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  • @ellec6668
    @ellec6668 4 роки тому +630

    It's great that you encourage them to see their Dad. My dad left us as teenagers, yet my classy, strong Ma never tore him down or discouraged us to see him. She said "You have hurt enough". I love my Ma so much for taking the high road. As an adult now, I look back and recognize how selfless and brave she was. For us. Love you Mommy Tang.

    • @VeganSoo
      @VeganSoo  4 роки тому +281

      I love my dad..
      Why would I take that away from my kids ? Id walk through fire for my babies ❤️

    • @lisachen7618
      @lisachen7618 4 роки тому +20

      @@VeganSoo These words just made me tear up. You are such an amazing Mommy and strong, selfless woman. I have no doubt that you will have a loving and fulfilling life full of joy and happiness. Much love to you and your babies ❤

    • @zahrahrahman8689
      @zahrahrahman8689 4 роки тому +8

      Moms is a strongest human being.

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 3 роки тому +1

      @@emilysarah8557 girl, bye. 😒

  • @HananMohammed-rn4gu
    @HananMohammed-rn4gu 4 роки тому +786

    I started tearing up when you dropped them and your son came and hugged you. Stay strong mommytang 💪🏼we love you ♥️♥️♥️

    • @vyc106
      @vyc106 4 роки тому +10

      he lives with his father?

    • @HananMohammed-rn4gu
      @HananMohammed-rn4gu 4 роки тому +20

      @@vyc106 Yes, I think so.

    • @emmyc7912
      @emmyc7912 4 роки тому +17

      @Jay & Mango It looks like Jayden's curly hair. She sure as hell didn't hug her wasband so who else :)

    • @aurelia4297
      @aurelia4297 4 роки тому +7

      @@vyc106 i think he stays with his dad bcos he travels to play baseball,and his dad travels with him too

    • @bellab5313
      @bellab5313 2 роки тому

      Me too 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 i dont know how mummy tang feel in that time

  • @AugustAdvice
    @AugustAdvice 4 роки тому +635

    I have been heartbroken for two months after finding out my ex wanted to run off with another woman, and he did. I sometimes sit in the shower crying so that I'm not too loud and alert my family member. Some days I just think how could he throw everything away? I thought we had something special. Then I remember, I dont want to be with someone who could do what he did. I was genuine and loved fiercely. That is his loss, not mine.

    • @wishingmelon1
      @wishingmelon1 4 роки тому +17

      I love you 😣

    • @VeganSoo
      @VeganSoo  4 роки тому +150

      One day.. you’ll know and he won’t 😉

    • @aj__love5919
      @aj__love5919 4 роки тому +12

      마미탱 MommyTang Vlog Wise words from Mommytang I love your advice!

    • @aj__love5919
      @aj__love5919 4 роки тому +8

      Jay & Mango always remember there are good people out there too. I know human beings can get so rude at times🌺 we got this! Keep going forward😊

    • @lastlove1985
      @lastlove1985 4 роки тому +9

      You gave your all so have no regrets

  • @michellelee4708
    @michellelee4708 4 роки тому +335

    I remember on Instagram you shared how your dad had his ring melted to fit in a necklace pendant for your mom and how you never saw them argue. That's the kind of love you saw and wanted. I understand it now. Sometimes it's not with whom we think it will be. But eventually it comes. God bless you Mommytang💜

  • @dontmindme9654
    @dontmindme9654 4 роки тому +267

    You are a very strong woman and a selfless mother mommy tang. I hope you will find another man that can love you unconditionally and will be with you forever just like your mom and dad.

  • @mtvaj
    @mtvaj 4 роки тому +437

    Aww the girls faces when they were dropped off, they looked so sad

  • @KINGZIE
    @KINGZIE 4 роки тому +786

    WE STAN A STRONG QUEEN LIKE YOU!💘💘💘👸🏽✨

  • @MariaJimenez-kk9ge
    @MariaJimenez-kk9ge 4 роки тому +175

    This video was so incredibly put together...allowing me to feel every emotion displayed. Took my breath away. I was married for 20 yrs...only to find out he had a mistress for the last 10 of them. It hurt like hell...but i realised that it hurt more staying in that loveless and toxic marriage. I walked out 3 yrs ago...divorced him...sold the house that he left me drowning in debt in...And I started my life over....a new life.. a new home...new me...new thinking...it took a lot to get here...Divorce is like death but with no burial...so painful
    ...Allow urself to feel .. To cry....to scream...its ok to hurt. Time will lessen each emotion...u will get stronger...wiser...and you will grow from it all.

    • @angnonymousj7721
      @angnonymousj7721 4 роки тому +19

      I can’t imagine getting through that type of betrayal. You’re strong woman.

    • @afrodit8582
      @afrodit8582 4 роки тому +10

      You're one strong woman.

    • @lisavanderpump7475
      @lisavanderpump7475 Рік тому +1

      I'm sorry you had to go threw that men can be so awful

  • @DaeJae
    @DaeJae 4 роки тому +791

    you should be a movie director or something cause the aesthetic and cinematography in this channel is amazing

    • @Fabdanc
      @Fabdanc 4 роки тому +23

      I was just about to say the same thing. Her vlogs have really matured. I felt like I was watching a short film.

    • @MomentsofNaliandJosh
      @MomentsofNaliandJosh 4 роки тому +6

      YESSsss I totally agree with you! 💕

    • @SuperCheryl66
      @SuperCheryl66 4 роки тому +4

      You're are so right. 👍

    • @Pegasus436
      @Pegasus436 4 роки тому +10

      I felt like I was watching a documentary. Very real and beautifully shot.

    • @VeganSoo
      @VeganSoo  4 роки тому +54

      Lol.. the pressure might kill it 🤫

  • @madeinbusanjkjm
    @madeinbusanjkjm 4 роки тому +468

    Editing on point. What a wonderful short film.
    I really love your pamper night in...shower, essential oils and lying in bed with the dogs, it looks so relaxing and peaceful. Thank you for being strong for your babies and for us and for still making such beautiful videos ♥️ It really isn't the same without you here.

    • @sos_hodad
      @sos_hodad 4 роки тому +1

      I could not agree more with everything you said!

  • @MrsPlantinTexas
    @MrsPlantinTexas 4 роки тому +173

    My heart is broken for all of you. We love and support you, MT. You are a warrior.

  • @gsabo1000
    @gsabo1000 4 роки тому +240

    I love seeing you with mom and dad. It is just life. After 17 years, he left me for some woman who was my daughter's dance teacher.
    After, I learned to live alone. It was hard and many nights were spent reflecting who I was and crying until no more tears were left. My kids went with him because my job took me to another state. It was tragic. I learned I had lupus. It took a whole day of flying around just to see them and my illness made it so hard to fly. My doc ssaid to me, stop crying, take all photos of kids off walls. You are going to be fighting for your Life. I did 6 months of chemo. It was hardly. Had to quit work as a FA. I was back in University for masters
    But after many years later, after taking care of Mom till her death, my daughter got preggers. She moved me back with her. The grandgirl came. I now live near them. My boys never come to visit. One did for a short time.
    Life goes on. Only the strong survive.

    • @AA-ke9pk
      @AA-ke9pk 4 роки тому +17

      God bless you, you have been through so much.
      *sending you the biggest hug*

    • @maros450
      @maros450 4 роки тому +10

      Blessed you such a strong woman i wish you all happiness in life

    • @naakai6397
      @naakai6397 4 роки тому +8

      Sending you love and hugs. Sometimes we don't understand the sacrifices our parents have to make until we're parents.

    • @highdopamine29
      @highdopamine29 4 роки тому +1

      you will be ok..sending love and positivity.. hang in there

    • @susanzumback7711
      @susanzumback7711 4 роки тому +4

      Praying god restores all that was stolen from you and then some

  • @sakurafernandez5552
    @sakurafernandez5552 4 роки тому +100

    This is real life aesthetics...not those all fairy set up aesthetics most of the you tubers do these days...
    Mommy Tang thank you for being real, honest and brave about it...
    Love you mommy tang ❤️

  • @tarah_j
    @tarah_j 4 роки тому +97

    Wow I cried throughout the entire thing! Brought me back to being 12 years old when my parents divorced after years of arguing. I only wish that they fought to maintain some sense of normalcy like you have. I’m sure your children really appreciate all of the love 💖

  • @347LTL
    @347LTL 4 роки тому +99

    Broken wings still can fly, just much harder to fly than before. Broken dreams still can come true, just not at the moments we'd wished it to.

  • @toasted_.coconut
    @toasted_.coconut 4 роки тому +438

    So beautiful to watch! Like an art performance on repeat at a gallery. "Divorce". You're really talented. I loved it.

    • @VeganSoo
      @VeganSoo  4 роки тому +39

      Maria callas..? She lives in me... 😍

    • @ringoisacandyapple
      @ringoisacandyapple 4 роки тому +3

      I agree!

    • @reachtrita
      @reachtrita 4 роки тому +3

      I was thinking the same! Mommy Tang’s vlogs are like beautiful art ❤️

    • @hisdncr
      @hisdncr 4 роки тому +2

      I agree also. Such beautiful work like a beautiful poem on film but better. Blessings to your family!

  • @giannag4641
    @giannag4641 4 роки тому +83

    You're a strong, brave, beautiful woman. I've always admired you 💖

  • @MK-lu5jd
    @MK-lu5jd 4 роки тому +11

    한편의 잔잔한 영화를 보는 기분이예요, 위로가 되는 영상입니다. 마미탱도 따뜻한 댓글들 보시고 행복해지셨음 좋겠어요~ 담담하게 일상을 살아가시는 모습 응원합니다^^

    • @VeganSoo
      @VeganSoo  4 роки тому +6

      네.. MK님 댓글도 맘에 훅~~ 들어왔어요 땡큐❤️

  • @rainiehuedam6554
    @rainiehuedam6554 4 роки тому +35

    Anyone cry while watching??? Count me in 🥺. Stay strong Mommy Tang❤️

  • @youtubeuser-po7zo
    @youtubeuser-po7zo 4 роки тому +101

    Was that Jadon hugging you at 9:57? He seems grown now!

  • @ronswolfpack
    @ronswolfpack 4 роки тому +32

    So Sad and So loving at the same time. You are a beautiful person and it shows in you girls. So strong.

  • @thaliabudicantika3113
    @thaliabudicantika3113 4 роки тому +33

    The part that you going out with your parents that suddenly make me cry its just so heart warming and mommy tang i wish you and your family always be happy and always got the best thing in life 💕

  • @Snoopyyyyy17
    @Snoopyyyyy17 4 роки тому +11

    마미탱처럼 현명하고 좋은 엄마가 있어 아이들이 잘 자랄거라고 믿고 저도 기도로 보태요. 엄마는 강하니까요💜

  • @burgernympho
    @burgernympho 4 роки тому +9

    I support and admire you as a HumanTang, not just as MommyTang. 존경해요, 끝나지 않은 삶에 멋있게 날개를 펴고 인간 마미탱으로서 모든 것을 다시 누리기를 진심으로 바래요.

  • @danielleb2907
    @danielleb2907 4 роки тому +153

    Love you and the girls. You’re so strong, independent and beautiful. The girls are so lucky to have you as a role model. ❤️

  • @cfogle1000
    @cfogle1000 4 роки тому +31

    I’m literally in tears after watching this. I’m not saying you’re not but you deserve happiness.

  • @旖丁
    @旖丁 4 роки тому +132

    This is one of my favorite poem one of my college professor had us learn. It just seems to fit under the circumstance.
    Comes The Dawn
    After a while you learn the subtle difference
    Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
    And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning
    And company doesn’t mean security,
    And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts
    And presents aren’t promises,
    And you begin to accept your defeats
    With your head up and your eyes open
    With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child,
    And you learn to build all your roads on today,
    Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans,
    And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
    After a while you learn
    That even sunshine burns if you get too much.
    So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
    Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
    And you learn that you really can endure...
    That you really are strong,
    And you really do have worth.
    And you learn and learn...
    With every goodbye you learn.
    Author: Veronica Shoffstall

    • @Carrotless_
      @Carrotless_ 4 роки тому +3

      旖丁 geez that’s beautiful

    • @VeganSoo
      @VeganSoo  4 роки тому +16

      Thank you ❤️

    • @aq2729
      @aq2729 4 роки тому +1

      So beautiful

    • @CokoCake
      @CokoCake 4 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing this beautiful poem!

    • @pinksmoke2618
      @pinksmoke2618 4 роки тому

      Wow....moved me

  • @summer-plumeria
    @summer-plumeria 4 роки тому +30

    When you were saying goodbye to your kids my heart ached for you 🥺 Sending you so much love!!!

  • @unajingyingdu6628
    @unajingyingdu6628 4 роки тому +14

    Hi MammyTang, I am 25 yr old and my husband and I just separated. We have been together for 6 years. I had the worst collapse today since the whole thing happened. Thank you for being such a strong woman and mom. I felt empowered and I hope one day I can take the divorce as peaceful as you did.

  • @MaDukesMaDukes
    @MaDukesMaDukes 4 роки тому +23

    Y'all's unconditional love for each other shines so beautifully bright... The energy y'all put forth in the universe is beautiful too... We need more of that on this earth.. Your strength is comforting... Tang Gang Strong 💜 Thank you for sharing your journey with us.. (btw your "editing, cinematography, videography whoever, however you put this altogether, it is outstanding!) My heart is with yours, in hopes of always healing... Love you Mommy Tang and the Tangettes😊💜

  • @camillebambi6449
    @camillebambi6449 4 роки тому +195

    Kayla is your mini me♡ What a beautiful young woman she's becoming ♡

    • @reachtrita
      @reachtrita 4 роки тому +3

      I thought the same thing!

    • @ckouri75
      @ckouri75 4 роки тому +3

      Yes I agree!!!! The relationship with her and Kayla is so strong!!

  • @cjfyjkl1684
    @cjfyjkl1684 4 роки тому +15

    I’m going thru one right now, and I also have three girls. And I’m Korean too. Your cinematic vlog is absolutely touching and healing. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

  • @kkachili
    @kkachili 4 роки тому +3

    아이들도,마미탱님도 상처가 잘 회복되길 늘 기도하고 있어요 🙏
    특히 아이들에게 기특하다고 칭찬 마구 해주고 싶구요.
    마미탱님 늘 응원합니다!! 앞으로 좋은일 많이 많이 생길꺼예요!!
    벌써 촉이 마구마구 옵니다!!

    • @VeganSoo
      @VeganSoo  4 роки тому +2

      그죠.. 우리 아가들 완전 착해❤️ 미국 까칠이 아가들도 엄청 착하더라고요~

  • @veroniquefaison
    @veroniquefaison 4 роки тому +21

    Mommy Tang, thank you once again for a beautiful vlog, being vaulnerable and sharing this side of you. Your babies love you so much. We love you.

  • @itarxox
    @itarxox 4 роки тому +8

    Mommytang, I have been your silent viewer since you started. This video of yours made me respect you so much, the warmth, the love, the strength and how dignified you are! More power to you, thank you so much for sharing!

  • @aeriskitchen
    @aeriskitchen 4 роки тому +85

    마미탱 언니.... 이 영상을 통해 다시한번 언니를 지탱하는 힘이 어디서 나오는지 좀 느낄수 있을것 같았어요. 언니도 김미경 원장님 팬이시죠. 인생의 고난의 시기를 시계추에 비교하시던게 생각나네요. 이 시기도 또한 지나갈 것입니다. 그리고나면 꺾인 날개가 회복되고 더 멀리 높이 높이 날아갈거라 믿어요. (저도 지금 인생의 작은 고비에 있지만 언니처럼 힘낼게요.) 화이팅 💕 예쁜 영상 고마워요.

  • @ellenjunhae9656
    @ellenjunhae9656 4 роки тому +29

    Mommy Tang I've been watching you since 2016 And Finding Your channel as a fellow Korean Canadian your content brought me so much Comfort and Inspiration. I used to watch your videos during my most depressed state and your videos truly spoke to me. Your confidence and positivity and food mukbangs are LIFE. You are a Queen for sharing a personal moment for many tang gangs and viewers who are maybe struggling or going through hardships. I pray that any hard obstacle that comes your way, It helps you stay stronger! I Wish I could give back in so many ways you helped me and all the tang gangs out. But I hope you know that you are loved and so inspirational for so many tang gangs and I genuinely look up to you as one of my role models. Your so amazing. God bless you and your family

  • @silsil9724
    @silsil9724 4 роки тому +3

    상처는 머지않아 아물어 더 높이 더 멀리 아름답게 비상할거라고 믿습니다~
    마미탱님의 영상은 저에게 항상 힘을 주거든요
    누군가에게 힘을주고 긍정적 영향을 주는 건 대단한거잖아요. 항상 응원하겠습니다~

  • @michellelee4708
    @michellelee4708 4 роки тому +11

    One-day I am going to get through your vlogs without crying ...we love you Mommytang. I get emotional because I too as well as so many others have gone through the same. Thank you for sharing this intimate part of your life with us.

  • @Jay.A.
    @Jay.A. 4 роки тому +16

    My heart sank when the kids had to leave. Stay strong, Mommy Tang.

  • @marou55ia_
    @marou55ia_ 4 роки тому +4

    this made me cry to see this because i'm having challenges with consuming drugs , alcohol and severe depression from feeling unaccomplished. i've returned to my parents house since i was really struggling mentally. to see you like this and keep a positive attitude despite everything is remarkable and inspiring.

    • @marou55ia_
      @marou55ia_ 4 роки тому

      thank you :)

    • @marou55ia_
      @marou55ia_ 4 роки тому

      ps: i'm a tang gang since years *silent viewer* ♥️

  • @ChristinasASMR
    @ChristinasASMR 4 роки тому +157

    We will always love and cherish you MommyTang - you’re the kind of woman and mother I aspire to be one day ♥️

  • @vintagegal5616
    @vintagegal5616 4 роки тому +10

    Been there done that Mommy Tang. It never gets easy. But your kids will always be there for you. Ugh, my heart hurt when I watched this video. You are also blessed to have your parents close by.❤️❤️

  • @sonske
    @sonske 4 роки тому +22

    Right now it’s hard because you have to share the most important human beings in your life. It’s hard bc the holidays are coming up. I have to tell you that when they are 18 they will get to choose where they want to go. They are the greatest blessing in your life. Hang in there because you will just become stronger and better. ❤️

  • @Kaarishma
    @Kaarishma 4 роки тому +5

    i kept skipping to parts trying to understand where you poured your feelings on divorce, then i realised you poured it all through your video. So wonderfully presented, seeing your raw emotions gave me goosebumps. Especially on the drive home after dropping your kids.

  • @mmiek796
    @mmiek796 4 роки тому +109

    Her face when Jadon was hugging her 🥺

  • @juliansgma
    @juliansgma 4 роки тому +7

    I love that you take the devastating loss of a marriage and translate it into a piece of Art. I feel the loneliness but peace at the same time! Beautifully done

  • @이준쒸러블리
    @이준쒸러블리 4 роки тому +8

    기혼인 입장으로 영상을 보니 여러가지 생각이 오갑니다. 팬으로써, 마미탱님의 또 다른 시작을 늘 응원합니다! 오늘도 한국어 영상에 감사드립니다. 🥰

  • @staceyhazlett4140
    @staceyhazlett4140 4 роки тому +3

    I know how you feel Mommy Tang. I'm divorced too. I raised my 2 kids by myself. It was not easy letting them go visit their dad but I had too. Plus I would never keep them from their father. As time goes by it gets alittle easier. My kids are now adults. My daughter lives on her own and my son lives with me. You are a very loving mom to your kids . They love you I can see that. Stay strong for your babies sake. Much love

  • @mookbonganon
    @mookbonganon 4 роки тому +6

    Recovery from narcissistic abuse is possible. I am learning about this now and finding new life. You are strong, beautiful, loving and vibrant. You will not only survive this but thrive. Thank you for all that you have given me. My little girl still loves your recipes. Thank you for sharing. I am OG Tanggang ❤️

  • @핑크안개꽃
    @핑크안개꽃 4 роки тому +3

    늘 응원합니다.힘내시고~
    한편의 영화를 보는것 같아서 좋았습니다.

  • @angelaaaaxo
    @angelaaaaxo 4 роки тому +2

    When I was in grade 4, my parents got divorced and I did not understand and took it my anger out on my Mom who did everything to provide the best life for us. I owe my Mom the whole world and I love her more than words can imagine. Thinking back makes me cry every time how hard it was for my Mom. She let us have a relationship with our Dad but now we chose to no longer have one with him. Thank you Mommy Tang for this video! You are strong and beautiful and amazing.

  • @liljeek2007
    @liljeek2007 4 роки тому +4

    언니 힘내세요!! 뉴욕에서 ... you are a strong beautiful woman 👍 저도 언니 보면서 힘내고 좋은 엄마가 되려고 노력하고 있어요~

  • @nicolemonique3770
    @nicolemonique3770 4 роки тому +21

    I’m not divorced. But I share my kids with ex. Every single time they leave it wrecks me ❤️❤️ my heart goes out to you

  • @xMusicL0rd
    @xMusicL0rd 4 роки тому +3

    You remind me so much of my mom. She went through a divorce when I was 4 and had to try to maintain low income from being a singel mom and battle with depression + heartbreak. She fought for me always. You are strong MommyTang, we love you and your children really loves you.

  • @mangostensy
    @mangostensy 3 роки тому +3

    This video is almost like a movie! You're so good at making atmospheric videos! Keep up a good job!

  • @Sosolove0503
    @Sosolove0503 4 роки тому +7

    최근에 친구가 헤어진 후 면섭교섭권으로
    아이아빠에게 보낸 후 울면서 전화해서
    저도 울고...멀리있어서 가보지도 못하고
    혼자 하루동안 힘들었을 친구를 생각하며 이 영상 봤습니다.

    • @VeganSoo
      @VeganSoo  4 роки тому +3

      네.. 좋은 친구가 되주시네요 ~ 눈물이 나오면... 친구분에게 날개를 피고 훌훌 나시라고 ~ 전해주세요...❤️

  • @MeMe-ry1oj
    @MeMe-ry1oj 4 роки тому +5

    I started tearing up when you picked up the kids and Jayden hugged you, he's grown so big--all of them actually. I don't know if it's appropriate to say that I felt your sadness (because I don't know if that's what you feel) but you hang in there Momma. You have a beautiful spirit and the Lord will bless you.

  • @thefourthavecafe
    @thefourthavecafe 4 роки тому +5

    oh my the editing on your videos is absolutely phenomenal. from the camera angles to the music to the lighting.....it feels like watching montages from an actual film. the cinematography of it all!!! so talented

    • @ashton8878
      @ashton8878 4 роки тому

      Are you serious? Looks like a 5 year old recorded it.

  • @9041011
    @9041011 4 роки тому +4

    음악과 영상이 너무 아름답습니다. 항상 응원합니다~ 엄마는 강하지요^^

  • @ismekas
    @ismekas 4 роки тому +11

    Everyone has basically taken the words right out of my mouth. This was beautiful, yet emotional. I could instantly feel everything you were feeling at every single moment. You are a beautiful soul and so are your kids! And I was especially happy to see your sons love for you, even for that one second. Keep up the videos MommyTang! ❤️

  • @Sunbebop
    @Sunbebop 4 роки тому +2

    I feel like a Korean drama!! I love it !!! I’ve been watching you eat for 4 years!! Now I get to enjoy this. Much love you’re a strong mama!!

  • @kylieg.2332
    @kylieg.2332 4 роки тому +7

    Massive support for you.
    You are the definition of influencer.
    You’re the best mom and people should strive to be like you. Thank you for being the perfect example of what it means to be strong. There is light at the end of the tunnel. You are your light. (Hugs)

  • @happyegg143
    @happyegg143 4 роки тому +2

    Mommy Tang I’ve loved your channel from the first time I’ve seen it years ago and been a fan since day one. I sincerely think you are one of the best kind of moms there are and it shows in the friendship momship relationship you have with your daughters. When I saw Pepita say bye looking into your face with a concern and care for you it literally made me tear up. The gift you have of each other and that bond you have created for you and your girls are the best gift you are giving them for a lifetime.

  • @riniii6127
    @riniii6127 4 роки тому +9

    I dnt see a sad mommy tang, I don't want to see. I see a strong independent woman who is loved and valued by every single person present in her life currently and also a very amazing editor and content creator. Mmwaaa

  • @ckouri75
    @ckouri75 4 роки тому +1

    Mommy tang Aja fighting!!! You are such a strong and beautiful women and mothers. I love seeing the little clips of Jayden giving you a hug and saying “i love you” your parents are so cute!! I continue to pray for you that you find the happiness that you deserve and long for!!! We all love you and support you.

  • @day7dreamer
    @day7dreamer 4 роки тому +45

    I love you mommy tang!!!!!!

    • @day7dreamer
      @day7dreamer 4 роки тому

      Mommy Tang you see me!!!! That made my day thank you

  • @elliestv5632
    @elliestv5632 4 роки тому +1

    “좀 괜찮지 않아도 괜찮아요”라고 누군가가 말해줘서 전 힘이 나더라구요.
    우리는 노력하고 있으니 괜찮습니다!! 화이팅!!
    👏👏👏👏👏

  • @뭉뭉치-z4o
    @뭉뭉치-z4o 4 роки тому +17

    철저하게 소외되어 보여서 슬퍼요. 저는 그분이 미워지기 까지 하네요. 마미탱, 솔직한 영상 공유해줘서 고마워요. 무슨말을 해야할지 잘 모르겠어요. 그냥 슬퍼요.

  • @Lee-on1bc
    @Lee-on1bc 4 роки тому

    깊은 아픔을 느끼며 영상 보는 저도 함께 눈물 흘립니다. 끝은 새로운 시작의 발판일 뿐입니다. 이별의 상처는 지워지지 않지만 무뎌질때가 오더라구요. 그때까지 아름다운 당신의 모습을 포기하지마세요. 늘 자신을 아름답게 가꾼 당신이 늘 좋았습니다. 지금도 아이들을 사랑하며 힘겹게 이겨내는 당신의 용기를 응원합니다.

  • @hibiscusflower5911
    @hibiscusflower5911 4 роки тому +8

    It was loud, then quiet for her times alone and when her kids returned I was so happy for her. Like a happy ending.

  • @LatinButterfly
    @LatinButterfly 4 роки тому +2

    This was very beautiful! Made me think of when i got a divorce and i would drive my 3 kids to thier Dad's house every other weekend and i would either drive 2 1/2 hrs and other days all the way 4hrs each way so i was driving for 8hrs on Friday and then again on Sunday to pick them up. I hated those days im so happy that my kids are all old enough to go see him whenever they want to and im no longer involve in it. MommyTang, i just dont understand why you dont have your son.

  • @day7dreamer
    @day7dreamer 4 роки тому +27

    Mommy tang!!!! Your parents give me hope in a long lasting love. In a few days it will be one year anniversary, married to my husband. I love him to death and the future sometimes terrifies me. But seeing your parents love after all those years give me hope. Thank you for such wonderful videos

  • @seaglassmomma4040
    @seaglassmomma4040 4 роки тому +163

    I just don’t understand why you’re not getting to spend time with your son and why you’re having to drive so far to bring the girls to him. Just makes my heart break for you.

    • @KawaiiLoveSquishy
      @KawaiiLoveSquishy 4 роки тому +50

      tbh the father is really a sketchy character.... i was following his instagram and i was just like 😖

    • @irmaescuadro7770
      @irmaescuadro7770 4 роки тому +29

      @@KawaiiLoveSquishy i have a feeling that he cheated on her and he’s leaving with the new girl . That breaks my heart for mommy tang 🥺

    • @KawaiiLoveSquishy
      @KawaiiLoveSquishy 4 роки тому +37

      @@irmaescuadro7770 im not sure if he cheated but tbh, i just didnt really like how like showy he was on social media.... he kept trying to prove he was being a good father by buying a ton of things for the kids, paying for the private teaching and classes that make me think he needs to prove to others smth

    • @chomk4569
      @chomk4569 4 роки тому +1

      @@KawaiiLoveSquishy what is his instagram?

    • @Confused.genius
      @Confused.genius 4 роки тому +16

      @@KawaiiLoveSquishy he flirted with me on Instagram a long while ago. I was 19 turning 20.

  • @violet9486
    @violet9486 4 роки тому +6

    My beloved left me after 33 years together, i didn't even know he was unhappy. He is now divorcing me, how did this even happen. There are no winners in this, my heart is smashed into a million pieces how will i ever survive it.

  • @junevang352
    @junevang352 4 роки тому +1

    This brought tears to my eyes MommyTang. I've been divorced too, and i can see the pain through your eyes even when you smile in front of your kids.
    They're so innocent and have no idea the pains we're baring through when all we can do is look at their little faces and just smile at them because they're our life! 😭

  • @staceyher1785
    @staceyher1785 4 роки тому +4

    Omg I teared up seeing how the children's faces changed from smiling to sad. Stay strong Mommy Tang!! Sending love!

  • @slee725
    @slee725 4 роки тому

    Watched on and off when you were beaming with so much energy cooking! 살면 살수록 세상이 더 새롭다 느끼네요. 예술적인 감각은 힘들때 더 빛이 나는거 같아요. 화이팅 해요.

  • @sarahkimchan550
    @sarahkimchan550 4 роки тому +3

    Wish I could give you a big fat hug. You're a strong woman and a mama, mommy tang! Can't imagine the journey you've been on but i am rooting for you! Be an inspiration, you amazing person! Keep smiling! And your parents are adorbs!!!

  • @kaydub1229
    @kaydub1229 4 роки тому

    영상에서 보이는 아이들이 너무 천진난만한 아이들이고 밝고 환한것보면 엄마가 가정에서 얼마나 따듯했을지 가늠할수있어서 항상 영상보는내내 좋았어요

  • @ringoisacandyapple
    @ringoisacandyapple 4 роки тому +4

    I love the raw content, it’s such a special time when people are in a healing process

  • @vivianfoster702
    @vivianfoster702 3 роки тому +2

    I felt her pain, and felt her strength too. Her kids are her everything. I'm glad she's in a better place now.

  • @kimberlygray7629
    @kimberlygray7629 4 роки тому +17

    My Happiest Day was my Wedding to my Husband but the most Happiest Day is when I Left my husband.

  • @uri6194
    @uri6194 4 роки тому

    I’m literally crying. Just know what a Beautiful Strong & Courageous Woman You Are!!!!!!!! Your beautiful and very loving children are Proof of what an Amazing Mother you’ve been and Are!!!! Thank-You for being vulnerable and allowing us to see into your life. It made me take a time out and realize we are all taking small everything’s in our life for granted. We should pause and be thankful for our families and friends and our own strengths to overcome life’s obstacles.
    Thank-You Mommy Tang ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @xxchippedxx
    @xxchippedxx 4 роки тому +3

    Your mom is such an elegant, beautiful lady! Just like you Mommy Tang ♥️

  • @toniestrada6521
    @toniestrada6521 4 роки тому +1

    I’m a new mom and I can feel the pain of dropping them off and not having them with you. I can’t even imagine the emptiness you must feel when you don’t have them with you. You’re an amazing person. Stay strong!

  • @adrianaxcx777
    @adrianaxcx777 4 роки тому +3

    6:39
    I need this shirt lol
    MommyTang I love you so much all these years later.
    I still fondly recall the day we met and you hugged me and gave me vegan noodles (at the L.A. Vegfest few tears back) Best memory ever!
    You are a gorgeous sweetheart and I love seeing when I get a notification for your videos💕💕💕💕 much love to you always💕🤗

  • @peakatethable
    @peakatethable 4 роки тому +2

    Tears rolled down my cheeks while watching this cos its so relatable.. hang in there mommytang.. u r a strong woman & a wonderful mom!

  • @CoolMom6
    @CoolMom6 4 роки тому +3

    Broke my heart seeing this. I’m going through a divorce right now after 24 years together. I’m left with nothing and started documenting my journey on UA-cam. Divorce is like a death. Stay strong ❤️

  • @justkrystal2879
    @justkrystal2879 4 роки тому

    Oh mommy tang ... no you didn’t make me cry!!! You are so inspirational. Through your pain your helping other people. Divorce sucks but to be in a marriage that is unhappy is not fair. Not fair to you or your children. God only gives us what we can take. He’s making a stronger happier person. Oh mommy tang I hope you dance. (have you heard that song). Many blessings . Remember god gives and takes. He gives you what you need and he takes away what you don’t. Bless you and your family.

  • @cherished8
    @cherished8 4 роки тому +3

    The paradigms through which I understand life has changed so much, especially in past couple years in going through personal "awakening"... I've come to believe each individual soul is what is most important... for each soul to be authentic & flourish & shine its own unique light... self-love is foundational... follow your own internal guidance system, your own resonance... we are multidimensional infinite beings each having a unique human experience... "marriage" is only a concept; so is "divorce"; each soul is what is important... may your soul thrive ~

  • @firstnamelastname-yl7lx
    @firstnamelastname-yl7lx 4 роки тому

    I love you MommyTang!!! This was such a beautiful short film... I was just crying from start to finish. What made it so special that this short movie is relatable to many of us; it is REAL and not a Hollywood/Disney kind of film. I'm happy you are taking care of yourself, that you're able to recover steadily from everything that you and your family has gone through. I loved the parts where you are strong in front of your girls, taking care of them, hugging and kissing them-- but you also didn't forget about yourself, that YOU also needed that love and care when you went to see your mom and dad. Sending good thoughts and hugs your way.
    Keep going MommyT!
    - from a silent viewer from long long long ago (new account, can't access my old one :(!)

  • @_S-O-S_
    @_S-O-S_ 4 роки тому +233

    You break my heart...
    Next to death, divorce is one of the most gut wrenching experiences we have to endure... Especially for women...
    I’ll take dogs over men any day of the week...
    And... Tell Pepi she is growing up too fast... Slow down! (I tell my grandkids the same thing an they say to me “Oh Grandma!” )😉

    • @_S-O-S_
      @_S-O-S_ 4 роки тому +2

      💕💜💕Love you Mommy Tang💕💜💕

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  • @victoriaapril1596
    @victoriaapril1596 4 роки тому +2

    This made me cry. I grew up the child that had to go back and forth. It’s hard for everyone. Sending love to you mommy tang. 💕

  • @Celenite384
    @Celenite384 4 роки тому +35

    Thank you for showing the most intimate moments. I’m divorced myself with a little girl. I understand everything you are going through very well. God Bless all of you beautiful girls. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ashishtalwar1438
    @ashishtalwar1438 4 роки тому

    It's one of the most beautiful videos I have ever seen on this channel as well as on UA-cam. You really took me to a different place, you show such a different side of your life. Thanks for that, you're a strong woman and this is so inspiring.
    Take those broken wings and learn to fly.

  • @thexxit
    @thexxit 4 роки тому +3

    Honestly, this could have been a short movie! It is so well filmed! Perfect music, perfect everything. Kayla is becoming such a gorgeous young lady. All your children are wonderful and it is because of you. You may not see it now, but you are teaching them to be strong, independent woman, who demand respect and aren't afraid to leave a bad situation. They will grow to be confident women who are loving and kind, but don't take shit from no one! Miss seeing J-dog but I get it, he's getting older now. God, all your vlogs are so amazing. The things they make you feel in a few moments of film... wow. You are my hero and my inspiration, MommyTang.

  • @ericac.4316
    @ericac.4316 4 роки тому +2

    I can see that your kids brings you so much Joy. Mommy tang your in my prayers and everything is going to be alright. You just hangs in there and don’t give up. Your blessings is right around the corner❤️

  • @diannainkorea
    @diannainkorea 4 роки тому +102

    This is a very nice video! Do you mind I ask what camera do you use?

    • @VeganSoo
      @VeganSoo  4 роки тому +51

      I use eos r .. I watch your vlog all the time... I was surprised to see you commmet here..!!!

    • @diannainkorea
      @diannainkorea 4 роки тому +27

      @@VeganSoo I'm enjoying your cinematic vlogs as well! Hope you're doing okay! 💕

  • @LiaToTheSophia
    @LiaToTheSophia 4 роки тому +2

    i never liked him from the start, couldn’t understand why. i’m so happy you’re healing, even if the journey is painful and all about finding yourself. the cinematography was immaculate, i’d like to see more

    • @atissexia4885
      @atissexia4885 4 роки тому +1

      same here. i felt something off about him when i first saw him when they went to a chinese restaurant.