Protestant, he pessimist me optimist. Music he was Dolly Parton me Joan Sutherland, "Fiends" said it wouldn't last! Well we were together nearly 44 yrs until he passed in 2013.
    Listen to your heart, not to what others say.

  • @fizzaabidi4456
    @fizzaabidi4456 7 років тому +354

    I swear every gay guy I know, are like the cutest guys.

    • @itsmehavd9889
      @itsmehavd9889 7 років тому +1

      Fizza True 😂😂

    • @fchino-jr.3340
      @fchino-jr.3340 7 років тому +1

      Fizza, thank you, I guess I'm cute. ❤️💛💚💙💜

    • @kyrlics6515
      @kyrlics6515 7 років тому +5

      Fizza that's because str8 ppl r dickheads and dickheads r ugly and I mean actual dickheads Wich look like str8 guys

    • @s.cherry7737
      @s.cherry7737 7 років тому +20

      Fizza I know a lot of cute gay guys... but then again I know a lot of rude af gay guys... they are just normal people tbh, sexuality does not define the personality...

    • @ryanblack9897
      @ryanblack9897 7 років тому +4

      Kyrlics I'm gay so I think dickheads look good enough to kiss LoL!

  • @brookeashley4305
    @brookeashley4305 7 років тому +81

    Austins jawline is freaking insane

  • @alexn1780
    @alexn1780 7 років тому +740

    I wish my nonexistent boyfriend was older 😭

  • @normancross1515
    @normancross1515 7 років тому +35

    Good evening, guys! This was a fun Q&A.
    Austin, may I point out that I am 11 years older than my partner . . . and we have been together for 38 years . . . (I can just hear all the clicking and clacking from people's brains as they try to go back to the beginning, let me save you some time: I was 32 and he was 21.) So whatever comments you've heard, we've heard . . . so many times that they no longer have any shock value at all.
    Aaron, you have no idea how many times I have called up your "EVOLUTION" video. It is so beautifully done. So thank you once again for posting it. I urge my friends to watch it at every opportunity.
    Love you guys so much! 💝💝

    • @gowonsupremacist
      @gowonsupremacist 7 років тому

      omg i didn't read properly and i thought you said you had 11 and were with a 38 year old man im-

  • @objectiveuser8517
    @objectiveuser8517 7 років тому +6

    Nothing wrong with having a bf older than you!! I'm 10 years older than my bf; I freakin LOVE it! He's full of energy, we do so much fun stuff together, I show him things he's never experienced before...and hell yea the sex is GREAT!!!

  • @SeanDillon1987
    @SeanDillon1987 7 років тому +3

    I'm so happy for you and Justin. I think you look great together and you seem to have a really good relationship. You seem so comfortable and at ease together and I think that's lovely! Good relationship are seldom and far few, it's really nice to see it. I think it speak to both your levels of maturity and respect that your relationship is so solid. Keep on keeping on!

  • @Roxay05
    @Roxay05 7 років тому +3

    I'm 30 my fiancée is 45. I've never loved someone so much in my entire life. she is my everything!

  • @addiemustapha4825
    @addiemustapha4825 7 років тому +1

    My bf is 20years older than me... we're happy and im proud of it...

  • @Princesstayler9
    @Princesstayler9 7 років тому +88

    My friends are gay twin brothers who are about to be 24. 1 is married to a man who is my age almost 23. The other is married to a man who is almost 50. I guess it works for him, the one married to the older man, even though both haven't been together for too long, but they are happy so I'm happy for them.

  • @wyatthansen8120
    @wyatthansen8120 7 років тому +3

    it's funny how the same people who say "love is love" complain about his boyfriend being older

  • @edgardosworld2153
    @edgardosworld2153 7 років тому +22

    "Minute 2:25 is when he answered the big age question "

  • @melg9539
    @melg9539 7 років тому +22

    AUSTIN AND HIS BOYFRIEND ARE SO CUTE

  • @nathanjones880
    @nathanjones880 7 років тому +1

    you're so fortunate to have found love. i judt found you guys. i enjoy the banter. I have brothers andvi can see hoe close you are. i envy that. My bros put me in hospital with broken ribs, jaw and cracked vertebrae after i came out. Watching your coming out stories had me bawling. You're doing a good thing with your channel. It saved my life...literally. Thank you for that.

  • @rayvance5999
    @rayvance5999 6 років тому +1

    @AustinRhodes I just discovered you guys. I want to encourage you to do you. Love is the only real magic in the world. He can be tall, short, thin, wide...any ethnicity, any shape...and any age. It is easy to hook up in our world, but not easy to date. Love him like he loves you...

  • @myrotyro
    @myrotyro 7 років тому +3

    If he loves you and makes you happy and you love him and make him happy, it doesn't matter what others think. The fact you're three years in already says a lot.

  • @mauiguy6710
    @mauiguy6710 7 років тому +4

    Love ❤️ who you love. Age difference doesn't matter. Love ❤️ does

  • @FrancissOrtega
    @FrancissOrtega 7 років тому +3

    I loved Justin's insta story. Don't let the haters bring you down. You guys make a great couple ❤️

  • @chateau7
    @chateau7 7 років тому +3

    Actually, a darker background does look more calming visually in clips.

  • @davidfalls4609
    @davidfalls4609 7 років тому +6

    My Boyfriend/Husband is 17 Years Younger than me he's African American and I'm White he came to me and wanted me I kept pushing him away BUT now were together and Happy in Love with Each Other My Love To You Aaron and Austin have a Great rest of the week and and a wonderful weekend

  • @Lulu-zj7qd
    @Lulu-zj7qd 7 років тому +1

    love is love, that's the only thing that matters!

  • @ikdl4032
    @ikdl4032 7 років тому +5

    i always was atracted to younger guys but also had experiences with same age or a bit older guys.
    i don't care that much about ages.

  • @Avacnela
    @Avacnela 7 років тому

    I had a boyfriend who is 18 years older than me, and was with him for about 3 years. Definitely had been an interesting relationship and I definitely agree that people shouldn't judge based on age. I learned a lot from him while dating him. There's always that big possibility that the person older than you will have a lot more knowledge and wisdom, and can teach you things that you wouldn't have learned otherwise. We chose to break things off since he felt like I would be better suited with someone closer to my age and have a good understanding of my hobbies and interests.

  • @chrisgomez8129
    @chrisgomez8129 7 років тому

    I'm 25, my boyfriend is 45 and 46 is right around the corner. a relationship like that is very similar to other relationships. if there is mutual responsible-ness, respect, communicative, and emotion, anything is poasible.

  • @biblereadingatheist2905
    @biblereadingatheist2905 4 роки тому

    I met my wonderful bf when I was 63 and he was 36. We fell head over heels in love.

  • @gccoast7501
    @gccoast7501 7 років тому +1

    I haven't seen your videos in a long time but I've always had your notifications on. You guys still rock and I love your strength :) :*

  • @kcwalkman
    @kcwalkman 7 років тому +2

    Gentlemen,
    I honestly enjoy watching your posts. Thank you both. ☺

  • @josephmillraney361
    @josephmillraney361 7 років тому

    On Austin's 'older' boyfriend! I've noticed several people that surprised me by having 'older' boyfriends, but, they have such wonderful relationships that I've come to think of them as having something really special.

  • @ronnierodriguez8471
    @ronnierodriguez8471 7 років тому +1

    People that critique other people's relationships are the ones that turn around at 50 or 60 and find themselves alone.

  • @Falkore02
    @Falkore02 7 років тому

    @Austin (+The Rhodes Bros), I am in a 4 year relationship with someone who is 13 years younger than me. Don't let the haters destroy your love. If he treats you right, that's all that matters. The world needs more love, forget the haters and love your man even more.

  • @machete777-l9g
    @machete777-l9g 7 років тому

    My boyfriend is also older than me. I am 23, he is 36. And it works. It's ok. It works for us. Both of our parents are against it, but we don't care. We love eachother, that's all that matters.

  • @tommyflorida9204
    @tommyflorida9204 7 років тому

    My partner and I are 8 years apart and still together after more than 20 years... Just keep your mind young and your body healthy.

  • @johnbroderick6630
    @johnbroderick6630 7 років тому

    love is love no matter what. my ex was 16 yrs old then me and still care for each other as friends now and he was a great love to me and always be in my heart even tho we both have different people in our lives now . No regrets.

  • @ravenclaw2511
    @ravenclaw2511 7 років тому +2

    My boyfriend is also 12 years older than me Austin! And completely in love with him. I totally get you!! 😊

  • @thomasdee44
    @thomasdee44 7 років тому

    My husband is 13 years older than me and it makes no difference. We are together 15 years and still madly in love. Age is just a number.

  • @BryceLogan
    @BryceLogan 7 років тому +38

    Honestly older guys are so much better haha! That's who I always go for

    • @AifDaimon
      @AifDaimon 7 років тому +3

      Bryce Logan plus they're more experienced

    • @GenZ_Zillenial
      @GenZ_Zillenial 7 років тому +3

      ^ I agree with the more experienced part. I've learned a lot from being with some

    • @juneroma7810
      @juneroma7810 7 років тому

      Bryce Logan yeah most of a time they can easily deal when comes in understanding than the younger one.

    • @MrGreenKitsune
      @MrGreenKitsune 7 років тому

      Better how? Plenty of older men are douches/irresponsible like younger men. It's less the age and more so the individual.

  • @harjotkang615
    @harjotkang615 7 років тому +3

    Hey Rhode Bros . Love your videos Thanks for posting and inspiring others

  • @dimasalves9898
    @dimasalves9898 7 років тому

    I am a gay Brazilian boy and I am very proud of both of you. Because I saw the video of you telling your father about homosexuality and I was thrilled. They have won one more fan. Oh and please try subtitles in Portuguese I still do not speak English perfectly.

  • @yourtravelswithbruce
    @yourtravelswithbruce 7 років тому

    you tell 'em!!!! Austin ignore the haters, everyone is different. When I met my husband 17 years ago I was 30 and he was 53.

  • @jesuscampos9576
    @jesuscampos9576 7 років тому +6

    I think Justin and Austin are effing RELATIONSHIP GOALS ❤❤😍😍❤❤👬👬

  • @ShaundrickRoberts
    @ShaundrickRoberts 7 років тому

    You two are starting to look more fraternal than identical

  • @whataheavenlywaytolive
    @whataheavenlywaytolive 7 років тому

    One of my biggest fears is also singing in front of people I mean sometimes I just sing but if someone asks me or something I just can't...

  • @DevDoe
    @DevDoe 7 років тому +1

    You should do more Q and A's! They are my favorite!

  • @maggiefilkins
    @maggiefilkins 7 років тому +1

    Don't be afraid to come out and sing in front of people. It took me until my age right now(I am 12 years old right now) but with a little help from people who care about you you can do it.

  • @RoyMane
    @RoyMane 6 років тому +1

    😂😂😂second question had me dead💀💀💀Austin don’t throw Arron under the 🚌 lol. I love y’all videos

  • @williamhwl
    @williamhwl 7 років тому +1

    Love is love. If It's Love, Age Gap Makes No Difference. Love you guys♥♥

  • @ScottJonesTVonline
    @ScottJonesTVonline 7 років тому +1

    Aaron. Love your covers. Really hope you do more. You DO have a really great voice. DO IT!

  • @rogerh5232
    @rogerh5232 7 років тому +1

    I just want to say I always enjoy watching talks videos an you both are inspirational 😜 Thank y'all for everything 🙏🏻📱

  • @kindestwaytosay7280
    @kindestwaytosay7280 6 років тому +3

    II just found you guys today, and I started balling. Your words are very inspirational, especially for me. Thank you. (Subscribed btw)

  • @ternitamas
    @ternitamas 7 років тому +4

    I wish Aaron liked older guys too cause I'm 34 and I have a major crush on him

  • @jerryarchbrat
    @jerryarchbrat 4 роки тому

    when I was 44 I dated a 20 y.o., it was good but the fact that we lived on opposite sides of town combined with work and life caused us to drift apart

  • @kainesway
    @kainesway 7 років тому +3

    great advice/answer about dating older mate. love is love 😉

  • @cinema.zipfile
    @cinema.zipfile 7 років тому +2

    i'm 25 and my boyfriend is 38 we're gooood y'all

  • @nightshadow9
    @nightshadow9 7 років тому +1

    Austin I thought you were gonna tel your love story! you should totally do it

  • @OLDS98
    @OLDS98 7 років тому

    Good for you Austin !! express yourself on your relationship. I knew he was older. I did not care. I think it is great you have someone. Relationships are hard top come by. Thank you for the questions and the answers you gave.

  • @cheratkinson4985
    @cheratkinson4985 7 років тому

    I want to tell you both that I am so happy to see you smile and be open. I have a son who is gay, and to all people that is mean about it all I can say is educate yourself. Love is the answer to all things. You don't get respect with hate! #therhoadesbros you are my heros!! Thank you for making me smile!! 😘😘

  • @pedromelendez9539
    @pedromelendez9539 7 років тому

    Why people bother about others being in a relationship with an age difference. I was in a relationship with someone 20 years younger, 6 years, was like others, normal and fun. There is things one learn from the other, different experiences, backgrounds. Is a great adventure in life Austin, so keep loving each other, make a life together.

  • @tadziosquest
    @tadziosquest 7 років тому

    Met my soul mate when i was 26 and he was 33. fast forward 41 years and we are married and retired ,living in our dream house w our two dogs .

    • @oceanlover3530
      @oceanlover3530 4 роки тому

      A seven year gap is nothing dude. But congrats on 41 years... or 43 now. ✌🏻👍🏻✌🏻

  • @QwizQ912
    @QwizQ912 7 років тому +2

    wtf. seriously... age does not matter ppl.... u like what u like. thats what its called a preference for a reason. Austin is owning his life. stop pestering him. im glad he found someone who love truly for who they are. n
    ALWAYS never b Bitter ppl
    peace out

  • @gobeagirl
    @gobeagirl 7 років тому +1

    I just love you both. Love is love and if you can find it in this day and age I say go for. Who cares if your boyfriend is older that you. If he treats you good and you both respect each other then I say " Congratulations" and good for you. Hugs LisaG

  • @MrHill518
    @MrHill518 7 років тому

    I dated a man that was 12 years younger than myself. And we had a great relationship the downfall he lived 203 miles away. But we still talk.

  • @arthurrogers4432
    @arthurrogers4432 7 років тому

    well done to both of you for answering the age question with such maturity. My comments would have had a lot of bleeps in! 😉 Be who you are not what others wants you to be!! 👍👍👍

  • @juliatokiohotellover
    @juliatokiohotellover 7 років тому

    Sometimes I can't believe I'm the same age as y'all! You're out like living your lives and here I am just slaving away at uni.

  • @Mcflyeon
    @Mcflyeon 7 років тому

    I agree that it shouldn't be a big deal that you're dating an older guy as long as he treats you well and you both are getting along well :)

  • @fredhairston4808
    @fredhairston4808 7 років тому

    I am 11 years older that my boyfriend and we have been together over 20 years. We were told it would never work but It works if you are truly in love.

  • @tracerloenan8020
    @tracerloenan8020 7 років тому

    Age has never made a difference to me. When I was younger, I liked older guys because I was past the party stage, at 15, and wanted something more mature. ( At 15, I was with someone 28 - for 6 years') Now that I am older; I just kinda have a rule of no more than 20 years either way (means I am over 40 now). A man who confident to be by himself, and is happy, is OK by me.

  • @487327
    @487327 7 років тому +5

    Austin has more style 🙏 plus he is more handsome 😍

  • @CurtisBennettMusic
    @CurtisBennettMusic 7 років тому

    I'm 20 & my boyfriend is 30! Very happy and life is good 😊💅🏻

  • @MaxaMillion4th
    @MaxaMillion4th 7 років тому

    Please don't take this question the wrong way, but I remember in a previous video you said something along the lines of you wouldn't want to settle down or raise a family in LA. Does that mean you want to settle down in a small town someday? And if so, what would that mean for your careers?

  • @tonyboy4334
    @tonyboy4334 7 років тому

    To me looking at a hard number like "he's 15 years old, 25 years old, 30 years older!" is not a good judge if the relationship is appropriate or not. It's about where in their life the individuals are.
    When I was 25 my bf was 50 (although he looked around 40). But our relationship worked because we were both mature. Even though I was 25 I already had my Masters and was teaching college. And prior I was financially independent and lived on my own for years. So we weren't at huge differences.
    Now mind you that if he would have met me when I was 20 and attending college while working as a server who lived off ramen noodles I don't think the relationship would have been appropriate.
    NB- Only the couple should judge if the relationship is appropriate though. :-)

  • @gazpen1978
    @gazpen1978 7 років тому

    i know its hard but you should try and ignore the comments about Justin and his age its what matters to you that's important not a stranger. plus its obvious how in love with each other you are you are so cute together when he's in your videos

  • @beartails
    @beartails 7 років тому

    hey guys, i am 50 and i am dating a much younger guy, i don'y see anything wrong with it, what ever feels right do it

  • @anfduude84
    @anfduude84 7 років тому

    Aaron where did you get that shirt? Super cute and I love the colors ❤️

  • @thomasdg2586
    @thomasdg2586 7 років тому

    Where did Aaron get his shirt from? I love it!

  • @jacobdiaz3299
    @jacobdiaz3299 7 років тому

    Exactly, everyone's relationship is different, don't listen to the negative comments from ANYONE! Especially on social media. All that matters is that you're happy, so don't let a couple of miserable randoms on any social media affect you. #CountYourBlessings #LoveWins

  • @connorbrady-ladygagafan1115
    @connorbrady-ladygagafan1115 7 років тому

    Even Though I can see both sides of people's views, When I was 16 I thought it was common for LGBTQUA couples to be in older younger relationships for example recently Sarah Paulson and Holland Taylor Fell In Love and they are 42 and 74, Don Bachardy and Christopher Isherwood met when Don Bachardy was 18 and Christopher Isherwood was 48 and they stayed together until Christopher passed away

  • @narutofanere
    @narutofanere 7 років тому +2

    How old is Justin anyway?

  • @markledesma3251
    @markledesma3251 7 років тому

    I am 52, my partner is 30, we met 4 years ago

  • @jackmeoff4451
    @jackmeoff4451 7 років тому +6

    Wait so how old is his boyfriend?

  • @robmacauley7373
    @robmacauley7373 7 років тому +1

    Great video, for some reason i have this awkward feeling there are very touchy topics coming out with you guys,,

  • @v9382s
    @v9382s 7 років тому +1

    justin is literally my fav person in the world

  • @khurrambaig2775
    @khurrambaig2775 7 років тому +1

    you both r good full of life friendly jst one thing remember when u old then now what whould you do and what u have and lost??? think n be happy😊

  • @ClayWinter1
    @ClayWinter1 7 років тому

    Hey bros, I just wanted to say thank you for being you. You guys are some of my biggest inspirations to be who I am today, and I can not thank you enough. I do have a question for the both of you though. Do you guys ever have "twin telepathy" moments?

  • @_jn0v4
    @_jn0v4 7 років тому

    I would actually love Aaron as my Father💕

  • @RicLucifer
    @RicLucifer 7 років тому

    I totally agree that the LGBT Community is sometimes the first to judge - about time we stand together as we always say we do.

  • @paulsmith6616
    @paulsmith6616 7 років тому

    If I may, Austin, you need to follow your gut, it will save your life, also listen to your brother, he's part of you and knows you better than anyone on the planet. Age?, who cares, no-one has said the obvious: that we do not always control who we love, it just happens.... Best wishes to you both, try to have plenty of private 'us' time. Oh bugger !, I forgot your twin!! um best of luck .

  • @zudiko
    @zudiko 7 років тому +1

    Hey that was a nice Q + A one. I enjoyed. Nice Twin couple btw.

  • @emmaford3069
    @emmaford3069 7 років тому +2

    How old is his boyfriend??

  • @larkynolivia9382
    @larkynolivia9382 7 років тому +11

    You're both so fiiiine. Whyyyyyy 😍

  • @MICHAELPAULLIVE
    @MICHAELPAULLIVE 7 років тому

    Who does your graphics?

  • @fannyperez4050
    @fannyperez4050 7 років тому

    It's not a big deal having a boyfriend older than you, it's your relationship if you're happy and comfortable it's okay, Austin just don't listen to people who criticize it's your relationship and your life❤️

  • @jordy3095
    @jordy3095 7 років тому

    Yes. Tell them!!

  • @goobercahill7874
    @goobercahill7874 7 років тому

    it's funny when they both are trying to talk over each other😂😂😂

  • @devinmarks8571
    @devinmarks8571 7 років тому

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  • @clariamaeroth7991
    @clariamaeroth7991 7 років тому

    How do you feel about how people depict gay couples in TV shows/ movies?

  • @ryane1566
    @ryane1566 7 років тому

    Not a big deal to me. I have a few family members that have or had partners that were older than them by more than 10 years. I see no big deal with it.

  • @DenizF
    @DenizF 7 років тому +15

    Age is just a number, look at me.. still 21 ;)

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      @leowilson3617 7 років тому

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