Part 2: Woman Tries to Come Back After Affair I've Made a Huge Mistake!
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In the continuation of the emotional SWAT TV show saga, Bonny returns to her partner Victor after being dumped by her lover. Filled with regret, she pleads for forgiveness and tries to rekindle their relationship.
However, the Victor Tan remains resolute, responding, "You made your choice when you betrayed me. You can't just come back when things don't work out with someone else. Trust is broken, and it's not that easy to fix."
Watch as the Bonny grapples with the consequences of her actions and Victor stands firm in his resolve not to be a second option.
Will there be a path to forgiveness, or is this the end of their story?
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Whenever a cheater starts a sentence with "Remember", interrupt her with "Remember when you fucked another guy?" "Remember when you cheated on me?" Nostalgia is the number one weapon a cheater uses.
🤣🤣 That's a good one. This going into my breakup book.
😂😂😂😂
I wanna see this done
Fantastic idea. Wrong reasoning. Nostalgia is up there. But like a democrat, PROJECTION is their #1 tool.
Its never THEIR fault. Its what you did or didnt do. Nostalgia isnt even the 2nd most used weapon used by cheaters. That would be any CHILDREN the two of you may have. You get too bitchy about her being a misspelled skunk. Shell leave and take your kids. Good luck in court getting them back.
Then MAYBE nostalgia but I think the third weapon is turning your friends and family against YOU by vicyimizing themselves or villainizing you.
Note to self
Number 1 rule that every father should teach his boys. Women cheat with the hearts first, then their bodies. Forgive her and absolutely walk away. For her heart strayed and will never be the same.
Advice taken
Heavy on the forgiveness. It's not to heal her heart, it's to heal your own. Forgive fast.
And if you have children with the women get a dna test
Men cheat without a heart. Who's worse?
@ oh i agree that men cheat too and its the same as far as cheating is bad on both sides
About 25 years ago my wife left me and our daughter for a close family friend. I had no idea what had been going on. Three weeks later he ended it and she came back. I let her sleep on the couch and arranged for her sister to take her in. I've remarried to an incredible woman and we are dreamy happy and my ex is deep into some nutty cult. Best decision I ever made was not taking her back. A lesson to all.
Good for you man. You did the right choice.😉
Shes a registered Democrat isnt she? Thats the cult. Im SO SO sorry she cheated but at least you can just tell everyone shes Beavis stupid and not be lying.
My nutcase ex tried to get me to take her back and i wouldn’t. I married again to someone that took me a while to figure out was a gold digger. I can’t win.
I'm sorry that happened to you, good to hear you made it through that.
@@diddlebug7241the west’s marriage laws are against men.
When my ex wife left me for another man, and the man dumped her, she did try to come back... Its been 20 years and I never looked back... Once a Hole, always a Hole
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I don't trust any of them. Tired of the lies.
@terrylong6457 You're right, lies after lies. When things don't go right for them, they then want to come back... Mines tired several times and I said No, No, and No.
Good to heard it. . As a wise man say. . .Don't look back for dumpster
She only came back because the other guy didn't leave his wife and dropped her.
He would always be second place in her eyes
A millons precent true! She got dumped, which is the only reason she is there begging for another chance. She loves the other man.
@12Tbeeror48 nahhh she loves nobody but herself
@@honestjohnshallburnyou Yeah that and whatever she’s craving next. Probably street meat 🍖 , she’ll like too since it’s right next to where she belongs.
That other dude pumped her one last time an told her he not leaving his wife.
@@12Tbeeror48 or part of him.
"I made the biggest mistake of my life". Yeah now pay the consequences for it.
Right so.
"And I'm not going to make mine by letting you back."
Dont waste your time looking back. You're not going that way.
-Ragnar Lothbrok (Vikings)
I've always liked that phrase.
Sometimes the path forward can takes you back
@@JDog2656keyword being "sometimes"
"The only thing you can change about the past is how you feel about it in the present"
@@salvadorsoriano4559 Solid quote!!
I forgave my wife of 14 years. It only delayed the inevitable and we ended up going thru the same painful drama 3 years later with her cheating on me again......with the same guy.
That hurts to hear, man.
Did she got a happy end with the guy?
@@bearbeitungwo-xw6gs yes, she got a happy ending with the guy. We remained friends at a distance. I eventually found a woman that loved me properly, we are still together after 20 years.
I must admit…. Sorry to hear that, but it’s kinda on you for that. I only hope you find your happiness soon
That's rough but can't say i feel that bad for you, you let her secretly stay in contact with the other guy and let her back in sucks but that was your choice for not running away once a cheater always a cheater.
Good for him. Leave and don't look back.
She WILL do it again...
I would of been like oh Bonnie I'll love you too, from outside that door!
@@MarkGriswold000 you are right👍
She belong to the streets. Know your worth kings
Once a cheater always a cheater, the golden rule!
Nope! You get ONE chance. After the trust is broken, they’re done.
Start over with one who’s smarter.
The fact she didn’t answer his question about her getting dumped says it all. Cheaters only come back when they think you’re their last resort. SMDH!!!
smdh? What’s a smdh?
@@maxsparks5183 Shaking my damn head. That’s what SMDH is
Damn if I would take her back. She made her bed let her sleep in it. He's better off without her. She broke a trust that is 99% of a marriage.
As soon as she started trying to reminisce and go down Memory Lane, I was like “Oh boy here we go”.
Never look back, move forward. 😊
Cheating isn't a mistake. It's a choice
Cheating is a consensual act,
That is the end result of numerous choices,
Each choice was a conscious decision to NOT love, honour, or cherish the person that they were in a relationship with.
@@notsureyou You need to look up what consensual means. Maybe you meant conscious...
Oh for crying out loud. That choice was a freaking mistake.
@@gardengnome3249 Only because it didn't work out... FOR HER
If it had worked out for her (she had her "happily ever after" with the other guy),
Would you still call her cheating a mistake?
Or call it for what it is... a choice.
A conscious choice to NOT be faithful.
@@notsureyou which was a mistake.
There's nothing to think over. Cheating is the worst insult someone can receive or give.
Forgiveness is Divine. But that doesn't mean you keep doing wrong.
Divorce her. And be done with it
You are contradicting yourself.
You can forgive someone for an act but enabling a problem only prolongs it. In this instance she can be forgiven for the 6 month affair but no one would self worth would trust her or keep her company either.
@@anuj_s_world no. Im not
@@anuj_s_worldnot at all.
Forgiveness dsnt mean to forget And live as nothing happen
I can forgive and understand BUT no live with cheater and let her be in my life 🤷♂️
Forgive mean not letting past eat ur present and future
But I chose present and future without cheater
First off, it was not a mistake. It was a choice. She chose to be a selfish, self-centered moron (I’m being nice about using that word) and decided to disrespect and betray her husband in the worst way by cheating on him. It was also a choice to continue the affair for 6 months without any thought of revealing it. Second, did she really think that the AP was going to commit to her after she had an affair with him? That's delusional. The moment you cheat, you can no longer be trusted for future relationships because you've shown to be fickle. Third and lastly, after everything is said and done, was it worth losing everything for some selfish, short-term pleasure?
Emotional drama for her is as big a hit as the sex. Crazy chaos kills wealth. Women don't get that..
Excellent you have said it all thank you very much 🙏
And the AP is just using her for a bit extra.
you sum it up.
Mistakes are choices that people come to regret. You're thinking of accident.
He asked her a direct question and she deflected. Tells you all you need to know.
She broke trust. She's no longer trustworthy. 'Nuff said.
This.
If you trust another human being, that's YOUR stupidity. If you expect someone to be perfect -- which is what trust actually demands -- you'll always be disappointed in people. By contrast, if you choose to accept we're all fallible, you won't get blindsided by "betrayal."
@@Sonicisbadazzlol. I’ll impregnate your mother and we’ll fall it a mistake. How’s that?
@@Sonicisbadazz That's a cop out....for people who cheat. People aren't perfect is not a good excuse to cheat. And cheaters cheat.....if they do it once....they will do it again.
@@wkadalie I'm not excusing the cheating at all; I'm criticizing those dumb enough to put all their faith and sanity into the hands of another person. It's not cynical to say people will let you down from time to time, and saying someone is "no longer trustworthy" is like saying water is "no longer dry."
1:34 "And I will do whatever it takes to make it up to you", next part is silent: "untill next 'better' guy come"
"I love you"...Never listen to what a woman says. It is her ACTIONS that says it all. If he stays, it is only a matter of time before another Chad gets her attention again and she will cheat. Never show weakness, women can smell it. Never put her on a pedestal because nice guys finish last for a reason. The nicer you become, the less respect she has for you. Hate to say it but girls love bad boys and they can't get enough of them because bad boys bring chaos and instability to her life and that excites her.
It's not really about being an alpha male. And treating women like a toy. It's about balance. Love her, treat her like a queen. But know when to be firm and walk away.
@@Teacher_Ken No queen treatment. They don't deserve it.
@@Teacher_Ken At 16, I realized that all the players, cheaters, alphas, and bad boys have all the girls. That was when I realize that nice guys finish last. Never look back and no regrets whatsoever.
Been with my wife for 30 years and being an AHOLE along the way. I live life on my terms. My way or the highway. She is free to walk away anytime she wishes yet she is still here. I give my wife uncertainty. And most of all, I am indifferent whether she stays or goes. Why fix something that is not broken?
@@Teacher_Ken Treat a woman like a queen and she will treat you like a peasant. You will learn that out soon if you haven't yet.
Wow, everybody acts like this is real.
Nothing disgust's me more than when people beg for something they don't deserve.
I love it when they say "It was the biggest mistake of my life." Its always in a conversation where they are asking you to make the biggest mistake of your life and stay with them.
Great video, This past few months has been an eye opener for me, the one I love, the one i cherish still Left me, I lost alot of friends because of her, she often said they were bad influence on me, and she still left me, i still love her and that is what hurts the most. Love sometimes is unexplainable and cruel
I feel your pain,Believe me I do, i was in a similar position, he left me, but i couldnt just let him go because i knew i was the cause of it, i chose my work over him and the kids, I didnt want to loose him, so i contacted a spiritual counsellor for advice on how to get him back and to my greatest surprise it worked out, she brought him back to me, and its been over a year and half, i have never been this happy.
Thank you for this, I know i wasnt alone on this i often sit and think what i will become without her because i have no one else, I think i might just give this a try,how did you get in touch with him/her, if you do not mind me asking.
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Of course you’re still grieving, you have listened to your partner even though they are still alive. They have moved onto a new relationship but you have to deal with that and your loss.
It takes time, my ex told me just short of 20 years she didn’t love me anymore like she should as a wife. Two days later she admitted there was someone else that’s why she want to leave.
I took my wedding ring off there and then and said we’re done, no point even thinking of counselling which I’d been suggesting.
Took a good few months for the pain and hurt to ease, not helped as remained heavily involved with my kids having them each week and alternate weekends.
Ultimately met a far better woman and married again
She said "we", ok yeah she's right. She messed up by cheating for 6 months and he messed up by haveing faith in her. He made the cood call.
Trust but verify. Always trust but verify.
@@eleethtahgra7182 That's impossible, you can only do one of those. The saying is weasel bullshit language from the side that shouldn't be weaseling, i.e. lying.
@@MichaelDothoso ah, anyone who reject being verified isn't worthy of trust.
Gf said to trust her. Yet refuse to show her smartphone. Thus, bf should skedaddle. It's that simple.
Fiancee refuse to sign prenup? Skedaddle.
@@eleethtahgra7182 Of course, I agree it's stupid to trust people who don't behave in trustworthy ways. I'm simply saying that "trust and verify" is impossible, you have to choose one of them, since one excludes the other.
If you verify enough times, that builds trust, and eventually you might not feel the need to verify anymore, choosing to trust instead.
Trusting "just because", or as a default position, is indeed idiotic.
@@MichaelDothoso Alas...no.
Well, one could took the path u depict since it could be tiresome to keep verifying.
But one more thing; avoid the appearance of impropriety.
A loyal spouse would avoid the appearance of impropriety.
A disloyal spouse would act....well...suspicious and disloyal and accuse the other spouse of being jealous n controlling.
Wife/husband going out with friends? Get back before 10PM. If s/he came back at 4AM....prepare exit strategy.
Like they said....the only thing that open after 2AM is kitty....
Heck, if she bar hopping....prepare exit strategy.
Drunk guys wear traffic cone and act stupid.
Drunk girls would get taken advantage of.
Please don’t be a SIMP. That is the worst decision you will make ever.
Gotra hand it to Tan for being calm and rational. He read bonnie like a book. In the end, Tan never took bonnie back.
Good 👍
@0:54 called her on her bullcrap. She thought she had the ace, but she just the co-pilot until the plane landed. Stay strong, I took back a cheater only for her to cheat again 1 year later. She did all of that begging, and crying. She had a new 4 month relation with another guy after all of that she put me through a year earlier. Not sure why cheaters always want to get back, but they will use their spouse as the backup plan before moving onto someone else. This is why body count matters, high body counts struggle to pair bond.
Luckily, they have no children. Children would be the only reason I would consider going back. She would need to do STD testing. We will have to move cities or state. That would be the only way. If she ain't cool with those demands, whatever.
Cheaters are like aliens born on another planet or an alien race. Kind of like invasion of the body snatchers with no conscience no care for you and their actions.
When a girl cheats on her guy it's game over.
One word" walk away" ASAP from a cheater..
That’s two words. But I agree. Heh
Right bro
If youre minho, run away
Yeah you should not be giving advice if you start off like that 😂
1 word, YOUR MATH SUCKS
Every time you look at her face you'll be reminded she's only settling for you because she got dumped by someone else she chose over you. No thanks.
If the guys takes her back, it's an easy way to move on with life, but it's something he'll end up regretting for the rest of his life. Better to make the hard decision, live with it, learn from it and move on with life with your eyes wide open.
Well said!!
I love you those words are empty and meaningless after they've cheated. There's no coming back from that you can't make it up to your boyfriend/husband after what you did.
She made a choice. She don't love you, the man she cheat with leave her. Never take her back, she won't respect you if you accept her crap.
" The biggest mistake of my life". Yes now pay the consequences and accept the accountability that goes with it.
“He’ll be back.”
“BIGGEST MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE!”
mistake i hate it when they say mistake you made a choice and you chose wrong PERIOD live with it
And it wasn't just one choice, either. It was a series of hundreds or thousands of choices that somehow led to the cheater telling themselves "it's okay, move on to the next choice."
I'd LOVE to have a cheater explain in full detail what the "mistake" was exactly and then not let them loose til they explain in full.
The only correct answer is NO
Be the "second option" means that you never, not even for a moment, will be important to the other person
I hate when cheaters try to be civil about it. Its like what did you expect to happen, what was your plan.
Don’t do it. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me, you can't get fooled again: George Bush
A lot of people have the wrong idea about "forgiveness". Forgiving someone just means that you: won't seek revenge or have a desire for something unfortunate to happen to the person who wronged you. It doesn't mean that you're obligated to give the person you're forgiving a second chance....
Forgiveness does not always mean second chances, it simply means letting go of the pain and moving on with your life.
"We" made a mistake? NO, babe. YOU'VE MADE A MISTAKE.
And now the consequences come.
1:08 Bonnie:- I don't expect you to forgive me. But... I guess I'm wondering if you'd be open to trying.
Me:- Like you said right now, you don't expect me to forgive you. Likewise don't expect me to be open to trying.
She’s only sorry she got caught
Naw! She's sorry he dumped her!!! 🙄
@@dougretter100% FACTS!!!
So true
This clip shows a true woman. Does what she wants no matter who she hurts and when that blows up in her face, she goes back to guy #1 and assumes that he will just happily take her back. How typical.
She thought the grass was greener on the other side 😂😂😂
It brings me joy to see a woman throw away everything and then expect to get get it back when the cheating doesn't work out lol
1:27 It's not a mistake. It's a choice. If she really loves him, she wouldn't have cheated on him.
Biggest lies women tell....."its not what it looks like" " I can explain" " I will do anything to make up for this" "it was a one time thing" "it just happened" "It was just a mistake, "WE can fix this" "it was just sex" "It didnt mean anything" "I still love you" "Im doing this for us"
100% accurate brother.
Women, from dear, caring and loving mothers to master manipulators. Be proud of yourselves for reaching the end of your evolutionary road.
They’re never sorry. Forgive them for your own sake but never take them back.
She knows she made a mistake,she just doesn't want to pay for it
When they start with the "remember when," I am reminded of the first rule of economics: SUNK COSTS DON'T COUNT. 😉
Mistake?...is a choice. STOP saying "I love you"
She gonna love you til she finds someone who can provide her a house.
Always look for women without past, purity always wins if she can save for u she will save for u for the rest of ur life. Always choose women with integrity
I took a woman back after she dumped me for another guy. Biggest mistake of my life. It hurt ten times worse when she messed around again. NEVER take a cheater back.
And now you know
@@briansharp4388 you're darned right. Never take a woman back after she dumps you.
Is she pretty?
If say yes
It's your fault
@madkilla707 yes, she was (and still is) very pretty and it WAS MY FAULT that I took her back. I learned from my mistake and want to share it with younger men so they don't repeat it.
@@ThomasCarney-r9v Lesson learned
Don't Fall In Love First
Love is The last you need to acquire
Respect First for yourself
And Then to her
Trust is the Second
Trust yourself
And then her
And Lastly Love
Love Yourself self
And Then her
That's how Real Relationships Works
there's no longer a 'we'...
They’ll always try swinging back after the other branch breaks. Maintain your self-respect by ending the relationship and walking away. Never take back a cheater.
I wouldn’t give her a second thought. She is a cheater and is looking for her soft landing.
That's not guilt or remorse on her.. that's fear+ego which is screaming to her "How dare anyone found me undesirable.. what if no one wants me"
6 months is not a mistake, its a choice and a demonstration of her character and who she really is.
The fact he is even talking to her is a mistake.
The silence after "Did he break up with you" is all I'd need to hear.
Forgiveness is one thing....TRUST is another. Once trust is broken, it's over.
She doesn't respect her ex boyfriend
So where's her love there?
Trust broken
End of relationship
No restart
Her eyes tell a thousands lies a 1/2 sugar coated truth.
His only response should be to tell her to kick rocks. 💯
That's crazy though that she cheats on her husband, and then she comes running back after the guy she cheated with dumps her. 😂
"What happened was the biggest mistake of my life." No, it was a decision, a choice, a decision cheaters plan and plot in their head and follow it through. They know what they are doing, they know why and they plan it. Cheating is never a mistake. It's a decision. A choice someone makes, which says "I don't give a f about the relationship I am in and the person who loves me. I want the other person. I am willing to throw all of it away to cheat, lie, cover up, deceive, manipulate."
Never take back a cheater, it’s like watching the same old movie and expecting a different outcome 💔
I started laughing right when she said "I guess we're really doing this"
It’s always interesting when you ask spot on questions and they can’t answer. 2 simple questions and both key. If her lover wasn’t going back to his wife, she wouldn’t be talking about staying together. She loves him? Where was that love when she cheated? Keep that same cheating energy and move on. He deserves better than that.
Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me. She did it once she'll do it again. Don't let the door hit you in the ass.
Why did he say that sucks?
Her getting dumped by that guy was perfect poetic justice.
The appropriate response is to laugh.
Law of Compulsive Behavior - People NEVER do something just once. Once a cheater, always a cheater. They can cheat with you; They can cheat on you.
I am 29 and with the same guy since I was 16 (almost half of my life lol) and we are having a baby😊 I have never cheated on him, even when we were apart during my pharmacy degree, for 4 years, only seeing each other on break and holiday season.
I am not special or trying to get praise from anyone. My motivation was self serving. I just wanted my future with him, and nobody else, more than everything lol.
It's great to hear that there are still good women out there!
You're one in a million in this day and age 😅
you heart is pure, i like that, do not let anyone change you.
I can only pray that I can find someone like u
Your commitment to him is appreciated.
She's upset because she got caught, not because she feels like she did anything wrong.
Never ever go backwards in life...always move forward, and take someone back who rejects you, after you built a life with them. Once a cheater always a cheater
As someone who had his wife leave him for another man after cheating, all I can say to what I just saw is, "Forget it. There's only one thing worse than being a doormat, and that's being the guy who provides for a cheating spouse while she looks to trade up again.
BECAUSE SHE WILL. If you take a cheater back, all you're doing is saying, "I will forgive whatever you do to me, because I forgave you at your worst....so you can read into that as me CONDONING your behavior."
💯
People talk about forgiving, taking the high road, etc. One can do all those things but still not take the cheater back.
Forgive in order to allow yourself to let go & move on. That doesn't mean you are disregarding the behavior. The cheater needs to face the consequences.
Cheaters never prosper and never learn. All choices have consequences, socially and professionally. So once a cheater, always a cheater.
Lol if I was him I would be laughing at her request for forgiveness.
She's only sorry that she got caught!
HELL NO! She doesn’t love crap. She got used and now she wants forgiveness. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
If that's her definition of love, no thank you. 😂
Going through a separation myself and my ex wife’s excuse was “I need to be alone” and giving me very vague reasons as to why she wants to be alone. While I’m a very understanding person I can’t help but notice her smiling at her phone every time she is on it. Makes me wonder if someone else is in the picture.
LOVE HOW HE CAUGHT HER BS "HE BROKE UP WITH YOU DIDNT HE" LOOOL
Don't believe her she's homeless that's why she's there now
My Ex tried to come back to me 20 YEARS after the man she left me for had died. She didn't ask me she told me she was coming back. I told her I had long moved on and Good bye!
Unreal, the sense of entitlement they have is just beyond reality. Right from a young age they are never told “NO!”
@@danielyoung7458 agreed
My Ex would parrot "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle". We divorced 38 years ago. Since then I have only had two partners while she has had at least 20. So who's the bike?
Been cheating for 6 months then asked for forgiveness only after the other guy breakups with her, quite a woman.
woman : i ve made great mistake
man : no no no its was I MADE GREAT MISTAKE
That dude was way too calm for this situation
"I love you" and that's why I cheated on you and hurt you. It shows my true love for you. Why can't you understand that? **cries in victim hood**
I'm sorry that's gotta suck is a cold ass line 😂
F that...
Helllll Noooo...
Once you accept the behavior or mistake, you will regret it for the rest of your life...
"Time" is the most precious and important thing in LIFE...
Whatever it takes to make it up to you...
---------- that low down. Very very low down. This girl has fallen beyond knees without sense.
To hear I love you after betrayal, its enough to spit in their face.
1:40 Whatever you do DONT think about it!
Bro asks all the right questions. 😂 so rare to see a man being portrait as intuitive and has a back bone.
Honey its a choice and i really hope he doesn't take her back
Doesnt matter if its a man or a woman who cheated, the no words angers me more then "I made a mistake" and "I love you". Choosing to go through with something is not a "mistake" You meant to do it. and if you really "loved" them, the thought of cheating would have entered your mind.
I know this is just a movie, but once a partner cheats, the trust is gone. For both men & women, even if you still love them, you can never fully trust them again. And at some point they'll most likely gaslight you into questioning why you always question if they are telling you the truth were they been.